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5 Reasons You Should Never Date A Single Mother

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Popular culture praises single mothers as high-value dating catches for discerning, good men. It is hard to find many greater lies than this one. MILF culture since the late 1990s and early 2000s, epitomized by the American Pie character Finch’s obsession with Steve Stifler’s mom, made bedding and romancing single mothers a seeming must-have on many young men’s sexual bucket lists. Nonetheless, just because you saw it on TV or in a film doesn’t make it truth.

The single mother craze is just the collective self-delusion of has-been women with kids, backed up by a sympathetic cultural narrative. It is designed to assuage the hurt they feel at being upstaged by packs of new, frequently younger or better-looking nubile girls that men really want to claim.

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A couple of caveats need to be tacked on to what I am saying. Firstly, the following list includes general, “on average” characteristics of single mothers. Society is replete with thankfully childless über-feminists who hate the idea of ever becoming pregnant. Similarly, there are enough cases of women with kids who would make better partners than girls who are yet to expel a human being from their body.

Also, Western dis-civilisation suffers from a terminal lack of fecundity. As Return Of Kings proprietor Roosh has pointed out, “nationalism without natalism will fail.” The globalist agenda, plus its corollaries of self-disembowelling multiculturalism, pernicious feminism, and transgender lunacy, are all geared towards suppressing positive notions of fertility that accord with true female nature. The problem is not that women have children, but that many women have children in a culture that conditions them to act in repulsive ways, both before and after motherhood.

Meanwhile, single fathers paradoxically have none of the appeal attributed to single mothers. This is irrespective of the fact that men physically age better and do not have any of the deleterious physical effects of bearing children. Worse still, they are never recognized for raising and financially supporting children by themselves, most of all by prospective female partners.

Without further ado, here are the five reasons why single mothers as a group are more out of touch than Rosie O’Donnell at a religious fasting:

1. Their bodies are inferior to women who are not mothers

Yes, you can find many a female fatty who is without children and has no real prospect of having them anytime soon. Likewise, you can find a mother whose ass fills a pair of spandex pants like a gallon of water satisfies a man about to die of thirst in the desert. The norm, however, is that motherhood ruins a woman’s body or, if it doesn’t do so immediately, turns on a steady self-destruct mechanism. With more free time while on maternity leave or doing a poor job at child-rearing as the government and father foot the bill, they can cake on the makeup and adjust the camera filters that allow them to superficially reclaim their pre-motherhood look. Whatever happens, it remains a smokescreen.

In addition, almost every single human being on this planet lets themselves go after having children. They cannot easily coordinate earning an income (if they even do), tending to a growing household, and caring for children with physical maintenance or self-improvement. And if they do coordinate it somewhat, it is at a subpar, barely functioning level. This only adds to the breaking down of a single mother’s looks.

2. They are separated or divorced from their baby daddy for a reason and usually it’s very bad

Women have no socially-enforced responsibility for their relationship behaviors, even when those relationships produce children. For example, repeated studies show that female cheating is approaching or has equaled levels of male infidelity. Yet the mea-culpa-for-straying press conferences you see are of Tiger Woods and not Kristen Stewart. In this permissive environment, which both looks past and invariably rewards prima donna female antics, women with children feel more able still to go off the deep end, sabotage their relationships, and then pretend that they were the offended, even abused party.

It is into this maelstrom of female self-entitlement that the prospective boyfriend of a single mother walks. Not only do you have all the crap involved with the biological father of the child, which the mother usually does nothing to mitigate, you also must deal with the shell of a woman whose malformed relationship strategies remain firmly intact. The world is full of women who have never told a man they were to blame for the end of a previous relationship. Having a child only compounds the problems associated with this distinct lack of self-awareness.

3. They are financial dead-ends

Unless you are pile-driving a doctor, lawyer or someone else similarly well-positioned who has a child or two, your courtship with a single mother is a financial drain on you just waiting to happen. Oh wait, it already is. A woman with a child who really thinks she just wants a boyfriend is bad enough, but single mothers are greatly—if not entirely—motivated by the admitted financial security that a new partner provides. They can lacquer it up all they like with the feeling of finally having that “special someone,” yet the deep-seated function matters a whole lot more than the convenient excuse. She’s probably fooling herself, not just trying to fool you.

To think that female brains have moved much further beyond their mammalian cousins or prehistoric ancestors is pure folly. If your sex drive as a man is often no different to the first homo sapiens, a single mother’s compulsion for male-generated resources has not moved along, either. Except the child is another man’s and not yours. You will be either bailing her out outright or accepting much lower financial and other material contributions from her. And for what?

4. They do not become better people by becoming mothers

The vast majority of people in the world, whether male, female, black, white, or blue, do not change in their lifetimes beyond extremely narrow limits. Age, illness, having a family, or changing jobs may all act as funnels that give the appearance of true change, but these shifts are not what they appear. The same person merely moves into a different phase of existence.

A single mother saying she became a better person by getting knocked up and giving birth is simply backward rationalizing an event just as irreversible as losing one’s virginity. She is putting a positive spin on the end of her more pristine fertility and the advent of stretch marks, sagging mammaries, and a much more constrained social life interspersed with tantrums (hers or the child’s) and the constant whiff of infant fecal matter.

5. They have impulsive and poorly-reasoned behaviors

Why exactly is a single mother a mother? Did she finish high school? Complete any other education? Hold down her last three jobs? Screw half the hood rats in Brooklyn? Inasmuch as an ideal patriarchal society would welcome women having children young, having children young in today’s society, particularly without marriage and a steady financial situation, is very often an indication of sluttiness and a penchant for instant, unending gratification. This bodes terribly for any relationship between her and any man after she splits with the father of her child/children.

Elements of psychological child abuse are also at play because by ignoring her own self-development (and neglecting to cultivate a stable relationship with the father) she is almost certainly passing on significant dysfunction to her son or daughter. Shows like MTV’s Teen Mom equate getting pregnant at 15, 16, or 17 with this, but even much older single mothers are prone to such behavioral clusters.

You will come dead last with single mothers

This super-principle hangs above and holds together the preceding five. You are most likely always an object with single mothers and not a valued option, let alone a priority.

Tread carefully. And why settle for what many would term used goods when there are fresher, childless pastures just down the road?

Read More: Fat Single Mothers Are Child Abusers

465 thoughts on “5 Reasons You Should Never Date A Single Mother”

  1. Before getting involved with a single mom, do yourself a favor and ask “why is she a single mom?” Don’t rely only on her answer either, this ask is as much for you to answer as her. This will unlock all of the above. Maybe you’ll discover the unicorn fuck goddess Susie homemaker who was tragically widowed and is worth your time, but don’t hold your breath. Ask why. And contemplate the answer deeply.

    1. The only acceptable answer as to why she is a single mum is “my cherished husband died….it’s taken me a long time to get to a point where I can even consider dating another man”

      2. That’s one good idea from the Bible: single mothers who were tragically widowed would have the right to marry their late husband’s brother. This meant that the woman got financial security but not at the expense of some random schmuck – the brother would be raising kids which were genetically at least a quarter his so the burden wasn’t without some reward for him.

        1. In society’s desperate attempt to reject anything related to past wisdom, much of the truths have been lost. Regardless of your belief or faith, the lessons contained in the bible can be very strong tools to better you as a person.
          In the example that you’ve stated, part of the key of marriage is that the wife was to leave all vestiges of her family behind, becoming wholly part of her husband’s family. If the husband died, she married his brother so that she would keep her part in that family and her husband’s lineage would be protected by its own blood. If no brother was to be had, she remained in the care of the husband’s family as a daughter. Single motherhood was not tolerated for any reason.

        2. That example is also a retort to the feminists’ complaint that polygamy is the patriarchy’s way of oppressing poor downtrodden women who are forced to share their oversexed husbands. On the contrary: polygamy is a right which, like all rights, comes with responsibilities. There were no exemptions made for widows’ brothers-in-law who happened to already be married; the burden of providing for the widow fell on her brother-in-law regardless of his current marital status.

        3. But if that rule were around today she probably wouldn’t marry the brother because he didn’t give her the ‘Gina Tingles and she’d be off whoring for the nearest dark triad bad boy she could find and let the kids be damned.

        5. Just yet further proof that society has looked on men as expendable for a long long time.
          The brother gets no choice in the matter eh?
          Henry VIII suffered from this problem, so it permeates all levels of society. He got his own back later on of course.

    2. I agree. Always ask around and find out why she is a single mom…or don’t hook up with single moms at all.
      If you can’t fact find and truly find out why the woman is single then I would opt out of it. It can only lead a man down the wrong path (paying alimony and child support for someone’s kid).

  2. This article discusses the “whys” very well, but to anyone reading this:
    STAY AWAY FROM SINGLE MOTHERS
    Pump and dump sure, but never ever anything more. If they won’t bend over backwards to make it work with the father/s of their child/ren, then you as some random guy have no chance.

      1. Shit, shit triple shit ! That’s it, I’m taking my used condoms with me from now on.

  4. You need to change #3: Single mothers are not so much ‘financial dead ends’, as they are ‘financial black holes’ and ‘money pits’. They pull money in, and it is never seen again.

    1. my ex-wife was like that, without children. i used to call her “the money incinerator.”

  5. I remember having a crush on this chick in high-school (I would honesty rate her 9/10) and she got banged like a salvation army drum thus becoming pregnant. Also, I remember after she got pregnant, she still had this rubbish attitude and behavior as if she didn’t have a child and would go out and party relentlessly. Fast forward couple years, I ran into her and she still had the same snobby behavior- She thinks that just because she’s pretty she can continue her attitude and behaviors. Such females like the ones I mentioned before should be put on blast publicly, so they don’t think their shit don’t stank. Sit your a** home and take care of your child c*nt.

  6. I made the mistake of having a relationship with a single mother. This was right during my unplugging phase and as time passed it became apparent I was making a huge mistake – so I ended it. TRP you lifesaver.

    1. I too had a realtionship with a single mother. Red pill had always been lurking in the background of my life, but this experience fully made me swallow it.

      1. My moment of truth was somewhat before this, but you know how it is, sometimes you go purple, before you go full crimson. Nothing bad came of it, I just realised continuing the relationship was foolish so I ended it. Typical story, guy knocked her up and immediately bounced, poor circumstances. She was a stunner, but the cracks were starting to show. I just woke up one day and went, wtf am I doing? NAWALT? For a single mother in her late 20s? Are you kidding me? Took that noose off my neck and got the fuck out.

        1. Yeah, I was similar, though I was consciously ignoring the voice in my head constantly warning me of danger and screaming WTF? I suppressed the red pill in favor of a very hot piece of ass, because I was different, or so I thought.

    2. I have been repeatedly told by my alpha friends that having a kid is actually the best feeling in the world.. but NOT when that little bastard is not yours.

      1. I think the issue is we’re fed that children are this amazing gift and blessing… But if any of remember being kids there are kids that are assholes and jerks and that could also be the person’s kids you date and they refuse to believe their kids are jerks… This isn’t always the case but it can be

  8. Only a man suffering from a severe case of dignity atrophy would even entertain the thought of financing, housing, and raising some other man’s orgasm. Most of these broads get knocked up by derelict low-life’s, and, consequently, their children have those wonderful derelict low-life genetics running through them. Have fun sharing your domicile with a straight F student who will ultimately become a criminal just like daddy, because that’s what you’re going to get.

    1. Sadly once such a guy comes to his senses, he’s unwittingly invested so much into that relationship that a court can rule him to be the legal father of another guy’s kid via paternity by estoppel. He’s then on the hook for all the obligations that come along with it.
      Paternity by estoppel IMO should be the number one reason why no man in his right mind should ever consider dating a single mother.

      1. Years ago I knew one of the biggest, strongest, toughest, handsomest and nicest guys I ever met and he married a single mom with young kids. He loved the kids, was good to them and officially adopted them. Later on when the kids were 11 and 12 the single mom divorce raped him and he ended up paying for somebody elses kids for years. The only good part of the story is that he ended up with a tall, beautiful, loyal, sweet blonde who worshipped the ground he walked on and she treated him like a king for many years after.

        1. hope he’s still together with the blond. sounds like maybe he learned his lesson and was able to pick out a good woman.

        3. Is she from Poland, by any chance? In my limited experience with women, only one Polish woman ever showed me what true femininity was.

        4. No. American. But funny you should mention that, after having had many women over the years, just yesterday, I mentioned to my son that the few Polish-Americans I had dated stood out as being nice, agreeable and pleasant as opposed to all the others. Best one I ever had was in my youth when I dated a Colombian, highly educated, from refined upper class family. She was the most loyal woman I ever knew and did not have the “crazy” gene that infects most Latinas. 5′ 9″ with a body to die for. She loved me more than all the others. Her father promised me an emerald store in Baranquilla. I bailed. Ended up with a string of Americunt bitches after that. Over the years I knew about her from afar through friends. She made some lucky guy happy for years. I let the big one get away.

        5. I hate to admit this, the Polish girl was my best also. She was highly educated, blond and the most feminine woman ever. I still wonder why I let the best get away.

        6. I can only attribute it to youthful hubris and not wanting to be tied down. But she was all that I had dreamed of and with an emerald store thrown into the deal. I knew that there probably wouldn’t ever be anyone better but I thought that there might be someone nearly equal. There never was…not even close.

        10. Fuck the emerald store! Can’t you read?! “I knew that there probably wouldn’t be anyone better ….she was the most loyal woman I ever knew…she made some lucky guy happy…best one I ever had…she was all that I had dreamed of…she loved me more than all the others”. And you focused on the fucking emerald store?!?! Women focus on the gaining of material resources through relationships, whereas men go out and have to earn their fortune. I had plenty of money at the time and have made tons of money since. Out of a couple hundred women she was just about the ONLY honorable one I ever found. To quote Solomon the Wise from Ecclesiastes “I searched out the matter of a thing and found one upright man among a thousand but not one upright woman among them all”. Get back over to Jezebel and make your comments there.

      2. Wow, thanks for bringing that up. I wish someone would do an article doscussong these kinds of legal issues

        1. The short version of paternity by estoppel is if you act like the father, you are the father.
          For example, if you’re buying the kid gifts for Christmas or his birthday, or taking him on family trips with the single mother, or if the kid calls you “dad” even if you have not sired him, then, even if you are not married to the mother, you can be declared the legal father of the child should the single mother choose to pursue it, and then you’re on the hook for child support.
          This is the law in Pennsylvania. Other states have similar laws.
          http://www.tabanolaw.com/paternity-by-estoppel/

        2. Well, all it means is that in those states a man has to stay away from single moms. Too bad for them.

        3. We need some kind of resource to see what the law is against men in different states regarding issues like these.
          Something clear and easily understandable, for example, whichnstates have estopal, how far do they take it. What states have over the top false rape accusations, etc

        4. The really sad part is that the government has to get the money out of someone….even if you aren’t the legit parent.
          That’s how you know our system is corrupted or faulty. When the government finds a way to get money out of people who are not even the rightful (lawful) parent of a child. It doesn’t matter to them, it’s all about the money.

        5. I agree…..but men need to steer clear of women with kids, period. Make it a permanent way of life. No women with kids, period.

        6. As Driver pointed out the best course of action is to simply avoid relationships with single mothers. Laws change all the time, and even if you live in a state with laws that are more friendly, judges can still make things up as they go along, as they’re known to do.
          Best to avoid the problem altogether.

