We’ve all been there—it happens to the best of us from time-to-time. Perhaps you’re out of practice for one reason or another. Maybe you’ve been in a long-term relationship, or been working on a business or school project. Perhaps you’ve just allowed yourself to get lazy. Whatever it is, if a man is not consistently practising his game skills then they will start to atrophy, and in the worst cases recede to a worrying degree.
When this happens, things that used to be easy, like walking up and opening a girl in a nightclub or on the street, suddenly become intimidating and when you do force yourself to do them you come over as stilted and dry bomb horribly.
If you find this happening to you then don’t panic—it’s not forever, and simply by taking action you will find that you can turn things around over a period of time, even exceeding your former glories in the process. Here are my seven steps for getting over a dry spell quickly and easily.
1. Accept that Your Game Is Crap And Will Remain So For The Foreseeable Future
There’s no point in beating around the bush. Right now your game is rubbish – you know it and the girls that you approach know it too, hence the somewhat “robust” feedback in the shape of insults and drinks thrown that you are receiving right now out in the field.
Don’t try to pretend to yourself that things are any other way, and certainly don’t try to pretend that the women you speak to are wrong and are somehow “not getting you.” The fault lies with you and it is down to you to fix up.
Instead of trying to deceive yourself, instead calmly accept things as they are and resolve to improve the situation.
2. Have Faith You Can Turn Things Around
The second step is to believe in the higher forces of game — that if you put the work in, so the universe will give back to you in kind and things will improve. If it’s any consolation I can tell you that some of the driest spells that I’ve ever experienced have been followed by seasons of sexual abundance that I would never have dreamed about before.
I have suffered some of the most humiliating blow-outs of my life, only to enjoy, after a month or so of consistent approaching and rejection, the attentions of far hotter girls than ever before.
Men often make the mistake of thinking that a dry spell is the beginning of the end, or that “this is it” for the rest of their lives. Not a bit of it. Everything is temporary – this too shall pass. Life is not constant and unchanging—there are ups and downs. This is true of any aspect of existence you care to imagine. Therefore simply read the steps outlined here, take the necessary action, and trust that things can and will improve.
3. Approach 100 Girls
No way around this one I’m afraid, gentlemen. In order to get out of your funk, you’re going to have to put the time and the footwork in and approach like a machine. Not just because “it’s a numbers game” and you might get lucky – although it’s true that you might. Rather, you need to go through this process to get yourself on point.
You need to approach them with intent—whether you go in direct or indirect is up to you, but you need to make it obvious, through tone, body language and eye contact, that you find them hot and you want to fuck them. Why? Not only because that is the essence of game, but also because in doing so you will be putting yourself on the line in a way that 95% of men don’t.
Plus when you’re standing in front of a hot girl without a parachute, so to speak, then you’re going to have to force yourself to come up with something to say. At first you’ll crash and burn, no doubt. But as you work through the 100 you’ll start to get bolder, more inventive, and infused with a sexy spark that will light up eyes and moisten vaginas everywhere.
4. Go Easy On Yourself
Don’t give yourself a hard time while you’re going through this process. You’re doing something very difficult. You’re going to fuck up. That’s fine – it’s life. Pat yourself on the back simply for trying and doing something most other men wouldn’t have the balls to do rather than measuring yourself on how many phone numbers, dates or lays you get. All that stuff will come later.
5. Keep A Spreadsheet
If it’s good enough for Paul Janka then it’s good enough for you. While you’re working through the 100 approaches, keep a spreadsheet. Not only will this ensure you stay on track, it will also help you see where your successes are coming from and focus your attentions accordingly.
Precisely what you record is up to you, but in the past I’ve noted down things such as where I’ve met the girl, her age, nationality, and the details of the interaction, good or bad.
The other great thing about having a record like this is it limits approach anxiety – in the end, an approach is just another line on the sheet, nothing more and nothing less. Keeping a record will certainly help you to reduce negative feelings around each individual girl.
6. Record Yourself
Another thing you can try is recording yourself when you go out to talk to girls. Thanks to smartphones you don’t need any special equipment. Just download a voice record app, stick your phone in your top pocket and you’re ready to go.
Listening back to the conversations can be embarrassing at first, but it will enable you to identify what you’re doing wrong and where you’re coming off badly—for example if you’re speaking too quickly or using needy intonation.
7. Try Anything And Have Fun
Right now, you’re at ground zero — things can’t get any worse. So rather than wallowing in it, now is an ideal time to try any style of game you fancy. Maybe you’ve always wanted to go ultra-direct. If so, walk up to 100 girls and tell them you’d like to go to bed with them. Maybe you want to experiment with some crazy routine or other. Do it. Now is the time. Since you’re going to suck anyway until you’re well into the 100 then you may as well enjoy it.
After following these steps I guarantee that your game will improve and you will start to become a lot more on-point in social interactions. And it can be quick too – all you need is a couple of weeks. Good luck, and let me know how you get on in the comments below.
Read More: Five Reasons Why The Skeptics Are Wrong And You Need to Learn Game
Some nice tips.
