How Achieving A “Pop Star Look” Can Drastically Improve Your Success With Women

Over the years, ROK has presented manifold relevant articles on style and fashion, both linked to game and general respectability. Here I will add my own perspective and flavor to this dimension of self-improvement.

The argument builds on earlier articles on game, travel, and lifestyle optimization. Although one can regard this as a general self-improvement strategy, regardless of age and starting point, I think that this type of advice are for those who aim for to be in the top 20% of males and want to compete for the top 20% of women in the sexual marketplace, whether locally or globally.

Experience and underlying logic

Recently I went to Dubai with my girlfriend, dressed in white pants, white shoes and white jacket, but with black belt and black shirt in order to create a necessary contrast. Added to the mix I had my regular light-brown hair blended with dyed blonde and my body fat is currently about 13-14%. The response from virtually everyone was overwhelming, although I would add that part of the reason is because of my hot girlfriend. We looked like a really good couple.

For instance a Swedish girl who scanned our bags touched me in an semi-intimate way (sexual harassment someone!), I got looks from all sorts of males (like I was a respectable person, not in a homosexual way), and young Korean girls said 잘 생겼어요 at the airport (meaning handsome for a male).

Conversely, I got zero response when I wore dark green shorts and a regular blue t-shirt on the way back, and I only had to go to the toilet and be forced to take another line before guys at Schiphol (Amsterdam) started to approach and give compliments to my girl (who dressed casually).

It is not first time either that those extra efforts make the difference, and as long as a country or city is more or less Westernized – which includes for example the United States, South America, Europe, East Asia and Dubai – that kind of look works. It has a general, almost universal appeal.

The underlying reason is likely linked to biology, cultural programming, and more specifically cognitive sciences such as the prototype theory (often used in cognitive linguistics). Everyone has a concept of what a really attractive and successful person looks like. The more a person looks like the prototype of a generic celebrity, the better the response will be. Conversely, the more someone reminds other people of Average Joe the worse the response (although it would, of course, be even worse to look ugly).

Needless to say, a person’s preferences and specific cultural programming differs, but it is generally the same kind of pop stars, actors, models and sportsmen that show up in the media. Thus if someone says that you look like for instance Ryan Gosling, Christiano Ronaldo or Jusin Bieber, it is a good thing. The immediate positive association is linked to features such as low body fat, conspicuous and cool yet classy clothes, and matching hairstyle and hair color.

Below I have presented three concrete ways to maximize a male person’s style potential on the dating market and to be the best version of yourself in that regard. I have also added concrete examples on how to look so that the idea becomes clearer.

1. Shred down to about 10% of body fat

Notice that I wrote that I had 13-14% body fat above, which is good, but not exactly a maximal and optimal level where that chiseled, grim and masculine face emerges. One has to go slightly lower in order to get there. However, 13-14% is obviously better than the male average.

The question is if even lower than 10% is even better. Although it can depend from one individual to another – for instance with regard to where your remaining body fat is mostly concentrated, such as the face, ass or belly – there is much evidence to suggest that this is an optimal level for several common sense reasons.

Firstly, bear in mind the laws of diminishing returns and return on investment (ROI). It is hard enough to get down to 10% and to go even further will drain your energy levels, which will negatively effect your testosterone levels, strength and to some extent social savviness. Fitness then becomes a lifestyle that is simply too prioritized, at the expense of other facets of life. The opposite sex will generally not think that you look better with 8% body fat than 10% and might even start to think that it looks unhealthy.

Additionally, if you are not using anabolic steroids you can lose significant muscle volume, and the loss of too much fluid, which is part of a more extensive diet process, can even make you about half of an inch shorter. With that said 10% is better than 12% because it is likely that you will look better with the first- than the last-mentioned body fat level. Once again the fitness model Marc Fitt is an excellent example of how a 10% natural bodybuilder, that would look good in a suit, realistically can look like.

And forget about being “too big” these days. Virtually everyone is used to see global fitness stars such as Jeff Seid, Simeon Panda, and Jeremy Buendia online. Even in places like Japan and South Korea, where the thin and androgyne look has dominated, fitness is growing at a rapid speed due to Asians’ constant willingness to copy the West, although with some delay. Plus there is nearly impossible to become too big if you are a natural bodybuilder and reach the 10% mark.

Even if you do not dedicate yourself to the gym it is wise to build some muscles and/or to cut as much body fat as possible. You do not even have to use specific measurement tools. Just look at the picture below and make sure to get there by the means of combined resistance training and a high-protein diet.

2. Dye your hair blonde

Over the last four decades or so, a significant number of male celebrities have dyed their hair blonde. In current times one can think of Eminem, Justin Bieber, PewDiePie, and various K-pop stars. It generally looks better on whites and Asians, since white people already might have dark blonde or light-brown hair naturally, while Asians for some reason can look really cool as well, even though they have black hair biologically.

A blonde hair can add that extra dimension of conspicuousness and celebrity look that one needs in order to stand out from the rest of the crowd and contrast almost all colors that you are wearing besides yellow. Personally, I have done it occasionally since the mid-1990s.

Make sure to use the strongest types of blonding cream and use a silver shampoo several weeks afterwards. You do not want the silly yellow and even orange tones but the whiter and silverish look. As long as you follow those two simple advices you can do it on your own.

3. Dress like a pop star

Before I go on, I will make some clarifications and answer a few typical questions that tend to arise. First, there is no reason to not look like you are a bit more than your middle-income job and modest social status. Remember, this is for the top 20%, not the 2%, and the opinions of those much below 20%, who might say that you look gay and cater to women’s needs – the lesser betas, omegas and MGTOWs – you do not care about anyway.

How about not being yourself and copying other, more successful people? Only about 50% of your personality is inherited and to reiterate myself, there is no need to put imaginary limits on yourself. You will still not be Christiano Ronaldo even though you may look almost as well. That is not the point either, but to be the best version of yourself. Why would you not want as much positive feedback as possible? Well actually from other males too, in a platonic fashion.

Next, how does a pop star look? Obviously that depends but I do have a high-class yet conspicuous look in mind, which is mostly fitting in clubs and restaurants, and at upscale dinners and parties. One can find concrete examples here and there but I think that the K-pop celebs often dress the best, or at least have that little extra edge, as long as they keep their masculine elements.

Just avoid the borderline homosexual paraphernalia, such as pink, gloves, make-up, and really weird outfits that will only work in a music video or live setting. Likely, you will also add your own masculine aura with some beard, age, broad shoulders and the already mentioned chiseled face, creating a perfect balance that will make multiple pussies wet worldwide. It depends on your taste and you as an individual, but do not be afraid of looking gay or androgyne. It is super-easy to avoid if you just have common sense and a sense of style.

There is obviously an economic dimension in all of this, which is not the case with the above-mentioned things. Two ways to optimize costs and benefits are to focus on the jacket and shoes and buy the rest from cheap clothes stores such as H&M. No one will notice your pants or t-shirt as long as they look okay when the shoes, hair and jacket are the focal points.

Keep looking for cool and somewhat original jackets online or offline and preferably with heavy discounts. You can sometimes get a lot with only 200 dollars per each pair or item. If you have more money to spend, a more expensive brand such as Dior can be worth the cost every now and then, although I myself am hesitant to spend as much as 3000 dollars on a jacket.

In summary

These comparatively small efforts and improvements can make a big difference in a competitive society. Although one can adjust a bit depending on taste and individual differences, I can assure you that these tips can improve your real and perceived value a lot. It will be easier to get 6s and 7s, and those 8s and 9s that you think that you almost do not deserve, are suddenly within your reach.

Read More: A Beginner’s Guide To Dressing Well

396 thoughts on “How Achieving A “Pop Star Look” Can Drastically Improve Your Success With Women”

  1. Looking like you belong in the top 10% of attractive, wealthy high status males will trump all your conversational skills, negging, just being confident pickup artist bullshit every day of the week.

    1. That’s not correct most of the time. If you’re super hot and act like an utter idiot, you’re out, no matter how good you look.

      1. Facts. As a guy who is attractive, I have lost more women due to bad attitudes or simply not amplifying correctly on my part, than any looks issues on my end. If anything, my looks kept some women more hopeful that things would turn around.

        1. You have lost more women than men less attractive than you ever had the chance to lose.

      2. I had a friend in my younger years whom women found very attractive. He once farted into his hand and pressed it into the face of his girl of the week whilst we were all sitting around a table enjoying conversation. This was the extent of his ‘game’ with the opposite sex and he never went home lonely.