        7. To add to the bullshit, tests have consistently shown that 30% of offspring are NOT genetically related to the guy who thinks he’s the father. When you go out and see a mom with three kids, that means one of them isn’t related to their father. In divorce cases with kids, the father usually balks at the idea of getting a paternity test because it’ll screw up the child’s mind for life. But economically, it’s the best thing he can do.

      3. That’s fucking insane. This is the first I’ve ever heard of paternity by estoppel. Good thing I swore off single mothers permanently.

    2. I would make only one exception to the general rule you have stated, if I were suddenly a widower with kids, and I found a widow with kids, AND, she was not a basket case, but was a worthy unicorn-type woman, I would CONSIDER the relationship only because it is very difficult financially and logistically to raise kids on your own these days. If you found that rare woman who was genuinely good, and widowed through no fault of her own, and was willing to raise your kids as hers, and take on the household shit so you could focus on supporting the family, etc… it MIGHT be advisable. Note that this is acceptable only because the focus here is on creating a stable environment for YOUR OWN KIDS. But even then, this issue requires very careful consideration, and in particular, the prospects of her children should be considered. If they aren’t good kids, fuck her. No matter what benefits she brings, it isn’t worth the headache of dealing with little shitheads that belong to someone else.

        1. Yes, and it is rarely a good deal. It is the unicorn of married relationships. Doesn’t mean its not out there, but unlikely that you’re looking at it.

        2. Probability is vanishingly small. See comment upthread. “not baggage but freight” hahahaaaa
          They should remake the Brady Bunch. Mike drinks too much and Carol has BPD. The rivalries between the kids are insane, and they each hate the opposite sex parent.
          The final episode involves a drug and alcohol fueled mass murder-suicide.

        3. Now THAT would be more realistic. Therefore, no way it will ever happen.

      2. “Widow” != “Single Mom”. At least not as far as this discussion is concerned.
        Widow > Divorcee > Babymomma

      3. Even with widows, do some screening.
        Was the husband in the military and got killed in action? Or was he a junkie and had an OD, or got shot while messing with the cops? Drunk driver?

        3. I chuckled at first, but that’s actually a good point for the guys headed to/in Southeast Asia.

      4. Please, never, ever equate a widow with a single mother. A widow is second only to an unmarried woman in SMV; a single mom is the last fish in the barrel that no one should touch a with a 10-foot pole.

      5. I’m a widower with three kids. Hypothetically what you suggest is possible, but practically speaking highly unlikely. I spent four years trying to make a go of a blended family and, while it wasn’t a total loss by any means, it was harder on me than my wife’s death. Raising the kids on your own ain’t that bad in the scheme of things.

        1. I was a widower with 4 kids at home the youngest was three at the time of my wife’s death. I tried the blended family but found hat women of my age at the time (40s) didn’t have baggage, they had freight. Went back to raising kids on my own and was very happy to do so.

      7. Preferably widow who was beneficiary of large life insurance policy, that was not involved in husnband’s death.

    3. bit harsh maybe, but closer to the truth than the rosy picture society at large tries to paint of single moms.
      anyone remember a few years ago when the jewellers were trying to make it a thing that when you wife up a single mom, you buy her daughter a diamond bracelet?

        1. found it. just a necklace in this ad, but i swear there was one that had the hapless beta giving the daughter diamonds. anyway:

        2. What a disgusting commercial. More persons who also dislike it posted it on youtube as well. I wonder how many people actually like that garbage!

        3. Gee, I wonder who the (((((owners))))) of Kay Jewelers could be.

        4. Those aren’t the Jews you are looking for.
          Zales, that’s the chain they own.

        5. And who owns the emerald store? A Colombian! It’s all a Colombian conspiracy, I tell you!

    4. It’s almost unbelievable how this is true to a Tee. I hardly ever find a single mom who spawned with a decent guy. They are almost all deadbeats, or often, actual criminals. I have only briefly dated 2 single moms, and I mean 3 dates or less. The most recent was a hot little 19 year old that was thin, sweet, and had the most amazing eyes I’ve ever seen. She seemed really innocent, and I don’t think her notch count was that high (I’d honestly say 1-2 guys), but the guy she chose to have a baby with is currently in prison! I went on 2 day dates with her, never met the kid before my senses kicked in and I broke it off. She has a brief window when she can try to lock down a guy over the next couple of years but her life is pretty much ruined at this point.

      1. I just can’t buy that reasoning all in. In my personal experience I’ve met a lot of decent guys who got divorce raped but other than having some bad judgment regarding their exes were decent guys. On the other hand I’ve also met some girls with really really nice eyes who are full of shit. No woman can turn it on and off like a woman with a convict baby. Day dates aren’t for single moms, maybe one to shore up a weekly jump off or something, just my opinion.

      2. In my experience, single mothers have low notch counts because having a child is a major obstacle for them. Men usually run a mile when they come across a single mother and of course motherly duties typically come first.
        On another note, isn’t it interesting that the media suggests that mothers have two jobs (mother and their employment) but fathers only have one? So being a father isn’t a job at all and has zero responsibilities. Not how it was in my family but there you go.

        1. The number of women who have multiple kids with multiple men has been on the rise. Many of them living on welfare, of course.
          The comedian Corey Holcomb mentioned this in his stand up sketch, “If you visit a chick and the kids are not afraid of strangers, you know what’s up.” Something along those lines.

        2. Well that makes sense. Chick has kid as a teen. Grandma raises kid. Chick meets new guy when she’s an adult. Has another kid. Guy realizes she’s broken and leaves. Chick gets married in her 30s to some sucker. Three kids, three guys.
          Nice.

        3. I remember this episode of some British nanny who visits people who have trouble raising their kids. Because of lack of discipline. And in this particular episode the nanny visited a single mother who had 3 sons who were 2 or 3 years apart. Each one had a different father. What the hell was she thinking and what the hell were the sperm donors thinking!

        5. Yes, being a father is definitely a job. Too bad many fathers–and mothers–shirk the responsibilities of parenting (and spending time under the same roof with the kid/s is only a start). Children should be their parents’ first priority. If you can’t live with that–and most people can’t–dating someone who already has a child is not for you.

        6. That’s the problem right there!! Read the Bible woman, it clearly states a man and his woman come 1st! I’ll never be with some mom if I’m not 1st. And I’m rich so she and her fuck trophy will lose out bigtime…back to the ghetto you go!!

        7. In a proper patriarchy, the children would be taken away from that teen and given to decent people to raise, not to the “grandma”. Given that the grandmother obviously didnt know what she was doing with the mother, why bother letting her mis-raise another innocent?
          Right now that is impossible thanks to white knights, backstabbing gamma faggots, and clueless betas. Soon that will all change, most of these sorts will either wise up or self destruct.

        8. She is a feral woman, she was likely thinking the same thing the other three men she copulated with were thinking when they didnt use a condom

        9. “Cant”? “Not for you”? Nice try whore.
          The proper way to put it is “have the self respect to look for a better class of woman”.

        10. Even better, both grandma and ma would have been married off before they had time to fuck up.

        11. Im a woman and i wont date single fathers either. Not putting up with their Fuck Tropheys either and get this the cheeky boys even go on they did half their life and don’t want a single mom. But forget that a single working woman don’t want to waste their life bringing up some kid. I’m Child Free not Child less i want people to get that straight too! lol

        12. And you shouldn’t put up with a relationship where you have to deal with someone else’s kid, Abbie Green. However, men getting with a single mom are in much more jeopardy. Both men and women with single parents get to put up with rotten kids from someone else, however men are expected to pay and pay and pay for the privilege, whether in marriage or in divorce. Rarely would a stepmom be legally forced to pay for kids not hers, but a court will go after a man’s income. The odds and laws are way moreso stacked against men in divorce proceedings, which is why 70 to 90% of divorces are launched by the wives, because wives can cash in.

      3. Maybe you’re meeting the moms in clubs and pof. Find one busy with her life and on kids.

      4. After 25 she will certainly not get a new man for years coming. Maybe when the children are 18+ and leave the house. To make things short: She will pay the bill herself.

      5. Nonsense. She can dp the right thing, put the child up for adoption, change her lifestyle, ie, take up emotionally healthy hobbies such as knitting, music, etc. Change her dress to conservative feminine, get a serious job, and focus on prayer as well as meditation while reading books on what a proper girl should look for in a man. As well as learn about proper nutrition, home cooking, basic accounting, and how to live frugally but well.
        Now before you spit your coffee on the screen in laughter, ask yourself, what is preventing her from doing any of the above? Exactly. Nothing but her own choices.
        Her life is not “ruined”, its going in the direction she wants it to go.

    5. This is no exaggeration. Shit in, shit out.
      My beta provider cousin took in a single mother. The step-son acts just like the worthless dad he’s never met. His son with her is meek and obsessed with computers like his father.

    6. Exactly! I would like to raise my own kid(s) and not invest a lot of time, energy and financial resources to raise another man’s child/children!!!

    7. As a child of a single-mother I starkly disagree, but I also acknowledge that I am an anomaly.

      1. Step-kid BURNS DOWN HIS HOUSE, mommie still takes the kid’s side.
        Dont marry single moms

    10. “Only a man suffering from a severe case of dignity atrophy would even entertain the thought of financing, housing, and raising some other man’s orgasm.”
      Yup…..that reminds me… I wonder how Mark Minter is doing these days?

    11. Most of these whores got pregnant just so someone would pay attention to them.

    12. I have to agree. I’m, often, giving out the advice to younger men on how to avoid single mothers, period. They are on the hunt looking for a man (usually any man) to fill the needs: more money, a house or apartment, etc, etc…they are looking for a new or better life because they have a child, more expenses and no man.
      The problem with society is that it gives the woman an excuse (a pass) for having kids and blames the man if things don’t work out. You never hear about how the woman drives a man away (from her and the child). You only hear about how the bad man left the mother and child. Often, it is the woman who drives the man away (or the relationship just doesn’t work out). But you’ll never hear that story from the media or society.
      We need to get back to the days where a woman (without kids) was valued and a woman with kids was a liability. Back when, women knew this fact all too well.

    13. I will say this list misses out the best reason for not dating a single mother. The mental and emotional anguish you will go through. I made this mistake many years ago. This woman seemed “perfect” and in many ways she was. Beautiful, intelligent, decent job, etc. But those kids were a permanent reminder that some guy had been there before. She had only been with him before me so she was no slut but nothing could make up for those kids. I see now why lions do what they do.
      That said, single mothers make great side chicks. They don’t expect too much and they rarely complain. Many of them are happy knowing that you have a steady while you’re banging them.

    14. . Plenty of HONORABLE men over time memoriam have done so. I think now one has to be a lot more careful given the advent of social media which expands the opportunity for those in relationships to stray.

    15. Her : “I am single mom”
      Any man with an ounce of common sense: “(double flushes down condom) Gotta go. Got everything with you?”

    16. We can’t give up on these men with low self esteem. We should be our brothers’ keepers. Let’s educate them in the RedPill Way, and deny these carousel riders the satisfaction of cucking a beta brother into a life of slavery.

  9. For anyone reading and disagreeing mentally with #1:
    “Well, I know plenty of MILFs and/or single moms who have nice bodies.”
    That’s nice, but remember you are likely dealing with someone who is looking to snag a provider and so she will put on her best face as much as necessary.
    If her income has taken a hit (likely it has) then she can’t afford the food costs to balloon up, and if she’s been single for a while, you likely have no idea what shape she got into before.
    Odds are she has slimmed down in the interim, but as soon as the cash flow is reestablished she will let herself go and you’ll probably see any “niceties” she was showing you disappear as well.

    1. Lots of it also has to do with when women have their children. Generally, the later they have them, the harder it is on their bodies. Those MILFS rocking tight bodies likely had their kids in their late teens or early twenties. But this should also advise caution because unless she came from a bible beating background or some other traditional society, she likely had those kids because she is an irresponsible fuck up.

      1. Even those from “bible beating backgrounds or other traditional societies” are irresponsible fuck ups.

      2. In Central and South America, becoming teenage mothers is the norm. It’s not a sign of being irresponsible. Everybody’s doing it.
        At that age, it doesn’t affect their bodies, at all. MILFtastic Latin women for the win. Sofia Vergara is the poster girl for that. She’s got a son that looks like her boyfriend.

        1. you may be on to something. i did see a lot of very, very attractive young single moms with basically perfect figures when i lived in central america.

        2. Sofia Vergara needs to swallow my shaft while I smash her head into the headboard.
          That said, I’m not on board with the “its OK because everyone is doing it” thing. I don’t think that’s what you’re saying, necessarily. But my baseline position is that single motherhood is fucked up, no matter how many people are doing it, or how culturally acceptable it is.

        3. They’re great to smash because they’ve already got a kid and a babydaddy. Plus there’s always una tia or una hermana or una amiga who can watch the kid. Stronger social networks = more babysitting opportunities.
          No joke: The hottest tail of my life has been a Latina single mom, age 31, with twelve-yr-old daughter. I have friends who knew her and can back me up on that. She had been a bikini model. All I had to do was hold her hand, buy her a nice sandwich, chat in Spanish, and invite her back to my condo to dance some bachata.

        4. It’s sad. The Catholic church is losing grip on central and south America. It was the main social shaming force. Most latina girls I meet now are just some watered down “Christian” sect.

        6. The dancing always does the trick! The panties practically fall off once you show them some Latin movies.

        7. …probably no GMO/Monsanto crap in their food. You live on 2$ a day you aren’t wolfing down Big Mac’s & Starbucks.

        8. “Most latina girls I meet now are just some watered down “Christian” sect.” — Well the Church isn’t much better now that the pope is a communist….bring on Peter Romanus!

  10. Well, there is one pro of dating a single mom:
    You can pump and dump without feeling remorse.

    1. Without remorse, yes, but without risk? I don’t think I’d try it unless my tubes were cut.

      1. Amen to that.. Whenever I bag a single mom from Tinder we always do it in my place, where I have a container to safely dispose my used condoms for the night.. can’t be too sure, these girls can be a little sneaky sometimes.

  11. Most single moms are single moms by their own choice. Either they got knocked up by an Alpha-dog or they divorced their beta-provider because they weren’t happy.
    Don’t even pity-bang them.

    1. I think of it as, “Either the guy was an ass and you have to deal with the wreckage, or she blew up a good relationship, which has its own set of problems.”

      1. Ironically, the guys who are the asses tend to get laid a lot. The explanations go from they not having to take care of the children themselves to being a biological explanation where females go after a male that has proven he is clearly fertile. Definitely something to watch for in a woman. If she has been with another woman’s (or women’s) baby daddy, run as fast as you can and tell a responsible adult.

      2. I think you’ve been watching Stefan Molyn – however you spell the rest of his last name. He says the exact same thing.

    2. and banging a woman who already has kids is very different than banging a woman with no kids. Besides, the bodies are usually much better on a woman who has no kids versus the woman with kids.
      Men need to take note on this one. Not only do you end up with more expenses but you end up with a used car with high mileage (and a bad body).

  12. Never, ever stick your dick in a single mother, does not matter is she is smoking hot.

        1. Tell that to her new husband, Joe Manganiello. I’ll watch the carnage from safety over here.

        2. I can’t believe that dude married her. He better have some kind of trick up his sleeve.

        3. It’s not his trick but her tricks that made him marry her… I mean, to any man’s standards that’s a beautiful woman.

        4. It’s so hard to find attractive women nowadays that a Colombian women like her has their appeal multiplied due to the contrast with today’s fatties and pseudo-masculine women.