I ran out last night and saw a master at work. It was a think to behold. There is a guy I talk to at a restaurant bar near my house. We can call him G. He is a 61 year old black guy. he is in good shape…not just for his age, but in general. Watching this guy spit game is like watching a young Tiger Woods play golf. I went in for a night cap early last night. 2 girls sitting together. next to them was a couple. Then two empty seats and then an attractive woman in her 30’s and then G. He was rapping to this girl who was nearly 30 years younger. His confidence off the chart. He body language on point. He was leading her in and pushing her away like a conductor. I only stayed for 10 minutes but I have no doubt that he did or will bang her. I see him with another pull every week.
This goes the point 3 about approaches. You are right, it isn’t the numbers game that everyone is harping on. This guy has never been married, never in a relationship, just a stone cold killer of tang who approaches every woman he finds attractive and has been doing it for 40 years.
This guy has never studied “game”. He dont even know that there is an official definition of “game” and he certainly never browse the internet to get help in this area. He is just a natural and there is no way that most people can ever be like that. Funny enough, it’s often the black dudes who has massive talent in this area.
Agreed on all points (especially with older, 70’s era, black dudes.
He def never used the word game. If I had to bet he would call it charm or charisma.
A few weeks ago I was talking to him and he was just an all around charming guy who makes people around him feel comfortable and laugh and has a good way with women. A take off from my conversation with him a few weeks ago: we were talking about Serena Williams and I had said I would never fuck her. He said that “she is just a woman like any other. She just wants her hair pulled and her ass slapped. If you do it right she will purr like a kitten.”
The man is a total natural. If I had the inclination and if I thought he wouldn’t just laugh at the idea I would seriously interview the guy.
That’s actually a great idea
One of my best friends is a “natural”. He is a 6’1″, beefy Italian guy and is both a leader of men and conquerer of women, if he chose to be so. He largely does do in the former but not at all aggressive in the latter. Even I, as a pasty mangiacake of middling appearance has bedded more women – and in many cases better looking women – than he has. However, it has worked out well for him as he is now playing house with a professional flamenco dancer several years his junior.
” Funny enough, it’s often the black dudes who has massive talent in this area.”
Right now it is black dudes are what white chicks want. If that same 60 year old guy had white skin, he would have needed to put in more effort. I’m not saying he would not have been sucessful, but certain things will give certain men an advantage.
Wilt Chamberlain lives! I knew he faked his death.
I’d personally argue that a Spreadsheet is a tad excessive
Exactly. It really isn’t that serious.
Hit the nail on the head here. When you turn it into a something this serious it shows. It’s just banging women which is like kicking a soccer ball…you are using them for their very purpose. Not that serious and not that hard.
I agree. Powerpoint is more fun.
You Microsoft whore.
Open Office or death!
libre office is better.
Same code, different names.
no, it is actually better. i had trouble importing a csv in open office due to a parsing error. libre office did fine. i am a sworn defender ever since.
It’s actually the same code base. Granted, LibreOffice has updated since 2011.
You’re really harshing my mellow, man. I can’t crack wise *anywhere* on the net today! heh
same code base, not same code, my friend.
All your code bases are belong to us.
you better open source this joke right now.
I can’t use Libre Office without screaming inside my head “Nacho Libre”.
I aint a codemonkey like you.
I need to revise to resume to say merely this:
I hit the send button mostly. Sometimes I reply. Rarely do I attach something, but, if I do, it is something underwhelming
It’s amazing the skills you pick up when you give up television entirely. heh
Interesting- youre saying you learned how to code after dumping cable?
Kinda – ish. I knew C, a little C++ and standard VB 6 (5/4) prior, but that was about the extent of it. I had played around with regular “BASIC” back when I was in high school, but put it down when I discovered girls and gasoline. It was only after dumping the tele that I took up quite a few other languages out of curiosity, for example C#, Java, some dabbling in Apple’s Objective C, VB.NET, ASP.NET, etc.
At the same time of course, I was also figuring out how to tear apart my motorcycle, make belts and holsters, make wine, grow hops, etc. These days I’m farting around with drones and thinking about brushing up on my piss poor Russian.
But through it all, with tele, without tele, there has always been firearms. Ah, loverly firearms, they’ve never failed to keep my interest.
There you go- a quick, positive article you could write for this site entitled “What I Did on My TV Vacation”. Just write it in the tone and style of am eight- yr old (write it in crayon, upload for mod approval).
Im kinda serious, every article here is in the same damn font
Did someone call my name?
I video that shit and put on Revenge Porn websites. Not out of any need for revenge but what the fuck why not?
1. no revenue
2. time spent on video editing
3. possible lawsuit
4. people will hate on your wiener
5. too much hassle overall
lol! Is that what happened to you?
one of my many ptsds.
Sometimes I cant tell if youre too literal- minded or just messing with us
90% of the first, 10% of the latter.
“people hate on your wiener” well, well, well, seems like we learnt somehting new about you Tommo
the only thing you guys care about is the one thing i made up. i am so frustrated.
“made up” loI I bet it was the first thing that came into your mind but you listed it as the forth thing on your list to get us thinking you’ve not got a dirty mind . YOU CAN’T DECEIVE US TOMMO
yes, it was the very first thing that my mind made up. technicality.
I HAVE CHARTS AND GRAPHS
TO BACK UP MY BETA-NESS
SO FUCK OFF
🙂
I keep a spreadsheet of all the women I have ever fucked. Otherwise I forget a of details or even lose track of my notch count.
