Training women, especially indirectly and without them ever suspecting it, should become the cornerstone of how you interact with the opposite sex. Like a missile homing in on its target, your mind must constantly reorient itself to the task of bending a particular woman to your indomitable will.
I don’t pretend that strategies and tactics like these will ameliorate the excesses of every girl or every female-related situation. The silver bullet does not exist. But game is about mindset and framing. So start to view and frame it in the way that serves you, and translate that to the girl or girls you spend your time with sexually or romantically.
1. Make her respect your time
This is the most important “external” resource you will ever have at your disposal. How you spend it will be the source of either unimaginable horror or supreme satisfaction when you inevitably die. Make her value your time or you’re nothing but dust.
Make use of your “dead time” to contact her
You’re waiting for a taxi, bus, or walking through your city. This is the time to call her. You’re going somewhere. You’re doing something. You’re communicating to her that you’re busy and have priorities. You’re contacting her when it suits you, in the time you have available.
True enough, you will need to carve out some space in your days to speak to her more one-on-one, tied to the passing moment. But you have the sort of life that requires you to choose people and activities wisely. Communicate that to her, albeit implicitly.
Make her wait when she’s late for a date or meeting
If it’s more than five minutes and she hasn’t shown up, turn around and take a stroll somewhere else where she won’t find you. Whip out your phone and call someone else.
She’ll arrive, realize you’re not there and then start to search for or text you. You can respond back while you’re on the phone, saying you left to make a call when you noticed she wasn’t there. Or you can leave her not knowing. Your choice. If she bails entirely, you can always say you waited and she didn’t show up.
2. Force her to take responsibility for her emotional blow-ups
She’ll have them. No one, man or woman, is perfect. But there are, as you must now know, some fundamental differences between how men and women generally react under strain. You need to be prepared for them with your girl(s).
Respond to her tantrums by doing your own thing
Not all the time (if only that were possible!), but often enough for her to get the picture: you’re not a doormat and if she wants to behave in that fashion, you’ll go somewhere else. You can’t walk away from every problem in life. Yet you’d be surprised how rewarding it can be, in the initial stages of a relationship or FWB arrangement (or when things get a tad stale), to blow off a girl and head to the gym for a weights session. Or go for a walk. Or call a friend and get a bite to eat. Instead of doing it vindictively, do it calmly or make it seem pre-planned. Unconsciously, she’ll get the picture.
Give her a perfectly selfish reason to stop it
People are, after all, selfish. Make your statement here oblique but undeniable: blow-ups cost her. The language and non-verbal responses I use with girls go along this line, a combination of both guilt and a call for her to preserve her own happiness.
Many men seeking answers with girls have presumed that being unaffected means casually ignoring everything negative a girl does. Far from it. It’s about how you do it, preferably matter-of-factly, without the typical smugness. “We were having such a great time this weekend, is this how you want to end it? With tears and red eyes?” “We were going to go the movies tonight, I guess you’re not in the mood now.”
Save retaliation for when you really need it and use this kind of positive manipulation for the majority of times.
3. Give her cues to support you and your goals
Tell her about your positive interactions with other people, especially those that got you something
I tell girls about the positive things other people do or have done for me. Firstly, its part of who I am. I like being the raconteur with the stories of opportunity and serendipitous events. On the other hand, it redirects her mind to what she can do for you and unleashes the slightest tinge of jealousy. Focus is reality.
Just as you imagine a series of seemingly unrelated positive memories when you think of the first rosy one, she thinks of ways to support and do things for you when you mention what others have done or simply remind her of what she has done for you previously.
Reward good behavior, but not every time
Easier said than done. A girl shouldn’t do something for you with the expectation of an immediate or constant reward. Ideally, she needs to be also doing these things for you even when, for example, she’s pissed off at you or as tired as a fat person treading water.
Rewarding her each and every time ruins the prospect of that. Make it a mystery as to when, where and with what you will give her an experiential or material trinket of approval.
Emotionalize both the rewards and the signaling of your expectations
When you kiss her during that glorious Tuscan sunset, on the harbour cruise in Vancouver or after you’ve moved in together, make your expectations known, directly or otherwise. “I would love to see you cooking breakfast in your underwear tomorrow at our apartment.”
It doesn’t even need to be about what you really want in the long-term. The point is that you’re priming her to behave in ways that please you. Likewise, give her a veritable bank of mental happiness by providing rewards she can remember for a lifetime. It will make her more pliable in the future.
Female training is about outlook and flexibility
You need to be capable of making new side-paths and tangents from what I have shared here. Adapt to your own circumstances. So long as you’re coding her brain for good, in the same sense that “attraction is not a choice,” you’re installing emotional and mental programs that she feels compelled to follow.
To a degree, it will always be a matter of trial and error. But mere consistency is a feat most men never achieve with their women, so you’ll be in esteemed company by getting even this far.
Tally-ho, gentlemen. It’s time to put her leash on.
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Excellent article. First and foremost we must make sure that the women we fuck with are indeed trainable.
Many are not due to bad attitudes, female entitlement and other tedious baggage. These women steer clear of if not outright shame for their inability to bond with a man
Training girlfriends is serious business. I say this without malice. It’s part of being a man.
Its can also be extremely time-consuming depending on the girl. You basically have to undo years of advertising-industry conditioning and ego-propping-up and daddy’s-girl entitlement spoiling.
Proceed at your own risk
“Many are not due to bad attitudes, female entitlement and other tedious baggage”
This is exactly what I’m thinking. There’s no ‘training’ the modern cunt. This article is not feasible. Good luck in trying to get any female to stick around long enough. Just pump and dump and next.
I had my last gf trained quite well using these principles.