        5. That is a spot on observation. Our standards have indeed lowered phenomenally…more’s the pity.

      2. Do you really think that mongrel is hot? she is only an overweight cow who cant speak english properly.

  13. I really do agree with almost everything you have said. And not until recently and having read it here i realize how these women really are married to the state and are provided for and therefore encouraged by the lack of consequences and tacit benefits.
    I come from a place where horrible things were done to single mothers and children taken off them. That disgusts me and should never happen but neither should they be rewarded and encouraged,it should be frowned upon and thought of as a fuck up but then dealt with. As in sometimes accidents do happen but two or three times with different fathers ?? no im afraid being ostracized and completely cut off from the state is their only answer.
    If i genuinely fall in love with a women with children then fair enough but i doubt i will and i certainly wont look to. I never was keen on it but now it seems a matter of principal and culture. I wont look down or judge these people but they certainly wont be trapping me or using me to rectify their past mistakes.
    Imagine paying for the rest of your life for some other man busting his nut and getting his ten seconds of pleasure ??? FUCK THAT
    On a lighter note i disagree with the milf phenomenon in the sense i love to bang milf’s just not single mothers exclusively. They are not always one and the same.

    1. Imagine paying for the rest of your life for some other man busting his nut …

      For many guys who made the mistake of “getting too close” to a single mother and her children, paternity by estoppel is a legal reality.

  14. What a coincidence. Just this weekend I watched Daddy’s Home, which precisely deals with this subject. As expected, everything works out in the end and everybody lives happily ever after, but for a Hollywood film, it does take some some gratuitous potshots at this whole culture. It especially takes shots at Will Ferrell’s beta character and the single mom who seems to fall again for Marky Marky Walberg’s douchy alpha bad boy character. And John Cena’s cameo was excellent.

    1. It takes shots, but it doesn’t deliver a knockout blow. In the end, it doesn’t question Farrell’s status as a dweeby beta provider. It simply reinforces the fundamental ‘rightness’ of his actions.
      I do agree that it is one of the few Hollywood films of late to make fun of a beta provider, but it doesn’t go the distance.

      1. Still quite a hilarious movie, but it does fall short. Same with Ferrell’s classic Stepbrothers. It does a good job of going after kidults but in the end it falls under the premise of let the kids be kids.

      2. Christ, can you imagine if it did end like that… There would certainly be a spike in beta suicides

      1. Poindexter will “man up” and take the single divorced mom!
        As Tom would say…don’t be Poindexter!

  16. For me single mothers are a waste of time. If they chose poorly that is not my fault and men shouldn’t be expected to pick up the tab.
    Guys like me who make very ordinary incomes cannot afford to mess with single moms especially. There is no way I’m going to risk losing my house to a bitch that will use it to raise a kid that isn’t my own. There is just no benefit for me whatsoever. The idea that I should be willing to accept a life of poverty for some other man’s kid is complete bullshit.
    Every young single mother I’ve ever known has been completely dysfunctional. Two of them in my area left their partners because the sex wasn’t good enough. A relative of mine recently split from her partner just two years after their son was born because he was ‘violent’ and ‘aggressive’. He was like that before they had kids, but the tingles were too strong to resist. Naturally she takes zero responsibility for her actions and is trying to restrict his visitation rights while extorting the maximum amount of child support possible.

    1. “A relative of mine recently split from her partner just two years after their son was born because he was ‘violent’ and ‘aggressive’. He was like that before they had kids, but the tingles were too strong to resist.”
      So true!
      Here, in Portugal, i saw a documentary about a women that was being abused before marriage and the reporter asked her: “So, why did you married him?” and she said that “despite all the beatings, i always thought he was so sexy that i could not end the relationship”.
      These bitches cant control themselves, can they?

      2. In high school a friend and I worked at the same restaurant. One day his sister came in, their mom’s latest BF/husband is beating the c$^^ out of her like the 5 or 6 before him. Friend rushes home to throw the a$$wipe out of the house.
        At the time it amazed me that she kept finding those kind of guys, and that those kind of guys kept finding her.

        1. when you keep finding yourself with abusive men then it becomes a choice (no one has a right to harm you) but if you can’t stop this cycle there are deep issues you must deal with that you’re trying to fill via poor relationships (I’m not actually talking about you btw just about people in general)

        2. Absolutely agree- deep seated issues no idea what- was this the norm in her home as a kid, her expectation for men…. no idea.
          But- the amazing thing to me is, I didn’t know any guy who’d hit a woman. Or a woman who would put up with it. So, I understood she had issues. An incredible rarity.
          But how does a guy willing to hit a woman manage to find one who’ll put up with it? How are these guys not in jail trying it on some woman (the majority I believe), who won’t tolerate it? And this was the 5th or 6th. I just can’t fathom how they can detect/tell a particular woman won’t just knife/shoot them– much less not call the cops– and get in a relationship. This is a very damaged guy with deep issues as well.
          It’s two very damaged people. How the heck do they find each other?
          In milder cases, it’s the same as the folks who jump into a relationship right after leaving one and it’s the same as the prior. It’s like rinse and repeat vice improvement/change.

        3. I think sometimes… It can happen where people lie about who they are (being male or female) but then learn and have and want more for yourself… IDK there are always going to be shitty people but it’s like these teen moms who keep having kids with different people… WTF do you want to keep doing that and having it on TV… Like WTF… That isn’t healthy and how do you explain to your children why all their siblings are with different people… IDK children are the biggest committment you can make with someone and to willingly just be so cavilear about it baffles me…

    2. Too many men have lost too much. Single mothers are not worth it. A man has too much to lose to even risk such a venture with a single mother. Besides, as men get older their options (in women) increases (their SMV is on the rise).
      Young men should never settle for single mothers. These women are the bottom of the rung and there are too many single women out there (no children) who are a much better deal. Don’t settle for single mothers…don’t give them a second thought. There is too much to lose.

        1. I’ll give you that. Having a child destoys a lot of desirability for both men and women.
          Women’s time is taken up by children that a new man can take no credit but a lot of the responsibility for. For men, their income is greatly reduced by child support. Why would a young, single woman want a financially compromised man? Answer, they wouldn’t.

        2. Children just take up alot of time and money…
          When I was a step mother (I still talk to them but they’re dad is married again) my ex and the be just expected that it was my responsibility to pick up their lack of income… My step children aren’t so much the issue as my ex and the bm…
          You know it’s not even that I cared to spend my money on my step children but when it became a demand from my ex that I should go without things I wanted because he choose to have children it became a problem… Single dads like single mothers can be black holes with it comes to the income of a childless person. I’ve met very few single parents who are driven when it comes to finances… This isn’t always the case but it usually is…

        3. Single fathers are, at least, logical and reasonable. Single mothers are nothing but feelings.

        4. I’ve never met a logical single father… Unless maybe he’s a widower… All single parents are self centered and think they are worth something more than anyone else.

      2. Thankfully I have recognised this. My male friends are also the same. None of us would give them a single look. We’re all in our late-twenties so perhaps there’s hope yet?

        1. There’s hope. I am from a small rural very poor town and I now live in a city. I actually met my boyfriend at work… But when I moved there were so many more people into their late thirties that were single with no children… I really is about where you live

    2. The big reason the lawyers are opposing it is summed up in two words: job security.

    3. Even funnier… guess who pushed this law. It wasn’t the guys paying alimony. It was the second wives lol.
      If that doesn’t illustrate that guys have absolutely no political power anymore, I don’t know what does.

      1. I don’t agree. The guys GAVE UP their political power because they were too chicken. They can reverse the trend any time they want.

      2. Only women could do that. If it came from the men it would be viewed as whining. Men are supposed to take whatever abuse is tossed their way.

        1. Yeah…and then the government, the media, and especially the women wonder why MGTOW is growing like crazy.

  19. You can take or leave the other points in this article as you see fit.. but ignore #3 AT YOUR PERIL. Also, the final point about “you will come dead last” really should be on the list as #6.

  20. Racists are gonna get furious at this story …
    A former friend, an incel white male engineer (call him IWME for short), was roommates with a white girl who had jungle fever. She’d travelled through Africa in her early twenties and loved to brag to me about how big the penises were there. She came onto me once, but I swatted her down.
    Anyways, while she was living with IWME, she got pregnant by her boyfriend, an African living in our city in the U.S. He was a financial adviser; nice guy. I used to go out and hang with him. He didn’t want the kid, mostly because the mom was a bit nutso, and scrammed.
    SO…
    She turns to IWME. Utterly predictable. She seduces him. They start “dating” as roommates. That was seven years ago, the last time I talked to either. Since then, he’s apparently been raising the kid as his own.
    tldr: The baby was conceived in the next room, by his roommate and her African boyfriend. He could hear them having sex. The boyfriend disappeared, and he became the father.
    Remember that Chris Rock routine about “in case of emergency, break glass for dick”? That was IWME. She kept him on standby for that fat engineer wallet.

    1. I note you describe him as a “former friend.” Please tell me the “former” adjective is related to his complete pussification.

      1. Yup. We’d been friends since age 12. I watched him turn from a typical beta into a self-hating omega incel — despite being six feet tall and pretty good looking and educated. Turns out he had massive mommy issues, which I never noticed when we were teenagers riding bikes lol.

      1. Good question. I dunno, never asked. He was making about seventy grand by age twenty-five, so it’s kinda curious.

    4. Cue bucky’s grammatically challenged copy-paste story about “My amazing brown virgin wife…”

  21. There are so many single, never-married no children women out there.
    Why would you *ever* take up with a single mom unless you are an incel omega?
    I won’t even pump and pump single mothers. Too dangerous. They are just dying to get knocked up and trap you

  22. That is raping obvious to any raping sensible man. Do not rape a single mother !

      1. Look how they rape us by raping words off their meaning. It’s time they get a rape of their own medicine.

      2. In some French social circles, (like the military) it is common to say “I raped myself on that exam (or competition or test)” meaning I really gave everything I got.

      3. You rapists have triggered my rapety-rape-raperaperapeRAAAAAPE
        (head explodes)

  23. Damned Enlightenment again. We’ve bought into the scam of how men and women have equivalent moral agency based on a priori arguments from the late 18th Century, when our ancestors over countless generations saw that women need male authority to make major decisions for them, otherwise women tend to get into trouble if you leave them to their own devices.

    1. Problem with that idea is that it doesn’t align perfectly with gender.
      Some women are quite capable of living independently in modern society (my sister, my mother, my girlfriend) while some men are quite INcapable of living independently in modern society (a certain ex-brother-in-law of mine).
      Nature should be more consistent with its gifts and curses. It would make the task of writing human laws much easier.

  24. “Meanwhile, single fathers paradoxically have none of the appeal attributed to single mothers. This is irrespective of the fact that men physically age better and do not have any of the deleterious physical effects of bearing children. Worse still, they are never recognized for raising and financially supporting children by themselves, most of all by prospective female partners.”
    One of my best friends has a daughter with his ex-wife. He’s not a single dad like, as in the sense that he is raising her alone or anything. But he’s a dad – and he’s single. I’ve noticed the exact OPPOSITE of what’s described above. It’s almost like women are attracted because he is proven to be virile and they get to see him be “Sweet” with daughter and shit. So they dig it. Meanwhile his ex-wife has dropped from a hard 9 to maybe a 5. She’s easily 100 lbs up and several years older. Her dating life has been horrid.

    1. “It’s almost like women are attracted because he is proven to be virile and they get to see him be “Sweet” with daughter and shit.”
      More likely he’s setting off their Beta-Provider detectors.

  25. Being on the dating scene for 25+ years and three LTR’s (6+ months) I can tell you a single mother is good for a three-hole-fuck-buddy at best. Alpha the Hell out of them, fuck them like a two-dollar-hooker, by no means shack-up with them and you’ll have 2 a.m. booty-call privileges until they realize that’s what they are to you and find a beta to play house with them. That epiphany will take about a year if you play them right.

    1. Even longer. All you have to do is hold frame and keep your line in check. If she even says something that’s not to your liking get out ! The next day she’ll call you for a sloppy one.

    2. Yeah, but you can’t take off the rubber and go raw with one. She already failed once.

      1. To say nothing of the danger of STDs/STIs and false charges of ANYTHING. These females are best handled like nitroglycerine — you DON’T handle them, you leave them alone.

  26. The first thought that comes to mind is irresponsibility, many single Mother’s have children before marriage, before they even know that the other person, so they obviously care very little about their children having stability, they just selfishly gave in to those motherly urges, no better than a child herself.

  27. One of my friends on Facebook is now with a girl who has 2 children.
    This girl grew up in the same small town as him, so they know each other for quite some time, but guess what he just became a doctor! I can’t believe how beta he’s acting, at least on all the FB pictures that I get to see.
    Sometimes I think ROK articles come out too strong, then I see it played in reality just as described here. It’s painfully accurate.

    1. Some DO come out too strong but I believe that’s simply because a gentle prod isn’t enough to wake some people out of their stupor; they need a hard slap to the face. Many are spot on without a hint of hyperbole while others are exaggerated (at least they’re exaggerated for the area of the world I live in), but they all preach deep truths our society has long forgotten.

    2. Of all the professional degrees, doctors are the most beta and huge targets for single moms, ex sluts, and aging women in general.

      1. most of those guys have little dating experience, as they were studying all the time and had nerdy habits. for the first time in their lives they have real status and have no idea how to handle it. Easy pluckings for a conniving female.

    1. I’m amazed at the amount of post-wall single moms who 1. have small breasts, 2. have saggy breasts, 3. aren’t better than a 4/10 on a good day, and yet think they somehow are still attractive or at least good enough to catch an attractive man above their SMV.
      Hamstering, and too much bullshit encouragement from their similar friends, I suppose.

      1. Yep. Self delusion is contagious and a lot easier than having to take a good look at your own inadequacies and doing something about them. Beautiful as you are and all that, or the male equivalent might be jacked as I am. I don’t need to go the gym, I

      2. Yep. Self delusion is contagious and a lot easier than having to take a good look at your own inadequacies and doing something about them. ‘Beautiful as you are’ and all that, or the male equivalent might be ‘Jacked as I am’. I don’t need to go the gym, I just believe I’m in good shape. Where are all the babes man?

        1. Hello, exactly!
          I work very hard at the gym, eat very healthy/have healthy habits, and dress well. And yet those women are somehow thinking I’m going to be up for them.
          Ironically the same time I got myself together, and realized what I could do, is the same time I lost interest in “older” (29+, etc) women.
          Things seem very upside-down when it comes to women here, in my opinion.

  29. Re: #2, I have been guilty in the past of listening to stories girls will tell about past relationships, and feeling sorry for them. The big eye opener was a hot 21 year old blonde Russian who just moved to America and I was introduced by a Russian buddy. I was about 10 years older than her, she was probably the hottest girl I’ve ever dated, and I let her get away with too much shit in our short relationship. But when I ask her about friends back home she would look at me with her sad eyes and say.. “No.. I had ex boyfriend in Russia but now he refuses to even speak with me! I send him messages and he just yells at me”.
    At the time I was thinking Wow, how could a guy be so cold to such a beautiful angel? haha, couple of months later I go out of town and come back to find shes been cheating on me, and I’m feeling the same hatred this guy was. Now, anytime a girl brings up a problem from a past relationship, I immediately consider it 100% her fault.

    1. Re: your last sentence. Women control the emotional tenor, as well as the outcomes, of probably 3/4 of all M/F relationships. So yeah, it’s mostly safe to assume that the problem is on her end.

