The best examples of good vs. bad decisions are often to be found among real experiences. Here are five authentic examples that showcase detrimental beta behavior that no man should ever engage in.
1. Bailing On Your Friends To Chat With A Toxic Female
A good friend of mine, a highly respectable, masculine man who leads a balanced life by most peoples’ standards, fell into a vicious cycle of questionable behavior when a histrionic yet attractive girl put her diabolic claws in his chest a number of years ago.
At that time, my friend dwelled in limbo, as he succumbed to the extent that he felt committed to the neurotic vixen, but still free to enough to travel to the U.S. with yours truly and another friend.
As we were about to have big night out in Miami, and the ambience was that of omnipresent positive vibes that were emerging from our drunken souls, he suddenly left the group after we had just picked up more cash at our crib and heading to Nikki Beach Club. He reluctantly admitted that he was about to stay home and chat with his borderline girlfriend instead of joining us.
That weak move made one wonder whether he belonged to the sub-species Betamaleicus menstruatis or Alphamaleicus testosteronis.
2. Allowing Your Girlfriend To Have Multiple Fuckbuddies Be In An Open Relationship
During a trip to Asia, I met a nice Mexican guy with an American passport. He was moderately successful and had a decent level of confidence, but because he was short and chubby, I would not expect him to land better than a 5 or 6 in the U.S.
Fast forward five years and he and his 5.5 hapa harlot show up and actually visit me in Sweden. That was all very nice until they proclaimed that they were in an “open relationship.” Furthermore, he explained that she needed some space and that he was fine with it. Still, they were not completely letting go of each other, since they shared an apartment and were even “soulmates.”
What that really meant, of course, was that she slept around with more good-looking guys while he got maybe a few 2s and 3s at best.
3. Let Your Ugly Girlfriend Drag You Around Because You Don’t Have The Balls To Let Go Of Her
My third example consists of a tall and good-looking engineer with great potential, who is glued to his ugly girlfriend as we speak. Perhaps he’s a bit nerdy and lacks optimal confidence, but it’s obvious that he’s much better-looking than his girlfriend, who has an almost deformed, flaccid fat ass, weird protruding eyes, and a massive undershot jaw. No make-up and other inauthentic measures can cure these aesthetic illnesses. She needs to lose a lot of weight and see a fucking dentist ASAP!
Anyway, he was actually unfaithful to her and slept with one better-looking girl whom he met online. As soon as this was revealed, the fatty forgave him but decided to react accordingly. Whenever she decides that she/they should leave the apartment prison, he must come, even attend various “ladies’ nights,” during which he is the sole man—stripped of his masculinity—and must endure their meaningless blather for hours.
Relationships are complicated, but if a man significantly dates down and is obviously not content with the situation, he must take proper action and let go of the obese obstacle that is hindering him from reaching his true potential.
4. Lose Frame Step-By-Step And Then Make Everything Even Worse By Calling And Sending Pathetic Emails
He whom is not without beta sin is allowed to throw stones. I have to admit that one of the most feeble-minded moves that I have come across are reflected upon me.
I was partially red pilled for ten years ago and made a splendid series of decisions when I met my first true love: got her, kept her, and eventually dumped her at the right moment.
The problem occurred later on, when I lost frame and cried, called, and continued a path of further time-consuming, counterproductive behavior long after the actual break-up. I even started to send pathetic emails to her, as she would ignore my phone calls, the content of which screamed self-assertive juvenile weakness.
In the end, I mainly lost some time and energy by doing this, but it was a prime example of weak behavior and something to never repeat again.
5. Drive 300 Miles To Meet Your Chubby Girlfriend—Who Is Obviously Cheating On You—And Then Repeat The Fatal Mistake One More Time
Fortunately, there is at least one person who outmatches me in this regard. This guy was in a LTR with a chubby chick, and they had a long-distance thing going on while attending university at two separate locations.
When he drove 300 miles to meet her in Gothenburg, Sweden, he found out that his beloved one was in her room with another guy standing in the entrance. Rather than to at least try to explain, she suggested that they should not see each other at this time, hence he left and drove away, as any sane man would do. That situation must have been beyond awkward, leading to major visceral scares.
Be that as it may, while he was driving and was halfway from Gothenburg, the bitch called him and said that she has changed her mind. Thus the lesser beta quickly turned around and drove all the way back to his super-sized siren, who was calling for him to worship at her dominance shrine.
While these beta actions aren’t all equally bad, they must be avoided like the plague by any sane man.
