24 Signs She’s A Slut

The other night I met up with a girl I’d met online. Despite having a stripped-down profile that revealed very little about her sexual appetites, I went in optimistic about getting laid that night. In my head, I’d somehow ascertained she had “slut face,” and was therefore more likely than others to put out. Before every date—as a sort of silly little game with myself—I like to set a percentage for the likelihood that I’ll get laid that night. I adjust it up or down throughout the evening depending on certain cues, and how well I figure my game is landing. Hers started at an aggressive 25 percent, meaning that I’d assessed, going in, I had a 1-in-4 chance of banging this girl on the first date–all before having ever spoken a word to her.

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When I got the girl to my apartment later that night, her number jumped from 40 to 60 percent. It had already been climbing steadily from its starting point thanks to a series of subtle slut tells she’d been emitting at the bar. When we started making out, her responsiveness pushed the number to 75 percent. When she announced “I’m not having sex with you,” it climbed to 90 percent. Most experienced womanizers recognize that statement as more-times-than-not a girl’s final, feeble pawing at her sex snooze-button. When, after increasingly spirited making-out, I reached for her pants button, she confessed, “I want to have sex, but guys don’t respect girls who have sex on the first date. And, [in a disappointed tone] I’m on my period.” 98 percent.

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I responded, with a smirk and joking tone, “If it makes you feel any better I already don’t respect you. I’ll go get a red towel. Go take out that tampon.” She laughed and ran to the bathroom. 100 percent. I don’t normally have sex during periods, but make exceptions for new bangs.

There are no guarantees in life, but I felt increasingly confident throughout the night that I could bang this girl. Why? Because she’d displayed a double-digit count of my classic slut tells.

Tuthmosis’s Abridged List of Slut Tells

1. Has tattoos. This is especially the case if they’re visible, multiple, large, and elaborate. If they have sexual themes, you’re in like Flynn.

2. Piercings outside of the traditional earlobe placement. Sluttiness increases as you radiate from the lobe, to other parts of the ear, to the nose crumb, to the bull-ring. Other parts of the face—and erogenous zones—speak even louder.

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3. Has “slut face.” You either recognize it or you don’t.

4. Cusses a lot. Especially if she uses the words “fuck,” “pussy,” or “cock” outside of the bedroom.

5. Not ticklish. I’ve noticed that girls who aren’t ticklish aren’t so because they’re used to being handled (by men). Almost every prude is super ticklish, while sluts are rarely so. Sluts may have a physical response to light touching, but it’s rarely a tickled sensation.

6. Broaches the topic of illegal drugs (even marijuana) without prompting. The more illegal, the sluttier.

7. Has big tits. They probably came in early, which translates into additional years of male attention.

8. Shows excessive skin for weather conditions. Exposes the midriff, lower back, or ass-piece from the bottom of her daisy-dukes even when it’s not super-hot.

9. Has extra body hair (arms, girl-sideburns, girl-mustache) and/or a low speaking voice. This, I’m told, is simple biology. More hair and low voice equals more testosterone. It’s an imperfect metric, though, because women of certain ethnicities are just more hirsute by default.

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10. Associates with confirmed sluts. Her friends are often one of your best weathervanes. Birds of a feather, as they say.

11. Shows interests in girls, has “hooked up” with girls, or claims to be “bi-sexual.” Bi-sexuality has quickly become a stand-in for hyper-sexuality.

12. Is currently, or was at some point, in a sorority. Sororities are little more than pussy buffets for the campus fraternities.

13. Has traveled alone, or with only girls, to fuck-fest locations (e.g., Jamaica). This is often a tell-tale sign of a sex-on-vacation-doesn’t-count case.

14. Was a cheerleader in high school. Cheerleaders have, and exploit, access to the most desirable and horniest dudes at school.

15. Went, or goes, to a known party college (e.g., Arizona State, USC, UC Santa Barbara). Girls are copycats, and when all of her friends “are doing it” (whatever “it” is), they do too. (See No. 10.)

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16. Lost her virginity on the younger side (15 and down). The earlier they start, the longer they tend to ride the carousel.

17. Likes tequila shots or party drugs (e.g., Extasy/MDMA). These are the drugs of choice for the promiscuous.

18. Is “friends” with DJs, promoters, or other small-time pseudo-celebs. This is a world in which the gears are lubricated with pussy—even more directly than others.

19. Is an artist, or a wannabe “model” who has done “photo shoots.” Girls in the arts tend to have a loose attitude toward sex, especially if their “art” involves “expressing themselves” with their body.

20. Broaches the topic of sex first. This may seem like a no-brainer, but they often do so in subtle ways that can seem plausibly deniable. They never are.

21. Has a bad relationship with her father and/or has divorced parents. “Daddy issues” are classic, but accurate predictors of her relationship to men and sex.

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22. Describes herself as a feminist or with any of its jargon (“pansexual,” “demi-sexual,” “cis-gendered”). You may not be able to stand a feminist long enough to bang her yourself but, in trying to prove she can do everything a man can do, she likely fucks with impunity.

23. Has an even, nice tan that she maintains. Girls with even, perfect tans spend a lot of time semi-naked, often in semi-public.

24. Hair dyed a nontraditional color (e.g., blue). Like piercings and tattoos, dyed hair telegraphs “rebellion” to social norms. That almost always translates into sluttiness.

Whether you use them to get laid more reliably, or to avoid wifeing up the town bike, these cues should be on every man’s slut radar. Sure, there are exceptions to all of them. You could meet a nun with a tattoo, or a ticklish slut, but these are—especially the more of them that are evident—some of most accurate predictors of sluttiness you’ll encounter.

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4,855 thoughts on “24 Signs She’s A Slut”

  1. Forgot another major one: being overweight in some form. More often then not fatties require more sex to prove that they are as desirable as their better looking counterparts.

    1. Or they need to use sex to just get attention from desirable males. You don’t find many 9s going for one-night stands under non-Vegas conditions. But for 6s, it’s the rule.

      1. i.e., if the girl in question is a knockout, the slut tells are somewhat weaker than they’d be for plain janes or fatties.

        1. The hotter one is, male or female, the more selective they can be.
          For a man, means he can fuck anything, and still take the nine home. Sorry jezebel (not really), just biology. If you bitches actually practiced mind over matter, you would not be stuck reading your brand of shit, while watching e-tonight, while eating peanut butter covered ho-hos.
          Full house, and a raise of big testicles, and the thousand penises you all have had, each, for the win.

      2. It’s more like supply and demand. If you’re a caviar or a Ferrari you don’t need to be giving out free samples… or free test drives to everyone. Only an idiot would buy an STD riddled annoying cow. Btw nobody wants to see that so cover up.

        1. Yea, sex is like a barter system of sorts.
          Hot men don’t need to be giving it out all willy-nilly, you know? Thats only for the STD riddled man-whores. Whats the hottest dude you’ve ever banged??

    2. The sluttiest girl I know of on campus right now is a lardo. Although, a few years back, I knew of a college slut who was slender and cute, about a 7, but was also dumb as a fencepost… so, low IQ perhaps too.

      1. wow cool story bro, I wonder why all the dudes slept with the ugly girl. you’re probably not very attractive :/

    3. Thats stupid, fat people dont care about their appearance because they are not looking for men to bang them – two reasons, they are either married or just not like sex.

      1. Ok, I was being nice in the prior response, but you are just plain stupid. Only two reasons? How about she is fat and hideous and no amount of clothing or make up will fix that. Putting lipstick on a pig will not make the pig any more attractive. So maybe that is why they don’t care. Tell me about a chubby chaser and I’ll have to say he has issues. And if you had an honest conversation with anyone, they will tell you they like sex. People say they don’t like sex because it sounds better than saying, “no one will have sex with me because I am hideous.” You don’t seem fat Aurea, give me your number. I just won’t have kids with you because I don’t want my kids to be stupid.

      2. Fat women are mentally ill. What kind of mentally-healthy wench would actually choose to ignore the instinctual drive for self-preservation by severely damaging her body? None. Its the same reason suicidal people are considered mentally ill. In this light, I can see how obese people could be considered suicidal.

  2. #20 is the only infallible one. The rest can be rebelling conformists artsy-fartsy types or attention whores or even cockblockers etc, but those that start talking about sex, and what they like, outside of any relationship, are sluts. They are basically screaming “fuck me!”

    1. Disagree. All the signs he listed are pretty reliable cues for slutdom.
      Rebelling artsy fartsy tattooed chicks have one night stands. There’s a whole swath of girls out there who will rarely if ever be receptive to same night lays, except as Tut observes on vacation.
      Being able to recognize these signs is useful for prioritizing among girls you’re gaming.

    2. This implies that a girl will display only one symptom per case. I’d say if a girl only displays one sign–any of them–it’s unlikely she’ll turn out to be a slut. I tried to make clear in the piece that it’s about how many a girl displays–the more signs, the more likely she’s slutty, and the more intensely so.

  3. Not sure what I like better: that guys can learn from this or that the Jezebel crowd will have seizures reading it. Also the line “Bi-sexuality has quickly become a stand-in for hyper-sexuality” is gold.

      1. I’m a feminist with an epileptic boyfriend (who is also a feminist), so way to hit both of us at the same time, douchebag. YOU HAVE EARNED SO MANY MAN POINTS.

        1. You made that up. You are appealing to normal people’s (we are not including you in this definition) feelings of compassion. This is very dishonest of you.

        2. I “made up” the fact that my boyfriend of three years has epilepsy? I just imagined all those times he had a tonic clonic seizure and fell out of bed and vomited on himself and couldn’t remember my name for an hour after? I imagined those days of work he misses following a seizure because his spasms cause such muscle pain the next day that sometimes he can hardly get out of bed? I imagine how I have to drive him EVERYWHERE and always exist in a state of panic whenever he goes for walks around town because this will be the day he has a seizure in the middle of a crosswalk and gets run over or something irrational like that? Yes. I’m the dishonest, abnormal liar. You people are astonishingly delusional. I’m not even mad, bro, just bemused. You are, like, laughably pathetic.

    1. Here from the jezebel crowd, nope, no seizures, but it makes you all look pretty pathetic. You look at sex like something you steal or trick someone into, not something two people should both enjoy. Good luck with that.

      1. I am sure you feel better after that comment. Don’t forget to share the gallon jug of mint chocolate chip ice cream as you continue with your emotional eating.

        1. if you have to trick someone into having sex it doesnt make them pure, it makes you a rapist.

        2. Feminists have deliberately broadened the definition of rape in order to create the “rape-crisis” image of our society in order to rally votes, move hearts and manipulate people into supporting their cause. “tricking” like men do in order to get laid is similar to a waitress wearing a tight dress because she “knows” she’ll get more tips. These are simple mental games. It’s not rape to be conversationally adept.

    2. Let me add something to my original comment (above), directed at all the haters here. MEN are allowed to have their preferences. If we don’t like something and think it makes a woman a slut, that’s our prerogative. We aee not here to serve women and bend to women’s needs and wants. Women have their own 5,000-point checklists. Men are allowed to have opinions on what we do and don’t like about women — such as this list. Deal with it.

    3. I’m a Christian, and this disgusts me, if your “Jezebel crowd” thing is a Biblical reference. If you read the Bible in context, which I doubt, I’m sure you’d understand Jesus would probably hate it too, viper.

      1. DoBA was talking about the foaming-at-the-mouth feminist website, not the Biblical figure.

      2. You’re a Christian, therefore everything disgusts you. You’re lucky for not having heard of jezebel.com, though.

  4. The biggest indicator of them all in my experience is the ‘slut face’. Even in my blue-pill days I had an unexplainable but uncanny ability to tell if a girl was a slut (or was going to be one) just by looking at her face. I remember doing this with absolute certainty as early as 12. I thought I was alone, since I’ve seen dudes treat slut face girls like princesses.
    but to this day I couldn’t tell you what exactly makes for one.

      1. Sometimes “Slut Face” is hard to describe, but we all know it when we see it. “Slut Face” sets off a man’s Spidey Sense.

  5. Just checked as joking after a fling that went wrong today. Ficking close to the reality that this girl was. Except USC stuff (I’m from europe so useless except if I hit into american girls).
    BTW 21# is really true imo, somehow, it makes them more emotionally unstable

  6. I would love to see this article reposted on Jezebel, just to see the inevitable trainwreck the comment section would become.
    If I was a shrink, this would be my diagnostic checklist for whoredom.

      1. Ah, those famed gender wars feminists and Jezebelites want to end.
        Yes, we are idiots. The idiots who built this country in every way possible. Of course, you would have done it, too, were it not for our misogynistic, wayward penises. We were so worried about our fragile egos we held you down by forcing you to care for your children. It was all about us. We just happened to do it while oppressing you. You just would not have done it, but far surpassed us with your desire for diversity and inclusion. That is what progress is made of.
        Yep, men are idiots.

      2. We tried to come up with the 25th sign of sluttiness, but without your photo as a reference it kinda became a challenge. That is why we decided to leave the list as it is.
        Yes, you are special and unique.

  7. I think we are quickly reaching a point where recognizing these signs will no longer be necessary since most north American girls can’t control the impulsive need to broadcast their sluttyness.

  8. They’re ALL Sluts… just remember that. Once you realize this simple truth it puts them right in their proper place and obliterates any pedestal they may have been perched upon.

      1. Minor technical refinement suggested: All women are whores, some more sluttier than others. I don’t think any women are true sluts, or very few are. Everything a woman does is status (sub)conscious, and a woman’s best asset is her sexuality. Per evo psychology, women must whore (barter) their sexuality (or whore false credit on sexuality not delivered, poor beta). Women who don’t whore are weeded out of the gene pool. (Liberated women whore to alpha gov. and PC mission.) Women instinctively calculate and emotionally feel they are improving themselves with experience on the cock carousel, learning how high they can pull and never forgetting the component maximums even past 40, as if they still got it to get the maximum composite. Of course, they are wrong. Women are not cultural. The pill gives them an option in their minds nature never did.

        1. How can women who “don’t whore” and are “weeded out” exist if “all women are whores, some more sluttier than others”?
          This is getting convoluted. Whores and sluts are certainly different, and there is a reason for the differing terminology. The only constant between them is some type of sex act, but certainly not all acts that could be considered sexual.
          A whore will have sex for compensation, most commonly some form of currency and not for status. Unless
          it’s to be the best whore on the block. Drugs are also considered to be a form of payment to some of
          these working women. They can also be quite depraved and it is only a question of compensation as to
          what they will or won’t do. Very little is off the table to the customer if they have the means to pay.
          Bartering however implies an even trade for both parties. Paying for sex is never an even trade for a man, it’s certainly good for the whore since it’s her profession. Hence the term “whore”.
          A whore is certainly “calculating” in regards to services rendered, and is also “improving” financially. Whores probably have little care for how high they can pull, it’s all just business as usual.
          Sluts will have sex as long as the rationalization hamster can justify it, which is quite often. Hence the term “slut”. It can most certainly be for status whether conscious or subconscious. However sluts are
          not going to perform all the acts of depravity a whore will. Some of the best whores no doubt started their careers as sluts making it an easy transition.
          If you tell a slut you are going anal on her she will more than likely say no. She still wants to believe she is a good girl and doesn’t do THAT, even if she is engaging in slutty behavior at this particular moment in time. If you tell her you are willing to throw her a Benjamin and she says yes, then by golly mister you got yourself a whore.

        2. “If you tell a slut you are going anal on her she will more than likely say no. She still wants to believe she is a good girl and doesn’t do THAT, even if she is engaging in slutty behavior at this particular moment in time. If you tell her you are willing to throw her a Benjamin and she says yes, then by golly mister you got yourself a whore.”
          Fucking hilarious I just pissed myself! Damn if it aint the truth!

        3. You make a valid distinction. However, the female brain reduces her sex marketing real and false to the same primitive calculus. It does not matter if she is a hooker, if she is getting drugs, if she is exploring her pull ability in the SMP, getting a free drink. She is leveraging her sexuality for maximal advantage as she sees it. She has no equity scruples. It’s always about rank. Rank Principle not Equity Principle. The hooker makes cash for rank in society not love of serving the customer. Women have sex to get what they want if the less expensive and more (primally reproductively) profitable promise of sex will not do. You give women too much credit for thinking in terms of barter equality. Women are not civilized and do not think that way. It may appear that way on the surface by coincidence only. Women simply see authority and opportunity and climb, climb, climb using their sexuality as a bargaining chip, but they do NOT bargain in good faith. They are seductive instinctively, and Game is adaptation to the female way of subconsciously calculating. Women do not adapt to men; they can’t. Women do not make culture or free-market economies; they can’t. The are feral opportunists who will take $20 for sex if seen as a net benefit which very much hinges upon social rank, as you admit.
          “If you tell a slut you are going anal on her she will more than likely say no.”
          You led off your comment with an obvious ignorance about evolution. Evolution is the foundational theory and map on Game. Too often, men are emotionally wounded and need to rip on women for not accommodating men in the masculinely social way, a fair and logical way, but that is expecting fish to fly. A flying fish is only gliding, and does not disproove the huge gap. Men put women in their place, or civilization goes down. There are no civilized sex bargainers who are women. Ladies are forced into being ladies by fathers and husbands skilled and farming the mentally weaker sex. Thats why men with wives are called husbands. Life partners and significant others sneekily implies partnership which will never work between man and woman without women evolving with as much culling pressure for logic as men did.

        4. so if she says yes, that means she is not slut? You just hate women…. oooo so ssad life you live..

        5. Correct, if she says yes… she is a whore. You’re starting to get the hang of it. It’s all written out for you but I understand your trouble with logic. It’s natural you are only displaying your lack of reasoning inherent to females.
          You may now proceed to display your usual emotional based response.

        6. Doug… you’re a funny guy. Do you ever get out and interact with real women? You know the ones not made of latex stuffed under your bed? Or in your closet? Or in your parents closet?
          Honestly you sound like just another AFC trying to use his logic and reason to explain the female condition of wildly fluctuating hormones and emotions.
          Using all your hard earned pop psychology evolution from a feminist academia to impress us all. Yet you still didn’t address the following question and went off on your own tangent with your flying fish and other such scenarios.
          How can women who “don’t whore” and are “weeded out” exist if “all women are whores, some more sluttier than others”?

        7. Your question makes no sense, still. Women are in competition to reproduce like all creatures. Women are walking baby factories. They must leverage (‘whore’) that sexuality better than other women enough to succeed reproductively. Women can be ‘sluts’ only because in the plenty and propaganda of feminism they believe they are leveraging their sexuality for high status and resource consumption per state political orthodoxy. Your so-called sluts don’t understand culture or abstract reasoning or non-immediate consequences. You are silly to think ‘sluts’ understand that they depreciate themselves. Sluts will NOT fuck most men because they are leveraging quality as they understand it, even if its wrong in a cultural context. Women are evolutionarily anachronistic and judge male worthiness on feral standards.
          Who can take you seriously with your illogical question? Only the dumb asses. All you have is a strawman argument and a question that does not even make sense. You are a troll or an idiot or both. Q.E.D.