I believe it’s possible but the general rule would be yes assume she’s only pump n dump until proven otherwise
I hear what your sayin’ … and I agree that finding a girl that is more ltr material is becoming increasingly impossible with each passing year
Wait until you are 40. Then it becomes relatively easier.
“Wait until you are 40. Then it becomes relatively easier”
Bob, if you mean that it becomes easier finding a 40 year old female that wants to settle down, well of course, but I’ll pass. It is against my manosphere doctrine to be with an old bag past her prime. And what I mean by “past her prime” is being with a female who is older than 30. And as you know from your experience, the 20 something females are, unfortunately, not ltr material.
Most of them no. But as a great man once said, “you go to war with the army you have…”
“Most of them no”
But i also think that once a guy hits 40 he will have a more difficult time gettiing a 20 something chick to stick around then a guy closer to her age.
Could be true but I have a far easier time getting their attention in my forties than I ever did in my twenties.
Just re-read this, no I do not think it is easier finding a 40 year old female that wants to settle down. In my view, 40 year old females have already settled down or if they haven’t (say if they are divorced with kids) they only want to have fun. Not only that, mentally, they seem no different to women in their 20s except perhaps they are more desperate. That said, they would usually prefer a much older man, not a man their age.
Consider this; of what use is a 40 year old woman to a man in his 40s, who wants children? None whatsover.
30 is the oldest I would consider for an LTR as long as she looked younger.
Yeah man, times are a-changin’. It used to be girls held the keys to the whole relationship/marriage/happiness thing. It’s different now. Thanks to the Mens Movement they’e starting to have to earn us, not the other way around.
Maybe for 40 year old men to get younger girls. That’s what I’m seeing around. The economy drives female dating choices. And guys in their 40’s tend to have jobs, cars, and not live with their parents. In my city that’s what’s happening. The hot, hot girls you used to see only with rich guys are seeing the pool dry up. And it’s going all the way down the economic food chain. I know some below-average guys who couldn’t score a few years ago getting poontang all the time now.
“And it’s going all the way down the economic food chain”
Proof positive female affection is resource based.
That’s almost entirely dependent on context. i.e. the social activities you do on a regular basis must get you into contact with your target group.
I train women all the time bruh.
During the ten minutes a day you’re not on the computer?
These are broken women. Much like broken dogs (from a shelter) best avoided unless you really know how to handle them.
Yes indeed. The ones that aren’t are the type to start a fight, throw the first punch, and then call the cops. You’re pretty much able to separate them from the pile with the first conversation.
It’s all about being respected and setting bounderies, simply that. The time wasting is just part of a “shit test” most of the time. If she sees she can do that, then she percieves she has the upper hand in the relationship. A women can be beautiful and fun to be with, but you can’t ever, ever compromise on respect and bounderies. If you do, you’ll end up sacrificing your masculinity. Lose that and you have nothing.
Same as training a dog – set boundaries, rules and limitations early on and stick to them. Let it be known from date one that you will not accept or even recognize hysterics and you will not be second guessed. Receive compliance first, then reward. Sure, some standards will slip (what dog doesn’t end up on the couch?), but you have already instilled basic obedience so you are still in command.
I’d rather train a dog, way smarter and more self-disciplined than most women.
But they hump your leg. . .oh wait: Spring Break.
I’d choose a dog over 99% of men of 99.9% of women.
If you are in need for extra income averaging 50-300 bucks each day for doing basic jobs from your couch at home for few hours a day then check this out…
Yeah but that dog isn’t going to wake you with a blowjob.
I hope.
Yep I read through this and started to remember my experiences in training dogs.
A fucking tragic statement on current feminism.
great performance from roosh v
http://hyperallergic.com/199218/what-happens-when-a-feminist-artist-interviews-a-pickup-artist/
Dogs don’t have an advertising industry and its affiliates telling them to be a strong independent dog who doesn’t need a man
If you want loyalty get a dog as they say
Wishful thinking.
Women are masters of manipulation and deceit. To think that you can outsmart them in this field is naive and ill informed. The more time she spends with you, the easier it becomes for her to manipulate you. She will always get you in the end, she’ll betasize you.
But if you really want to beat them at their own game, you have to master your sexual powers. You have to learn to turn down sex from women, exactly as they do. Here’s few methods:
1. You refuse her sex all together. Tell her that you go through an intensive workout regime this week and you were recommended to avoid sex. Or any other excuse. Or just don’t say anything.
2. If you feel playful, you can just tease her for up to half an hour or more and never penetrate her. Just lie on the side and say something like: Oh God, that felt awesome! When she says: Is that it? You reply: I thought women liked foreplay more than the actual intercourse. Smirk.
3. If you decide to go all in, make sure you do not ejaculate in the end. This is the ultimate test. It takes longer time to master it but spilling of your seeds signifies surrender to the woman. When you keep it all in tact she feels like you are still on top of her.
You’d think that she’ll go to another man if you refuse her but the opposite is true actually, she becomes even more eager to please you.
A true pussy whisperer.
She will, thus the attraction to bad boys. Women love the challenge of taming a bad boy. She either makes progress in her betanising quest or she faces a stubborn man who don’t take shit from them. Either way, she gets what she wants.
When she is done turning a man into a beta on a leash, the attraction wears off.
So what? If she does, you just move on.
Most of the time, it works with pretty good results though, based on mine and other men’s experience.
Think you got the wrong idea about my response, I was agreeing with you.
You were slightly too vague for my level of English.
I tried this with the last girl who gave me shit. She got way too drunk one night and acted like a total cunt, called me every name in the book etc etc. I’m still not sure what even triggered it. The next day when she sobered up I lectured the shit out of her, told her all the terrible things she had said and done (she couldn’t remember any of it) and refused to fuck her since she had used the makeup sex weapon on me before. I lasted a solid four days until I had a sex dream and woke up to her riding my morning wood, at that point I was powerless. I got rid of her shortly after but lesson learned, no more sleepovers when things are on the rocks.