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Nice list. I fell in to some as well once upon a time. They stem from a scarcity mindset. If you have an abundance mindset and have improved yourself to have a high SMV you won’t be doing these things
I think a lack of experience contributes to this. The more you consume, the less you’re worried about the pantry being bare. Age helps here. I would hope that most would grow out of this.
6. Dating single mothers
Taking them seriously even worse . I have a friend who dates the over 40s with adult kids and he thinks they are okay to date because the kids are grown . They actually act more bitchy because they are old and were the “man” of their single mom household
Your friend is either lying to you or to himself, no one wants over 40 low hanging fruit. What can they possibly offer him? A vagina that looks like a well used catchers mitt? My condolences to him.
Some older women can look quite attractive.
@ JD
What’s even worse is that the hideous old bag who did the body shot STILL probably has a better body than Shrillary.
Age is just a number to him and according to him “ the ones i like look better than 20 year olds “
6. Dating single mothers…and raising the bastard kid like your own.
That’s actually a move that saves western civilization.
Excellent examples of conduct that will surely lead to disastrous consequences for you as a male. We all make mistakes so the best response is to be aware and hold frame. I will tell you that even after you are decades into married life one must NEVER lose sight that you are the King and she should be worshiping your d!ck. Never give up your hobbies or “me time”. If you keep up your muscles and can outscore your male competition poolside and have women sate at you because you do not have a belly nut still have the cut USMC look she will keep fit herself and she will be thrilled that other women adore you. Natural jealousy will drive her to compete to keep her highly valued -SMV – partner. The key is she wants a guy who other women want sexually but she does not want you to cheat on her. Also, make sure that if you have a fight – dont by any means run to apologize – hold your ground even if it means sleeping downstairs or better yet go out for a few hours and do not tell her where you are going. Let her imagine you banging her friend. Ignore her – you do not need to slap her or humiliate her – just ignore her and let her drip with desire she will come banging back for you. (If she does not the marriage is in trouble i.e., she is getting it elsewhere.)
Great advice. I think most men though, understandably, don’t want to spend their entire lives keeping up this game, they want to get to a certain point and then relax. Life isn’t like that of course. Structural (meaning social and political) male dominance would go a long way toward ending this problem. Not all men can finagle as well as others, but structural dominance takes care of all of that. Traditional societies have this nailed down and the drama is minimal.
Interesting thing you said about the whole physique issue. Most of the women I see around have guys with horrendous physiques. And I don’t think they have much in the way of personality or game either, but there you go.
Men should NEVER have to compete with women on masculinity only with other men. It should never be up for debate who’s got the pants on in the house.
Your observation is correct there are many husbands who let themselves ago but that doesn’t mean all is well. I think the surveys which state many women would prefer to read a 50 SOG or other trash “romance” (strong make – rape fantasy) plus the divorce figures underscore the point. Women notice other men at the pool either to compare or contrast with their beer bellied hubby.
As to yor point of game you are right and you cannot take it to the same level as when you are dating but you cannot EVER really lose frame and be a successful male. You will become less in her eyes and someone she will not care about pleasing because she figures you are not going to get anyone else and in a sense you have become a loser or a weak male.
All women – without exception – want a winner and that can take various forms but she wants a strong dominant male.
Your success in marriage – keeping her happy, content, faithful and a good wife and mother depends exclusively upon the man in the family. So you cannot give up frame but neither can it stay at the same level no woman can live with your not coming home till 4 am refusing to tell her where you’ve been and taking your savings and running to Vegas. That’s for your single days. But there is a middle ground – keep up some mystery, invest with some risk, etc.
and if you swerve too much you risk becoming a “sap” in her mind and in reality. The buck stops with the husband.
You don’t want to go too far with the games . If the women are behaving appropriately then you don’t need to keep pushing the boundaries and can give a little
Other than perhaps devout Christians, Mormons, and the Amish, try finding an American girl who behaves appropriately.
If so inclined and have the talent, you’d be better off running scams on them…
Every now and then an American woman will fuck like a pornstar . It’s okay to buy her a drink or go on a weekend trip together
It’s not necessarily the man who pushes the boundaries. What I’ve seen is that women can exhibit the same characteristics as children in pushing boundaries (i.e. proverbial shit tests) to see what they can get away with. You can define that as inappropriate behavior and how you respond is important to minimizing boundary pushing. I would have a problem with a woman who continuously boundary pushes, who has to be continuously entertained (don’t want to be the organ grinder’s dancing monkey) and has to be mate guarded (don’t want to be the prison warden or guard). All part of the careful selection process and knowing when to hit the ejection button on the relationship. You can’t control other people’s behavior and can only control your own so laying blame on the man for failing to control, what is sometimes, the uncontrollable is not always valid. If she happens to be uncontrollable or doesn’t want to work together for the common good, then it’s time to next her instead of blaming yourself and trying to figure out what you’re doing wrong (i.e. staying with a wacko).