        8. And a nerve was struck!!! Let the name calling begin in earnest. It appears the question that was asked is literally from your very own comment. I have no dog in this fight but this particular area of posting is looking a little heated. Let’s not fight fellas we are all working towards the same thing. At least I think we are.
          My two cents, a whore is an unfaithful woman. God divorced an unfaithful whore named Israel for her acts of whoredom. Sure it’s not literally a marriage and Israel is not actually a woman but it’s his word and I am not about to challenge the almighty. So for me a whore is unfaithfulness personified.
          Now a slut in my opinion is a promiscuous never married woman who is playing the field until “mister right” comes along, then she will marry him. Of course at some point she will decide to have an affair and initiate divorce, this act of unfaithfulness leads to her whoredom.
          So again in my opinion they are two different creatures. I think the confusion might be that “whore” has been associated with prostitution. Not to say that it isn’t the case, but whores in the old west many times we’re married. So maybe that is why whore is a good description of them, because it is still unfaithful. Wyatt Earp’s own brother, can’t remember his name but I believe it was an older brother was one such instance, his wife supplemented their income with her sexuality.
          I too have a bit of trouble with all the psychology that is being presented, I just chalk all of this woman trouble and behavior up to our fallen sin nature. There is a reason Satan decided to tempt Eve, some weakness perhaps he knew he could exploit. Regardless he must have known that getting her to sin would be the best way to get Adam to sin. It was two for one deal. God never created perfect people in the Garden Of Eden, when he was done from all his work he called his creation good, which is far from perfect.
          Sin is only making things worse every day, it’s never going to get better. God cursed us to futility and we can see it at work everyday. Things aren’t going to get better, the decline is real. It’s also the curse of woman desiring to master her husband that is evident all around. Women are fulfilling that curse, wanting to be like men, have our jobs, our money, acting like they think we act. The apocalypse draws nigh.
          The Bible is the real book on game.

      2. Minor technical refinement suggested: All women are whores, some more sluttier than others. I don’t think any women are true sluts, or very few are. Everything a woman does is status (sub)conscious, and a woman’s best asset is her sexuality. Per evo psychology, women must whore (barter) their sexuality (or whore false credit on sexuality not delivered, poor beta). Women who don’t whore are weeded out of the gene pool. (Liberated women whore to alpha gov. and PC mission.) Women instinctively calculate and emotionally feel they are improving themselves with experience on the cock carousel, learning how high they can pull and never forgetting the component maximums even past 40, as if they still got it to get the maximum composite. Of course, they are wrong. Women are not cultural. The pill gives them an option in their minds nature never did.

      3. And your point being? Or is this just a debate, do we now need a rating system for sluts? This one is a 10 or that one is only a 7 on the slut factor scale. The fact remains that yes most women are sluts. “More sluttier than others” is irrelevant, she is or she isn’t. A slut is going to put out, regardless of her slut factor. That’s kind of what makes her a slut, isn’t it?

    1. Roissy has a maxim in regards to this.
      Maxim #8: Always assume she is a slut. It helps kick the legs out from under the pedestal you will be tempted to put her on, and it is more often than not true.
      This single bit of advice has helped me a great deal and maybe more so than anything else because I had such a tendency to put them on said pedestal.
      I can thank my mother however for all the worthless advice in regards to women.

    2. Why do you hate women so much? That’s so weird to me. And ironic, because I’m a feminist and I don’t hate men at all. Some are amazing. Some are not. Some women are amazing. Some are not. This all just seems like a bunch of women bashing guys, and that’s just odd to me.

  9. I fully expected: The interior of her car is in a total fucking mess, and she was/is any kind of athlete.

    1. thats stupid, especially if she has her own job and cant clean up car. That just means that she doesnt expect company. WOmen who sleeps around would have more cleaner car because they drag men to their beds.

      1. You think some guy who is about to have sex with a slut is going stop because she has a dirty car? “OMG she has a dirty car, can’t fuck her now!” Dirty car=dirty girl. I think you need to tell yourself that you’re stupid. Or I can do it for you if you like, princess.

  10. Hmmmm… For me I have found that the slut face looks like she is hungry for something (perhaps cock). Am I wrong?

  11. So what’s the conclusion? I don’t think it’s hard to ID sluts. I love the “slut-face” our contributor mentions – difficult to describe but easy to recognize. But what use are sluts? I know many men value and enjoy them for their low effort sexual payout. On the other hand, that which isn’t scarce hasn’t much relative value. Indeed women are more likely to shame sluts than men. I’m more indifferent to them but disappointed that they have disqualified themselves from my esteem and interest as dating material.
    Fellas, am I just rationalizing my lack of game by prejecting sluts and otherwise unappealing females because I don’t think the drama, flakiness and the self-loathing from dropping my standards are worth it for a mere orgasm?
    I’m not desperate for action and there is sadly little worthy prey in my usual stomping grounds. If the lousy little sluts aren’t enough motivation to be worth the effort of chasing, I’d rather conserve my energy for someone more attractive that better suits my taste.

  12. Great place to observe sluts on parade: the criminal dockets at your local municipal or county court. I kid you not…you can just feel the predatory slut-gaze cover your body as you hang out at court.
    Bad girls have impulse control problems, and this leads them to get charged with domestic violence, misdemeanor possession, and especially shoplifting. These bitches are boosters, man. That’s the only addition I’d make to Tuth’s great list here: a rap sheet.
    Sluts don’t think about the consequences of their actions, which is why they end up in court one way or another.
    Maybe someone should experiment with “court game”…..

    1. interesting. i made the mistake of dating a grade A slut many years, and she and her friends – every single one of them – had had some sort of run-in wiht the law. from DUI to purchasing alcohol in high school to assaulting someone at a club. and these were affluent, college-aged women from “good” families. sickening.

  13. TUTH GREAT WRITE UP!
    I would add girls who smoke cigarettes. With everything we know about how bad cigs are for you the fact that girls will engage in a destructive behavior like smoking gives you a preview to the fact that they will also be down for risky sexual behavior.

    1. Yeah, good comment. I think it matters though if she smokes one or two because you or her friends to, or if she chain-smokes all night.
      I agree with most of what Tuthmosis writes.
      Not that it matters, but just for fun here are the point’s I’d somewhat disagree with (European perspective):
      #5 and #6 aren’t reliable at all in my opinion. #11 perhaps. #19 not reliable. #20 can happen if you meet a good girl that hasn’t had sex for a long time, is in the right mood, or just finds you very attractive. Or perhaps she picks up on something sexual you said (consciously or not).
      #22 not reliable for scandinavian and perhaps French, Belgian etc. girls, #24 not reliable for eastern european.

      1. #22 is definitely reliable for Scandinavian countries, I haven’t once heard the words “cis”, “pansexual” or other feminist jargon, other than when I brought it up and explained it to others to have a good laugh (pansexuals fucking chairs, etc).

    2. The double standards occurring in your comment is just fucked up, why do you specifically point out that this occurs for females? Why not males?

        1. ^Classic feminist cunt comment of the year.
          Meanwhile, men are out building up civilization (what’s left of it anyway) as they always have.

    1. How about this for a sample of a slut face: the chick who was banging Gen. Petraeus. (Can’t remember her name). Let’s go down the checklist:
      1. Oily face (hormones inside are raging). Check.
      2. Overly intense, man-eating stare. Check.
      3. Subliminal desire to be exposed as a slut by writing a book with a Freudian title (“All In”). Check.
      4. Turbocharged powers of rationalization. Check.

      1. Medium-to-low sexual dimorphism is a sign. “Tranny face.”
        I mean, look at it.
        [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/umT0DbZ.png[/IMG]

      2. Medium-to-low sexual dimorphism is a sign. “Tranny face.”
        I mean, look at it. I would instinctively distrust a woman with a face like that.

      3. How about this for a sample of a slut face: the chick who was banging Gen. Petraeus. (Can’t remember her name).
        Paula Broadwell. A very Dickensian name, if you ask me.

      4. That’s not your mother! That’s a man baaaaby! Yeesh what a fucking hag. I fucked better looking broads than that by accident, and he did her on purpose.

    2. the ability to sense a slut by looking at her face is an utterly mystical phenomenon that transcends words.

    3. Indeed. How about a post in this category with a gallery of slut faces with general breakdowns.

  14. I’ve been assessing potentials via this list for years, it’s great to actually have my subconscious filtering explained.

  15. this is 100% true in my opinion. I often feel left of large parts of the manosphere due to being in a LTR, but If a good number of these things apply to your girl you need to take a stern look at your lady and figure out where she stands.

    1. so what does that make you? why does a women become burdened with name, but not you? trying thinking of this from another angle, in your terms why aren’t you a ‘slut’?

  16. 5. Not ticklish.
    I laughed so hard on that one; I had to put my coffee down. I’ve noticed that shit to. Sluts are not ticklish anywhere on their body.

    1. Same! I cracked up thinking of every girl I knew who wasn’t ticklish – and they were all sluts.

  17. I’ve noticed that whenever ROK does a post on the slutty behavior of college women, they use a lot of stock photos from different schools; however, pictures of chicks from Arizona State seem to pop-up the most.
    Looks like we need to take an ROK Field Trip to Arizona State’s next Home-Coming.

  18. Number 26# should be that if any of her role models or people that she follows on twitter, instagram, or facebook are reality tv stars like kim kardashian, nicki minaj or any of the suicide girls she is definitely a slut.

  19. Smoking cigs and getting hammered is a huge tell, Call it oral fixation or chronic “boredom” whoredom syndrome. Also feminist atheist and lawyers both make up the most immoral soulless sluts out there.

  20. Good list. One of the biggest signs in my book (been mentioned a number of times)…SMOKING. Always in the top three. Other signs on my list:
    1. Has more than two ‘best’ female friends.
    2. Has male friends.
    3. Knows many random males.
    4. Single women between 25 and 30. It’s almost closing time (big 3 0 is at the horizon).
    5. Adult women who live with their parents (no sense of responsibility).
    6. Her role models are known sluts (whores like Kim Kardashian).
    7. Her female hang-around-crowd are sluts.
    8. Females that know to much about birth control methods (both the male and female ones).
    9. Females with a Ph.d. in sucking cock.

    1. Saying they prefer male friends over female friends because females are “drama” is the biggest slut indicator I ever seen.

  21. In Japan, the sluttier girls are into rock music- hard rock, metal, punk, glam rock, etc. I don’t know why.

    1. I think that holds everywhere. I remember reading that chicks who were Coldplay fan were least likely to fuck on the first date, while Nirvana chicks were most likely. Metallica chicks got an honorable mention as well for easiness. It makes sense that a sluttier girl would associate with more masculine genres.

        1. There are exceptions to any generality, rez, Anyway, we’re talking about what music people listen to, not what they play as their profession or job.

    1. That should be #1. On one of the mugs at a local watering hole, there’s a sticker that says “I Support Single Moms” — with the silhouette of a pole dancer.

      1. Dumb feminist sure is dumb!
        You really need this spelled out, sweetie?
        Slut spreads her legs for some local punk — the sort of guy who doesn’t take responsibility by wearing a condom or sticking around to take care of his child.
        She does this enough, gets pregnant.
        Thus, she becomes a single mother.
        And she’s a slut.
        QED.

        1. Feminist? Yeah ok then haha.
          Do you not realise that 99% of the women who are single mums have been in a long relationship? So how does that make them sluts?
          For example: my mum became a single mum when I was 11 and my sister wasn’t even born because my dad decided to have an affair after them been together for 15 years. Who’s the slut then?
          My partners mum, became a single mum before my partner was born. They had been in a relationship for 6years.
          I know a lot of people who have children and they’re single mums due to rather the dads fucking off before the kids are born or either something happening or the dads fucking off after a few years, taking into account they were in a long relationship.

        2. Jesus, you’re an ingrate. “Single moms” as used above is not talking about divorcees who already have kids.
          It refers to women who give birth outside of marriage.
          Having children outside of marriage? Slut.
          Getting divorced when you have children? Stupid but not necessarily a slut.

        3. But I still don’t understand how they can be sluts?! Yes theyre women out there who sleep with everything that walks and have kids – they are sluts.
          But for women who have been in a relationship for longer than 2-3years and then have kids how are they sluts? Wow they had kids outside marriage 98% of people do, especially here in the uk.

        4. It’s not a binary list, it’s a list of percentages of likelihood. Being a single mom doesn’t make you a slut, just like having large breasts or having a tattoo alone doesn’t make you a slut. However, if you see a single mom with large breasts with a visible tattoo you have a better chance of having sex with her than if she didn’t have those three characteristics.

        1. This one is a greasy import. Nobody pay much attention to what comes out of that cake hole.

  22. Tuthmosis for the win. Even if this list is not complete, these are more than enough to know what to look for.

  23. I have 8 of the signs (kinda. I consider myself pansexual. Lots of bisexuals are icked out by drag queens or transvestites or transgender folks, where as pansexuals don’t care what’s going on) but I’ve only had 3 partners (well, 4 if you count when I was raped) and the first partner lasted about 7 months. The next 3 1/2 years. The last I’m still dating 4 years in. And I feel I should mention when I say ‘partner’ I mean in any sexual regard. I’ve kissed/fondled a few people (brings my total up to 7, but I’m including the kisses of being a 15 year old stealing a first kiss)
    But then again I’m a huge advocate of men’s rights, and I often only bring up sex in order to establish that I have few lines in order to allow whoever I am speaking to to feel calm and able to be open with me.

  24. Those are good signs. I think the two broad factors that causes women to be sluts are a) the desire to rebel and b) the desire for male attention. With that being said some other types of women who are likely to be slutty are:
    1. Women from very conservative backgrounds: some of these women are very conservative and stay that way for all of their lives while others want to rebel and they do it by being sluts.
    2. Women from sub/counter cultures that are rebellious and/or see sex as no big deal: for example heavy metal girls, hippies, Bohemian girls, artists.
    3. Fat girls: this one is so obvious that I wonder why it wasn’t mentioned in the OP. Fat girls don’t get much male attention and have to use something to keep a man around. Therefore they use easy sex.
    4. Women with low self esteem
    5. She tells you she does not want to settle down until later on and wants to find herself in the meantime.
    6. Has a lot of male friends, or if she has female friends, they are slutty
    From my own personal experience from going out to bars are clubs, the sluttiest women are fat girls (there have been at least 2 times when fat girls have approached me and have suggested that I come over to their place either that night or for the first date) and girls who are sexually aggressive when you first meet them without knowing much about you. I remember two occasions that I have kissed slutty women within minutes of meeting them and it was not just a quick peck on the cheek; they kissed aggressively as if they want to bang me right in the middle of the club while letting me move my hands everywhere on their bodies (as a side note they were amazing kissers). We were also grinding on the dance floor aggressively as well. Neither of these girls asked me much about who I was but was still willing to be very sexual with me. Also, as mentioned in the OP, one of these girls suggested that we get tequila shots.

  25. Great article and good commentary. I’ll throw in my observations as well: You know if she is a slut if:
    1. She has implants – most skags with implants are.
    2. You put your up her gong and you pull out some other guy’s car keys.

  26. “1. Has tattoos. This is especially the case if they’re
    visible, multiple, large, and elaborate. If they have sexual themes,
    you’re in like Flynn.”
    Also pay special notice to those in closer proximity to erogenous zones (inside the pelvis, small of the back, butt cheek, inner thigh, etc).

  27. Old school tells…
    1. She had or has STDs. Rumors count.
    2. Done “porn” or was a stripper or escort. Drug addiction and daddy issues… they are all dead inside and basket cases.
    3. She is obsessed with sex and doesn’t hide sex toys and other paraphernalia. Her bedroom is a dildo shrine.
    4. Doesn’t use condoms the first few times because she is always on birth control.
    5. PDA especially with strangers at clubs.
    6. She is loose… it’s like giving birth. All the kegels won’t save that roast beef sandwich.
    7. Does drugs… weed is an aphrodisiac.
    8. Frequent meat markets like dive bars. Hey trailer trash single mothers have to come from somewhere.
    Bonus: Jizzabel reader.. I mean Jezebel reader.

      1. Stupid fly… men can’t be slutz.
        I can only be a man whore, player, Lothario, Don Juan, cad, Casanova, Mr. Asshole and Frat Daddy.
        Now who’s you’re daddy?

        1. And that’s a bad thing for guys why?
          Don’t you know it’s different for men and women?
          But hey since you can’t get laid, bitter and a virgin, say you’re just jealous.

        2. I like how you chose “who’s” instead of whose, but couldn’t pick “your” instead of “you’re”.

        3. It’s not different for men and women. Maybe in your version of reality, but not in the actual real world. But since literally every insult you made is just completely out of left field, how can I even be offended. Who am I jealous of? Men? All men? You?? It’s even funny to me that you think calling someone a virgin or can’t get laid, is this huge insult.

        4. Yes because men can auction their virginity for 3.8 million.
          CNN article google it. “What is virginity worth today”
          – Natalie Dylan has put her virginity up for auction; says top bid is $3.8 million
          – Idea that female virginity has high value not new, professor says
          – Men and women have different standards for losing virginity, some say
          http://edition.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/01/22/virginity.value/
          Sucks to suck.

  28. 1. If she slavishly follows trends, red flag. Does she needlessly pout when takes a selfie (“duckface”)? Oversize nerd glasses? “Artistic” photos?
    2. Social media addiction. If she misplaces her phone and starts panicking like a scuba diver whose oxygen tanks started malfunctioning, red flag.
    3. The more left-leaning, the sluttier. Tattooed socialist atheist? Those legs are gonna fly open quick.

  29. About the tan, Here in New Hampshire, what you would call a nice even tan is on the too dark side for this far north. Even during summer, many have no tan at all.The stark contrast is a dead give away up here.

  30. 1. Women with more guy friends than female friends
    2. Bad relationship with her father
    3. Without prying for it, if you find out the name of anyone she’s slept with…that is, the information finds you…GTFO

  31. Good stuff. Every “art” related social circle I’ve ever infiltrated has been a goldmine for promiscuous women.

  32. I don’t understand why you shame or judge a women who enjoys sex. You want to get laid? Stop slut shaming, most of reason women don’t ‘put out’ is of fear of being looked down upon. Stop judging and maybe you’ll laid more.

      1. improve quality? lol….. then stop paying for sex and treat women with kindness and respect… asshole.

    1. Maybe not THE most, but yeah she is. Not only that but my sister too. Same as your mother or girlfriend or significant other beta boy. You live in a blue pill world if you don’t believe it. Your attempt to shame me indicates you for who you truly are.

    2. Haven’t you watched the slut marches recently, ingrate?
      Stop trying to shame him over his mother’s sexuality, hypocrite

  33. I won’t deny a single point on this list, they are all indicative of a slut most of the time with exponential growth by each additional factor.
    However does it matter? A lay can be achieved in this society without discovering any of these tells on an individual woman. It’s just given away with such loose standards and regularity that it’s like shooting free throws.

  34. It really disappoints me, an 18 year old male, that guys around my age and extraordinarily older actually believe this raging bile. I don’t know what disgusts me more: the seriousness in which this article was written, or the seriousness of the comments. You wonder why you guys are single? Because you treat women like sexual conquests. Like they’re some kind of title to claim and put under your belt, waiting for the next one to come along. I never understood what feminists were talking about when they said guys think about and treat women this way, but now I understand. Just cause a girl likes to have sex doesn’t mean she’s a slut. It means she likes sex, like a lot of other fucking people. Obviously you dudebros like sex, but you don’t have people telling you that you’re manwhores. What someone does in their personal life is their business unless they share it with you. I’m shocked that none of you have any decency, and think it’s funny to talk about people this way just because you’re hiding behind a computer monitor. Maybe one day you’ll grow up. But, I feel better knowing that I surpass all of you when it comes to being an actual person. See you in the real world, shitlords.

    1. Ha! Come back to us in 10 years and see if you still feel that way. You’ll either still be a heroic virgin, or will have adjusted your armchair worldview to real-world realities.
      It’s easy to speak in beautiful theories repeated from your freshman-year gender-studies class, all while you secretly jerk off to porn that’s “degrading to women.” It’s another thing to go out and do the hard work it takes to get results and come to realize that people, and the world, aren’t quite as rosy as you’d hope–or been told.

