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How To Be More Dominant In The Bedroom

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Pleasure achieved through sexual domination and consensual pain goes a long way back in time. But it became even more acceptable for society following the recent popularity of Fifty Shades Of Grey. It is not a surprise that women love the storyline as the roles of dominance and submission follow the natural order.

Fresco found in an Etruscan tomb depicting two men flogging a woman while she performs fellatio.

In this age of low morals and endless supplies of sluts, knowledge of BDSM is a useful skill to reach a higher spot in the sexual hierarchy. In an environment that contributes to plummeting levels of testosterone and the war on masculine men, a new way to assert your dominance is always welcome.

If the tools that I will detail are already know to you and come as common sense, carry on with what you were doing.

Why BDSM?

Assuming the submissive role for a man believing in the principles of masculinity is shameful and absolutely unacceptable. This is a symptom of budding effeminacy, which puts one on the same level as the three main categories of passive individuals: women, gays and cucks.

By being in charge, you fuck on your own terms and rhythm. You can pace yourself, make it last or end it when you choose. If a girl proposes or imposes to be the dominant one, refuse. It is a shit test to gauge your worth as a man.

The more feminine the woman, the more she wants to be dominated. This goes against the SJW agenda but one can not go against biological realities. Using this type of techniques and frame immediately puts you in a different box, clearly separating you from the manlet that implores sexual favours with “Please!” or “Can I…?”, drying up every vagina in a five kilometre radius, instead of taking what is his.

But domination has to remain under control, it cannot derive into degeneracy. Take the best elements of it and leave the perverted, pointless stuff out. Totally dominating a woman (her mind more than her body) leaves a lasting impression and she will crave more. Women want to be dominated and lose control. The girl will remember you forever.

Elicit the idea

There is a certain way to initiate it. You should only brush the subject at first, asking her what are her views on the matter and keeping it a surprise until you have her in the bedroom.

It is necessary to establish ground rules : safe word, safety first, good knowledge of the material, being able to gauge the threshold between light pain and total discomfort that can ruin the experience… There must be a verbal confirmation of mutual consent to cover you legally, since unfuckable feminists decided to ruin the fun for everyone.

A good frame and dominant body language is capital. A nice custom suit can be a nice addition. The worst way would be to start with “Can we …” or “I’d like to do… if you agree, of course!”. It puts you in the supplicant beta position. You should introduce the session with “We will do X and Y. “Watermelon” is your safe word. If it gets too painful or intense, use it. Is it clear? Let’s go.”

This agreement protects you, in our era of fake rape accusations, and covers you as the sub gives you her verbal confirmation that she agrees to be objectified (still, standard precautions apply).

1. Hair pulling and similar techniques

This is one of the basics of domination as the gesture is a cornerstone of the symbolic physical power of man over woman. Since the dawn of times, men grabbed the most feminine attribute of the woman (long hair) and used their strength to restrain her and take her. Just like lions and other animals who sink their teeth in the neck of their female to hold her still during copulation. You should grab the hair as close to the skull as possible.

The bondage collar or choker (a glorified dog leash) is also a handy domination tool considering the constant female projection around it. If you do not possess one, you can always use a leather belt strapped around her neck, loose enough not to strangle her. The remaining length can be used to flog her. The only inconvenient is the sweat stains on the leather. Do not use your favourite one.

Both techniques are used to build momentum and thrust full force with your pelvis to provoke vibrations and stimulate the female genital organs in addition to penetration. But be careful when thrusting full force. The risk of penile fracture is very real.

2. Spanking and flogging

A majority of women enjoy being spanked during sex. The slap on the bottom is usually their favourite, with the face coming as a close second. The slap on the arse is the most depicted in modern media and the most “socially acceptable” and might be one of the least intense BDSM techniques described here. You can use it as a test to gauge the reaction of the girl, as it can be a gateway into dirtier stuff.

The interest of crops and whips do not come from the pain they deliver but from the arousal created by the whole symbolism behind those objects. Those were tools specifically designed to control domestic animals through punishment. It subconsciously brings your girl to the rank of a pet, ready to submit to your will.

The strikes need to be delivered gradually according to the pain threshold to avoid damaging the skin.

3. Blindfolds and gags

The blindfold is probably one of the first steps into bondage as it is painless and easy to find. Its interest resides in the sensory depravation it creates. The basic reaction is that the other senses are heightened, making the woman feel more intensely any sound or touch.