    2. That Dowry better be on it’s way or I’m leveling a few border towns!

      1. I will not incur the wrath of the Polish Hussars for that would be an ill advised decision.

  31. Beta males no doubt see single mothers as a ticket to slavery. I think betas crave being owned by someone else. Without it they feel insignificant. Go fuck some19 year olds, trust me it’s better than some raggedy 30 year old pussy

    1. Betas are blinded by the power of the pussy. Simple as that. It’s like that Jedi mind trick only it’s the evil force that possess that power.

  32. nice piece man.
    I always say if she couldn’t keep a relationship in tact with a person that she literally created a life with, she’s not worth the trouble. she has some serious issues.
    single mothers are only good for sex and I have a rule that if they have two or more kids I won’t even smash. she’s too damn fertile and I’m not trying to be a casualty. got a friend who had a one night stand with a chick and got her pregnant. and naturally they hate each other. it’s fucked up but funny at the same time lol. real life sitcom shit

  33. Very good article. Every single point is true. Always. Avoid. Dating. Single. Mothers. Unless you feel fulfilment in being a beta caretaker (and suffering from a bad case of masochism).

  34. I must admit, back in my Blue-Pill days, I very briefly dated a divorcee with a kid…mostly to get through a dry spell.
    Never again.
    This girl, despite being fairly attractive 25-year old and reasonably good natured, gave off red flags that were so obvious even a thirsty dude like me could spot them:
    1. Being very cagey about why she got divorced…never mentioned infidelity…and my Red-Pill interpretation is that she just “lost the feelz”.
    2. Expressing “disapproval” over women I had dated, despite the facts that it wasn’t her damn business, and I WAS COOL WITH HER MARRYING A LOSER, POPPING OUT A KID, AND DUMPING HIM.
    3. Imposing a “10 date minimum” or “falling in love with me” before any kind of physical intimacy…and I’m just talking kissing or basic PDA!
    Two dates, and I was out.
    Never again.

    1. #3 is a ludicrous shit test. I would’ve had a ball choosing one of the at least forty different possible responses to that one.

        1. You still did good, regardless.
          I’d rather sit at home alone than follow around some used-up woman like a sad puppy dog.

      2. Yeah that would be fun, anyway.
        At that point there’s nothing left to lose, since I’d bail anyway, so the IDGAF mentality would definitely cause me to make her put out or I get out.

    2. Did you even do her the courtesy of blowing your muck over her face/tits? Any gentleman would of course….. oh I just read #3…..fuk dat……

    3. She has quite the audacity to have such a list of compications, especially #3.
      Seeing how sex is so little that most women like her have left to bag a man with…a woman with that kind of baggage expects to deny him that main thing?
      Wow.

  35. We have this idea of the single mother being the victim of a cad who disappeared into the night.
    The more common scenario is that the father is going to randomly come sniffing around whenever he hits a dry spell or feels like playing at being a father. But they’ll of course claim that the dad is gone forever because A) It gives them victim status and B) You’d probably never date them knowing this guy is going to be lurking around and gunning for you. One of my betamax friends got a once-in-a-lifetime career opportunity in another state and the Real Dad showed up out of nowhere causing trouble when he tried moving his pre-fab family out West.

  36. This is sound advice for a single, younger guy. But, your perspective changes as you get older. As an older guy who tends to see younger women (latinas from South America mostly), I see women over 30 with no kids as damaged goods. If they had no kids by 30 they are fucked up in one way or another. They are too career driven or they are barren. Either way, they are screwed up. Also, I enjoy being around kids. You can build relationships with young children that can be satisfying and rewarding for both parties.

  37. I know plenty of guys that will glady give it all up to be with a single mom. Which proves that single moms themselves raise boys with zero standards. I could never look a child from another man in the eyes like as my own.

  38. A couple of guys I work with have a thing for an average looking, multi-colored hair, tattooed pseudo-single mom with a batshit crazy fiancee and two kids. Single moms should be avoided like an STD.

  39. I’m 50 and I run into women in their late 30s.. early 40s.. all covered in bad tats, piercings etc etc.. most have kids from the dbags they screwed for over 2 decades and NOW they want to “settle down” or they want a “real man” … I just laugh and walk run in the other direction!! Some I even went to JH and HS with and they try to pass themselves off as innocent females when I know how much [email protected]#$ they’ve had in them!!

    1. Haw-haw-haw. What does a real man look like and what on earth would they do with a real man when they find him?

      1. A real man is basically the beta that saves the single mom from her hard life, and assumes the role of father for her bastard child.

        1. That’s a feminist’s definition. Why would we accept what a woman defines what a man is?
          A real man does not raise someone else’s kid.

        2. Well I was being satirical in my defintion. I agree with you, a real man would not date single mothers and take care of her kids

        3. Exactly. What a fuckin joke society. The media thinks they can sell anything. But people are starting to wake up.

        1. Ah right sorry, i’m English, we use primary and secondary instead of junior and high.

    3. SSS… Sloppy Seconds Syndrome. Good on you for avoiding.
      I hate hate hate that attitude. “Oh, I’ll fuck my way across the single life, and get tats and piercings, and then when I’ve hit The Wall, then I’ll cozy up to the nice boy that I’d never touch before”.

    4. I can’t even being to imagine what you run across.
      There seems to be a lot of that out there.
      The girls I went to high school with (well most) are lookin’ pretty rough, and have the same kind of kids you described.
      NO THANKS! UGH!

      1. Its even funnier when I know who they are but they don’t remember me.. I wasn’t very popular in junior high and high school.. and I’m ok with that.. It gives me an advantage..

    5. I love their lists of requirements for the man they “deserve” in their life to take care of them.

  40. Great article. There’s this hot and conservative ( married young and had a kid) single mom that’s interested in me. But my Spidey sense tells me to back off. Although I do enjoy a nicely figured ass, the benefits do not outweigh the cost. I must resist.

    1. Even if they are a decent woman, married later and the husband died in a car accident or something– raising someone else’s kid is stressful. It’s a lot to consider and a lot of responsibility. You will be taking on paying for things for somebody else’s kid. And most kid’s are really ungrateful as teens because they have no conception of what it takes to make a living and provide those things. Can be harder to take from a kid that isn’t ‘yours’. You’ll probably have to deal with the ex’s family since the kid is related to them. It complicates holidays and vacations. If Dad is still around vice dead, it complicates your life making sure he has access to the kids regularly, again splitting holidays etc. A lot of second marriages/relationships fail split over arguments/tensions about the kids from prior relationships. Not everyone can deal with it.
      I don’t think I could ever be a step-dad. Maybe some see that as a bad thing, but I have to be honest with myself.

      1. All valid points! I do not disagree with you one bit. I cannot see myself raising a child that belongs to someone else — not gonna happen. You get one shot at life and I plan on living it on my terms, the heck what people think.

        1. I’m actually a single Dad, ex moved a couple miles away and visits the kid in their home with me.
          Recently, my daughter told me several of the ex’s BFs dumped her over how frequently she’s over at my house. Even though I’m usually not there when she visits. They just think its too strange/weird that she has to go to their (the kids) house to see her kids. Spend holidays on the kids turf (which happens to be mine). My daughters have occasionally pushed me to date but I point out that it will make a strange situation even stranger with more folks to object to them seeing mom in their home.

      2. it’s never bad to be honest with yourself… It’s not even so much that kids are the problem as much as the single parents who want a constant pat on the back for doing what they are suppose to do…

        1. Took me a while to find the thread. Thanks for your comments. It’s kind of the same thing as folks continuing to get into bad relationships (both men and women). They don’t even know themselves well enough to learn from mistakes. (If you’ve been married 5 times, maybe it’s you?). Right after the separation/divorce I was a mess and a fit partner for nobody. If I’d gotten into one it undoubtedly would have been a big mistake, using another person as a bandage for a bruised ego vice being able to be there for them.
          Brother-in-law grew up in an abusive home, had nothing as a kid and ran away at 16. Put himself through college, started his own business. My sister had two kids from a prior marriage and this guy paid for trips, cruises etc. and was amazed at how ungrateful the kids were– he’d had so little why didn’t they appreciate it? Just didn’t understand typical teens, I was the same, everything you have is the norm and you have very little frame to know what it takes to provide and how good you have it.

        2. I totally get it. I married a single dad then we ended up getting divorced (he has five children by three women) and now is on his fourth marriage (met her while we were fixing divorcing).. Cute chick too but now she has a kid with him and it’s crazy to me why you’d want all that drama. It wasn’t his kids that were the issue it was the constant drama with his exs and all the families… I didn’t have children with him but I was single for a long time after that and swore that I’ve I had a child it would be for life with the guy and we would never break up or divorce… I have so many friends that are getting divorced that are mothers and fathers and want to be free again… Bitch you’ll never be free and it’s selfish to think someone owes you because you chose to have a baby… Having a baby isn’t an accomplishment… IDK all the single parents I meet or know (except one girl whos family is wealthy) are pretty broke and seem to hate their lives..
          It’s sad

        3. My ex wasn’t greedy, I’m actually doing pretty well financially so I can’t complain on that count. Kids lived with me full time, she visited them in their home with me, only moved/worked a couple miles away. Can’t regret the marriage since without it, my kids wouldn’t exist.
          So much drama with ex’s and kids. My daughter is going through it now- married a guy who has a girl. It takes a lot to cope with that, admire you for trying- so much baggage that you didn’t create but becomes your burden.
          The problem though– you can swear you’ll never divorce but if they decide to…. no stopping it. A risk you try to minimize, but you have to accept in marriage.

        4. I mean clearly it isn’t always the case. I grew up in a very poor community so it seems to be magnified…
          I didn’t leave because of the kids. I still talk to them from time to time.
          It just seems like there are so many horror stories… It really put me off men with children… I can’t deal with the exs… IDK there are always going to be people who do the right thing and are good people and people who aren’t.

        5. I’m glad you’re still able to see the kids. Tough on them having adults they like rotate through their lives. As others mention- getting cut off from kids you developed a relationship with and have no legal basis for ensuring you can continue is a big risk.
          As I initially stated, a lot of folks talk about step-kids and second marriages without recognizing all the baggage. It is hard. In your ex’s case- 6 kids by 4 different women mean 4 outside families with aunts, uncles, grandparents all juggling for time on holidays etc. What are the odds that everyone will be reasonable? Nil. In any group of people.

        6. Exactly… I was only 22 when I got married and divorced a year later he was 35. I admit I picked someone not ideal for me but the only ones suffering are those children. We dated two years before we got married but dating is very different than being married… And you’re correct… It was always a tug of war with everyone getting along and being civil. But you seem to know what you want and are doing well… So snaps to you 🙂

        7. You deal with what is, not how you wish things could be. And you hope you learn from your experiences. You’re smart enough to know that a relationship without external baggage is better for you and more likely to succeed long term. Best of luck to you in the future, although I always liked Patton’s comment:
          ” There is no such thing as luck, merely opportunity meeting preparedness.”
          Sounds like you’re better prepared now then you were at 22.

    2. Start gaming othet single women and bedding them. That will take your mind off of her.

    1. By catch, do they mean a better catch than this hot virginal cocktease in a skimpy schoolgirl outfit?

      1. That girl was every kind of hot in her day.

  42. She lives for her kid? But does the kid want to live for the aging hag? Christ, am I glad I got my own flat 3 years ago after meeting my father.

    1. The big lie is if kids were a priority for her– other than a widow- she wouldn’t be a single mom. She’d have picked a good man to have kids with and raise in an intact family– i.e. done what is actually the best for the kids.

  44. My dad recently suggested that I start talking to a family friend who split with her baby daddy. Told him I don’t date single mom’s and he copped an attitude with me, asking why. Being the beta bitch he is, I just told him wasn’t playing daddy for someone else’s kid.
    Back story: The baby daddy is is a convicted felon with no driver’s license. Last summer, he was arrested for solicitation of prostitution and possession of meth. The judge told him he could go to jail or rehab. He chose jail. Baby mama stayed with him. Earlier this year, he gets busted for burglary, and the cops ended up kicking down the front door with the 6 year old daughter in side because he wouldn’t surrender. Apparently, that was the final straw and baby mama left him.
    The irony of this story? My dad left my mom to raise me on her own when I was young.

  45. That’s my top personal deal-breaker right there. I can forgive a lot of shit, but single mothers are an absolute no-no.
    I saw a Craigslist ad recently of a single mother “with four kids and another one on the way” looking for a room to rent/roommates and that she could only pay so much a month while doing housework. Wow, sign me up!

        1. In that case, make them pick strawberries. I hear they’re in season now. Puts the brats to work, she can pay rent AND it’s a good solution to the illegal immigration dilemma. Three birds with a shotgun.

        2. No need; she can milk the WIC/SNAP cow dry, and probably qualify for Section 8 if she wanted.

    2. CL is full of that crap in the personals section. I’ve seen women post there looking for some guy to fix her car. There have to be a lot of stupid men out there.

      1. This was actually in the apartments/housing section. Naturally, she gave no reason why she was looking for a new place (could have possibly been homeless) or why she had four, soon to be five, kids.
        If she would post such nonsense in the personals section, I could only imagine the kind of poor, lonely sod who would suddenly want to take on all that extra baggage.

  46. Single moms are single for a reason. If the guy that knocked her up didn’t want her, why would you?

    1. “Single moms are single for a reason” — that would be a GREAT meme!

  47. In most Western nations (and even most impoverished ones) women are responsible for 90% of divorces.
    Most of this comes from their incessant childlike behavior, and their refusal to submit to their husband’s headship. The endless shit-testing and afffectation. Then ten years later, when they have squandered the divorce money and have lost their youthful glow, they want “back in” on your game. Sorry bitch, but no.
    Equality, my ass! You are dealing with an emotional adolescent in an adult’s body.

    1. When I was working at a medical instruments firm a while back my boss introduced me to his buddy. Guy was driving a tricked out Camaro, full roll cage, fiberglass front end, blown motor, shortened axle to fit wider tires under the stock fenders, wheelie bars (yes, they had wear marks)- just completely tricked out and my boss did everything himself. It used to be my boss’s. Story was this guy had wife he dearly loved, he did everything for her, made really great money and treated her well. She ran off with her fitness instructor, took a lot but didn’t clean him out. He was devastated, barely hanging in there, all his friends taking turns spending time with him because they were afraid he’d kill himself. My boss took him racing, first time he seemed alive– told my boss he’d love to have a car like that. Boss sold it to him on the spot with the condition they go racing regularly. Met good friends at the track, bought a Pantera and a Maserati Bi-turbo- met motorcycle guys, bought a couple Harleys. Pulled out of it and started dating, hanging with the cute secretaries at a lot of companies he provided engineering consultant services. Happy, happy man.
      Ex came back 5 years later saying she was willing to give him another chance. Friends were worried. His response- laughed, he wasn’t willing to give her one.

      1. I have seen a similar story many times.
        That’s the untold story of “you-go-girl” bullshit. After her friends give her a standing applause on social media for destroying the family, and after she has tried the market only to find that her stock has been devalued, she comes back with her tail between her legs.
        So pathetic how predictable it is. The media blows so much smoke up their asses, that their egos are more inflated than a Macy’s Day float. Then, the brutal reality hits – the harshest condemnation of their decreased physical beauty is coming from the beta males that they once scorned.

        1. Dumping the family and running off with the bad boy. I know a chick in her mid-40s who just did that a few months ago. Her teenage sons won’t talk to her and she thinks her new life will be just swell with her new bo. Her female friends (rightfully) thinks she’s nuts. Told them I give her 2 years until she mysteriously re-appears with bruises and a broken spirit. Stupidity on stilts.

      2. Nowadays, it seems that the only people who care about the welfare of men are other men.
        And SHE “was willing to give him another chance”??? WHAT chutzpah!