    2. Obviously you dudebros like sex, but you don’t have people telling you that you’re manwhores.
      Oh hello, Mr. Scalzi.

    3. Desire for, or enjoyment of sex is not what makes a slut a slut. The proclivity to actually engage in sex with many different partners is what makes a slut a slut.

  35. 9 is indisputable.
    Though I’m unconvinced by ‘slut face’ usually there is a general slutty vibe.

    1. Even if they are fake, not really, I was promiscuous when I was younger and unmarried, but I’ve always been really quite monogamous and picky.

  36. My God, reading all comments here mean all women are sluts??!! Yet you get mad if women dont put out. The guys who commented their hatred here are most probably sad men who were dumped.

    1. Whale, whale, whale, what do we have here?
      Man, you’re fat. Even though you’re doing your best to hide them, I can still count the chins on your face. Seriously, your face looks like someone drew two eyes, a nose, and a mouth on a balloon. The glamour shot doesn’t help either, as it’s clear as day that you’re fat as hell. No amount of posturing, lighting, and make-up can hide those puffy, protruding cheeks of yours.
      But I offer a way to salvation. And it’s easy. Time-consuming, but easy. Ready? Eat less, and exercise. That’s it. I know it’s hard to peel your fatass off the couch or bed, and unglue your sausage fingers away from the next tub of ice cream, but with a little dedication and hard work, you might actually look like a normal human being again.

      1. You are an angry, angry person. Have you tried exercising? it’s really good for releasing endorphins. Calling someone out for their appearance and hiding your own?? What do you look like Ira??

  37. I feel like the more of these a girl has.. the more likely she is a slut.. not falling under one of these being some for sure sign she is one. Others listed in the comments are good signs as well. I feel like we could make a list of “signs a guy is a player and going to dick you over,” print it out.. and distribute it to every girl on hr 16th birthday and girls still would bitch about getting screwed over.

  38. Good list. A couple more I’ve noticed:
    – colored contacts
    – fake nails
    – hair extensions
    – fake anything
    – dribbles cum down her chin like she’s in a bukakke video
    – says she never wants kids
    – drinks a lot and to excess
    – has a gay BFF
    Dunno why these are tells but they are.

  39. 1.Knows different “tricks” – e.g. some dick sucking shit you’ve never seen before. This comes after experimentation with different dudes, long term monogamous relationships don’t typically yield an extensive repertoire of techniques.
    Actually, to any girls who might read this: don’t think you’re impressing us with crazy tricks and techniques – we just think you’re a slut.
    2. Talks shit about guys, both in general and specific guys she has been with. The former is an expression of cynicism from a repeatedly pumped n’ dumped slut, the latter is when she knows she has been a slut and feels the need to talk shit about the guy before he gets to chance to share what a slut she is.

  40. This is disgusting. I can only assume anyone who reads this and agrees with it is an un-empathetic psychopath.

  41. Wow, this is an angry crowd. I guess there are a lot of pimple faced, weird guys sitting behind computer screens displacing anger because they know deep in their hearts they probably don’t measure up to whatever “slut” they’re referring to (Come on, you know it has something to do with the women who turned them down and wouldn’t give the time of day)

    1. ” I guess there are a lot of pimple faced, weird guys sitting behind computer screens”
      You forgot “with small dicks”.

  42. Assholes like you and anyone who believes this trash are the reason women think we’re all douchebags.
    Also, ticklishness? Really? I know enough women who’ve been “manhandled” and are still ticklish. This article is filled with 100% fallacy and complete idiocy.

    1. No, the reason you don’t get laid is your own lameness and quickness to white-knight for them (and therefore get friendzone into oblivion).
      Don’t blame us.

  43. I wish I could reach through my computer screen and rip off your genitals, you misogynistic piece of shit.

    1. Domestic violence, sexual violence, and hate crimes threats are sooooo funny!
      Thank a feminist for that!!

  44. Tuthmosis is clearly someone who cannot accept the fact that women have the right to reject his sexual advances and say No, even when he thought they were so-called ‘sluts’. Never mind Tuthmosis, there’s always porn, but don’t forget to be a gentleman and buy your hand a romantic dinner first.

  45. I am a fine art student with blue hair, piercings and tattoos… Oh gawd I’m such a slut!
    Seriously, the fuck is this writer on? I don’t know what kind of girls he is meeting with, and I seriously don’t know where he is getting these “facts” from! My friend is pan sexual and has been in a happy, sex free, relationship for 2 years now! She’s 20 and still a virgin! But she’s still a slut according to this? Fuck you and your retarded views! Stop generalising women on the little information you have from your facebook profile, stop being such a lonely little bastard and get a life!

  46. I hope you are aware that you will die alone. Unless you wake up from your uninformed misogynistic ideas

  47. Aw man, the ‘slut face’.
    It’s ‘mostly’ in the eyes.
    Typically, a hard yet lazy/beady, unimpressed look in the eyes…but some how behind all that unphased expression, there’s a slight willingness to soon bring on a smile/smirk, raised flirtatious eyebrow, or lip biting. Along with it, and perhaps more importantly, the vibe put out behind it is ‘intense’.
    Not ‘duck faced’ goofy.
    Not ‘facebook’ like me.
    Not ‘I’m a tease’ stares.
    Not ‘pouty lipped’
    And definitely not ‘doe eyed’.
    There’s a hint of maturity behind those eyes.
    Maturity as in knowing what they want and how to go about getting it.

  48. Granted this is going to get shot down by the sheer number of mysoginists here, (notice I didn’t mention brain cells) but a ‘slut’ is someone. She isn’t a piece of meat for anyone to police. Her conduct is her own, her sexual dalliances are her business. Would you want a bunch of knuckle-dragging rape-apologists near your daughter, your niece or your wife? Because here is a prime example she is someone’s daughter, niece or wife being treated like public property.
    Here’s hoping someone changes their mind, because she isn’t a toy. She’s a person, and worth more than the shitty attitude shown here.
    Oh, and save your insults, I won’t be returning to this cesspit to rebut your lame responses, I will have no doubt heard better insults from parrots mimicking half-heard conversations.

    1. “A slut is someone.” No it’s not. A slut is a walking, talking, soulless object. If it opens its legs enough, it dies inside. Once it’s dead, we don’t have to respect it…Think of it like a zombie. It can walk and talk, but when you smash its head in (or fuck it in the ass and come in its hair) you haven’t really committed murder (or had a meaningful sexual experience).
      And, yes, you will be back to read this. Hi there!

      1. “If I say something offensive enough, people will be shocked! And then I’ll have attention! And, and, and… it makes me feel important! PLEASE MAKE ME FEEL IMPORTANT. I HAVE SPECIAL OPINIONS.”

        1. Feminist Tactic #17:
          Instead of responding to an argument, we’ll just call it offensive instead, so we have time to catch up on reality TV.
          …and because logical argumentation hurts our brains too much.

      2. you sir are scum, nothing more nothing less. if this is your actual opinion then you are not a person, you are not a human.
        calling you shit would be an insult to shit.

    2. “notice I didn’t mention brain cells”
      You look very smart. With your glasses and all.
      “Oh, and save your insults, I won’t be returning to this cesspit to rebut your lame responses,”
      Sure thing, sweetheart. Sure thing.

    3. You open with insults in a futile attempt to shame anyone who doesn’t agree with your opinion and then ask to be saved from insults. And I know you came back to read this.

      1. Oh, you’re the king of shaming language, so you would know, Florence.
        Isn’t it time for you to head back to your television and ice cream pints?

    4. Ooooh, you’re such a deep thinker, you feminist you. And you have such consistent logic — what with celebrating sexual drive in women, shaming it in men, and trying to hatemonger against men who come up with a list of their experiences on the topic.
      You go grrrrrl

        1. The fact my comment was deleted just tells me that I was on the right track
          Neither bitter nor deluded sorry

        2. 24 signs.. well ok not too bad why not?
          You get some trouble with your mother in the past?
          when you decide to go to the gym why??
          you got a picture.. i just need one to complete my scientific theorie about you..
          How was your friend at the early school?

        3. You think that makes your comment truth, because it was deleted? Not only are you a misogynist douchebag, you’re also disillusioned.

        4. scientific theory? what like im alien or something lol
          I dont go to gyms, horrid places
          My mothers dead, has been since I was a kid

        5. if you’re 12, a virgin, stupid, or all of the above. you must not know any women. this makes no sense at all. and you’re as silly as the 12-year-old posting this.

        6. If a mans intelligent he is way way sexier, this shit comes out of your mouth like you think its fact….. laughing my ass off over here lol

    1. It was going around Tumblr as a “look how funny this article is” joke post. And then I came in here and saw all these women getting upset about it, and I’m like, “Really? You can’t tell that this in jest? Calm the hell down.”

        1. Yeah, I like it. It’s a good place to get art critiques. It’s a bit of a younger crowd, but they know what they like. There are also some fairly good adult tumblrs, erotic art and the like.

      1. Considering that there are a LOT of men out there with a similar mindset as this article (read: bros) I think I can forgive people falling victim to Poe’s Law in this case.

        1. That’s what I’m still trying to determine. Sometimes, it’s really _that_ hard to tell. =/

        2. It’s not hard to tell at all, it’s obviously a joke. Which is why the women folk who are getting all angry need to calm down. No one is really this stupid. I don’t get why people are so intent on censoring other people’s jest. Yes, it might be mean to the dudebros or whatever to make them look stupid, but they- the ones being made fun of, aren’t the one’s complaining. If they were I would understand.

        3. I’m not a hater, but I have to agree with this guy. You kinda look like an extra in the Mad Max franchise.

        4. I didn’t know photoshop could make an ugly girl, uglier. Those software design guys at Adobe are pretty talented.

        5. Speaking of which, based on that godawful photo, it’s hard to tell whether you actually are part of this species..

        6. Actually, I knew a guy that would do exactly this, so I doubt it’s a ‘joke.’
          He had set himself a goal of sleeping with 100 different women (repeats welcome, but not counted towards the target number) in the span of a year – without them finding out about each other. (So he could continue to fuck them at will.)
          He and his pals referred to these girls not even by their names (behind their backs of course), but by their numbers.

        7. I fulfill a lot of the “stereotypes” listed above, and I am offended. If it is a joke, it’s not a very funny one.

        8. alloooooooooooo, people ARE really that stupid. what rock do you live under? I’d like to join you if it doesn’t have any of the morons that overpopulate our planet

        9. So you dress like a woman then talk shit about men. Don’t overestimate the species indeed.

        1. Would you be one of those men who uses these as excuses for rape?
          You’re despicable.
          And you wonder why no one likes you – not even feminists.

        2. LOL gold thanks for the laugh
          Not male and have many friends, many feminists too
          How I know? I heard some when I was raped

        3. I don’t believe you were raped. I absolutely think you are lying. Getting so drunk that your regular taste in barflies is temporarily suspended is not rape.

        4. Not male or just not sure of your gender. Or better yet one of those gender is a social construct people, and you are above it all. Do you prefer to be called an “it”?

        5. Feminists who go on and on about rape usually aren’t even worth raping. Its like the wenches who go on slutwalks. Most of them are so fat and ugly that they couldn’t be sluts even if they wanted to.

        6. Rape can happen to anyone regardlessof sexual history, because rape is about power not sex.

        7. you’re such a horrible person. I know the internet gives people (especially losers) the freedom of being complete dicks because they know it won’t have any consequence on their lives but seriously, there are some comments that are beyond simple trolling and show how fucked up some people are. This is one of those. You should definitely get psychological assistance and some basic common sense and civility classes. Please don’t be a rapist! It does ruin lives, and if you don;t care about the life you’d ruin by assaulting someone, think about YOUR life when you get prosecuted!

        8. Haha, everyone getting mad at this is either a) A slut who matches the requirements and is having a hard time facing reality or b) A faggot who feels that defending these sluts will somehow get them laid.

        9. In order to rape someone, you have to have an erection. Its very difficult to get erect to a wench that is fat and ugly.

        10. By definition, the word rape means it’s unwanted. It’s not rape if she says she wants it. What some want never justifies the assumption that others want that too. Rape is always unwanted.

        11. Or, you know, women who are terrified of being raped, having their sisters and friends raped, men who have any sense of right and wrong tend to have a problem with rape. Those ones too. My 12 year old sister is scared of rape, if you want to insult her for the fact that she’s probably never going to be able to walk alone at night without fear, because we’re all taught that men can’t control themselves half the time, and if we didn’t calculate the risk, it’s somehow our faults if we get raped. But, of course, if we’re scared of it, we’re flattering ourselves too.

        12. If your sister is scared of being raped then here are some things you should tell it not to do: dress like a slut, walk around in areas with blacks. It should also get tattoos and gain lots of weight, because it will then be a less desirable target. If you don’t calculate the risk and act appropriately, then yes you are partly responsible for being raped. If, as you believe, men can’t control themselves half the time, then you better protect yourself by modifying your behavior.
          The people who taught you this are idiots, and you are one for believing them.
          Wenches can’t control themselves 99.99999% of the time, which shows men are superior to wenches. These are facts which men gain through experience. This is why we need to restrict the civil rights of wenches by removing their right to vote and legally barring them from working outside the home.

        13. Well, then, most rapes are not actually rapes because they clearly want it! Why else would wenches have rape fantasies? Because they want to be raped!!!

        14. Never fuck a fat chick. Obesity and mental illness are linked. If they accuse you of rape, the whole world will know you might have fucked a fattie.

        15. Women are so delusional they don’t know reality from fantasy. Thus so many false rape charges.

        16. You sound like your sisters own worst enemy. When she kills herself under your fear-mongering, I’m sure you’ll blame in on men.

        17. Okay, man child. I’m done here. Obviously you lack the mental faculties to realize you can’t possibly know anything of the sort about strangers and are just blindly insulting to prove your gender’s superiority, and in doing so, proving your own unintelligence and weakness.

        18. I’ve never heard of a woman raping a man. Since throughout this conversation, of sorts, you’ve displayed an inability to reason without blind insults and to understand the basic context of most statements, I’m done here. Have fun with your hatred. I’m so, so sorry for whatever turned you into this egotistical, weak monster.

        19. Neither have I ever heard of a woman raping a man. Who mentioned it, besides you?
          You are done here? Why are you chickening out? What are you afraid of?

        20. That would be very scary. But, what is strange, is that some people actually like to fuck fatsos. People who voluntarily fuck fatsos are idiots.

        21. My genders’ superiority is an empirical fact. There have never been any wenches–and there will never be–who can match the abilities of great men. Consider:
          Bach
          Einstein
          Newton
          Caesar
          Sophocles
          Edison
          Augustus
          Da Vinci
          Adam Smith
          Handel
          Michelangelo
          Vermeer
          Washington
          Shakespeare
          Milton
          Homer
          Constantine the Great
          Clemens
          Thomas Payne
          Wellington
          Churchill
          Alexander
          Patton
          Charles Martel
          Wordsworth
          Coleridge
          Jobs
          Ford
          Napoleon
          Schwarzenegger
          Bruce Lee
          Cyrus the Great
          Darwin
          Reagan
          Colt
          Browning
          Jesus
          …….and so on, ad infinitum….
          Can you name any wenches from any time period in any part of the world that can equal these men in their areas of expertise? No, you can’t. I can only think of three, Elizabeth I, Margaret Thatcher, and Catherine the Great, all of whom were absolutely not feminists and were white. Take note: almost all of these people are of European descent!!!

        22. seriously?? that’s fucked up dude. what does it serve you to delegitimize someones claim of being raped? do you know how shitty that makes someone feel on top of how shitty they already feel? fucking check yourself before you spew garbage like this.

        23. yeah, it’s really fucking civilized to be able to take advantage of someone who is black out drunk.

        24. You’re right. The civilized thing to do is to tie them up, high in a tree. Hilarious!

        25. Witty comeback. Do you have a room full of manboobs helping you with those, or do you work alone?

        26. Congratulations, you are the second person to notice me using the word “wench!!!” I quite like it myself.
          I notice that you are not arguing my points. I believe that it is because you know my points are true facts, and thus you cannot bring a counter-argument. Please try again. If you don’t try again then you will be instantly recognized as losing this argument. Please don’t be a failure.
          As for trolling, you are responding…therefore, you are exactly half the problem!!! A troll cannot exist without someone to respond; otherwise we go back home to Norway. I only troll the feminist wenches, aka “the femwenches,” pronounced with the same accenting as “sandwiches.” I am anti-femwench and pro-young-slender-submissive-blond.
          I have not heard of this movie you link to. I don’t watch too many movies, generally because they’re boring and because I prefer to fuck young submissive sluts.

        27. I have friends who are in Anonymous. They will find out who you are. They will hack your username. They will expose you. Here’s a fair warning. We will find you. And you will be sorry. The internet can only save you for so long.

        28. For someone who’s such a misogynistic, literal asshole, you’ve listed some homosexual men on there. Yeah Gay Pride!

        29. There aren’t women from that time because any woman who was smart enough (or smarter than these men) were persecuted, burned, or silenced in some other way. And ya, we know Europeans can kill, immigrants in your own homeland of “America” now, just cuz your ancestor could slice up some shit doesn’t make you immune from any hellfire coming your way because trust me, it sounds like you have it coming to you.
          or maybe your mom does. can’t imagine her being very happy for having worked so hard at procreating and then it resulting in a respectless piece of sh*t like yourself.
          she must’ve been raped. only explanation.

        30. you are such a terrible excuse of a human being!! Ask yourself why do you do this? Do you like it or are you just fucking ignorant bastard a genetic trait of yours. A piece of advice for someone like you keep your mouth shut you’ll just talk crap.

        31. Oh yes I just enjoyed being slammed against the wall until I’d suck an ex lover’s dick. Where I lived wouldn’t do a damn thing about it. No woman wants a real rape to happen to her. I never had a rape fantasy nor did I ever asked to be forced to suck a dick until the man got pleasure then beat me more.

        32. The story is fake, thus proving you really do have a rape fantasy. You need to seek counseling.

        33. It’s not ok to use the words “slut” or “faggot”.
          You need taking down a peg or two.

        34. With an attitude like that, you show yourself to be an ignorant bigot who needs taking down a peg or two. You are a disgrace.
          You clearly have no compassion or respect for others.

        35. What the fuck are you on about?
          People like you should be dropped out of a helicopter into a volcano.

        36. What is it about sick, twisted individuals like you that makes you enjoy other people’s suffering, suffering that you can’t even imagine.
          Really, you seriously should have been aborted, Ali-B. You are a disgrace to society and there is no place for people like you in this world.

        37. The fact that there are men like you in the world makes me want to be physically sick.
          You are an odious and hateful human being who clearly feels that you have a right to dominate others.
          You feel empowered by limiting the freedom of others and by inflicting pain.
          You are a sadist on a power trip.
          You clearly have no compassion for the suffering of others, a hugely inflated sense of entitlement and superiority, and utterly no respect for women.
          You are a disgusting insect and the world is a worse place for you having been born. I think you are evil, sick, twisted and scum.
          You are a blight on this planet.
          People like you should have their testicles removed.
          Your arrogance is sickening, as is your sense of being better than other people, when all the things that make people good are lacking from you.
          I never hate anyone but I hate you. Now fuck off.

        38. Do you really think people give a shit about your fake pain from a fake rape? Look in the mirror. Your family knows you make this shit up cause no one is going to rape someone that looks like you. I’m sure they grow tired of all the drama you bring to the dinner table, along with the overeating habits.
          Its really really sad that when you die from diabetes or suicide, your family will miss you, but breathe a sigh of relief that your self-suffering has ended.

