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How To Meet Girls In High School Without Using Social Media

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If you are like me from a couple years ago, you may find it hard to implement what you have learned from Roosh and other contributors on ROK for one main reason: age.

If you’re still a teenager, night game is out of the picture, because you aren’t even old enough to enter clubs in the first place. Day game outside of school can be tough, because if you are like me, you may look your age (or younger), so there is no way of hooking up with an attractive girl in her twenties at a coffee shop or supermarket.

The next problem is your lack of social media. My entire life, I have never had a social media account such as Twitter, Instagram, or Snapchat. While this is a good thing in terms of productivity, it may hurt your game in your high school years.

The good thing is I have a system for this niche situation that works. I highly recommend reading Roosh’s post “How To Game Young Girls” before you finish reading this article. Although it is written for older men, points 1-4 are spot on.

The reason I am writing this piece is because game among the youth—especially in high school—is heavily reliant on social media nowadays. “Sliding into DMs” is a thing for a reason. Guys can talk to girls over social media without having to deal with conversations in person. Although I was jealous of this aspect of social media, it allowed me to cultivate game in high school, which has treated me well now that I’m an adult.

1. Target Girls Who Are In Your Classes

Getting someone’s Instagram is easy because all you need to do is know their name. Phone numbers are not so easy.

My strategy for getting numbers has never failed me. The next time you see a girl you are interested in, go up to her and make up an excuse related to homework to get her number. Examples include (but are not limited to) “The last page in my packet is unreadable, could you text it to me?” or “I lost my notes from the history presentation on Monday, could you text it to me?” You then proceed to enter her number into your phone, and that’s it.

Although this strategy always seemed to work for me, you can’t gauge her interest in you based upon this alone, though it does get your foot in the door.

2. Get Ready

First things first, pick your target. It helps tremendously if you have a class with her, but you must know the path she takes after class. The reason I first talk to girls between classes is because it gives a smooth point of entry and you don’t have the awkwardness of wondering when to cut off the conversation. Once you need to split off to get to your class, you can just smile and say “See you tomorrow.” Easy as that.

3. Execute Your Plan

After keeping up this up for a little while (judge her comfortability around you), the next step is asking her out. This is as easy as asking her out to coffee after school. If she says yes and doesn’t flake, then that’s all—you’re set. If she responds otherwise, the next step is for you.

4. Get Her Interested (If Possible)

You have to use your own judgment on this step. If the way she responds makes it clear that she is uninterested, then move on to your next target.

WARNING: this is not a club where the women do not know each other. Only use this on one girl per social group. If word spreads, you will come across as desperate by hopping from girl to girl. This happened to a buddy of mine. Don’t let it happen to you. If she responds with a “maybe” or “yes” and then later says she is busy, once again, judge the situation. Most of the time she is trying to get out of it, but in rare cases, they are being sincere.

I want to share my first use of this system and how I got my first ever bang. My first target was a girl with whom I shared two classes. Luckily for me, they were back to back, so I was able to easily talk to her after class as we walked to our next one. After about a week or so of doing this, I asked her out to lunch after school the following day (my mistake, per point two of Roosh’s aforementioned article).

That night (Friday), she texted me saying she was going out of town for the weekend. At this point, I would normally cut things off, but that weekend I was working on an English presentation with one of her friends and out of the blue she showed me an Instagram picture of her (girl I was interested in) skiing saying she was just my type, because she knew I liked to snowboard.

I made the decision of giving her the benefit of the doubt that she was busy by continuing to talk to her, and this eventually led up to my last attempt of asking her out… which was a yes, to my surprise. Two weeks later, I had my first bang. I have used this system a few more times throughout high school and it led me to a numerous amount of bangs between three different girls, and since they were putting out, there was no more need for me to chase after them.

While this is a very niche method, it worked out great for me. Granted, I only got to try it over the span of two school years, but I was still getting laid more than any of my friends, most of which were pussy-whipped in relationships or too afraid to even try.

I look back now at the second half of my high school years and realised how it put me light years ahead compared to my peers in terms of game. While other men my age have become accustomed to game on social media, it has no practicality in the real world. For the young guys out there, I can recommend two things when it comes to building your game:

1. Start now

By starting your game at an early age and learning how to deal with female behavior, it becomes a habit.