        1. That was “Zero Fucks Given” and it is in fact a game principle.
          I have a buddy, not really a friend per se, but a decent enough dude. He’s got that wiry thin boy band look going on and ostensibly is considered good looking by women. But by damn cracky, he strikes out so often that you’d think that he majored in repelling women. I’ve tried to help him out, but he plays the ultimate I’m A Nice Guy “game” which, as we all know, dries up pussies at light speed. Looks do not help him in the least, and he’s so convinced that all he needs are looks and “being nice” that he refuses to hear any other advice to the contrary.
          Men base first and foremost on looks, not women.

        2. A woman does not appreciate a zero fucks given attitude from an ugly dude but sure it can work if you are deemed attractive enough

        3. You are missing my point. If he’d sat there and did bashful, unconfident, meek nice guy stuff, he wouldn’t get any pussy at all. Women judge other attributes higher than looks. Looks are included, but they’re down on the list a bit compared to where it sits with men (where it is usually top slot).

        4. I take it you didn’t watch the video. The attractive profile guy demonstrates several deliberate Unconfident approaches and still has the women eating out of his hand.
          He even opens with the depression pills he is taking and how much of a loser he is and they lap it up.

        5. I’m telling you for a fact, that the video is wrong and/or staged. Fact.
          If all it took was looks and money (I know you didn’t say that, but the video did) then we wouldn’t know the name Elliot Rogers.
          You need personality and confidence to get a crack at any top shelf pussy. There is no getting around it, outside of actually hiring a prostitute (of course).
          Thinking otherwise is usually a recipe for self delusion and an excuse generator for not improving oneself.

        6. Receiving a truckload of indicators of interest from women wherever you go it would almost be impossible to not be brimming with confidence in regards to women.
          Can something like this even be defined as fact. We’re just giving our own perceptions here. Well the scientific study the man presented on the video showed that women will often say they put looks lower down the list but their behaviour results are just like men placing looks much higher.

        7. Looks get you IOI’s but your personality makes the final sale. There’s no way around that. I am of course making exceptions for when it’s 2 am in the bar and the girls are so drunk that they’re willing to fuck even inanimate objects and then turn and see some dorky, unconfident yet handsome man. In that context, sure. In normal life though, if your personality is missing, you’re outta luck. See it *all the time*.

        8. GOJ you present yourself on here as a hulking male Adonis that hangs with one percenters that’s almost swatting women away. Assuming that’s true do you think you could get away with the things you do at bars and social settings with women if you were a five foot eight, balding, ectomorph?

        9. I don’t just portray, that’s actually me and a number of guys here, and the list is growing, have seen me in real life.
          Do I think I could do that? Dunno. Depends on the context, my personality at the time and how many fucks I’d give (zero).
          You’re moving the goalposts anyway. The point is that looks are not the prime requisite, it’s not that they don’t count at all. Men value looks first, women do not.

        10. My point was you are coming from the position of a self claimed very attractive man and as according to you very successful with women.
          Now if you believe Women don’t value looks that highly or as much as men, then it is fair game to ask if you think you would be just as or slightly less successful as a less attractive individual such as I posed.

        11. I see men not anywhere in my range who do quite well with women. I also see very attractive dweebs with the personality of a cardboard box strike out consistently. Looks are not #1 for women across the board like it is with men. Just plain and simple fact. Confidence can fill up the gap between a “hot” guy and a normal guy and even surpass it.
          Again, looks and money, if true, would have us ignorant of the name Elliot Rogers.

        12. Exactly, confidence and strength of personality wins everytime. Money and looks can get you into the door but to get consistent VIP access, confidence is key

        13. Confidence and strength comes easily with a woman that you know has a strong physical attraction to you.
          A highly attractive woman can quickly dismantle and see through a man trying to game confidence with her if his looks/money/status isn’t up to par.
          I think some men need to be realistic here and not set themselves up for a time and financially consuming, delusional pursuit of golden vagina that will never be. I believe a lot of PUA’s take advantage of men selling them false hope that simple attitude changes and line delivering will make top shelf women swoon like they are George Clooney.

        14. I have no idea how this is even controversial.

        15. Confidence and strength come from many sources, not just “physical attraction to you”. Spergs that are hot aren’t getting any pungtang. Again, I see it all the time and I have no idea why you insist that Elliot Rogers was right.
          And I ain’t selling squat. I have nothing to gain from anything regarding this topic.

        16. So essentially you are saying an attractive man has to be highly deficient socially or a sperg for his looks not to work. That’s some interesting rationalization.
          Why so defensive, I didn’t accuse you of anything nor have I insisted anything of elliot rogers.

    2. Guy on the right looks like a neanderthal and would get ZERO pussy in East Asia. FACT

    3. If I’m casting someone to play Skeleton in the He-Man movie, the guy on the right is high on the list.

      1. Heh,
        The guy on the left will spend many years in orbit and friendzoned by girls that would drop their panties in a heartbeat for the guy on the right.

        1. Neither is getting laid with Asian girls. Guy on the right looks like he should do a 23 and me test: results say strikingly high % of Neanderthal DNA

      2. Skelator, jeez Thales, wheres Bem? he would have picked up on this…

  2. Fuck all this gay shit, fuck what woman want, you can wear normal suit no tie, and act like your a millionaire at war with the government. Looking like you belong to no group of people will get you even more points. I aint no 20% and I aint no 80% either…I will break their ass and shake their ass I dont care about offending woman. And I certainly will not bleach my hair to suit what a fucking bitch wants.

      1. Dude will have “Fucking Normies” spray painted on his helmet and a bandolier of condoms for his conquests….

        1. that’s what I thought of……..
          fun story…..I had a good friend who was leaving for the Navy – Construction Battalion in the morning. We watched that movie and shaved this smiley face in the back of his head prior to his going into basic. It turned out that his company didn’t get their hair cut until about a week later. He told me he got an insane amount of flack (nicknamed smiles) during his whole boot camp.

        2. Fuck the condoms, we need to breed some whiteness into the enemy, we weaponize sex that way. The more they become like us the faster the world is at peace.

      2. Only under one condition, we blow shit up to a good remix of heavy metal and rock n roll, ACDC, Metallica etc we blast the enemy with sound fuel.

    1. She’s English, Victoria Beckham. Looks like a good bit of plastic surgery.

      1. I think he meant the blonde Asian chick in the very first picture.

        1. That is not a chick but that fag look that is very popular in Asian culture. Somewhere along the way, anime culture became emulated in real life and all the Asian men stopped building muscle, dyed their hair blonde or silver, started wearing earrings that looked like symbols, and getting contacts. To be fair they seem to love the fitted suits but overall, the appearance is very pop centric and faglike overall.

        2. TFW a 100 lb twink fag smashes more puss than you ever will…

        3. They will. Can’t ascribe to bestiality in any life. Especially not kittens. Would much rather women who don’t shout Kimochi when they are about to cum.

      1. You can have 1-2 cans of sardines weekly. It’s the safest choice … for now.

  3. I don’t deny the importance of style and grooming, but a lot of this sounds very artificial. Why dye your hair blonde if it is naturally a different color? The kind of clothing you choose must also suit your personality and individual style.
    To be honest, Japanese and Korean men are terrible choices for masculine style. For some strange reason, they have adopted an androgynous fag boy look. Chinese men are better choices, in my opinion.
    In my experience, copying anybody or anything has never worked out well. It’s best to play to your strengths and maximize the best parts of yourself while remaining natural.

    1. The guy on several pictures, Kris Wu, is Chinese, although a former member of Exo and thus part of the South Korean music industry.

      1. Looks like modern Chinese men are pretty much like the other Asians. I was mainly referring to the older generation of Chinese men like Jet li, Chow Yun-Fat and Bruce Lee. While Kris Wu is tall, he’s hardly a symbol for masculinity.

        1. Just be careful. No matter how modern they are… they will still urinate in your carbonated beverage and then laugh about it behind your back.

        2. Seems they can mess your whole meal up now. Whether it be fake Rice made of plastic, dog or rat meat for your chicken, or piss in your Coke. No idea where the piss and Coke reference comes from either.

        3. You got plastic rice there too? Those cases have been picking up in India a lot recently.

        4. I was more the kid creating marks than the kid being marked in 3rd Grade. Even back then I knew might makes right. I did see an alleged incident of a girl being served chilled piss for apple juice. She survived, being none the wiser for it.