The ball gag, one of the greatest invention known to man, helps reduce the noise of even the chattiest of girls. It combines the pleasure of sex, some well deserved silence and the possibility of speaking without being interrupted. Some duct tape with her knickers inside the girl’s mouth works too.

4. Bondage

It is the ultimate female fantasy, as when girls are tied up and defenceless, they surrender themselves completely to men and lose any form of control. The ultimate form of arousal for them as it fits perfectly their biological mindset of being submissive.

A good pair of handcuffs is fairly cheap and guarantees you good control, but it allows some movement for the girl. I recommend the ones with padding to prevent bruises and nosy questions from her circle the following days.

Cheap material like electric cable or nylon ropes have the tendency to cut into the skin or damage it if too tight or pulled in the wrong direction. The best option is a cotton rope, which does not burn the skin. I have not used jute rope so far.

Cotton rope. 35 ft (10 meters) is a good length.

I used to improvise when tying up a girl but I recently learnt how to do this kind of shibari box-tie. The whole process takes a bit longer but it arouses the girl as you make her turn on herself and listen to your command. It is also aesthetically pleasing to look at when it is well done. The position is fairly comfortable while preventing the knots from being undone during the bang.

Always leave enough space to pass one finger (especially on nerves) between the rope and the skin and have scissors nearby in case of emergency.

The risk of Pandora’s box

The enjoyment of being dominated is a good indicator of femininity. Women that are repulsed by the idea of being exclusively submissive (not by the kinky image of BDSM) are usually the unattractive girls that have been brainwashed by SJW propaganda, such as likely STD-ridden caravel Laci Green.

A girl enjoying a bit of rough love does not necessarily mean that she is a slut. But the fact that she has done it for a while, with various partners or if she initiates it without you prompting does.

Girls keep their taste for BDSM low key as it is a red flag of slutiness. If it was mainstream and “normal”, every girl would publicly advertise her love for it (although some lost sluts regularly do it).

This kind of sex must be used sparingly and not become the norm. It should be reserved for casual sex. It may not be a sound idea for a couple to implement these routines into a LTR. It would become a rabbit hole that shows your girl’s deepest, unavowed fantasies you would wish you never heard about.

Nice, normal sex is always fine.

Voilà, amusez-vous bien

Those are the main elements you will need. Gimp suits, pussy pumps, foot fetishes, electric punishment and other similar practices should stay where they belong and that is in the cesspool of degenerate modern pornography.

Some girls with a more traditional mindset might still think, with reason, that it is too much of a sexual niche and the taste for certain elements of BDSM might be the indication of psychological problems, as their experience is most likely based on those fat freaks in leather boxers that front the deviant “prides” that plague the Western world.  Hence the importance of assessing correctly the kind of girl she is before using these tools.

For inspiration, I would direct you towards better books than Fifty Shades Of Grey (inaccurate and poorly written as it came from a low SMV woman) like the Story of O or the Marquis de Sade’s works.

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261 thoughts on “How To Be More Dominant In The Bedroom”

  1. The first time I fingered my girlfriend in the ass she got up in outrage and threatened to leave, saying “I’m not that type of girl!” Within 5 minutes she was back and begging for it again.
    All women are filthy sluts; they just insist on having political cover.

    1. My sister has those anal beads all over her room. And yes, she is a filthy slut because my father raised her to be an empowered special snowflake.

        1. You know…she doesn’t have a computer and there was a time when she did backups on my computer. Stored her nudes right on my desktop.
          That was disgusting, that I can tell you.
          I literally received more nudes from my sis than from all the other girls in my life.
          Smdh.

        7. I don’t care to defend my Southern heritage at this point: I did not want to see my then-overweight, bitchy, unwashed sister like that at any point in my life.

        9. On a brighter note, that was the day I learned about periods and the importance of personal grooming…
          …so glad I’m fasting right now…

        10. That’s disgusting. Here we are trying to have a decent conversation about sister-fucking and you have to get all vile and nasty.

        12. You don’t by any chance have some 11-fingered, banjo-playing kids wandering around the house, do you?

        13. Quite!
          What happened to decorum around here!
          Back to the topic, er, in hand please!

        15. I dunno about that, to be honest. Sure, she’s hot, but that’s a few degrees of oogie past anything I’ve ever considered doing.
          I draw the line between first- and second-cousins.