Go old school, use an abacus, it gives you street cred.
Abacus? Damn technocrat.
I record my conquests on a hand-embroidered tapestry.
“Oh shit, is that bead on the fourth row Shirley or Jennifer?”
When you needlepoint your conquests, it raises your righteousness to a whole new level.
This is why God invented the wood burning set, dude. Geesh.
Chiselling names on a granite wall by the fireplace like a boss, yo 😀 No EMP or magnetic field is gonna mess up my data.
Misspelled the name of the last filly who flaked on me 2 weeks ago. No delete function. Damn..
Archeologists in the future will be piecing together your conquests and telling everyone “And here we find the tomb of what was apparently the King of America from 20,000 years ago in the early 21st century!”
I tend to like photographic evidence, but your present bitch can find it and burn it. A secure USB drive on your keychain seems to be the way to go these days. or maybe the cloud.
Putting it on the cloud is basically storing it for authorities to use later. Cloud is another name for “somebody else’s hard drive that I have no way of preventing a search of by police”.
Never groked the whole attraction to any kind of “cloud” for storage. Seems like a *very* bad idea from a 4th Amendment standpoint.
USB drive, yeah, ok, sure, reject the class, charm and old school coolness of an abacus then why don’t you? Next thing you know you’re going to tell me that you’ve stopped wearing jodhpurs!
Say what you will, but having women carve my lay in stone never hurt. Plus it gives me a geographical reference for where I’ve been.
This is so true. Cloud also means target. Which had better security, the world trade center or your personal building? Probably the World trade center, yet which were you safer in? Why would you want to put your stuff in the cloud along all those huge companies that are targets, because you will get targeted with them. If you go private server in the cloud, you lose on savings. I think most companies are much smarter to implement their own private cloud. You get the benefits without the risks of your data being taken because someone decided to target GM and they were sharing a server with you (and you didn’t even know).
I know a chinese pimp who carries one…
Oh yeah, I know that dude, Lo Hun Wang, right? Righteous individual, has his pimp hand down cold.
Everything you do remains on your hardrive, something people tend to forget. They avoid using clouds or facebook and totally forget about the basics.
This is why smart men learn about, obtain and use TrueCrypt, as well as invest in a good multipass drive eraser.
But almost nobody does, so exactly right what you said.
Only vhen I need to teach the fraulein a lesson.
GoJ, you hit it exactly on the risks of cloud, esp. re gov’t access. I’m an attorney for a major wall st bank and constantly advising against putting data in the cloud. If Amazon, Google or Microsoft have your data, the gov’t can get it from them without you even being notified. Happens all the time.
Did you post that with your iSliderule?
You’re right. Personally I think that writing a decent data access front end application in C#, using a MySQL back end, is more appropriate. You can then share the .cs classes with a localized web server ASP front end and view your tally rates across the globe, if you pipe in a T1 to your home and register a domain and get your office set up as your own personal ISP. Assuming of course that you simply don’t use a web hosting service that supports ASP.NET.
you microsoft whore.
use a php backend with an asynchronous javascript and xml based frontend framework, for example extjs.
or wordpress.
I’ve never claimed to be anything except a cheap two bit whore.
Always hated javascript. I be like “yo, you be trying to be keepin’ it real as a legit language or you be some kind of deformed html substitute, word press to yo’ momma, yo!”
var messageToJefferson = function() { alert(‘imma mucha mora flexible than you.’); }
function sendToJefferson(messageToJefferson){
if(typeof(messageToJefferson) == ‘function’){
messageToJefferson();
} else {
alert(‘eat shit’);
}
}
sendToJefferson(messageToJefferson);
10 INPUT “What is your name: “, U$
20 PRINT “Hello “; U$
30 INPUT “Do You Prefer To Be Called Gay Or Faggot? “, N
40 S$ = “”
50 FOR I = 1 TO N
60 S$ = S$ + “*”
70 NEXT I
80 PRINT S$
90 PRINT “Fuck You” , S$ ”
100 PRINT “Whose Name Is “; U$
110 END
haha. what, no GOTO?
good old basic, that’s what got me hooked originally.
Nope. Left out GOSUB as well. And I saved us all a hell of a big headache by not writing this in Commodore basic. Fucking POKE, PEEK bullshit.
commodore? ah, the stuff my grandmother grew up with.
Yeah, I remember her. I’d sit and POKE her all day after she let me PEEK at her PRINTCHR$.
grandfather? i thought you were dead…
Ne, vnuk, já jsem zde.
je, a ja se staral, starochu.
Best thread ever.
someone on this site is getting aroused by this code-speak and rubbing one out right now
You know there was a day, maybe fifteen years ago, when I could take that as a joke. Today there seems to be a fetish for everything thanks to online porn, so your words may ring more true than either of us realize.
a programmable female. trade name: basic girl.
I hope not. If it does materialize, it will probably be in Japan.
Yeah, resistance is futile …
And it’s measured in ohms. 🙂
Rule 34 coding porn
just make sure you use a MVC 5 pattern. You may be better off using html 5 if you use lots of devices 🙂
Dude, we have totally sperged up this thread with nerdiness.
I understood everything I read – should I be proud of that?
I like the sentiment (charting your successes and failures). The strange thing is, I got blown out by black girl after black girl and yet white women love me. How’d you figure?
