Why Is Juan Pablo The Worst Bachelor Ever?

When it comes to reality television, few franchises are better known to Americans than “The Bachelor”. Essentially a dating game show of sorts, The Bachelor centers around one dude (“the bachelor”) choosing one partner from a pool of 25 to 30 young, attractive contestants. The bachelor spends the bulk of the show going on romantic—often cheesy, stereotypical and clearly contrived—dates with the contestants who he gradually eliminates over time. At the end of the show, the last girl standing is declared the winner. She gets a rose and the bachelor is supposed to then propose, creating an extremely “romantic”, fairytale finale.

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As you can guess, the show is pretty much chick-crack, akin to your typical daytime soap opera or Twilight movie. The bachelor is almost always an extremely good looking, well-off guy and much of the show is designed to sell the fantasy fairy-tale romance idea to a female audience. It is a real-life Disney movie: the bachelor is the prince, and the winner is the princess. This stuff sells: The Bachelor has been running for 18 seasons.

The most recent bachelor is Juan Pablo Galavis, a Venezuelan who had spent several years playing professional soccer in Venezuela and the USA:

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Juan arrived on the scene to much fanfare. He was the show’s first ever Hispanic bachelor, and that angle was played up quite a bit. Female pundits across the entertainment world seemed to have nothing bad to say about him – all they could do was gush. The honeymoon hasn’t lasted, however. The Bachelor’s 18th season finale has just aired and Juan Pablo is now considered by many to be the worst bachelor ever:

ABC’s “Bachelor” fairy tale is apparently a nightmare behind the scenes this season. Juan Pablo Galavis, the current bachelor, is causing quite a stir for the hit romance reality series and producers aren’t happy about it.

“Everyone on the show is just so over him and cannot wait for this season to be over,” a source connected to “The Bachelor” told E! News.

Juan Pablo hasn’t been warmly received on social media either:

 

 

 

 

So, what did this guy do to earn such vitriol?

1. He didn’t sell the dream

A while ago I authored an article designed to explain why famous men become outspoken feminists. In it, I outlined the need for famous men to play to the fantasies and desires of their infatuated female audience in order to grow and maintain their fame. Male sex symbols in Hollywood are essentially selling the dream: their female fans are in love with them, and it is their job to continue to perpetuate that “fantasy relationship” between themselves and all of those women.

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The Bachelor is just another conduit through which this kind of marketing takes place. Nevermind the fact that the show’s plot is a bit absurd and unrealistic to begin with (falling in love over the course of a couple of months on a reality TV show? Sure). The show’s largely female fanbase is most heavily invested in the fantasy that the show represents: one perfect prince choosing his special princess (after an inordinate amount of time spent “falling for” one another in a host of extremely romantic locales), declaring his deep undying love for her, proposing to her, and whisking her away at the end of the season finale to live happily ever after.

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Juan failed to keep this dream alive. He chose a winner, but didn’t propose to her at the end of the show because he (wisely, I might add) figured that he can’t propose to someone he pretty much just met. That means no fairytale wedding:

We already know what happened to Clare, but the other final woman, Nikki, “won” this season only by a technicality. Juan Pablo picked out an engagement ring but then refused to put it on her finger because he wasn’t “100% sure” he wanted to propose. (The ring is now reportedly with “Bachelor” producers.)

When interviewed with his chosen winner at the end of the season and asked if he loved her, Juan Pablo was noncommittal. There go any notions of epic romance:

When “Bachelor” host Chris Harrison asked him directly whether he was in love with Nikki, Juan Pablo replied, “I’m not going to answer that question.”

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Juan was also remarkably honest in his dealings with the women he interacted with:

Juan Pablo Galavis is known for his shocking comments, but last night’s confession to Clare Crawley takes the cake.

During his helicopter date in St. Lucia with the 32-year-old on the Bachelor finale, viewers didn’t get to see what Juan Pablo told Clare that irked her.

Apparently, Clare told her leading man at the time, “just tell me you love me,” and he responded with, “I loved fucking you, but I don’t know you.”

During Clare’s final one-on-one interview confessional on the show, she explained how hurt she was by his comment.

“I’m shocked,” Clare said. “He chose to tell me something that no woman wants to hear. That he doesn’t know me and some sexual thing I don’t want to repeat. It was insulting and it was offensive.”

…but it was honest. Clare wanted a confession of love from a man she met on a reality TV show and had only known for less than two months. Juan Pablo just gave her reality: “You’re good in bed, but what love do you expect me to fall into within just a few weeks of even meeting you and even less time than that spent talking to you one on one?”

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Trista Sutter, a former contestant on the Bachelor, complains that Juan Pablo was not “respectful” enough:

Unfortunately, a lack of respect seems to have been a consistent theme throughout the season for Juan Pablo and last night was no exception.

• Instead of whispering sweet nothings about how beautiful she was or how lucky he was to have her there with him, he decided to use private time with Clare to tell her how horny he was… or something to that effect.

• Instead of opening up to Clare during their final date and sharing his concerns about their ups and downs then stringing her along by talking about their future in Sacramento and having babies, he decides to keep it to himself until she’s standing across from him professing her belief in him and love for him. THEN he has the gall to go in for a disingenuous hug without letting her process her broken heart.

• Instead of choosing to tell Nikki how ecstatic he is to start a new adventure with her away from prying eyes of cameramen and producers, he tells her that he is 100 percent positive that he does not want to propose to her. What woman wants to hear that? NOT ONE! Especially one that is hoping for you to get down on one knee.

In the mind of Trista Sutter (and most women like her), the word “respectful” means telling women what they want to hear. Not what you actually think, or what actually is, but whatever she considers appropriate. Women dictate the narrative in her mind.

 

Juan Pablo chose to tell the truth, and therein lies the problem. Truth is not the fantasy that women tuning in to watch The Bachelor are looking for. They want to see an epic romance fit for a Disney movie.

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Juan Pablo instead gave them the all-too realistic musings of a single guy who had plenty of romantic options and didn’t care all that much about the delusions (ex: girl wants to tell Juan she’s fallen deeply in love with him after less than two months together on reality tv? lol) and feelings of a bunch of women he’d only known for a month or two at most. He simply said and did with them as he honestly pleased, and gave few fucks how they felt about it. These women want their TV (and the men on it) to cater to their every whim, and Juan Pablo wasn’t interested in that.