        19. Your a fuckin mormon arent cha inbred shit? Incest eh? Since the time of lot fuckin around his daughters?

        24. I was just kidding on the mormon quote though. Glad to be appreciated to be called an asshole.

        26. Luckily we could still crack some jokes on the manosphere without the fear of offending someone.

        27. I would admit, I was offended, but I am quick to forgive. Grudges are for women and betas who want to latch onto power through manipulation.

        31. Maybe you were missing the context. I was referring to his welcome.
          No, really.

      2. Just curious, you didn’t try to change or influence her to be normal in any way?

    2. It takes some quite awhile to get it out of her, but it is lurking in there nonetheless.

    3. personal question, did you let her know you were going to, or did you just go for it? I have “accidentally” touched the area a number of times, trying to get her more comfortable with the idea, slow process.

      1. Yeah it was a slower process. I think women develop a degree of resistance because of how they feel they will be perceived, but once you whittle them down it’s a cakewalk.

      2. Just wait fpr the right time when she just got out then shower.
        Then munch carpet, flip her over and toss salad. She will love it.

  2. I don’t know bout you, guys, but everytime I fucked a borderline girl she was a dominant sex machine. Total turnoff. Borderline girls are really the worst in every aspect. Crazy, dangerous and way too active in bed.
    Since I fucked three of them I always unobtrusively check the wrists of a girl at the beginning of a date to make sure she has no scars – huge BPD sign.
    Once a BPD girl ripped the condom from my dick, grabbed my cock and tried to force me to rawdog her…that was creepy as f*ck.
    Since that encounter I love to use handcuffs.

  3. They should rename the Comments section to “lolknee Story Time” for this article.

    1. nah, I don’t get into all the bondage stuff. I just tend to be a little on the rough and aggressive side. The whole idea of bringing props to bed bugs me. The woman is the props….her lingerie is enough. Ill choke a bitch if they are into it and I seem to attaract that type, but the rest of this shit is too much.
      As for spanking and slapping….yeah, ill knock a girl around but there is context

      1. I can see your new pick-up line now… you see a woman in a nice dress and heels, you walk up to her and slyly ask, “Can you take a punch?”

        1. I’ve been around long enough that I can just tell when I look at them.

  4. Been trying to ease into this with the wife. After 14 years, I had her blindfolded the first time a couple months ago. About three weeks ago, we did some role playing, She is finally letting go of her “good girl” label, and is exploring her kinky side. We are living in some exciting times.

    1. To quote the article: “This kind of sex must be used sparingly and not become the norm. It should be reserved for casual sex. It may not be a sound idea for a couple to implement these routines into a LTR. It would become a rabbit hole that shows your girl’s deepest, unavowed fantasies you would wish you never heard about.
      Nice, normal sex is always fine.”

  5. Boys, if you want some real insight into women read Swifts stories about Gulliver…particularly The Flight from Laputa. That will tell ya all ya need to know. Take it from the kneeman.

  6. I was with you 100% all the at until you said De Sade’s works…
    Admittedly they were better written, and interspersed with some…. er….. ‘interesting’ philosophical reflections, but some kind of practical guide? Gosh! I hope not!
    Judges only able to come as their sentenced criminals are smashed on the wheel…. Arses filled with, um, ‘seed’ and immediately permanently sewn up, little children violated and simultaneously murdered…. De Sade gets a little ‘out there’….
    No argument with Story of ‘O’… First time some silly woman read me an excerpt from 50 shades I said it couldn’t hold a candle to Story of ‘O’.
    In all else we agree… As Nietzsche insisted – in dealing with women make sure you bring your whip…

    1. Correct about sade. Want a practical guide…read The Story of the Eye by Georges Batailles. As for using Nietzsche…..my stance is firm and hard that he is to be reserved for the initiated.

        2. Heh… A new dark direction from Uncle Bob?
          I don’t know if it’s art, but I *like* it! 😀

        3. Crap, boys, it’s a play on words. “It’s not over till the fat lady sings.” I never flinch when it comes to a joke. If I did, I’d probably go full-on SJW.

        2. Ooh! I saw it differently!
          I thought maybe she saw herself in the mirror and actually got what she has become for once!

        5. I must have a wild imagination. I thought someone kicked the chair and then took the picture.

        6. Probably has dog hair on it, from her “petting session” of moments earlier…

        7. Ha! Her dog kicked it. There’s hair on the chair. From their “petting session”, moments earlier…

        8. my apologies, I didn’t get the full meaning of the picture. We are fighting to stop this self destruction.