Recently, a buddy of mine and I went to get a cup of coffee before we headed to a study group. He went to the bathroom, and while he was gone, I started chatting up a 7 to pass the time. I ended up scoring her number, and my friend came out of the bathroom in shock as he saw me talking to her. For me, it was no big deal because I had had a few years of experience under my belt, but he had never cold approached a woman in his life.

2. Hit the gym

For those who don’t go to the gym, I suggest that you start lifting at least three times a week. For some of you, this may sound odd. Believe me when I say that the gym builds confidence. Coming from a guy who used to be 6’4″ and 120 pounds, you can not understand the type of self-confidence gains you will make, especially if you are underweight or overweight.

Keep reading up on game and female behavior. I recommend Return of Kings and Roosh V’s blog as the two best places to read up on these subjects. Good luck!

Read More: Women Will Never Be Taken Seriously Until They Fight To Be Included In The Draft

40 thoughts on “How To Meet Girls In High School Without Using Social Media”

    1. Dude, I am 29 and I am dating a 17-year-old. It feels amazing to know I am her first everything. You could point a gun at my forehead and I still wouldn’t want to date a 29-year-old woman. Hell no. A young, fresh, tight teen is like a fucking Lamborghini, while a woman past the age of 26 is like a broken Ford Fiesta made in Mexico.

      1. Good for you!! I’m 60, never married, and look at the delusional old sea hags my age. NO WAY!! I keep my distance. Much younger is the only way to go.

      2. I’m 52 and would date & 17 y/o here in NY in a second. And a 16 y/o in CT if I had the chance.
        Have to know the state your in…

        1. “I’m 52 and would date & 17 y/o here in NY in a second. And a 16 y/o in CT if I had the chance”
          But would they date you (assuming you are not simply giving financial incentives) ?

        2. @CB.
          No. But I would only go the financial route regardless. I have no reservations about that.

      3. *GASP*…..
        “You’re just dating her because you’re too immature to handle a woman your own age”
        “She’s just a child”
        “The brain doesn’t develop until 25”
        “You’re a pedophile”
        “She should be sleeping with boys her own age”
        -Your neighborhood feminists

        2. @ Harold
          I’ve had hags and bags on this site reply to me with some of those exact comments!
          They can all go eat shit.
          A female’s net worth is her youth and beauty. They are worthless otherwise.
          May be good for making pot roast and baking pies, but not much else.

      4. That’s my wet dream. I once had the chance to hook up with a girl 13 years my junior. But I blew it for the lack of red pill knowledge. Guess you are a fully red pill guy and won’t ever reveal your beta self to the chick you are dating. If she ever catches a glimpse that, she’s gone.

      5. I hear about this a lot, but I’m confused about the logistics. Other than the mall, where do older guys meet younger women? And more to the point, where do you find younger women who are interested in older guys and aren’t on some “oh, my friends won’t approve” crap?

    2. I was 54 when I married my wife, she was in high school. Our boy was taken to school with her when she was breast feeding. He used to get passed round the class and the teachers.

  2. “How to meet girls in high school without using social media”.
    Dude your in high school. The girls are RIGHT THERE in front of you. Put those lip movement muscles to work and use them.

    1. You can be autistic. I’ve met proof. …but yeah, you can’t aford not to make effort in life. Especially in exercise.

  4. “How to meet girls high school without Social Media?”
    What a limp-dick man-child (or baby) helicopter-parent generation was born in the 1990’s and early 2000’s. This is some sad shit.
    As someone who was 16 in 1990 and came of age in the nineties when I was young it was normal to fuck your Mom’s friend when you were 17, get blowjobs at school in the library, go to prostitutes in Amsterdam on your 20th birthday.
    What a sad generation anybody born after 1985 really is.
    “Social Media”
    WTF has time for social media. It is a lonely hearts club. Who would bother to make a movie and post it on You Tube unless they were getting paid and were an actor.
    …But that is the sad thing about Gen Y. They all wanted to be actors.

