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Stop Trying To Convince Girls To Sleep With You

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Recently, a reader asked me a question regarding building a harem—more specifically, the question was, “How do I even start?” Indeed, it can be difficult for one to date multiple women if the pressing issue is getting a phone number, or getting a woman on a date.

In reality, much of life revolves around sales—selling oneself. Need a job? Sell yourself. Need a college scholarship? Sell. Want a date? Sell yourself. Want to fuck that hot girl? Again—sell, sell, sell.

However, there is always going to be a target market for selling to. How do you think selling diet pills to a group of bodybuilders would do? Probably not so well. But change that target market to a group of fat girls who love Oreos and all of a sudden you’re a wealthy man. Likewise, you wouldn’t try to sell eating a chicken salad for lunch to those girls, but you would for the bodybuilders.

In reality, game works the same way in the fact that you should go after the proper target audience. You should be looking for the YES girls—the ones who are intrigued by you and are going to put you through less hoops to have sex with them. It’s far better to filter for the YES girls and filter out the NO girls. Trying to convince the NO girls into liking you is an exhausting, demoralizing, and often fruitless tactic.

If you were trying to sell those diet pills to bodybuilders, you wouldn’t invest the time or energy in trying to change their mind. You’d take their “no”, and immediately move on to the next target. Look for the YES girls in game and your life will be much easier.

What Constitutes A Yes Girl?

There’s an old saying (don’t ask me who coined it), “You don’t need game as long as the girl is complying with you.” 

And this is very, very true. Do you think Justin Bieber needs game? Definitely not. He filters exactly down to girls who will say yes to him, and just leaves the no girls behind. He doesn’t need them, after all. The yes girls are so compliant that they just go along with him.

For those of us without millions of fan girls, things are a little bit more difficult, but not impossible. In the case of cold approaching, you want to be looking for the girls who are having an engaging conversation with you. Not the ones that are making you fight tooth and nail for every inch of conversation. In the online world, the girls who are compliant and give you their number and agree to a date are far better options instead of the ones who throw endless tests your way (“But WHY do you need my number?”).

So how much do you invest in trying to get a number? When in doubt, it’s always better to get a number for the sake of having another lead than not. Just don’t invest too much energy in to them, but you never know when things might turn around. This leads me to my next point.

Remember The Fickle Nature

Despite what I’ve written above, like I said—there are exceptions. And girls are fickle, fickle creatures. Sometimes, it’s just one thing you say that turns a no girl straight into a yes girl (or sometimes, even vice versa).

Every one of your interactions should be a direct funnel to getting what you desire—usually sex. A girl’s job is to dissuade you from this path, in the form of off-topic conversations, shit tests, and more. Always redirect and put her back on the path that you want her on. This means getting her number, getting her out on a date, and then getting her into the bedroom. Think of it as a road trip—you’re going to have to make stops to eat and fill up the tank, but then you get right back on the freeway until you reach the destination.

Of course, in this metaphorical example, a girl is free to be left on the side of the road at any point—and that’s okay. Sometimes, that’s the nature of the beast. You have to leave girls behind. For one reason or another, they go hot to cold. It’s important to remember that it’s part of the game. Maybe her dog died. Maybe it’s that time of the month and she’s cranky. The exact details don’t matter, but you just keep filtering for the yes girls.

Put A System In Place

It’s important then to remember to systematize things to an extent. While I don’t think you need played-out pickup lines, having an idea of a system of conversation (or messages, if using online dating) that you know gets you results is excellent.

Does it take time to develop a system that works for you? Absolutely. Trial and error is the only way. It’s going to depend on where you live, your style, and your overall attitude you take towards game and life. Some guys go on dates and as as serious and mysterious as James Bond. Other guys go on dates with the goal of just having a good time. You have to figure out what works for you.

But, once you have figured out what works for you—stick to it. Stick to the system that works.  Always move forward and if she isn’t on board—away she goes. Put girls through your system and be absolutely brutal about the rules of engagement. When it comes to girls, take the yes and fuck the rest.

Want to start building your own funnel of girls? Learn how in my book.

Read More: 3 Things I’ve Learned From Dating A Ukrainian Girl For One Year

148 thoughts on “Stop Trying To Convince Girls To Sleep With You”

  1. There’s more than one way to skin a pussy. I’ll tell you a surefire way to build a harem – all you have to do is become light-years better in bed than the next guy. Work on acquiring an ample array of sexual skills and techniques. Work on building incredible stamina in the sack. If you do those things, women will sell your services for you. They can’t keep their mouths shut about good dick – problem solved, harem built. And women will wait in line patiently for you, if you are better than their other options. They won’t give you shit tests, they won’t cause you trouble, they won’t pull the usual Cunt Stunts. Because they know without a doubt that you have a very long waiting list, which likely includes most of their friends. Granted, that’s the hard way to go about it, because it takes will, practice, patience and serious effort. But talk is cheap and actions speak louder than words. (But hey – if you want fast, killer results, just skip this advice and use Kratom.)