        5. In India it makes sense though. With almost a billion people, it is very easy to see certain aspects of food shortages. But to serve dogs in Indonesia or boiled rats in America, is the epitome of savage and business model modifications.

        6. Don’t forget formatting bleached feces into immitation beef patties.

    1. It’s just PUA stuff. 15 years ago, it was a gothy, bdsm-lite look. Now it is this look. Kind of an improvement.

    2. Nothing wrong with dressing well. I find that white or stone chinos paired with a navy blazer is my magic combination. Girls always look twice when I’m dressed like that.
      But you don’t need 10% body fat. That’s daft.

  4. why would you vacation in Dubai? Is there anything to see or do there(eg, ancient ruins)??

    1. When you visit it is mandated by law that you assume a Bing Crosby voice and croon “Dubai Dubai Do” every hour for five minutes.

      1. good god thats awful(and it will be triggered every time Dubai is mentioned in the media)

      2. Or do it in a Bill Cosby voice: “You see, the thing about Dubai is, it’s like a big puddin’ pop … ya see…”

    2. An associate of mine vacationed there, said he had a blast. Of course he had some guy’s wife as his companion.

    3. There used to be a club called “Cyclone” in Dubai. Leave the girl at home if you catch my drift.

        1. WHY CAN’T YOU STOP WITH ALL THE YOUTUBE VIDEOS??? I CAN’T EVEN, UGH!

    1. That’s putting it lightly.
      I am writing this article off as click bait for the wrong reasons.

      1. More external sabotage, if you ask me. Like that indie film promotion.

  5. Always start with a classic look, classic style. It’s classic for a reason.
    If you want to add some “flair” or whatever after that, go for it. Get the fundamentals right, and then build on that.
    You want to look good, but you also want to feel good. Don’t dress up in some way that isn’t you… some outfit or look that will make you feel uncomfortable or unnatural.

    1. I can’t imagine me pulling off dressing like Justin Bieber without it resulting in a whole mess of fist fights with people pointing at me and laughing. My build is not…suitable (pun!) to that kind of thing, nor is my look and demeanor.

        1. Without the masculinity that Vanilla Ice had.

        2. And that’s really telling you how much worse things have gotten because V.Ice was certainly no Charles Bronson in the masculinity department! 😉

        1. How was he ever a “thing”? Ugh.

        2. This puss is very appealing to teenage girls and even some retarded grown women somehow.

        1. Hey, don’t start with me unless you want to end up the “Ghost of the Ghost of Waldemar Pabst” next week, buckaroo.

        2. again, nothing but repetitive insipid drivel … you should work on your brain

    2. Very true. Clear skin, deep voice, and having a muscular physique goes a long way despite your height. Start with a sharp line up for your hair, and a trim look that is roughly even and looks lightly touched but fresh. With facial hair, you want it to accentuate your jawline, not hide it, so if you are handling your physique it should stick out well enough regardless. Form fitting clothes would be the final edge, and mainly form fitting shirts once you are muscular. Clean shoes and sneakers with a nice light/dark contrast always holds strong. Imagine this is the classical look you mean with clothes options alternating between boots, rugged jeans that aren’t too baggy, suits that fit, a nice white shirt with an unbuttoned top button, and polished black shoes for your suit.

      1. Two of the pictures in this article are good examples of a “classic” look. Beckham and Ronaldo both have a “classic” look in the pics in this article, not a boy band dyed-blonde hair pop look. The only thing not classic about Beckham’s look in this article are the tats, and maybe the hair is coifed up a little high. Ronaldo’s look in this article is also pretty “classic” in style, except the earrings, maybe the bracelet. You could say his suit was a little too bright and shiny for a true “classic” look but that is splitting hairs.
        But both are exactly what I meant when I said: start with a classic look, and then — if it suits your personality — tweak it a little. I would generally suggest you stay away from fluffy top hats and WWII airplane goggles, but that’s just me.

        1. Exactly, nicely fitted 3 piece suits also go a long away, when in doubt an elegant look always worse

        2. True. I think some exaggerate the points that I make and fail to take into account how much big muscles add to the masculinity part (in parallel with avoiding the distinctive fag features). Basically I tried to be a little bit creative and have a new take on the peacock theory. We all know that this is not the only way to do it by the way.

      2. It’s also important to remember that some classic looks scream “money” to golddiggers — such as the suits above. That’s why I choose more casual styles. Also, t-shirt and jeans lets women see your physique better than just about anything.
        You can save yourself a lot of trouble that way.

  6. Or….I can just keep myself clean and dress in normal clothes that express my personality as I wish and opt to keep my penis attached to me. Seems like a better option. 100% out of 100% of every hot girl I’ve dated agrees. Not saying “be yourself” here, just saying “Hey, let’s not imitate feminine emo fags from Asia”.
    The part on keeping in shape was good though, although keeping 10% body is tough to do if you like to have what scientists refer to as “fun” and “a life outside of the gym”. Not dissing the point, just saying that level of shred is really hard to maintain for any length of time. 12%-14% on the other hand, and you’re in good fighting trim plus you can actually eat food and have a drink now and then.

    1. If “be yourself” means “be natural”, then I’m all for it. As I said before, it is important to play to your strengths and maximize them.

      1. My strengths may not play well in Asia, which is where this article seems to be basing a lot of its assumptions, but they sure as hell works fantastic here in the States. Emo-fagging it up would be not just incongruent with my looks, but with my personality to the n-th degree.

        1. Emo-fagging yourself is never a good idea irregardless of where your from.

        2. There’s a difference between being yourself and the concept behind “just be yourself”. “JBY” is a limiting thing, where you’re supposed to just sit on the couch eating Cheetos and playing Warcraft until the Perfect Nerd Girl with huge titties magically shows up at your door and tells you how much she loves fat guys that perpetually smell like old cheese. That’s a fantasy that never happens and ocassionally leads to the guy going crazy and murdering a bunch of people in real life.
          Knowing who you are, being genuine to yourself, but working to improve yourself, learn game and win fabulous prizes is different.

        3. If you are a white dude in asia, you’re exotic. Part of the appeal is your differentness. You should play that up and not dress like a native (unless business demands require it).

        4. First, rational thing I’ve heard you say yet. You would be viewed as garbage in East Asia.

        5. That could well be true. I don’t travel in Asia so I basically assume that I know little to nothing about what attracts women there. If they like 6’3′ jacked American dudes in cowboy hats, then I’m golden.

        6. They would laugh at you and you would receive ZERO female attention there.

        7. You shouldn’t be back here, if your only point is to continue being an ass.
          Japanese exchange student girl in high school had the hots big time for me, so I’m assuming that you’re doing nothing but trolling.
          In any event, this is my first and last post to you for the day. You were banned and should have had the good grace to take it like a man.

        8. Fuck you. You claim to be for the constitution and the bill of rights yet encourage censorship? Soooo hypocritical

        9. I’ve been to Asia. If you are in a large city in Asia, you simply have to dress accordingly (collar shirt, slacks, maybe a tie..) as a western male and be approachable and be able to carry a conversation. The women will reciprocate.

        10. You don’t have to fly around the world to see Asian women. Go to any American college campus. And you won’t see any Asian girls with White males. They stick to their own men, unlike Western women.

        11. Cool. Asia has never been high on my “must see” list. It’s above Africa but really….that’s not saying much. Good to know though, from somebody with actual boots on the ground experience there.

        12. Because an Amercian campus is a microcosm of reality. No wait…that was sarcasm. It’s an articificial environment where people are attempting to finish a trough of subjects to finish a degree and move on with their lives.
          I attended universtiy on the 3rd largest campus in the US, and do recall banging a pleasant Japanese and Indonesian woman during my time as an undergrad, so feel free to walk on all the campuses you want. That confimation bias of yours won’t feed itself.

        13. I don’t know what years you are talking but the present day reality is very different.
          Only white women think along the lines of: “I don’t have time for a relationship, I’m focusing on my education and career. Maybe I’ll just pick some cock off Tinder and get back to work.” Asian college girls are all in relationships.
          The international student population has increased exponentially the last few years. Most campuses are now like 20% Chinese/Korean. They have an entire community with events and social things planned … unlike white people who have … NOTHING

        14. I know plenty of asian women in their early-mid 30s who have just gotten married, still only engaged, or not even close to getting married. not many kids.
          maybe this 20 something crowd is smartening up, but the rest are just like white women- lotta dogs, boozin, cuckoo meds, etc

        15. Yeah there’s been a shift the last 10 years or so: all the young Asian girls partner up early, in undergrad. They get in a serious relationship and get on with study and work while Becky with the good hair is out getting spit roasted at the Alpha Beta frat house.