2. He was politically incorrect

Juan Pablo was asked quite directly about the prospect of there being a gay or bisexual Bachelor at some point in time. His response?

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When asked whether or not he thought the hit ABC reality show featuring a gay or bisexual bachelor would be a “good idea,” Juan Pablo Galavis reportedly told The TV Page’s Sean Daly, “No… I respect [gay people] but, honestly, I don’t think it’s a good example for kids…”

“Obviously people have their husband and wife and kids and that is how we are brought up. Now there is fathers having kids and all that, and it is hard for me to understand that too in the sense of a household having peoples… Two parents sleeping in the same bed and the kid going into bed… It is confusing in a sense.”

Galavis, who is the show’s first Latino bachelor, also stated that “there’s this thing about gay people… it seems to me, and I don’t know if I’m mistaken or not… but they’re more ‘pervert’ in a sense. And to me the show would be too strong… too hard to watch.”

These are not the kind of views that go over well in mainstream American media.

3. He was a “sexist”

In the USA, men are conditioned to buy into the notion that gender roles are primarily social constructs, that all bodies are beautiful, and that men and women are the same.

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These are attitudes that really aren’t widespread outside of the Anglosphere, and Juan Pablo basically provided highly sheltered American women (who are generally used to getting what they want to see from the mainstream media) with a rude awakening to this reality. Juan Pablo was born in the United States, but moved back to Venezuela with his family at the age of two and didn’t return to the USA until he went to college. After 4 years in university, he promptly returned to Venezuela. This is a man who hasn’t been raised in the American bubble, and didn’t care to act like it (skip to 1:35 in the video):

Here’s what he told Keltie about meals after 7.

Keltie: And bread maybe? Girls love carbs.

Juan Pablo: No, no carbs after 7, I will not give you carbs.

Keltie: Why?

Juan Pablo: I’ll do that for lunch. Just because you want to keep your, you know… *makes hourglass symbol with hands to reference a slim female figure*

Juan wants his women in shape, and he isn’t afraid to say it. He has standards he expects the women in his life to meet, and he isn’t afraid to articulate them. He sees women who want to be treated like special snowflakes free of all consequences and obligations, and he’s not willing to play along.

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All in all, much of the controversy surrounding Juan Pablo is, in my estimation, the product of a culture clash. Juan Pablo comes from a society where the media doesn’t really cater to women to quite the extent that it does in the US, Canada, and the rest of the developed Anglosphere. He is not used to playing the game because, where he is from, it isn’t played so often. Feel-good delusions about gender aren’t as commonly passed around in the media as fact in most other parts of the world, and decisively politically incorrect points of view are still widely and openly embraced in most parts of the planet.

What Juan Pablo said with regard to his preference for women not eating after 7PM in order to keep their figure is highly controversial in American media, but in his native Venezuela (and just about any other part of Latin America) it is likely that nobody would blink twice at that comment. The same goes for most of Southern and Eastern Europe, just about all of Africa, the entirety of the Caribbean and the bulk of the Asian continent.

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Juan, by virtue of his status as a product of this “outside world”, brought this reality home to American television. This is how the real world is, and your average American woman doesn’t want any part of it. She simply cannot cope with perspectives that don’t put her on a pedestal and prioritize her wants and needs above all else, even if said desires are totally absurd (ex: expecting an extremely good looking, well-off guy with plenty of beautiful female suitors to fall deeply in love with you and then propose to you after less than two months of association on reality television). American society will cater to her and often prevent her from ever having to face harsher reality, but most others will not. Her feelings just aren’t that important to most in the wider world, as Juan Pablo has illustrated.

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Trista Sutter offers one last bit of commentary that can wrap up our insight into the perception of Juan Pablo:

It is one thing to speak from the heart in the interest of honesty and entirely another to speak your mind in a disrespectful way without compassion or understanding. Honesty is a huge component in successful relationships, but you must choose your words wisely in order to prevent hurtful results and it seems that there is no filter for Juan Pablo. It makes me wonder how he is with his [four year old] daughter. Does he tell her she is horrible at something she is struggling with, in the interest of honesty, or does he tell her how proud he is that she is trying her best and that’s all she can do, in the interest of compassion? My hope is that he will take this opportunity and consciously choose kindness over honesty no matter whom he is speaking to… not only for his own benefit, but for the happiness of Nikki as well as Camila and all the people in his life.

Sutter is making her appeal here by asking that Juan Pablo treat Nikki (the contestant he chose as the winner of The Bachelor this season) and other women like her in the same way he treats his daughter, Camila. By drawing a parallel between the way he interacts with both, Sutter implies that they should be treated similarly, “in the interest of compassion”.

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Camila is four years old. Nikki is 26.

This fully mature, 42 year old woman is essentially expressing her desire for Juan Pablo and men like him to treat grown women like small children. Trista Sutter has, unwittingly, concurred with the old patriarchal notion that women are like children and should be treated accordingly. Events on the show itself are in line with this notion: Juan Pablo tried to treat the women he met like mature, reasonable adults, and that was too much for their extremely fragile egos. They needed to be handled with kid gloves.

I like Juan Pablo, but I can see why he’s attracted so much controversy as “The Bachelor”. He was too real, and reality is not in demand here. That honesty is what makes him “The Worst Bachelor Ever” in the eyes of a society so heavily invested in delusions associated with the fantasy that the show tries to present.

At the end of the day, one fact remains…

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172 thoughts on “Why Is Juan Pablo The Worst Bachelor Ever?”

  1. RAPE COMMITTED BY PROFESSIONAL ATHLETES IS WELL KNOWN….STUDIES HAVE SHOWN THAT THE OVERWHELMING MAJORITY HAVE DONE THIS.
    SO NOT SURPRISING THE “RETURN OF RAPISTS” WEB BLOG SUPPORTS THIS CREATURE.
    GO TO HELL YOU SLIME BALL

  2. Great article by the man who consistently churns out some of the best content on ROK.
    I still can’t find words to describe how moronic that commentary by Trista Sutter is. Is she blonde?

