Man Faces 15 Years In Prison After Recording His Wife Having Sex With Another Man

Via NY Post:

A New Jersey florist using the “Find My iPhone” app to track down a lost gadget stumbled into a prickly situation — his naked wife in bed with her boss.

And now, the cuckolded hubby is facing up to 15 years in prison for his snooping.

“I feel like it’s unjust what they’re doing to me,” Sean Donis, 37, lamented to The Post. “It’s like I’m being punished twice.”

The Clifton man used his cellphone to record two brief videos of the hot-and-heavy session when he confronted his wife and her lover more than a year ago.

He broke down crying when he shared them with The Post.

The first, a seven-second clip, shows Nancy Donis going at it with Albert Lopez in the dimly lit master bedroom of his Rockland County, NY, home on April 15, 2016.

As Sean takes in the seamy spectacle, he exclaims, “Wow!” and Nancy hops off her lover before Sean drops his phone in shock.

The next video, 35 seconds long, shows Nancy and Lopez covering up as Sean berates his wife.

“All on video! All on video! . . . I can’t believe you, Nancy. I can’t believe you,” Sean says.

“Stop. Please, stop. Stop. OK, I get it. I get it. Stop,” she pleads.

Lopez angrily orders him out of the house and the phone gets jostled during an apparent struggle before Sean says, “Don’t worry, I’m leaving,” and the video ends.

Home where the cheating occurred

Earlier that day, Nancy asked her husband to watch their son, now 5, so she could go to dinner with friends in Elizabeth, NJ, according to Sean.

At one point during the evening, he noticed the boy’s iPad was missing and activated the “Find My iPhone” app.

The software showed the device traveling toward Rockland, Sean said, stirring fears he had been harboring about Nancy, who at the time worked with Lopez in the billing department at an orthopedics office in Clifton.

“She would hide her phone. I’d touch the phone — she would get very nervous and say, ‘No, don’t touch my phone.’ She’d go to work looking extra pretty. And she lost a lot of weight also,” he recalled.

Sean had his mother watch the boy while he got in his car and followed the signal to Pomona. There, he found Nancy’s Ford Edge parked outside the sprawling home Lopez, 58, owns on a quiet, tree-lined cul-de-sac.

The front door was unlocked, Sean said, so he walked in and headed upstairs, where “I saw what I saw” and “screamed a little bit.”

Nancy, 38, subsequently filed for divorce and her six-year marriage to Sean was dissolved in February, court records show.

But Sean got a July 20 letter informing him a Rockland grand jury had indicted him on charges of felony burglary and unlawful surveillance.

He pleaded not guilty last month and is due back in court on Sept. 20.

Defense lawyer Howard Greenberg predicted Sean would be fully exonerated.

“He commits a trespass that in a sane jurisdiction is a violation and not a crime, and he uncovers the greater evil of his wife screwing some stranger,” Greenberg said. “No jury is going to convict this man of anything, let alone a felony.”

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78 thoughts on “Man Faces 15 Years In Prison After Recording His Wife Having Sex With Another Man”

  1. There should be a suspension of minor assault if a man catches his wife cheating. You can’t expect a man who just discovered his life could be over to respond calmly like a worm.

    1. You claim temproary insanity in such a “crime of passion,” which is really no crime at all IMHO.
      THe distrubing element here is that a Grand Jury found probable cause to move ahead with felony charges. Unvelievable!
      In his defense, the husaband should drag out old property laws, which are liekly still on the books, to claim that he was the one robbed of his chattel (i.e. wife) and he was merely locating his stolen property.
      In some countries this would have been dealt with in the reverse fashion — promptly, and harsly for the adulterous wife.

        1. Dumb Cuck Ravi can go video himself trying to suck his own wet noodle. There is NO Deed listing for an Albert Lopez in Rockland County, NY, -It is NOT REAL- AND~ the trick to stories like this is manosphere losers are supposed to think this will “turn the legal tide” in their favor by its excess. Instead you will have Senator (((Lawmaker))) passing legislation that ALL VIDEO/MEDIA will be held as inadmissible. See the writing on the wall for once…

    2. Thats another reason why women should be property and the state should not regulate whether a man has the right to beat her or not. Its his property.

