A lot of bashing of large cities and big city girls has been done on this site and its sister sites in the manosphere. Many points are painfully valid, with which pretty much all of us can identify and agree with. The cost of living, the feminism and the attitude of women (and guys too) make many of the metro areas downright miserable and so undesirable to live in. However, the largest city of them all in the US deserves credit for being seemingly different and significantly better than many other big cities in the us. Here are reasons that New York City, specifically Manhattan, is far superior to Toronto, DC, San Francisco and alike:
1. Convenience & Options
You can’t beat having a fruit stand and a hot dog stand on every corner, as well as multitude of stores and cafes that are open 24 hours a day. No other city in the US offers that. With the multitude of bars, clubs, and restaurants and coffee shops, the options for going out, having a good time and both day and night game are endless. Having a great subway system that can take you just about anywhere and five cabs on every block, makes getting around so easy. Yes, the winter is cold and miserable, but the summer months are quite nice and warm, especially if you don’t have to wear a suit every day.
2. Large Bookstores
I was happy to see during my last visit to NYC that there are still several large Barnes and Noble stores still open and they seem to be quite busy. While in most other cities those social destinations have perished and have been taken away from people, NYC still has them. Bookstores are some of the best places for day game that our children will probably not get the opportunity we enjoy.
3. Less Attitude
You would expect New Yorkers to have a huge attitude problem and go overboard on the douche scale, since they live in one of the biggest and greatest city in the world, considered by many to be the center of the (civilized) world. However, I find both the people and the general vibe in bars, restaurants, and clubs to be far more pleasant than, for instance, in San Francisco. Perhaps it’s the infamous wanna-be effect that SF suffers from. New Yorkers don’t have anything to prove; hence less attitude.
4. Better & Hotter Women
It doesn’t take long after you come to New York to realize that you are surrounded by a large number of some of the most beautiful women in the world. It seems like Manhattan attracts the best looking women of every kind and race. While they might not be as sweet as their Colombian, Brazilian or Polish peers, the women in Manhattan seem to be friendlier, happier and less hostile to men. This is in large part due to a more favorable ratio of men to women, at least in Manhattan. It’s hard to be a bitch if there are ten girls standing behind you who are as hot or hotter than you are. You will also have a hard time finding fat women here (except for tourists from other states).
For example, standing by the entrance to the Time Warner Center during the busier hours, you will see one hot woman after another walking in and out. Admittedly, I didn’t have too many interactions with women during my recent visit but my general impression is that there are plenty of professional, accomplished women who are also not masculinized and are very much interested in meeting guys and dating. Unlike in San Francisco, they don’t separate themselves from the world with sunglasses and headphones and they seem to be far less glued to the cellphones than the Bay Area female crowd. I am well aware of all the rough, ghetto girls who bless Brooklyn, Jersey and surrounding areas with their presence. However, Manhattan, in large due to the far higher cost of living, keeps that element away.
5. Clean & Safe
Manhattan seems to be surprisingly clean and safe. Given the population and the amount of traffic, the job that the city does these days maintaining its appearance is nothing short of impressive. Women seem to be far more comfortable walking alone at nght, and they don’t have the same fear in their eyes that you would see in other big cities. There seems to be very little space left for petty criminals and gangbangers in an area where you won’t find a one-bedroom to rent for under $3,500.00.
If you haven’t been to New York recently, I highly recommend to visit – even if just for a weekend – to ingest some real city energy during the day and at night, and see some of the most beautiful women you might have ever seen.
I just have to address #4.
NYC is where the money is so all these ‘beautiful’ women come here. You wouldn’t see them if this was Detroit.
And yes, they can be easy to talk to but they can be very bitchy too, especially if you’re not seen as a guy who has ‘it.’ How many times do people need to go over this? How many times have game gurus stressed that if you don’t have what these women are looking for, you’re gonna need to have ‘tight game’ to get these women into bed?