Novelty and exotic. You are in England after all.
Same reason I’d slay major puntang-age if I traveled to China or Taiwan.
The funny thing is Ghost, black girls will look daggers at me and the white chick when we walk down the street but if I ask them out I get a superior pitying glance and an attitude.
Believe it or not, I recently chatted to a blonde black chick with a SuperMan “S” tattooed on her chest, dressed head to toe in leathers (what? I like bad girls!) and she told me I needed to try harder! LMAO!!!
a blonde black chick with a SuperMan “S” tattooed on her chest, dressed head to toe in leathers
Holy schnoikies!
Yeah she probably wasn’t wife material…
But the tattoo gave me a perfect lead in…
agree and amplify.
I seem to get hit on by the upper middle class black girls around here. Not many of them, but the few that are around seem attractive enough. Not sure why, most black women I’ve met elsewhere (with exceptions) seem to not want to deal with pasty white dudes.
Soulja boy tell em
She’s waiting for Raheem Sterling to hit Manchester. Can you compete?
They just want some vanilla.
“Funny, you don’t look like the daughter of Jor-El to me …”
My last two successes were a couple of Dutch chicks in South East Asia on 2 separate occasions (19 yo & 23 yo) about 2 months back. My most recent burn & flake happened around 2 weeks ago. Asian chick. With me being half white half Asian, thought I mostly had this one in the bag.
I’m guessing white chicks are better at gauging your value.And novelty factor as Jefferson’s Ghost mentioned.
So i’m in a strange ring rusty state at the moment mixing graduate studies with work. Probably giving off the stressed out vibe which doesn’t sit well with the wimminz…Especially the wimminz that want to have fun 😀
I think this is exactly right.
did nobody tell you the secret black leg opener?
Can you get it on Amazon?
sure.
http://www.amazon.com/Powerbuilt-640819-Mechanical-Scissor-Jack/dp/B002INP6QU/
99% of black girls need an ‘attitude adjustment’. If it was down to me I would wife the first one that I came across at my early 20s.. but aside being as hypergamous as most western females, they are ferocious gold-diggers and drama queens. Bad bet.
I think white women love u because your English!
Sometimes it is ok to shut it down for a while and rebuild. I’ve gone through phases in my life where I have focused solely on self improvement. A man cannot lead anyone including women until he has his shit together. Part of the the game is taking risks and losing. I asked a girl out last week and was rejected. It happens! Don’t take it personal. My take is that it is necessary every once in a while to shut it down and rebuild. Desperation leads to bad women and bad choices. Sometimes temporary solitude is the best solution.
I don’t know about getting all spergy and spreadsheet-y, really. Dusting yourself off is in general good advice, realizing that shit is never permanent is good advice (outside of death, or losing a major organ or limb I mean).
Basically laugh off the failures and keep on keepin’ on with approaches. An approach technique for girl A may result in rejection, but turn the living hell on out of girl B. Make note and adjust appropriately.
I think I’m getting a oneitis. The fuck.. Seriously..
I’m in a weird phase right now where my SMV is climbing but my actual game is declining.
I’ve been in hardcore working-hermit-mode the last few months. Working weekdays and weekends and sleeping on the floor. Lol I actually ordered kratom from ROK.
I’ve been getting stares from women on the street (this is new for me) and a cute mid 20s Russian woman even asked for my number last weekend.
It’s funny because my game is total shit and I dress like it’s 1999. All of my approaches have horribly bombed but my SMV is higher. Chicks react to me like what the hell is happening right now?
Now that I stopped to think about it it’s hilarious.
Are you at OCAD yet, or will that start in September?
Sept
I will be back in Toronto in 3 weeks or so. Maybe I can find you a good tour guide for OCAD 🙂
Cool lets meet up.
Pm me at [email protected]
Reply to this msg if you do because I never check that address other than for stuff like this.
The bots are going to eat your Inbox alive, man. heh
Sent
that’s because you opened the top buttons of your shirt. they can see the blue suit underneath.
I also wear my underwear outside my pants.
i thought i was the only one.
Looks like you’re becoming Supes….Kal…’more you’ more and more these days. I find the more you can be yourself the more of an edge you can have with women and life. All you have to do is get your groove going. They probably sense how you are killing life and want in on that investment.
Its hilarious to me because Im thinking you look and dress like chad kruger from Nickelback lololol
This is actual footage of me approaching a girl
wtf??
whenever you get stares form women give them a nice smile and wink. they will melt!
I am not a MGTOW and I neither advocate nor support that particular position. However, sometimes you need some down time to recharge your batteries, work on me me me, and give some critical thought about what is next and what your game plan is, not just for women but overall. Get a bit of self improvement in there: drop another 5 pounds, pack on a couple pounds of muscle, read Dante’s Inferno, pick up a new skill, work on that screenplay or whatever. Then get back out there.
Great post, although I do think you tried to divide by zero here:
drop another 5 pounds, pack on a couple pounds of muscle
Not completely. You could choose one or the other, but they are not mutually exclusive. In my own experience, when I work out heavy I stay the same weight but lose fat and gain muscle. I don’t think it is out of the realm of possibility to lose 5 pounds while adding 2 pounds of muscle (ie. you lose 7 pounds of fat).