        9. Understandable. It was kind of a triple entendre…which was why I explained it. I don’t explain myself to women or beta males. Just my alpha buds…

        11. …after her 112th useless protest, and after chugging that 565th extra-large Starbucks latte, and after blowing her Rottweiler for the thousandth time…she…she…snapped.

        12. Damn, that really gets to me. I mean, that really makes me feel bad.
          For the dog.

        13. Me, too. But then I realized all of her surviving girlfriends would fight over the dog…and I smiled and nodded my head. Males always win – in the end.

        14. The still-warm doggy-jizz slipping down her throat reminded her of the taste of the latte and the thousands of meaningless cocks that shot and left without so much as a moments attention from its owner to her rare political insights… she saw the sheer pointlessness of her pitiful existence… And knew what she must do!

        1. Possibly the finest post of the entire month, IMHO – that shit was flat-out hilariously, cleverly brilliant.

      5. pulling chair out is better than the fag bar where they push your stool in

        1. Or that other bar where they turned the stools upside down and increased the seating capacity 3X.

      6. Yes. Pull it out for the lady so you more easily tie her to it before fucking her all sorts of nasty.

      7. That’s a cool trick. Then you can laugh when she falls down not knowing that you pulled the chair away.

    4. I never got why a person would hang themselves like this. It would be several minutes of strangulation. Not enjoyable. Better to jump off a balcony with a noose so you drop 15 feet or so to break your neck. (Not more than 30 feet, your head would be pulled off, too messy for your friends & family)

      1. Perhaps masochism plays a role in it…most women are masochists. Some men are, too. Variety is the spice of life (and death, apparently).

      2. Now Jim if you’re committing suicide because of your friends or family, it might just be fitting to leave them a mess. 😉

        2. One of John Grisham’s books, “The Testament” I think, has someone stripping naked and jumping off a building so he could splat right in front of his family as they walked out the door.

      3. See, id never commit suicide, i think its dumb.
        But i like to think of exciting and memorable waysbof doing it.
        …
        Jump off the tallest building in your city with several gallons of paint

      1. read further down. Bob was eluding to the fact that this was a suicide. Feminists are doing this to themselves, it is up to us to fight against it. I thought the same until he explained it.

    6. This is not the type of meme that I can allow. We don’t support violence/death/suicide/etc. Go to 4chan to share it.

  8. While at reading suggestions, here are some Bataille quotes that may be useful:
    Pleasure only starts once the worm has got into the fruit, to become delightful happiness must be tainted with poison.
    Life has always taken place in a tumult without apparent cohesion, but it only finds its grandeur and its reality in ecstasy and in ecstatic love.
    and my favorite of course
    Beauty is desired in order that it may be befouled; not for its own sake, but for the joy brought by the certainty of profaning it.
    Learn the difference, boys, between sex and the erotic. Sex is boring. Sex is and has always and will always be boring. Sex is insert part a into slot b. It is the erotic we crave. Learning why is important. I miss teaching sometimes. I’d dox myself if I was too specific, but I did teach just this topic for a while.

    1. we always want what is forbidden. The left is ruining this by making everything “acceptable”. Problem is, that destroys the allure, leaving only the unfavorable consequences.

      1. Rats in a maze, my friend…until we realize we are rats in a maze. That’s the tough part – realizing it.

      2. This is true. As more and more is acceptable the line for mild depravity goes deeper. Jimbo, I could tell you front line stories that just hearing would get you excommunicated

        1. There is a time and a place for those stories. Cheating on your spouse, engaging in homosexual activity, apostasy (actively fighting against the church or church doctrine) and violent crime will get you excommunicated. (accompanied with church sponsored counseling if you want) Not much else.

        2. hyperbole my friend, mere hyperbole. Some of them may raise the morning star himself however. I have found some dooseys. As for cheating….I can say I have never once cheated on a woman. The one time I had a serious girlfriend I was quite faithful. As for apostasy, that is absolutely excommunicable as it should be. And the fags….well that’s just plain disgusting.

        3. I knew this guy who cheated on his wife and got excommunicated. About 6 months later, he came back to his wife and kids. The church help pay for marriage counseling and stuff. He would faithfully come to church, but he couldn’t take the sacrament or hold any calling. About 8 years later, he was interviewed by an apostle, and had his membership reinstated. Sometimes, it is a necessary step in repentance.