Too drunk? A lady never gets even a little drunk. If she got too drunk, you waited too long to fire her ass.
I wouldn’t even consider it a firing, as we were never in a proper relationship to begin with. I was in Asia on vacation, and I always make it very clear to women I meet that I’m not there forever, and have no intentions of settling down. This probably had something to do with her bitchiness at the time. Most women in that part of the world see a guy who is fucking them with no plans to be their boyfriend or husband, as being too cheap to buy a hooker. I don’t know if you’ve been to Southeast Asia, but everyone talks about how easy it is to pick up women, and it most certainly is. The part they don’t talk about is how the girl will basically be seen as a whore by their friends and family if their foreign boyfriend doesn’t stick around, so if youre only there for a short time, the hooker route is a lot less dramatic.
Too cheap to buy a hooker… wow… few words could be more humiliating to a woman.
Well you’d think ‘disloyal’, ‘opportunist’, ‘traitor’, ‘bad mother’, etc, would be, but they don’t even register.
I’m going to use it. “Honey, I’m only with you because I’m too cheap to buy a hooker…”
Why didn’t you carry a mattress around afterwards?
No they’re not man, you watch too many movies.
As for the rest of your… advice. Sure, if you like. Frankly I just fuck ’em.
Haven’t watched a movie in 10+ years. I watch around me though.
So full of yourself. Kinda gross.
Chicks dig gross.
You can be full of me if you like dear…
Lol
So do men..:)
Why do people think intact is two words?
Women do like foreplay more than intercourse.
Not me..:)
I view Kpym’s advice as bad if used more than a few times a year on any one girl. Women are cum hungry sluts on the average. I mean they actually love getting jizzed on and in, excuse the vulgar language gents. It’s fine to do what the poster suggests, rarely, to fuck with a girl but if you make a regular habit of fucking a girl and not giving her what she considers her earned load of cum she will go get it somewhere else unless she’s so religious it’s outside of what she’d do.
If you’re making your girl cumhard, a lot, and then you give her a huge load, you won’t have to worry about her getting to far out of line. If you don’t make your woman or women cum, they will get fully out of line eventually. “No respect” as they say. If you usually don’t cum during sex, they will get a complex and go fuck someone else to make sure they can still make a man cum. Easy as that. Women love cum so if you use the 3 listed suggestions, use them sparingly just to prove you’re different than the average man. Then go ahead and prove you’re really different by making her cum hard and a lot. We could talk all day about how to do that. If you don’t know I’d suggest you start with David Shade, being dominant and talking dirty.
A friend of mine got divorced because he caught his wife cheating on him with another man. He didn’t know what when wrong because (in his words) they would have sex 3 times a week and she would cum every time, sometimes even squirting.
She was just a horndog, he should’ve pretended not to know, if he liked her.
My ex husband had a penchant for skanks.. Despite being married to a beautiful woman.. Low self esteem was the issue. Pity em..
Men are pussy loving he- whores.. Slaves to the vagina- much more so than women desire pen is – that’s a fact.. What was your point??
You are stupid.. I would dump your ass in a heartbeat if you pulled even one of those moves on me. Question.. Are your ladies of a lower I Q?? Only a true retard would put up with your ass.. You sound like a predator.
You’re too manipulated by the pussy. You’re not giving men enough credit. We can be just as manipulative and powerful with deceit if not more than women.
Equally important, you must train women to treat you like their fucktoy and NOT their friend. Don’t take nice guy game on your Tinder date (unless it’s a country where nice guy game actually works like Brazil or the Philippines), you must put on a dominant attitude and be 100% confident with yourself. LIKE THIS (but forget the Grindr part).
“2. Force her to take responsibility for her emotional blow-ups”
THIS. The minute you sweep her “emotional blow-up” under the rug, you are done. You are the man. You draw the lines, and you set the parameters for the relationship – just like her Daddy did for her when she was a toddler.
This is your most important shit-test. Will you hold her accountable, and prove you have a spine? Or, will you roll over….proving that you do not have the fortitude to protect her or her potential offspring in the future? Don’t take no shit – she will be forever grateful.
If she continually refuses your headship, well then that’s another story. Kick her to the curb ASAP – she is no good and she never will be. Let her destroy someone else’s life.
reminds me of a guy i saw yesterday at a restaurant. he was there with his two maybe 5 year olds and actually butthurtedly had an argument with his kids at which table they would sit. and when the children couldn’t quite decide, he was angry at them for not knowing what they want.
A man did this?? Really??
I have experienced this. But keep in mind that a the blowup happens after escalation. If you have a woman who goes from zero to full blowup instantly, she’s a nut job and should be dumped to the curb.
Women will escalate every time when they don’t get their way. The key is not to let them.
I am convinced that any man can bring out the worst in any woman by treating her too well and bending to her escalations and hamster.
I fell in love with a BPD sex mink and that really fucked me up. Crazy chicks like that are absolute dreams until something does not go their way, and then they will ruin your life if they have the means.
So did I and its because I put up with so much of her tantrums early in the relationship. BPDs are constant, daily shit testers.
I had one of those. One week of her in my house cured me of any “love”.
You’ve had one of everything, haven’t you.
I haven’t had one of you darling. Post up one of your pics and lets see if you make the grade.
You first. Dunno if you’re worth it.
I look just like my avatar.
Me too.
Very funny! 🙂
“I am convinced that any man can bring out the worst in any woman by treating her too well and bending to her escalations and hamster.”
True. Giving her what she wants too much of the time is a sure recipe for disaster.
I go R Lee Ermey on girls that blow up. They soon learn that is the fastest way to see my dark side.