It’s easier taking the path of least resistance than to deal with tightening up your ‘game’ anyway. It just takes more time to build but it’s something that you can’t fake and naturally becomes a part of you. We all know what this is.
And the women here are VERY attached to their phones. The phone on one hand, the Starbucks coffee on the other and some UGG boots. Sometimes you see a group of 4 women walking side by side looking the exact same way.
You’d think this was ‘Sex and the City’ played out in real life.
QUOTE: “It’s easier taking the path of least resistance than to deal with tightening up your ‘game’ anyway. It just takes more time to build but it’s something that you can’t fake and naturally becomes a part of you. We all know what this is.”
A one-way ticket to the Philipine Islands?
Money talks. You can make that happen if you have enough
$100 goes a long way in the red light district…… but that’s not my thing….
Dating today is a bigger ‘red light district’ with women who are probably more sexually experienced than before… except they don’t literally carry the title around lol
But your choice is your choice.
“especially if you’re not seen as a guy who has ‘it.’
You’re really not so naive that you can believe that a female who does “have it” is going to bother with you if you’re not in her class. All the game in the world won’t work. Your so called “tight game” may only work within classes.Besides, you wouldn’t fit in with the top people if you are some garbage man from Haarlem.
I liked New York City women. Don’t know about them being the best. Seeing as I have low game, but high value otherwise, I would say that they are still friendlier and better than Uk women. Still, there wasn’t as much talent as I expected there to be (although I lived in midtown in Winter, summer might be better). I was kinda disappointed.
NYC women are great but they are neurotic and I dont know if they make good LTR value. However, outside of Europe, I think most women have that problem. I definately found women outside the northeast of the US to be more ‘normal’. I really wanted to find the northeastern women to be valuable, but despite their charms, i felt like they had a string of chaotic relationships and didnt know how to keep men.
I think more and more women are becoming ‘ghetto’ nowadays. That usually isnt good as it means more masculinity and less good looking girls. So, does that mean a future of thuggy looking girls?
Perhaps in contrast to NYC and the US, Ive found being monied means nothing in the UK dating wise; ive found having more free time and being in the girl’s social groupings to be the bigger predictor of success nowadays. This is, of course, doing nothing for my motivation in wanting to be a successful professional, though I know that pursuing my course of study to the end will lead to a perhaps easier life in the longer run.
I’m still not convinced.
Moving to a city like NYC might make sense of if you want to establish yourself in your career if you’re just starting out, but it’s not a place I’d choose once I’d get older. On the other hand, NYC, like Boston and Chicago, have ethnic neighborhoods with roots back several generations that give such neighborhoods their flavor and vibe, unlike places like DC with more transients and more artificial neighborhoods, bolstered by suburban and bedroom community mentalities. In short, if it weren’t for the government jobs there, DC would be the anomaly it’s always been since the late 18th century.
Personally, I don’t care about the list above, along with NYC’s numerous cultural opportunities, if the cost of living is prohibitive and I’d be forced to live in a shithole or the ‘burbs of Connecticut and New Jersey and do the commute twice a day. Most people want to live in Manhattan, and this drives up the rents. Also, Manhattan might be cleaner than it once was back in the 70s and 80s, but there are still several areas in the boroughs, which is where the average Joe with the average income would be living, where you find trash on the streets and ghettoized folks. The city under Giuliani just did a better job of moving the undesirables out of Manhattan and out of sight from the tourists.
Finally, a former New Yorker once wrote on her blog that NYC is a city of “maximizers.” These folks want the best and work to get the best. So, NYC is a great place to find the best of nearly everything. But, the flip side is that maximizers tend not to be satisfied for very long, always looking for the next new thing. Apply this to chicks and you get their hypergamy ramped up. If the average chick can get the attention from the i-banker, she’ll likely be maximizing.
As a lifelong New Yorker I can attest that much of this is true.