  48. Well, just let me say this about the article.
    Spot.
    On.
    I say this with love to all my single mom sisters: Almost all yall are a mess. Not a hot mess…just a mess.

  49. My friend’s bro was about to marry a single mom-he is 33, she is 23 w a 4 year old. First time he met her, she said “He’ll make a good father for my son”- never said he loved her. Luckily, SHE called off the wedding.

  50. From my experience, a few guys I knew who were dating single mothers – did so because they (milfs) were the lowest hanging fruit to pick.

  51. In all fairness, nowadays men are starting to act like big children as well. Anytime I ‘ve had to go online on a law enforcement site to see if I don’t owe anything, I wander off to the most wanted list and I see some knucklehead on the loose because he owes $10000+ on child support. If I was the president, by executive order, any man with 2+ baby mamas will be sterilized immediately.
    With that being said, I do find it laughable how smartass girls fall for these types. They would have figured these douches can’t pay for child support, yet they still get involved. Empowerment? That went down alongside their panties. With that being said, by executive order, any woman who gets pregnant by a douche with multiple baby mamas will have her tubes tied and exchanged for Saudi oil and IPhones. Meeting adjourned.

    1. male birth control and procreative rights… equal to that of female birth control and procreative rights… what a concept. Equality in procreative rights, choices, technology and options. EQUALITY manuel – you’ve heard of that right? but instead of focusing on EQUALITY OF PROCREATIVE RIGHTS, CHOICES, TECHNOLOGIES AND OPTIONS you instead remedy your hate with MALE STERILIZATION. F*ck you bitch.

      1. Well good sir, it’s either sterilization, you foot the bill for all those bastard children in the form of welfare, or better yet, keep your children on a short leash. Your choice. Also, seeing that your username is Aryanblindboy, and seeing how most of the guys in need of fixing are minorities, I would expect you to be more thrilled, unless your (I presume)trailer park is running amok with products of single mothers. And yes, they do exist. I go to Wal-Mart. Fucking Americans. Lol. And I did propose sterilization for women too.

        1. right – just like a bitch to avoid the issues and go for the personal attach… It’s all about you manuel.

        2. What issues? I am addressing parts of those issues. And you seem to be the one hurling the insults with your first response. If I didn’t know any better, you must be a feminist. Or you’re just a troll with too much time on his (or her) hands.

        3. Are you aware of Vasalgel or Gendarussa – no forced sterilization needed… but making men impotent by force is the only solution you can come up with… nothing shameful and hateful about that. I am pissed off about male shaming lately and I jump on it without looking – you say sterilization? – it’s either that or foot the bill… simple – right? It’s either this OR that. Nothing shaming, insulting or hateful about chopping men’s balls off… Nothing to see here folks… because you say so.
          Consider the following comment made on my comment somewhere in this thread where I predict a reduction by 50% of the bills you mention through equal male birth control technologies:
          “I think you underestimate your percentage reductions. I’m thinking more in the 90+% range.
          Vasalgel is coming. They’re ramping up for clinical trials now. When it does, men will finally have a reliable option to prevent pregnancy without condoms, and without female knowledge. This trend is coming.”

        4. You’re assuming I’m talking ALL men. No sir, only those slackers would get it. Of course I welcome an alternative to condoms.

        2. About half I’ve found elsewhere, and the other half I make, but I’m personally not interested in getting credit for that, my only interest is in helping other men not end up in the hell I’ve gone through

        3. Monkey isn’t to bad, I liked it. There isn’t much I haven’t had on my plate in my travels but grub worms and soggy french toast still rank highest because of the circumstances involved.

  53. Dating a single mom is a big no no. The entire point of a relationship is to grow with that person, and pass on your genes with the person that you have deemed worthy. Dating a single mom is against all of that, not only do the children not share your genes, but you have to spend your money on them. You don’t grow with the single mom, she has already (most of the time) fucked up her own life. You shouldn’t waste your time, energy, or money.

  54. i consider myself blessed by God. The girl who became my step-daughter over 40 years ago is still the best thing that ever happened to me.
    I supplied no-fee counseling to more than 1,600 men in the 80’s and 90’s. I never met another man who didn’t say his step-kids were the most horrible thing that happened to him.
    Those are pretty bad odds. Good luck if you accept a step-kid!

    1. Stepkids are as horrible as their mom/dad allows them to be. Be very afraid of moms/dads who say they always put their children first. This sounds noble, but these parents use their kids as passive-agressive smokescreens to battle with you in a war you’ll never win.

    2. From what I’ve seen the Step-Dad becomes a second class citizen. Because the woman cares about her kid more than him, and because the bitch gets all huffy when the man tries to tell her little precious that he did anything wrong, or God forbid actually try to discipline the little fuck. So the step-dad can’t really win and the kid usually ends up as a spoiled little brat.

    3. I’ve dated a few singlemoms and it’s always nice to make friends with the kids. I think a lot of guys feel they need to become a father/authority figure when really, just being a good friend will do.

  55. Imagine Equal procreative rights, bitch control technologies, choices and options for men… EQUALITY – remember that? Equal procreative rights, birth control technologies, choices and options for men – there – 50%+ of all ‘unwanted’, ‘accidental and oops pregnancies eliminated, ‘50% of all ‘single mothers’ removed from welfare, 50% of all child support cases gone, child abuse, law enforcement payrolls, social services recipients, prison populations… and so on, reduced by 50% immediately upon granting men EQUAL PROCREATIVE RIGHTS, TECHNOLOGIES, CHOICES AND OPTIONS… What? Law Enforcement payrolls reduced by 50%? Government Social Services Payrolls reduced by 50%? Over-popuation problem solved? Not enough soldiers and workers for cannon fodder and tax payer to keep the Powers That Be in control…? What?

    1. I think you underestimate your percentage reductions. I’m thinking more in the 90+% range.
      Vasalgel is coming. They’re ramping up for clinical trials now. When it does, men will finally have a reliable option to prevent pregnancy without condoms, and without female knowledge. This trend is coming.

        1. I suspect that Vasalgel won’t actually stop sexually transmitted diseases.

  56. The single mother who I’m most acquainted with has had 7 children with 5 different men (her first one when she 13), and epitomizes every single one of these negative traits listed in the article. Why any man would want to go near her is a mystery to me, yet she seems to attract plenty of guys, most of them being heavily tattooed, abusive thugs who have criminal records. She’s also among the most irresponsible mothers I’ve ever witnessed, and her poor children have a double burden of having a terrible mom and an absent or abusive father figure in the home. One of her children (her only child to have had a black father) she outright abandoned; a few months after giving birth she dropped the baby off with her ex’s extremely dysfunctional family, left town, and has had absolutely no contact with or interest in the child since. Single mothers are to be avoided like the plague by any sane, decent guy.

  57. Been saying that for years. . .They’re single for a god-damned reason. And bad news, as we know that they got pregnant to trap the first guy. Then in their mission to find a man to support the child, they engage in total whore-behavior. And I’ve never met a single mom who doesn’t have the latest i-Phone, most expensive sex toys, astronomical bar tabs, and all the while complaining how broke they are being a single mom. I’m also surprised at how many single white girls there are these days with black babies. When they nab you into a relationship, suddenly the child comes first, and only because that’s their meal ticket and explanation for everything to you. The baby is the excuse for every shit-test. Unless it’s a situation where a group of well-to-do professionals are involved, every guy I’ve met whose with a single mom is a dead-end loser. The professional guys are totally taken advantage of, beta-white knight types who have no backbone.

    1. white girls there are these days with black babies.
      White girl + Black baby = Mystery meat.

  58. #3
    Single mother or not, anybody stupid enough to combine finances or support a woman financially is a brain dead retard.
    I had a girl live with me for a short three months. I didn’t buy her shit. She didn’t work, I did. Most I did was share my food. By share, I mean I let her eat what I didn’t.
    A year later she told me she sucked random guy’s dicks for $10 a pop to buy tampons while she was living with me.
    For some inexplicable reason, I completely and totally lost interest after the first time I fucked her. She wasn’t bad looking either. God works in mysterious ways.

    1. “She sucked random guy’s dicks for $10 to buy tampons” – stories like this should be mandatory listening for any omega simp who thinks NAWALT.
      Think about this for just a moment, this bitch decided it was a better option to suck random cock to earn $10 than it was to work at McDonald’s for 1 hour and 20 minutes.
      Instead of a Scarlet A, she should wear a fucking hazmat symbol.

      1. Yeah, funny thing is, McDonalds is exactly one block away from me. She could have walked there.

        1. Let’s be honest, she probably did walk there because that’s where she was sucking strange dicks.

        1. To do something infinitely more risky, for a variety of reasons, than to dump fries in a bucket.
          And 2 minutes is a very generous assumption. Let’s say that’s total time for the act itself – I think that’s wildly optimistic – I have never been able to cum from a BJ in under 10. But fine, but you still need to solicit customers – not every random dude walking by is going to let some obviously crazy strange woman suck their dick for $10 – to me, that asking price screams “you will get herpes.” Then, after finding a customer she has to find a place to do it. There’s some scouting time to make sure the coast is clear and you won’t get caught. Then she has to clean up, and go back to her hunting grounds. Admittedly all this may not take 1 hour and 20 minutes, but again, there’s also the possibility that some dude can rob you of whatever dick sucking money you already made, or maybe knife you, or just beat you up, or you could get arrested and fined 20 times this much, or you can get STDs or some other nasty shit, etc….All of which tells me McDonald’s is the smarter option.

    2. The way I see it is, at least the girls on Instagram who sell themselves for money get to tour Dubai, at least after getting a good dose of Emirati hummus on their chest. But $10 for tampons? Apples and oranges indeed!

  59. Let’s just call single moms what they really are. Deadbeat moms that can’t even keep a man because lack of redeeming qualities other than “vagina”.

      1. That’s why they need to be called out, challenged and publicly made fun of. When one of these intellectually challenged women are asked what their qualifications are and they answer: “I’m a mother” or something along those lines, as it was something profound.
        They should be asked if they think people should recive recognition for their bodily functions rather than skills that distinguish them from others.

    2. Ultimately, no singlemom wants a partner. They have chosen their path in life and that path is to go it alone. That is the thing a lot of guys forget. If you are looking for a life partner, don’t date singlemoms, but if you just want some fun on a Saturday afternoon, then why not?

  60. Natural selection holds that the only goal of existence is to pass on your genes. We can squabble all day over deep philosophical questions such as “why are we here” and “what’s the meaning of life,” but the answer is apparent to anyone who ever pays the slightest amount of attention to nature. Species live to reproduce and die. Those that can’t, go extinct. Those that can, evolve, adapt and survive.
    Raising another man’s kid means you are voluntarily making the decision to help another man pass on his genes, even taking preference of helping him pass on his genes over passing on your own. Basically, if you’re thinking of dating or marrying a woman with young children and considering raising them, consider this first: why should the entire point of your existence to help someone else pass on his genes? Doing so would mean you are nothing but a servant to a superior male.
    There are so many men and women that were raised by a man other than their biological father, and they hold him in such high regard, they choose to view him as their “actual” father. Such a viewpoint is willful ignorance to the fact that your “dad” is nothing but a servant to a man who got his nut, walked the fuck out, and left your “dad” with the bill. Your “father” is nothing but a weakling who would prefer to help someone else fulfill his biological obligations. He spends his time and hard-earned money ensuring that the vessel for another man’s genes receive the best care they can possibly get.
    Natural selection does not favor such behavior: the men who help another man pass on his genes do not pass on their own as frequently, so the allele that codes for the desire to raise someone else’s child cannot be passed on to the next generation. Such ultimate betas are, thankfully, an evolutionary dead-end.
    I have little sympathy for such men who make the conscious decision to raise someone else’s kids, thinking of themselves as being some kind of role model or hero. Stop the sanctimonious bullshit and stop deluding yourself. You are a beta male. Your woman’s kids are not your own, and they do not carry your selfless tendencies. Instead, they carry the alpha male’s desire to impregnate one woman and then leave some poor sap such as yourself to do his job for him. Ironically, raising another man’s children is only reinforcing such behavior in the future. Such is the course of natural selection: strategies that result in genes being passed on continue into the future. Ones that don’t die out.
    You can get as mad as you’d like about my blunt statements, but facts are facts, science is science, and nature is nature. Natural selection doesn’t give a shit if you’re being selfless by raising another man’s children. The other man’s kids you are raising will probably only impregnate a woman, walk away, and leave some sucker like you to do all the hard work for no evolutionary benefit.

    1. I agree with plenty of the biological wisdom you’ve set out, but still retain a respect for the human capacity to be more than mere animals, to act charitably, etc. Even in nature, ‘adoption’ can occur.

    2. You are taking it way too seriously. Kids are not a big hassle, and sometimes they can be a lot of fun. Just know that with a singlemom, you are not there to make a family and a forever home for yourself. You are there just to have some sex with mommy and maybe play some Frisby and watch a movie with the kids once in a while.

  62. I used to think single mothers would be a solid investment for the fact that they don’t have time for bullshit since they have to put in double the work. Boy was I wrong. If anything; they thrive on bullshit more than a woman who doesn’t have kids. Moral of the story: steer clear. Don’t buy into that bullshit mantra of “boys make kids, men raise kids”. It’s just another ploy to bail women out of the consequences of their poor life choices

    1. Single mothers made poor life choices. Men who get cucked by them are choosing poorly too.

  64. I’ve dated my share of single mothers from the age of 29 to 43, thinking I could eventualy catch up, because I did not have children of my own. I guessed I could meet a good single mother and at least give her and her kids a better chance in life, even though they weren’t mine. I made a big mistake, every time.
    Rather than letting me pull them out of the puddle of mud where they were stuck, those women made everything to drag me in, and they all discarded me when they found out another guy they were more attracted to. Moreover, they did not give me any recognition for the help I brought them, only blames because I was “too intrusive” or because I was “trying to take control of their life” (read here that I was juste trying to bring some order in their fucking mess…)
    My advice to younger readers? Don’t be fucking Betas expecting to change a Single Mother. Avoid them at all cost. You are better spending the rest of your life alone than risking to ruin your reputation, your career, your finances and your health for a woman who do not deserve it.

    2. That’s pretty fucked up to have your good will thrown back in your face, so to speak. Says all a man needs to know, I think.

    3. If their kids were truly a priority to them, other than the widows, they wouldn’t be single mothers.

      1. Its not so cut & dry.
        Some will have got pregnant to their casual sex or fling guys – some hoping to force him to be a family with her and some because it was unintentional and they dont believe in abortion and the guy walked as he had no intention of being tied down yet.
        Some are now single because they busted their partner cheating on them and would not forgive him. Lots of women want to have baby with the more desirable men with lots of options, but often these men cant give up exploiting those options
        Some had good intentions but did not make the best choice in husbands (not deadbeats but just that they focused a bit more on style over substance) and when the baby was born they switch from fun loving wife into tired, responsible, less interested in sex/fun mom + the guys were a bit selfish & immature, somewhat reluctant fathers who didn’t want their life to change -> arguments > fights > big fights > split up. Both are partly responsible.

    1. If she had notches from different guys previous, then the guy driving the car isn’t likely the sire either.

    1. It’s too bad they don’t have a “LOL Wut?!” button on profiles like this.

    2. So true! even here in Australia, i’ve seen Tinder and POF flooded with single mothers. It spooks me out!


  67. You will come dead last with single mothers
    And they’ll tell you straight up front without even hiding it, right in their profiles on dating sites. Why any man would pursue any woman who out of the gate says “You’ll never be very important to me” is beyond me. Even considering thirst. Fuck sake, being with a prostitute would have more dignity.