      1. Would bang, but then not propose, nor call back like the other 100 or so cock stands on the carousel she rode since middle school.
        Aww, too bad Trista, Juan is my new hero. Popsicle? It is much more cold to soothe your “cold sores” after a “long day.”

        1. Same Alastair. If she shaved her head and took off the makeup she’d stand a good chance of being mistaken for an adolescent male. Yikes.

        2. Physically, I don’t think she is bad looking. Of course, after a quick five minute conversation, or thirty seconds for that matter; she would automatically be filed in the bang, and don’t call file.

      2. With that jaw, she could terrorize quite some beaches and coastal waters. No surfer would be safe.

      3. Gross. Trista should look on the bright side: Even if she never finds Prince Charming, there’s always the option of impregnating herself with her own penis.

        1. It’s lovely seeing a white mother with a healthy white baby, even if she’s not wearing makeup (and likely physically exhausted from childbirth).
          MUCH better than yet another attention whore sticking her ass out for an Instagram pic, even if the whore is all dolled up with a fine butt.

        2. I agree but the point is to take away the illusion sold to guys…
          Men, we need constant visual reminders of how females really look like and not buy into the illusion of photoshop…

        3. If the only people who had children were people who were 100% certain they’d be perfect parents….then nobody would ever have children. None of us would be here, now.

  3. I dig this guy not putting pussy on the pedestal. Excellent article, really enjoyed reading this.

    1. Agreed, this article is great. The author is a good writer to boot. Some points the boys can take away from this: Telling her what she wants to hear will get you sex. Not committing to her will get you out of a huge debt you don’t owe. And her bragging to her friends about what an asshole you are is free advertising.

      1. “And her bragging to her friends about what an asshole you are is free advertising.”
        I can personally attest to this. I can’t tell you how many girls I’ve nailed because they were told I was an ‘asshole’ or that I couldn’t commit. A few years back I had this bird I barely knew call me drunk, in the middle of the night and talk softly into the receiver saying ‘[name retracted] told me you were a bad boy…I know you’re bad news…but what would happen if I came over right now’
        If you don’t know what happened next, you probably shouldn’t be here.

        1. If she didn’t flake, I’d have her clean my bathroom and wash my dirty laundry.

    2. Totally. As soon as I got wind of what he was like I thought “He’s gonna be a hero in these parts.” He didn’t disappoint. And if his controversy brought up the ratings, we’ll see more like him.

    3. Women are not used to men who are able choose like they can. Modern women expect men to capitulate because they’ve been raised in a bubble where the majority of men are pushovers.
      Latin men raised outside the states aren’t pushovers like Americans. They will not hesitate to be assholes with women. Despite their disturbed reactions, Juan Pablo is actually very nice for a Latin man. I worked at the languages department of my college and majored in Spanish. I knew a lot of girls that took a semester abroad. They told me stories of how rude the men were in Spain and South America.
      One classmate who spent a semester in Barcelona said strangers would body check her without an apology. They spoke brusquely in the same manner as a strict headmaster or Principal. I’ve heard similar stories from older women that had traveled alone or backpacked to these places.

  4. I saw a few episodes, and heard about his behavior and never thought anything he did was wrong. Great article that as always, expresses how I felt about a matter way better than I could have.

  5. Juan Pablo wasn’t the worst batchelor ever.
    The show is phony. Pretty much all of the winners break up immediately after the cameras stop rolling. They had success with a born again beta and a dude who dumped the ‘winner’ on live TV to get with the runner up. But that’s it in like 20 seasons.
    Auduences know the show is a fraud and would rather watch the train wreck that the show is than the romance the show pretends to be.
    Anyways, Juan Pablo didn’t give the producers what they wanted, so he got slimed. Nikki, who played her part, didn’t get slimed by the editors even though most of the women thought she was a nasty bitch. That’s just how reality TV works.
    Incidently, I imagine that the Batchelor producers are some pretty red pill guys who know exactly what buttons to press with the female contestants
    I’ve got some respect for Juan Pablo who did what he felt was right even after immense pressure to do otherwise. (A dancing with the stars gig and a $20k bribe if he proposed on live TV is the rumor).

  6. I never watched this tripe but when I kept seeing all these articles about what a no-good dirty rascal this guy was, my interest peaked. Sure enough, he was just being honest with these vapid attention whores and got spanked for it. American women claim to want full disclosure, honesty, etc… but usually just get pissed when they hear it. They got a taste of how a good portion of the world works which doesn’t cater to their every whim and desire.

    1. They don’t want full disclosure, they want what they say echoed back to them in a deeper voice.

      1. Indeed sir. They only want to hear what fits into their vision and frame of things. If your honesty does not mix with her predetermined plan, she’ll lose her shit.

  7. Consider the immense narcissism that must underlie the belief that a man must love and propose to a women simply because she gives up her pussy. Holy shit.

    1. Not just any man; a good looking, rich and famous one. Chances are she accrued a double digit notch count long before she entered the show, all with ‘lesser’ specimens.

  8. It is amazing how dumb American women can be. As many of us here have been around the world, most of us can probably attest that foreign women have a much more stringent way of doing business. They prefer honesty within themselves, by themselves. They are of a tougher stuff.
    American women on the other hand, well, just read the article above. They prefer to be lied to, because they can’t handle the betty crocker frosting powered body they possess, so they wear the feminist cartoon body shirt instead.
    Soon, the men’s movement is going to completely break through the media blockade. When all blue pill men get a taste of the red pill, and read about how much more feminine women overseas can be, let’s be honest, feminism is everywhere. There may potentially be an enormous uptick of men who PUA their asses off, or go their own way. If critical mass is reached, say 20-30%; American women will be fucked!
    Imagine if 15%, instead of 3-5% of American men did like me, and married foreign? That alone would trip government into action in more propaganda about getting us back in our cages. When you take all of that, and that RISUG/Vasagel may be coming down the pipe, and they can no longer trap men into pregnancy…..Wheew.
    It is over. Enjoy your equality ladies, you earned it.