        39. Yes it does days of diapers. I don’t fuck fat girls. No one should. Hate to shut you out, but my penis just wouldn’t get hard for you. I can’t help mother nature.

        40. Oh dear. Actually it’s not that they want to be raped, it’s a submissive thing. Nobody /wants/ to get /raped/. A fantasy is so much different from actual real life. I understand your point, but dear no- that’s a bit off the mark.

        41. Unlike you, I have never advocated murder or suicide in any post. I like a good argument just like everybody else, but unlike you I’m not out for blood. Lets dispense with the death wishes. Death is a very bad thing and I do not wish it upon anybody. Yes, I criticize people’s behavior, and yes I can be very mean, but I DO NOT support murder or suicide. Cut it out, and be a good troll.

        42. MEN ARE SHIT. THEY TELL US OPENLY EVERY DAY. NEVER TRUST ANY OF THEM, EVER.

        43. MAKE SURE TO TEACH YOUR SISTER THAT MEN ARE VIOLENT, SOCIOPATHIC SHIT AND TO NEVER TRUST ANY OF THEM. EVER.

        44. How about someone who would love to cut off your balls and mount them above my fireplace, next to my jar of tears from lonely, sad jackasses like you.
          We don’t like this article because its disillusioned, sad, despicable, deplorable, and soaked in misogynistic rape culture.
          You’re all potential rapists–if you haven’t raped already.

        45. because we think that way it has nothing to do with ‘love’ or ‘caring’ for the women we want to have sex with or get with. I care for every woman I have sex with, just go find a real man and take a second to think why you attract “ain’t shit niggas”. If all men are the same then grow up or go lesbian

        46. Deer ma’am, please don’t lump me together with these cavemen, i r sophisticated. Like a sir.

        47. Whatever dude, I was 12 at the time so yeah totes my taste in ‘barflies’ was ‘suspended’
          Idiot

        48. Thanks for the laugh lol
          Im pretty sure having personally had a kid makes me sure female lol
          Mentally, yeah perfectly sure lol

        49. LOL the fuck!? Why do women seem to think men are looking for excuses to rape people? Its horrible that it happened to you but a lot of men (including myself as I have done it twice before) would be prepared to put their safety at risk to protect you if they came across such a horrible crime being committed.
          Just because you had a horrible experience doesn’t give you the right to paint us all with the same brush.

        50. Not all of us are shit you know. I have been stabbed twice protecting women (I work in security) so some of us are good guys. You need to stop making poor decisions as to who you date / socialize with.

        51. I can’t believe you were even capable of writing that – as you must be the most ridiculously stupid human being alive.
          Well done for stringing those sentences together, Im sure it was tough.

        52. Girls who have actually been raped don’t openly admit it on a forum……I smell bullshit. Which makes you a really horrible person

        53. wow what a clever scientific post you got there. you smell bullshit? get a life and stop slamming people’s integrity online for no reason.

        54. Yeh and what have you done with your life, other than make a fucking list and call some women a slut.
          Everyone knows the whole misogyny, metal and patriotism thing is making up for a something else,

        55. I find it ironic that you’re attacking me to defend a known rapist – ineedacoffee.
          Shame on you.
          Slut.
          Wald

        56. “Boss,” eh? Well, at least you know your position.
          I’ll take your reply as acknowledgement that what I wrote is true.

        57. If that’s what really matters to you. I just hope you work through your issues and find a point in your life where advocating rape on a messageboard isn’t a past time.

        58. Bullshit. How can you claim to speak for the intentions and desires of every rapist that has every existed? I fucking hate that saying. Feminists just tryna reclaim the power

        59. Honestly he seems to possess many of the traits of a sociopath.I wouldn’t be surprised if he was a sociopath. Too bad there can’t be a genocide of them all :/

        60. With that kind of logic you will get yourself persecuted and arrested.Just because some women may have rape fantasies does not mean all women do.The female sex, just as the male sex, is NOT a monolith. Rape is a violent crime and often times studies done interviewing rapists reveal that they felt powerless in their own lives and asserted their power or sense of worth by raping someone weaker. Just be sure to tell a loved one you know or yourself when you get raped that hey the rapist did you/them a favour.

        61. No, actually. I have a pretty big penis. You, on the other hand, must have a very tiny jelly bean brain, judging from your spelling and punctuation. Twat.

        62. It also works the other way but u never hear about it cause its not count as news! Think about it, when was the last time u heard a guy was raped???

        63. The sad thing is rape happens all the time but its never reported! Why do u think muslims dont allow women out unless with a male? Even tho we have laws to make our society safer, rape will never stop! Women think they can live without us males but deep inside of them biological they need a man around to feel safe and protected!

        64. Or C.) The arrogant twat (i.e. you, just in case your too dumb to realise that’s who im referring to) who cant get laid and doesn’t seem to realise that its because he’s a doosh so instead thinks there is something wrong with women…. hahaha! I feel so sorry for you hunny, you do need a cuddle, or some help.

        65. And yet the majority of people at slut walks are victims of sexual assault? Slut walk is about women not being blamed for assaults that happen TO them. Clothing has nothing to do with why someone is assaulted.

        66. why are you talking about europeans when this is about sexuality? you fags are really coming out of the woodwork aren’t you? there are plenty of women who have done great things. you purposely ignored them. fucker.

      2. Theres no redeeming quality to this post that indicates that it’s a joke. And yes, there are men that actually think this way…so there needs to be some kinda a witty conclusion that lets everyone know that he’s jesting. So, if it is a joke, he needs a few writing lessons. FAIL!

      3. if it’s in jest, not only is this guy stupid, he’s too stupid to be funny. this should be set on fire for being illogical and not even making sense.

        1. This literature that you don’t agree with, should be set on fire? Reminds me of the nazis…speaks volumes of feminists and their “tolerance” for freedom of speech. Move to north k orea why don’t you.

        2. OOH, godwin’s law. you’re a real genius. this is not literature, sweetness, and it’s a metaphorical statement. please revisit remedial government class. i have not advocated throwing this clown in jail, thus the first amendment is moot. i have exactly the same freedom as he does to call him a moronic fuckstick who will never get laid. 😀 now get some new material, troll. you’re boring.

      4. They are feminists who want to destroy families and promote hate! They want power and are selfish…When will people learn that power, social status all leads to unhappiness! Just look at all our Hollywood actors that are in and out of rehab all the time! Find some kind of spirituality, it has the correct answers to find real happiness! It’s why all religions are still around after 2000 years compare to everything else that dies out!

      1. I agree he is a wanker, and he should be used to represent all of what is morally wrong with men today… but it is quite an accurate list.
        Gamers exist because women choose to sleep with the wrong type of guys.
        And it is the role of feminists to stand up and educate young girls to not reward chauvinistic behaviour other wise it is like adding fuel to the fire.
        (Also I have noticed that every feminist I know has ended up with huge regrets because of sleeping with a guy like this.)

        1. gamers exist because of a bunch of japanese businessmen in the early 1980’s. also, what in hell is wrong with you? lonely much, guy?

        2. It’s the role of feminists……? It’s the role of everybody to to point out what a joke this kind of view on women is.

        3. In this context “gamers” mean dick heads who think that the main goal of life is to lie to women and manipulate them in order to get them to have sex with the manipulator.

        4. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=emmRPUWoxMY ha gotta love them links… love them ladies, love them men, some woman a smart, some woman are stupid. Some men are smart some man are stupid. This is one of the stupid men… divided we are conquered, as humans we will survive! (I’m a man that can be stupid but tries to be smart when ever he can)

        5. I believe the term for that is “players”. Gamers are people who play (usually video) games.

        6. Its not males thats the problem its feminist that cant understand attraction and relationship are primal! The only thing I respect with Muslims is that they got it right and understand their role in a long term relationship, thats why relationships dont work anymore in western society and the real victims are the kids that suffer from trauma due to parents giving up on each other!

        7. Ive been dating women for 20 years, how is it a joke when its 99% correct??? It’s how I stay away from the bad women unless I want a one night stand and focus on a woman with self respect and feminine!

        8. Wake up, its all primal! Womens job to find dominate male to have strong children, a males role is to put his seed in as many females as possible! The best advise I was given to understand the relationship between male and female is to watch the animal channel! It’s just the way the world works! Even tho we have intelligence, we still act like animals when it comes to mating and relationships! U might HATE it but it wont change anything!

        9. so youre saying gay couples dont exist? no dominant women exist? submissive men? fetishism? what about transgendered people, or null gendered people? oh wait, you got this info from the animal channel, that explains it… what exactly does a meerkats slut face look like?

        10. Another girl just does not want to accept the problems with society because it might mean she should look in the mirror…
          Here is another one for the list, If she says yes to the question “do you like the taste of bear?” then she will have had sex on a first date. I have tested the question and the answers have always correlated. If you don’t believe me? You can look it up, there is a study on it.

        11. Ooh yes, got to stay away from those BAD women. Those bad, unclean women who want to stick metal through places that aren’t their ears and think they have the right to indulge in the exact fucking same kind of casual encounter that men do, regularly, and without reproach. How dare those BAD, BAD women think they can have one night stands without it blackening their souls and ruining their womanhood!! The worst ones are the ones with big tits because everyone knows they grow them on purpose to bewitch men and steal their seed for dark satanic rituals where they plot to further their vile feminist ideals and subvert your precious masculinity! DEAR GOD WHY DOESNT ANYONE STOP THESE BAD WOMEN??

        12. Let me put this So very simplistic to everyone here, all Humans want is better Genes (genetics) we been competing for years,also Sex is a natural thing if woman or men want sex every day who has the right to judge that? does that mean animals are sluts too?

        13. he is correct most women if not 60% of them are like this. and if men dont notice this they really are stupid these days. this is why the divorce rate is so high and more women dressing slutty and posting pics on instagram and facebook.

        14. oh dear….. oh dear oh dear. You don’t want a relationship Paul… you basically want a mummy that you can fuck. Saddo

        15. Wow. What a classic woman hater you are. Women should learn to stay away from your woman hating ways. I hope you stay single and lonely for the rest of your life. Now go crawl back to your mother’s basement and jerk off to porn.

        16. How about no. Too bad you don’t realize that men are the same exact way, but let’s not pay attention to detail. Double standards much?

        17. Feel free to explain how Paul is exhibiting signs of a classic woman-hater. He’s been dating women for 20 years. That seems to contradict the notion that he is hating women. He tries to steer clear of what he sees as “bad women”. It’s not as if he is steering into them and trying to inflict personal injury…
          Speaking of which.
          Wishing people bad things like “stay single and lonely for the rest of your life”, is rather hostile and speaks volumes of the those who utter it.
          The hate that you see, it is all a projection of what is inside you. The likelihood that any guy that applies game is sitting in his mothers basement jerking off to porn when there are so many 24-signers around is unlikely.
          You can hate all you want. It’s not stopping the world from turning.

        18. Even if men were the same way, unless it provides some sort of tangible competition to scoring, what’s the point in realizing it?
          You will have to provide some evidence of this double standard you speak of. If not, it’s just the usual noise from yet another angry misguided feminist.

        19. Oh really? For starters men get tattoos body piercings, dye their hair weird colors fuck a lot of girls takes drugs even lose their virginity at a young age yet they never not once get called a slut. How’s that for a double standard? Oh, wait it’s ok for men to do it. Too bad women can’t do the same thing without being scrutinized.

        20. Yeah, and I see why he’s been dating women for 20 years. It’s because every one of those women saw how he is and didn’t want to be around him for 2 long. Hate? I hate misogynists.

        21. Oh, yeah I sure hate men. *sarcasm* actually I don’t. I only hate certain men such as men abusing women and children, men who rape and sexually assault women and children, men who call women sluts, men who think women are supposed to be subservient and submissive, men who think women should be in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant. Is that clear enough for you to understand? Or do I have to say it slower for you to understand?

        22. Yes, really. It’s already been explained to you (and every other angry little man hater) why men do not get called “sluts” for such behaviour. You are purposely ignoring the differences in the roles males and females play in procreation. Unless you advocate androgyny, you cannot equate this. There are things that are “OK” for women, but not “OK” for men and vice-versa.
          Double standards? Talk this way in person to guy and you can get away with it in North America. The culture will protect even aggressive hostile women from physical harm simply because you are female. A guy? He better be able to back up the bravado, or face a beat down.
          Equality in opportunity has to be evaluated with the inherent advantages and disadvantages of the gender. Until you can effective create the same ability for men to merely be dressed provocatively to attract the opposing gender, you cannot assume that equality is merely the same “rules”. It doesn’t work that way and you know it.

        23. Really. Every one of those women rejected him. How do you know that? Seriously. That is just wishful thinking on your part.
          Hate? Certainly you can hate whatever you want to. However, there are hardly any misogynists here. That is just the usual rationalization of those with misplaced aggression.

        24. Men aren’t called sluts their called players. I think they should be called sluts because if men can go out and have sex with an x X number of girls so can women with x number of men. For the record men can dress provocative ly too to attract the opposite sex. See, men like you and this author are the reason why women will never be equal. Well, too bad. We are equal. So STFU. Of course you men don’t want us women to be equal. God forbid we show our sexuality. Men can be just as aggressive as a woman and vice versa. Violence is never ok for anyone male or female. I listed to you how it is considered a double standard, but I’m classified as a “man hater” funny though. MRA much?

        25. I fail to see how this isn’t misogyny. I guess women shouldn’t express themselves sexually or physically right? I guess women should be quiet and “conservative” right? Of course. You sir are dumb.

        26. Helena Marie Taylor:
          Who said: “Oh, yeah I sure hate men. *sarcasm* actually I don’t.”
          It certainly CLEAR enough that you try to slip in a disambiguation among the list of specific behaviors. You’re just trying to make it look like you are not hating men.
          Men aren’t calling ALL women sluts (which is what you imply when you say, “men who call women sluts”). Where is this notion of “subservient and submissive” being put across in here? Where? This barefoot and pregnant concept… where is that?
          You are employing the usual misrepresentations to justify your bashing. You… have… no… logical… argument…
          There that should be slow and clear enough for you now.

        27. The point was that a typical man cannot get anywhere the same attention as a women by merely dressing provocatively. You are purposely MISSING that important distinction in order to refute it. So NOT EQUAL (and having to remove that distinction in your attempt is clear proof that you KNOW that too.) You can say it all the “F” you want. But you are wrong.
          Your a “man hater” because you exhibit all the traits of such. That includes throwing in all the usual misrepresentations and then proceeding to bash it.
          Really? Equality means the same rules without respects to the abilities of the individual? Hey why have wheelchair ramps on curbs then? The “same rule” would be everybody has to navigate the step like everybody else.
          It should be obvious that the real concept is “equality in opportunity”. That takes into consideration the strengths and weaknesses of all. While, as a society we strive to make things more towards “equality in opportunity” for all, it does not translate to ignoring the inseparable advantages in one gender while creating systems that remove it from the other.
          You likely understand that, but cannot accept that it means you should work on your advantages rather than demanding others disadvantage themselves for your gain.

        28. Well you did call me a man hater. So I pointed out the certain things I don’t like that some men do. Even though none of those attributes are implied here sadly some men do think that way. Sad ,but true.

        29. It is not misogyny since this list is about how to translate certain behaviors into how likely an individual is to be sexually promiscuous. It neither makes judgement on women in general, nor does it incite any disrespect for women in general.
          Where does it suggest women need to be quiet and “conservative”? Where. Show us where.
          Dumb…. on to the personal insults now are we? Lol.

        30. The reason why they have wheelchair ramps is so anyone who is handicap can equally access buildings. Duh. So you’re saying women aren’t equal to men? How so? Oh, you men physically. Anything else? Oh, right there isn’t anything else. You are really making yourself a woman hater. You must have mommy issues. You know they have people and medication to help you with that.

        31. “Duh” is right. YOU were the one that stated, Equality was “equal rules”, not your opposition. You just agreed with us in stating that it is adherence to “Equal Access” that ramps are created to accommodate those that cannot navigate a curb as easy as someone that can walk. If it were “equal rules”, that would mean the same “curb” for everyone.
          Anything else? LOL. Well, you already CANNOT counter this physical strength dichotomy, so your premise already fails. Let’s see, the huge difference in innate spatial skills is another one. So you usual smugness has shown you to be WRONG again.
          Woman hater? That’s just the usual unsubstantiated label that misguided feminists love to throw up when their poor logic is exposed.
          Mommy issues? ROFL. You are really showing the everyone your level of maturity now. You seem familiar with the psychiatric treatment for delusional behavior. Perhaps you should check your prescription with your case worker.

        32. u must hate god and the world for males being the muscular species and women being the second class feminine species. why does a woman who becomes more successful, attract less males as time goes by??? why can’t these woman hold a relationship??? it’s cause you aren’t playing the feminine role. it’s the male role! most woman on this planet understand the relationship b/t males and females but feminist like yourself refuse to accept it… i have nothing against successful women but the main reason why women are put on this earth is to reproduce where kids need both male and female role models to grow mentally, physically and emotionally. preach your feminist values and u will never hold a relationship or get a man to reproduce with! Be a feminine and hate the world and males but at the end of the day it won’t change anything! unfortunately u can NEVER reprogram the primal relationships of males and females. it’s built into our DNA!

        33. I’m guessing your a kid Helena or really immature, cause kids get offensive and crack the shits when they hear the truth and cant accept it! If males and females were suppose to be the same we would have both sexually organs. It’s all primal at the end of the day, i just look at all these feminist like yourself as dysfunctional like the KKK where u both promote hatred. I just hope in time u accept the role of a woman for the last 100,000 years before u hit menopause!

        34. I’m guessing your a kid Helena or really immature, cause kids get offensive and crack the shits when they hear the truth and cant accept it! If males and females were suppose to be the same we would have both sexually organs. It’s all primal at the end of the day, i just look at all these feminist like yourself as dysfunctional like the KKK where u both promote hatred. I just hope in time u accept the role of a woman for the last 100,000 years before u hit menopause!

        35. WRONG, every male wants a woman like their grandma cause they are still together today for a reason! that’s what u call a happy relationship which is nearly impossible to have these days… ask yourself why??? who likes to go from breakup to breakup due to most women acting like feminists these days… Feminist want to play the male role where in a relationship this can never be cause it’s all primal, no one made the rules, it’s built into our DNA! hate it as as much want, it will never change anything!

        36. Oh, so by a woman doing all or some of the 24 things she’s promiscuous. Right. Sorry, but this is very judgmental. Just because she does any of this stuff doesn’t mean shit. A woman can not do any of this stuff and still be promiscuous. What about those women? Oh wait, let’s not talk about the women who don’t do this stuff. Dumbfuck.

        37. So if she does all or some of the 24 things she’s a slut ? This is very judgmental. Just because she does any of these things doesn’t mean shit. She can do none of these things, but still can be a slut. Oh, but let’s not talk about those girls. Dumbfuck.

        38. 1. I’m 30 years old. So I ain’t no kid. 2. Men and women are equal. So get over it. 3. I’m sure you find things offensive. So you must be a kid yourself. 4. My role? Oh, you must mean in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant (submissive and subservient) right? WRONG! Guess what the kitchen is where the knives are kept. Remember that. Too bad you keep going through women like I go through underwear because they realize that they don’t want a sexist punk like you.

        39. No. Are you seriously comprehensively challenged, or are you so adverse to admitting that you are incorrect that you have to ignore what was said with these misrepresentations?
          The model will yield a strong correlation with more promiscuity. That is all. What part of the concept of “propensity” do you not understand? Fundamentalists seem to only see things as extremes, and cannot accept that estimations are used all the time to successful determine a course of action.
          What about outliers? See the part about how exceptions to rule do not negate the rule. The retreat to the fallacy that “an exception means a trend is refuted” occurs so frequently with the childish arguments of misguided feminists that there’s a section devoted to it in the 7-most-common-feminist-insults article. LOL.
          Oh wait, let’s not state how you are the poster person for immature man-bashing.
          Why do you end your post with your full name? Just your first name of “Dumb” is good enough. Oh well, it must be frustrating to be wrong all the time.
          Try again.