    3. Couldn’t agree more. There is absolutely no deterrent in cheating with some other dudes wife if in the scenario where you might be discovered, all he can do is 100% restrain himself for fear of mid-level criminal charges ruining the guys life even further (assault, battery, etc.)
      I think France has the most favorable laws in the world for letting these guys get off the hook for roughing up their spouses cheating partner a bit, even if it’s premeditated. Good for them I say.

      1. The problem with the state regulating when can he and when can he not beat his wife is that, in practice, the state could say that such a particular occasion did not warrant the right to beat her.
        You see, there is a lot of pseudo conservatives who say: a man’s house is his castle, but when it comes to give him his right, they don’t allow him to rule.
        If it is indeed his castle, then he should be allowed to rule over it shouldn’t he?

      2. I’ve cucked guys before. If the husband wanted to meet up and fight me then that’s fair. I like to fight anyway. In fact I actually pay for the privilege to train and fight at a local MMA club 3 times a week. But if someone breaks into my house I’m grabbing my AR-15 and putting a round in his head. I’d be 100% legally justified in my state as well.
        Cucks beware! When you enter someone elses’ house you’re taking your life into your own hands.

    4. Screw her, go and f**k two other broads in retaliation. She ain’t worth a jail stint through corrupt courts, EVER.

    5. A wife can destroy a marriage by cheating on her faithfull husband. File for divorce. Losses his kids. Half or more of his possessions house, cars. When he held up his end. I still can’t believe laws haven’t changed. Hasn’t enough men in power or money been screwed over by their wife yet to get this changed?

    6. Neomasculinity folks…
      1. Look at her and look at him. She is clearly a more attractive woman than he is a man. Their marriage probably didn’t start out that way. He got fat and she got better. Of course she would upgrade.
      2. Traditional roles. They have a 5 year old child. Why the hell is she working and going out with friends and he is at home watching the child?
      3. His life is only over because he is a beta male. His wife has a job that pays decent money. He probably won’t have to pay alimony and might even get custody. Now he’ll be a lonely beta male.
      4. She fucked the alpha. Look at her bosses house. I’ll bet it didn’t take much to drop the panties when she saw that house.
      Use neomasculinity and avoid this situation (that doesn’t mean avoid marriage)

    7. Stupid Roosh is now philosophizing about FAKE NEWS stories from the NY POST.. which is barely a tabloid. The details of this FAKE story include the use of the Find My iPhone “feature app”.. which is nothing more than an ADVERTISEMENT for the ICloud plus Apple LostPhone plus Google Maps total police-state level, inescapable even if your phone battery is dead, surveillance technology. The real message is that you are being tracked at all times but cannot use to assist or defend yourself in court. Total FAIL.

      1. You dumb ass ! Even if this news is not true/correct, it is faaaaaaar better than the FAKE and MISLEADING news mentioned below:
        =Half of U.S population believes that Trump committed crime !
        =Trump failed with his promises !
        =Natural disaster happened because of Trump !
        =Trump administration will be out of Office !
        Losers & scumbags like you are a mere “pile of shit” !

  2. Meanwhile a women dumped her boyfriend just because he complained that her vagina smelled like fish, and the headline in New Yorker was “You Go Girl”

    1. Any female Rachael-Ray type on TV would be the first to tell you not to buy fish that smells fishy.
      How much more should women warn us not to touch vag that smells of fish.

      1. God came out of heaven to address Adam.
        Adam, where the hell is Eve?
        She’s over there. In the ocean getting a swim.
        Fuuuuuck! I’ll never get that smell out of there.

  3. ““No jury is going to convict this man of anything, let alone a felony.”
    I wouldn’t trust the feminazi-run justice system on that.

    1. That would be a good excuse to riot. Men should take a knee whenever females speak to protest it.

  4. stop fucking sluts. If you picked wrong too bad. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off your still a man who can make money. This is obviously satanic giving Eve so much power over her Adam. If a woman screws you it sucks, try not to kill yourself, we already lost too many brothers. And it as much the guy who fucked this married hos fault as well. If we didnt wife up these post wall sluts then none of this shit would not happen. My neighbor is always up and downing me even though shes got a perfectly fine beta providing for her. They fight all the time because he knows he fucked up and she wants to trade up. Too bad a baby is involved now just like this poor guy. His frame is pretty weak he is even afraid to look into a camera. We should be more critical where was this guys dad when he wifed up a ho.