There is a woman at my work (tennis club) and her boyfriend is exactly this way. It is pathetic and she obviously has no respect for him. He does have a lot of family money and that is why he is around. It is important to respect yourself first, because if not then no one else will. She flirts with me everytime I see her, and I pay it very little mind.
Good on you Sean. Is there some way you can reach this guy? Is there some way you can put her in her proper place?
Thanks JJ. I talked to him about it a little while back and he got extremely defensive and a bit confrontational. My rule of thumb is I tell someone once and if they ignore it, that is it. I work 70 hours a week teaching tennis and accounting, the stock market etc. I will not waste time on it. I told her that if the guy is a loser then dump him, if not don’t waste time complaining about it. Also that I would not be dating her regardless. Made her more attracted. Broken Woman 101 logic
Yea I really hate those bitches, they got a boyfriend they don’t plan on leaving him, but they will waste your time trying to seduce you anyway and sure you might get a one night stand out of it but is it really worth it?
You know what, I’m a girl, and you seem like a really good person. Thank you for doing that. Women like that deserve to be frustrated and powerless, not winning all the time and controlling everybody.
By all means avoid these moves. But having said that, it is time to change our mindsets and start openly asserting ourselves with regard to where we are supposed to be. We don’t need to endlessly navigate this maze, we need to start assuming that we must be the ones navigated and negotiated, and start making it that way en masse. Mere survival will not cut it.
JJ
Short of rape and kidnapping this is difficult in a society where women are basically fuck toys for the richest unless they look awful, let us face it.
Unless you are planning to kidnap and impregnate 9’s in your dungeon it is tough for the average man these days.
Women all want a life like Sex and the City. They want excitement and rich Chads and not merely to be a housewife. They want to snort coke, drink expensive liquor, have threesomes and other porn orgy fantasies, take half a rich Chad’s money.
People these days are not restrained by any traditional sense of morality at all.
Again, this is why the porn industry thrives. The number of males meeting this criteria are few and so the other 90% jack it in their house of their parents and trudge off to their shit job.
Ethics, morals, courage, honesty, discipline means shit as the women want the Trump Chad who is 6’2 and has money falling out of his asshole as he walks around. Plain and simple.
For the rest of us there is masturbation.
I quit jerking off years ago and haven’t looked back.
You’re depriving yourself of pleasure. Because women do not care these days if you are ethical, clean-minded etc.
Chad can be a swine who likes to sodomize women in bathtubs full of cocaine and share them with his minions.
No matter.
The girl will want him first.
This is biological. Women are looking for the best genes. Look at primates. The biggest, most psychopathically ruthless chimps screws the women and other chimps have sex with one another in the corner of the zoo.
Same in the ghetto. This one reason certain VD’s are higher with black women than with males. Seven of them are on the arm of the local Alpha-the pimp or Freeway Rick drug dealer or plain old most ruthless thug-and this Alpha black male gives them his VD’s while black males in the ghetto that lack the cunning, ruthlessness or steady nerves end up on the “downlow”.
@Dick Boner I’ve jerked off my fair share, believe me. I agree that subconsciously women are always screening for the best genes. Yet, I am not sure how you managed to tie masturbation in there. On one hand, it’d be reasonable to assume that if a dude needs to jerk off, he currently gets no action or he has no presumable future plans of getting any action either. Yes, there is a certain kind of woman who will be intrigued and attracted by pimps and gangsters and there are also woman who are turned off by those lifestyles. It’s all relevant. Just like how you have subsets of women who like all sorts of weird shit. At the end of the day, jerking off made me feel lazy and tired. The more I went without it the more I lived without it and then when I did decide to end the stint, I felt like shit for a couple days. In my opinion, jerking off is sad. Go on omegle.com and scroll through and take a look at the dudes who are sitting in their beds with their dicks out helplessly waiting for a girl to watch them. If that’s who you are currently, I’m no one to judge though.