    1. First, I agree that American women are horrible and idiots. That said, foreign women are just as hamster prone, however they are raised in traditional cultures and thus have it successfully contained and focused. Our hope is tradition. As a libertarian it rather pains me to admit that, but truth is truth, and it turns out that tradition and institutions are the cornerstone of any health, successful society.

      1. I totally agree. I guess I should clarify. It is not that my wife is any less women. It is purely her upbringing. To show my more objective side, we too as men, are a product of our environment here.
        We are merely, and correctly I might ad, responding to the sexual marketplace we perceive. What else do we have?
        My wife is awesome. That said, if she was raised feminist, her body would be irrelevant. It is her strong, familial, and patriarchal upbringing that is such a benefit. She s ride or die.
        In her country, marriages are still arranged. She is the black sheep;P

      2. I’ve been involved with three straight off the boat European women so far, Polish to be exact, and they adopt the American lifestyle very quickly. Have spoke to people also, that women coming from ex-communist countries trying to adopt the western-lifestyle doesn’t go over very well. At this point think I’m adhering to the three strikes your out rule when it comes to these Polish women. For some reason I had this fixation in my head I indeed had a better woman, and it reality, they came to this country to go against everything they were taught to believe from their history/ancestry/culture that holds their homelands together so tightly.

      3. Why should it pain you to be a libertarian?
        It’s government inflation that’s brought about the two-income family and destruction of the traditional family.
        It’s the government that’s forced businesses to hire women even if an employer might prefer to maintain an all-male workforce.
        It’s the government that gives women the overwhelming legal advantage in marriage disputes.
        It’s the government that intrudes on the religious and societal custom of marriage and forces everyone to accept homosexual unions as “marriage”.
        It’s the government that punishes the most successful individuals, almost invariably men, by taking more of their productivity and giving it to the less productive.
        It’s the government that extorts money from everyone so that women get “free” contraception and abortion.
        It’s government extortion that even allows radical feminists and cultural marxists to exist. Without public education and state-funded universities, teachers and professors would instruct instead of indoctrinate.
        If anything, the government crowds out and tries to replace those very traditions and institutions that you mention are the cornerstone of a healthy, successful society.

        1. ^^^^Truth^^^^
          “teachers and professors would instruct instead of indoctrinate” …right on…

    2. ^^^@JJ– could you tell us what country your wife if from?? She sounds like a complete winner… If this is an overly personal question and you can’t answer then my apology in advance…

  9. This line says it all: “In the mind of Trista Sutter (and most women like her), the word “respectful” means telling women what they want to hear”.
    They really are like little children who throw tantrums and stamp their feet if the world does not conform to their imagination.

    1. What will be really fun to watch is their hamster’s nuclear attention reactor meltdown after all men and women start treating her tantrums like they do a three year olds.
      Let them hit floor, ignore, or laugh. Works every time.

    2. And I would be damned if I’d treat my child as described. My job as a parent is not to engulf her with endless pats on the head, it is to raise her to be a functioning adult, and to do so as quickly as is reasonably possible to enhance her odds of survival.
      I’ve got an idea, how about showing her what she is doing wrong, how she might do it better, encourage her to practice and give her an honest hug every time it all pays off with improvement?

      1. The response from my child when he’s told that he’s fucked something up and he needs to make amends has always been infinitely more adult than any I’ve ever got from a grown woman. An 8 year old will actually recognize their rationalizations if you point them out and understand when you explain why they’re bullshit, whereas a woman will simply fish around in her purse for another.

    3. Not only that, respecting women gets you precisely nowhere. They don’t respect “respect”.

  10. Articles of this caliber only solidify why I visit ROK on a daily basis.
    Anyone think 2014 should have 3-5 annual ROK awards such as most alpha author, best male advice article, best all around author, best comment, most views, etc……?
    That would be a great incentive to both read and write and would only serve to raise the bar

    1. That’s a really bad idea. Awards are meaningless. If you believe whoever wins Best Actor at the Oscars every year is actually and definitively the best actor, then shit. It’s all just self-congratulatory masturbation for narcissists that need to feel important.
      A better idea for raising the writing/content standard is for Roosh and the editors to start being meticulous and nitpicky with writers’ submissions. Regarding content, the freshness and originality of the idea, as well as writing conventions like strong sentences, correct spelling and grammar.

      1. The Oscars are awarded from the top on down. The people who vote are in the industry and say to the fans who they should think is the best. An analogy would be if Roosh and his mods would be the only one who pick the winners here. An ROK annual award/s would be voted on from the bottom up, i.e. the readership.
        It would help build the community and slightly foster a very healthy competition in which really everyone wins with the prize of superior content.

      2. I enjoy almost all the articles here. If you think you can do better – submit one.
        That was kind of a douchey comment you made. Nitpicking on spelling like a first grade schoolteacher.

        1. WuD u RaTheR aRtiKleS Is RoTe LiKe DiS?
          Proper spelling and grammar are imperative for legitimacy and credibility. They’re part of the rules of the game. You don’t run with the basketball from point A to B. You either dribble or pass to get there.
          Athlone writes some of the best content I’ve seen on ROK. His ideas are on point, but he also writes intelligently, which boosts credibility.

  11. I have no problem with him. The show is contrived and I am glad that he chose to be honest instead of walking down a path that was more serious than the relationship justified…especially b/c he has a daughter. Anyone who is health conscious knows you don’t eat after 7pm…especially carbs. Ones physical appearance is certainly a major factor. I have no problem with his comment on the bread either.

  12. I think men typically have three types of relationships:
    1) Marriage relationships
    2) Long term dating relationships with a sexual component
    3) Short term sexual relationships while looking for #2 and #3
    Girls want the equality to have all three as well, just can’t stand to be the girl in #3.

  13. “During his helicopter date in St. Lucia with the 32-year-old on the Bachelor finale,”
    How to ruin a perfectly good helicopter ride-
    Have a 32 year old biological clock ticking reality TV whore tag along and ask if you’re in love with her.
    God damn that must’ve sucked.

    1. The longer I go with red pill knowledge, the more discriminating I am with the women I spend any time with. Any woman who looks like their baby-rabies might be a problem get immediately de-selected.