Basically treat women like children.
Dude most adults act like we’re still in elementary look at the democrats and republicans
They are children
And treat men as dogs.. Completely controlled by sex and food.. And kind words with a pat on the head..:)
This reminds me of the episode of Big Bang Theory where Sheldon uses operant conditioning on Penny to smooth out their relationship. When Leonard realizes what he is doing and objects Sheldon sprays him with a water bottle like a bad kitty.
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But in all seriousness, you should reward good behavior and punish bad behavior with the rewards getting stretched out as the relationship matures. It works on dogs and dogs are Man’s best friend; in theory it should work on his fuck buddies too.
4. Respect your authority to make the (household/critical) decisions. It doesn’t matter how many time you hear, “we have an equal partnership.” that partnership should be about mutually fulfilling your gender roles within the proper contexts and respecting even admiring each others ability to function and perform exceptionally as you were made to. When it comes down to the vital things: finances, children, where to live, etc., you (as the man) should have the last word.
Two reasons without getting overly in-depth:
a) even if she makes the decision YOU will shoulder the blame, even if she never says it directly, in her mind you should have been responsible, not put the pressure (and inescapable truth of failure) on her, and should have known better. Since the proverbial finger will be pointed, better to deserve it.
b) if you don’t make the decision and take responsibility, then you will not only live with the regrets of things going wrong, but have no excuse for when she leaves after you let things go to hell. You will reap your own bitter harvest.
Allow her small (high percent of failure/insignificant) decisions, hold her accountable by not bailing her out afterward without her acknowledgement both that she was wrong and that she needed you to fix it (even non-verbally is acceptable), communicate your reasons for making your decisions calmly and rationally, and stay consistent.
Excellent comment, the subtlety of (b) reinforcing (a). “household/critical decisions”.. this is an extreme example, but in the movie The Road, the father was really struggling with a woman who was pining for the good life, which gave her the validation of her self-perceived self-worth. She couldn’t face the grim reality of a crisis, and wanted to kill her own son, as well as herself. She eventually did away with herself, leaving the man and son to fend for themselves. Some (feminists/pussy pedestalers) will try to interpret this scene in the movie as the supreme sacrifice, but it wasn’t – it was the breakdown of an individual who had constructed her entire identity on a very flimsy base (modern materialism). The wandering man and boy eventually found an underground shelter stacked with tinned foods, and the man had a rueful flashback to his dead wife. The director was clearly stating that if she had trusted and loved her husband enough to unquestioningly defer to his authority, and was willing to endure a little hardship, everything would have worked out for the family. Instead she chose to die in the dark. Roosh may have had a point about women with iPhones (ie, those who have been raised with ubiquitous modern conveniences) who lose the ability to love anybody but themselves. This goes largely undetected, but in a crisis it can become very evident – when all external validation is forcefully stripped away, they realise there’s very little of themselves (character, etc) there to love.
You must also get women to invest in you. Of course the most important investment is that she must spread open her legs wide for you but beyond that, it’s also crucial for a woman to invest her money and time in you as well.
This can only be done when the sex is very good. Like 50 Shades kind of thing. I seriously believe that Daniel Rose’s Sex God Method book is the key to turning a woman you fuck into your sex slave.
I used to be into BDSM. If she is willing to be tied down, gagged, spanked, sodomized and then given a facial, I figure the odds are we will not be arguing about which end of the tube to squeeze the toothpaste or whether the toilet paper should roll of the top of the bottom.
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Time IS money, and while I agree that it is a good gesture to keep the relationship rolling, it is priming you for divorce rape if it is an LTR.
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Sex IS the relationship, otherwise women are just squishy men. That is not always bad and I have a few female friends where sex is not on the table, Otherwise the sex must be good or why bother?
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I will search for Daniel Rose online, but can you summarize his method?
You can google search his book online but to sum up his method, he came up with his DEVI way which stands for: dominance, emotion, variety and immersion. Dominance is the most important part with the other 3 attributes adding to the foundation of sex.
^ This….
yup… I know what you mean. It’s quite funny because when I was into that whole BDSM thing and I tied up the chick, did some dominant shit and made her worship me, she never nagged on me and made me a headache… but as soon as I slipped up and treated her nicely, shit flied out the window and she was being manipulative… it was a lesson learned that once I go fully dominance mode, I should always stay there to make sure that my bitch respects and worships me 100 percent.
?? Damn. Good luck!!
The philosopher’s stone of training a girlfriend is to have her suck your cock, without question. I have had some achievements in this area but if you have perfect technique, then please share.
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Women should NEVER be in the position of withholding sex from you as a punishment for some hamstered slight or insecurity on their part.
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I don’t have a problem with time. I have it rather easy while my girlfriend has a bullshit job where they send her out of the city on weekends and such.
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Putting their emotional blow-ups on them is, frankly, risky, because their hamster will tell them that you caused the blow-up. Then you are “incompatible” and they dump you or expect an apology and compromise on your part.
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Girlfriends are different than male friends and even different than female colleagues. You can share the narrative qua narrative, but don’t expect that anything good that comes from a bro or fem-co is something your girlfriend is even capable of. It is a completely different type of relationship in most respects.
If she says incompatible, tell her then to get lost. She’ll try to contact you, but let her wait. This shows you don’t need her and she can be easily replaced or is not worth the stupid drama she spills on you. It’s a big shit test. If you pass this one, don’t be surprised if she shit test you again and again and again. She will.
Women are sheep, my current woman I have in my life, I have her trained well, she does whats shes told, held accountable for emotional tantrums, I hold the line and keep my word when angry at things, she doesnt get an inch until she comes full circle and when its all said in done, show her love and security as a reward.
Easy as Apple Pie.
Men with ambition tend to have no time to train women.