        16. The Asians haven’t been indoctrinated with multiculturalism the way ours have.

        17. what your major malfunction again? you are only attracted to asians?

        18. Yes, Asian women are superior: they are the most attractive, they don’t slut it up, they respect intelligence and hard work, they are family oriented, they don’t put down their own men like white women do. Should I continue?

        19. CB, you’re wasting your time. If this is the real Pabst and not somebody trolling… he can’t be bargained with, he can’t be reasoned with. He doesn’t feel pity, or remorse, or [shame]. And he absolutely will not stop, ever, until he is banned again.

        20. nah, youre like Kersey with his Haitian thing….no different

        21. The Sperg-inator. That’s you. Go have some Cheetos and Mountain Dew, big boy. You deserve it.

        22. You really can’t compare a KPOP superstar with porcelain skin to a Haitian voodoo priestess with medusa hair

        23. AWALT- asian broads are VERY materialistic- sound familiar?

        24. Guess it’s a good thing for them that Asians are increasingly wealthy while America is an increasingly poor nation.

        25. Yep! let their men work themselves into the ground just like good little slaves

        26. Women’s nature is materialism. It’s an offshoot of providing for your child.

        27. if you’re talking about going galt or minimalist, that is a response against the modern situation that I can endorse

        28. that explains all those ancient cave drawings of women sitting in S class mercedes

        29. Would the real Waldemar please stand up, please stand up, please stand up?

        30. I live in Asia but apart from being regular with a workout schedule and eating sensibly, I do well enough with quality ladies without all that fag boy bell and whistle nonsense.
          I can tell you from recent personal experience that the Western ‘lumberjack who knows his way around an axe’ look goes down very well here. Especially if you’re actually handy with chopping wood out here. Seems to fire up something primal within the primitive loins of chicks around here who don’t all grow up around trees.

        31. This is funny: I just googled “muscular emo kid” and got basically no decent results. They don’t exist!

        32. This has been played out. It’s not the 1800s anymore. Only thing Paul Bunyan is going to bed with at night is his blue ox Babe.

        33. Your look would work over here with the more Westernized upbringing chicks. I’m nowhere near as big as you are nor can I rock a cowboy hat but I do alright with my outdoorsman vibe with nary a hint of Oriental Asian faggotry in the way I carry myself.

        34. I’ll take the word of the last three 22 year olds I was with recently as data points over your hang ups, Pabst.
          End of the day, women anywhere in the world want authentic men, not androgynous pussified Peter Pans.

        35. If they wanted authentic, I’d be drowning in a sea of pussy.

        36. Bro, “it regardless” is not a word.

          See! My autocorrect won’t even let me type it.

        37. That’s the thing though… They are actually very very similar. More similar than white.

        38. Hey, older folks. You should listen to this man. I am in a 50% Asian campus and he is spot on.

        39. After reading this article, i’m now strangely attracted to jacked american dudes with cowboy hats.

    2. There is something to be said for knowing yourself and being genuine. Not “just be yourself” but understanding yourself and knowing how to maximize your strengths and limit your weaknesses.

    3. I’ve always thought that copying celebs is an easy way to know how to look good because they already have armies of stylists so you may as well copy them. However, it’s all about knowing who to copy. Obviously forget being an emo fag but copying David Beckham is never a bad idea imo
      Definitely agree with keeping body fat in the low teens for those wanting to have a life outside the gym.

      1. David Beckham is a one-man template of modern hairstyles. Use a search engine and you can find almost every style.
        re: clothing, Beckham models masculine modern fashion incredibly well. He also has impeccable British manners.

      2. Yes but with shredded muscles one will actually look more masculine than Beckham. People can’t read. This is a hybrid look. I said to avoid the extreme pop paraphernalia, just wear cool jackets, but even that kind of simple nuances and distinctions are too hard for some right-wing justice warriors to comprehend. They have to write fag to feel better about themselves.

        1. Simple nuances for are emo FAGS….ahh feel much better now. Happy days 🙂

    4. Dehydration, starvation and ‘juice.’ There’s a reason virtually no top-tier strongmen have abs or much definition.

      1. Ever heard of skinny – fat?
        Think pipe cleaner arms and a beer belly.

  7. This article makes it sound like we’re supposed to be chasing women and going out of our way to catch their attention.
    Dying your hair blonde? Isn’t the redpill supposed to be about truth and naturally bettering yourself?

    1. Game and the Red Pill are not the same thing.
      And there are different types of game that work for different guys.

      1. “Game and the Red Pill are not the same thing.”
        Agree 100%
        Sometimes red pill means accepting that it is impossible to alter your situation in life and resigning yourself to play the cards you are given.
        See below. The guy on the right is doomed. No amount of “game” will change that. But, if he can make enough money, he will be able to get laid…
        https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/f20b21bb2c267f84f73a352ff4a3a04cc7c4a8115a66e7491c74b6b3eb8e8490.jpg

    2. “Dying your hair blonde?”
      its kosher, you can trust us, ask Milo

  8. I came back because this article triggered me badly.
    You round eyes need to get this through your thick heads: Asian (Korean, Chinese, Japanese) women prefer the androgynous, effeminate, fag boy look.
    Male pop stars in Korea etc routinely perform in convincing drag, much to the delight of their adoring female fans:




    But keep pumping that cold hard steel.

        1. Like Kersey/John Brown, I guess some learn quicker than others. Shame, I kinda like Pabst blue ribbon.

      1. Why he didn’t have the good sense to take it like a man is beyond me. With any luck he’ll be ban hammered again.

        1. fuck off prick. You claim to be for freedom of speech and then start calling for people to be banned. Fuck you.

    1. Thought of you while reading this article. Why it triggered you is beyond me since this is right up your alley. To your statement, want to say Osaka, Japan is filled with twenty somethings with blond and silver hair in form fitting suits looking to cool for school with matching hot Japanese girls on their arms. Not everyone pulls it off but the scene is reminiscent of an anime for sure.

        1. Blue, pink, and orange? Last saw this live in 2013. Those kids take anime life a bit too far.

        2. It’s called Ganguro. Not very popular now, but you should still see some freaks walking around.

    2. No they dont. When a bunch of thugnificent blacks arrive in Asia, girls drop their faggy popstars like it’s going out of style. And traditional Asians who don’t go for that absolutely love tall white boys. North Korean women from the 50s still reminisce about American GIs to this day. The only thing Asians have is that they’re smart enough to limit access to their culture from outsiders.

      1. Ok Thugasaurus Rex:
        North Korean women recall being shelled and raped by American GIs PLUS 75 years of intense xenophobic brainwashing has made them hate all foreigners (white or black). In the West, it is tempting to think that while our women hate us, this is a universal phenomenon. But it is not: the average North Korean woman would sooner ram a bayonet through a white or black man’s throat than bed down with one. FACT

        1. I promise you, they’d flip in a heartbeat. Women are naturally out-group inclined. Defectors who love North Korean men feel nothing but revulsion towards them when they see the stunning image of masculinity that is the average SK male. Asian women want Asian babies, but they certainly don’t turn black dicku when they get the chance.

        2. your post is incoherent: “the stunning image of masculinity that is the average SK male” ???
          The average North Korean man looks a lot more masculine and scary than the polished makeup covered drag performing androgyne from South Korea

        3. If you haven’t noticed, the opposite is true today:
          White and black girls are going crazy for Asian culture (manga, anime, cosplay, KPOP, JPOP). They prefer the manicured androgynous look to masculine thugs.
          Better put your Timberlands back in the closet.

        4. You’re crazy. You’re taking women at face value, rookie mistake. Women never don’t want escalating masculinity.

      2. I would bet so, human nature is human nature. The teenybopper girls might go for the faggy look as they are inundated with media and are more interested in their perception of what people think, than their true desires, but that only lasts until they move out of their parent’s house.

        1. Too bad in S Korea and Japan, women live at home until marriage. Hmmm

      3. Can confirm, 6 ft+ and platinum blonde here. Have had several cute Asian girls in pursuit of me. They see me as exotic.
        I’ve also been informed by people who lived in Japan that Westerners with my aesthetic are sometimes asked to model there due the same reasons.