  14. Looking at all these whores lining up for one man to choose should really WAKE UP every man into Red Pill thinking.
    All these whores are ready to marry a complete stranger because he’s famous and wealthy.
    I’m sure many good guys proposed to these whores and got rejected.
    At the end of the day all the education and career of a woman means shit.

    1. In a way it’s a great introduction to red pill thinking, if you can manage to convince any normal male to watch AND analyze this show. I’ve never seen it, having divorced myself from pop culture nigh on 10 years now, but I’ve heard of it. This is a fantastic development, and the reactions noted by the fat cow(s) are predictable as the sun rising, which tells me he’s really hit a strong vein of Truth.

      1. How many beta men would marry these whores… I bet over a hundred thousand easy…
        It’s like throwing out a buffet of food in front of starving kids….it’s an insult to hard working single American beta men looking to get married to a “quality” girl like the whores on that show.
        If that isn’t enough proof that women value $$$ over anything else than I don’t know what else is….

  15. This article should be retitled as:
    “Why Juan Pablo Is The Best Bachelor Ever”

  16. “I loved fucking you, but I don’t know you.” What an epic line. Much respect for this man who didn’t bow to the cares of the feminized media.
    Great article, Athlone.

    1. There probably was no personality of note for him (Juan Pablo) to ‘know’ anyway.

    2. Agreed. Ballsy line given the fact he stated it on TV in opposition to what the producers likely wanted.

  17. The real stinging part is not that he told the truth but that he told the truth to a woman who was rapidly approaching the wall.

  18. Apparently the rates of success for lasting marriages or relationships that arise from both the Bachelor and Bachelorette (which is a show that could use its own Red-Pill thesis) is around 16%. Considering female consumption of shitty entertainment magazines and television, we can conclude that these women are at least partially aware that their pursuit of their fantasy is unlikely to work out in the end, even if they make it through the process and get prince charming down on one knee in front of Caribbean sunset.
    What’s obvious is that they are deluded to the point where they believe they can beat the odds, and that once presented with the fairytale, they are so wrapped up in it that all other considerations are cast aside. The female contestants portray average women with an accuracy I find uncanny.

    1. Outside of the West, they don’t call it “red pill”.
      They just call it “life”.

      1. Venezuela is in the western hemisphere and is an outgrowth of european culture as well.

  19. It’s amazing how splintered the media has become now. I’d never heard of this guy or realized that the Bachelor was still on the air. Great Article.

  20. Awesome article. It’s like cold water to the face, he he. Also glad to hear that there are still men out there who don’t kiss ass.
    I imagine this guy has a pretty awesome selection back home (Venezuela) as far as beautiful women goes, from what I’ve seen of women there.
    I’m surprised this hasn’t become The Batchelor: Big Girls Need Love, Too!
    what with all the fat acceptance & entitlement that goes on here in the USA.
    Just imagine a crowd of jiggly-armed pot-bellied “seductresses” who each believe they deserve a well-to-do and strikingly handsome man.
    Hamster, prepare to launch!

    1. There was already a season like that. It was called More to Love.
      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/More_to_Love
      I don’t think it was very successful . . . maybe because it didn’t offer enough of a fantasy to the fat chicks. The man on the show was also overweight (albeit tall and wealthy), and fat women prefer to think they can attract hot men.

  21. The only way that this guy could be cooler is if he went on The View and told rape jokes.

  22. Best article in a long time, great analysis. As soon as women see a man standing for his politically incorrect beliefs or just saying the truth, they quickly turn on their hamster wheels, rarely providing decent arguments against it.

  23. Fantastic article highlighting the lies we put up with in our feminized culture all in the name of not offending females.
    Juan Pablo, as do I, enjoys telling women who aren’t used to it, ‘No’. Responding to a women simply with ‘no’, and without sugar coating your response is liberating, since I discovered the red pill I no longer sugar coat my answers that females don’t want to hear.
    The level of delsuion on display in this article shows you what we’re having to put up with.

  24. Latin American men have the machismo. They don’t put up with these ridiculous games. Good work JP!

      1. Yes agree 1000%.
        Sad we need a role-model to teach us to simply listen to our inner common sense rather than bow to the Holy Pussy.

  25. This is proof for any newbie that women do not value honesty at all. In fact they are repulsed by it.

    1. The Truth is that most bangable girls are nothing but high class prostitutes.
      Even the single moms are prostitutes.
      Proof: How many 9s and 10s do you see with average middle class men?

  26. Great post! This show tells a lot about American culture. Isn’t it crazy when ‘reality’ television is anything but? That’s the type of Orwellian entertainment that permeates American society. Ever since I stumbled on the ‘manosphere’, my television has seen less and less work.

  27. This site is awful, so much complaining and negativity. How are you ever supposed to find a good woman if you can’t get your vibration up? Sites like this will only bring you further down. You gotta stay positive and look at the bright side. There is where you’ll find what you’re looking for.

  28. On the contrary, I think Juan Pablo is the greatest, because… NOT!
    Why are you fagets even watching that show?

  29. An article like this shows me personally why non-Anglo cultures with emphasis on Latin culture feel and are more complete, in comparison and contrast to the Anglo one. In addition, this makes me appreciate the Philippines’ past as a former Spanish colony, in contrast of the gynocratic American rule.
    Yes, Anglo AND Anglicized women, you need to earn your femininity, just like you are telling your own men to “earn their manhood”. Yes, Anglo AND Anglicized women, you need to earn a man’s love, just like how . Yes, Anglo AND Anglicized women, you need to get LYNCHED for a lie called FALSE RAPE ACCUSATION for every one man, your ilk or NOT, that DIE in prison for such lie; after all, your 19th Century/pre-Civil Rights counterparts DID get men LYNCHED. Yes, Anglo AND Anglicized women, you need to get held accountable for your own deeds; no wonder men of your own ilk are marrying out and as a result, your ilk are not procreating enough. Yes, Anglo AND Anglicized women, treat men like subhumans and Mother Nature shall treat you worse than a bitch.
    Oh, as for Juan Pablo, he’s right on point for various reasons. Dads bring mental stability on children more than mothers do; I should know this myself: my mom is one unstable sheep.