    1. There is a lot of cans of tuna on store shelves, the ONLY difference between them is the label.
      Men should not marry or settle down with one particular label…EVER. Never sign a contract, and ditch the bitch before common law marriage happens even if only for a few months to stop the clock. No sane man (trust me on this after my own experiences) should EVER SIGN A MARRIAGE LICENSE/CONTRACT. Have your kids if you wish, but you have no sane reason to get married if you sign the birth certificates with your last name with the kids first name, giving you legal right to their custody without surrendering your freedom from oppressive state enforced bullshit civil contract

      1. @Deplorable
        Don’t know who are those twa*s that “down voted” you ! May be a manginas or could also be “ungrateful” c%~ts !!

        1. you know, i could actually care less. if down votes are people triggered by my comments, i rather have a hundred down votes and be true to myself and my viewpoint and not care that its accepted in echo chamber. i dont care if my opinion is accepted or hated. who in their right mind upvotes a grim reality that is bitter truth when its a reflection of how people really feel? Isn’t the self confidence of knowing that i might be unpopular but unafraid of putting my name on it an owning it, no matter the outcome more important? is it not more important to have a strong opinion and voice it well enough to evoke a strong response the best indicator of red pilling? merely getting someone to think outside of their comfortable globe of reality is the goal, to break their conditioning and shatter the protective glass globe they live in, then ive succeeded with voicing my opinion. if success is measured by a larger vote count, so be it, it is not an indicator of how popular i am, but how well read my opinion is. exaftly what comment boards are meant for and why people feel that topic minded trollers are so bad and hated. some troll to be seen, some troll to be heard, but some troll to CHANGE THE PARADIGM OF THOUGHT. if I can be a person who fatally beats feminisms and cultural marxisms facade of societal acceptance and its cancerous nature into the ground for all to see, ive done my part.

        2. how does love for your kids have any difference behind the filter of a piece of paper civil contract or religious blessing? you either do or dont regardless of a stamp of approval from a marriage oath before god or a court, your love for your kids exists. it is no less or more meaningful with an external blessing or church or state that has zero to do with its expression or source. besides your love for kids should not run through their biological mothers connection either. adopted children often are loved as deeply as biological ones, and the mother is not involved, nor should a man love his kids BECAUSE OF THEIR BIOLOGICAL WOMB. Your kids are a seperate entity independent of her womb, and should not make their place in a mans heart conditional on it. a father will always be a father regardless of their mother when men cut out the agency of the womb that gave birth to them. current paradigm seeks to have men belive that the womb must remain in that connection. fact is , as long as the womb is always the filter that kids are seen through, men never really have a solid connection to their kids, BECAUSE ITS BY FEMINISMS DESIGN AND PROGRAMMING. once a man gets past that conditioning, then he has an unseverable and meaningful bond with his kids.

        3. its why women will kill their kids because they cannot stand that a fathers bond with them is not through her, and is intolerable to feminism conditioning, and results in femnism true hatred of men, expressed by the womb killing the people most important to a father. that fact is expressed daily through the murder suicides that women do and is reported on daily.

  5. Look up the term “jury nullification”. It is a constitutional principle that says if a jury thinks a law is unjustified, the accused can be declared “not guilty” EVEN IF he was trespassing in fact without a doubt.
    Judges view it as “ignoring the orders of a judge” but our first amendment rights trump that and you are allowed to vote on a jury for any reason whatsoever in any way you see fit.

    1. It’s like in that movie “A Time To Kill”. The lawyer in the end uses emotional manipulation on the jury to get Samuel L. Jackson’s character off two plainly obvious murder charges because it was in revenge for two quote-on-quote white supremacists raping, beating, and peeing on his 10 year old daughter earlier in the story.

  6. “Defense lawyer (((Howard Greenberg))) predicted Sean would be fully exonerated.”
    Well it would be nice if Jews actually fought for the side of good for a change wouldn’t it.

  7. My dad, who I really didn’t get a chance to know until my 20s (absurdly alpha) gave me solid, cogent advice once:
    “Son, you ain’t gotta catch a woman screwin a guy, legs up in the air, in your bed. If you feel like she’s cheating, that’s good enough to get a different one. Guess how many women don’t have a man? Too many for us”.
    Ironically, I grew up with a single mom with 5 kids, though none were born outside wedlock.
    Kids, all these Redpill older guys? It’s all true.