And about #4, Ace is right. The women hare are very much attached to their phones, though maybe not as much as women elsewhere are. You’re also likely gonna need to up your game because they’ll likely be expecting more than women elsewhere will (although in the world of feminism, women do expect quite more than they’re worth to begin with).
Agreed that overall it’s pretty solid, but I’d also add that it’s definitely not clean. Subway stations are glorified landfills and you’ll see both men AND women spitting onto the tracks when waiting for trains daily.
what do you think you’re worth, moron? A fraction of nothing? If humans aren’t considered equal, you’re at a major loss!
I love NYC, but I feel it is overpriced.
Then you had better stay out of London, Paris and Moscow.
Hey Paris is affordable. I know people there living with 1500 Euros a month, maybe put 2300 Euros to rent with flatmates.
NYC is one of those places I would visit (since I’m not too far) if I had any money laying around, but I wouldn’t live there if I didn’t have a good job there.
I lived in NYC area and the women will flat out ask you where you live when meeting you. That is the atmosphere.
I’ve never had this happen but then perhaps they could just tell. They seem to know these things instinctually or by some little “tell”.
And what do you mean by the NYC area? Jersey City? Give me your zip code.
Women can smell money. When you have it, you’re gonna be getting these dreamy looks you wouldn’t get otherwise. Women who’d make all kinds of excuses to not be around you when you didn’t have it, suddenly want you.
That’s the phoniness of women.
It’s a combination of things including money. Poor people generally have a lot of other defects.Even some rich man who for some reason lost all of his money may still do well with females when he may be considered a has been. A has been is still a lot better than a neverwuzzer.
This is why you don’t give direct answers to these boring ass questions women ask. It’s like you can’t have any fun talking to them if you do.
But the fact that they even ask you these questions means that they already think of you as a beta and are just making sure.
Better to keep your mouth shut and be thought a beta than opening your mouth and removing all doubt.
as I wont date women from the Bronx, cry me a river buster
This is happening everywhere. In Buenos Aires, it´s living in the Palermo neighborhood. About NYC, I had a conversation once with one girl from there, where I explained her that the amount of money that she considered normal for a NYC guy for one year of work would suffice to live ten years anywhere else.
What makes NYC great to me is that if it sank into the Atlantic tonight, my world wouldn’t skip a beat. No seriously, NYC is overrated and is about as clean and safe as a prison shower room. Next time, put clean and safe in scare quotes when referring to NYC.
Wow, you are a complete know nothing!
yeah, clearly never been here. No city is clean, and Austin is not a city. have fun in Kansas.
admittedly i visited new york in the winter, but i found it to be a filthy dump. some interesting people in lower Manhattan, but the rest of the city is third world and worse, because at least third world has real freedom…..
east brooklyn, harlem, bronx, it is a stinking shithole…. ok great city, but surrounded by hell on earth.
my friends used to love to proclaim new york the king of the world, it’s more like the drunk prince that’s lying in the gutter pissed his pants and covered in vomit.
london is the king of the world, all the money flows through london not new york and even the most deprived parts of london are a paradise compared with new york.
The money flows through the City but that’s owned by Americans and other foreigners.
London also has quite a few shitholes. What about places like Peckham, Hackney, Deptford etc?
When people talk about NYC they mean Manhattan not those other places that no one goes to. Even those other places would be nice if their populations were deported.
This is absolutely correct. I’ve lived in both London and NYC in the past year and there’s no comparison. Better transportation, much cleaner, and from what I found much friendlier women. NYC might have the edge on beauty, but only slightly.
This is absolutely correct. I’ve lived in both London and NYC in the past year and there’s no comparison. Better transportation, much cleaner, and from what I found much friendlier women. NYC might have the edge on beauty, but only slightly.
Paris for the culture and the je-ne-sais-quoi, just walking the streets is already a pleasure; Buenos Aires for the rough feeling of a great city awakening to destiny (and the women, of course); Bangkok for the craziness and the extreme beauty of the islands oh so close, it is the city in an eternal state of a backpacking trip.