        40. I’m a happy married man now where one day, i started doing allot of research and spoke to many happy married couples that have been in relationships for over 20 years and they told me this… Stay away from the “new age” woman (feminist)! A relationship with these kind of woman will never work! She will always put her needs ahead of your children and you and will fight you at every turn.
          Males, women, teenagers, children will never be equal. We all play a role in life where if a woman doesn’t play her role in a relationship, it’s nearly impossible for a relationship to work. Women like dominate males, males like feminine women, It’s built into us like all the other animals on the planet. U can’t fight it or denial it, just like the information in this article! As soon as the woman wants more power over the man, she loses attraction towards the male. Feminist woman will always push for pole position, they don’t want to be a good mother and look after their kids and husbands. They only care about HER NEED which always have to be first. She wouldn’t DARE to put her kids needs or husband needs ahead of herself. It would be a sin for her to show companion or compromise. She can do whatever she wants and doesn’t care about what her husband thinks or kids. It’s all about her, she is the center of the universe or else!!! Sounds like a child or a teenager doesn’t it? Seriously, would u want your friends to have this mentality or mother, father or love of your life? Wouldn’t u call this behavior as dysfunctional, immature or acceptable???
          A person life is shape around their upbringing. If no father is around, they will suffer with male problems for the rest of their life! Same with no mother. Most of them become traumatized where the only way to cope is to turn to drugs. I’m sure everyone here has seen their friend’s family break up and seen the impact on that person. Do they ever change back to the happy person before their parent’s broke up?? Children need guidance from both parents. And why… all this damage on children cause a woman wants POWER for herself and refuses to play the mother role which is seen as the worst thing a woman can do in western society today. Seriously, how mess up is our society today!
          The only reason why all the feminists are getting upset is cause “IT’S THE NATURAL PROGRAM OF A WOMAN” which u ALL DENIAL. U all want to be males, just like children want to act like adults, but should children be children or be adults?

        41. same principles, there is a dominate one and a submissive one! look closer or are u 2 inexperience to see it! it works the same with friendships, someone leads and the other is submissive, it happens all the time… u can’t have 2 alphas in the same room! god u really don’t know anything about life! one thing is for certain, we all know u don’t have a clue about how attraction works between males and females, i doubt that u will be able to see it!

        42. same principles, there is a dominate one and a submissive one! look closer or are u 2 inexperience to see it! it works the same with friendships, someone leads and the other is submissive, it happens all the time… u can’t have 2 alphas in the same room! god u really don’t know anything about life! one thing is for certain, we all know u don’t have a clue about how attraction works between males and females, i doubt that u will be able to see it!

        43. one more thing, if u have 4 people, there will be an alpha, someone second in charge, a follower and the last person is the person that usually gets picked on. THIS isn’t chosen, it’s automatically setup when u engage people. just like the roles of males and females. god… u feminists are so naive!

        44. Men have to work to be sexually successful – looks, charisma, power etc… Women do not. As the old saying goes – A key that opens many locks is a master key, a lock that is opened by many keys is well… a shitty lock.

        45. That is the the dumbest comment I ever read. 1. Not all all feminists are that way. Only a small percentage are that way. 2. I know plenty of of married feminists and they are are happily married. 3. Sounds like the people who you talked to are playing into the anti feminists bullshit lies that the Republicans spew. 4. Men can be feminists tand I know plenty) so I guess they must be self hating men right?

        46. So females aren’t supposed to be successful? So only men should be successful? Umm, that sounds just like some woman hating there. Of course, you want women in in their place as in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant with no successful jobs. By the dumbfuck there are plenty of successful women who are married. Look around you instead down you Fucking woman hating nose. You must be so jealous that there are women more successful then you. By the way pendejo, I’ve been in the same relationship for Fucking 3 years and yes he knows how I stand on women’s rights. So you can suck a big fat one.

        47. think about it this way. a key that can open multiple locks is pretty sweet, but a lock that is opened by many keys is kind of a shitty lock.. you see where i’m going with this?

        48. My name is dumb? You momma was dumb enough to not swallow. Like I told you I’m do NOT hate men. Only Only certain types of men. Misguided feminist. If I’m so misguided then please “enlighten” me oh, “enlightened one”. Lol.

        49. women have estrogen men have testosterone…if you fight that your fighting nature and you will lose…you can be as manly sas you want but real men will run from you in droves and that’s why you feminist are always so angry because no matter how hard you try you cant change shit you just end up angry and alone or with some pathetic excuse for a man..

        50. and men don’t hate all women just headstrong feminists like you who are always bitching about how unfair the world is. I wouldn’t want to be around anyone who is always complaining. the world is unfair in many ways and if you were a little less aggressive and not as intense about things men wouldn’t feel so defensive and might be more willing to listen to where you were coming from. this goes for all situations in life and I hope you see this and maybe it will change your perspective on things

        51. Ummm, no. That’s untrue. What if the guy is a feminist and treats the woman equally. I guess according to you that man must be “pathetic”. Well, the only “pathetic” men I see is the idiot who wrote this article and the angry woman haters who agree with him.

        52. Yea, because of your male privilege right? Guess what sweetie? Women are still getting paid less then men. We still have men men who think they should have a say in our health care (think Republicans). So yeah, damn right we are angry. You would be too if it happened to you, but it’s not so get over your male privilege.

        53. You’ve already been “enlightened” here, you “misguided feminist”. Your name is dumb because you signed your last post “dumbfuck” you moron. You HATE men because you don’t even make any sense.

        54. Male privilege? More whining is what everybody hears. You get a chance to discuss stuff here and you go on a male-bash fest. You don’t acknowledge when you are wrong. You just like to bitch and complain. You don’t represent women. You represent whiny little children that don’t like it when they are failures because of themselves.

        55. You get equal treatment when you earn it. The guest never said or hinted at that at all. Your the typical childish person that thinks everything is everybody else’s fault but yours. Everybody can see that you are the pathetic one.

        56. “So females arent’ supposed to be successful?”
          Where is you READING COMPREHENSION? Paul wrote that when women choose to be successful using male methods, she will give something up in the female ways. You have some sort of real bias if you read “aren’t supposed to be successful” out of that. Your hostility is why your posts do nothing but make more and more people have less and less sympathy for your “cause”.

        57. Right said, Paul. All these troll feminists are angry little children that want all the powers of men AND all the powers of women. The truth is that they do very little building of their woman powers and expect the world to give them a special pass for their lack of man powers.
          They are losers in both ways. Thus, the hostility we all see here.

        58. Whatever dude. And I was calling the person I was talking to a dumbfuck. Stupid fucktard. Also I’m not a misguided feminist. Obviously, you don’t even know what feminism is. It’s not about hating men. In fact, it’s about fighting for equal rights for all regardless of anything. Apparently, you need to stop listening to those Republicans. You misguided misogynist.

        59. Stfu no one cares about you. And so so what if a a woman wants to give up he female ways. Why is it always about men? Some misogynist men don’t want women to be successful. They want them subservient and submissive. It is happening now. Believe it or not.

        60. Yea, well respect goes both ways. Wow. Way to be a copy cat. Learn something original to say say retard.

        61. Excuse me we don’t get paid as much as men and our bodies are are being regulated by who? Men. So So yes, we have a a right to bitch and and moan because we we women are are being treated unfairly. Since when has men’s bodies have been regulated an since when has men received less less then women? Never so yes men have this male privilege going on. So Stfu pendejo.

        62. The only loser I see is you troll. Yet, you call us trolls yet your name is dumb as Fuck. Feminists only want equal rights for everyone asshat. Stop drinking that kool-aid that that the Republicans keep making you drink.

        63. You’re looking in the mirror if you see a troll. All you know how to do is call people names like the little child coward that you are.

        64. Lolz. You squeeze out the usual crap that angry little haters do and you call others “copy cats”. The mental retardation is showing.

        65. No one cares, yet you respond. It’s obvious that you care. Why is it always about men? Well, what is this site about? What a moron. Some people do other things too. That’s not relevant to what this thread is about. You are just here to promote your brand of man-hating.

        66. LOL. You got called out and shown to be WRONG. You can’t even admit that the person turned it around on you (quite nicely too.) You ARE the typical feminist. Check out your name-calling, resorting to the usual “well, THAT isn’t feminism” excuse, bringing in Republicans (What the fuck?? what does American politics have to do with this), etc.
          You need to stop and listen to yourself. You are filled with hate and lash out at anyone and anything that you think is the reason why you don’t personally succeed. The problem is you. Stop blaming others.

        67. Like I keep saying to you retarded men I don’t hate men only certain types. So stfu. I don’t see men get shamed for what they do. In fact, they get praised. Women don’t get praised. That’s because men have learned that women are supposed to be property. It shows when shit goes down women always get blamed. It goes all the way back to blaming eve the so called first woman of the bible. You are a perfect example of how patriarchy screws us all.

        68. I’m hating? Haha. I would definitely say the exact same thing bub. To bad you hate women. What is it that you hate about women? Is it because you men realize you no longer can control us? Too bad so sad.

        69. 1. What does Republicans have to do with this? Uhh, have you read the news lately? The Republicans hate women it’s a known fact. Not mention the religitards too. 2. Feminism is not bad. You forget that feminists are the one’s who fought for your mother’s, your sister’s, your whole female family the rights we have. Asswipe. Feminism is not the men hsters, but the one’s not only fight for their rights,but for everyone else’s rights. Look at the definition of feminism. It doesn’t say you should or become a man hater. No, it says everything, but that you typical trashy male.

        70. Oh, yeah, and you haven’t? Bitch please. Isn’t calling me a man hating feminist name calling or is that different? Oh, I forgot men can do no wrong.

        71. First, you’ve fundamentally misunderstood feminism. Feminists are not trying to be men. They are trying to be people! Of course there are biological differences, but my breasts don’t impair my thinking or my worth any more than your penis impairs yours. I am your equal, just as I am.
          Secondly, even if we except the existence of ‘sluts’, the above article is in no way 99% correct. Despite claiming ‘simple biology’ as justification, Tuthmosis seems incapable of actually understanding it. Big boobs do not make a woman promiscous. Neither does body hair. Wanting to have sex with lots of men makes women promiscuous – and so what? How does it affect you? You seem willing enough to accept it when you wanted one night stands, but you expect everyone else to change when you decide to settle down. This is at best childish, and at worst arrogant. No-one’s sexual choices are in any way your business, so live your life the way you want to, and let others lead their own.

        72. Also the reason why men are getting treated like shit now is because of men treating women like shit. So I guess it’s karma. They do say karma is a bitch and she bites back. If men didn’t treat women like shit for thousands of years then men wouldn’t treated the same way. So maybe you men should suck it up. You get what you deserve.

        73. Seriously…glad to see the age old formula of years of oppression and gender classifications of both sexes is still going strong in our society… I suggest you open your eyes and mind to the real world, however I suppose you can’t control another humans emotional intelligence. (Especially if you are a man, as this is is surely just another gender specific “truth”, that women are more emotionally aware which translates to higher emotional intelligence). Oh well, one day we can hope for males to be on the same level as us…lets hope its sooner rather than later.

        74. In that same vein, surely that’s the only reason males were put on this earth as well…? Your argument does not make sense. You need to seriously consider what you say and for your own sake adjust your value system. Both genders are equally important in the role of species promotion, and as such should equally be respected. “Feminism” is equality and equal respect. It is not about hating males, or placing women as higher, you need to do some research before you embarrass yourself any further with your poorly constructed theories.

        75. The reason why people respond to the article and your points with no respect is because this article was written with no respect. No respect to both genders – it obviously portraits some aspects of women badly but even worse is how it makes the writer and some men by default come across (including anyone remotely agreeing with the original article). At the end of the day the writer of this article is the real looser, and has done a disservice to all men out there, both genders should be equally against this sort of bad article. But I feel sorry for the person who wrote it, if he really believes these. He obviously has very little respect for himself and this translates to how he views others.

        76. Wrong as usual. You got it turned back at you and you can’t take it. All the name-calling in the world isn’t going to change that.
          Not a misguided feminist? As if. You totally are since you hide behind any tru e campaign for “equal opportunity” to promote your hatred. The proof is in how you repeatedly use false support in order to push your agenda. A few of these are now documented…
          Called out on misrepresenting James Flynn:

          24 Signs She’s A Slut


          Called out on mispresenting HIV infection rates:

          8 Ways To Spot A Transsexual


          Called out on mispresenting Pat Roberson:

          8 Ways To Spot A Transsexual


          Not about hating men? The real spirit of movements for “equal opportunity” isn’t, but YOU ARE. You are just trying to hide behind others. That is why you are labelled a MISGUIDED FEMINIST. You get this, and the retreat to name-calling is clear proof of that.
          Apparently you need a lesson in basic logic before you try parroting others. You call people mysogynistic, yet you have no foundation. You say they are listening to Republicans, yet you have no foundation.
          You have been caught MAKING UP SHIT.
          Now you have been reduced to just shouting out pejoratives. You are nothing but an angry little child that has nothing and resorts to trolling.

        77. Let’s see…
          1. Republican’s:
          Whether or not they generally “hate women” or not is one thing. You have providing some evidence that your opposition is listening to, or adhering to their policies is another. As you have not demonstrated any such thing… your assessment is unsupported. You are blowing smoke (as usual).
          2. Feminism:
          No one said that “feminism” was bad. That’s just using the typical straw-man argument that people that have no position often resort to.
          You are called a MISGUIDED feminist for a reason. That reason is that you are NOT about seeking equality in opportunity (yes, look up the definition of your beloved agenda before you start thinking others don’t know what it is about). You are hiding behind feminism to exact your brand of revenge on men. Zealots like you did not fight for justice for anybody’s mother, sister or family. They just fight against anyone they hate. For you, it is clearly anyone that represents someone that you perceive to have slighted you in the past. That person was likely a man, so you rationalize it, and hate men.
          True feminism is not about man-hating… YOU clearly ARE.
          No one has said or hinted at real campaigns for “equality in opportunity” as man-hating. As usual, you are misrepresenting those you cannot refute. This is the typical behavior of those that choose to blame OTHERS for their own inability to earn respect.

        78. lol. That’s the usual “Who me? but you do it too” excuse by trolls.
          NO. While you focus on name-calling like “ass-hat”, “bitch”, etc… people label you for EXACTLY what you are. That you demonstrate a hate for men has been supported with evidence (try providing some evidence that your opposition is a toque for tooshs. ROFL). That you are a MISGUIDED feminist is also clearly shown. You don’t promote the values of “equal opportunity for all”, you promote the “I’m right, and everybody else is wrong” fundamentalist cry.
          You forget, people (men or women) can easily see through you. Your “picture” is no better than some random jpg, so, no, you are still the cowardly child that you pretend not to be.

        79. Put out one good movie on Lifetime. Just one!
          PS: Delta Burke cannot be in it as she would minimize any quality scripting, plot, etc.

        80. No. The reason that some women in the First World are so self-serving is because it’s easier to do so in First World society. It’s not because of any built up debt of bad treatment. That kind of vendetta is the aspiration of hostile fundamentalists.
          The penalties for being (and not just acting) like spoiled little children are not immediately felt, so these self-serving “you go girl” types feel that the world is theirs to use and abuse. It only when they start to lose their “woman powers”. There’s nothing as pathetic as an aging princess (you know, the over-30’s that realize that getting away with crap isn’t like it was when they were 19). Some think they can make a go of it by being a cougar, but that’s the ones that have the ability to maintain a 20-something body. Most can’t.
          Most men and women have little issue with this. It’s only the angry little babies that think it’s some problem with society that they aren’t as successful as they fantasize themselves to be.
          You are right in one regard. You reap what YOU have sown. Your inability to admit fault (WELL demonstrated here) manifests as anger and hostility to towards others. All that rage just bounces off others and back at you.
          Neither I nor others you attack here harbor that kind of hatred. You do. Yes, you get what you deserve.

        81. Wow. Good for you pendejo. Guess what? No woman would want you anyway with that thinking(at least no normal girl would)

        82. Self serving? Isn’t that what the men do here. Patriarchy religions treat women like shit. After all it’s man then woman then children then animals. Matriarchal religions are just as bad. Women powers? All want is to be treated equally and with the same respect as you men expect. I know what crap I can’t get away with. If I hit a guy in anger I would expect to get hit back. I know that killing someone would land me in prison or breaking in a house will get me either shot or in prison. Actions always have consequences good or bad depending on what it is. That’s life. Yea, maybe I shouldn’t gotten so angry, but look at it from a woman’s perspective. We are constantly objectified, viewd as property, as sexual playthings. Although both sexes are shamed if we have sex before marriage women are taking the blunt of it with those anti choice politians and religitards. So I guess we women are tired of the bullshit men have put us through. Can you really blame us? You would do the same if it happened to your sex right? Even the lbgt has had enough of the bullshit patriarchy religions put them through.

        83. Actually, I do want want equal rights for everyone. I’m sick and tired of men telling us that we aren’t equal and that we don’t deserve the same respect and rights as them. Sure, we aren’t as physically strong as them, but are just as smart as them and apparently live longer than them. You sure as hell don’t like it when women tell you that you aren’t equal right? Now flip that around and you should understand that we women shouldn’t have to take shit from Ya’ll. In fact, no should take shit from no one.

        84. You should be shaming these “women” for embarrassing and being a disgrace to the Western civilization.
          You feminists just can’t stand that men are waking up to these scummy “women”, and that they’re learning to identify them and look elsewhere for quality women. Go on, keep typing. You’re only proving that feminists like yourself are only good for a laugh. Especially when you say “All males are needed for is sperm.” then later on claim that you don’t hate men.
          Guess who built the house/apartment you live in? Or the computer/phone you’re typing on? Or the chair that is supporting your [email protected]? Oh, that’s right – men.
          What have modern women done, other than constantly demean men/masculinity and slut/whore around? Complain, complain, whine, whine their way into certain occupations – occupations they couldn’t attain based on achievements alone. Plus, bringing about the economic disaster/over-spending (credit cards/shopping) and single-motherhood epidemics.
          So – no, YOU STFU.

        85. When you hear things like, “All males are needed for is sperm.” over and over enough times by enough feminists – you start to see what feminism is really after. If you’re for equal rights, you would be a humanitarian/egalitarian.

        86. Actually, you must have daddy issues, like 99% of feminists. Research the early feminists – they had mental disorders.
          Also it has been shown that men respond better to high-danger/stress situations (like war zones) – the chemicals in their brain go back to normal after a few hours, compared to 24-48 hours for women. Men are typically better than women at tasks/careers that use pure logic/rational thinking, and yes, there are exceptions – but they are rare. Men and women have different strengths. This truth should be embraced – not shunned, stifled and despised.

        87. What if women agree with this article because time after time they’ve seen these disgusting signs in their peers? Point is, this disgusting, lewd behaviour should (rightfully) be shamed. If you want to remian ignorant and paint all people who think outside the box – go right ahead, but don’t falsely label them as something they aren’t. Who are you to cast judgement anyway? Also, why are you even here, you obviously don’t share the same views as this website…

        88. Okay, in that case which one are you? If people are neither, then their opinions really should not be counted in this. If the intent is to disrupt and essentially cause or perpetuate hatred like this article does then that does not deserve any attention.
          I acknowledge what you say, in how sometimes feminism can be mis-conceived as man hating, but this sort of reaction is undermining the whole point of the movement. The main problem is this; people really don’t acknowledge how serious this is in some cultures. Racism has a higher stigma attached to it, to judge someone on their race is generally accepted as not done in this day and age, but there is still this massive problem with women’s rights across the world. It is still acceptable to call someone a feminist and think this is some form of insult.
          The fact is, it really is a serious problem, one where some women die at the hands of the people who are meant to protect them most – family.