Women love a dedicated man because that translates into good provider.
If they are there for you, then you can make the time.
If not, she isn’t worth it. You might as well kick her to the curb.
With females, COMMAND & CONQUER should be the motto.
????? Ha ha ha!!! Do try !!
A girl stayed overnight at my place. In the morning we both crawled out of bed and went to the kitchen. She said she was hungry so I responded with “Me too. Can you make breakfast?”
She tried to bullshit her way out by saying “I am a guest here; I can’t just barge into your kitchen and start cooking.”
To which (surprising myself, to be honest) I replied “In this particular case, make yourself at home. Mi casa e su casa.”
Lo and behold, fifteen minutes later she was done cooking quite a nice breakfast for both of us and did the dishes afterwards.
This was the first time when I passed a small shit-test without even realizing it and got a small victory out of it too.
You’re good. I don’t trust women to make breakfast.
As long as you watch them while they cook, it’s not that bad. Some are decent cooks. But I also dated several in my life who couldn’t fry an egg without fucking it up.
This chick I am seeing thinks that there are only two settings on the stove-top. Off and Maximum Power. I keep coming into the kitchen to the smell of burning. When I ask what happened she says “well you weren’t here to watch me…”
Well, I see three ways to solve this:
1. You can be nice and buy her a good cooking book for beginners where they explain different temperatures etc. <- this is only if you actually plan to keep her around for some time and enjoy home cooked food.
2. You can induce some real jealousy by cooking a delicious meal once. Chicks usually get super jealous when the guy cooks better than them. But make sure this doesn’t become a habit; you cooking for her.
3. You can tell her that you’re not a babysitter to watch her and order takeout for yourself only. This might get her angry, but it will definitely get the point across.
I actually always cook for every chick (I thought this one could be trusted with a task I’ve shown her a million times) because I don’t like the shit women cook. Usually some vegetarian ass pasta dish with some prawns thrown in. No thanks I need man-food.
Its cool though, she washes up afterwards.
She better compensate that lack of cooking skills with something else then. Simple as that.
Unlimited blowjobs.
Its a fair trade.
Doesn’t sound too bad as long as she doesn’t blow it.
See what I did there? 😉
You are… special.
You have no idea 🙂
A little slow, are you? I don’t think she really wants to cook for you.
Since when pasta with a vegetarian sauce is not “man-food”?? And what’s man-food exactly?? And how does man-food differs from woman-food??
That’s why you don’t let them use the stove in your house. They are just guests.
And more sex. That’s the reason why you bring her to your bedroom.
Exactly. You do the skilled work, she does the menial labor of cleaning. It sets a standard for hierarchy in your house.
Have the attitude that you are better than her. This includes cooking. Think who are the top Chefs in the world. It isn’t women.
The idea that “Women are supposed to cook.” is low-class, prole non-sense.
Man food is well made and high quality food. Females only cook because it’s expected of them and do it only to meet minimum requirements, not to excel at something the way a man does.
Its a division of labour. You only let her cook when you have higher priority tasks to complete.
Women could be considerate enough to ask you what you want to eat. But, again, feminism teaches women to not actually give a fck what men want.
Women don’t read unless it’s a porno novel like Fifty Shades of Gray or Twilight
Jeez I sure do miss blow jobs, but now I am married. See how that works?
Cookware gets expensive in that situation!
I make her replace what she breaks. Its a great teaching tool.
I would go further with that. People that read novels don’t want knowledge. They want old fashioned entertainment.
Especially in my house. Most women these days can’t cook.
Another thing to blame feminism for.
Western chick? With EE and some southern country girls you simply start listing what you have in the fridge and and excitingly come up with her dish choices. Assume she can and want to cook. It is your shit test if she is a wife material or not. With yank city girls I suppose that is a small victory worth celebrating.
She is an EE chick, she was just playing tough.
I already know she is not a wife material and that’s why I keep inviting her over. A sexy FWB is all I need. And now she cooks breakfast too. And then goes home leaving me with plenty of time to do my stuff 😉
well, have fun 🙂
Bet you 100 bucks she is the girl you choose to settle down with when you realise you cant pick chicks up anymore.
In a standard situation you’d probably be right, except that I’m 35, got divorced 10 years ago, had a few LTR’s since then, almost got married again (dodged that bullet at the last moment) and have no intention on even having another LTR.
Been single for 3 years now (still getting random pussy from several FWB’s), got a very well paying job that I enjoy, a house, two cars, hobbies and freedom to do whatever the fuck I want.
And even when I can’t get pussy as freely as now, there will always be women whom I can pay to fuck (who can fuck well, mind you and never have headaches) and still make it for evening beers with friends.
Settling down just to get p*ssy makes as much sense as buying a cow just so you can have a glass of milk once in a while.
The only difference is that once the cow decides to quit giving you milk she will not walk away with your house and half of your possessions.
First time guest ?? If so you should of cooked. You should be grateful.. Poontang is much harder to come by than ding dong.
Not first time.
And I’ll be damned before I will be grateful just because a chick “blessed me by letting me be in the presence of her poontang.” That’s some hardcore Blue Pill shit.
Well some thirsty fellas would disagree.. Blue pill, red pill, neon green pill-.. Btw-pssst. If she really liked you- she’d have given you breakfast in bed. You never should have to ask- or maybe she was born in a barn and clueless.. It sounded as if it were the first time she spent the night in which it would be rude for you to expect her to cook breakfast- she is the guest after all. I apologize.
We just play it simple: She and I both know that we are and will remain on FWB terms; it was discussed more than once, therefore I think she doesn’t have the same instincts kicking in as she’d have with someone who she could have a solid relationship with.