Many women who love thugs also get paid to have sex by betas . All parties are losers in that scenario
@Dick Boner
None of my comments assume a personal solution. All of my comments are based upon all of us using these techniques, spreading them, changing mindsets then later actions. Nothing I say has to do with me, but with us and the system.
JJ,
For the rest of us there are women in other countries.
But I guess those living in mom’s basement have less options.
JOHN
These posters are not living in Issan. Gen Y does not have the economic options you did of doing A levels and then getting a decent job at 18 and leaving home. You are living in 1974, bro.
Most of these posters are Gen Y who could not afford to move across the street in an economy where waiters have PHd’s. They cannot go anywhere.
Also, they are helicopter kids. Mum and Dad were yuppies born in the 1960’s and they were born in 1990 or something.
The rest of them are stuck because they have limited skills and cannot travel without a pot to piss in.
Dick,
You’re totally right (as usual), but as I’ve posted before in any other age these guys would have been incel cannon fodder used to charge the front ranks of the enemy as soon as they were old enough to hold a sword. They don’t seem to realize the life they are living today is way beyond the wildest dreams of any of their historic peers in the history of time.
JOHN
Expat Lifer Response
I was lucky to have hit the skids at 25 and had some high school chum offer me a job in Dubai.
I’d be like these sad young bastards on this site but for the grace of, 20-something and living at home and wanking to porn like a schoolboy.
It was only because I literally had nothing going for me in the States that I left young, spent my entire career overseas, did not get stuck with a divorce etc.
When I look at the prospects of the sad Gen Y bastards on this site I feel sorry for them. Prostitution is no option, they live at home, have a shitty job and no option but to sit around some club on Ladies Night hoping MAYBE some wall-eyed local slag gets pissed enough to let them poke her in the fucking dark.
But mostly there is porn and more porn. When I was young a grown man DID NOT ADMIT that he was addicted to wanking to Club Magazine. If you were 20 and still tossing to the old porn mags you were a sad bastard. Now all these Gen Y fellows are doing it.
JOHN “Way Beyond Their Dreams”
I disagree bro, people use to be able to leave school at 16 with 5 O levels or a high school degree and get a decent job.
There were not thousands of young people in Manchester, UK or Any City, USA homeless on the streets.
Of course I was born in 1974 and my own perception is only fueled by my lifetime but even in the 1990’s young people had more options than today.
I came of age in the Clinton/Blair Era being born in 1974 and it was a little better to be young then.
I mean reading this site is a reminder of how fucking sad Gen Y who were born in the 1990’s are. They were raised in a great era of prosperity between the Cold War and 9-11 that some of them can remember and now they are adults and there are no jobs at all and women all act like slags but will not screw most of them so they simply sit at home shooting their spunk into their keyboard and living in an alternate reality to the IRL-that they are 20-25 in a world with a shrinking middle-class where the subtropical races whether from Karachi or Caribbean are getting more feral and criminal while white males are arrested for talking about some dead Austrian madman with syphilis and have no prospects of ever paying for $1,000,000 house in the high-priced property market.
You speak of living overseas and most of the sad Gen Y bastards on this site cannot afford to live across the street from the house they were born because only menial jobs are available.
JOHN
“WAY BEYOND THE WILDEST DREAMS”
Nah, you came of age in the 70’s and were an adult during the Thatcher/Reagan era when the economy was its most robust.
I’m younger than you but the Blair/Clinton era was better than today and young men who managed to get a university education and not have a kid at 20 or 21 had some financial options.
Today forget it.
Dick,
I’m talking historic past ……… 1945 and earlier.
Although even in the 1970s there was Vietnam.
Jerking off is for kids.
You sound like one of the biggest losers Ive ever come across.
Dating decent women is a challenge, but not that hard IF you know where to look, are decent looking, in shape, and forward in your approach.
Women are products of their environment and will follow whatever the popular opinion is. If you look at the garbage entertainment sources that is out there for women it is all social justice/liberal biased. Even a conservative woman who is browbeat with this stuff on a non stop daily basis will start to identify on some points of it because they think they are supposed to because they are followers. If you change the society they live in you will change the behavior. Until then the best bet is to find one who has a family who keeps her in check.
MAVERICK
The US celebrates white trash, let us face it. Stormy Daniels is an example. She was a typical white trash pretty girl who could have made and honest living as a waitress and maybe married a mechanic or truck driver. Follow all the rules and drive to church in the rain and retire on modest incomes in a one story house.
Instead she chose to be a stripper, got into to porn and did filthy things on camera and now she is rich and famous.