      1. KING
        What can you expect of Gen Y? Your Moms were all slacker ho’s getting fucked with Pearl Jam on the radio and watching Winona Ryder movies. So of course you’re a bunch of sad sack media hounds who post yourselves doing “social experiments” on You Tube who are 16 and never even fingered a pussy.
        See your Mom’s Gen X womb was so polluted with all the ditch weed Mexican spinach pot that we smoked back then that you came out all apathetic and slacker-ish.
        So now you sit on Facebook posting your stupid selfies back and forth and think you are a movie star because you posted a video on You Tube.

        1. Boomerfags and Gen X types like you are so ashamed of allowing degeneracy to accelerate in society that you alleviate guilt and responsibility by blaming the next generation.

        2. Hahahaha! 🙂
          Richard you are on fire Dude!
          😀
          PS- I want my $10 LiteCoin Contribution BACK for this crap article!

        3. ROVER
          Gen Y sex
          “She told me she wanted to have sex with me.”
          This aroused me so much that I went home and jerked off to my porn on my internet.

        4. ‘ugh, I’m so tired of conservatives telling us how to live, if only they realized nihilism and being socially liberal is hip” – gen x

    2. In the end everyone that uses “social media” and YouTube unless it’s some demonstration type useful video, it is just attention whoring using technology to reach a bigger audience. it’s just a newer version of physically acting out like some mental case crazed extrovert.

        1. GOOD AND BAD
          I could find any Gen Y on earth. They live their entire life on social media, which anybody born before 1980 find repellent.
          There is an odd chasm between Gen X born in the 70’s and Gen Y born in the 80’s and 90’s. The former is quite private and reclusive while the latter are a tribe of exhibitionists.
          If you watch some police procedural like “First 48” half the time the culprit brags on Facebook that he killed somebody or stated that he would kill somebody and boom he is caught. Or they track him via satellite and he was in proximity of the killing.
          Gen Y cannot get away from social media-also half of them are wannabe porn stars, which is both the result of internet porn and also being raised by parents who watched Boogie Nights.
          So all Gen Y are captured doing everything all the time.
          If somebody is my age (Born in 1974) they have an e mail and that is it. They don’t care about Facebook and think it is a pathetic Lonely Hearts Club.

  5. Good article, good advice. And we go to ROK and Roosh repeatedly because women are incapable of saying the truth about themselves. Like a mythical creature that can’t say it’s own name. And you must never tell them the truth you have learned about them, because they will deny even blatant truth. Best bet, trade tips with guys and look for women who AREN’T SELFISH. That’s how you find relationship girls, and selfishness is easy to spot if you look for it. And that’s my free advice for the day, which is likely worth what you paid for it. Still, I got told to look for selfishness two days ago, and I have to say I’ve not looked at women with that lense so far. In hindsight, saying no to mostly-selfish women would have saved me trouble.

  6. “How To Meet Girls In High School Without Using Social Media”
    Read the first few sentences and realized this article is for high school boys. The title lead me to believe something else…Damn!!!
    “I highly recommend reading Roosh’s post “How To Game Young Girls” before you finish reading this article. Although it is written for older men..”
    I guess I’ll have to read Roosh’s book.

  7. “Coming from a guy who used to be 6’4″ and 120 pounds”
    When I graduated HS, I was 6’1″ and 115 lbs.
    I thought I was the only one…ever.
    Nice to know a fellow “ecto” made it. Good for you!
    I was my strongest in my mid/late 20s.
    185 lbs/17+ biceps.
    Now in early 50s.
    170 & fit & trim with body weight exercises and light weights. The exercise helps fend off old age and the side effects of all the cheap booze.

  9. Tom Leykis has it right. Young guys abstain from girls until you are in your 30s and established in a career, a trade, or entrepreneurship, then go after the 18-25 year olds.

    1. You’d have to be fairly low T to be able to fight your body all those years. Probabl why low t guys do better at school and university as they aint distracted by women so much.

  10. HINT: How to Meet High School Girls
    Wait for school to let out at 2pm,
    Keep your rented R8 blocking the crosswalk,
    Keep UziVert shit-rap at moderate volume with the subs cranked,
    Wait for the bitches to come over to talk.
    Fuck the most nubile ones.
    Repeat until a SJW calls the cops.
    Hahaha! 🙂

  11. go for high school girls if you want . just make sure they are legal age or you will be fucked in the ass by Bubba

  12. Old women trying to dictate the dating game is like poor people trying to dictate the economic system.

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