We chat online, we meet from time to time in person to spend a wonderful time together and then go our own ways until the next time. Why complicate things? 😉
Well that’s completely between you and her. However ..the fact she spends the night and you want her to cook for you does perplex me..:) lol.. Could be something more you are feeling? Okay I will shut up!! 😉 call me stupid Cupid.
LOL, yeah, you assume too much 🙂
I cook for my friends who are just friends too.
I want her to cook for me because, well, she’s a female and I’m a male. Call it a morning version of after sex snack 😉
Okay, after sex snack= ASS.. New acronym.. My Patton though !! Perfect!!
Hahahaha!
Why would she have to cook you breakfast?? When i have a someone over at my place, i make it clear we share the work. SHARE!!
Cooking is not a two man job unless you work at a restaurant and even there they divide the labor
This can work when you are dating. The woman is looking for commitment and the man is in a position of power. After marriage the woman has your commitment and a legal contract. The power shifts to her.
I don’t Beat around the Bush, or create alternative methods for addressing problems , I tell the woman my honest thoughts and the truth, women take the Indirect approach, if a Man can’t be direct, he’s no different than a woman.
It’s called frame and decisiveness. That is what defines a man.
No, you ALWAYS have to reward her good behavior. On the opposite, do NOT reward her when she is doing her bad behavior.
Training a women is like training a dog or training a child… if you let them get spoiled then they will.. ..
When you assert you dominance over the bitch, you have to make it 100 % dominance no exception.
If she tries to get you feeling guilty you can’t fall in…. it’s not always shit testing on her part but that’s how female default behavior is..
for example, if she is late and doesn’t respect your time then you need to call her out on that.
Guy: you’re late. Why are you acting like a bitch?
Girl: I’m only few minutes later, jeez why are you so upset?
(Most guys would have rationalized this and replied by saying… “NO I’m not being upset, I’m just telling you not to be late” and this will only encourage women to respond and also changing her topic. She will try to shift the blame on you and make you explain….)
The right way to respond is…
Guy: Don’t act like a bitch! (not angry tone but firm)
Girl: Why are you calling me a bitch?!
Guy: Don’t act like a bitch, okay got it?
(At this point, if the girl is hardcore feminist bull-dyke then she will get loud and even physical)… but what are the chances we will date a hardcore bulldyke unless we were really thirsty?
You have to keep affirming your masculine stance here….
Girl: I can’t believe you called me that… (sob… sob)… (some girls will try to act this way to get you to feel sorry for what you said…) DON”T FALL FOR IT…. just remain your affirmation
Guy: Don’t act like a bitch, okay?
You keep doing this back and forth and back and forth until at some point the girl will give in…
When the girl says…
Girl: Okay sorry I won’t be late anymore…
then you can say…
Guy: Good girl! Now behave correct, do you understand…
Girl: okay…
Guy; no, say YES MASTER (at this point, you are training your girl to be your future sex slave and she will indulge in any of your sexual fetishes)..
Girl: Yes Master
Guy: GOOOOOD GIRL….
and then you can congratulate yourself and pat yourself on the back because you have now made this girl into your bitch and getting laid from her would be much easier (you still have to take the lead and never let her lead even slight bit)…. ALWAYS pose your masculine dominance over her…
You idiot.
Any man should be reminded that women like to LIE A LOT. Act accordingly.
Agreed that women do need training, i think Heartise said it best:
“Like dogs, women will walk all over you if you let them.
Like dogs, women will test you for your alpha status the moment you
show weakness.
Like dogs, women need to be trained. Shit tests are essentially a
woman telling you “Please train me to respect you.” Oblige her.
Like dogs, women respond best to strong verbal and nonverbal
commands. If you stare down a dog, it will always turn away first, if it
recognizes your authority. Women will do the same.
Like dogs, women will eventually take to the leash, metaphorical or literal.
Like dogs, women want to be told to roll over.
Like dogs, women will hump anything if you allow them.”
Additionally it makes sense from a logical standpoint- you need to tell a women what pleases you, otherwise how would she possibly know otherwise? She ain’t a mind reader.
Credit where it is due:
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/09/23/owning-a-dog-is-training-for-owning-a-woman/
Women are cat like. It’s you who need to be trained like dogs.. Men are dogs- they will hump anything women are like cats- finicky as heck..
Great, positive and useful article. I especially like the bit about giving them selfish reasons to stop being cunty… usually I just ignore/withdraw attention or abort, but sometimes it results in less than a win/win situation. I’m a win/win kind of guy and there is no value in losing just to spite someone.
You’re still fat.
This never happens.
Women need discipline just as much as children do!
Remember it’s human nature to test someone boundaries where she does it at times to make sure you are still a man so she can feel safe by your muscular energy.
Women crave protective energy from a man as much as children!
???? Wow.. You are so dang brilliant I am speechless!!- not
Its ok, some people are stupid like yourself!
This is a fantastic article, packed with real insight. Well done…motivate me.
This article is amazing.
Would like to point out here that this sounds creepily like teaching a 5 year old how to behave. Not disagreeing, just saying. Women are like 5 year olds. The difference is 5 year olds are innocent. Women act this way because they’re manipulative and selfish. Wasting a man’s time is just part of the shit-test. If you let them get away with it, they see they can emasculate you, which is the goal.
I’m glad we’ve got the movement going and there’s education out here for men who are waking up to the whole neo-masculinity, mgtow, mra thing.
Oh boy… Sigh.. Women act like five year olds?? You sound as silly as my female friends who insist that all men are ” idiot man- children” lol
It’s solopsism. Four out of Five women routinely operate solopsistically. And of that number, a whopping 78% do it do the degree that they can’t function normally in their work or personal lives. Which explains why women end up in low-paying jobs and get pregnant on purpose to trap men into relationships; they live in a fantasy world. The women you mention, in all likelyhood, are just bitter because they don’t get the immediate gratification they want, and are just blaming others for their problems.