Where is the reward for being a pious, decent, godfearing person.
Same with 50 cent, Snoop Dogg, John Gotti. Nobody in the US is rewarded unless they are whores, rogues, outlaws, serial killers, athletes playing children’s games when they are 6’5 men.
Chuck Norris has always tried to maintain a family friendly Republican image but he made his name beating people up and doing R rated sex scenes with women.
Let us be honest, where is the carrot for the chick to be a decent, pious woman? Why not have a great time taking coke and fucking rich Chads if you have the wares?
Let us say you do not and go to church every day if you are a hot woman. What is the reward in this life?
I agree that accountability and creditably is a huge flaw in our culture. The fact that people would listen to two words that come from a porn star mouth and consider it credible says a lot about how high of a pedestal women are placed on. As for the reward I would consider it minimal in western culture. Women get to see their own family flourish and live a stress free life because they are taken care of. However, with women making their own money now, pro abortion society, and degenerate life style promoted as “self expression” they will all jump in the race to the bottom. Having families, churches, and society keep them in check for fear of being an outcast have been the methods that have worked in the past.
No offense man but I suspect you haven’t read much philosophy throughout your life. This is a common theme and has been for thousands of years. It’s not something specific to our time or culture. I’m not saying that it doesn’t suck – it does – but it is just an unfortunate aspect of the human condition. The rewards for base, evil and selfish behavior are immediate and very obvious. The rewards for living a Good Life (as the philosophers have described it ad nauseam) are much more subtle and require a great degree of wisdom to even appreciate.
tl; dr If you are waiting to be rewarded by life and women for good behavior, you’ll be waiting a long time.
Haha! Richard you are the best! I enjoy your wiseacre comments. 🙂
You WILL however freak out when I say… and most of the people on this site will to..
Yes, Trump is the only viable “opposing” actor in the D.C. stageplay.. BUT he has ALWAYS been surrounded by TRANZ entities INCLUDING Stormy Daniels…
Richard. .. Look closely at your “honest living” Stormy Daniels–
https://nickgilmartin.wordpress.com/2009/07/30/stormy-daniels-election-hopes-end-in-domestic-violence-arrest/
If you cannot see the block head, shoulders, and HUGE larynx for what it is actually is then you have been swept up in the evil of these End Times.
Our reward is with Our Father when we call this crap-world “crap” AND then reject it!!!!~
You too can do this, Richard, Bro!
I pray that you will!
DANIELS
If I were an effeminate gay who could swallow swords I’d be a trans porn star earning $4000 a scene before I worked a menial job doing others shit work.
If she is a trans and can stomach sucking cocks power to her.
I suspect her manager (I’d do this to were I him) engineered the affair to get him to pay a pittance bribe that was jackshit to him in the first place like 130 K.
So if sucking off and getting fucked by some dumb landlord gets you a bribe of 130K this is a pretty decent scam.
Of course her manager probably kept most of it.
The reward is women with families are happier. They avoid the miserable pitfalls of dating after the wall, being used by Chads, and self sabotage.
But the media wants them to party, travel, have careers etc before settling down.
Aint gonna happen
I’ve followed some female pornstars. They tend to not have happy endings, meth habits and often back to streets or strip club after their stint in porn. Even top earners seem like a mess. Better off being a waitress.
Ironic you mention this, and it may be an answer: most of the true 9s at church and my (Christian) kids’ school are married (with one exception I can think of) to complete cucks. Overweight or underweight, obvious providers. No possible way they aren’t screwing someone else.
The ex porn star has money and these days they know how to handle it. She used what she had to raise herself above the maddening lot of goodie gumdrops who still live in mommy’s house.
It is foolish not to see that the reality has changed. It’s not like 1960 with strong unions where a drop out could make a living. That was then this is now . We live in the now. It will continue to evolve with the growth of technology. Soon both genders will be on a mission. The woman’s “X” card will be revoked. It will be interesting. The great ancient curse “My you live in interesting times has sounded.
The is the parable of the first stone. It is a mind game. all of us 1st worlders have to cast off the failures of obsolete tradition and embrace the new economics as well as the new social- sexual reality. As males we need to cheer for Sadie Hawkins to be reborn in older women. A report was that many women too are at sea. They may have skills that make Over $200 thousand after taxes. They have cut to cords now they reap the whirlwind of change and many are not prepared.
next generation will need book,street,and tech knowledge as they will be as common as tv and hi-fi was 60 years ago. Already being watching is gaining traction rather than sitting down at appointed place and time.