    1. Bob this is so fucking true it is hilarious. It is always so amazing to talk to a girls friends for the first time knowing that they know, because she won’t shut up, that you fucking dickmatized her.
      ANd this is old hat my friend. EZE said it in his famous love song I’d Rather Fuck With You:
      I’d rather fuck with you all goddamn night,
      ‘Cause your pussy’s good.
      Now I’m fucking all your friends,
      ‘Cause you ran your mouth like I knew you would.
      You were bragging to your friends,
      Saying “Eazy E knows how to fuck”.
      So bring your ass in here and give me some,
      So I can bust a but (go on and sing that shit).

        1. yeah, the man dead from AIDS (which is very hard to get from regular, heterosexual intercourse).

        2. Yup, like less than 1 in 1000.
          The “down low” don’t treat dem folks too kindly.

        3. From respected poaster to ni99er promoting pole smoker in a matter of two poasts. Eat shit niglet!

        8. yeah, he got that aids either from prison butt sex or IV drugs

        9. please, EZE dicked down so many lilly white blondies that there are probably hundreds of men walking around with their oddly tanned kids and their “good girl” wife.

        12. Looks like trailer trash WN want to ruin the RoK comment section like you did In Mala Fide and the Chateau.
          88 garbage are the reason we can’t have nice things.

        13. Bro he was fuckin white girls too. That’s an ignorant racist comment. You need your ass whooped

        20. You’re late pussy. That comment was over a month ago. Go fuck your mother and tell your sister i said hi. Fucking loser.

        21. Someone ban this ugly troll. He gets no pussy and clearly keeps a dick in his mouth.

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    2. … “Women will sell your services for you” – reminds me of the 1989 movie Loverboy… “Extra Anchovies”

    3. Yes, absolutely. Focus all your energy on pleasing the girl in bed. That is totally alpha.

      1. Hopefully you will explain to us how you do it – I’m thinking you must have your own methodology for building your own personal harem. The subject matter of the article was how to build a harem. There is more than one way, obviously. I’m all ears, man…er, eyes. Always willing to learn more. Fire when ready.

        1. Eh fuck him, we wanna know more about the above-mentioned hyperdimensional fucking.

        2. Use her body to satisfy yourself. Dominate her. Slap her ass and order her around. Push her down and put her m*uth on your c*ck. Treat her like a f*cktoy. Domination feels good and women love it. Release your caveman.
          Don’t worry at all or even think about whether she is “satisfied.” If you are, she will be.

      2. If you’re focusing all of your energy on pleasing, you don’t have a lot of energy. Drink some Red Bull.

      3. Bob smith wouldn’t know alpha if 12 inches of it smacked him upside his head.

      4. There’s a difference between pleasing a girl in bed and being good in bed.
        It’s the difference between giving a girl what she says she wants and what she actually needs.
        I agree with you that making it about her isn’t alpha.

        1. How do you define “being good in bed”?
          Is it you please the girl, or she pleases you?

      5. Maybe you should peruse Chateau’s 16 Commandments of Poon my friend, article 14 to be exact. Most definitely Alpha to screw her brains out. What man doesn’t want to make a woman blow 4 times before he nuts? Only dudes scoring fatties, that’s who.

        1. Sure, screw her brains out. But measuring sex based on her pleasure is needy and validation-seeking. Measure it based on YOUR pleasure. Focus on yourself. Satisfy yourself, and she’ll be satisfied.