????? Lol..Zz !! I made more than hubby when we married.. Most of my female friends are married but don’t need a man to support them, they are married cause they wanna be- not due to lack of options. If tearing down women makes you feel better about yourself, go for it. The idiot man child thing comes up when the post 30 men in our lives start playing video games or wanna buy an expensive “toy “beyond their means- could be some bitterness.. Yes
Four out of five people are solipsists. It is the brain chemistry of idiot extoverts.
Clumping in groups for safety, blaming others for their problems. Picking a group you do not beling to and attributing your personal flaws to that group instead.
Human behaviour.
Thinking you are better than average, but trying to prove your worth by marking down huge groups of people rather than raising your own game,
four out of five humans do that also.
Yeah, it’s a problem. One of the aspects of the Men’s Movement is getting back to thinking according to reality. There was a lot of talk on here awhile back about Stoicism and taking leads from philosophy. Modern thinkers say we’re in a dark age, and I think they’re right. Taking back your masculinity is about seeing the reality around and not projecting things and living in a fantasy.
I used to describe myself as stoic and pragmatic, definitely when surrounded by the hedonists and nihilists. Forgot all about it for a long while, but I realise parts of it have always been around.
Thanks for the reminder, Its a damn good philosophy for being grounded and connected at the same time. Many people could find a common thread here.
I can really see how it is time for this to come back round and spur us all on to a new attitude. I’m on board!
Teachz’dem to rispect ur dick and dus they suck ur dickz lolzlolzlolzlolz pussy poundered and asss jizzled
Brilliant. I have been applying many of these policies on my girlfriend with total success.
fucking right… and it’s easier than you think once you realize each has a base set of (slut) programming they got from their mothers and so on and so forth to survive… and then let the “fucking fun” literally begin. men, YOU are the prize, not some parasite woman whoring around looking for ‘love’ or finding herself, lol… of course, be careful which ones you bang – disease LOVES a warm, moist, dark place to be harbored, bred and spread from… women are second to man, sorry if you don’t like it, it’s how the world is… it’s called mind and muscle… not I think I can till I get bored and I am bored which is why were acting out because all we do is sit around and tear each other down, blah, blah, blah… well suck some cock honey, after all, it’s your job in life!
PS: sperm is what becomes a human being, the brain and the spinal cord. the eggs, meh, just food, just like she’s just a gestator… who thinks she MAY have some balls, lol… sadly, most women are the real losers, by their own choices and doings. NEVER save a dumb whore from her own self destruction.
PS: my old lady of -10 years agrees, I am 42, she’s 27 almost 28… and have her tell you what a real man is capable of in life, compared to mangina’s and losers.
women are children their whole lives who want you to do it for them because they have no respect for men, much less themselves and NAWALT is just bs – they say and claim it because they want to hold onto that option too… wait till you catch onto the rest of their Great Whore mentality as they pollute the world to $ell their asses as they destroy the planet and ecology in their never ending search for THE FACE CREAM OF LIFE! women do not respect you men, and they are also incapable of love, unlike you, men. look around, the udder truth hurts – them. they did it to themselves, ignore the self broken, live YOUR life, don’t worry or feel sorry for hers. if ya do, you’re goose is cooked.
PS: never get married either, women are parasites off all of mankind, second place is forever last place. LOVE REAL WOMEN… too bad they’e all old and aged when they figure it out and run out of excuses. all for show men, just tits and ass – choose wisely and when in doubt, trust your gut. all women are parasitic rude evil whores. look around. have fun!
then again, it’s not your job to raise your family AND your wife, and that is all-ways what ends up happening no matter what… esp. with today’s losers.
You go girl!
this is good stuff……..much more difficult to implement, in certain situations, however
Surely these guides apply equally to both people in a relationship, not just the women.
Or is it OK to waste her time, dump your emotions on her and not give a shit about her own goals?
Well no. But given how the world is these days, If she lets you, she needs to learn some respect for herself.
If you train people how to treat you by setting firm boundaries, negotiating a reasonable exchange of favours, and not letting it slide, you avoid a lot of pointless drama.
It’s a chronic state that most people are still like children or dogs who never had any discipline, but whether you are one of the children or not, we all need to have more self-discipline and control over how we let people treat us. Else there’s just more victims and rescuers making big complaining noises about how unfair life is.
Except men generally don’t do that.
How well are these working out for you? Women are not your fucking pets you sick bastards.
It is not about women being pets. It is about many people here wanting to live in a relationship where the man wears the trousers. As for myself, I am convinced (by experience), that this is the most conductive to happiness in my family, and most of all in my wife. This may not be the case for all people or all families, but it is certainly true for us. Many women also crave dominance in men, so there is no reason to think that they would not gain from men learning to take the lead in their families. This article gives some opinions and tips of how one can do that.
As for your question, I have applied some of these techniques and yes, they work well for me.
They love it…. yes they do….
Haha is this website serious? You sexist motherfuckers are probably all voting for Trump huh?
How to TRAIN WOMEN?? Are you crazy? You don’t train a person, you train an animal.
Or a woman….
You can always try the method Sheldon Cooper used on Penny, with chocolates. But seriously, the opposite is also true. For instance, when a woman tries to train you to pay for her meal every time. Or her parents. Or her whole family. If you don’t, she will shame you by not talking to you, or scolding you about being more responsible for your money, or just by not having sex with you.
Any bitch tries that kind of shit with me will be kicked to the curb permanently. No ifs ands of buts.
If she so much as tries to scold me I’ll pack her bags and manhandle her out the door without so much as a word.
Self respect. I don’t take any shit from women I wouldn’t take from a child.