  8. His first and biggest mistake was not hauling her into divorce court first from the first incident. Never forgive, just divorce and try to get the alimony and child support(in support of equality for women).
    Hanging on like that led to those feelings of insecurity & fear to get in a car, drive and walk into someone’s house. Let go, get busy improving yourself, and allow time to do its work to forget her. There will always be someone else to date, you don’t have to remarry.
    1. Become successful in business/career
    2. Self improvement mentally, physically, spiritually.
    3. Kick it forward like all warriors.

  9. According to Biblical and Koranic law this bitch should be stoned to death. Secular law is less harsh but shouldn’t she at least be charged with breach of – marriage – contract? Anyhow, the red flags were there. Padre married the ho when is was 32 years of age…which is old by any standard but particularly for a latina.

  10. In the days of the patriarchy, before women worked outside the home, wives slept with the boss to help their husbands career, not hurt the husband.

    1. wives, according to their whim, also slept with other MEN; despite being provided for and also being given un-conditional, no-strings-attached and absolutely FREE S$x by their MAN/Husband !!
      So stop blaming MEN. Majority of the females are promiscuous, slutty, whorish, bitchy, arrogant, opportunistic, cunning, selfish and “ungrateful” !!

  11. I’m sorry, can’t feel sorry for a dude who didn’t “go postal” when he found them. He needed to create a real crime. The only good part to this story is her boss is going to throw her aside and move on to the other girls he’s banging.

    1. What so he needs to be convicted of manslaughter before you’ll feel sorry for him? A real man recognizes it’s not worth throwing his life away and rotting in jail over some bitch.

      1. Long ago, in my Navy days, we were scheduled to go to sea for a month. The submarine had mechanical issues and the departure got pushed to the next day. One of the crew decided to not call home, but to surprise his wife by showing up. Surprise her he did. She was naked in bed with a another guy. He handled it appropriately. He pulled a quarter out of his pocket, tossed to to the guy, and said, “Here, go get yourself a better woman.” then he told his wife he would be gone for two hours and she should be gone with everything that she wanted by the time he got back. He said he would burn anything of hers he found still there. She was gone and so was her stuff.
        I would hope and pray to have the grace under pressure that this guy exhibited. The quarter was the crowning touch. It acknowledged that she really was just a two bit whore.

        1. Sluts are gonna slut. Better you buddy found out before he had kids with her. If I was in your buddy shoes I would be livid. Maybe slap the whore and physically throw the guy out of my house, any resistance and it would be on, but wait for justification to do so in order to safe myself in court. As I said before if you find them and shoot their ass who really lost? You because you’ll have life in prison.

  12. Most of these guys are pussies asking for it. I met so many ex cons that had a “wife” at home but like willingly get cucked. in practically 99 percent of these guys, there was a mom who left her useless dad. If he didnt beat the fuck out of that guy and end up in jail, this guy is a cuck. The judge would have given him 90 days served or a bunch of community service if its his first offence. That way when he got out he would actually have women who wanted him instead of wanted to use him.

  13. And all these pussies that say you cant get married anymore deserve sluts. enjoy them and the baggage they bring. Even the hot ones are looney toons. This guy did not elevate himself and he impregnated and wifed up a ho. You cant make a ho into a housewife.

    1. You got the touch, bro. You got the Poweeeeeeer! YEAH!
      LOL I gotta watch that movie later.

  14. Filming adultery should not be considered a crime, and it should actually be rewarded. Just think about it, a lot of shit happens in a divorce. I mean, marriage is kind of a contract, you made vows, and now you break the contract. Gathering evidence to take someone to court for breaking a contract is typically very important. The kid is now going to be raised by a single mother. We will have to pay tax money to keep this poor sucker in jail. She will probably get on welfare. And all this because she is a cheating little slut and her husband caught her. You know, I can see someone getting in trouble for releasing video to the public (at least the xxx part of it), but to use it in court should be perfectly acceptable. This is why you don’t get married in the first place. However, the whole walking into someone’s house uninvited is not good, but then again he knew his wife was probably there (maybe getting raped and murdered, right?), and the door was unlocked. A smarter move would have been to just take pictures of her car, then call her and play dumb and ask her where she was, then tell her how it is weird that her car is in front of her bosses house.

  15. what the hell is happening these days… just a bit more and we won’t be able to protect ourselves at all.

    1. huh? Are you saying if a girl hits you, you can hit her back? What country is this? certainly not the west.