      1. Glad you appreciated it, my man.
        Wanted to add a few tidbits to the stew here, based on my own personal experiences. As lolknee pointed out (er, Hipponax), this method works. I lucked into getting my hands on this particular game plan. When I was 21 years old, I got “kept” by a single mom with mad sexual skills. I went from being a timid guy who had good looks and abyssmal sexual skills, to a guy who wound up having harems. It was all because of what this single mom taught me in bed. She was extremely nuts, but I still owe her a great debt. She taught me how to get women off and keep them coming back for more. She also taught me the psychology involved. The upside (among many) is that when a woman lets go, and gets satisfied on a hyperdimensional level (for lack of a better phrase), she’ll do anything to please you. Anything.
        So it’s not about solely pleasing the woman. It’s about pleasing her better than any other guy, with the end goal being to get yourself satisfied to an even greater degree, via numerous women who keep coming back for more. So if you can get her on a leash in this fashion, you will receive repeat performances at your leisure. When you become a woman’s monster fuck, she’ll do anything for you. This can include financing your entire lifestyle for the privilege of getting your exclusive action (if you so choose).
        Now a lot of men think that’s beta, but they are typically the men who would never get an offer from a woman to pay them for sex in the first place. There are lots of options available to any young dude who embraces this philosophy. The overall point is, it’s a war. If the objective is to have as many gorgeous women waiting in line for you as is humanly possible, the methodology I outlined works. It’s kind of like beating them at their own game.
        Now mind you, this is what I did back in the day (when I was in my 20s, during my prime), and nowadays I don’t even bother with any of that crap. Because I haven’t met a woman I want to be around for more than a few times, in the last 20 years or so. Now I use success and money to get them into bed. Frankly, sex is fucking boring after a while, more like blowing your nose than it is something sacred. And I don’t need sex the way I did back in the day. Thus, my ennui about pleasing women these days (why bother?).
        But when you’re young and in your prime, you just gotta have it, and you gotta have it often. So I tossed this out as a foolproof method of getting what you younger guys need. Results may vary. Caveat emptor. Etc.

        1. Bob, could you give us guys who are not packing ‘Ron Jeremy sized Pork Swords’ (you said in a different article that size matters to ALL women) and who dont have ‘Energizer Bunny’ endurance a bit of advice on how to get to the ‘womans monster fuck’ level (what to do, not to do, how to do it etc) not gonna lie, sounds bloody difficult, but suppose if it was easy we wouldnt be in this bind we are in now.

        2. If I may offer a suggestion, use your hands and mouth before you unsheathe your sword. Get her off at least once before you take your pants off and it won’t matter much what you’re packing.

        3. First of all – and I realize I run the risk of getting roasted here, but who gives a fuck – you can indeed increase your dick size, no matter what anybody else tells you.
          Google this – “jelqing”. There’s a place called Thunder’s Forum where you can get tips about how to enlarge your equipment. The shit works. They are manual exercises.
          At that forum there are other tips that will teach you how to do exercises that will increase stamina. Size is important, sure, but being a monster fuck is even more important.
          I’ll tell you what my routine was, back when I was spinning several plates at once, and maintaining harems. First off, foreplay is absolutely fucking critical. Kissing, touching, massaging. I would use heated baby oil for the foreplay part of the meal. Yeah, it gets messy, but you can lay a rubber mat down under your sheets. I’d light candles sometimes. Music was out, because it distracts both parties. Typically I would make out with the chick for 10 or 15 minutes, naked, to get things started. I’d pour heated oil into her cupped hands after I got her hot (and I’d tell her to cup them, to get ready, “Catch this”). This was all done while we were facing each other, cross-legged, or with her in my lap (no fucking yet). Then I would rub her chest, hips, back, and lather her with the oil. I’d tell her to do the same thing to me. I’d suck her neck, while rubbing her and touching her. This almost never failed to make a woman open up. They are notorious for having an erogenous neck area.
          Eventually this would lead to me telling her to roll over on her front and spread her legs. Then I’d start working on her ass, and pussy, with my oiled hands, while sucking her back occasionally, or her neck once again, or her inner thighs. I would rub my dick against her ass crack every once in a while, or press it against her legs, but I would not fuck her yet. The idea here is to get her as hot as possible. This routine always worked for me, using this type of foreplay.
          I would also ask her questions at various points along the way, “You like that, don’t you.” (A statement.) She’d say “Yes!”. If I sensed the woman was into dirty talk, I’d call her a slut and a bitch and worse. This takes practice but you can usually tell when a woman likes being called a whore, etc. After that, the obejctive is to prolong the actual penetration itself for a proper period of time. I would usually use my fingers, my hands and my tongue, to get the chick off at least once before I started to fuck her. After that happpened (after I used foreplay and got her in the mood and got her to the edge of orgasm, and then got her off, manually), I found that she would do anything I wanted. She’d become a rag doll at that point, “Take me, daddy!” – that kind of shit.
          Once it was my turn, by NOT ejaculating early, when we started fucking, by putting that off, usually by pulling out, if I got close, or by squeezing my cock really hard at the base least once to put off my own orgasm (this is graphic, but you might need details), I could avoid blowing my load. The longer you practice this while fucking a woman, the better you will get at it.
          I do know one thing for sure about why a guy with stamina is the Holy Grail in the eyes of a woman. Most of them love to get fucked for a really, really long time – but only if they are warmed up, emotionally invested, and totally into it. If you just plunge in, and start jackhammering them for an hour or more, they are going to say, “Hurry the fuck up” or “Get the fuck off of me.” But, if you have them reeled in emotionally and they are opened up wide, they won’t do that.
          I used to hear, “Oh god, please…please get off of me…will you ever get off me…don’t stop” – that kind of thing. It indicated the woman didn’t know if she wanted it to stop or if she wanted it to go on and on forever (usually the latter). Most of them get totally immeresed in the marathon fuck and they lose their sense of time, place, and their inner sluts come out and it’s all over…
          Here’s a basic outline: Work on your foreplay technique. Investigate the erogenous areas of a woman’s body (Google it). I would even take it so far as to study massage techniques, which you can do online. You want the chick to relax, open up, and become your personal sperm toy. Read articles and studies about what turns women on the most. The back area and the neck area are crucial. Full-body contact with warm oil is really unbeatable.
          If you do this right, you’ll destroy the competition. In my case, bitches told their friends and their friends would literally (Hitler) call me up and point-blank ask me to fuck them. “Nobody has to know but us,” they would say. (It’s amazing how little women value friendships with other women, but we already know abou that shit, don’t we now). I had many girls’ avowed best friends do this shit over and over. Their co-workers, too. It was amazing, and it all happened because the bitches I was fucking bragged about it to everybody. They cannot keep their mouths shut about good dick. Fact.
          Focus on technique, focus on getting them to open up by making the event last a long time, and pay attention to details. Do your homework. This in itself will separate you from the pack of clueless dudes who got their sexual education by watching porn movies which feature douchebags with big dicks hammering away at corpse-like porn chicks with fake tits.
          Hope this helps. Good luck…and be careful out there, my friends.