This ^^^
This is what I did with my wife. I thought she was suitable and marriageable, so I suggested we live together, so I could subtly get better knowledge of her and train her a bit. She tried to trap me with “Oh, so are we exclusive now?”, And threw a huge fit when I pointed out that ‘Exclusive’ is a trap. So I simply told her that I will not live like that and walked away from her. I went out for the night, round a few of my favourite bars, and sure enough she turned up with a face like a lost puppy and said that she didn’t need to be my ‘only’, just my ‘main’. After a while of living together, we got married. We’ve been married 16 years, and I always just leave her to see how stupid and childish she’s being.
The more time I leave to think about how little I care about her antics and whatever caused them, the more she thinks the same way. It works very easy and well. Another good thing is that I can leave her with the children, and she’s the one whose trapped, because she has to look after them. I can just go out, and then she’s so pleased to see me when I get back that she’ll make up with me.
So basically you think it’s a “trap” to only have one partner at a time?
He had to pick a good woman to repeatedly keep her checked with dread game like that. If she’s ‘short stick’ on anything like if she can’t micromanage or if she can’t whip up meals with the available ingredients like raw fish that needs de-boned, flour and baking powder or if she’s like the tiny flat chested jew bitch that smokes and can’t tit feed, then guaranteed she’ll flake. I’ve seen many women flake for more trivial reasons. If she’s not wound right and is a nerve bag on head pills, then guaranteed she’ll flake if left alone with small kids.
There are no unicorns but Ivan obviously picked some good genes. All women pull that needy clingy shit. If she has the salt to juggle the tit feeding and domestic rigamaroll, sewing included, then that’s the payoff for picking good genes. You won’t come home to her shit packed and gone with a note. She’s too proud as a mother and involved to live the women’s channel soap opera life. Runaway single motherhood is for retards and worthless crazy bitches. So long as not one head pill ever touches her tongue, then you’re safe with leaving as you please and dread gaming her so long as you establish that you’re capable of doing nasty black-op things to any women’s advocate types or feminazi influences that come around. Keep her associations and the place churchy and amish and daddy is happy.
Also, to add to this great, helpful advice, I suggest everyone read the ebook, The Principles by Manhood Academy. The group may not be your favorite pro-men group in the world. But that ebook will help you better understand the concept of teaching your woman.
Link?
I think that this goes both ways. A relationship should be based on mutual respect, attraction, and affection. I will show a man the same amount of respect and consideration that he shows me.
It has gotten to the point where you need to add:
4. Personal Hygiene.
Are you speaking from experience?
I agree and I am speaking from experience. It’s becoming a trend.
Are we talking hairy bushes or smelly snatches?
Either or both. Sometimes just not recently showered and/or leg stubble. It has been a variety of things, but thankfully, while becoming more of a noticeable trend, it’s still rare.
Reason why women have an edge in manipulating the relationship is because they spend less energy on self improvement and working at a job. When man and woman go out men spend most of his energy planning where to go and paying while the girl just follows behind until it’s time to spread her legs and even in sex many don’t want to lift a finger
Yeah, but that’s naturally the way male and female humans behave. Why complain?
1. Cooking.
2. Cleaning.
3. Sucking the poison out of your nuts.
Her mother should’ve trained her for 1 & 2, but her mom’s had shoulder pads and man-haircuts in her 80s heyday, so it’s up to men to take up the slack…which is trial and error because that shit isn’t our job.
If she knows how to handle your dick, it’s just another piece of meat to her. She’s been around dicks. She’s not LTR material. Go virgin. Ideally with a virgin wife, you introduce her to your dick. Let her play with it like a new toy or gift. Teach her how not to handle it. You don’t twist on it like a wash rag. It’s ”up and down, gently stroking. Atta way cupcake”. Have her stare at your dickhead between her eyes and get her to respect it. Have her talk to it. Shit give it a name. Training virgins for lifelong matrimony is all but forgotten in the west. Little effort is exherted in training a whore for LTR because it’s not possible. But with a virgin, you train her how YOU like it, the way YOU like the shit. In the past, conservative couples did it under the sheets like their parents and were modest. All that tradition is out the window. ‘The way’ with your virgin woman is up to you now. Starting from scratch, get her used to saluting your dick. Communicate with a nod or a ‘grunt’ that it’s time for her to duck behind a partition and show ass cheek for daddy. Train her in the kitchen. She’s washing dishes. Come up behind, clear your throat and ”blap blap blap ooogaah”. Then get on with your other manly he man stuff. Puritan women doubtfully kneeled to their man like that. The NEW age of training women and completely rewriting the laws of the supreme patriarchy are upon us.
Solid Gold
Bravo Mr. Brown! BRAVO! This is one of the best posts I have read here in a while. Very sharp and insightful……not to mention good, actually usable information in this post. I really like your approach here.
This is setting your frame, maintaining your frame and training her to adopt your frame at its finest. The most important thing that is conveyed here is not so much what you do to train her; but, more how you do it — your attitude conveyed implicitly and explicitly. And remember gentlemen, it is not so much what you do that is important as how you do it that is important. Always maintaining a cool, calm demeanor and mildly ambivalent attitude to her is key. You implicitly convey to her what you want without being overbearing or needy. The true mark of an Alpha!
Again, bravo Mr. Brown……..BRAVO!
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Roosh, you seriously should put this article on the ROK Hall of Fame. This is rock solid advice that took me a decade to learn by myself the hard way.
I’ve lived alone so long I only want them to fuck and not speak or do anything else.
You sound very insecure and emotional. You can avoid any future emotional blow-ups by convincing yourself that you’re jacking off by choice.
Additionally, your article isn’t very realistic. I can’t imagine any woman who would be jealous of a ‘man’ with subpar intelligence or any trait worthy of legitimate attraction.