    3. Guess someone figured out how to change their IP address all that work could have gone into going outside and meeting a girl…

        1. You live in nyc don’t you? I’m sure there are plenty of places to meet women that don’t involve a time machine.

    4. I always found that all you had to do was execute their family members and set their ville on fire, and they’d take on the whole platoon.

  9. The Nature Boy Ric Flair agrees white blond hair is the way to go. Whoooooooo!

    1. Dude, I like your opinions, but keep the clips and videos down, maybe one picture in every ten of your comments is acceptable. Say what you want, but practice some etiquette. You’re making this board look like some girl’s site.

      1. Seconded. Quit screwing up the site and making it harder for everyone to read and use. Disqus can’t handle all of this shit, and it fails regularly when you sperg too much of it all over the place.
        Plus, none of it is funny, relevant or adds anything to the conversation. It’s just the misfiring neurons in your sperg brain that makes you think it is interesting.

        1. Why don’t you ever have anything clever or funny to post instead of just bitching about the more precocious and gifted minds?

        2. Grown, heterosexual men never describe themselves as “precocious”.
          Please stop spamming the comments with tons of YouTube links.

      1. “If there’s a problem, yo I’ll solve it. Check out the hook, while my DJ revolves it”

  10. How to look like Milo Jewnopolous 101.
    Aka. How to look like a fag.

    1. gay shit = a frothy mixture of semen, Vaseline, muscle relaxants, poo and other stuff like that.

  11. Or you can wash your ass, brush your fangs, and wear clean clothes. And being clean cut helps. Maybe you won’t get all the bitches today. So what? Aren’t you too busy for them anyway? If not, get busy. Improve your success rate with women.

  12. Still waiting for an Asian male to show up and comment on this KPOP article … still waiting …. still waiting … oh wait, they’re all having lunch with their Asian girlfriends. Never mind.

    1. I’m unsure if you’re legit, but this persona you use is hilarious sometimes.

      1. Again!!!
        Hahaha!
        Oh, we make-a esstra yerrow shoup for you, wise-ass!!!

    1. This is exactly what I’m talking about.
      This photo is so sad.
      This guy is a hulking beast of a man, who has put how much effort into his body? And the best he can get is some brown Pinoy? SAD!

      1. and the white race continues it’s devolution into Eloi status

        1. In their competition, they were faggy losers. Today, they are downright awesome.

        2. Talk about devolution. Even faggy losers back then are downright awesome now…

    2. This man will have zero children while the 5ft 100 lb Laotian peasant has 4. Dysgenics is real.

    3. Looks like a cross between Battista & George “The Animal” Steele…

        1. Hahaha!
          If I was to say the name “Nasty Nigel”…would you know who that is?

        2. I looked it up again to make sure I got it right.
          Not the rapper…the old English guy with the young thai girls…

  13. “Dye your hair blonde”……I am in my early 40’s, starting to get some grey hairs, my wife (late 30’s) is as well. Last night, she asks me if she should start dying her hair. I told her that I like her to look younger, so I would encourage. Ten minutes later, she comes back to me, and says she will if I will (shit test). I tell her no. I will bet you she will within the coming year.

    1. This girl I know had her hair dyed cotton-candy pink. It destroyed her look. One day I told her, “Your natural hair color would really bring out your eyes.” Next time I saw her, about a week later, she’d dyed it her natural color…

      1. I really don’t care. It would be nice for her to keep up on her looks, but at the same time, it is time and money. But, telling her “whatever” is failing a shit test. They want someone decisive, whether you care or not.

    2. Id tell ya to use coffee grounds to dye your hair, but then I realized you peeps dont do caffeine

      1. coffee grounds eh? Never heard of that one. Really the “no caffeine, tobacco, alcohol” thing is more about addiction. Yes, our church leadership tells us to stay away from that, but if there is a legitimate, non-recreational purpose, there isn’t anything in our religion that councils against it.
        Still, I would probably use better products available.

  14. If I had to emulate Justin Bieber in order to bag an 8 or a 9, I’d cash in my chips, get out of the game and open up a juice bar in San Francisco. But whatever works for a guy…

    1. Ha I like Justin Bieber, ass hole kid though he is he’s just out there slaying the best pussy and taking the piss out of his fans. I’d never copy him but I don’t hold anything against him

      1. He found religion in some nouveau Hollywood christianism church, and has apparently toned down his shittiness

        1. I read his mother is a devout Christian and was very apprehensive about him becoming a pop a star.

        2. Pretty sure Billy Ray Cyrus said the same about Miley.
          Really makes you wonder what made him want that life for his daughter… surely they had plenty of money from his career.

        3. i read people thought he was a robot/android because when he was asked where Germany was he thought they were taking the piss out of him?

        4. From his wiki

          When searching for videos of a different singer, Scooter Braun, a former marketing executive of So So Def Recordings, clicked on one of Bieber’s 2007 videos by accident.[20] Impressed, Braun tracked down the theatre Bieber was performing in, located Bieber’s school, and finally contacted Mallette, who was reluctant because of Braun’s Judaism. She remembered praying, “God, I gave him to you. You could send me a Christian man, a Christian label!”, and, “God, you don’t want this Jewish kid to be Justin’s man, do you?” However, church elders convinced her to let Bieber go with Braun.

        5. Guess it took her awhile to convince herself that it was ok to want to be wealthy after getting knocked up lol

        1. “Whoa, look how cool he is, race mixing! We can race mix too if we dress like homosexuals!”
          Yeah, no thank you.
          Unlike you, faggot, I care about the existential crisis threatening my race and don’t fancy a worldwide beige Brazil.
          Cheers you cuck.

    2. Speaking about cashing in chips.
      ..
      Did you do well on the Manny/horn fight?

    1. The article should be titled “How to Look Like a Faggot in 3 Steps.”.
      Steps 2 and 3? Get the fuck out of here. Seriously.

        1. Yup!
          You should see some of the ridiculous crap my Asian SB has bought me over the years. I only wear the Brooks Brothers winter coat. The rest stays in the closet (hahaha – were it belongs!) year round.

  15. Author is right. However, not all males can pull off the look. If you’re born with wide shoulders etc, you’re not going to be able to pull off the thin white duke or pale emperor look.

  16. The “pop star look” works for those pop stars because they look like pop stars. If was John Wayne, I would be successful at getting women, I would be successful because I looked like John Wayne, not because I wore a cowboy hat and scarf on my neck. .
    See any guy trying the pull off the pop star look without being a pop star, and you will see a guy who has little success.

    1. As much as you are decent fellow you must understand your limited horizon of understanding these phenomena from your vantage point. I have been to 45 countries around the world and interacted with multiple attractive young girls in clubs, bars and you name it.

      1. I could accept that. Still, there is an base biology that all women have. Never can go wrong with a traditional look. This pop star look is a social construct however popular it is

        1. Peacocking with broad shoulders, chiseled face, blonde hair and a cool outfit is rooted in biological realities too.

      1. Fashion is the difference. Keeping up with the latest trends is faggotry. Wearing decent, well fitting clothes that are in good condition looks sharp.

        1. I wear Hagar slacks, Van Heusen/Geoffrey Beene shirts & Walmart ties. Does that count?

  17. How to improve your success with women:
    1. Dress like a Derek zoolander twat
    2. Dye hair unnatural colour
    3. Emulate SK fagboys
    ..? Fuck outta here

      1. I’m told it’s helpful to build an amusement park in your back yard.

        1. Michael Jackson fan?
          I never understood the continued infatuation with that “guy”. His debut Thriller album came around when I was in third grade. By the time fourth grade came, there were already jokes about his faggotry. Yet, the media continued to push him, still to this day.

        2. Never a fan; not remotely. The fucking freak had too easy a death, in my opinion. Same goes for the parents who pimped their kids to him.

        3. He was a goofball freak but….Thriller kind of rocked, never cared for any of the rest of his stuff. Maybe I just liked thriller because of Eddie VanHalens guitar.

        4. He was worse than a faggot.
          He was a boy raper.
          The lowest form of scum on the planet.

    1. Absolutely not. A 37-year old guy with jacked physique and a cool jacket, if not blonde hair, will get him far. In fact, it can even be positive to be older and more masculine.