Dude, it was a joke. heh
Well fuck man, can’t you type , or what?
lol.
Guess I gotta start.
Apparently any form of humour above “OW MY BALLS” is now .
Now that might just have been sarcasm.
Is that still on The Masturbation Network?
It’s got what funny bones need.
I don’t interact with 100 women I’d want to bang.
That’s is why there is day game and night game and cold approaches, although admittedly those have never been my things.
Surprisingly, my day game is much better than my night game. Not sure why that is. Perhaps because they don’t see me as some guy trying to just get in their pants.
I only have web game and what I call Zen Sex: if you don’t try to get in their pants, you will get in their pants.
That’s called “voluntary celibacy” I believe.
Its no accomplishment to bang below average women just to get your notch count up.
So are you saying that the women you’d want to bang are below average then?
I don’t interact with 100 women I’d want to bang.
Is english your 2nd language?
Depends, I’m not entirely certain if my first words were English or Scottish Gaelic, I was rather young at the time and my memory fails me.
If you don’t interact with 100 women you’d want to bang (“Here are 100 women I want to bang, I choose not to interact with them”), then tell me that it is no accomplishment to bang below average women, I’m not entirely certain how my initial observation of “voluntary celibacy” doesn’t hold.
If you don’t interact with 100 women you *wouldn’t* want to bang, well then, that makes perfect sense.
lol u rule GOJ
You never let idiots off the hook xD
It’s weird actually. I learned a lot during the nascent phase of the WWW back in the mid ’90’s. It tied into my grandfather’s notion that it takes a strong man to admit that he’s wrong, when he’s wrong. There were fucking shit fest fling fests back then, not dissimilar to now, except they were new and shocking at the time. I learned quickly that the best route to learning was to admit error when I made an error, and to press home the point when somebody else made an error in hopes that they too could learn to stand up and take responsibility.
Funny actually, because many times, it has paid off. Every man that learns to admit an actual real error he has made, instead of snarking off like a little bitch and then fleeing, becomes stronger as a man.
“Maybe you’ve always wanted to go ultra-direct. If so, walk up to 100 girls and tell them you’d like to go to bed with them.”
And since you’re a man doing this and not vice-versa, what should you tell the judge the next day?
Can I get your number?
That’s awfully optimistic that the judge is an eye-pleasing female and not a post-wall, bitter, man-hating cuntrag!
Ah all she wants is a little male attention… 😉
Just like all the old or ugly or fat ones do. Yet they spite men and want to castrate them for not getting any. Amazing how that works!
Telling a girl you want to bed her is not a crime, at least not yet that I’m aware of. It’s when she says no repeatedly, tries to get away from you and you force her, then you’ll have to explain to the judge.
I’m on one year plan of celibacy at the moment – two months down, ten to go.
I didn’t have any specific reasons to start it but I thought I’d experiment. It’s hard but at the same time I feel like I’m gaining the upper hand on women. Some crazy night dreams but overall I’ve been feeling strangely relaxed and cool. It’s nice to feel the balls – big and ripe! I also noticed the penis gets bigger too.
Women act like crazy cats around me, as if they feel bitter they can get this man. I hope I don’t lose my sexual desires completely as the more time passes the more I tend to agree with Aristotle who called the female form “a deformed male”. LOL
Here some quotes by Aristotle for your reading pleasures:
The courage of man is shown in commanding, of a woman in obeying.
“The offspring produced by a female are sometimes female, sometimes male, because the female is as it were a deformed male.”
“The female is, as it were, a mutilated male, and the catamenia [menses] are semen, only not pure; for there is only one thing they have not in them, the principle of soul.”
Life = matter + spirit;
Catamenia contribute matter, semen contribute spirit “more divine”
“it is the male that has the power of making the sensitive soul.”
Male embryo moves at five weeks, female at eleven;
Girls enter puberty sooner -“For females are weaker & colder in nature, and we must look upon the female character as being a sort of natural deficiency. Accordingly, while it is within the mother it develops slowly because of its coldness, but after birth it quickly arrives at maturity & old age on account of its weakness, for all inferior things come sooner to their perfection.”
Hierarchy designed by “nature”:
Soul over body,
Rationality over emotion,
Male over female,
Masters over slaves,
Humans over animals
Greek physician Galen (130-200)
“The female is less perfect than the male for one principal reason – because she is colder.”
This is exactly what is happening to me now. I have moved from pussy desert to a real life porn fantasy land.
Straight porn, one hopes?
<— see the tag?
Girl on girl my brother!
Meh, not my thing. I’m all about threesomes and more-somes with women, but I prefer to play the main role, not be relegated to a “guest star” position. Kind of like how threesomes were depicted in the 1970’s except without the whole hirsute thing going on.
I think of myself more as a director than a “guest star”…
Lol, the 70’s
https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/51/b6/d3/51b6d38275fa3efafa379d01139427bb.jpg
Because 2015 is far superior. Heh.
Damn great tips on game Troy!! I’ve given these same tips out to close friends. The biggest and boldest one has to be 100 women cold approach. That alone works so well because it forces you to shut off that voice that says I can’t and makes the approach all that matters. It also chips away the dual edged sword of the rating system. While I’m a fan of the rating system as it helps clarify the beauty of the woman you are talking to,rating her beauty can create a hang back attitude because you start viewing her beauty as a superior asset. Every now and then I have to catch myself from this habit. Approaching so many also creates an abundance mind set which is key for getting women.