        7. Solid as fuck Bob…Sometimes I feel like it’s the little things (lol) that go a long way in the sack with a women, the neck kissing, the pussy rubbing, etc. Some girls just get the dick, some girls get a little more treatment

        8. Grazie. Whatever gives a guy an edge. If you dazzle them the first time, they want a second helping. Which doesn’t mean you give them the extra effort the second time. Or the third. Etc.

        9. In my experience you are dead on. Having a competent “instructor” when you were young was certainly a stroke of good fortune. Much of what you describe about creating an intense sensual experience for the woman took me years to piece together here and there. I cannot emphasize enough the importance of learning massage techniques and studying the female erogenous zones. When you deliver the goods in an unforgettable manner, you will not only have repeat customers, but you will get word of mouth advertising to be sure.
          Just like you pointed out previously, they have to brag on you if you drive them nuts. When I was dating my wife she worked second shift with this hot little mocha delight that would have given Halle Berry some serious competition. Apparently even nurses like to “compare notes” and every time I’d go to visit my girl on the floor, little miss mocha delight would greet me with a hug. And I don’t mean the kind of hug you get from your grandma. When I would finally pry her loose, she would have pokies showing through her bra. I assume she had heard all about incense, wine, candles and massage oil and the man behind them. I didn’t want to jeopardize my relationship, but it was plain to see (especially after a couple of trips to the dance floor) that it would have been an effortless bang.

        10. Yes indeed, my friend. You know exactly what I’m talking about – kudos to you for finding the Holy Grail there. It’s kind of baffling to me that the manosphere doesn’t push the importance of this. I mean, women study sexual tricks and techniques all the time. Somehow, if a man does it, a certain segment of males thinks it’s “unmanly” or “beta” or even “gay”. This is odd, but somewhat understandable. And the upshot is, there is less competition for the men who follow this recipe, as most men would never think to fight fire with fire in this manner…
          Once you become a woman’s monster fuck, there are so many ways to run with the ball (pun intended). I used to give them a killer first performance, and then pull back. The second time wouldn’t be as intense. And the hamster would be turned loose, “Why didn’t he fuck me like the last time! OMG! Does my pussy smell???” That kinda thing. Then they would work even harder to please me. It’s a pretty simple recipe once you figure out how to turn a woman on and make her cum better than virtually every other guy.