  18. How much respect you will get in Poland, Russia, or Serbia if you look like one of those pop stars?

    1. Yes. But that is super easy to get around. I have been to 45 countries and I often make small adjustments here and there. In Hungary and Slovenia I go for a little more muscles and more classic style.
      Seriously, it is obvious that one has to write everything out all at the time.

      1. It’s a generational thing, William. The article title ‘triggered’ me and so my bias set in. But I get your point. Do not dress like a slovenly American with crass T-shirts, caps, tattered jeans, and felony flyers, then expect respect from worthwhile women.

    1. You must be getting so much sex you feel it necessary to frequent internet forums?

      1. Nice comeback, but seriously, if its really been 3 years, why not scrape together $400 and treat yourself to an hour with a hot girl once in a while? Even $300 will do the trick if you are OK with somewhat hot Chinese girls.

  19. The pop star thing can net you gains in a limited market. Better to be fit, decent muscles, and a good haircut. Own at least 2 good suits and pairs of shoes to go with. Shorts are a no-no unless you are hoofing it in hot climes on vacation, and even then they must be of good style. Classic style (nice slacks, good slim fit button-up single colour shirt) is recommended for anytime.
    Khakis, beige pants, and cargos are a no-no. Blue and white JC Penney cotton dress shirts are bad. These are beta clothes. American and Canadian men are always first to rush to that fashion mistake. I never see it anywhere else.
    I’ve been banging Slavic chicks from Laibach to Lemberg for years and never needed to dye my hair.

  20. I’ll pretend I didn’t see that shit about dying hair and tight jackets.
    When it comes to body fat, this is an interesting topic. We already know, game trumps looks any day. I’ve proven that with my lack of game at times lol. But I will say, if you care about it, your face can DRASTICALLY change when you drop bf %. I have a very round face if I’m over 12%. But when I cut down during summer, I finally get these sharp cheek bones, and girls tell me how big my lips and eyes are.
    But like I said, this doesn’t guarantee shit. Plenty of women don’t want a pretty boy. You can buy a motorcycle, get some cool tats, and it’d give you a presence with women that would overshadow even the ugliest mug and fattest physique.

    1. A motorcycle and tats are also good to attract a limited type of women, though. Bad boy chasers are fine for ONS, but are not exactly my thing.

    2. Yup!
      Some of the ugliest mugs you will ever see ar on the Hells Angels, Pagans, Outlaws, etc..
      And they have no shortage of hot young girls.
      Being a violent criminal helps as well.
      Girls love brutality.

      1. I have never seen a woman with a biker in my life. It isn’t the 1960s anymore. You people claiming bikers with grizzled beards and beer bellies are getting hot girls have been watching Easy Rider too many times.

        1. I have. When I was in L.A.
          Hot young girls with fat, hairy, tattooed bikers.
          It was quite repulsive.
          But I saw it with my own eyes.
          Yes, it was back in 1990.
          But I saw it.

        2. I can believe that but that was almost 30 years ago. Same with white male artists circa 2000. Who was considered hot? Kid Rock, Papa Roach, Limp Bizkit, Korn, Backstreet Boys. You don’t see that anymore.

        3. “I can believe that but that was almost 30 years ago.”
          Yes, I am a dinosaur.
          Guilty as charged…

        4. Society has changed drastically in even the last 15 or so years. Even within my lifetime. What was cool when I was a teenager is not even on the radar anymore. From 2000 to today, totally different world.

        5. The idea that effeminate Korean twinks would one day be the standard of male beauty would have made my teenage friends and I laugh back then.

        6. Yep. I had posted videos from YouTube of KPOP stars performing in (convincing) drag with tons of Asian (and white) girls in the audience going absolutely crazy for them. Like what you see girls in the 60s doing for the Beatles.
          Guys actually looked good, dressed as girls, and the girls loved it.
          And then people on RoK will respond with: “You’ve got to work out, get muscles, etc.”
          They ignore stuff that points to the opposite.

        7. Keep in mind in the video I posted, Hyoyeon and Min are about 5’2″ at most. So that means “Twinky-O” is about 5’6″. And that is “hot” in Korea…

        8. Yeah. And it’s no longer just Asian girls who are into that. I’m seeing more and more young white and even black girls into it. Totally refutes the idea that women want hyper masculine men.
          And yes I know guys performed in drag in the 70s for glam rock or metal (The New York Dolls, KISS, etc) but those guys did it to shock. They didn’t look feminine. Gene Simmons and Paul Stanley were still masculine as fuck. Not so with these KPOP stars, many of whom, actually can pass as girls when in drag.

        9. I assume that in the modern world, there are no longer existential threats from predation, animals, warfare, etc so consequently masculine men are no longer deemed necessary or desirable by women.

        10. He banged a lot of women.
          Today, women would regard him as scary and frightening or repulsive. Back then, he was highly sought after.

        11. She should have stayed with Sonny. He loved her. And she loved him, but she had to chase the baloney pony…

        12. I swear an inversion has occurred:
          When you see Asian (from Korea, Japan, China etc) women from the 60s / 70s in photos and videos, they are very unattractive. But the white women are stunning.
          Now, it’s the opposite. I see very few attractive white women but Asian women all seem gorgeous.

        13. Yes, I agree.
          Eyelid surgery has something to do with that, but not everything.
          It’s also the “landwhale” factor.
          The Adeles and Megan McCains of the world. And even some young ones that used to be hot but are now pierced freaks, like Bella Thorne.
          But there are still hot white females. I would take Amanda Seyfried over just about anyone, and I think she is past 30, which is usually my cutoff point.

        14. Yep. Think of girls like Jan Brady on the Brady Bunch:

          I truly think white women are not just getting heavier/fatter but physically bigger (taller, broader, more muscular, etc). You can rally tell when they stand next to a girl from China or Korea. Like different species.

        15. Hahaha…I posted that same one last week!
          Native Balkaner was introduced to the BB for the first time!

        16. I tell you: people are not just getting uglier, but more and more talentless. People like to make fun of the Brady Bunch but those teenagers could act, sing, and dance. Same with the Partridge Family.

        17. Oh, David Cassidy was extremely talented. As was Shirley Jones — she was a superstar in every sense of the word.
          And Laurie…well..hotter than hell as the bitchie younger sister.
          Total turnoff as a lawyer.

        18. Barry Williams had more talent in his pinky finger than pop stars today have in their whole bodies. Guy could act, sing, and dance. Pop stars today rely on auto tune or the DJs play their iPods in public. Insane how far we have degenerated.

        19. I agree.
          And Maureen too. She was a doll (though Eve overtook here at about 14). Real shame Maureen got taken in by the Hollywitz lifestyle. Coke & casting couch situations. She had a couple of abortions. And she could have starred in Gremlins, but was too wasted to make the audition. I am sure some “hymie” was behind that. Ruining her, like “Woltz” in “The Godfather”.

        20. Check this out. It’s Susan Cowsill (of the Cowsills):

          She was like 11 in this video. Can you believe her voice??? She sounds like Janis Joplin. Fucking incredible!

        21. Crazy. That girl is 12??? Wow.
          I think a society is most prolific and inventive when it is less diverse. Look at how much music changed from Elvis and Buddy Holly in 1955 to the psychadelic music of the late 60s to the beginnings of heavy metal in 1970.
          And compare that diversity to the music of the last 20, 30, or 40 years. Rap / hip hop has been around since the late 70s with Grandmaster Flash and the Sugarhill Gang. Same beat, same themes. Stagnation.

        22. She’s freaking awesome.
          She is about 15 now.
          The band stays away from covers these days, and they are writing their own stuff. Hope they hit it big. They are talented as f*ck!

        23. Asian girls in the midwest?
          Lots here in NYC too.
          I guess they are everywhere…

        24. Agreed. But that doesn’t mean a male must become a faggot pop star. A man must be a man if he wants to preserve culture, masculinity and anything men stand for.

      2. Those guys have status, power and probably money. Looks/money/status if you don’t excel in atleast one of these don’t expect to be swimming in bitches.

        1. Yes, I agree.
          Females go for “power”, even if it really is just “perceived” power. They are obsessed with brutality.
          Especially white American girls under 25/30. I have a theory. I believe this is due to them never being spanked as a child. They are pampered little princesses. Perhaps they needed those spankings as a child?
          Asian girls (from Asian countries, not the ones born here) are hit by their parents when growing up. They are absolutely NOT obsessed with brutality, in my experience. They do not like being spanked during sex like American girls do.