I have an opportunity to work in Sydney, Australia for a while. Anyone has any experience or advice on living there? Thanks!
Just don’t say g’day, mate or put another shrimp on the barbie.
Thanks, how about Aussie women? Are they pretty much the same as American women?
Google the RooshV forums for that topic. I think Heartiste and Gavin Madden have also covered Aussie women.
Fat with bad accents?
yeah, slobby drunken western women, sort of a combo between american and british women, with misplaced canadian arrogance on steroids
I found them really nice, especially after they hit the 28-30 mark. And for some obscure reason they seem to like me a lot.
The NYC-as-center-of-world meme is amusing and really only believed by those who live there.
Go to Singapore or Hong Kong in 5 years and ask any random person on the street if they can even find New York on a map.
Most Americans can’t find NY on a map
Going there next week-end, staying in the Chelsea area. Any tips for nice places? Especially restaurants and cafes.
Going there next week-end, staying in the Chelsea area. Any tips for nice places? Especially restaurants and cafes.
Go to the Meat Packing District, anywhere between Hudson Street and 10th ave, and from 14th St to down to 12th street. I recommend Fig & Olive (eclectic), Sea (Thai), and The Standard Grill (American fare), Dos Caminos (Mexican), Spice Market (nouveau Asian).There’s also a huge beer garden next to the Standard as well.
There’s also Morimoto’s on 10 Ave, sushi, $$$$$$ but incredible. Buddakan on 9th and 16th has a great little bar swarming with hot women during happy hour and is also an upscale Chinese restaurant, the food is pretty awesome there.
Check out the rooftop bar/lounge/night club at the Ganesvoort Hotel at night, you won’t be sorry. Go to Chelsea Markets too, some little cafes and small organic restaurants in there.
Check out the High Line for a stroll for day game.
All in all, there are SO MANY WOMEN in that area, day and night, you’re head will SPIN.
Stay thirsty my friend.
In the 80’s the meat packing district was like a ghost town at night so was the financial district so things have changed and have also become more gentrified.
Where to go? That depends on your age and what you want. I’ve never liked clubs and haven’t been in one since Studio 54 was open lol and that was only because I knew the owners.
Try the upper East side bars etc Don’t know what they are like today but in the past were known as singles bars so you get the idea :o)
Chelsea’s great but its a gay neighborhood, so for women I would head down to the meatpacking district, Great recommendations below but STK club, Gansevoort, Standard Hotel are good places to start. Chelsea has a great Colicchio restaurant called Cook Shop, as well as Colicchio & Sons and Del Posto if you want some fine food.. The West Village is great too for going out, great bars and restaurants and women everywhere. I live on the UES and while its fun, dont come here 🙂
For day time West Village and Washington Sq Park are terrific, and Soho is nice to walk around in if you like to shop. Nolita is a nice spot too, on into little Italy and Chinatown.
What about interracial gaming/dating? In (certain parts of) Western Europe that’s no big deal, how about NYC?
Not that big a deal in NYC either.
People pretty much stay within their class and race, although not exclusively and engage in the same activities. You may see some Asian girls at places frequented by Whites but rarely black girls. Manhattan has about 1m people and 1/2 of them are not even from there, this was true in the past as well. You have many European females and no they don’t change because they’re still living among the same sort of people.Perhaps if they’ve lived in a more typical American town they would.
I’ve lived in one of the NYC boroughs all my life and NYC is an quite incredible place, no doubt. No.’s 3 and 4 above are somewhat accurate, but many of the hottest women you’ll meet in Manhattan are always transplants from somewhere else. IMO, this means that they’re going to have a little more attitude than the native NY’ers and most likely won’t make good LTR’s…. but they like to party. The looming problem though is that the hottest women here DEMAND that you and your occupation are valuable and interesting enough to meet the approval of their friends and co-workers because I went through that a few times myself and observed it everywhere else. Your game needs to be super tight to get the hottest ass. It’s tiring in the long run but exhilarating in the short.