Currently, due to time constraints, I have been exploring street game at night. It is very different and I have to usually start empty, so no chasing whatsoever. But once a conversation is initiated, it does seem highly plausible to cut the middle man of dating right out of the picture. Mind you, I am a relatively attractive guy so not being 6′ or a collection of sinewy muscles never hurt me. Just throwing out an option to the guys who may not have day game or weekly alcohol runs available to them.
Keep posting these gems Troy!
You don’t need game, all you need is this
Ah, nothing like the old classics.
I would imagine that bottle is well out of date…..
This was a good read…I am in somewhat of a dry spell right now. Got laid 3 weeks ago, but before that was 3 months…I’m guilty of #1…clearly the problem is with my game and not how the broads are responding to it.
Every now and then it is good to do a cold assessment of your game and the only way to do that is with results. Are you hitting up girls you’ll like who have similar tastes? Are you generating enough openness? Are you in a state of abundance or hard up to get the lay now? All those subconscious cues either kill or exalt your game to where you need it to be.
The chick in the header image looks like she’s dripping with a plethora of unidentified / incurable STD’s.
The timing of this article is good, because a lot of men have to be reminded that there is no better season for finding new chicks than in the summertime. They’re out there and their hormones now make them more receptive to new men. So get away from that computer and go out. You are not working out whole year, eating clean and endlessly grooming yourself to do nothing with it in the end. Approach every day and utilize every opportunity/”ioi” you get from them to game them hard. Most men have no problem with having a conversation, they just rarely approach, let alone talk with new women, which of course results in far less lays they could possibly have.
“walk up to 100 girls and tell them you’d like to go to bed with them.”
That’s not bold, that’s just plain stupid. Does that ever work? I think a little more discretion is advised.
I just have a giant map of the world on my wall, and stick a flag in every country where I have a notch count or more. So far I’ve conquered Europe, the northern part of South America, The Mediterranean, and southeastern Asia, (Korea too), Have to work on northern Asia and all the little island countries now >;)
Man, you’d make a great grandpa. All the younger cretins could gather ’round and hear pappy tell stories and roll out his map. You’d set a good example for the younger set.
I don’t think there are 50 girls in this town to approach….
Then you live in a shithole.
When I was with my ex, my life revolved around her. How could I please her? How could I keep her? How could I meet her needs? This was an epic case of oneitis, where my entire life revolved around winning “the one” and locking her down.
After, I went on a tear and decided to learn game. OkCupid, cold approaches, Mystery Method, every article on Heartsie, etc. I read everything I could about game, practiced online dating, and did cold approaches every chance I could get.
Over time, I realized that for three years my entire life revolved around women one way or another.
Why?
Women are generally vapid, uninteresting, insecure creatures who have been told their whole life that they’re special princesses, all deserving of a tall, wealthy, athletic man despite their blue hair, extra 20lbs, and the fact that they’ve fucked hundreds of other guys. At best they can provide constant sex and some support, and at worst wreck your finances and your family. (I do some divorce work, and oh the stories I could tell…)
I know a lot of you guys come to this site because you’re unsuccessful with women or want to get “The One” back. I was there once. That’s what brought me here. I thought either getting my ex back or fucking a lot of women would make me happy.
But friends, this is the sad secret. The prize for winning the pie eating contest is more pie. Women are not worth making spreadsheets for, or putting that much effort into. If you’re seeking validation through women, you’re setting an incredibly low and unfulfilling bar.
I encourage every man to study game, learn it, and practice it. But understand that women will never bring you fulfillment.
Best comment I’ve seen all day. A man should only fulfill physical needs with a woman. His emotional needs should be fulfilled with his own pursuits which better himself as a man.
Or with male friends (and no i don’t mean homosexual). I think guys need to just hang out more. We didn’t need women emotionally as much in school or in college because of our friend support structure. As we get older for some reason most men can’t / won’t retain that structure. We need to bring that back, its much better. Many cultures do this and it seems to be very effective.
A man should fulfill his own needs first. If a woman in his life can assist him in doing so great, but she always comes second. Read a biography of any first lady up until 1980. They knew that they were just playing backup for their husbands (most of which kept mistresses). Jackie Kennedy new her Alpha husband was banging anything that would move. Did she care? Yes. But, she was also just happy to be the most powerful woman in America. Man comes first, woman comes a distant second.
If a man doesn’t put himself first, the woman will lose respect for him anyway and cheat on him with a guy who does put himself first.
I’ll shorten that for you.
If a man doesn’t put himself first, the woman will put him second.
agreed……when you let them know in no uncertain terms that your life will flow the same with or without them, it challenges them ……..and you’re in their pants so fast it makes your head spin………live by the motto “don’t chase ’em, replace ’em” and put the onus on them…….you can see the fireworks going off in their heads
red pill wisdom in a nutshell !
Tell me about it. I deal with angry fat chicks daily who think they’re entitled to guys who work out.