        11. There isn’t a damned thing gay or beta about playing a woman’s body like a fine musical instrument. But just like you stated, it takes a lot of work. You have to study and practice just like any other art form. Here in my late fifties it’s not as important to me as it once was, but I am not dead yet. So I still enjoy owning her in the bedroom or on the dance floor. It’s the man’s job to lead and the women I’ve been with were more than happy to let me do practically anything I wanted to. If you are confident and assertive it turns them on, or at least the women I will have anything to do with.
          That “Does my pussy smell?” brought back a funny workplace incident. We had two secretaries that shared an office. Both married and both notorious for running around on their husbands. One of my fellow techs was about as red pill as they come and quite a joker. We were talking outside these two girls’ office one day and he said “Watch this.” He walked in, said “I need to talk to you ladies about…”, stopped, sniffed the air, scrunched up his nose and finished with “That’s alright, I’ll come back later.” and walked out. He gave me a wink and said “They’re in there checking themselves right now.” I’m sure they were. That still makes me chuckle.

        12. Hilarious. Reminds me of “Silence of the Lambs” when Jodie Foster walks past some nutjob in a cage in the psychiatric ward and he says, “I can smell your cuntttttt.” Women must be super-self-conscious about that sort of thing. I hope so, anyway, given the odors of some of the man-traps I have plundered. Gah. “Clean it up, bitch, Jesus.”

        13. Great job Bob. The foreplay is key. I would add the anus. Make sure she is freshly bathed. Tell her to clean up cause it’s going to get dirty. ALL women love a rim job and many enjoy penetration. After getting them up in doggy I can get them around the arse with my tongue and work the vag and clit with my thumb and forefinger. Lube is the key. Get ready for screaming OMG’s boys.

        14. Absolutely. Leave it all on the court (take your shit seriously) and they will come running back for more…wish more guys understood this and practiced it. They’d have much better sex lives and infinitely more confidence.

    5. Theres an article here posted by the great Av Yader, that says that it’s the mans job to get a woman to want to have your babies (evolutionary speaking) in order to keep them emotionally invested and at your beck and call. Something about” you can fuck like a jack rabbit on a meth binge” and it won’t mean shit. Its all about the emotions and how they FEEL about the man. It was a brilliant piece and i would have to agree with him. Sex doesn’t Always keep them. But the ones emotionally invested? You bet your sweet ass!

      2. That’s a big part of what I’m talking about, although I neglected to spell it out. Part of the sexual experience that I deliberately gave them involved a lot of attention to detail. I was painstaking in my attention to detail, and in extending the length of the sexual interaction…because long, protracted, intimate sex leads to women opening up emotionally. Investing emotionally. It worked for me the best in my 20s, and I think this was due to the fact that a woman’s 20s are “prime time” for them in terms of seeking out an LTR. So they became emotionally invested, and the great sex triggered it. They view any man whom they consider to be worthy of pursuing, as someone who would be very difficult to replace (a tough act to follow). So emotion plays a big part in that whole thing.
        Just to expand on this, and illustrate it, I had a couple of women who told me they wanted to have my children. I had told both of them from the beginning that there was no way we would wind up having a relationship of any kind, other than a sexual one. But two of them told me they were fine with that, but they wanted to get lawyers, and draw up an air-tight contract, stating that I would never be responsible for their children, if I inseminated them. I think most of this was due to the fact that I genuinely didn’t give a fuck about them. It also had to do with the women in question being in their mid-to-late 20s and women often get triggered biologically to have a child at that time in their lives. But mostly, I think, it had to do with them viewing me as a tough act to follow.
        Whatever the case, it’s absolutely true that an emotional investment plays a big role in a woman’s willingness to ride around in circles (orbit a guy) as part of his harem. You just have to get them to invest, as you pointed out. The more weapons you possess, that will make that happen, the larger the harem will be.

        1. Very well said, Bob. And for the record, i wasn’t denying the fact that a good, creative dicking doesn’t trigger those emotions. It absolutely does. But, in my personal experience, the women who were the most emotional or stuck around the longest and gave huge amounts of investments, i wouldn’t spend more than ten minutes flat in that pussy and truthfully wasn’t very “creative”. I just got my nut, sent them home and slept like a baby. I rarely answered their textes, treated them like shit and pretty much moved on with my life. Yet, month after month and year after year, here they even Still are.. To this fucking day. Now on the other hand, i’ve fucked the dog shit out of some women. I mean every which way but sideways. For longer periods of time. And have had them vanish. Never to be seen again. And these whores were without a doubt, pleased with my performance. So it’s kind of tricky. I would say that a combined formula has worked best for me. This formula is- Good quick dicking, hardcore aloof behavior, mixed with excellent deep diving so they feel like i “really” care about them. And then vanish on them. Maybe text once a few weeks later. Rinse, wash and repeat. It confuses them and keeps them interested and invested. Even for years. That’s what has worked for me. I’ve had a harem for years using this formula. Old birds mixed with new birds. Some drop off and find new men that invest more than i do, sure. But even they come back eventually. Most of the time. I wouldn’t give a fuck if they did or didn’t. I think thats the point. Not giving a fuck.