  16. You can get away from the law or your husband but you will never get away from God, He will judge you, you whore.

  17. that DA looking for a boost in career.. the grand jury was likely a bunch of bored housewives rooting for excitement, vicariously, over the cheating slut

  18. Needs to get his fat ass in shape, fight that unfaithful whore at every turn, and pull himself some new, younger action. ESPECIALLY because he needs to set an example for his child. Teach the boy his mamma’s actions are unforgivable.

  19. “Defense lawyer Howard Greenberg predicted Sean would be fully exonerated.
    ‘He commits a trespass that in a sane jurisdiction is a violation and not a crime, and he uncovers the greater evil of his wife screwing some stranger,’ Greenberg said. ‘No jury is going to convict this man of anything, let alone a felony.’”
    Who is to say the jury isn’t infected by the man-hating “you go girl” mentality?

  20. I say we should handle it like the ancient pagan greek.
    Shame women who betray their husbands publicly and put a vegetable into the man’s ass….no, this was a real punishment in ancient Greece.

  21. I’m just glad the guy she was banging didn’t pull a gun and shoot the poor bastard. Only thing worse than your wife cheating on you, is the guy shes cheating with killing you.

    1. That scenario you just described will never play out that way with real alpha males, LAalpha. You should know that.

      1. What the fuck are you talking about? This guy illegally entered this man’s home. All the homeowner would have to do is claim hubby was acting aggressively and he acted in self defense then hes off scott free. Well as long as the ho wife keeps her mouth shut.

        1. Depending on the state you live in you don’t have to claim anything. In castle doctrine states if someone breaks into a “an occupied home or vehicle” then the lawful occupant is allowed to use deadly force. No other prerequisites are required.
          The cuck was stupid for entering another man’s home. That’s a good way to get shot. Although I don’t think that he should be charged given the circumstances. The bull was stupid for not locking his door. There’s plenty of fail to go around.

  22. wow, copy pasted article that is not reported in local or any other news but only circulated by shady online outlets.
    yikes, at least try, would you?

  23. The defense lawyer is correct that this is a huge stretch of the penal law.
    Defendant faces two charges, burglary in the second degree and unlawful surveillance in the second degree. The burglary charge carries an indeterminate sentence of 3 1/2 to 15 years.
    The issue is that the burglary charge must be supported by the unlawful surveillance charge; burglary requires a trespass into a dwelling with the intent to commit a crime. In this case the intended crime is the unlawful surveillance. Had he simply walked into the house without recording anything then it would be just a misdemeanor trespass (and appropriately so, as you can’t just walk into strange houses.)
    Whether he committed a crime of unlawful surveillance is questionable. There are several definitions of it in the NY Penal Code that could apply, but most of them require that it be done for “sexual arousal or gratification” or “for no legitimate purpose.” Given the context proving that he made the recording for sexual purposes would be very difficult. So they need to show that he had no legitimate purpose in making the recording. This is also difficult, as the recording is relevant and material evidence concerning their legal relationship of marriage.
    In order to prove burglary they also need to show that at the time he was entering the dwelling that he intended to commit the crime of unlawful surveillance. If he wasn’t recording when he was entering the house that will be very difficult to prove.
    Getting indictments is easy. The prosecution is the only party putting on evidence in front of the grand jury; the prosecutor controls the narrative and what the grand jury gets to see with virtually no oversight. Anymore its just a formality; its rare for a grand jury to refuse to indict.
    Of course theres still a chance he can be convicted. But this is a very thin case for the prosecution, and one that could likely face serious appellate challenges even if they secure a conviction.
    To be clear, he should not have walked into a strange house like that, and he should be found guilty of some form of trespass. Because he thought his wife was inside, or that her phone was stolen and inside, doesn’t change that fact. But the prosecution is wanting to show that when he did enter the house he intended to record his wife and her lover in violation of the Penal Code, and thats not going to be easy for them to do.

  24. There is a tact way to handle this: Don’t tell them you’re recording. When you find out, simply pack your shit, leave, and file for divorce. Reason: Unhappy / whatever a woman would use as the excuse. After divorce is final, then explain you knew she was cheating. Never reveal you are recording.

  25. Women are whores by the virtue of their gender. That is why guys should give up on marriage and long term relationships and pump and dump chicks. Definitely avoid Western women like the plague. They are too ugly and horrible to approach.

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