    1. Look at their profile descriptions on dating sites. You can definitely get that from the context.
      “My kids are my world”, or “My kids come first” are great and very typical examples found frequently.
      Translation: they’re more important than you. You’ll always be number 2, and treated accordingly.

      1. Which is a lie. Unless they’re widowed. As we all acknowledge, women are the ones who have control over who they mate with and have kids with. If their kids were a priority, they would have picked a man they’d want to stick with and raise a family with. That’s what’s better for their kids, that’s what a mother does if their children are a priority.

        1. Interesting point. I hadn’t considered that angle. You’re right.
          I will say definitely though I always assume I’d be treated less attentively by a woman with kids than one without. Just stands to reason, especially in American culture.

    2. Such statements by single mothers surely has to give us men some idea of how low the perceived (by women) standards of men have fallen. I’m pretty certain that the moment these chicks get it into their pretty little heads that such statements are an immediate boner killer for men that they will dispense with such comments in their dating profiles.

    3. You’re right many are upfront on this, and that’s fine, at least they are not deceiving you. Its up to the guy how he wants to take that substandard relationship. This is part of the reason why many single moms clock up a lot of short term relationships. The guy’s are fine to enjoy her company for a while but don’t have any intention of being father to her kid/s nor to being 2nd/3rd/4th priority in her life from a long term perspective. Whether many single moms realize it or not proclaiming it is a big turn off for a lot of men, but maybe they are fine with that if it scares of the half hearted dudes.
      You can’t really criticize a mom for trying to do her best for her kids and putting them as her first priority, but its not a good deal for the new dude. He does not get to enjoy any of her footloose fancy free happy go lucky days, though he might get one where 50% of the time the kids are with the dad. If the woman has one child and wants another with the new guy, it helps to bond him to her as he now has a family with her and more commitment from her, and this often happens. Single dads also often end up with single moms and they have common ground. If the single dad has good SMV often he will land himself a younger childless woman to start a new family with. This increase the competition for single men looking for a wife.
      Also some guys who struggle for pussy wont be put off if the single mom is hotter/sweeter than any child free woman he has been with, but many single moms dont want to drop their standards for the guys that are prepared to have them move in with him, so they become a spinning plate with men with more options.

  68. I can remember seeing so many Hollywood sit coms and shows where pregnancy is the theme. A girl finds out she’s pregnant and naturally the question is ”who’s the father”. It gets instilled in western viewers that ALL women must screw many men. The girl on the show looks around and tries to remember who it might possibly be. You never hear screams of ”whore” on the shows, just western actors that sit like sheep going ”duuh, that’s just the way things are”, just like Hollywood wants to portray it. No rules, no patriarchy, just broke down shit for culture and no control over your women. And to think Hollywood fed this shit over the airwaves to every corner of traditional heartland USA even back when single mothers were shunned by the locals and there was still some order and patriarchal culture.
    IF ONLY a snatch could talk – – you know it would tell the truth . . *
    *(sorry I can’t post any pics of that, but use your imagination)

  70. There are no upsides to dating a single mother. Not a single one. The last single mother I dated upgraded me for someone else, breaking a great bond I had established with her children over 3 years. It was actually a bit difficult for me because I had built a great relationship with the kids, and all at once it was in her power to end it when she didn’t see a use for me being around.

    1. The hardest part of a break up with a Single Mother is not to lose her, but to lose touch with her children if you have a good relationship with them. Those kids all need a good male role model, but most of the Single Mothers are too stupid to understand that.

      1. I’ve heard men say they were sad to no longer be around the kids and to be there to lead them the right way.

  71. Great article. Need to spread this around the internet so we can get the hate flowing again from the self-righteous single moms of the world. (Who live in full denial of these valid points, of course).
    Tom Leykis warns men to stay away from single moms for pretty much all these reasons exactly.
    My ex-sister in law has now entered the “dating market” as a chubby redneck-ish woman with a 2 yr old. Abandoned her family & marital responsibilities, pursued a divorce (all while enabled by her family, especially the mother) as you might expect…although in an ideal world this would never happen. But we all know how American women are practically encouraged to “find themselves” and disregard family & marital responsibility.
    Sure enough, she’s found a beta boy and the new guy is posted on Facebook with no shame.
    I wouldn’t say so much if women weren’t able to find a simp so easily (it seems), although I realize in years to come many women find themselves alone and unwanted by desirable men. We’ll see.

    1. I had an argument with someone on facebook the other day about Trump. I looked through the dudes profile and came to realize I was debating with an idiot, white knight, sjw. Worse yet his “gf” was a 300lbs land whale. After that i just blocked him as I knew I was talking to an idiot.

      1. Not sure if it’s even possible for a guy like that to be more of a stereotype! Wow…LOL.
        I’d say you did the right thing blocking him or at least ending it.
        Arguing with white knights/manginas/simps is a true waste of time. They’re emotional little twerps, not men.
        A man who resigns himself to being with a woman (and I use the term loosely) like that reveals far more than they can comprehend. It speaks VOLUMES about their lack of qualities & their pile of internal insecurities.

  72. I had a family relative around my age who had a pattern of falling in with the company of single mothers. ‘Falling in’ best describes his state. He called them his ‘girlfriends’ and ‘fiances’ but they were all throw aways, worthless. His own mother was an indipendent professional working woman and the poor guy had a single mother complex I believe, since his own mother was one. He was a mamas boy who could only crawl like a baby back to some old used poon, whether it be his real mama or someone else’s mama.
    When a person has a pattern of only going for single mothers, this pattern can be broken with game 101. First you blot the single mothers out of your eyesight. They’re invisible. They don’t exist. Or better yet, they’re not even human. They’re road kill. Ignore the street trash. Instead be like a scout or a treasure hunter, avoiding the rocks and animal droppings. It’s the jewels you seek.
    The relative of mine was much worse than the average stretch mark shark. Of his single mom escapades, he never even landed a fine young single mom, but only very old ones, GRANDMAS . The ones he went for and had the nerve to chat up were at least in their 50’s and they had adult kids. He was a 20 something GRANDMA WRANGLER.
    One of his girlfriends he paraded around with was an old venom spouting feminist with a grown daughter. The daughter was closer to his own age but was a nightly carouseller. Still going with a young 25yo carouselling ho would have beat going with some carouseller’s 50yo mother. But he couldn’t do it.The guy needed help. He should have gone for the younger one who was fertile and still childless but he couldn’t muster the will to ”go young, go fresh” and he seemed to be under some sort of spell – – his own BITCH MOTHER’S controlling spell.
    The answer as to why he was only humbled to approach nasty old ladies lies with his own mother. His mother was herself a nasty old hag and I personally witnessed her shaming him at a family get together. A younger attractive female visitor needed help carrying things so the guy offered a hand. I noticed him introducing himself to the girl and I gave them both beers to get them rolling. Then the guy’s old mother came by smiling and then suddenly put on a stink eye when she saw her son chatting up a fine YOUNG woman. The guy went silent like he was on an invisible leash from his old bitch mother. It was an unspoken control she had on her son obviously that he wasn’t allowed to co mingle with fine young eye candy. That’s why when the guy was out on his own, he only had the nerve to approach old pieces of shit that resemble his mother and that have old wrinkled faces that look like a ball sack.
    That’s right a BALL SACK faced old hag. Think ‘queen mother’ and why Charles can’t do any better than Camilly. The old hag mother syndrome plays out whenever you have independent old single skanks. The old single witches try to police their sons’ relationships with the shaming, the blaming.
    With my relative, I told the guy ”you have to bust out” of your bitch mother’s sphere. You’re her beta no more. You have to quit being the ‘whip son’ of an old single skank. SPIT IT OUT and rebuke the foul taste of the old single skank mother’s twat. NEVER AGAIN massage the arthritic feet of any old piece of shit that will likely be outlived by a roofing shingle. Go for some eye candy right in front of your single bitch mother even if she gives you the stink eye.
    If you have an old bitch single mother who black widowed your dad, then storm outta there. No more bravery medals for single mothers and no more calling them ‘survivors’. They haven’t survived anything and they’re ‘chicken-shit’, not ‘brave’. Single mother skanks emasculate their sons and then take a crap on their sons’ dads. For the sake of thy fathers, call out your own mother if she’s a single skank. Slam down the patriarchy on her. Do it for DAD.

  73. I pulled a number from an app, she drops the kids in the middle of the texting conversation with a picture of her and her kid. Pathetic. I let her know that I completely disapproved of her utilizing a iphone app to meet horny men and send pictures of her children. She is harming her child by neglecting a family structure. The incident just further reinforced my disgust of female agency.

    1. Makes me sick when I’m clicking through dating profiles and some dumb bitch has put a picture of her kid up as her main profile picture. It’s like, what the fuck is wrong with you bitch?

  74. Being lifelong bachelor, I’ve dated many single mommies, and still do.
    I once dated one that was darling. A 5-foot, gorgeous assed, beautiful blonde haired 32 y/o… and then I saw her naked… Yikes!
    Mega stretch marks, scrotum belly and the whole works.
    F’ that shit.

    1. Not surprising. What did you do in that case, just had to suck it up and endure?

      1. Fuck it. Just turn off the lights and do your job. Is there really bad sex, or is it just that some sex is so good it makes the other sex seem bad?

        1. I’d say it’s both.
          I’ve been in the situation, including recently, where a woman is very unattractive to me and my desire for sex for her went away VERY quickly.
          The problem with good sex is that it’s great while you have it, but when you have mediocre or average sex, you think about what you could be having (above average) since your frame of reference has changed.
          To complicate matters, a woman with a loose or dry vagina is hard to have sex with, and it makes it really tough to enjoy. To the point where you don’t really care sometimes, or find yourself pursuing other women.

  76. I would say that there is at least one benefit of hooking up with a single mother. You know that the plumbing works right and if things do go well that she can provide you with a child. If staying with her and having a family is what you want. If it isnt, then you just created a whole new nightmare for yourself that will last the rest of your life.

    1. Except most of them are not willing to have more kids, and even if they are you will still be dealing with the other daddy for the rest of your life. Fuck that shit.

  77. In addition to this there’s been an alarming trend that a single mother can go after the grandparents if your parents provided support and you somehow lost your job and moved on but your parents still stayed in the little single mother darlings life. the single mother will go after your parents for child support and there’s been cases where grandparents are on the hook for child support. you want your elderly father to provide support for this when he’s struggling to wipe his ass at 75 for a kid that isn’t even his?

  78. I had a single mom try to contact me on a dating site I was on. I was new to town and didn’t know anyone so i thought about responding to her. However I never got around to it. A few months later I meet her in person cause she was working out at the same gym as me. Turned out she was a professional body builder / bikini model! Absolutely a fantastic body on her. She even stopped me to talk for a bit and we chatted a bit. Unfortunately nothing happened as she started dating someone else.

  79. Dated a single mom once. She had one purpose: to fulfill my sexual needs. Never met her child over 1 yr of dating (a blessing), though she tried to get us together for bonding of course (NOT). After a year she finally got the idea she was just booty call.

  80. To combat men opting out of marriage – much of the West is turning to de facto marriage. Date a woman or live with her for a few months and you’re on the hook for alimony, child support and asset division. This is true in many a Western nation now. Combine that with near automatic charges of domestic violence and/or sexual assault/rape if you break up with women and you’re a total moron to date single mothers and/or give any appearance of fatherly affection towards a single woman’s children.
    Never give a woman the ring of power or any significant level of legal or financial power over your life. If you do – one day you will likely face severe consequences for that most horrific of male life destroying lapses in judgement.
    Kudos to Return of Kings for waking men up to these man traps.

  81. My roommate reads this blog. And thinks its brilliant. Yet he is trying to date a 33 year old single mom stripper (I am guessing 40 yr old because strippers = liars) He is educated, makes money and look decent (tall gymrat). Yet he is seriously trying to date a sex worker. He even claims she says she is stripping so her daughter won’t have student loans. Pretty much the funniest lie I ever heard. Anyway, this blog proves you can lead a horse to water, but…………………

    1. Your roommate is an idiot and does deserve what he will get. It wont be pretty. For you – DO NOT TRY TO SAVE HIM – enjoy the view but dont catch the falling knife or you will be cut.

      1. Oh yeah sidenote. A 40yo stripper-mom and her 20yo daughter would be my dream setup for a threesome. If you could pull this off behind your stupid buddies back you would have earned my deepest respect.

        1. Actually, I had a 47 yo mom pressing her 13 yo daughter on me when I was 35 and it took all of my moral fibre to say no, but I did and regret it to this day lol.

        2. Did this guy just say he regrets not taking the chick up on her offer to fuck her 13 year old daughter?

    2. Like an Appalachian spitting contest, every man should experience dating a stripper once… and only once. Recommended running time: 9 1/2 weeks; if in 20s party phase: 9 1/2 days.

  82. Until this sick Tikkun Olam entity known as the United States is done away with there will be single mothers will continue to think their vagina is a great prize. Women will become cock riding whores as soon as they reach sexual maturity. The continued poor state of the institution of marriage and family will only decline even further. Women need male patriarchy. They are male possessions. They should not be able to vote, they should not have authority if any kind. They should not be fighter pilots, Army Rangers or corporate HR executives. Women are essentially children and need to be guided as such.

  83. The white knight is strong in your views David.
    Single mothers are good FB. For some of the very reasons you gave. They dont have a lot of time, so they dont steal you time. CU46 and thats it.
    They are often a bargain. You can get a 8 or 8.5 single mom for the effort you would otherwise only get a 6-7 girl. They are kinda desperate at times. The dark triad says to take advantage of weaknesses when they present themselves.
    You can manipulate them very well, using their child(ren) as tools to get what you want.
    You can dump them easily. Just be mean to the kid(s) and you wont hear from her again.
    The list goes on. For a dark triad person these single moms are a worthwhile playfield. If on the other hand you want to rescue them or think about serious girlfriend stuff, go look elsewhere. This is not for the weak at heart.

  84. A lot of singlemoms are very sexually aggressive and that’s why I like them. No need for “game” or “dating”. Every singlemom I have banged was the one doing all the chasing. I just had to say “okay”. Never lend them money though. They don’t understand that “lend” means she will have to give it back at some point.

  85. Single moms on average are nicer… because they have to be. Never seriously date them though, they are booty call or pump n dump only. Even if she’s a 10, too much baggage goes with them, chief among them the step dad catch 22. Invest yourself and try to be a real dad and you’ll be told by the brat “you’re not my dad” anyway. When the MILF leaves, so does the brat, and all your investment with them and now you’re out a family. Acknowledge this upfront and invest nothing and now you’re cruel, heartless and selfish. It is a no win situation, been there done this, don’t try this at home folks, you’ll be sorry. Best to only come around when the kid isn’t there so no one gets the wrong idea and you avoid awkward moments

  86. What about fat chicks? For years I assumed that just because a woman was fat, she was also a good cook. Boy what a mistake that was! Usually just means she eats a lot of McDonalds. Bleh!

    1. Umm, being fat is a disqualifying aspect of a female to me, I tried to bang a fat chick once, failed, she tried to blow me, I just went like fuck it, no.
      She even had a cute face, but my boner can’t handle a chick looking like a beached whale…
      That said if you can, all the power to you, Just don’t wife one up unless you are ok with every other dude looking at you with a “wtf dude?!” Expression lol.