What is a Decent Woman? A waitress? Is that a real step up economically? How do you want and need to be treated? How do you treat yourself and others?
Work definition by Google as a noun: “activity involving mental or physical effort done in order to achieve a purpose or result. ” For most it is a paycheck. Most of us are mercenaries. What if it has more meaning? America has one huge advantage. We can change our stars. The key is believing that we can.
When AI & robots will have those duties they and we will reevaluate how our world view had chained us to financial failure.
It is sad to see so many talented people whose self definitions keep them from accomplishments. Yes perhaps some will need to live in artist neighborhoods or techies that work the gig economy. Yet several important discoveries in science were from crowd mind and game goals. Now to monetize them.
Tomorrow, is not going to be Jack Sparrow. Hopefully,not SJW either. Equality for us all and a secure economic future based not on gambling(stock market) nor decline to stagnation uplifted by millions of minds working together toward goals. Perhaps there will be superior guidance tailored to the individual and their abilities rather than the herd will come through.
g,
Depends. If said women had good father figures and don’t consume the trash that is modern female culture, then some of these “cuck” husbands are in fact not cucked at all. These women are truly traditional.
This is assuming they were raised properly and slut shamed early on in life. If not then yes the husband is a cuck.
exactly – like water.
but, nothing is going to change for the better – so we need to adapt to the toxic feminist climate.
Buyer beware.
Good luck with it. Be ready for lots of nights alone.
I’m guilty of all of these and more.
But, have also had harems.
And intend to do so again…
You’ll get there.
One way or another.
Did you guys have a private detective following me around when I was 20 or something? I put up with obvious cheating tells and cluster b drama in a long-distance relationship. I sent tons of pathetic emails. I was making a fake MySpace account to spy on her activity there and had an epiphany about how pathetic I was being.
To my credit, I’ve never done the betamax move of ignoring all my friends to completely focus on a relationship. I think a guy deserves ONE second chance to be readmitted to the wolf pack after pulling a stunt like that if he’s 20 or under and it was his first real relationship. Otherwise, drop him. He’s going to become that guy who makes self-deprecating jokes about being whipped and cries into his beer about being cheated on.
To add to the list we have going: Taking a friendship with a woman too seriously. It’s good to have girls around to practice flirting with and make other girls jealous. But it’s rare they could be classified as true friends. Keep things fun/casual. Don’t let them turn you into the guy they call at 2 AM because Chad was mean. Don’t ever side with one over a male friend. Even if the male friend is in the wrong, chances are he’ll be with you for years but you want see her again once she’s married and/or has a child.
The leftist dislike troll has returned. Welcome back from your Bernie speech
I could write the same article naming the ONE beta male act to avoid and do it in one sentence.
Don’t simp to the vagina…Ever.
That’s a freebie, no litecoin expected.
Another one is don’t let your emotions or thoughts about a girl override your primal urges. I have had situations where girls literally invented ways to get into my apartment (one girl having her friend call me to get her and take her to my place because she was too drunk), and another one invite me to her place right before our date.
In either situation I pussied out of trying to fuck because I was afraid of how they would take it. I had a sort of oneitis thing for both of them (and was “spinning plates ” at the time as well) but these two girls willingly gave me chances to fuck and I didn’t take them. Why? Because I got too emotional to act on my primal instincts like I did with the other women I didn’t gaf about. So the other women stayed and these two women kindly fucked off and left me alone because they probably sensed I was too much of a bitch to make a move even when THEY wanted me to. All because I was letting emotion guide me and I wasn’t letting my masculine nature take over.
That and at the time I wad clueless af as to how to read signals. This was when I used to think women weren’t as sexual/visual/horny as men are.
A slight variation of this list is for a beta to bring their toxic female with them to men’s activities (i.e. sporting events, bar night). Coming from an area very heavily defined by hunting and fishing, nothing is more awkward than the beta imposter, pretending to be alpha in camo, Carhartt, and a pickup truck, with their bitch along for the ride interrupting the fishing trip at the local lake.
Word!
“He whom is not without beta sin is allowed to throw stones.”
H i r e a n e d i t o r .
People cannot understand jokes these days. I wrote “the female subspecies” in an article and a biologist replied and said it wasn’t biologically correct. 👏🙈
“5.5 hapa harlot”…
“What that really meant, of course, was that she slept around with more good-looking guys ”
Hello Mr Adams,
Have to ask, why do you think “good looking guys” would bang a 5.5?