      1. Boy Ill say. Cant quite figure out the comparison with the Philippines. Since they have no child support laws or divorce courts most guys ditch out on the girl after she has kids. Thats why most Filipino dudes are gay. No dad, young boys end up gay or tranny.

        1. “Boy Ill say. Cant quite figure out the comparison with the Philippines.
          Since they have no child support laws or divorce courts most guys ditch
          out on the girl after she has kids. Thats why most Filipino dudes are gay. No dad, young boys end up gay or tranny.”
          You’re telling me that I should rather celebrate American rule? Geez, what are you? A sexually frustrated Angle man and have “Me Love You Long Time” fantasies about Asians, let alone Filipinos? And yes, that’s how “westernized” Filipino society is, at worst.

        2. Phil’s are an excellent balance of Asian and Western. Even on your first trip, you will quickly feel comfortable there. For many reasons, Filopinas make great wives/lovers
          Sex is not something she uses as a weapon, or commodity
          She likes it! When the military was there, they called them LBFM’ s. Little brown gigging machines.
          Unfortunately, internet and cell is coarsening the culture, so, BUY NOW!

  30. Been to Venezuela twice. The men arent emasculated like American men. We should invite JP to “Return of Kings”

  31. Oh dear, the producers thought they would play the diversity card by getting an Hispanic man, they tried to play it safe by choosing the most European looking one they could find, then it blows up in their faces haha. I think they have learned their lesson, next time they will do more screening, they cant afford to damage female ego anymore.

  32. I don’t watch the show, but I saw a couple of clips of this on the news. He always looks rather disgusted with these women, and I don’t really blame him. He’s always gotten attention from girls for being an athlete, so he’s not getting anything he’s not used to. So if he were actually looking for a nice girl, he was probably sorely disappointed. I’d say most women that go on a show like that are just looking for fame as a model, celebrity, actress, etc. I doubt any of them really were interested in being Juan’s wife and all of the effort that would entail. And I don’t know how you make the decision to propose after a whirlwind courtship of 2 months that involves 20 other women. I’m glad he didn’t lie. Honesty is important.

  33. I watched this show with an Ex. I told her every freaking time, this show is complete and utter BS and is part of the American Delusion of love and marriage. All she could do was deny what I was saying and tell me how I should be more like the guys on the show. Ya right…. notice how I typed Ex, not GF. Even being an American male, I refuse to swallow this crap. I’m not here to dress up a girl and make her feel and look like barbie. Any sane and rational man would do what Juan did.
    Juan, if you ever read this blog and are in the PNW, I’d buy you a beer any day buddy!

  34. So they’re basically glossing over the fact that none, none of those women love the guy but his looks and money. I’m so shocked.

  35. They’re calling him gay over at TMZ. I suppose that’s the new word for non-committed.

    1. So, gay is bad now? Imagine if she didn’t put out, and he called her a les?

  36. My take away from this is that most people want to be lied to. After all, they tell so many to themselves.
    They don’t want the curtain peeled back they don’t want to see the little man pulling the levers behind it. They want the illusion maintained, not pulled apart.

  37. I haven’t watched this show in about 15 years, but this Juan Pablo guy sounds pretty f*cking awesome to me.

  38. “Here’s what he told Keltie about meals after 7.
    Keltie: And bread maybe? Girls love carbs.
    Juan Pablo: No, no carbs after 7, I will not give you carbs.”
    Murican woman relate to food like small children. The above conversation reminded me of something that took place between myself and a female co-worker.
    Female co-worker(grossly overweight) and I had to visit a client located a few miles from our office. This woman asked me if she could go along with me, in my car, instead of us taking two separate cars. In the interest of maintaining friendly relations with my co-workers, I agreed, and was sorry that I did.
    We finished at the client’s location around 4pm and called it a day. I asked this woman if she needed to stop anywhere before I drove her home. She asked if it would be too much trouble to stop at a local supermarket, because she needed to get a few things for dinner. I agreed, and we stopped at the market.
    When we got back to my car, I helped her place the grocery bags in the trunk when she started searching through the bags. I asked her what she was doing, and she replied, “I want a bag of chips and peanuts for the ride back.” Keep in mind she was probably 75 pounds overweight. I told her that I don’t eat in my car, and don’t allow other people to eat in my car either….I think it’s a disgusting habit. She looked at me in complete shock and asked, “Are you serious?”. “Yes.”, I said and closed the truck. We drove back to her house in silence. When we got to her house, I helped her carry the grocery bags to her door, and left.
    The next day this woman walked up to me and and said, “I told my husband how you wouldn’t let me eat in your car, and he laughed and said you are a “neat freak.” I wanted to tell her that hubby was as pathetic beta, who didn’t have the balls to tell her fat ass, “No.” For weeks after this incident, this woman would not stop telling everyone in the office about how I would not allow her to eat in my car. At first people were laughing at me, calling me “Felix Unger”, but she wouldn’t stop and people eventually became very annoyed with HER.
    That was the first and last time I went out with her on a field assignment.

  39. I watched a couple episodes when I read about people not liking him. I think it’s good to be aware of large pop-culture phenomena because it is a good indicator about mainstream society’s values.
    Anyway, the dude is basically a stone cold ALPHA. Way to alpha for mainstream American women. He is also pretty intelligent and a smooth talker. The game he can spit is probably off the charts. But he probably doesn’t have to, due to his good looks/fame/wealth. And then he’s got his exotic accent. I can’t even fathom the pussy this guy is swimming in daily.
    Essentially he is just out of every woman’s league. He already has a kid so he’s in no rush to find a “good mother” type. This dude never has to settle down. He will be in his 50s slaying 20-something pussy if he so desires. This type of man is destined to never marry, just knock up multiple women, and then maybe settle down with a 23yr old girl when he hits 45.
    If he does settle down, I predict it will be with
    1) A very high-value woman (beautifuil rich young celebrity type)
    2) A smoking hot 18-21yr old

    1. Before we get a hard on for JP, keep in mind that the guy slept with a basket case and knocked her up: Not very smart alpha/player type behavior. Alphas I know never go anywhere without a condom stashed somewhere within easy reach and also don’t give out their last names or home address.

      1. The mother of his child is high-value woman — a beautiful Venezuelan actress. However, she is also 4-years older than him, which does make me second guess his alpha credentials a bit.