  87. Great article! I made the mistake of dating a single mom, I actually felt sorry for her. Total 360 on that hoe-bag…. She steals my credit card, buys her baby daddy a ring on my dime and says, “I had to do it, my baby always comes first.” Soooo…. f’ing me over is ok, as long as it’s done in the “interest” of her kid? As a result, I will no longer date single moms, period. It’s pretty obvious they will use their kid as an excuse to do whatever they want.

  88. It doesn’t matter if she is a doctor or an attorney, if they have one or two kids, they still love to pull game using the old “chivalry” tact as a means of stretching their finances.
    And really most single mothers with decency love to let a man KNOW the kids come first.

  89. One thing about the East is that its the other way around. Men in their 40s can pickup young 20s women where its culture accepted. In western culutural you are ashamed. For a woman in her 40s, she is acceptable and encouraged to picked 20s men.
    Women in the 40s+ have little valve in the east cause men biological programmed to like a young woman. All the “tools” that like MILFs are just brainwashed by Feminist morals.
    At the same time im guilty of this (banging MILFs) in my beta years where a young woman is like a brand new car compare to an old bomb (MILF).
    I would only recommend a MILF if you have came out of a long term relationship and need to get back into the game! It helps to boost your confidence again with women.

    1. Yeah literally their only upside is being fast, easy lays, all other aspects are negative.

  90. My brother has dated TWO single mothers, one with multiple kids and both under 25. The first one cheated, the second was just a freaking psychopath who, for whatever stupid reason, confided in me that she blew his roommate (I told him immediately, he didn’t believe me. “Moms don’t do that kind of thing”)
    He is not the first man I’ve seen that believes a woman who has a child is somehow more morally sound than other women.
    I also notice more women calling themselves MILFs than men do. Pretty much every girl I went to high school with became a single mother at 18-20 and they pretty much all think they’re MILFs. I haven’t been on Facebook in years, so maybe that isn’t a thing anymore, but I really can’t imagine much has changed.

    1. Yep the dumbest of all the misconceptions is that being a single mom makes them better in any damn way. No, FFS they screwed up to get to be single moms, guys seem to buy into their lies about abusive exes or somehow them not being responsible for the situation they are in…
      This can’t be said enough.

  91. hooked up with a single mom once…only because she was half my age at 24 and was great in the sack. turned out to be the worst POS on the planet. had nothing to do with her kids (good for me, didn’t have to deal with them, but i have raised my own kids and felt bad for them) burned money like a locomotive burns diesel, wrecked one car and damaged my pickup too, slutted herself around while living with me, i ended up almost in prison for messing up a guy who was messing with her, knowing she was a slut. best thing she ever did for me was leave, going on to destroy a few more mens’ lives (including an idiot that married her, a guy i used to work with) was not a total loss though…my daughter hated her and slapped her in the side of the head once so hard she got a mild concussion. the cops came and found out who the POS was that called, gave my daughter an atta-girl, and walked out smiling after pretending to write a report (he was doodling) lol

  92. I am not mother but i came into our relationship with a child, my nephew. I also welcome his nephews and nieces with open arms. as Asatru, large germanic family is important over me or my needs.

  93. I agree! The only thought I have is that you have a whole lot of “fresh women” that think that it is a rule that they have to go out and get knocked up by the prettiest of men, before they find a man that they will settle down with. This kind of thinking is an outrage and a travesty to society itself. I would rather date my own female cousins, than to mess with women with that kind of feminist thinking.

  94. We can quickly sift through large populations of women and say PASS the same way women next men based on looks, income and heighth. All you have to do is see if you can find one who isnt shallow, believes in something higher than herself, and is dependable. Good luck. I have my jewel and can tell you she is a better human being than me in most regards. However, Id still love a woman that looked like a 5 if she had the same moral compass, work ethic and heart my wife does. And for the record assholes, she isnt American! For the discussion at hand, single moms are shit-the’ve already shown they have no issue fucking up one of the best things to endure in life; children with someone you love, family etc. Taking one serious is like flying with a drunkard pilot.

  95. I’ve dated a few single moms and noticed similarities. They’re the type of women who would never give a stable, educated, and goal driven man a chance before having kids. I guess stable men were too boring for them. So NOW they look for stability? When all they have to offer is the most boring and un-spontaneous part of their lives? So no spur of the moment trips to Vegas or the keys? Can’t meet me for dinner and a few drinks on Wednesday? No thanks. I’ve sworn off all single moms. They need to find single dads to date. That way they can have a shopping buddy for those trips to Costco.

    1. Hmm my experience says otherwise. I have been the bad guy the divorcee wife goes to after divorcing a stable provider husband out of boredom and lack of tingles…
      I guess it depends on how women see you, I have had many girls throw away LTRs for the tingles I give them… Not proud of it but don’t feel guilty either, I am not responsible for weak ass guys not being able to keep their women in check.

  96. Single moms who were never married are the most problematic group and are generally to be avoided. Divorced single moms (in their 30’s and 40’s) are more of a mixed bag. You need to obviously research what the cause of the divorce was and go very slowly and cautiously, but let’s not pretend that many men don’t behave badly and often provide women with just grounds for divorce. Each situation is different.

  97. The writer who rejects women who have been pregnant needs to qualify his remarks here. Women who are properly married have a moral privilege and right to conceive and deliver children. Are we suggesting men abandon wives after they fulfill their natural and moral function of having children?

  98. I don’t agree completely with this article. Most women with bad ex’s are divorced because of this sole fact. There’s no correlation of value there or quality. So obviously you would notice this trend because why would a girl divorce a rich and good husband?
    2nd when I was in med school I saw a lot of single moms who have kids with medical issues and are in the hospital like 8 month stints and go home divorced cause their husband was having affairs often to escape the loss of romance in marriage. This article is lamingly harsh and mostly just dishonest intellectually. I met a lot of hot single moms who don’t have stomach like that that’s like very post baby probably. I actually think marrying a single mom with a medically fragile child the most vulnerable is a good deed. Also where are you meeting these women clubs, pof? Look at the ones not focused on man or parties. The dutiful ones aren’t in these spots. This is too shallow to be a real patriarchal message. Good deeds are alpha too.
    3rd many American and western girls just don’t have dads they have a ton of daddy issues and usually become young mothers looking for a MAN . Lack of father because western media glorifies immorality it’s not always women. It’s baby boomers who practically started the divorce trend! Many of these young mothers were sexually abused as children and wanna feel protected as soon as they can get out of the single parent house. Kids aren’t cherished in our society. Even if the single mom keeps it very conservative at home the girls are often traumatized by the liberal agenda in contrast and ultimately feel more violated and harbor even more daddy issues because of this. She felt cherished by single mother gets sexually harassed out side and has no daddy to run too feel protected. Men are at play here too.

    1. No, no matter how you cut it, the girl is 100% at fault. Her status as a single mom is wholly her fault and a huge red flag indicator of all sorts of problems that no sane man wants any part of. Let’s dig into our two options:
      1) She was not married when she had the child. Do I really need to explain why this is a colossally stupid idea? Does anyone actually think it’s a EVER a GOOD idea for a young, unmarried couple to have a child? Usually what happens here is the single mom is either too stupid or irresponsible to use birth control, or she “fell in love” with some alpha bad boy & wanted to trap him with a baby. Bad decisions all the way around, any way you cut it.
      2) She divorced while the child was still a minor. “Oh, but her man was a worthless, abusive alcoholic; a lazy, unambitious loafer! He was a bad father…he was verbally, emotionally, physically abusive, etc., etc, etc…” Here again; it’s the girls’ fault; the guy had his own red flags that she either chose to ignore or was too stupid to pick up on. Of course I do not advocate someone stay in an abusive relationship, not even “for the kids” but people don’t drastically change & turn overnight, if ever; they have always been who they are, you either chose to ignore their warning signs or were too stupid to see them. Most likely, he was a dark triad guy that made her little slit tingle.
      Everybody living in 21st century America has all too-easy access to any form of birth control they want and they are certainly getting educated about it. So at some point, a single mom made a bad decision to have unprotected sex with someone she had no business doing that with.
      In any case, it is all her fault.

  99. Maybe im bias because i have such a good relationship with my step-dad (he didnt have any kids when he married my mom) I think that people with no children should try their very hardest to date other childless people. However life throws you curve balls. if i had to choose between a childless man who didnt have the same values as me and a man with a child but his values match with mine, id have to choose the guy with the values.

  100. 90% of woman having a child before marriage and before finishing college will spend their entire life in poverty, according to a study by economists (a much buried study).

  101. I once saw a 911-Nanny type show where a man lived for free with a single mom and her teenage daughters. It was a mess (why the 911 Nanny was called). I first thought the man was a real jerk, but now I realize he’s the smartest one on the show…. free rent, took no orders from anyone, refused to ‘bond’, and let his priorities be clear to all (good wine and good sex).

  104. I was unfortunate enough to have a run-in with a single mom.
    Executive summary: She is 100% BPD, bat-shit crazy, possibly even bi-polar. A malicious bitch.
    She was unmarried & about 19 when she had the baby, got married to the baby daddy for about a year or less, then HE divorced HER.
    While we were dating, she told me she was on birth control, yet at one point very soon after we started seeing each other, “oops! I’m pregnant! But don’t worry…I already took care of it…”
    Man, oh man, oh MAN, did that fuck with my head like nothing I’ve ever experienced!
    It’s about a 99% certainty that she lied to me about getting pregnant and the subsequent “abortion”, but still; it really, really, really fucked with my head and heart like nothing I’ve experienced in my life so far. And the alternative; if she did actually get pregnant, what kind of a MOTHER could get pregnant a second time and abort it, discard it like it was a used tampon? In either situation, she’s a fucked up monster.
    She is a pathological liar; she literally lied to me about everything from getting pregnant to where she’s having dinner; and she is 100% Borderline Personality Disordered.
    She lives almost totally on hand-outs from her family; the condo she lives in is owned by mommy & daddy, all the cars she’s driven were given to her by mommy & daddy (and she drives them into the ground; just abuses & destroys them & mommy buys her a new one!), she got her job only because of a family favor…etc. And indeed; most single moms are a financial train wreck, in addition to being disasters in every other aspect of their lives. In this case; once the handouts from mommy & daddy stop or child support ends, who do you think is going to get stuck paying the bills for another man’s child?

      1. To fuck him up. That’s what borderlines do. They’re fucked up, man. One of the worst types of people you’ll ever meet. If you ever run into one RUN.

        1. I married a narcissist borderline asshole who literally used me and abused me but was a victim… Thank god I left…
          I’ll never forget it. He got his other chick pregnant … For the second time the first time u didn’t know…
          Had a whole other family thing going on… then told me a real women would help him raise his kids… He has six kids by three women now… Nah dude… Duces

        2. Jesus. Thank goodness you made it out. Not everyone is so lucky. I’m so grateful everyday for the fact that my boyfriend and I survived our psychopathic BPD/NPD parents. No matter what we go through now at least we won’t ever have to go back to that.

    2. Lord have mercy you’re lucky you got out as well as you did. Those BPD bitches don’t play. M.I.L is a BPD single mom and she was a nightmare. Complete monster. We’re lucky we got out too. Bf and I are both wondering how bad it’s gonna get when her parents, sister and husband all die. Those are the only people she has to take care of her and I’m very certain she’s already blown through her entire retirement considering she’s a hoarder and addicted to shopping. My mom doesn’t even have a retirement so I know she’s either going to try and come back and beg me to help her or will try and live off of my poor brother.

  105. Living and working in (and blogging about) an area filled to the brim with thousands upon thousands of young single moms, I agree with this article 100%. I’m glad that more and more men are seeing these women for who and what they really are.

  106. It’s really amazing to me, being an almost 30 yo dude, how much single mothers there are in my country. They start as young as 23,24. Despicable. Some of ‘m are really cute. What a shame, I would date them for sure without children, but as A.V.Yader said it, you are not just raising somebody else’s child, you are raising somebody’s orgasm. That places it in a better context and puts emphasis on how crazy a man you should be to voluntarily start such a project, which these men call a relationship, but what for her is nothing more than a sucker who is going to pickup the bill for her project. The project were she was too sloppy to pick the right dude for.

  107. They learn to suck dick like a world champ once they’ve had their first litter. Don’t let them suck you in.

  108. Amen. I’m a woman and a nurse. NO woman gets pregnant today unless she wants to. Too many birth control options are out there and CHEAP.
    We evolved shaming due to natural selection. Women and societies evolved to pick men who would stick around and provide. Liberals and Welfare screwed this system.
    Why get married or even pick a good man, when a woman can get supported for free by the government?
    Welfare, Medicaid, and food stamps REWARD women who get pregnant out wedlock. WHY????!!!!
    New law. Have a child 11 months after going on Welfare? The government should not increase Welfare payments one penny. Nor should the child be “entitled” to Medicaid. Nor should the woman receive an increase in food stamps.
    With a gestation period of 9 months. There is zero way a woman could claim that she got impregnated prior to going on the government dole.
    Shame would then start to rightly grow in the community towards women who select to get pregnant outside of marriage.

  109. Ugh don’t lump me in with the baby mama drama single moms. Single mom yes, but I work a full time job in a respected neurologist’s office. Sure I have an associate’s, but I’ll move on further. Not a welfare queen, and I don’t leech off of the government. I honestly do not know where you guys live to be seeing all these manipulative, vindictive little skanks. But I apologize on behalf of their behavior. Just remember. Stupid breeds faster than intelligence.

  110. Gosh guys, I’m sorry for your luck! Sounds like you need better game, dont blame single mothers!
    I’m a single mother. I’m 5’8″, 135 lbs. Worked out throughout both of pregnancies that are by the way from he same asshole. I’m about to get my Bachelors in Criminal Justice, work for a law firm, and my ex left me at 26 for a Chinese bitch only for her money! He’s a really hard worker but a greedy narcissist. My son is a love bug who plays baseball, and my daughter is a tough little gymnast. Both are well mannered and excel in school. And I found a very decent man with no criminal record no kids never been married and he adores us…. You were saying?

    1. Uh…nobody’s blaming single moms, and we definitely don’t need better game; the point of the article is telling men why they should AVOID single moms altogether! Other articles on this site specifically state that you barely need ANY game at all to land a single mom because they’re often desperate for male attention because most high-value men won’t stick around past a one-night stand or a couple dates.
      Your post proves us right; your ex is, in your own words, “a greedy narcissist bad-boy asshole”; he’s always been that way, the signs were there, you chose to ignore it…because you make poor relationship choices.
      Since you clearly made such an awful choice in mate, father & husband the first time around, I’m sure your new guy is equally amazing….and will stick around just as long as the first guy…
      And your little meme-pic literally turned my stomach; what kind of a “real man” actively seeks out another man’s sloppy seconds; another man’s leftovers? A cuckold is who; NOT a real man.
      Your entire post + meme completely, 100% proves us all right; single moms are virtually always delusional, damaged women; as I read somewhere; a single mom is a used-up, round two, second-hand, hand-me-down bitch.
      I don’t mean any of this as a personal attack on you.

      1. “I’m not the greatest; I’m the double greatest. Not only do I knock ’em out, I pick the round.” – said the single mom quoting Muhammad Ali

    2. I feel sorry for the guy you found, for the simple reason that unless you have a child with him as well, he will never know what it’s like. Unless he’s much older than you, prepare for him leaving when his clock starts ticking hard in that case.
      I raised another guys child for a number years and while it was good at times, it was far from ideal.
      And no, it doesn’t take a strong man, it takes an inexperienced young man who will change his mind, or a much older one who doesn’t care for offspring of his own.
      At any rate one guy is getting a shitty deal because you were bad at choosing who to have children with, no bullshit can change this fact. And your kids are getting a shitty deal for the same reason.
      If you are as smart as you claim, you can go find out what the difference in outcome for children raised by their biological parents are VS those raised by one parent and an unrelated male cohabitant.