        3. Exactly. I’m sure were not alone brother. I let them other cats invest and fuck them for hours and hours. Me? No fucking way. I got better shit to do with my time. Like sleep lmaooo. They are simply fuck toys. Used for quick nuts and quickly disposed of. And insanely replaceable ones at that.

        4. Yessir, one should never underestimate the power of not giving a fuck. It occurred to me that the big reason why it worked so well for me, back in the day, might have had a lot to do with the fact cell phones didn’t exist, and neither did the Internet. Still, the basic rules that we have outlined here definitely apply, I think.

        5. I spent a good deal of time on the road as trucker and oilfield hand and agree with you both. back in the day we called what you now say as game ‘tossing’…the more women i fucked and ‘tossed’ the more pussy i got…funny but it seem that the more you treat women like shit the more they love(?)and fuck you, and the more you treat women well the more they hate(?)don’t fuck you…
          that worked well for me especially in trucking…

        6. Interesting. I’m a trucker myself. Local not long haul. I get my paper, lay low with my “main” bitch for the most part (she’s a down ass chick), and flirt/ fuck plenty of whores on the side. Now, im safe and smart enough to play this game right. So no drama whatsoever. I would also consider myself a vet. Since i’ve been slaying since i was 16 and have hundreds of notches(I’m 34). I’ve lived and learned and still have more to go. But the one thing that has never changed, is the fact that a woman cannot be trusted. I mean, you would think out of hundreds, there would have been at least ONE loyal one, right? Nope! Not one fucking one. Not in the end. They all get cha’ in the end. I promise.

      3. Creative dicking draws out the emotions. Pulls them like a thread that unravels the brain. When her tears start to flow, I know I have lived up to my goals.

        1. I’ve made tears flow from women that i’ve Never had sex with. They crushed hard and i never gave them the time of day. I think it’s more of not giving a fuck about them than the dicking. I’m 98% convinced of that. The other 2% percent, a good dicking. Not to disagree with you but to point out the tested and proved theory that women are fucking insane and can’t Really be figured out. But i only speak from personal experiences. Sure a good dicking can get the engine running, but the emotions are the oil.

        3. Now, this all is not to say that even a woman who’s emotionally involved with you won’t end up with a dick in her mouth and or other holes. Because, she almost most certainly will. Women absolutely cannot be trusted. I mean, in any way, shape or fucking form. Especially if she’s lonely and or unstable. Which she most certainly is or will be in the near future. Or always has been for that matter. We live in a day and time where promiscuity is rampant. And even a crying whore is still a fucking whore. I only offer you the truth. And nothing more- Morpheus.

    6. Long sex doesn’t always mean good sex. I’m one of those dudes that can’t finish. You’d be surprised how much this bothers women. All the dumbass rappers brag about going all night. They’ve obviously never done it: It sucks. It hurts the woman after some time, and eventually they feel insulted that you can’t bust.
      If she decides to fuck you, she also wants to feel like she pleased a man too.

      1. Just fake the orgasm. Case in point, when I’m fucking a new gal in unfamiliar surroundings (and often when I’ve taken a dink pill beforehand), I’m kinda distracted and can’t readily cum after 15+ minutes of pounding. It’s at that stage that I’m sweating and maybe dealing with a muscle cramp somewhere or a twinge of low back pain. Regardless if I’m wearing a condom or not, I fake a magnificent orgasm while in her. If I’m wearing a condom, I jump up and quickly throw it away. If not, I usually make her gush from a G-spot orgasm so there’s a puddle under her anyway — she doesn’t know or care if my cum is in her puddle or not at this stage.
        Once you fake your first orgasm, a number of great things happen:
        1) All pressure is off of you, which makes it easy to get hard quickly and actually cum.
        2) Chick is impressed with your stamina and quick refractory period.
        3) With your “second” hard-on, you offer significant proof of attraction to the chick (ego stroke).
        4) Now you can take your time to explore other parts of her with a throbbing cock and no pressure to perform.
        5) Once you’re ready to enter her again and cum for real, make sure she sees it this time. Pull out and cum on her tummy, tits or face and act like that’s just a normal session for you. You’re just a multi-shooting stud!
        6) She’ll be amazed and you’ll feel pretty manly, which gives you a great chance of a second real orgasm (after 20-30 mins or so), or a third from her perspective.
        7) 95% of women have never been with a guy who can cum 3 times in a session, so you really win and she will mention this to all of her friends.
        If you really want to own a woman, combine the fake orgasm strategy with one or both of the following:
        1) gushing / squirting G-spot orgasm
        2) anal sex

      2. Cosigned…Lost a really hot one because I couldn’t bust…she was the third of a one-chick-a-day spree I had, and she was really upset about it

        1. The women have given the best sex to have been the ones to leave. The ones where I couldn’t give a fuck whether they had a good time or not are the ones I couldn’t get rid of. In my view, women do not value sex, they value attention – but only if you strictly ration that attention.s

      1. Kratom is a running joke around here. It’s supposed to be the Super Tonic of Super Tonics. It makes your dick grow another foot in length, makes you indestructible, etc.