        5. IMHO, works and faith are part of the same coin. True, it is through faith in Christ that you are saved, but you build that faith through your works. Simply saying “I believe!” is not effective. Actions are louder than words. I will never be perfect, but I am putting forth the effort so I can build the faith necessary for salvation.

        6. I always thought of it as archectural blueprint versus construction.
          Both part of the same project in different aspects—not dissimilar to the one and many in the trinity — the same, yet different

        7. Yup, your faith manifests itself as you work. As you develop faith, it inspires you to work. One side is physical, the other is spiritual, but it is the same thing. Not unlike your spirit and body are both parts or your being.

      3. So true Jim. We want what is forbidden or what we shouldn’t have. It’s human nature. Prov. 9:17 “Stolen waters are sweet, and bread eaten in secret is pleasant.”

        1. Problem is now we have to go to the truly wicked in order to taste that forbidden fruit.

        2. I find it’s a whole lot easier to not do the deed than it is to not get caught these days. 😉

        3. true, but there needs to be a certain amount of tension and risk in your life. Otherwise, you become stale and predictable. You can push boundaries, so long as you don’t break moral law. Nothing wrong with pinning your wife against a tree when you are out for a hike with her.

        4. Very true. I find my boundary pushing outlet on my motorcycle quite often. Judas Priest put out a song about my riding style: Breaking The Law. 😈

    2. There is no need for doxing. We both know you are (((Paul Stanley))). I really like your music. But the fact that you are a jew from Manhattan is a bit disturbing.

    3. If i were a teacher every hot chick would automatically fail every test.
      And have to meet in my office to discuss.
      Was it illegal to bang students?

      1. I memorized the second in the faculty handbook dealing with this and to this day it is printed on my mind
        “While not expressly forbidden, romantic relationships between faculty and students are generally deemed unwise”
        This sentence was a very important one in the kneemans life.

        2. Indeeed.
          As it turned out they were right. Each and every one was absolutely unwise

        5. “Don’t be honey, aaaah…. gag me with a ball gag and spank me while you blindfold me you naughty boy.”

        6. While i am not a fag, i could imagine girls falling for your lap like that.

        7. “Be a good girl while i spank your ass for misbehavin in my class ”
          – @Lolknee with an “8”

  9. You guys are still young. I can’t even get off anymore unless they die while I’m fucking them.

  10. Knowing the background of Jean, I was expecting some kind of mix between BJJ and Kamasutra.

    1. If you are writing across her butt with lipstick, make sure you use good penmanship.

    2. Just came across this bit that I never heard before. Thought to share it with you. The guy was ahead of his time.

      1. Thank you. Dude was a genius and a consummate professional. Had the honor of seeing him do his thing life twice.
        RIP

  12. Punishment, deprivation, denial, submission, discipline, worship, and reward. Pain and pleasure should become indistinguishable and she should come to crave either and both.
    Stick to the imperative in your words and deeds and never allow her to break from your lead.

  13. The more I got pissed off with women the more I got aggressive and near violent in bed, the more they liked it. They call it passion. I call it weird but if it works fuck it .

  14. I miss the rough sex
    Leaves me a mess
    I miss the feeling of pains in my chest
    Miss the phone calls
    When it’s your fault
    I miss the late nights
    Don’t miss you at all
    I like the kick in the face
    And the things you do to me
    I love the way that it hurts
    I don’t miss you, I miss the misery

      1. she totally backs up this article. lzzy Hale writes all the lyrics..so the OP is not off base at all.. Look at the Swedish girls holding up signs welcoming their muslim rapists.. it is what they want it seems.

        2. The white knight has been sold a bill of goods..there is nothing a bitch loves more than blood spilled over her.

  15. Listen to the song metric – torture me . The women at work were yapping about it

  16. Never ask what she wants. She’s going to take it and she’s going to like it. They all do. You just do whatever makes you feel powerful and whatever makes her squirm and lament. If you break through her lust you will see a woman’s only capable love for a man: one who is truly dominating, unforgiving, unfeeling, and maniacal, and she desires this above all else for the rest of her tingles.

  17. My ex called me the jack hammer. Let’s just say I preferred giving to her doggy rather than missionary.

      1. Not into that. Just too weird for me and I am also cagey for legal reasons. The new woman seems to like my belt on her ass. We were out one evening and couldn’t wait. Found a somewhat ‘secluded’ rural neighborhood. Got done a poundin’ then cracked her ass a few times with the belt. Cracked her hard again when she got her jeans on, but the dogs started howling and barked. Then it was time to bug out fast.