        89. I am not sure how you can comment on judgment, this article is full of it. It is worse than the false “sings” portrayed. I would say if you want to remain ignorant, it is you (and anyone else who agrees) who should continue in your current frame of mind. In doing so you will inevitably miss out on a lot of genuine, amazing experiences in this life. And unfortunately for you, we only live once, you won’t get this chance again.
          I am here to offer a different perspective and to show that, normal, rational human beings do actually exist. You are right I definitely do not share the views of this website, it is destructive and unecessary. I would rather not have stumbled across something so vile and full of hatred, but I did. This type of thing should not exist in the world, but it does for now and will continue to as long as we continue to feed it hatred, which is exactly the point of this article. To ignite hatred in various forms and between various groups of people.

        90. You may THINK you want “equal rights” for everyone, but all your posts are far more towards gaining advantages for women while ignoring the advantages they already have (and are not practically removed).
          Whether you are “sick and tired” of being told women are not equal to men, doesn’t change the evidence that the genders differ, and differ greatly. They are NOT equal in the natural scenario. They both play a role in the promotion and well-being of the species, but they are not equal by design. What you ask for is literally the creation of an artificial environment that sufficiently removes the advantages of the male, but does not disturb the those that the female holds.
          As you say, males generally physically stronger (and by a large margin too) while both genders are generally matched in the ability to successfully solve mental challenges. (Note: it is couched that way, because, male and female humans utilize different cognitive skills to arrive at solutions)
          Based on that, specimen “A” is equally mentally adept to specimen “B”, but specimen “A” also possesses greater physical strength. It should be obvious that one already has more than the other (again, based on your scenario).
          Can you not understand that man (As kind as we males are) removes the physical constraints of the natural world to make it more “equal” for women… yet we get crybaby’s complaining that it isn’t enough.
          Like most guys, I don’t care if some misinformed or speciously motivated person tells me lies. Some women jump and scream about inequity because they PERSONALLY are angry about their own inabilities. That too does not matter to most people. All that has to be done is to point it out. Others can easily see who is trolling and who isn’t.
          Take no shit from anyone?
          Humility is a personal choice. Like in everything in life, choices come with consequences. Being as irreverent of others as possible likely earns you a complete lack of respect. Choose it often enough on private sites like this and find out what happens.

        91. No offense, but what you just said is the stupidiest thing i´ve ever heard. I work construction and everyday you see more and more women who have more “balls” than guys like you to work on a hard job to support their families. By the way the computer you are typing on was propably built in Asia and more that half of the staff that work on Asian factories are women. Lets think before we talk. I dont like extreme feminist either but i don like a girl that believes she is worthless.

        92. Well first calm down a little bit and lets discuss and normal people. I do agree that its wrong how our society is made. A guy can sleep with a million girls and nobody cares, but one girl get a one night stand and then she is a slut. Look i personally like “good girls” but i do not judge nobody, everyone should be able to do whatever they want or need to be happy as long as they dont affect other peoples life. Now, i feel a lot of attraction for good girls but its not because she likes or dislikes sex but because its a girl that want sucked up by our everyday worst society and that makes me think she has a strong personality and i like that… Anyway the only question i ask myself is why if girls should be exactly as men we both were created different and just as in animal the female is the one who decides who and when to have sex. A key that opens many locks is a master key, a lock that is opened by many keys is well… a shitty lock.
          Just my point of view

        93. Actually, you’re wrong, but thanks for thinking know my life. I don’t have daddy issues. My dad treated my mom and me as equals. I think it is you who has mommy issues and 99% of feminists do NOT have daddy issues. If that was true then the men who are feminists must have daddy issues too. Yet, most men who are MRAs have severe mommy issues. Is that you? Early feminists did not have mental illness. That’s bullshit told to you by a MRAs. I don’t know what studies you studied, but they’re are called shit science. If that was true about men respond better to high-danger/stress situations (like war zones) then why are there more and more soldiers coming home having mental health problems and it affects men and women the same.

        94. Well said. Yea, I did get angry I’m not saying I was right, I’m just sick and tird of it all.

        95. No. I never said women should be above men and that women should have more advantages then men. Yes, we have most of the same rights as men do, but I’m just saying we are still not treated equally see previous commentson how much a woman gets paid and how there’s this thing called the war on women’s reproductive rights. Yes, I rather not take shit from anyone because I rather not lay down and get fucked in the ass.

        96. I disagree with you, humans have sex for pleasure, animals have sex for reproduction. Sometimes we have sex disorder and that enslaves us to only think about sex. We need to pay attention to other things that make our life worthy.
          I agree that most of these signs describe a slutty girl. In my case I´ve seen that quiet and shy women, are the ones who like sex the most, they are damn hot at sex

        97. that´s true my friend. I´ve seen women have more opportunities to be successful than men, cause they have other techniques such as flirtiness, and use the pussy to get what they want

        98. whatever women say about men, they can´t live without a cock. No matter how feminist they are, the crave for a big piece of meat

        99. Actually, all we need is your sperm and a good vibrating dildo. That’s why there are sperm banks. Lol.

        100. I don’t remember him calling sluts bad. Fuckin A, I should write this list on the bathroom wall everywhere I go. Paul did a better job with this book than most of the epistles in the New Testament. Oh yeah, 2 more to add to the list: Bitches washin your feet with their hair. and don’t forget bitches bout to get stoned (the bad kind of stoned) by a crowd of angry wives.

        101. I have never thought feminists were so hopeless. Only misguided until i read your posts. If you are some anti-feminist person seeking to damage feminism you are kicking ass!! Its not property DB, it who is left holding the baby. YOur next post should tell us how the vagina reigns supreme because it encounters the penis and destroys mans greatest erections to rumble…..but then you will take the pepsi challenge and I’ll turn your bitchass out andput you to work doin whatever daddy says to whoever daddy tells you. You are no different than any of the other bitches who just need a man to rule over them. Tell me your Hoe-ass doesn’t want a man to come over and dominate your pussy. No matter what you say.. You know you want it and you want it from the first guy that tells you to stfu and smacks you across the face with his cock salami while you are just lappin it it on all 4’s Even lilith loved Adams cock if that is what you were talking about? or wwere y ou talkin about kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

        102. There are sperm banks b/c Men wanna get paid to get laid, but they can’t stand you, so they just drop off a load and tell you go fuck a popsicle and you pay for it.

        103. You are right when you said “All males are needed” you should have stopped there or finishied the list with all the ways you enjoy living under the dominion of a penis. I know you fantasize about being raped, don’t you.?

        104. stick to construction, words are for communicating with other thoughtful individuals. Don’t you know that it’s TACO TUESDAY somewhere all the time? Therefore you shall not post anymore to this thread unless you do so without using the letter T.

        105. Feminism is fucking RETARDED. You want equality bitch? How bout I punch you in the mouth. You better not be cryin about payin for your man when you go out either. If I ever see a man open a door for you I will slam it in your face. Here is your equality you dumb bitch. but no, you wanna pick and choose. Then you wonder why there are no “good guys” because even though we are all really good mind readers there is nothing in your head but a fart. Told you stay out of the Dutch oven. You have no idea about equality, how bout stop cryin and dry your eyes. How bout you buy me the kinda shit you golddiggin hos look for? fuck it i don’t want it anyway. I just wanna let you know that you don’t even know what you are asking for. Feminism was a short sighted philosophy for liberation of females or it was well intended policy to destroy the family

        106. There is no point in talking with someone like you. I feel sorry for you, as I can’t see that you have any happiness in your life. And no I will not regress to childish name calling. You should feel quite proud of yourself right about now. Please carry on, the only person you’re showing up is yourself. Its obvious you don’t have the intelligence to have any sort of real debate. Good luck.

        107. How about no. Wow. You’re gonna get so many women thinking that way. Not. Too bad your blow up girlfriend is the only one who understands you. No, I’m an independent woman who in reality doesn’t need a man. As I already have my own money. Although, men like you turn our stomach. So good luck with that cave man mentality.

        108. Sweetie we call those male prostitutes. Are you a male prostitute? Women can’t stand men like you so that’s why there are sperm banks because men like you don’t deserve to even be with a woman. Even if she ends up having sex she’ll use you then the next day dump your ass because you ain’t good for nothing.

        109. The problem with the world is assholes like you(and the person who wrote this article of course) thinking that it is the “male role” to sleep around and the “female role” to not. All Amanda was saying is that a woman isn’t “bad” if she wants to sleep with multiple people just like some men do. Why is it “disrespectful” to herself if a woman wants to and chooses to sleep with multiple men, but somehow it’s not “disrespectful” to HIMself for a man to sleep with multiple women? As long as your being true to your heart and its desires and needs then you are respecting yourself. Most women who have one night stands don’t have them because they’re lacking self respect, and they don’t need to be tricked into doing it, they do it because they’re horny just like men and want sex. In fact, I think a woman who DOESN’T have one night stands even when she wants to because she is scared of what people(men and women) will think of her, has LESS self respect than a woman who owns her sexuality and shares it with whomever she wants to.
          The problem lies in how men view women who chose to do that. Men are(and have been for DECADES) manipulating women into feeling badly about themselves if they give into their very human instincts. Most men have a problem with women wanting multiple sexual partners because they’re insecure. Over time men have perpetuated this idea that women who sleep with multiple men are sluts, JUST to make themselves feel better(although over time women have followed suit calling other women sluts too which doesn’t help the situation). I mean come on, it would suck to meet a really attractive and cool chick only to find out she’s already been with some guys around town, maybe even an acquaintance or friend! Come on men, who would want that sort of ego blow?! Better just try to avoid that by making women feel badly if they sleep around. And if male insecurity isn’t the reason for branding women “sluts” then what is really? Because it sure as hell isn’t a FACT. It really is immaturity and manipulation at it’s finest, and playing the “male/female natural instincts card” is bullshit. Men are pretty clever, they have figured out a way to manipulate women into feeling bad for wanting to do and doing THE EXACT SAME THING MANY OF THEM ENJOY DOING because for whatever reason they don’t want us enjoying the same frivolities as they do. Why the fuck shouldn’t we enjoy them?
          Yes, it is true that in nature most females and males only have sex to reproduce, and in many cases it is the male who calls the shots but not in all cases, not by a long shot . Guess men choose to ignore these cases though because they don’t serve to further their argument, but who says that humans fall under this “general” category and not under the “exceptions” category? I mean after all, we do have one overwhelmingly obvious difference; choice. Along with our instincts comes the choice of acting or not acting upon those, whereas most other species literally just live their life by instincts and behaviours, they don’t think past survival. Men who “sleep around” are making the choice to sleep with multiple women, it’s not like someone is twisting their arms telling them to do it, they’re doing it because they want to. They just have a big problem with women wanting to do the same thing, so they make another choice; to deem those women who enjoy multiple partners as sluts. It’s not like it HAS to be that way, it’s a choice that was made by men (and continues to be made everyday by men (and women too)).
          Ps, if you’re wondering about some “exceptions” in nature then check out the Barbary Macaque(Barbary Ape) who’s females mate with as many males as possible, and who’s males actually have a larger role in caring for the young. Penguins mate for life, and the male is the one who warms the egg while the female hunts for food. Female squids also mate with many partners in order to get the best possible dna. So for men to play the nature card is a cowardly, easy and lazy way to make their “argument” seem more true.
          “Be a feminine and hate the world and males but at the end of the day it won’t change anything! unfortunately u can NEVER reprogram the primal relationships of males and females. it’s built into our DNA!”
          Paul we’re not hating males, we’re just asking to enjoy the same judgement free sexual freedom as men do, because no, it’s not built in a woman’s dna to NOT want multiple partners. It is a woman’s freedom and right as a human being to do as she wishes with her body, and to be scorned, called names and looked down on for doing that is insanely immature. If women seem like they’re hating men it’s because we’re being disrespected and hated by them. It’s the men showing hate towards women by writing slanderous shit such as this article, so how about MEN stop hating the world and females, and let us live our lives the way we each want to according to our individual tastes and preferences. I mean, should I start judging men who DON’T sleep with as many women as possible and calling them pussies? No, because everyone should just sleep with as many or as little people as they wish (so long as it’s consensual of course). How about men just grow up already.

        110. HEY EVERYBODY… The guy that wrote this is a complete wanker and an asshole…i have tattoos, have travelled, and even cussed but im no slut… sounds like he cant even get a date.. so ASSHOLE if you read this… not every female is a slut.. go and stick your head back in the sand… if there is any SLUTS around.. it would have to be YOU

        111. A women’s purpose is NOT simply to reproduce. And your so-called “God” given ideas of what men and women can or shouldn’t do are HUMAN CONSTRUCTS. that’s right, PEOPLE made them up!

        112. Ever looked up feminism in the dictionary? No? Well, here I did it for you: “the advocacy of women’s rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men.” There. That’s it!

        113. The difference is men are praised and respected for being sluts. When a women is called a slut it is completely derogatory, just like the above article.
          I hate everyone who supports this bullshit. I really do.

        114. Don’t you ever, ever, ever, ever, EVER say ANYONE fantasises about being raped. That is never something to joke about EVER.
          Feminism is about EQUALITY between men and women… so it’s not right to say that “all males are needed for is sperm” because EVERYONE is needed… no one species or race or gender is any better than the other, we are all different and unique and full of amazing things to offer.
          So, I realise that the previous comment was uncalled for but you should never EVER tell ANYONE they “fantasise about being raped”.

        115. actually no i have never met my father and my mum is a single mother and im literally fine and happy so shh

        116. And a pen that lets itself be sharpened by lots of pencil-sharpeners becomes shittier as well. Let’s not try to argue women’s sexual rights with stupid euphemisms.

        117. Sorry, I do open doors for men, too. I am a feminist, and you want to know something? My boyfriends is, too! Because equality is not about opening doors or being a gentleman, it’s about treating each other with equal respect.

        118. Fair to say there are crazy feminists and also crazy chauvinists. There’s always a bad crop in every group. Realistically websites like this one are what add fuel to the feminist flame. I can’t believe it still exists.

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        183. There are other mammals that have sex for pleasure.
          It seems like a lot of people on this website posting about their multiple one night stands are also quite slutty. Perhaps their hardships with all the sluts in the world are well deserved

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          It seems like a lot of people on this website posting about their multiple one night stands are also quite slutty. Perhaps their hardships with all the sluts in the world are well deserved

        185. I’ve seen women become more successful than some men because they are intelligent and emotionally balanced human beings with strong work ethics. I have also seen men become more successful than some woman for the exact same reason.

        186. I’ve seen women become more successful than some men because they are intelligent and emotionally balanced human beings with strong work ethics. I have also seen men become more successful than some woman for the exact same reason.

        187. I’ve seen women become more successful than some men because they are intelligent and emotionally balanced human beings with strong work ethics. I have also seen men become more successful than some woman for the exact same reason.

        188. Gamers exist because some people can’t handle the stress of reality or prefer fantasy. It has nothing to do with the sexual preferences of girls and women.

        189. ‘feminism can be misconceived as man hating,’
          This is exactly the problem, it’s not misconceived as man hating anymore than the KKK is misconceived as racist. Your group, feminism, has actual man-haters in it, and they’re more often than not LEADING your group. When we tell you that you need to keep a reign on them, it’s exactly the same concept as women suggesting men form movements to fight for their rights, and we do it because we know there are actual feminists who want to establish real equal rights for women, but if you let your leaders paint you all in the same light, you can’t claim that we’re stereotyping you, you’re stereotyping yourself.

        190. Your analogy is ridiculously false. You;’re comparing the KKK to feminists? The KKK was a hate group designed to stop African American’s from achieving equality. It was aimed at keeping them as a subordinate, second class. Feminism, on the other hand, is the complete opposite. It is geared towards achieving equal rights! Just because some women may hate men, does not mean that you can classify all feminists as man haters. All KKK members were classified as racist because they were ALL racist. That was the nature of the group. Feminists are not man haters by nature. If there is a small minority who do, you cannot define the entire group by those few. Some men rape women, so are all men rapists? This is the kind of logic you’re trying to apply here.

        191. No, the logic I’m implying, as you’re putting it forth, is that if the President and Prime Minister were rapists, noone’s going to look at their country and think ‘Land of the Free’ I’m well aware that feminism and the KKK are wildly different. You don’t seem to be aware that their respective leaders, really aren’t. It’s up to the group to oust them, or we’ll assume they represent you, obviously.

        192. Amanda…I love you. You deserve cookies every day for this wicked little gem of sarcastic writing. You have made my day 200% better. Thank you. =)

        193. Actually it’s men who can’t live without women.
          You see, studies have shown that single women live longer lives than married women. On the other hand, single men live shorter lives than married ones.
          Good luck making it past the age of 50.