She may be banging male 5s and 6s, but unless very drunk and desperate, why would a “Chad” have anything to do with a 5.5?
I am not even close to being “good looking”, and I wouldn’t touch a 5.5 with a tennis racket, let alone bang her.
Lol guys with high sex drives will fuck many women and are less picky. While slayers have more choice, they also take even the choices that incels won’t take because after so much sex they realize a hole is a hole. Plus when you’re good looking you know you’re hot and sleeping with an ugly woman won’t all of a sudden negate all the hot ass you’ve been balls deep in.
I have a high sex drive. Very high when age is considered.
I work hard to make a good living and use my money to bang 7s/8s/9s/10s. I don’t need to bang ugly/fat/middle aged women. And I never will. They are invisible to me.
Fine don’t believe me. But ugly girls are getting validation from someone and it isn’t ugly men.
AS
Fitz is right, the guys getting free ones will bang anything. It’s guys like us that have to part with our hard earned money that get choosy.
@JD
Makes Sense.
@Fitz
I suppose.
But they will never get validation from me.
Or $$$ either.
@ JD
And I’ll be “choosy” to the day I die!
#MeToo
I agree with AutomaticSlim. I have a high sex drive and would never bang an ugly women.
I think Some non-whites are so desperate to fuck white chicks – any fatty will do.
And I’m in my 50s too.
Last week at a doctor’s she asked me how is my sex drive?
I said “getting worse”
she began to write something – and I interrupted and said “getting worse, as in I’m getting more horny as I get older”
The value of pussy is miles higher than cock. Just lol if you think ugly women have it as bad as ugly men.
@Fitz (again)
“The value of pussy is miles higher than cock. Just lol if you think ugly women have it as bad as ugly men.”
OK, maybe. But the value of $$$ is miles and miles above pussy. If you haven’t tried, you wouldn’t believe what 19 and 20 y/os are willing to do for $$$, especially when being offered by a fit, trim, polite guy in his 50s who looks under 40.
There is a lot to be said for having choics and experience. Even the men who were ‘golden Boys fid it a different world now. It is difficult to be yourself and pass on truly great people because in your heart they are not right for you.
Mr Slim: Good-looking guys and what they would or would not do are relative, contextual and depends on the sexual market; like how many options there are in that particular situation where and when it might occur. A guy who is let’s say about a 7 might definitely bang a couple of 5s over the years, especially if there are alcoholic beverages involved.
Further, online dating is pretty competitive and if a guy who hopes to meet a 6.5 who he has agreed to meet, realizes that the girl is actually a five in real life would bang anyway since the decides that she passes the boner test. As I see it it, it neither gives value nor is a net negative if an attractive-leaning guy sleeps with a 5. But a 4 will make him look down on himself, and be remembered as a bad experience.
Mr Slim: Good-looking guys and what they would or would not do are relative, contextual and depends on the sexual market; like how many options there are in that particular situation where and when it might occur. A guy who is let’s say about a 7 might definitely bang a couple of 5s over the years, especially if there are alcoholic beverages involved.
Further, online dating is pretty competitive and if a guy who hopes to meet a 6.5 who he has agreed to meet, realizes that the girl is actually a 5 in real life, he would bang anyway since he decides that she passes the boner test.
As I see it, it neither gives value nor is a net negative if a more attractive guy sleeps with a 5. But a 4 will make him look down on himself, and be remembered as a bad experience. 6-10s give real value in return, both the actual sex, confidence boost, and memories.
it is common social reality that men bang down more than they marry down.
And one of the biggest problems for women – they bang guys 3 notches above. but, these guys would never marry them.
So, they wait for it to happen – and it never does. “7” nice guys want to marry her 6 – but she has banged 8s and 9s.
But Fitz was stating that “slayers” bang ugly chicks that incels wouldn’t bang.
I don’t think so. I don’t think a chad 9 is going to bang a 5 or below – no way….doesn’t need to and would be repulsed by it.
I would – and am.
Fat chicks don’t even register on my HB index.
however, in some cultures – ala “Something about Mary” – are “Sumo cultures”.