        2. Ah, the keyword being “soft”.
          American girls want it hard.
          BTW, a “soft” spanking isn’t really a spanking at all…

  21. I would wear what ronaldo is wearing maybe not the k pop thing if you can find it online that is.

  22. It’s not because of their looks, it’s because they’re pop stars that they get women. There’s a lot of men who dress like faggots and don’t get any action (with women, at least). It’s their status as pop stars that draws women in, even disfigured celebrities, like Mickey Rourke, can slay pussy at will.
    In fact, I don’t think a man, and even a woman for that matter, should ever dye their hair. You’re allowed only one hair colour change in your life, the one you get when you’re old and you hair whitens.
    Also, if you’re not born with the genes to get women, you just don’t. And, no, game doesn’t work. I know you’re gonna say “ah, a game denialist”, but that’s the truth. There are two kinds of men: those who were born to get women, and those who weren’t. Game is only a facilitator for those born in the former group, it does nothing for those in the latter. Game is like acting, you can teach a man how to act, but if it’s not in his genes to get laid, he won’t. He’ll be an entertainer, but he won’t seal the deal. The only exception to this rule is if you’re rich and famous. That’s the only thing that can override you genes for a while. It’s a built-in feature in every woman to desire rich and high status men, so they can get a good provider for them and their offspring. It doesn’t mean she’ll love you, or have your kids, but she may stay with you for a while.
    So, if you’re not born to get women, the only thing you can do is to get rich. If you can’t, then the best you can do is to earn enough to pay escorts. This, or become a sexless monk.
    And this article is bullshit, ROK’s articles are declining in quality with each passing day, and even women are allowed to publish here now. Time to find sth better to read online.

    1. “Also, if you’re not born with the genes to get women, you just don’t.”
      I agree.
      Many here will not but I do.
      I am one of those who was born without those genes.
      But…
      I was born with my Omega Introvert Intellect.
      I can program computers.
      I make $$$ for that.
      I use said $$$ to bang hot, young, 8/9/10 escorts.
      Its not optimal, but it’s the best I can do.
      Play the cards you are given!

      1. That’s so sad… I mean this in the purest of senses, not to mock/insult/whatever.
        My income is higher than most, and I would have my heart (self esteem) shattered to pieces if I had to pay for women (as an exclusive, single method)… I mean… Would they even be worth the €€€s? The hours spent at my job? My intellectual effort, exchanged for a few orgasms?
        Then again, I’ve always had the women I needed (not always the ones I wanted).
        You’re making me think about things in a different perspective… Your reality is scary for me, as it means a regression to a state where you get the fruit without the tree, the sex without the woman, the fuck without desire (as it needs a certain amount of anticipation)… I mean, come on, I usually get a little insulted if I suspect they are dating me just for the € privilege (and nothing else). You’re the complete opposite. How have you come to this? I really want to know. People usually don’t share these stuff between friends, and, as I said, I live in a different reality (my friends, relatives and colleagues too)

        1. “How have you come to this?”
          Take a look at the picture at the bottom of my post. That is your answer. But it is more than that as well. Sh*t life from birth. Evil witch of a mother who groomed me to be a bullied victim from birth. Ultra alpha father who did not give a damn and spent not one second of his time training me to be like him. Treated lower than dirt and less than human by the kids in school from the first day of kindergarten to high school graduation.
          Yes, my esteem/ego/whatever is low. I drink plenty of cheap booze to help forget. I often wonder what the hell is the point of all this. I often pray for death but it never comes.
          But then again, it could be worse. I could be like some of the low end betas I know (which is worse than omega, IMO), who are married to fat pigs, ugly dogs, and /or old bags. My life, as crappy as it is, is still better than that. Being stuck to a fat pig and not being able to leave for fear of alimony and child support. At least my life is better than that.
          https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/f20b21bb2c267f84f73a352ff4a3a04cc7c4a8115a66e7491c74b6b3eb8e8490.jpg

        2. It’s hard to live like that.
          Are you completely sure you can’t change your situation? Did you ever try a deep change in your life?

        3. “It’s hard to live like that.”
          – Yes, it is. I don’t sleep much anymore. Got about 5 hours tonight (up at 3:30 AM) and that not so bad for me.
          “Are you completely sure you can’t change your situation? ”
          – Pretty sure. I have been doing this for 31 years, since I was 20. Started with streetwalkers back in the 80s and progressed to upscale escorts in my later twenties when I began making 6 figures.
          “Did you ever try a deep change in your life?”
          – Well, I moved to the west coast at 24 to try & start over. No difference. Came back after 2 years.
          Anyway, almost 5:30 AM now. Time to do the pushups…
          Take care.

    2. Wrong. Browse less /r/incels. Some men born handsome, some not, but they both attract females. Sources: couples with ugly males and gorgeous women. And I do not mean couples in their 30s, but teens and early 20s. So leave your basement and become a man. Step by step. As i did. It took me 4 years.

      1. I wasn’t talking about myself, I can get women (whenever I pay). And it’s not about being handsome, it’s the whole package. Some men are okay looking but they have some inherit flaw that makes them undatable for a reason. It must be in the genes. Nothing works for them, no matter what, and you can’t tell what’s wrong, they were just not born to mate. Those ugly guys with beautiful women, they have flaws, but not the ones that push women away. There must be sth in your genes that tells women you’re not qualified as a mate. Looks don’t matters as much for women, anyway.

  23. Guys telling other guys how to dress is queer.
    If you can’t dress yourself for work or play then you’re retarded and just might adopt the “pop star” look. Whatever the fuck that does for you.

  24. Thing is, I already look like a K-pop star all the time, already.

  25. It’s not because of their looks, it’s because they’re pop stars that they get women. There’s a lot of men who dress like faggots and don’t get any action (with women, at least). It’s their status as pop stars that draws women in, even disfigured celebrities, like Mickey Rourke, can slay pussy at will.
    In fact, I don’t think a man, and even a woman for that matter, should ever dye their hair. You’re allowed only one hair colour change in your life, the one you get when you’re old and you hair whitens.

  26. There is an act called “Super Junior???” Kind of like “Little Elvis.” Filthy.

    1. Well, they’re Korean, so for them it would be “Little Chachi”…

  27. A few remarks.
    1. If you are black or Indian, well then maybe dying your hair blonde is not such is a great idea. But you can still get ripped and dress pretty cool. 2 out of 3 can still make a positive difference, regardless of ethnic background. I am Scandinavian so this looks pretty natural to me. Blonde hair looks exotic and cool in many parts of the world, not only Asia.
    2. If you are 40-plus guy who repeatedly reads the Bible, well then your concerns about contemporary nightgame are maybe not so relevant.
    3. Try to think in terms of hybrids. You can combine elements of fitness, classic style and some more flamboyant stuff. Avoid the too faggish things and that which do not suit your taste. I wrote that.
    No exactly rocket science.

    1. Quite sad to see how RoK treats people who wrote like 10 articles for their site: banned with no justification or explanation. Ironically, Roosh has a book called “Free Speech Isn’t Free” and talks about how RoK custom merchandise vendors closed his account without explanation or how people launched a negative review attack against his books. Apparently censorship is bad for me but not for thee.

        1. I don’t insult people. Other people on this site insult me and make personal attacks. But apparently that’s alright.
          I make observations on social topics. Pretending a problem doesn’t exist doesn’t make it disappear.

        2. 63 comments huh? Compared to my like what? 2000? You’re a nobody.

        3. Did you ever think about reasoning with them? Perhaps a nice, well written, well thought out email to the mods?

    2. People can’t handle truths that challenge their world view. I can literally find dozens and dozens of videos on YouTube of Korean male pop stars performing in drag to the delight of cheering and adoring girls and people on RoK will keep running their mouths about getting muscular or being more alpha.
      These people are like dinosaurs who can’t change.
      You can see girls going crazy for guys dressed as women and their response is to double down on the alpha macho muh dik nonsense.

      1. Perhaps most notably is a certain individual, who shall remain nameless, who thinks strutting around wearing a 10 gallon stetson cowboy hat outside of Cleveland Ohio makes him look badass rather than foolish.

      2. Why would women be attracted to effeminate men? That makes no sense.
        I don’t think you need to be a walking macho stereotype to get girls, but I don’t see how the opposite extreme helps either.

        1. I’ve been to Korea a bunch of times. While Mr. “P” is given to exaggerations, on this subject he is correct. The Korean girls go nuts for Bieber like androgynous male pop stars.