      1. Not her dog…doggy STYLE. he liked to hump her and then drink out of the toilet.

        2. “i fucked her raw and then ran 100 yards to grab a dead duck and bring it back in my teeth — you know, doggy style

        4. I don’t know how much you have been around farm animals, but some are downright brutal. We had this poor duck that was constantly raped by the roosters. They will pull out the hens tail feathers, fight each other to the death. Boars will bite a sow’s ears and tails off.

        6. yeah, tying a woman up or a slap on the rear is quite benign compared to the animal world

        7. My exposure to farm animals is the horses that pull the carriages in central park and the Bronx zoo so I will have to take your word for it. That is some crazy shit.

        9. I kept telling it to not dress so slutty, but would it listen? Noooooo….

        10. I remember stumbling upon some wolverines a long time ago. It was early morning, the sun was just rising and the sky was colored crimson.

        11. I tell you, she should have known better than to waddle to the water trough at that time of day.

        12. god damn duck probably walking around with a mattress now.

        13. We have weasels around these parts, smaller, but probably more aggressive. Same family as badgers, wolverines, ferrets, and others.

        14. ….wait for it………………………..wait for it………………………
          ……………………………wait for it……………………

        20. I know that cocks go for soft pussys but cocks going for ducks? That must be urban slang for anal!

        24. Red Dawn.
          Don’t feel bad, I’m shooting for the “most obscure reference” award today. Now four posts, only one recognized, with obscure references that were common at one point in time. Feeling old? Oh hell yeah I am.

        25. I heard tell of a male rabbit that would ass ram a male cat, both of which belonged to my friend. Cat was so freaked out by the chance of the rabbit sneaking up and surprise butsexxing him he lost half his hair.

        27. The kneeman took a duck and a dog along with his wife and ran around the barn while fucking her numb……

  18. Real men don’t talk about their sexual conquests. No matter if a woman is sinner or a saint when you lay with her you become her equal. So no matter what you feel about them, it’s also a reflection of yourself.

    1. real men don’t use no true Scotsman arguments. As soon as I hear (or see in a comments section) someone making a sweeping generalization of what all real men do or what no real men do I immediately know that that person is full o banana oil.

      1. That’s true, and every true Scot would agree with you.

        1. To be fair to myself, I did consult every single Scotsman prior to posting this. They all said something incoherent which I took as an assent to correctness because none of them punched me in the face or head butted me.

        2. That’s generally a good sign, coming from my people. If you aren’t immediately avoiding fists, you’re probably on their good side…at least until they get so angry at themselves (due to lack of a present enemy) and start beating themselves up for fun, at which point you become an ally of their enemy.
          It’s a very…confusing….culture.

        3. confusing indeed. During my short stay in Glasgow I found that the quickest way to know if a drunk Scotsman likes you is if he doesn’t punch you in the face…..or if he does punch you in the face….both of which seem to be translatable to an insult and side of fraternal love.

        4. We use extreme physical violence to communicate in the same way that Hawaiians use the word Aloha.

        8. just re-read this and thought of the following song by one of my all time favorite guys Jim Kweskin

        9. True story, even better if he smashes his tankard into your’s and sprays beer on everyone nearby. It’s a common greeting for them.

        1. Quiche is eggs, bacon and onions in a pie crust. I’m not sure where it got a bad rap but more for me

  19. OT: some two weeks or so ago it was recommended by regular commenters to try both the a) Norelco Body Groomer and b) move from just toilet paper to baby wipes. I do not remember who these gentlemen were but if you guys are out there, both of you, excellent suggestions which are now part of day to day life in casa de la knee

    1. wet wipes are absolutely next level. And bitches love wet wipes, so there’s always that.

      1. I am learning this now. Just goes to show you are never too old to learn something new

  20. ” It would become a rabbit hole that shows your girl’s deepest, unavowed fantasies you would wish you never heard about.”
    Why would you wish you never heard about? So, she tells you she fantasizes about being double teamed while you watch. Doesn’t mean it has to happen. Establish a moral code you two are going to live by and stick to it. I fantasize about taking on two young blondes, doesn’t mean I am going to cheat. If she tells you she wants to role play as a whore, great! Sounds like a fun night.