My abundance mentality has been backfiring lately. I recently went out with a pretty attractive woman, seems like a pretty decent human being, spent 4 hours talking, drinks, etc. At the end of the date she asked ‘When are we going out again!?’ and we kissed a bit. I texted her a few days later to ask her out again. No response. Asked again more directly, since I have no tolerance for bullshit, and she gave a long response about how she was busy all week, visiting friends in the city, working from home coming up with a lesson plan, etc. I asked her if this was code and she said ‘Noooo I’m really busy!’ We have plans to go out again this weekend but she’s not responsive at all to texts, no flirting, no initiation, etc.. Is this an assertive and no bullshit, move onto the next one attitude, or is this a beta neediness attitude. I genuinely don’t give a shit if I see her again, but I give a shit as to whether or not she’s going to respect my time.
make other plans, if she responds , oh well , she texted too late
She is running you, and your attempts at getting her to respect your time make you look needy. Throw a sheet on and ghost, move on. You already put up with enough of her crap… and got ZERO but a lighter wallet and wasted time.
JCL,
Never ask twice, it looks desperate.
Never arrange a second date with a ‘no show’.
It sounds like she is a teacher, so I would not be surprised if she really does not have time for everything. When I was teaching and coaching in America I was working 12 hours a day.
Give her a chance, but if she keeps blowing you off move on. Don’t waste your time.
And keep being direct with her.
I violate the third rule all the time by letting the wife drag me around town. But, then again, she knows where all the cool places to visit are in our hometown so it is a win-win situation! Thank God she took those tour guide courses.
That, and she is getting a little chubby ’round the belly because of the little baby boy who will be coming in June!
Getting back to the subject, it is better to be single your whole life than to do the five things pointed out by this article. I have even known chicks who violate these rules. Being with a toxic bitch is the best and fastest way to derail yourself and totally fuck up the lives of your children.
Thanks for This list it helps me notice when I’m starting to fall into one of these things. Also the red pill has helped me analyze mysel after every approach I do and constructively criticize myself in what to improve and what I can do better. And also listening to Donovan Sharpes pod cast to improve my game and I’m going to buy the mode 1 book on how to verbally seduct girls. I use to be a beta then the I stumbled upon the red pill and changed those stupid ways. Thank you for this great article.
Fuck bitches! Make money!
How about do both. You dont need money to get bitches, you need GAME.
7. Dating a pregnant woman: The ULTIMATE beta/cuck move. Of course Im talking about a pregger carying her exes child.
Some guys like fucking then but leave before she pops open or you’re fucked.
6. Using the term “soul mate”. Bullshit like this was invented by the likes of Hallmark and Disney to keep males forever blue-pilled.
Just look at all the trouble you can get yourself into by just trying to date any woman from Plenty of Fish. Although there might be a few unicorns (hot-crazy-matrix) I cringe when I read those bios filled with demands from women that don’t even deserve time of day. Reading between the lines I see the same old … wine me, dine me, and maybe you can F**k me.
Nice article except for the open relationship think. I think open relationships are awesome… it depends on how the open relationship started. If she is the one that initiated the open relationship talk it probably means that she is already bored with you, either sexually or mentally, this is very bad and you should leave her ass. But if you as the Alpha male started the conversation after a couple of months, this is a good thing. If after a period of reflexion she reluctantly agrees, you will be amazed of how well your relationship will work. You will have to establish certain rules however.
Monogamy doesn’t work and everybody knows this, it can work for 3 to 4 years but after that period sexual boredom kicks in no matter how good the sex is. Open relationships are great, it really depends how they have been prepared. Sexual monogamous relationships are for needy beta males or controlling Alpha males that have oneitis.
It’s very important however that the man started the open relationship talk.
Cheers,
Jedem das seine. Monogamy DOES work for certain people, even though it probably isn’t for everyone. It’s better for society for monogamy to be the only acceptable norm and non-monogamy to be relegated to countercultures/alternative lifestyles whose adherents deliberately segregate themselves from mainstream society.
Taking care of someone else’s kid: https://www.koreaboo.com/buzz/malaysian-girl-gets-pregnant-and-dumpednew-boyfriend/
I’m in an open relationship, because my own sex drive is (and has always been) non-existent and I didn’t want my boyfriend to suffer for that. I told him from the beginning that he’s free to have sex with other people as long as he is honest about it, uses protection and tests himself regularly. I’m friends with his most regular fuck buddy, she comes over for coffee every now and then. Works extremely well for us.
What does it mean to remain “in frame”?
What is: “in frame”?
Couple more:
1)Abandon your mission and comfortable life and move to Eastern Europe simply because its easier to get laid (by standing out as a potential provider with american passport) .In other words-dedicate all your life to pussy worship.
2) Fail in this and bitch about how polish/ukrainian/whatever women are corrupted by the Iphones;