The key is becoming strong as a man and being un whippable as in un pussy-whippable. Great victorious fighters can become pussy whipped in the end. You can work out, tone your body and win fights, but becoming a man that is un pussy whippable is more than just mental. If you never venture close enough to a woman to the crossroads where you control her or she controlls you, if you abort a relationship rather than plant your flag on the territory you’ve conquered, then you forego the tests that build a man into a conquerer. I still say that virgin tinder makes the best foundation. Conquering and keeping a virgin woman colonized versus a carousel slut is comperable to say conquering the land of the Eloi versus colonizing modern day Afghanistan.
Poetry
Ding dong.
It’s amazing some of the guys I see become pussy whipped, and some of the guys who aren’t. I hang out with a bunch of MMA fighters, and while they’re some of the toughest dudes I know, I’ve seen a few of them become complete betas when it comes to women. Usually severe oneitis. On the other hand, my accountant is a normal dude, but he’s like “I don’t sweat bitches.”
Abundance mentality is just that – it’s a mentality. Women are not that special. They’re easily replaceable. She might be hot and good at sex, but you’ll meet girls equally as hot and good in bed. There is no “one”, and you’re not “star crossed lovers.”
Armed with that knowledge, it’s hard to overly emotionally invest in women.
“with a bunch of MMA fighters, and while they’re some of the toughest dudes I know, I’ve seen a few of them become complete betas when it comes to women”
The single toughest guy I ever knew was divorce raped twice, by a solid 4 and a solid 5 respectively.
The latter cheated on him with 3 or 4 different guys.
Weirdly confidence runs low with these uber tough types.
Look at Mike Tyson as an example
In the cunt circles she’s known as da woman that whipped Miike Tyson.
Confidence is not all encompassing. You can be very confident in some areas and insecure in others. That’s your typical MMA fighter.
Tell me about it.
I see this in the world of guns too. Combat veterans and “operators” who can shoot you in the face and not think twice but when it comes to women they are some of the most pussywhipped men you could ever stand to meet.
They’ll either be doing hookups with natural 7+ but getting all kinds of runaround and spending huge bucks for that high quality tang (the mercenaries will make a half million on a contract and that’s what makes them volunteer to go to war – suckers) or if they are working regular jobs, married to a hambeast.
I just don’t get it with the latter group: here you have guys are have self discipline and can be determined to achieve anything, hooked up with the fat tubs of lard who can’t even manage to put the fucking cupcakes down.
I will bet every “in the know” feminist and think-tanker who are deliberately beta-izing western men and know exactly what they are doing must gloat on the inside, a feeling of satisfaction, whenever they see these warriors with big fat wifey in tow, because big fat wifey will also be wearing the pants, and when told, big fat wifey will want a divorce and decide to get a restraining order to “enhance” her takings in the procedure but that means no more guns forever for the poor dupe.
It’s the only way these guys learn.
I’d say the key is not needing women for a relationship at all. Fill all your needs in other ways where possible, and for sex, find a way to do it where you are in absolute control and can do it any time you want. The easiest way I know of to do that is casual side chicks that depend on you for things but they are one of 4-5 you have at any given point. I know that this lacks a certain emotional fulfillment that many people want and love, but I don’t honestly think that emotional fulfillment is sustainable from most women today and the down side is way worse than the upside.
“Fill all your needs in other ways where possible, (…) . I know that this lacks a certain emotional fulfillment that many people want and love, but I don’t honestly think that emotional fulfillment is sustainable from most women today and the down side is way worse than the upside”
This is exactly what I wanted to say but I failed to do so; thank you good sir.
Today’s globalized World is different – it’s a cancer in many ways including what it has done to today’s female. So whereas getting sex is still possible, contemporary women have become soul-less garbage, and society has become male-hating and dysfunctional.
Not sure if heaven exists, but Hell sure does because we currently live in it.
Yup, good advice. I just like sex with women…..
Hear! Hear!
“I encourage every man to study game, learn it, and practice it. But understand that women will never bring you fulfillment.”
This understanding that women will never bring fulfillment is a rite of passage. If a seasoned cocksmith who has banged a ton of chicks says to a socially awkward virgin that women are no big deal, said virgin will think he is nuts. It is only when a man experiences the bullshit games, the pussy farts, being played for a sucker, contracting an incurable STD or two, dealing with their selfishness, dealing with their absolute callous indifference whether you live or die, will said virgin truly grasp the absolute reality that women cannot bring him fulfillment.
“It is only when a man experiences the bullshit games, the pussy farts, being played for a sucker, contracting an incurable STD or two, dealing with their selfishness, dealing with their absolute callous indifference whether you live or die, will said virgin truly grasp the absolute reality that women cannot bring him fulfillment ”
So true!
Roger that.
I threw my girlfriend out of my place last night. She was getting uppity and I would rather play some video games and drink some beer before I put up with that crap.
I’ve made just about every beta mistake in the book. Never again.
over the past couple of months i’ve witnessed my neighbor get absolutely torn to bits by his harpie wife. i’m next door outside catching some rays and reading (early weekend morning routine weather-permitting), and like clockwork this woman rips into this guy with the most ear-piercing rants i’ve ever heard. all i hear is him pleading his case in return, ‘you don’t love me anymore??? that’s not true! you’re TELLING me you don’t LOVE me?” holy shit, i wanted to snipe him with vial of ‘instant-red-pill,’ but our paths never cross and it’s wholly not my business. here’s the kicker… this dude looks like mr. clean (mid-30’s, shaved-bald head, jacked (probably from kraton right?)… puts me to shame in every physical sense), while his old-lady looks like a solid-5 (mid-30’s, post-wall, smoker). they have an infant son together. ::shudder:: the whole situation makes me cringe (but i thank my lucky stars i’m not him). pretty sure he’s officially gone from his home now (the future divorce rape is certainly coming, but hopefully then he becomes red-pill re-born).