    1. 100% that she has some kind of kink in her head….it is there. If she is sharing it with you that is better than her keeping it to herself for sure. If a woman has a fantasy she is afraid to talk about with you she will eventually talk about it with someone else…her sisters, her girlfriends, that nice latino boy who cleans the pool down at the rec center…someone

      1. That latino pool boy, is that Rico? Who wears a diamond?

      2. Or Montana. Either or. Hotbeds of violence.

        2. Oh Jim, no, never. Sheepherders never resort to violence. In fact, to get them to take up arms at all, you have to threaten to shoot their wives in the knees.

        3. Several years ago, I had a going away party, many of my friends from Western Oregon (hippy country) came over to where I grew up (cattle country) and we went sledding. While we were there, several people stopped by to say hi or ask if everything was fine. I thought it was nothing, but they were just dumbfounded that people that I don’t know would be so helpful and friendly. It was a culture shock to them.

    2. I’m going to guess that the words “allah akhbar” are going to come up in this discussion.

        1. 98%? Damn. Well, even if didn’t get it all right, at least we’ll always have Paris.

        2. It was shot in night vision so I couldn’t really see clearly! At least one of the officers was a blonde

      2. Not in the news, MSM translate the phrase to English. Like the Orlando shooter, yeah he said god is greater in the call he made to 911.

    3. I am going to say that the 2 police officers were gunned down with AR-15s, by Toxic Masculinity in Patriarchy, AR (15)

    4. Yawn. Wait a few hours and the islamic terrorist apologists will be posting to tell you how they had it coming.

  23. BDSM is a world unto itself of experiences and techniques. It’s smart to read up on things beforehand, as it’s not the kind of thing that does well with a trial-and-error approach. The good news is that there are tons of great resources, especially for guys in an urban setting; most major cities have active communities where you can participate and learn from others. You’ll also find these communities a lot more SJW-free than most, since SJWs are typically opposed to BDSM as something that oppresses women. But a word of advice when you first engage with the community: be humble, and listen. A novice trying to impress everyone else usually suffers some pretty serious reputation damage, and word gets around fast. You’re there to learn (at first), so approach it as a student/apprentice.

  24. I’m all for a man being the one calling the shots in the bedroom, but the whole BDSM is simply not healthy IMHO, at the same time it is weird however, how a female will not respect and fuck a man unless he treats her like shit.

    1. With anything, there is a difference between being a leader and being a dictator. Yeah, I don’t tie her up and beat the crap out of her, but I do take charge. A good slap on the butt or getting her a little out of her comfort zone does a lot to get her going. Take it slow, push the envelope, but don’t break the envelope. If you do, you will tick her off or worse, be the one having to put the brakes on.

  25. I love dominating and roughing up girls, but all this leather and plastic shit turns me off.
    When I dominate her, I dominate with my own strength.

    1. Dude. Solid post. I don’t mind real functional leather, like a belt I make or something. Kind of hot to take it off and swat her ass with it. But the prop shit, meh, no use for it.
      The feeling of power AND her look of utter surrender and happiness when I tower over her and pin her to a wall or the floor or a bed is priceless. Props just get in the way.

  26. Be the Boy Scout. Know your knots. If you end up strangling her because your square knot slips when you should have used a bowline, you will be the one in handcuffs.

  28. warning i tried this stuff now I can only get off in the back of a hearse (no necro)

  29. I don’t like pain at all, but I agree with a comment early in the article that it will dry all vagina’s around by saying please or begging (also thought of as nagging by me). Seduction is much more arousing than nagging is. Questions like “do you want to go to the bedroom” are okay as long as they are in the midst of kissing and cuddling. They are a total turn off if they are asked without any seduction.

    1. Because a woman who likes BDSM will usually be repressed in her femininity in other areas of her life and won’t be able to commit to male authority outside the bedroom.

  34. “Give her what she secretly wants”? Men should finally talk about what they themselves want and not just about what women (secretly) want.
    Liberal feminists and conservative feminists basically share the same worldview (“What matters most is what women want.”), they just can’t agree on what it is that women allegedly want.
    The “consensual” fake plastic “dominance” in BDSM is pathetic. Women want to reduce men to dogs that look dark and dangerous and threatening when they bark – and yet they are on the leash of the female who snaps with her once to turn him into a plastic “master” in the bedroom, then snaps with her fingers twice to turn him into feminist beta cuckboi again.
    Feminist media these days is FULL of that “I’m a feminist and I like BDSM and my Master is also a feminist” nonsense. Also, anyone who has some real experience with this whole “BDSM scene” knows that BDSM is part of the LGBTBBQ+ movement. It’s all just queer and degenerate.