        194. This site is unbelievably retarded.
          I stumbled across an article and carried on reading through and I’m pretty astounded at the pitiful levels of incoherent ball-baggery people spout.
          I’m a woman, however, I consider myself comfortably detached from both attitudes. I think both feminism and chauvinism are pretty hypocritical. A feminist cannot preach equal treatment to that of a man and then later cry because a guy didn’t hold a door open for her. Similarly, a man cannot argue that a woman’s place is solely for sandwich making, and spawning and caring for children, merely because men “don’t happen to have vaginas”. I find this argument laughable, what about the other animals on the Earth? Like the male penguin, I don’t see them arguing their precious masculinity when they’re incubating their eggs.
          Masculinity my ass, I imagine the majority of these “manly men” to be nothing more than greasy string-vest wearing assholes who throw punches and empty beer cans at their wives for burning the roast. And femininity is not being a subservient housewife.
          Life does not have to be a dick-waving contest, but yet we still struggle for power. We have lived on this planet together now for long enough to respect each other, and co-operate to use each other for our strengths and weaknesses. Men feel they are natural providers, this is a fair statement, my boyfriend loves the idea of taking care of me, but never would he dream of stripping me of my aspirations or interests so that I could merely stay at indoors and tend to the home. However, if I decided that this was all I wanted to do, he’d also respect me enough to accept this as my decision, and of course I’d do the same. Unlike you folks, he doesn’t require clinging onto a false macho bravado to reassure himself that he is a man. And personally, I believe this makes him more of a man than any of the bumbling morons I’ve witnessed on here.
          We’re all human. We’re all the same
          For Christ’s sake, deal with it ladies and gents.
          And regarding this article
          For the record, I’m a 21 year old film music composer, with tattoos, a pierced nose, who frequently experiments with my hair colour. I think I’m perfectly feminine regardless of enjoying the occasional beer and video games. I’m in a perfectly happy long-term relationship WITH A MAN THAT DOESN’T BEAT ME IF I DON’T MAKE HIM A SANDWICH.
          My total number of partners is two, my current boyfriend and my first boyfriend, who I dated for over a year.
          Slut you say?
          Jolly Good <3 XOXO

        195. This site is unbelievably retarded.
          I stumbled across an article and carried on reading through and I’m pretty astounded at the pitiful levels of incoherent ball-baggery people spout.
          I’m a woman, however, I consider myself comfortably detached from both attitudes. I think both feminism and chauvinism are pretty hypocritical. A feminist cannot preach equal treatment to that of a man and then later cry because a guy didn’t hold a door open for her. Similarly, a man cannot argue that a woman’s place is solely for sandwich making, and spawning and caring for children, merely because men “don’t happen to have vaginas”. I find this argument laughable, what about the other animals on the Earth? Like the male penguin, I don’t see them arguing their precious masculinity when they’re incubating their eggs.
          Masculinity my ass, I imagine the majority of these “manly men” to be nothing more than greasy string-vest wearing assholes who throw punches and empty beer cans at their wives for burning the roast. And femininity is not being a subservient housewife.
          Life does not have to be a dick-waving contest, but yet we still struggle for power. We have lived on this planet together now for long enough to respect each other, and co-operate to use each other for our strengths and weaknesses. Men feel they are natural providers, this is a fair statement, my boyfriend loves the idea of taking care of me, but never would he dream of stripping me of my aspirations or interests so that I could merely stay at indoors and tend to the home. However, if I decided that this was all I wanted to do, he’d also respect me enough to accept this as my decision, and of course I’d do the same. Unlike you folks, he doesn’t require clinging onto a false macho bravado to reassure himself that he is a man. And personally, I believe this makes him more of a man than any of the bumbling morons I’ve witnessed on here.
          We’re all human. We’re all the same
          For Christ’s sake, deal with it ladies and gents.
          And regarding this article
          For the record, I’m a 21 year old film music composer, with tattoos, a pierced nose, who frequently experiments with my hair colour. I think I’m perfectly feminine regardless of enjoying the occasional beer and video games. I’m in a perfectly happy long-term relationship WITH A MAN THAT DOESN’T BEAT ME IF I DON’T MAKE HIM A SANDWICH.
          My total number of partners is two, my current boyfriend and my first boyfriend, who I dated for over a year.
          Slut you say?
          Jolly Good <3 XOXO

        196. This site is unbelievably retarded.
          I stumbled across an article and carried on reading through and I’m pretty astounded at the pitiful levels of incoherent ball-baggery people spout.
          I’m a woman, however, I consider myself comfortably detached from both attitudes. I think both feminism and chauvinism are pretty hypocritical. A feminist cannot preach equal treatment to that of a man and then later cry because a guy didn’t hold a door open for her. Similarly, a man cannot argue that a woman’s place is solely for sandwich making, and spawning and caring for children, merely because men “don’t happen to have vaginas”. I find this argument laughable, what about the other animals on the Earth? Like the male penguin, I don’t see them arguing their precious masculinity when they’re incubating their eggs.
          Masculinity my ass, I imagine the majority of these “manly men” to be nothing more than greasy string-vest wearing assholes who throw punches and empty beer cans at their wives for burning the roast. And femininity is not being a subservient housewife.
          Life does not have to be a dick-waving contest, but yet we still struggle for power. We have lived on this planet together now for long enough to respect each other, and co-operate to use each other for our strengths and weaknesses. Men feel they are natural providers, this is a fair statement, my boyfriend loves the idea of taking care of me, but never would he dream of stripping me of my aspirations or interests so that I could merely stay at indoors and tend to the home. However, if I decided that this was all I wanted to do, he’d also respect me enough to accept this as my decision, and of course I’d do the same. Unlike you folks, he doesn’t require clinging onto a false macho bravado to reassure himself that he is a man. And personally, I believe this makes him more of a man than any of the bumbling morons I’ve witnessed on here.
          We’re all human. We’re all the same
          For Christ’s sake, deal with it ladies and gents.
          And regarding this article
          For the record, I’m a 21 year old film music composer, with tattoos, a pierced nose, who frequently experiments with my hair colour. I think I’m perfectly feminine regardless of enjoying the occasional beer and video games. I’m in a perfectly happy long-term relationship WITH A MAN THAT DOESN’T BEAT ME IF I DON’T MAKE HIM A SANDWICH.
          My total number of partners is two, my current boyfriend and my first boyfriend, who I dated for over a year.
          Slut you say?
          Jolly Good <3 XOXO

        197. This site is unbelievably retarded.
          I stumbled across an article and carried on reading through and I’m pretty astounded at the pitiful levels of incoherent ball-baggery people spout.
          I’m a woman, however, I consider myself comfortably detached from both attitudes. I think both feminism and chauvinism are pretty hypocritical. A feminist cannot preach equal treatment to that of a man and then later cry because a guy didn’t hold a door open for her. Similarly, a man cannot argue that a woman’s place is solely for sandwich making, and spawning and caring for children, merely because men “don’t happen to have vaginas”. I find this argument laughable, what about the other animals on the Earth? Like the male penguin, I don’t see them arguing their precious masculinity when they’re incubating their eggs.
          Masculinity my ass, I imagine the majority of these “manly men” to be nothing more than greasy string-vest wearing assholes who throw punches and empty beer cans at their wives for burning the roast. And femininity is not being a subservient housewife.
          Life does not have to be a dick-waving contest, but yet we still struggle for power. We have lived on this planet together now for long enough to respect each other, and co-operate to use each other for our strengths and weaknesses. Men feel they are natural providers, this is a fair statement, my boyfriend loves the idea of taking care of me, but never would he dream of stripping me of my aspirations or interests so that I could merely stay at indoors and tend to the home. However, if I decided that this was all I wanted to do, he’d also respect me enough to accept this as my decision, and of course I’d do the same. Unlike you folks, he doesn’t require clinging onto a false macho bravado to reassure himself that he is a man. And personally, I believe this makes him more of a man than any of the bumbling morons I’ve witnessed on here.
          We’re all human. We’re all the same
          For Christ’s sake, deal with it ladies and gents.
          And regarding this article
          For the record, I’m a 21 year old film music composer, with tattoos, a pierced nose, who frequently experiments with my hair colour. I think I’m perfectly feminine regardless of enjoying the occasional beer and video games. I’m in a perfectly happy long-term relationship WITH A MAN THAT DOESN’T BEAT ME IF I DON’T MAKE HIM A SANDWICH.
          My total number of partners is two, my current boyfriend and my first boyfriend, who I dated for over a year.
          Slut you say?
          Jolly Good <3 XOXO

        198. This site is unbelievably retarded.
          I stumbled across an article and carried on reading through and I’m pretty astounded at the pitiful levels of incoherent ball-baggery people spout.
          I’m a woman, however, I consider myself comfortably detached from both attitudes. I think both feminism and chauvinism are pretty hypocritical. A feminist cannot preach equal treatment to that of a man and then later cry because a guy didn’t hold a door open for her. Similarly, a man cannot argue that a woman’s place is solely for sandwich making, and spawning and caring for children, merely because men “don’t happen to have vaginas”. I find this argument laughable, what about the other animals on the Earth? Like the male penguin, I don’t see them arguing their precious masculinity when they’re incubating their eggs.
          Masculinity my ass, I imagine the majority of these “manly men” to be nothing more than greasy string-vest wearing assholes who throw punches and empty beer cans at their wives for burning the roast. And femininity is not being a subservient housewife.
          Life does not have to be a dick-waving contest, but yet we still struggle for power. We have lived on this planet together now for long enough to respect each other, and co-operate to use each other for our strengths and weaknesses. Men feel they are natural providers, this is a fair statement, my boyfriend loves the idea of taking care of me, but never would he dream of stripping me of my aspirations or interests so that I could merely stay at indoors and tend to the home. However, if I decided that this was all I wanted to do, he’d also respect me enough to accept this as my decision, and of course I’d do the same. Unlike you folks, he doesn’t require clinging onto a false macho bravado to reassure himself that he is a man. And personally, I believe this makes him more of a man than any of the bumbling morons I’ve witnessed on here.
          We’re all human. We’re all the same
          For Christ’s sake, deal with it ladies and gents.
          And regarding this article
          For the record, I’m a 21 year old film music composer, with tattoos, a pierced nose, who frequently experiments with my hair colour. I think I’m perfectly feminine regardless of enjoying the occasional beer and video games. I’m in a perfectly happy long-term relationship WITH A MAN THAT DOESN’T BEAT ME IF I DON’T MAKE HIM A SANDWICH.
          My total number of partners is two, my current boyfriend and my first boyfriend, who I dated for over a year.
          Slut you say?
          Jolly Good <3 XOXO

        199. So you want women you can manipulate and control. Women who are self-assured, assertive, and require respect are no good to you, because they don’t let you treat them like shit. Lol. How noble of you.

        200. So you want women you can manipulate and control. Women who are self-assured, assertive, and require respect are no good to you, because they don’t let you treat them like shit. Lol. How noble of you.

        201. So you want women you can manipulate and control. Women who are self-assured, assertive, and require respect are no good to you, because they don’t let you treat them like shit. Lol. How noble of you.

        202. The heinous amounts of “I’m probably a sex offender” was nothing after I realised you actually used the term “cock salami”.
          Is that original or did your dad drum that into you one cold lonely night?
          Either way, I’m pretty sure even the sluttiest of bitchz don’t appreciate “daddy” slapping them with their genital jamboree.

        203. Yes… All the accomplishments of good men are completely worthless and unnecessary. I mean come on, who needs electricity right? And fuck airplanes, telephones, and computers. Fuck half of the entire population because I’m mad at some douchey comments made by a few random guys on the internet.

        204. Yes… All the accomplishments of good men are completely worthless and unnecessary. I mean come on, who needs electricity right? And fuck airplanes, telephones, and computers. Fuck half of the entire population because I’m mad at some douchey comments made by a few random guys on the internet.

        205. Yes… All the accomplishments of good men are completely worthless and unnecessary. I mean come on, who needs electricity right? And fuck airplanes, telephones, and computers. Fuck half of the entire population because I’m mad at some douchey comments made by a few random guys on the internet.

        206. Yes… All the accomplishments of good men are completely worthless and unnecessary. I mean come on, who needs electricity right? And fuck airplanes, telephones, and computers. Fuck half of the entire population because I’m mad at some douchey comments made by a few random guys on the internet.

        207. Ass soon as I saw your name is “Chief Seaman Uswallowit” it didn’t really matter what came next. You’re already an idiot.

        208. Hi I just wanted to point out that I don’t think the girl’s point was that she was hating all men. I’m almost positive she just dislikes people like you because you lack to see her along with half of the people in the world as human beings due to your falsely perceived sense of male supremacy.
          By the way, for someone that deliberately goes out of their way to make other feel bad about their “reading comprehension (???)”, I’m almost positive “Where is you READING COMPREHENSION?” is not a proper sentence

        209. I’M LAUGHING REAL HARD AT YOU KID
          “Gamers exist because women choose to sleep with the wrong type of guy”
          MAN GOD KNOWS I ONLY PLAY ZELDA CUS I COULDN’T GET THE PUSSY

        210. And I suppose the idiot who wrote this blog and the guy who owns this website should be respected right? Wrong. Truth is they don’t get any respect from us sane people.

        211. Oh, dear! Won’t it be a shame that these women will be doing what they love and wish to do in the world, instead of being tied down to sexist assholes who don’t believe in their rights, wishes, and have no idea how to communicate properly? How awful it must be for them, to not spend time with someone who they’ll regret meeting within ten seconds! The horror.
          Really, don’t these poor, poor women realize they’re missing out?

        212. In this context Gamers mean the same thing as players and pick up artists.
          In other words it should be acknowledged that patriarchy exists because of the decisions women make.

        213. This might be the most ignorant comment I’ve ever read. Based on the clearly less than stellar vocab and grammar I will assume that that’s a common theme for you and therefore I will give you a break for a second. Only a second though, because while I am both an incredibly successful and driven young woman I also am told time and time again how attracted to that specific part of me men are. By men. Who are also successful. Men are tired of girls who are gold diggers, ones that go to college just to meet a Pre Law guy and get their Mrs. degree.
          The main reason women are put on this earth is NOT to reproduce. Being feminine does NOT equate to hating the world and at the end of the day, women and men are both primal beings and while the dominance of the male species can not primally be replaced, it simply does not equate to success. That is all. I’d like to be clear that I am not what your description of a ‘feminist’ might be and I am a young, blonde, runner that shaves her armpits. I just wanted to dispute your theory that women were only put here to be slam pieces and to have children. Most of the successful circles of men that I know are very vocal about feeling otherwise.

        214. You know what, if it’s a woman saying all a guy wants is sex and that men are useless then it’s fine, no one bats an eye. If a man says you can spot a woman is slutty cause she wears a slut uniform then it’s not fine. If a woman hits a man on tv it’s normal, but vice versa, he’s a fucking asshole. I mean what is this shit, why claim you want gender equality when what you actually want are benefits? Wait, so you can criticize the male gender all you want when you feel like it but say that men can’t criticize women. Let me remember you that it’s been already massively discussed and agreed on that women wear extremely revealing clothing for the obvious reason, to be observed by the sex they’re interested in, that being mostly male. Sure, 50% of his article might not be as accurate as the author would like, but the rest is right on, so go fuck yourself.

        215. You are an animal too, unless you are a rare test from a military facility mixed with plants or other kingdoms’ genes. If you are talking about the rest of the animal species other than humans, there are also cases of sex for pleasure in some of the most intelligent species like dolphins, whales. and other evolved primates, and that is only what we can observe or what has been yet measured, not meaning it is the only set of possibility, Even if some stereotypes are created as a result of a social tendencies and responses in behavioural expression, the utmost point to illustrate in here my friend is, that people have the right to look and act as they want to without being pejoratively labelled. And thinking all the time about sex is not a sexual disorder, it is called healthy libido, if that bothers, discomforts, or irritates you, perhaps it is because you are the one with a disorder. There is nothing wrong with having casual and spontaneous sex with multiple people, as long as you are taking care of your health and in so, of the others.

        216. You are an animal too, unless you are a rare test from a military facility mixed with plants or other kingdoms’ genes. If you are talking about the rest of the animal species other than humans, there are also cases of sex for pleasure in some of the most intelligent species like dolphins, whales. and other evolved primates, and that is only what we can observe or what has been yet measured, not meaning it is the only set of possibility, Even if some stereotypes are created as a result of a social tendencies and responses in behavioural expression, the utmost point to illustrate in here my friend is, that people have the right to look and act as they want to without being pejoratively labelled. And thinking all the time about sex is not a sexual disorder, it is called healthy libido, if that bothers, discomforts, or irritates you, perhaps it is because you are the one with a disorder. There is nothing wrong with having casual and spontaneous sex with multiple people, as long as you are taking care of your health and in so, of the others.

        217. Clearly you do not understand DNA–or the real definition of feminism. I for one don’t believe you’re a man…you are a very distinct and tiny species of nasty that should be extinct.

        218. You cannot possibly call ANYONE a moron when you say things like “Where is you reading comprehension”

        219. wow paul, where you born the stone ages. I checked about 10 items of the list off and I’m happily married with twins and I fucking love sex with my husband. That’s what you want right, a maid/ cook in the house and a slut in the bedroom. Seriously, 99 % percent correct?? that’s because you are dating 99 percent women that have sexual needs as well so sex is likely to occur. Why is it the males role to want to have sex. If women were not suppose to want sex well then my friend there would not be the human species without rape and I don’t think we want to go there.

        220. “Real Men” are respectful of women, just as “real women” are respectful of men.
          I would also like to point out that the guy who wrote this article couldn’t find a woman in person (probably because he has no idea how to romance anyone)..and so his list is obviously the desperate clinging of a “man” who needs to make others feel bad about being themselves because he hates who he really is.
          Just so everyone is clear: actually, there is estrogen found in all men, and women do need
          small amounts of testosterone. Testosterone and estrogen are
          actually very closely related in the body. A look at their chemical
          structure reveals only subtle differences. Maybe do a little research before you spew your inadequacies all over this website.

        221. I have piercings, visible tattoos, I curse, I used to party my ass off every day in college, and I am a feminist. Somehow though, with all these bad and dangerous qualities, I have only had 3 sexual partners and am now happily married to the third with a beautiful daughter. I do not take my septum ring out, I still curse, though not with my daughter in the room, and I don’t cover up my tattoos. Oh and my husband and I play video games together because you know, we’re gamers. Gamers don’t exist because women sleep with the wrong men. They can sleep with whomever they like, and you guys are just too cowardly to say you like them, or god forbid expect only friendship out of us. All we are to you “nice gamer guys” are walking vagina’s that you feed “niceness” to and get mad when blow jobs don’t fall out. Go fuck yourself man. If a woman sleeps with 100 men she still isn’t a slut, she can do what she wants. It’s everyone’s job to empower young women AND men to respect each other.

        222. So if you show interest in girls, or have large breast you are a slut
          ” Despite having a stripped-down profile that revealed very little about her sexual appetites, I went in optimistic about getting laid that night. In my head, I’d somehow ascertained she had “slut face,” and was therefore more likely than others to put out.”
          This guy sounds like a creep who doesn’t get laid. I thought it might be an interesting thing to read but after reading that
          and some things on his list. -__- Is this guy serious? He might as well said 1. has a vagina. There are far better ways to determine if a girl is promiscuous.

        223. because you can totally tell how much self-respect and how family-oriented a woman is by looking at her… and feminists are NOT trying to ‘play the male role’, we are trying to be treated as human beings instead of sexual objects; promote your hatred misogynists, it will never impede the enlightenment of others.

        224. WHY is a woman who has sex a slut? and why is a woman who won’t fuck a prude?
          it is because sometimes we have a misogynist disorder where women are not worthy of being treated as human beings instead of objects of desire.

        225. Paul, ya you might want to go ask your mother, grandmother, whomever about a little something about the evolved gender roles of the 21st century. There is nothing wrong with a strong independent woman and
          the same can be said about a man, but in order to have a healthy relationship
          both must depend on each other; it may be for different things a relationship
          will always will be a partnership first and foremost. Feminists condemn the 50s
          because most women stayed at home while the men worked well then are you saying
          that it is easy to run a house hold, to be the one that does all the cleaning, all
          the cooking, all the necessary shopping, taking care of the kids, etc? Every
          person has a role to play it is just about finding that balance that works for
          you and your partner. My own mother was a Mommy most of my childhood- she was
          in PTA, volunteered for class trips, was home when I came home to help me with
          my homework, drove me to practice, was able to be home with me when I was sick,
          and all the other things moms want to do for their kids. Even my own dad who
          owns his own company said that what she did on a daily bases was half of what
          he did in a week. Women were not supposed to be men! I am a 20 year old college
          student who is trying to get my degree so I can have a good career and all that
          goes with that, but does it make me a weak woman to also want to be someone’s
          wife and be a Mommy one day? Can I not be a strong woman and not want to be a man?
          Sorry that I wasn’t built with a penis and testes but with a uterus and mammary
          glands. We live in a society where we can have both independence and
          femininity. Again everything in life must have balance. As societal norms grow so much people’s understanding of what they are.

        226. We are ANIMALS! If we weren’t we wouldn’t have blood flowing through our veins and our feet would have tube like strings sprouting out from under them to attach themselves to the ground like plants and we DEFINITELY wouldn’t have sexual appetites.
          We have sex for pleasure AND for reproduction and we are not the only animal who has sex for both. The only difference between humans and a different animal is that the other animals doesn’t judge a female calling her a slut just because she wants to have sex for pleasure.
          I mean for heaven’s sake male ducks will gang bang and rape a female duck to death to satiate their appetite for sex (pleasure) if they weren’t able to attract a mate during the mating season (reproduction). The human species has some people who have done that too! (as far as rape goes… and maybe not to death… but you get the point.)
          Female primates will “sell themselves” to males for food like a human prostitute woman does to survive (sometimes)!
          Whether male or female it doesn’t matter. A male can be a slut and a female can be one too. As a species though we need to get over the fact that sex isn’t bad, sinful, gross, wrong, etc. It is the most natural and awesome force in the world that can create a life but also destroy a life (I think you get my meaning). Sex isn’t inherently bad and labels for degrading or praising males or females (ie. player vs slut) who just like sex should be wiped from everyone’s vocabulary because it is ridiculous and insults our intelligence as a species. (Which sometimes I question our intelligence because of things like this ridiculous blog.)