Slip him an anonymous note. It could help, or it might not.
i agree 100%… the trick is not getting caught (by him OR maleficent (i presume she’ll just take over the deed to the house as part of the divorce-pounding)). i don’t need to put a big target on my back you know (get my car keyed, or have the cops called on me for some bullshit). i’ll give it some more thought.
You are becoming a legend in your own time with some of these posts. I have been applying you “whats the stupidest message” line online with some success, thanks for it.
So-called “Game” is an attempt to build masculinity without foundation. Basically fake it till you make it. It works because psychological state is pliable and over time it’s possible to develop a strong character and true masculinity. I believe men fail because of focusing on methodology rather than inner self. It’s natural for us to seek functionality in all things but the goal for every man should be to change self and undo feminist brainwashing.
On the contrary, most contemporary game advice recommends that you build a strong masculine inner self. “Fake it til you make it”is fine up to a point but you still have to “make it” – and no-one that I know of is claiming otherwise.
This should be engraved inside every man’s consciousness. And reviewed like a sacred text every time pussy threatens to overwhelm our bulwark of male logic & sense.
So what brings fulfillment to man?
I am somewhat new to red pill truths and I have a question that I can’t seem to answer myself. Just recently I went on a vacation and I couldn’t help but stop and glance at some of the couples that I saw walking the beach or out in public. I saw really attractive girls, ages anywhere between 17-19, possibly younger, I don’t know, with guys who I and others that were with me, did not think we’re near the attractiveness of the girls they were with. And it’s not just when I’m on vacation that I see this. Now is it that they have an alpha mentality, or is there something more than that? Thank you for reading.
just make sure you aren’t confusing a dry spell with being desperate for a girlfriend, just got hit up a slump buster ugly https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5qQay6tGx4
I knew this chick one time who was diagnosed antisocial personality disorder. I told everyone the truth about her, then she got pissed and kept screaming at me “I’m gonna kill you! I’m gonna make you disappear! I’m gonna turn everyone against you! You brought this on yourself aaaaaaaaaaaah!”
I just kept laughing and I am still spreading the word about her antics, and she’s still making threats lol.
Leave it to a total psycho to TRY AND MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY FOR DOING THE RIGHT THING.
Yeah, because Kings like you people panic when they don’t get female approval. This is pathetic.
Actually, it’s the reverse: a lack of female approval is simply material upon which to refine our techniques.
And this shit how Rosh makes his money? Selling shit do guys who panic about the possibility that they are alone and could be stay alone?
Where were you forced to buy anything?
This is the same as sales. Hit a dry spot? Grind it out even more intensely.
why is game necessary to talk to a girl? she’s a human like everyone else…game is needed for something like hunting because it requires skill and practice in order to survive
Because you require skill and practice to talk with people too.
if you see a cute one that speaks to your inner self , approach, chances are good she is a flake and you will tell in the first 3 seconds of the encounter when you get good enough. They are either cool with being approached or they think they are some kind of princess, in which case, smile move on, and be thankful she only wasted a few moments of your thoughts. Let her be some one else’s problem. They are ALL problems in one way or another. unicorns ,may be out there but I have yet to meet one. I have come close but they all have problems they are working on. It IS a numbers game, when the tide is out, its out, stop looking, when the tide comes in you will find yourself spinning plates just to keep up.
If you’re going through a “dry spell” you’re either:
A) ugly as fuck
B) an asshole
C) socially awkward
No. A friend of mine is currently going through a long dry spell and he is none of these things. Your comment is unhelpful.
Your friend fails at life.
No – “failure” with women is not failure at life. Your comment is unhelpful.
‘Dry spell’ is when a man has a strong desire to pursue females and failing. If there is a complete lack of interest or no cost-reward benefit it isn’t a dry spell. It is a willful disengagement.
Obviously. No one would call ‘willful disengagement’ a dry spell.
“Women are generally vapid, uninteresting, insecure creatures who have been told their whole life that they’re special princesses, all deserving of a tall, wealthy, athletic man despite their blue hair, extra 20lbs”
And it still wouldn’t matter if they looked like super models – I still expect women to behave like a proper human being.
Actually, it’s more like this:
1. Be tall
2. Be handsome
3. Be rich
4. Be all of the above
5. Rinse/Repeat
#6 is legit. I did this once when I went to break up with a girl. (We ended up not breaking up) I listened back to it and it helped me improve how I communicate massively.
Only one step is needed..Kratom
I have always been a one woman man.
And every time, suffered the emotional drain of either being cheated on, or just made it out to be a piece of crap while I tried rentlesly to make the woman in my life happy.
Nothing ever worked, year after year, relationship after relationship.
After being cheated on several times I decided to Fight Fire With Fire. I started dating 5 women at the same time my game was stepped up and I had the time of my life!!!
Women can sense men who have confidence, and they don’t care if you cheat on them (just don’t do it in front of them LOL)