Yes, we have our share of gold-digging, status seeking, materialistic bitches who can put a value on your bank account just by looking at you once, even before you speak, but here in NYC, everybody loves a good conversation and if you’ve got decent game and have a friend here that can get you into a decent social circle, you’ll have a good time, opportunity to branch out, and have great opportunities to meet women.
It’s changed dramatically here even before 9/11 but it’s accelerated over the past 5-7 years. The cost of living in Manhattan is just ridiculous, they’ve even pushed up past 96th St (the longtime border between “good for white people”-south of, and “no go for white people, north of) and are gentrifying well into the 100 blocks, east and west. This means a lot more non-whites are flooding into the boroughs, New Jersey, and Westchester. My little area went from very white to hardly white in about 10 years.
All in all, NYC is still the best place, at least in the US. I really like L.A. and Miami, didn’t like SF and Boston as far as other cities I’ve been to in the US.
Here here.
New York is in many regards the best city for picking up HIGH quality women. What people don’t realize is that that crappiness and expensiveness of the city actually works to a man’s favor there. In Manhattan, no matter how special/hot a girl thinks she is, she still has to ride that smelly subway just like everyone else and sit next to a fat construction worker. She lives in a shoebox just like everyone else and there are not thousands, not tens of thousands, but literally hundreds of thousands of other women just like her trying to “make it” and feel special. It’s no the kind of place you’ll “get” after a quick visit because it’s so overwhelming, but I think with just a little bit of social acuity you can do well there.
Perfect example. I’m moving from a small city in central Florida filled with entitled closed off sorority chick brats to NYC soon. So I switched my profile location to NYC and clearly stated that I was just MOVING to NY in a month or two. The response rate jumped through the roof, and I was even able to set up TWO dates for the WEEKEND I came up to visit the city in preparation for my move. Oh, and I also met a hot dutch girl on the plane (going to NY for a month long school) and took her on a a date too. – at this point I have to break and say that once you even have any kind of remote “in” with the city, there are TONs of super hot tourist chics and recent transplants that will love to hang out with you just to show them around.
The competition keeps the NY girls to keep there shit together. You simply don’t see nearly as much at the “juicy” sweatpant/flipflop bs you see in the rest of America. I still heartily prefer a place like EE/Germany/France/Swiss/Italy, but for America, this is the best you can get overall.
Last simple point – where else can you have ready access to models and supermodels in such great numbers? Even if it’s just via seeing them on the street and still impossible to approach, that’s still more exposure than 99% of men will ever get in their life. With a little bit of due diligence, you can turn many of those exposures into opportunities.
No one has mentioned this but there isn’t parity between New York City and other cities in terms of the people you meet. There are people who exist in NY whose counter-part doesn’t exist in Denver or other smaller time cities.
I was born and raised in NYC, been reading the Manosphere for years and let me tell you – you are way off.
1. No argument there
2. You should see the people who frequent these bookstores. The Roosh day game of picking up a cute chick at a bookstore doesn’t happen in NYC. They are plugged into their iPhone, listening to music and are not so open to conversation. The quality of girls which are actually in the bookstore – below 5. You have to wander the hipster/artistic section to find anything under 130lbs. Also, NY is fast-paced, girls get the book and get out.
3. That’s just crazy. NYers are self-absorbed and consider themselves above everyone. Anyone who has lived in their shitty 3-bedroom with roomates consider themselves a “true NYer.” The SF scene from what I’ve seen is better, a more laid-back California vibe. “Who are you?” are what the girls ask. You better suit up to get quality most of the time – which sucks. If you have 100% game… sure, just wear a wife-beater. But that’s not your readership.