  35. That’s a shitty boxtie because the arm ropes are exactly on the nerves which is somewhat between stupid, uncomfortable and dangerous. And two strands are too little anyway. Go with a side-cinching two-rope Takate Kote until you know what you do. You’ll need about 16m of rope for that.
    Also, do not use the pictured 6mm rope – except if you want the bondage itself to be painful.

  36. In my experience of talking to other women, it’s usually the self hating liberals and feminists who like the most extreme forms of bdsm believe it or not. They will sell it as being a fact that they are ’empowered women with an adventurous sex life doing it on their terms’ when it’s actually because they are repressing their desire to be with a masculine man and they are full shame and guilt. A woman who wants a man to act with a domineering presence in bed whilst enjoying ‘vanilla’ (just the PC word for normal, healthy sex) sex is normal. A woman who wants anal sex, who wants to be filled with butt plugs, who wants to ‘experiment’ with other women and be lashed with whips and tied up is usually sick because she chronically lacks male authority in other areas of her life. I guess there are men just enjoying the decline.

  37. To be honest I am no expert about bdsm. But with the internets info I have assumed bdsm is a in a wide range of diverseness. I have to say the regular public holds this group in the same category as other sexual perverts. Some people view them as Sade like criminals, homosexuals, people into pain or giving pain, or control freaks. The public rightfully so takes this view. You can read this ladies story http://thoughtcatalog.com/harold-holger/2015/03/a-woman-who-spent-16-months-as-a-full-time-bdsm-slave-reveals-how-it-all-happened/
    Of course you can have a debates such as if blind folds and fuzzy cuffs always mean if t people are a member of this community.

  38. “The risk of penile fracture is very real.”
    This worries me, anyone experienced it?
    Apparently `woman on top` carries the highest risk.
    (Another good reason to avoid fat chicks:)
    Never though it could happen when you control the motion.

    1. I have not broken the dick. However, I was a 300 lb fat man (6’4″) in college and the next decade who got very little action. I went on a diet and exercise change and got down to 220. I have since gotten back to 254, I guess I weigh right now, but I literally just ran a half marathon in training for a real one in two weeks, so I’m hoping to get back down.
      Anyway, I was rusty, and bagged this fat chick that I am sure weighed more than me. The second time around, she was on top, and we were on some yoga mats and shit (we were hanging out at my under-refurb house at the time, no furniture) and I thought I was gonna have pelvic fracture or break my back.
      Later sessions in her bed at her place were not bad, but that hard surface plus a big girl on top will own your tailbone.

  39. Electric punishment…
    I was looking for something out of the usual when the hot girl at our local sex shop recommended an electric cock ring. I was dubious, but thought I’d try it on myself in private before risking handing over the ON/OFF switch to my wife.
    First, damn thing was too small… I’m thicker than average… my dick was already turning purple when I got this little leather choke collar on.
    Flicked the switch… and damn near went through the ceiling with the pain. Motherf**k, did that hurt! Needless to say, it sits unused deep in our bag of toys.

  40. Free commenter tip:
    When you are ready to bust the nut as they say, move your lady to the straddle position.
    As you say the phrase, grab her by both wrists and push her over your right/left shoulder. Pin her wrists smartly below her small of the back and give it hell for leather.
    Submission achieved. flawless victory.
    Pull it off, you’ll thank me later. 😉

  41. Apply the tip mentioned below while in doggy and you should be getting coffee, scrambled eggs and bacon in the AM before you wake up. ;]
    cheers amigos.

  42. So serious question – fucking my wife right up the ass okay or no?
    Not fucking around here. I would never even thought of it a couple years ago until, you know – big fight, read stuff on internet, started lifting, making a few bucks plus look better than 99% of dudes my age = now will take it anywhere I please.
    I’m not joking want to know from married guys, seriously. I am in control when it comes to sex but wondering if at some point there is a line?
    On a side note, I remember a thread that lead to a discussion about music. At Easter my older brother introduced me to Metal Step and I think me likes. I’m about to be 40 but I don’t give a shit always loved EDM but this seems like a perfect combo for me personally.
    Give me some tracks!!!

    2. visit thefamilyalpha.com for some tips. Make her want it and take it slow. I am not so much into doing it for it’s own sake, but having a venue to push the boundaries and create tension in the bedroom. Keeps things interesting for the two of you. Plain Jane vanilla sex day after day leads to no sex.

  44. if ANY of this is true then why so much complaining/rape hoaxing as of late?

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