        1. How does her job as an actress make her less of a basket case? He knocked up a woman out of wedlock without full control of the situation. That’s just plain stupid.
          Older women are great for younger men. I did it myself. Provided you protect yourself, these women are sexually experienced and can teach a lot. They are often less needy. They can be more intellectual and therefore more interesting to talk to. And of course, some if not most older, single women are that way for a reason and are messed up. But under the right circumstances, they can be an excellent way to sow wild oats.

  40. Brilliant man, brilliant example to precious that she doesn’t meant that much as yet.
    I fail to see how a 32yo Clare Crawley – interesting name – is considered to be young. She’s in the process of hitting The Wall. No wonder she fucked a storm with him, it’s her swan song for getting a famous mate. Mutton, lamb, all that good stuff.
    Lessons from Juan Pablo:
    • get wined and dined on the network’s dime
    • get to live and travel on the network’s dime
    • get to fuck a bevy of desperate sluts on the network’s dime
    • get to show every woman in America on their own TV screens that they ain’t all that on the network’s dime
    Truly epic.

    1. Well said. He has essentially just pissed in the faces of millions of American women and showed them how worthless they really are.

        1. Another interesting thought: the mere fact that she had a pathetic self-absorbed whinge about it shows another aspect of the man. He just tested her for her actual interest in him and she came up massively wanting.
          He won’t be wifing that up, ’cause he scratched through the surface and found the ugly self-absorbed whinger that goes to the bone. Exposed it on TV for all to see.

        2. I’m guessing he can get all the sex he wants, as such I think the American sluts (and that’s what they proved themselves to be) miscalculated.
          What man wants some slut like that bringing up his daughter ?
          Maybe if one of them kept her legs closed and shown an interest in his daughter’s hobbies etc he might have explored a relationship with her after the show finished ?
          That would have been smart ’42 year old single dad game’ for a woman to practice, so not only are these woman sluts none of them are very bright.
          Even 32 year old Clare might have had a chance using that strategy, at the very least it would have provided her with a point of difference between every other woman Juan meets every single day in USA.

  41. Das definitely it mane. I could have a beer with this guy. Ive never watched the show, but i was rolling with his comments….lol..keep dat dere Alpha alive.

  42. “My hope is that he will take this opportunity and consciously choose kindness over honesty no matter whom he is speaking to”
    I guess she’s not a fan of Henry David Thoreau

  43. Shit, I may just need to watch this season of bachelor. Finally a real man on it.
    If only Hollywood would get real women on the show and not these hollywood wannabe gold diggers

  44. I am aware that this show exists, but I don’t know a damn thing about it otherwise, and I couldn’t be bothered to read beyond the first few paragraphs of this article, because I don’t care about bullshit like this show.
    How can any real man (or true Scotman for that matter) watch this show? This is egregious lowbrow, chick oriented mind mush.

  45. He is my hero. His daughter is so happy that he didn’t let one of those venomous harpies take over the household. Bravo Juan Pablo! Bravissimo!

  46. No offense, but I don’t think you guys get it. You’re all falling into that blue pill trap of actually believing what women say they think to be the same thing as what they ACTUALLY think. Sure, all the female pundits are talking about what an asshole the guy is. But I’d be willing to bet that they’d be a thousand times more turned on and willing to fuck the hell out of Juan if they met him in real life than they would be for any of the other seventeen emasculated, PC, American pussy bachelors who came before him. I thought it was common knowledge around these parts. Women SAY they hate assholes and want a nice guy who will make her the center of their Universe. But they get incredibly wet for assholes who don’t commit and treat them as completely replaceable. Juan played it perfectly. Dude is going to be swimming in pussy. Women will be lining up for the opportunity to be the one to “tame him” and get him to commit. Dude is a player. And we all know how well players do with the ladies.

    1. Yeah like in the video the woman on the show was talking shit about him but then the guy said “no this is you when he was on the show” and she was loving it and really turned on by him. And she had no real response to that.

  47. Never watched the show and have no interest in ever doing so, but still have to say this article was really entertaining and this “Bachelor” is awesome.

    1. The expenditure of the locale coupled with female solipsism.
      For example, taking a woman to Eiffel Tower, The Louvre, or some landmark in Rome makes them think as if those (expensive) places were built for them and only for their enjoyment.
      The word “romantic” in this sense simply masquerades the female’s vapid materialistic tendencies and grants gratification to their attention deficiency that they all suffer from.
      In layman terms: take a bitch to an expensive place and she thinks she’s special.

  48. “This fully mature, 42 year old woman is essentially expressing her desire for Juan Pablo and men like him to treat grown women like small children. Trista Sutter has, unwittingly, concurred with the old patriarchal notion that women are like children and should be treated accordingly. Events on the show itself are in line with this notion: Juan Pablo tried to treat the women he met like mature, reasonable adults, and that was too much for their extremely fragile egos. They needed to be handled with kid gloves.”
    Nothing more needs to be said.

  49. I have to say, he’s treating these women the same way I would. I mean really, what right thinking man would propose to such a dreamer after less than two months.

    1. Lots of thirsty guys out there would bend over backwards to get a whiff of that pussy…this guy had some backbone to knock the pedestal off these little entitled princesses.

      1. +1 betas jump over each other just to lick her shoes….but those are betas….they get the town bike after everyone has had a ride and then they think they landed the best thing ever….never understood those men? What is wrong with them? where is their back bone?

  50. My wife and I like to watch the show but sometimes when the guys are beta male wussies and the women are just typical party girls, it becomes boring and difficult to watch. Even as the producers criticizes JP on the show, they were secretly happy about him shooting the ratings up. If you read RoK and are interested in a reflection of American culture (and how American culture is so obsessed with itself while simultaneously clueless), then the show is a lot of fun.
    That said, the next bachelorette who let JP have it for not living up to her beta male dream is an attorney and a real harpie NOBODY here would want. But there is one guy who would. In a previous bachelorette show, a successful, reasonably good looking attorney, Michael Garofola, was dumped and he cried in the limo and get this: called his mother.
    Another guy on the same show, James Case, was kicked off because he said that if he were thrown off, then his life would go on. (What’s this? A man saying that the world doesn’t revolve around a woman dating 10 other guys?) The other beta males all attacked him (JP was largely in the background) and pulled a white knight routine on him.
    Anyways, hilarious show (sometimes.)