4. The women of Manhattan are less hostile to men than POLISH women? I’ve been there and that’s just insane. The men-to-women ratio -have you been reading the NY Beta Times? Any hot girl is going to be hit on by guys every night, many of them good-looking investment bankers. Their confidence is through the roof, because as better-looking American women with “high-powered” office jobs, their confidence is through the roof.
5. Clean and safe, yes. But living in Manhattan is unaffordable.
Lifelong NYer my ass! You stumbled out of the Bronx once maybe. You haven’t a clue what life is like in Manhattan( of which was reffered to in this post) and it’s too bad you’ve missed out, learn not to be so bitter. The city has a great underground that doesn’t discriminate, it’s raw and real. I’m not surprise a sorry group of misogynists can’t buy a clue! Losers
I would have to agree, very bitter, probably didnt make it here so he left. I used to be homeless and 20 years later have a great career, apartment and life. NYC sucks if you are poor, that is true. But when I was poor here in 1993 I still got laid. Its all about your attitude. I never pick up at bars. I only hit on chicks in day game, thats the only real game here in NYC. And if you dress with current clothes on, you are fine.
I have to agree with you on some points if not all. I have been living in the Bronx (so make your judgements based on that!) for the last 17 years but go to the City every now and then during weekends. I do have a good job (I’m 30 now) and own my condominium here, which is of course is much less than attempting to buy one even remotely close to the city, but still more than buying the same one upstate.
I have the impression that Manhattan is indeed overrated on just about everything. I have started going out more in either Queens or Brooklyn lately instead. You’re not “living” in Manhattan if you are crammed up in a two bedroom with 2 or 3 other roommates, like most youngsters do.
Thanks for writing this post as I am tired of trying to explain this to my buddies. Had a good friend who I used to stay with in Manhattan. I honestly found it was 10 times easier to pick up 7 and 8’s in Manhattan then 5 and 6’s in DC. Not only that but most of the girls I would chat up were actually able to engage in interesting conversation for more than 5 minutes.
As an NYC native, born and raised, I’ll chime in on this: #1…Yes, it’s very convenient. You can get what you want and need at any hour. It’s what separates NY from most places in the world. #2…Large bookstores. There have actually been a lot of closures, with brick and mortar stores suffering from the growth of first Amazon, then the bookstore chains moving online and with digital book sales. They whittled it down to some larger stores, and yes, they are busy, so they offer the opportunity to game. #3…As a native, I probably see the attitude more than a visitor. We ARE nice to visitors however, but not so nice to each other day to day. We’re hustling from point A to point B usually, so we can be kind of inconsiderate to each other. Women definitely have attitude, and want to know what a man does right off the bat (to assess what you make), and want to know what part of town you live in. The shields can be kind of high here. #4…Better and hotter? Lots of cute/hot women come here from all over, and if you go to the right places, you’ll see concentrations of them (Meatpacking district…and as you noticed, the shops in the Time Warner Center). As a whole, there are also a lot of mediocre to fat chicks here. When you live and work here, and ride the public transportation day after day, you see a more complete picture. Manhattan isn’t a gauge for what the city is composed of as a whole. Overall, NY is among the fattest cities in the country, if not the world. It’s a work long hours and eat fast food kind of place. #5…Clean and safe. As compared to other cities around the country, it’s dirtier. As compared to many cities around the world, it’s on the cleaner side. It’s a huge municipality with millions of people coming and going, so overall, we do a pretty good job. Safe…yes. I’ve lived here my whole life (I’m 50) and ridden the subways at all hours since I was a kid. I’ve never been mugged. However, as a large, major city, there are violent crimes that happen. On occasion, something bad happens to a tourist here. However, in major areas of Manhattan, it’s always busy with people around. The city is well lit, so for the most part, it’s really safe. You have to be smart and aware, use common sense. But yeah, I’d say it’s pretty safe here.