  2. Great article, and great advice within it. I wish I had a site like this when I was a teenager. To any guys that age reading this site: Take the advice and start living it. I wish I’d gotten a head start on it, rather than playing catch up at age 32 like I am now!

    1. Hey, give a chance to the oldies! Seriously though, I divorced in my mid thirties and just a bit before discovered red pill, now I’m almost into forties and my life is better than ever. I’d do out on a limb and say that life with red pill gets better whatever your age, and there’s a lot of fun to be had on forties and beyond.

  3. But what if you don’t want the “yes girls”? Sluts are called easy because they are easy.

    1. This is a good question and I think it is tricky. A no girl is a no girl. You are just throwing time and effort into a dead end. A yes girl is, like you say, an easy conquest. Say what you want about easy conquests….but I don’t masturbate i use easy conquests instead. However, I do think you are onto something. I hesitate to say “maybe” girl because I don’t believe that any girl is truly ever on the fence about such stuff. I would say a “Yes, but” girl. You know it’s yes. She knows its yes. She knows you know its yes…..but propriety (however you see that in whichever culture you are adhering to) must be maintained. Yes, but marry me or Yes, but I need to go on 5 dates or Yes but you have to prove yourself in some way or Yes but I want to be romanced a little first — there may be a better way to say this, but this is what comes to mind.

      1. Agreed, my girl was a “yes, but….” (and that was a big but) from the beginning.

      2. Uncle Fred knows… (jump to 1:33 for the knowledge)… A women, who is a player herself… Want’s to be played, has to be played, need’s to played in order for the continuation of this man-women thang.”

    2. “yes girls” and “no girls” are both sluts nowadays Jim. The only difference is that the “yes girls” will let you fuck them , whereas the “no ones” will fuck other dudes.

      1. An old saying:
        “A slut fucks everybody. A bitch fucks everybody but you”.

        1. Great saying , but I only see bitches around lately. Sluts are a rare species.

      2. I would agree with you on that, given Hipponax’s caviat. Once they say no, it is no.

    3. “In reality, game works the same way in the fact that you should go after the proper target audience.”
      A different target audience than the stated goal of collecting a harem, and marketing changes accordingly. One packages oneself as the desired product. I.E. do what you did to market yourself to a woman who was YES if….we’re morally, financially, spiritually compatible, same goals on family and you’ve shown that you’re that product.

    4. A legitimate Yes girl as opposed to sluts have submitted to you.
      A Yes Slut will do away with her body but not her soul man. She’ll only commit once her prime is over and there’s no more joy to be had.
      The Yes Girl Kyle is talking about is that girl who would give you her body, mind, and soul. These girls are hard to come by but they are there.

      1. “A Yes Slut will do away with her body but not her soul man. She’ll only commit once her prime is over and there’s no more joy to be had.”
        True — a Yes Slut will ‘commit’ (if that’s the correct term for it) once her prime is over, but only for the simple reason that she has nothing to offer to the guy that she ‘commits’ to.
        And her ‘commitment’ is a weak and false one — it will end at any time, usually when she’s ‘bored’ with the commitment that she made; then it’s time for ‘cash and prizes’ in Frivorce Court.

  4. I don’t want to alarm anyone, but it appears the girl in that second photo isn’t wearing panties.

      1. Hey, I like pussy. No fucking way I’d kiss Priebus, no matter how much his fleshy head looks like a clit.

  6. There are two types of women ………Bitches and Whores.
    Whores fuck everyone
    Bitches Fuck everyone except for you

    1. Bitches, Sluts, and Whores. 3-types:
      Bitches – as stated, fuck everyone except you (a bitch to you, is a slut or whore to another man).
      Sluts – fuck because they love to fuck, pleasure, & thrills, may or may not be sex addicts, some are.
      Whores – fuck for any reason other than the pleasure of sex. $$, Status, Revenge, Fix her car, Fund her lifestyle, Your time (aka attention whore), Drug addiction. There has to be some clear transaction at some point, within the span of 3-sex sessions usually they’ll spring it on you if you haven’t already offered.. then it will continue. Whores try their best to set precedence.