        2. I agree it seems counter-intuitive or illogical but consider:
          When you see “ultra masculine” type males: the huge hulking body builder types. Do they have attractive feminine girlfriends? Almost never. Usually, they are either single or with a masculine girl.
          The most feminine girls do not go for the most masculine men. They go for effeminate men.

        3. “Why would women be attracted to effeminate men?”
          im pretty sure i read something here saying that the pill (birth control) had something to do with this, altered a womans brain function for what it desires in a mate?
          maybe someone else can chime in.
          not 100% on this

        4. The only thing birth control does is induce menopause early. Which in turn ages women faster and makes them bitchier.

        5. is that right?
          do you remember the article about the pill and its effect on female hormones? thought i read in the article (most probably someones comment) about the pill screwing up what they naturally look for in a mate, the strong provider type in favor of Justin Bieber?

    1. Many of the people do not even understand the points. They fail to understand how to combine several elements into a quite masculine look.

  28. Bulking up =good
    Dressing well=good
    Trying to look like girly boy pop star= your frosted hair tips along with your painted finger nails and painted toe nails should be ripped out with rusty vice-grips by Jeneane Garfalo.

  29. Return of Kings Writers = Closet Wussy White Guys.
    So what else is new.
    Bring out your Coke cans. I need to piss into them.

    1. A tad hard, wouldn’t you say?
      Perhaps those girls were not getting the full picture.

  30. I have a sear-sucker jacket that always seems to go over well in any environment and regardless of what else I wear. So, I started experimenting, and it really didn’t seem to matter whether I was wearing slacks or jeans, a t-shirt or a button-down. Everyone commented on how nicely dressed I was. I ultimately went into a Thai restaurant with only the jacket and a beautiful girl – no shirt at all. I half expected to get kicked out, but instead received compliments on my fashion sense. I love that jacket.

  31. This is some serious faggot shit, mate! I don’t wanna make myself look like Justin Bieber!

  32. Dress like a faggot ?? Look like a faggot ??& take steroids to inflate your chest & shrink your doodah ?? Thank you ?? I don’t want to imitate any Joowood homo ??

    1. I didn’t say that one should use steroids. Masculine thinking is based on rationality and logic, not feelings. Many people are not masculine, used to logos, but get triggered like small girls and SJWs (pathos). They don’t read the entire articles, don’t understand distinctions and the magic of combinations.

      1. Quote: if you are not using anabolic steroids you can lose significant muscle volume,
        So ??

        1. If you are natty and push below 10% then you will lose size. That it is part of the reason to not go below that mark.

      2. Is this a joke? Your article recommends men dye their hair, lose fat and dress nice? This is the kind of dribble my wife reads her “woman’s way” magazine.
        Women should always try to be thin, dress nice and perhaps dye their hair subtly but should not be so effeminate.

        1. Of course it is not. It is not feminine to be lean, but masculine. However, it is feminine to have man boobs like many American and Western men have these days. As for outfits it is of course better to dress well than to dress bad. Dying one’s hair blonde looks cool but it does not fit everyone so many might skip that part.

  33. Guys, guys, the explanation lies on point #2: He inhaled too much hair paint…

  34. I had to check if it’s April fools… it is not. So WTF!!!!!! ROOSH!!! Dude!!!! What is this shit???????

    1. Her hooters are too big.
      They’re starting to sag.
      She’ll be blown out in a couple of years.

  35. Wow, some of the dudes in the pics within this article are polar opposites. You go from tough, well dressed athletes to completely limp wristed boys who are feathering their hair and shaping their eyebrows. Something is amiss here.

    1. No. It’s called hybridization. Jeff Seid comes pretty close to it. And the popstars as well as the athletes do have low body fat levels, a common denominator.

  36. If you want to dye your hair and try a couple of other things to prove to yourself that yes, doing stupid shit for attention, will in fact get you female attention and get you laid, then by all means, do it. Get laid with the girls whom will jump all over that for a while just to prove it can happen. Then move on to doing something more beneficial with your life.
    You could also grow a beard which can have the same effect and is much more manly. In junior high I frosted my tips for a bit. It did garner female attention.
    Now, I have a thick general Sherman style well groomed beard. There are just as many ladies whom fancy it. I will literally have women walk up to me and start a conversation with, “I like your beard.” This is a much more masculine and natural way to garner any kind of attention. I’d suggest leaving the hair dying to the vain women, at least in the long term.
    Now, for the best advice yet for impressing women. Lift, work out, be athletic. Unless you are already in great shape, this is the number one best thing you can do to improve your life with the opposite sex, as well as your health.
    Again, don’t dye you damn hair. At least not long term, unless you enjoy looking like an idiot.

      1. Beard hairs act as sensory antennae. They’re a tool and can serve the wearer with abilities whether he be an evil genius or a holy man.
        From a site called Brobible.com:
        Of all the Civil War generals with power beards, CSA Brig Gen Albert Pike we see has quite long untrimmed locks of head hair AND a big beard. Of the Civil war officers he appearantly had the most total hair, never trimming the sides or top similar to Karl Marx of the day.
        https://brobible.files.wordpress.com/2016/03/albert-pike-e1457362487922.jpg?quality=90&w=641
        He was a mega Freemason and is the only Confederate officer to have a statue in DC. As being the hairiest man scalp wise plus chin, he foresaw WWI, II and III. Note his descriptions of events that will play in a WWIII scenario. He wrote that Muslims and Christians will be pitted to annihilate each other and Europe will be barren following the hordes. Germany and Sweden as we know are the machine engineering and manufacturing powerhouses of Europe. If controlling interests of Daimler Benz whose engines powered the Messerschmitt ever fall into caliphate IS hands . . The horde isn’t just about cultural melding and acceptance. There’s a reason Germany and Sweden were targeted where menstruating women were rammed into office and installed to run their bureaucracies in the past two decades. An overflowing douche pail next to a president’s desk IS UNACCEPTABLE!!! My God am I glad those snakes never got that blinking malfunctioning hillary robot in there. My God.
        From Brobible:
        https://www.google.com/amp/brobible.com/life/article/civil-war-general-world-war-iii/amp/
        And then the atheists are wiped out. It never ends. Merkel would never be in there if they practiced CHHAUPADI. She’d be sitting at the river walk park knitting lovley doilies right now if Germany had implemented CHHAUPADI. I just feel like going outside in a four star general jacket with a trashcan lid and spoon banging “CHHAUPADI-CHHAUPADI-CHHAUPADI”. That would be like k-pop in this comatose redneck town full of fat mensing couch potatos and daisy duke eye candy.
        Well, keep the powerbeard Mr Adams!

        1. Actually it does not suit me very well so I only have little or none facial hair, but I agree that for some it looks really powerful and masculine. My avatar and pen name are linked to William Adams, the British explorer, and more known from Shogun (played by Richard Chamberlain in the TV series).

    1. Don’t do anything to impress woman, fuck their feelings, fuck what they want, I will not change my life for any fucking bitch, she has to change HERS, to suit MINE, but at the sametime focus on self improvement but don’t change your hairstyles and clothing just to get a womans attention, as far as im concerned a woman should be honored im even talking to her.

  37. three words, one truth:
    know thy self.
    find YOUR niche.
    OT – Odin returns- prepare.

  38. The only thing I agree with is bringing your BF% down. Everybody looks better not being fat.

  39. Just wear a sport coat more often. It can be a plain blue sport coat worn with jeans and white shirt. You’ll feel and be treated as a very important person.

    1. That would be a good start for many but not really enough if the face, shoes and pants are not on point. A black, white or grey outfit and with some decoration and edge on the jacket, mixed with blonde hair, would be really cool. Think about some of the guys from EXO above in the picture with a muscular frame = pussy slayer look.

  40. What ever happened to improve yourself for you, not for women? You can’t be serious trying to look like one of these K-pop faggots just to get your dick wet. SMH.

    1. 1. One can mix several elements into a cool look. The masculine part is the muscles, and perhaps some beard, whereas the metrosexual stuff are the clothes and the hair. So it is not about following a single influence or give up yourself (whatever that means in terms of looks).
      2. K-pop “faggots” are not the only ones who dye their hair blonde. Nor are they the only ones who dress flamboyantly.
      3. You do it not for the girls but for yourself. You want to come inside of their pants, right?
      Ok, so all people are different, but one important thing about reality is that it is YOU that will get laid. When YOU get the pussy it is a whole different story than if the other guys do it.

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