As an NYC native, born and raised, I’ll chime in on this: #1…Yes, it’s very convenient. You can get what you want and need at any hour. It’s what separates NY from most places in the world. #2…Large bookstores. There have actually been a lot of closures, with brick and mortar stores suffering from the growth of first Amazon, then the bookstore chains moving online and with digital book sales. They whittled it down to some larger stores, and yes, they are busy, so they offer the opportunity to game. #3…As a native, I probably see the attitude more than a visitor. We ARE nice to visitors however, but not so nice to each other day to day. We’re hustling from point A to point B usually, so we can be kind of inconsiderate to each other. Women definitely have attitude, and want to know what a man does right off the bat (to assess what you make), and want to know what part of town you live in. The shields can be kind of high here. #4…Better and hotter? Lots of cute/hot women come here from all over, and if you go to the right places, you’ll see concentrations of them (Meatpacking district…and as you noticed, the shops in the Time Warner Center). As a whole, there are also a lot of mediocre to fat chicks here. When you live and work here, and ride the public transportation day after day, you see a more complete picture. Manhattan isn’t a gauge for what the city is composed of as a whole. Overall, NY is among the fattest cities in the country, if not the world. It’s a work long hours and eat fast food kind of place. #5…Clean and safe. As compared to other cities around the country, it’s dirtier. As compared to many cities around the world, it’s on the cleaner side. It’s a huge municipality with millions of people coming and going, so overall, we do a pretty good job. Safe…yes. I’ve lived here my whole life (I’m 50) and ridden the subways at all hours since I was a kid. I’ve never been mugged. However, as a large, major city, there are violent crimes that happen. On occasion, something bad happens to a tourist here. However, in major areas of Manhattan, it’s always busy with people around. The city is well lit, so for the most part, it’s really safe. You have to be smart and aware, use common sense. But yeah, I’d say it’s pretty safe here.
Yah, I live in upstate New York and unfortunately have had to travel to the City quite a few times. I am never overwhelmed by the women there. In fact, I am quite amazed and how I find Adirondack small towners much more attractive than New York women. Most are mediocre, many lower-rung ethnics and dazed immigrants.
There are still plenty of world class hotties in the Bronx, BK, Jersey City, etc. Don’t look past these places, especially if she is coming from one of these places to see you in the city.
Meh..I’m pretty sure it will suck once I get there. A country flooded with honorless hipsters and beta orbiters cannot contain a single good street. It’s just a fact.
Correct title might have been “Why Manhattan sucks less”, because it sure as hell is going to suck.
I live here and I love this place. I live on the Upper East Side. I meet women everyday. Currently in a relationship with a latina with the best tits I have ever seen. If I wanted to I could date every night every week, and never cross paths with any of them ever again. Another good thing, they are educated and smart, and likely hard working. There is a shortage of eligible men here because its en vogue here to be a skinny femmy beta male, so you have this surplus of incredibly eligable women who take care of themselves and also make good money. To me thats a good combo. I divorced a few years ago and I can get laid as much as I want, for now I am good, but who knows, I will be back out. I have been all over the US and World, and NYC is by far one of the easiest places to get laid and has an oversupply of sex hungry women.
Chris, would you be able to fill me in on the secret? I grew up here in NYC and honestly, I haven’t had much luck at all. Thinking it may have something to do with my age (currently 25), or lack of solid niche.
It’s expensive as fuck, but Manhattan is fantastic. Be prepared for a
drastic downgrade in your living situation unless you are willing to pay
an inordinate amount of money for an apartment, and even then the
competition for apartments is fierce, but I’ve had some great adventures
there.
thats all relative. whats expensive in Ohio is common here. It all depends on how much money you earn. I know thats a cold hard unfair reality.
You should see the rest of new york not just manhattan go to brookly queens and bronx of course there is still life but it’s not a nice place to live or even travel to.
For those who visited both San Francisco and Toronto, which of the 2 cities is the worst?