  111. lol, I’ve found the bitter and broken man forum!
    It’s like a mirror image of a 3rd wave feminist site lol
    And yeah, I’m a bloke, and yeah, I hooked up with a single mum, and yeah, we’re happy.
    Enjoy your lonely old age losers haha

    1. Hahaha, I prefer my wife who came without baggage. Prefer having my own kids over some other dudes, thank you very much, but if you enjoy being a cucktard, have at it sonny.
      Your welcome back to give an update in a few years when reality has caught up with your ass though.

      1. Um, you’ve already admitted you were, as you put it, a cuck to another blokes kid.
        Guessing she dumped you because you’re an immature faggot lol

        1. Hihi, weak sauce. If she’d have dumped me she’d have done me a favor.
          For some time I was with a single mom, sure. But I didn’t marry her or try to play daddy to her daughter, or spend money on the kid either.
          Then when I figured it’s enough with the fucking around, I ditched her and found a wife for myself without “bonuses” to have my own family with.
          If you like playing third wheel to your girl and her baby daddy as I said before, that’s your thing.
          But no man in their right mind would think that’s better than having your own family and a girl you don’t have to share.
          Let me guess, you’re in your twenties? If so you will catch up soon enough. If not, well, there are duds in the DNA lottery, you’ll be joining the 60% historically of men whose genes end with them.

    2. As a woman, nobody is under any obligation to deal with someone else’s children. I stayed single until I found my husband, we are a happy child free couple. We both had the severe misfortune of dating single parents before we met each other, and coming from someone with experience, run while you can.

      2. Yes! Finally another woman in the comments. It’s so hard to find another woman that agrees and is willing to expose the truth.

    3. Don’t brag like that. That’s closet stuff. Don’t you know more and more discerning men see you like you had no clothes. You got a used ho and you tout her like she’s fresh meat. She be USED merchandise. She been ROUND THE WORLD. Not just round the block. You’ll wake up and realize it’s like being with your mommy still. That’s how patriarchs see it. Or it’s like you’re riding around on a moped with an inlatable doll bungee tied to the rear rack. You try telling the guys at ROK that ”she’s muh girlfriend”. Fool she’s plastic. Having to hold and cherish someone else’s used goods woman is as faux as a plastic spoon. Who’s zoomin’ who? Come over the fence to ROK, better yet we’ll let you in the gate. See what we have to offer.
      Oh boy, your girl’s got some miles, wheeew! Half a mil!! That’s round the world alright.
      http://www.blogcdn.com/green.autoblog.com/media/2007/08/odometer450.jpg
      Well does ROK have a deal 4 U.
      http://2-images.ebizautos.com/sites/6383/images/home_image.jpg
      So park that used liability in the lot out back. She could take a crap on you going home. Half a mil. Sheesh. And pick a hottie. Go ahead any hottie you see. Cost?? Nada. She’s FREE if you got game. Stick around my friend.

  112. I agree with this.ive been dating single mothers and i have to walk on egg shells about their kids plus one named izabeth just told me she doesnt need a man she has her son and is happy damn u elizabeth landon

    1. Wtf “I don’t need a man I have a son”. That’s fucking disgusting. Your son isn’t a stand in spouse. Fucking gross.

  113. Essentially these can all be boiled down to “don’t date a single mother if you’re a superficial misogynist asshole”. Anyone who chooses a partner based on these reasons is not really much of a loss. Enjoy being single – no self-respecting woman will want you.

  114. I was recently reminded of how extremely vile single mothers can be. I encountered a woman that thought it would be a good idea to plow through an 8 lane intersection on a red light while texting. She totaled my van and almost killed me but because none of the witnesses bothered to stop she actually managed to lie her way out of it. I just carried liability so I got completely hosed by the insurance company as a result. 6 months later I ran into her at a store and preceded to explain to her how much she had fucked me over. Instead of apologizing for what she had done she called the cops and tried to have me arrested. THEY ARE THE ABSOLUTE SCUM OF THE EARTH. Even if you are smart enough to avoid a relationship with one of them they are so toxic that even a chance encounter with them can destroy your life.

    1. My mother loves to text and drive especially when my brother and I were in the car with her. She got into an accident once and when she texted me and told me what had happened I went and told my friend “I told her this would happen, I’m not surprised”. When she found that text while digging through my phone like the cretin she is she threw the biggest bitch fit. Single mothers are repugnant. Nothing but loose vultures. Thankfully my boyfriend and I don’t ever have to see our evil witch mothers again. We survived and now live on our own and have no contact with them. We’re gonna celebrate this Mother’s Day by going out to a nice dinner and maybe going out to a movie after. Mother’s Day is now Us Day.

      1. Ungrateful aren’t you. You wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for her lol!!! Y’all are all but jobs on this post I’ve been laughing my tail off!!!

  115. Men thinking of becoming step-dads should figure out in advance how to respond to the inevitable “You’re not my DAD!” declaration that will come sooner or later.

  116. I’m curious to know what you guys think of this situation:
    A husband and father of young children starts going down a bad path…leading to drugs, adultery, or something else serious. His wife married him when she was very young, and she is a traditional Christian woman. The husband eventually abandons his family.
    Is that woman now a vile single mother, unworthy of a husband who will truly care about her and her children?
    Is she an exception?
    This kind of situation does happen. I appreciate your thoughts.

    1. People don’t just fall into drugs, they must have been taking it early on. but I think can give her a pass since she is victim of tradition.

  117. This is a very bias article. What about the women who have abortions and get rid of their babies just to fit an image that society wants them
    To be? It’s hard being a single woman without a child and it’s hard being a single mother. In many cases it’s the man who gets the woman pregnant and then leaves. Thus, making a very hard situation for the woman. Please educate yourself with educated facts. Life is very hard, and it’s hard for anyone to make the best decisions. I would recommend the author going to circle of moms and websites where you can hear the stories about single motherhood. You have it wrong. Society always blames the woman for her situation while the man scoots away. Why not create an article that shows the truth about both sides instead of verbally attacking single mothers? People lack empathy and are too judgemental.

  118. Absolutely disgusting! I am a single parent and literally defy every single grotesque stereotype outlined in this article. It’s not only ignorant but downright immature to make such degrading generalizations. Not all single mothers come with the same story or scenario. Not only am I probably more educated and financially stable than most of you pricks who adopt this warped ideology, I absolutely detest the notion that every single mother is looking for a man to be her financial crutch. Frankly the idea is repulsive and downright offensive. And by the way, my body shows no signs of having bore children to the point where I am ALWAYS mistaken for a childess woman ten or so years younger than my actual age. Some of us mothers do actually take care of our bodies after childbirth! And the adage “black don’t crack” speaks of more truth than the petty, infitile arguments laid out in this complete trash of an article. By the way, both of my children are certified gifted, talented overachievers who dominate the top of their classes just as I always have. Stop being so damn ignorant, you sound like a complete idiot and a total jackass. Acquiring a man with this kind of mentality could only be a downgrade for any woman, childless or not! Anyone who endorses this nonsense is certainly not of my caliber!! This is literally garbage and the men who agree are just as much of garbage too.

    1. Typical female emotionalism barring any logical or rational thought processing. The article did declare there are exceptions then went on to make the original point brought up for perusal. Go read a BOOK that has the room to delve into the many aspects of a complex topic. Expecting a brief article to cover sall the aspects is what a typical ditzy deluded dame expects.

      1. Go to hell! Your ignorance is disgraceful and downright embarrassing. Oh yeah, and why don’t you kiss my a$$ on your way there. I don’t have the patience to entertain ignorance and stupidity. Do me a favor, don’t write back. No one gives a damn about your stupid ass opinion you moron.

        1. Emotional maturity is a wonderful thing to possess. Hopefully you will attain that state in the not-too-distant future.

    2. Generally when you have to tell people you’re the exception you’re not the exception.

  119. I had a whole post on here, originally lambasting this piece while subtly extolling my own virtues and elitist background.
    But after researching the author and reading some of his other works (especially on the critiques of liberals and unjust attacks on conservatism), I respectfully withdraw my response.
    Have I been a Woman with “Dark Triad” understanding all along? In some way, do I “GET” this author and the scientific breakdown of our perpetuation as a species?
    Perhaps, perhaps..
    For every article on this site, I’ve extracted the information on it with an open mind and cold indifference to the gender-orientated intent.
    After all, it goes both ways- some of which may just come more natural to one particular species/gender/class etc.
    To Conclude:
    There’s single moms like this out here. Let’s stop acting like Big Media and recognize that the author *did* acknowledge there are certain cases of mothers with children who would make better partners than childless women. Honestly men- how the hell you managed to find the defective single moms and why, only you know- maybe to get your d*** wet for an hour or two and that’s cool- but, unless you’re with a true winner of the hereditary pool, complete with a distinct familial lineage and cold, hard cash all of her own- you SHOULD avoid these heauxs like the plague. Or keep it pushin’ after one time, if they’re just too irresistible to your devious intentions : )
    Single moms/ Male Feminists/ single Ladies & Gentlemen: if you’re offended, reverse this article to describe single dads. Ask yourself how true it is and if you’ve seen the aforementioned descriptions of these fuckers. Even the author concedes that single dads hold less appeal than single moms- there’s good ones out there, fine. But unless he has the tenure of a Rothschild and proper home training for his kids- don’t even LOOK in the direction of my vagina, man.

  120. 100% agree. Also, women who have no children, who have their education, and who have their shit together, have to put up with the single mothers in a work environment. Since the beginning of adulthood, single mothers think they have the right to bully me. Why? Because I made smart life choices. I’m responsible with sex. I love my sleep, money, and sanity. I love to travel. The last thing I want to do is to get knocked up and end up miserable, broke, and abandoned like those damaged goods.

    1. Thank you, thank you, thank you! They are forever angry and bitter at other young intelligent women for making smarter choices. So obnoxious.

  121. Dated a single mom. She was hot but a nightmare. What a mess. Couldn’t hold a job. Loud and obnoxious. Nightmare! I told her on Valentine’s Day at a restaurant and everyone heard it, “You’re only good for sex.”

  122. Holy shit dodged a bullet. Met this chick about a year or so ago. Started chatting was good. I am no Alpha male by any means, but fuck I’m not that stupid and thirsty to get fucked in the ass by a situation that I see coming
    She has 3 kids, 2 dads. First kid she had when she was around 18, second at 28, and third one few months before I met her. One dad of the first 2 is still involved, the third told her to get an abortion, she didn’t want to so now 3 kids. Middle one is severely autistic. She collects disability because she has some chronic muscle pain once in a while and cant work. Anyways, I knew all this before messing around but read on.
    I have my own house, almost paid off, stable job. I have a few vehicles since they’re my hobbies and I value them a lot personally.
    At first her story was “Done with having kids, no serious relationships, just wants a good friend with benefits.”
    Hell yes, I never wanted kids, I don’t like kids much, I don’t want to be her kids father AT ALL, I told her this and made my stance from day 1. She acknowledged.
    Slowly as months went on, she begins to change her story. Now she is saying she has “old school values” and “she believes in sanctity of marriage”, suddenly she no longer wants just a friend with benefits etc, but last one that got me was “I really want another baby”. It stopped me in my tracks, I almost dove head first into it.
    So I go on a major defensive, I slowly start distancing myself. She never lived with me, I really didn’t spend money on her at all, friends with benefits isn’t me paying for her shit.
    Few weeks ago, I see something I want for my car, I decide to spend the money, about 1000$. She lost it, got mad that I didn’t spend money on her, but my stupid car, which I’ve had since highschool (its considered a classic), I am 34 now. I actually laughed and left. And am still laughing in relief, that I could have been trapped for fucking life.
    Lesson learned.
    TL;DR : Almost fell in a trap with a welfare case with 3 kids 2 fathers who just wanted a “friend with benefits”.

  123. You have been warned, gents. The dame you are attracted to with one or more spawn is NOT the expected exception.
    Omitted from the article is the ever-present danger of false-accusation. Anger HER spawn and the brat merely has to accuse you of inappropriate touching to seek a revenge that will destroy your life… even if you never did anything illegal or improper. Even if you can prove the brat lied (good luck with that) a mere accusation can be a life destroyer.

  125. Are you being serious. This is a load of bollocks. Our bodies are inferior? Im a size 8, D cup and I’m hot as hell. I look better than most women without kids. I have no future? I have a degree, I’m currently working on my masters. This was written by a very shallow man, who has had some very unfortunate experiences with some shitty women. This article is the same as me saying that all men are dicks. Ridiculous.

    2. U are used trash hoe. U aint shit and u should a kept yo legs shut slut! Fat bitch lmaoooo

  127. What is wrong with this generation of us young men? The entitlement to impose the interests of what you want from her as the criterion as opposed what we could do for them shows you can’t “handle” a single-mother. I’m young and single and meet these women all the time. I see some credible points in this excerpt, but the overall, it’s very demanding that single mothers be perfect while we indulge in romanticizing them almost as property. “1. Their bodies are inferior to women who are not mothers” is inclusive of this notion. Really? Sad and sick. I’m not perfect. We can be really detestable ourselves. It comes to fruition in this article. Don’t ever forget.
    Counter-perspective: 1. Your body sucks 2. “He’s” (daddy or ex) the reason 3. She’s supports herself and is self-motivated 4. Appreciative, Loyal, Independent 5. The irresponsible men that leave act off ” impulsive and poorly-reasoned behaviors.”

  128. This is a joke. I have a Master’s degree, government career and more money than any guy who tries to date me. Guess what else? I’m a single mom. Have a good day and please write something that makes sense next time. 😉 Sounds like some girl denied you something in your life.

  129. Load of crap at its finest haha. What should I do? I’m an educated single mom with more money than any bum that tries to date me…help me out lmao!! I think men like this are the reason some of us refuse to give anyone the time of day. Yuck.

  130. Bottom line, you’re all psychotic! Haha. I’ve been laughing myself to tears at this post and these comments. There are single mothers that have way more money, happiness and success than all of you I’m sure. Only true losers bother to bash other people or entire groups of people for that matter. I would never wish single-parenthood on my kid…but I’ll tell you this…I will stand in the way of her being around any backwards minded pigs like you and your commenters. Stay blessed!

  133. Some things are just ABSOLUTE! Here are three: 1) Never date or marry single mothers, even widows; it’s a non-negotiable! 2) Also, avoid any and all women who “just want to be friends.” It’s a lie and a trap of some sort, always a hidden agenda, short or long term, even future. Just NO! She’ll bleed you in one way or another, or maybe several – financially, emotionally, time, doing stuff for her…IT’S A TRAP. 3) Finally, ANY LIE about her past, no matter how seemingly innocuous, shoud sound like an air raid inside your head! Run — don’t walk — as far and fast as possible, and ghost the bitch forever! It’s a set up every time!

  134. Yup don’t date em and single moms, be smart, don’t date or wait til you’re kids are 18 and find a single dad who can’t cope anymore alone.

  135. I completely agree all single mother s are worthless pieces of shit as are the kids. They should be avoided at all costs. Better yet if men were to make them “disappear” that would be even better. I mean really who would miss the whores or the little brats anyway. And this includes widows as well. They’re just as bad as the rest of them. It would make way for the fabulous, younger, childless women out there. Just be sure not to get them pregnant and ruin them too lol

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