        227. Possibly true. But the word “misogynist” gets thrown around so often out-of-context its almost amusing. If I, as a man, hold a door for a woman instantly I’m “misogynistic” because I didn’t want her to open the door herself.
          Or, if I DON’T open the door, I’m misogynistic because I didn’t want to help a woman, thinking her “inferior”. I mean seriously, women apply that term to men of all backgrounds no matter what we do, just to make themselves feel better.

        228. If true “feminism” is just edifying and respecting men and women equally, than I have no quarrel with it. But most of what I see called “feminism” these days, involves women degrading men, or trying to dominate, not equalize, with them. Then there are the obvious physical differences, which have a large impact on social “roles”. Respect and dignity should exist for women regardless, but denial of differences is not a step forward.

        229. you’re a whore and prude slut. Lick balls and sit in the corner. Do not speak unless spoken to and have dinner on the table whenever i feel like it.

        230. Liar, you are probably wondering how many of these huge cocks you can get. add mine to the list. you’re sister is gonna be a tough act to follow.

        231. i didnt read what you wrote, but you and I both know you would still fuck me. just sayin. it is what it is. I don’t drink beer but i would balance one on top of your head while you went down just so everything would seem normal to you.

        232. Hey, you have money? How much. Maybe I wanna come dominate your pussy to and turn your ass out on the street to see what you are really worth. Now, be a good girl and shut the fuck up for daddy. haha. No but really tell me your pussy is not getting wet just wondering how fan fuckin tastic it would be for me to totally dominate you and then throw you out so you wonder what you did wrong. tell the truth. Okay you can speak againl

        233. Wtf? Even if I have money it wouldn’t be for you. If you tried anything trust me you would be missing your little 2 inch penis you probably can’t even get up and your testicles. You will be in a world of hurt bub. Don’t try it dude. Fucking rapist piece of shit pendejo. I hope you try that shit with the wrong person although death is too great for you. Maybe some torture will do you some good.

        234. Does the bible blame women? From what I’ve read, Adam ate the apple by his own volition and both adam and eve were punished equally. Though I do believe john Milton has lucifer talking to adam before corrupting eve

        235. I respectfully consider the thoughtful tone of your disagreement. I stand by my statement whatever it is. I know plenty of women that share rape fantasies with me and something about a comment I responded to must have rang true. It is regrettable that you have such an emotional response to that prompt. I commend your balance in reply. Truly, you have strength of character to demonstrate such restraint. Without meaning disrespect to you or your feelings. I feel that at this time, with the information I have in front of me. That censoring someone or something on any grounds is not within my moral makeup. It is of course, a 2 way street. I may not agree with what you say, but I will fight unto the death for your right to say it. Now, I can assure you that my comment was made without regard to what may or may not have happened. But I do not relinquish my right to say it. Now, since i do not think you were the target of my venom, I regret that you felt hurt by my worlds and had i considered that I may have responded differently or qualified my statement somewhat. But we will never know. Have a wonderful evening.

        236. “Didn’t” read it? … Or couldn’t?
          And oh wow, you’re talking about terrible terrible sex again
          Did you learn about that in a heinous foreign porno? Or hear about it in school today?
          It’s easy to identify the pillow-humpers.

        237. 98 percent of you sound incredibly ignorant, arrogant, STUPID and lack intelligence. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and that’s just what this is. This article is like saying every female thinks alike and are all the same. In a way you are saying women are programmed to be a “slut” if they decide even ONE of these apply to them. Grow up

        238. Sexism in the Bible. Genesis 2:22 3:16 4:19 12:13-19 19:1-8 19:26 19:30-38 20:2-12 25:1-6 Exodus 20:17 21:4 21:7-11 22:18 Leviticus 12:1-8 15:19-32 20:10-16 21:7 21:9 21:13-14

        239. You shouldn’t be allowed to reproduce. Please if you so kindly get your tubes tied. People like you shouldn’t be parents.

        240. I’m a feminist, but I don’t think that way. I open the door for everyone man, woman, child. It’s common courtesy. Now if you didn’t open the door for me then you’re just a rude ass.

        241. u stay away from the bad women? unless u want a one night stand. so u dont focus on feminine women with self respect, u focus on the needs of ur DICK at the time. and u find urself to be a respectable man do you, cohorting with sluts? hmmm. how is it suppose to be, YOUR double standard? okay for him not for her? trying to play the male role. let me answer this for you, when MEN start acting like MEN, well AMEN then i wont HAVE to play the male role. frankly ive had a lifetime of it. pathetic…men today. ur not much different. sorry.

        242. Seriously? I’ve never heard someone would call a man misogynistic cos he did/didn’t open a door. What the fuck you talking about?

        243. You seem to hold very strong, and very misguided assumptions about feminism and feminists. It’s not about women getting ahead of men, or women trying to be like men…that’s an assumption that has accompanied every feminist movement and a stigma that people have used to dismiss and demonize feminism throughout history. You use the same rhetoric in your comments that circulated after every wave of feminism. Seriously. You can check it out at the library.
          Even if you don’t agree with my perspective, the books and research done on gender are pretty funny. You’ll even find plenty of texts which do support your arguments, although the date of publication for those works might be earlier than the one’s that I’m thinking about. You’ll probably have a lot of anecdotal evidence to add to your reading of this literature, since you’ve been dating age and older for quite some time.
          In my opinion, you have a pretty narrow, derivative, and incorrect perception of feminism, and it’s a shame that that’s what you think feminism is about. I’d be against feminists too, if I thought what you did about feminists was true. I implore you to expand your understanding of feminism, gender roles, and history. You seem to believe that male and female roles have been generally static throughout the ages, and that it’s “natural” or “primal” for men to behave a certain way, and women to behave another particular way.
          There is plenty of anthropological and historical research that suggests that the attitudes we see today have an origin in more recent history, and that the social creation of gender is just as important, if not more important than biological/survival/reproductive urges in explaining everyday behavior and human relationship dynamics. Gender roles are socially constructed, and have been changing for thousands of years. There are similarities between gender roles in different societies and across time, but there are also vast differences that can’t really be ignored the way you tend to do.
          Every culture conceptualizes gender and sex differently, some in more subtle ways than others. For instance, many cultures operate in terms of a gender binary according to physical sex at birth. Some cultures acknowledge and have specific roles attached to a third gender in addition to male and female, which suggests that these guides to interaction are expressly created, and can be changed as societal needs compel them to. I can see why your experiences have led you to come to different conclusions than I have, but I don’t accept that “it’s all primal” because my personal experiences, and the research that I’ve done thus far suggests otherwise. In other words, I have logical reasons for having different opinion than you that have nothing to do with being a woman, or being a feminist. That’d be pretty absurd. lol Tradition can be wonderful, but older is not always better. Just because a belief has persisted for a long time, does not mean it’s practical to apply that belief to a current society that may or may not have different social demands than in the past.
          I am a woman with enormous self-respect because I was raised to believe that my gender does not limit my capabilities as a person or determine what I like or dislike. I believe that having different genitalia should not have to imply inequality or rigid gender differentiation based solely on biological differences.
          That does not mean that I will try to “play the male role,” whatever that means. I don’t have to be like a man to feel fulfilled…think about it, does that make sense to you? Do you really think that many women go around thinking that to themselves?
          When I marry someone, I hope that my spouse and I will treat each other with mutual respect and divide our responsibilities to each other and our family based on our strengths and our weaknesses.
          Furthermore, just because I value my ability to contribute to the community and my family, does not imply that I’m doomed to put my desires over the well-being of my family, or that I don’t have family values…My parents raised me to value family over anything else. I mean, both my parents worked long hours, but dinner together was always mandatory in our house, and weekend activities with family were non-negotiable. You made time for family, school, and any other responsibilities you signed up for. Period.
          We have a lot of members in my extended family, and we are all very close and very supportive of each other, emotionally and financially. We are fiercely loyal to each other and are always helping each other succeed in any way we can. I’m pretty confident that my and my fellow cousins’ generation can pass that loyalty and generosity on to our kids, and that has very little if anything to do with our respective genders or our attitudes therein. You can have family values and be a feminist…I just don’t think those two things are correlated as strongly as you do.
          Point is, my parents, and many of their friends, have kept their relationships intact without having to shape their relationship in terms of gendered responsibilities. Both of my parents make an excellent living, and in fact, my mother makes more than my father some years because she’s a physician/surgeon. Just happens.
          She handles the financial coordination of our household and her own practice, while my father handles his own business’ financial demands. Because that makes sense. Big purchases and decisions were always made together, with them consulting each other based on the other’s expertise on different matters. There were things that my mom did better than my dad, and things that my dad did better than my mom, and they switched dominant and submissive roles based on what was practical, not because mom is a woman and dad is a man.
          Your marriage and many other marriages might have been successful because of what you’ve described, but there are many many different ways to maintain a healthy relationship, other than what you’ve been saying in the comments you’ve posted. It’s a little silly to say that there is only one particular way that a relationship can work, when I know plenty of couples that are very happy together without having the kind of relationship that you’ve previously described.

        244. Feminism is a pretty broad term, with many groups that generally believe in gender equality but disagree on how to achieve it. Who are some of these “leaders” that you’re thinking of? And what organizations do you think are representative of feminism?

        245. Let me guess you found yourself a little boy with mummy issues where your unable to attract a real man cause no REAL man would ever be attracted to your muscular personality!

        246. Lets move to the next level if u can even comprehend what im saying! Greed, lust, envy, social status, self power, desire, needs all lead to unhappiness! These are the dysfunctional valves of feminists! Keep preaching your valves…. destroy more families as u keep preaching but not 1 feminist here has even looked at the effects on the next generation of kids!

        247. 1. Your body is 31 y/o but your mind is still stuck in the teens! 2. see (1) 3. Why would I choose to let anything in life upset me?! I control my actions, i’m not suck in my teens like u where all teenagers need more time to learn to control their emotions. 4. Refer back to (1)

        248. If you seek power, u will never be happy in life! Needs, desires, selfishness, lust… is only temporary happiness and all lead to pain! These are the thought traits of all feminists!

        249. 2. That is the most stupid thing i have ever heard…. u never ever know what goes on behind closed doors in a relationship! 4. I know i was one when i was younger than i grew up and learnt what the world is really about as well as a relationship with man and woman! 5. A woman should always have her say in a relationship and express her point of view but just like having a boss at a job, the man has the last say. If the man gives in all the time, he isn’t playing his role of showing muscular qualities in the relationship, Next the woman loses respect and attraction, relationship over… U can usually compromise but sometimes u can’t… so what happens next, someone has to give in… and it’s the worst thing ever if the man does all the time!
          The most important quality as well i want to mention is learn to NEVER hold onto grudges. If you do, your relationship will fail!
          Grow up! If you boss in a job decides not to go with your idea, it sounds like u kick and scream like a child!

        250. Says the idiot who can barely spell. I’m sure whoever you’re in a relationship with feels soooo lucky.

        251. Religion has been around for thousands of years for a reason! It’s the true essence of what life is really about. Feminist values are the opposite of what real peace and happiness is! Our whole western cultural is built on negative values that is how our economy works! U have to keep most of the population stupid otherwise people won’t spend money. It’s a fact when we are down, alone and feeling empty inside is when we spend money. Corporations run the government where they fund the feminist movement and valves and control the media and TV. They want feminist to create unhappy families and break them up so people spend money! When people find real peace and happiness, u don’t need to spend money to feel good. A happy home, love, compassion, the basic things in life is what real happiness is but today it can be so hard to find where all the feminists here are making the world even worst!
          I learnt all this from studying!

        252. She does cause she knows I know my role as a man and i treat her like a princess cause she is a real woman. I haven’t bothered to buy a woman flowers and taking her out and spoiling her when she is down cause i was dating the new age selfish woman (feminist characteristics). she treats me the same and it’s great knowing that we have someone we can depend on! i’m so happy these days compare to dating dysfunctional feminist women in the past!
          Feminists are always angry and unhappy and they are 2 stupid to understand why like yourself!

        253. i think it has something to do with the basic instinct to no want to share a woman with other men….and when looking for a mate, as a man, when you meet a nice girl whos slept with alot of other men, its as if you are sharing her ex post facto.

        254. I fully support feminists. If it wasn’t for them I wouldn’t be able to do most of what I’v been able to do so far and what I aspire to do in the future.
          But I also embrace what is natural (or should be natural) femininity.

        255. Okay, yeah. First off, we’re not animals.
          And as for your argument that about animal’s desire for sex for pleasure vs sex for reproduction, yes, you’re right. There are, indeed, animals who have sex for pleasure. But they are the EXCEPTION to the rule, not the rule itself.
          Humans have sex for both pleasure and reproduction.
          Animals, on the other hand (with the little exceptions aside), do it strictly for reproduction, nothing more.
          As the general rule, that’s more than enough to prove just how different from us the animals really are.

        256. Umm, no, but nice try though. Try again? And I attract different men because of my personality not my looks.

        257. Wow. Thanks for knowing all about me. Not. You don’t even know me so how can you say any of that? Oh, wait it’s your male ego. Oh look at me I’m god’s gift to women. Women shouldn’t be allowed to speak their mind. Durr. Durr. Durr. I will speak my mind even if you don’t want me too.

        258. Well, this isn’t Burger King so you can’t always have it your way. The husband always has the last say? What bullshit. So in another words your right no matter what. That’s stupid. Talk about male privilege. Always look at me I’m head of the household. I’m always right. Seems to me you have all the say in your relationship. Typical male.

        259. Not me and normal women don’t like that shit. Dummy. You should stay away from relationships dude. You’re sick in the head.

        260. It sounds like you fellas have the mummy issues
          Very Freudian.
          I wonder how many times you all hid in the wardrobe and watched your mothers undress before the realisation that you’re all complete and utter mutants suddenly hit you.
          Oh wait. It still hasn’t.

        261. “would HAVE HAD been born with both SEXUALLY organs.”
          LOL. Another American cretin…

        262. Not true some animals have sex for pleasure. Example bonobos (type of monkey) have lesbian relationships as well as hetero relationships. There is no point other than to bring tensions down within their troop. It’s pleasurable because of the release of hormones from the brain, and this happens to other animals as well.

        263. Actually, darling successful women aren’t with men/can’t hold a relationship for a number of reasons. But as MOST studies show, it is because she intimidates men. As in it is the man’s fault because he is scared and has no self esteem. You’re argument, based on actually no scientific backing whatsoever isn’t only invalid, it makes you look dumb. I wonder Paul, are you with a woman right now?

        264. Actually the definition of feminism is the view that both genders should be treated equally. A true feminist would never say “All males are needed for is sperm”.

        265. animals masterbate. it’s pretty damned presumptuous to say that humans do it for one thing and animals do it for another. all species do it for *multiple* reasons, be it pleasure, control, dominance, prestige, reproduction or anything else.

        266. Actually, studies show a lot of animals have sex for pleasure. There’s also a lot of rape in the animal world…

        267. Almost everyone commenting on this has minimal ability to comprehend English. Especially these 2 arguing. They make zero relevant points. lol

        268. I want to meet you. Lol. The people responding on here are so ridiculous. You are not. I applaud you. lol

        269. Are you serious right now? you want to talk about intelligence? well im sorry but you have got to be the most unintelligent person I have ever come across, I literally grew dumber reading the garbage you just wrote. While we are on the topic of comparing humans to animals, lets compare our IQs as well, whos do u think will be higher? a human or a duck? our intelligence far surpasses the intelligence of any other living species, the closest is a monkey and even they are comparatively dumber. we as humans make judgment because we have the brain capacity to make judgement, we as humans decipher right from wrong because we have the intelligence to do so. By your logic since ducks gang rape each other then humans should be allowed to as well. Okay great! Then since apes fingers their assholes and the smell and lick the fingers then humans should as well. I am sorry but your argument is so very weak please do not even try and defend your view just admit the fact that there are way too many flaws in your theory. If we as humans were to constantly compare ourselves to animals you and I would not be living in our big houses, we would still be living in dark caves scratching stones to communicate with each other. its called survival of the fittest we as humans have been designed in such a way that our brain capacity allows us to make decisions that no other living species can. I will end with this, how would you like it if your daughter sucked a different dick every weekend??

        270. Being feminist has nothing to do with “playing” the male role or “hating on men”. It’s about promoting equality, and the women who are promoting “man hate” aren’t feminists, they’re man haters. There is a difference, learn it.

        271. ” it will never change the way the male/female sex are suppose to be otherwise human beings would have had been born with both sexually organs.”
          totally agree.

        272. That isn’t true
          Anthropologists have known for a while that our anatomy suggests a multiple male to one female sex pattern. Woman are capable of achieving multiple orgasms while men can only have one which points to sperm competition as opposed to mating competition. Also when a man “pre cums” it doesn’t actually contain sperm, it contains a spermicidal substance that kill s any sperm that might have been there first. Th word slut is a cultural term that is fairly new, there is no primal instinct in humans that would deter a man from pair bonding with a promiscuous woman. It’s all ignorant taboo.

        273. ”Gamers exist because women choose to sleep with the wrong type of guys” Wow, wait a minute, gamers exist because videogames are awesome!

        274. Not to mention kkk is an actual group while feminist I just a word used to describe a mind-set

        275. Same reason the guys who want casual sex are called players. Those are the terms that describe the actions. Not complicated. It’s predominantly women that tear other women down for their sexual behavior, not men.

        276. I would love to stop the BAD, BAD women, but then I would hate myself in the morning because they fuck so good.

        277. For the same reasons that men who play sports are called jocks and those who play chess are nerds. Its just a title to categorize a group of people. Frankly I don’t think there is anything wrong with a slut or a male slut, so long as they are ready to face the consequences of their actions. I love me a slut that loves to fuck because I love to fuck just as much.

        278. i think it more a concern when it is unhealthy sexual behavior. there is healthy and there is omg this is not good for your health. you know what i mean?

        279. Let me put this very simplistically so all of those present can understand. Biological imperative is to improve the gene pool. We’ve been competing at this for years. Sex is a natural thing and promiscuity should not be confused with sluttiness. Who are you to judge when there are plenty of other examples of mammals as well as others in the animal kingdom who have sex outside of being in heat… Oh, wait…

        280. Actually you’re all wrong, I’m the sweetest quietest girl you’ll ever meet but online I come clean. I’m a big slut, I have sex with about 4 different guys each week (and they change each week).
          I have no tats, no piercings, never bring up sex, never say we are not having sex tonight and I’m the opposite of this description (as are the friends/sluts I associate with). I have very little body hair (testosterone doesn’t always get those follicles happening – ask any roid head) , I love men so much I just want more and more of them. I have no daddy issues, just a regular relationship with him. If only men knew how to bond with me emotionally whilst having sex then I’d finally be able to orgasm with them. However, I do love everything about men, they way they smell, the way they walk, the way they stare, love love love almost all of them.

        281. Nah honey, you men started the tearing down of women like me. The last sentence was something along the lines of how to avoid women wifey up women like me. I personally wouldn’t want to marry an inexperienced male anyway, I want a manwhore to match my whorish tendencies, he would “eff” so well with all that experience as I do. Those of you who avoid sluts like me end up marrying madonna’s and then end up miserable for the rest of your life because that low libido that made her hold off till marriage/commitment is what will also kick in when you ask her for sex after making her your wifey (it’s called a low libido and you can’t change that especially once that pot belly starts growing)