      2. What in the hell is a sex addict? No such thing. Addiction is a highly overused term.

        2. Sexual addiction is very real, nothing else explains women callously fucking 100’s to 1000’s of male strangers

        4. That is very rare outlier. I think we guys over- estimate how many guys most young women fck.

    2. There are two types of females in this world.
      Prostitutes and Whores.
      Prostitutes take money for sex.
      Whores are everyone else.
      – AutomaticSlim, 1988

        3. Dude, that’s like a C note. Carry 10 of them in your wallet, and that’s go fuck off money.

    3. Or as the old story goes:
      A gentleman was sitting beside a young attractive, self assured woman at a dinner party.
      The gentleman then asks: “Would you have gone to bed with me for 1 million dollars?”.
      The woman looks at him for a while and finally says: “Yes”.
      Whereupon the gentleman counters: “Would you have gone to bed with me for two dollars?”
      The woman answers indignantly: “Of course not. What do you take me for? A prostitute?”
      The gentleman: “THAT we have already established. The only thing we are discussing now is the price”.

  9. Funny: I read this article this afternoon, went out tonight and met a “yes girl” at a bar (7.5 in a room full of limited choice) a few hours later. I blew it. Digits, but no action. It would’ve been a sure thing, if I left with her 30 minutes into the interaction. Logistics were lined up perfectly. But I was having a good time with the room, and I stretched it out too far. I’m not sure when I lost frame. But, it is bothering me, like an itch in the brain. Weird.

    1. It happens, all you can do is learn from your mistakes. I thought I was rolling but I fucked up recently. No one’s perfect

  10. I think this is overcomplicating something which is very simple really.
    If you are both single, all you have to do is chat and then casually say that ‘it would be nice to do something together sometime’.
    If she likes you, she will simply say yes to it. No shit tests or any of that nonsense. If she ums and aahs then just say ‘OK’ continue chatting for a while and politely make excuses to exit. No need to be an ass.
    I guess the real point is this: use common sense-if a girl doesn’t enthusiastically agree to a meet-up, you ARE wasting your time.
    Don’t be all female and try to hamster excuses for her saying no. The obvious answer is usually the right one. No agreeing to meet, no tingles.
    How come something so simple got so complicated?

  11. The purpose of game is not to sell yourself to the the yes girl. The purpose of game is to sell yourself to the maybe girl (neutral) and to flag the no girl from the get go so you don’t waste time and money and to increase the number of yes girls by self improvement. I feel that when you become vetran in the game you start developing a sniper instinct. The most important thing is to develope a nose that smells girls who gonna take you for a ride from a mile away. Hey…it’s a numbers game after all and always go for the No

  12. Ummmmm.. yeah… you lost me there Kyle when you asked my brain to compare my frame with that of Justin Bieber. Now it could be that you’re just really young and that’s the first guy you think of when it comes to thinking of dudes who can easily get laid. I honestly don’t know.
    But as soon as I read an article on ROK that equates ANYTHING to “Justin Beiber”.. I pretty much tune out.

  14. If you want to put energy into seduction, save that energy for a good woman (very rare, but they exist), not for lizard-brained PUA targets. If a woman loses sexual interest in you because you talked to her like a fellow adult human being, then she’s a bad woman, and you should move on. If you’re just horny, research the prostitution sector in your city.

  15. finally! a decent article who doesn’t workship women’s arses but it is focused on YOU! well, yes! spend your time with yes girls, otherwise you will be used like a buffon/atm/provider and criticized in the future, DO as you please, keep yourself in shape, eat well, enjoy your life, reach your goals and women (yes women) will eventually come around. DO NOT entertain bitches in bar/discos or giv’em drinks at all!! if they will insist tell them “ok.. let’s go to the toilet, i’ve a special drink for you 100% biological!”
    Thanks for sharing Kyle Trouble

  16. I just come to read the comments. And laugh at you guys. I laugh with you as well. But for most part, I just laugh at you.

  17. If I cannot get a woman to even like me as a person, then I would think that she is not worth it.
    There are plenty of gorgeous women especially in Ukraine, Philippines, Colombia, etc.
    I can go to any of those countries and easily find who I want for what I want.
    In the United States or some Westernized country, I (like any other man) must have money, charm, good looks, etc. in order to win the heart of any attractive woman.

  18. If you bring twenty toe curling techniques to the party, you will have the proper mindset. What’s that you ask? “Who is the lucky girl”?

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