    1. Yeah I cant imagine the producers being unhappy about the uptick in ratings for this season the controversy caused.

  51. >>the word “respectful” means telling women what they want to hear. Not
    what you >>actually think, or what actually is, but whatever she considers
    appropriate.
    Look this is so sad. yeah the world will not work for you. every day someone is telling me something i don’t want to hear and that i don’t agree with. I’m a man i deal with it. Why can’t women deal with this?
    W/R to not eating carbs after 7….really? This is what offends you ladies? So I as a man have to have a good paying job, drive a nice car, have a nice house, be in shape, be educated and love your mother……but if we ask you to stay in shape so that you can have a long healthy life we are dicks?
    As for the gays? Really? I love my gay friends to death! They don’t need this. They communicate and respect each other.
    Just my thoughts…..

  52. Pleasantly surprised that this dude turned out to be a pimp instead of a simp!
    Although I don’t watch the show, you can’t hardly have a conversation in the f’ed up country without being involved in or overhearing a bunch of cackling hens go on about the Bachelor. Even in Japan, I’d hear about it from the American females who followed the show religiously. I hand only seen JP on the first episode and though this guy was a total simp.
    I’m so glad to return to hear he’s the WORST BACHELOR EVER! Way to go JP! Good thing you kept your wits about you and didn’t get sucked into the expectations of the show, the women, and the culture-at-large. You played it how you saw it, and now know how American men are viewed when they say what they mean, and mean what they say.
    I get the “that’s disrespectful” comment all the time from women. I started to think to myself, “Am I really disrespectful?” NO! I’m just honest. And, since I”m not starved for pussy, I don’t have to put on a facade to appease Americunts and feed their delusional hamsters.
    So, I’m glad to hear the JP sucks as a Bachelor. But in reality, HE’S THE MF’in PERFECT BACHELOR in my book. That guy can, and maybe will continue to slay pussy round the world. Now the hoes that approach already know the score and must live with the man know as The Worst Bachelor Ever!

  53. In Venezuela guy do what they want. And women deeply believe in beauty, a woman will walk three steps in front of you just to make sure you get a view of the goods she is offering.

  54. It’s men that will provide the solution to all of this nightmare of having to work your ass off, commit, and ass kiss and the entire relationship-seeking process which is very destructive to the male psyche and society. The solution right now is not politically accepted but once all std’s are cured(by MEN of science) women will be like a catalog and your money will dictate the rules. Having your nuts drained by a woman should be seen as nothing more than a MEDICAL PROCEDURE covered by the society, Woman for stimulation, and proper method for elimination of seminal/psychological stress. Taking only the biological alphas for further reproduction. (Im ok with my seed being eliminated, if it furthers the society)
    Relationship-seeking is currently a mental illness and i think society is in the beggining stages of adapting, by males realizing their role. Which is to further science, and this can only be done when we are not being divorce raped and having seminal build up eliminating behaviors taking too much of our time and destroying our iq’s! Men wise up, let’s advance society, figure out the sexual issues via some sort of technology and clean forms of medical seminal elimination. Let’s get to the root of all this garbage, stop the relationship seeking like barbaric creatures of the stone ages! Isn’t it pathetic to go around begging for some other human to fulfull you? I’d rather get a female to perform an elimination procedure, drain my nuts via erotic stimulation, and get back to my scientific endeavors. We MUST advance the society, and we must leave this barbarism, and “love” must be re-diverted to only love of science. Science will create real-like woman droids that will please you for all of eternity, and be customizable . The future is friendly, if you abandon love.

  55. Except he wasn’t really all that honest. If he was, he would have told her that he wasn’t interested in a relationship with her BEFORE the sex.

  56. Really admire this footballer dude. He scored his goals in the holes of those buffoon American women on the reality show, and finally took one woman with him for penalty practice with her holes indefinitely, without choosing to make her a part of his official team. Serves modern American bitches right.
    I wonder whether Clare Crawley demanded a confession of love in return for probably giving him her anus to ravage (typical American modern feminist theory that anal is actually an “act of love and trust”. If that were the case, whores, sluts, vaginal virgins and east European women – who usually offer anal every time- tend to trust and fall in love all the time with their all their fuck buddies/clientele.) The stupid bitch fittingly got her ass kicked to the curb by him after he probably dicked it – for her sense of entitlement to his confession of love.
    Tuthmosis remains my favorite author on this site. His tweet “There’s more money in lying to women than telling them the truth” should be a 21st century commandment for modern men. A perfect gem of wisdom.

  57. Excellent piece. I am not necessarily a big fan of The Bachelor but I did enjoy the finale of Juan Pablo’s season and how the host tried to pressure him into saying that he “loved” Nikki and he didnt budge. Good stuff.

  58. So much truth here. As the father of a daughter, let me say to the woman on the street: you are not my daughter. I will not treat you like her, ever, because you can never mean that much to me. If (big if) you meet my high standards, then I (might) make room for you in my life, in which case I will continue to dictate higher standards, and expect you to always meet a high standard of behavior in and out of my presence. So telling these harpies want to be treated like a daughter, they are surrounded by betas looking for a new mommy. Chumps

  59. I’ll tell you guys something. My situation is similar to his. I was born in America, moved to Brazil when 2 and went back when 21. After less than 2 years in NYC I decided to move back, the cultural shock being one of the great reasons. American traditions for me are all fucked up. All of these quoted sentences of Juan are completely normal here in South America but a huge shock for American women, who are, in general, dumb feminists gold digging whores.
    He has an admirable behaviour, always honest and manly. The women wanted the charming prince riding the white horse they saw on Disney a few years back. Fuck’ em.

  60. Of course he’s Latino. Word up dude!
    On an related note, Sarah Hyland should look at herself in the mirror before commenting. After all she does play the slutty Hayley on Modern Family and nobody has a problem with that.

    1. And may I add, nobody gave a fuck about the last Bachelorette Kaitlyn Bristowe screwing around with a contestant.

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