I’ve been teaching boot camps in South Korea since 2007 and while there is no doubt that Korean girls are hard, there are a lot of factors at play in Seoul that determine how easy or difficult it will be for any individual guy in any particular situation. And while you’ll have to hustle, consistently getting Korean girls is very doable.
How Superficial Are Korean Girls?
Looks (including fashion) and status carry you a lot further here than in Japan, China, Hong Kong, and Taiwan. And when I say that, I mean that the bonus you get over the average guy for being attractive is so huge that an average guy will have to put in time and suffer flakes to pull a 7 (by Korean guy standards), while a good looking guy can have that girl call him up when she’s drunk to suggest they hit a love motel together.
Status is similar. I know two guys who had it super easy in Korea. Both were American guys in their mid/late 20s and one worked for Google and the other worked for Groupon. They loved to party and they rolled with Korean guys, and had status because of their work situation. A guy here could be in the midst of being blown out and then if he hands the girl a card that says Samsung on it, things will flip super hard and he’ll have an easy time to get the girl.
Among Korean “pickup artists”, it’s not uncommon to lie, about where they went to school (Seoul National University) or where they work (Samsung) and what car they drive (Mercedes) to get the lay. Since most Korean guys wouldn’t keep seeing a girl who bangs them on the first night, the lying doesn’t much matter. Also, the girl is so drunk she probably can’t remember anyway. That’s the other main tactic. Use status to pull her to your table, then get her so drunk that you can take her wherever.
What Makes Korea So Hard Is…
There is no doubt that Korean girls are the hardest in Asia for most guys who end up here. Guys seem to have the easiest time adjusting to China, while Japan gets amazingly easy if you’re shooting for 7s and below, and understand how Japan works.
It’s true that Korean guys are the worst cockblocks in Asia by a wide margin. And even if a guy just gives a girl the evil eye, that can be enough to make her walk off on you even though he’s a total stranger. If you’re a black guy, I think you’ll find that non-black lover Korean girls are more open to black guys than non-black lover Thai girls are. And I think that average black guys don’t have it much harder than average white guys here. Indian guys don’t seem to be at any particular disadvantage either.
The fact is that most every guy (Koreans included) has a hard time getting action from Korean girls. Similar to how the US has the oft broken 3-date rule, Koreans have the 100 days rule which basically says you shouldn’t sleep with a guy until he’s been your boyfriend for 100 days! Of course they violate their rule all the time, but you have a good idea of the mindset. Korean girls don’t seem to lose their virginity until around 22. One of my guys is dating a girl who is 28, and of her 10 close female friends, 2 are still virgins. A lot of Korean guys still want their wives to be virgins, though that’s changing.
Where Should I Go To Find Korean Girls in Seoul?
Both day game and night game in Seoul are awesome. I’d say that most guys who are running both get a pretty even split on the lays they get from day game and night game. Day game is significantly easier because you don’t have to deal with cock blocks and girls are often at coffee shops studying alone or waiting for friends. Also, there are massive volumes of girls in day game.
Generally, Hongdae is the least status conscious area because it’s teeming with what my Korean friends says are the “poor students”. It’s also got the alternative scene and the biggest lesbian club in Seoul. Most foreigners find this to be the easiest place to pull good quality young girls. There are also a lot of bars/clubs that cater to young girls curious about foreigners here.
Itaewon is the next best place, though you’re going to be going for girls that are more in the mid/late 20s and early 30s instead of girls in their early 20s. Much of Itaewon has become quite upscale in the past 3 years or so and it’s starting to be less of a dive bar scene (though there are still plenty of those). Club UN is known for girls who are into black guys, and I even met a girl who got hit in the head with a bottle by another girl who was trying to take her man there.
B-ONE and glam are the spots to go these days. And along with Helio’s, you’ll find the highest number of white-lover Korean girls, though you will still have to open a lot unless you’re really, really attractive by Korean standards.
Gangnam is by far the most difficult because the girls are both young and hot. It’s teeming with 8+s. It’s true that they are status conscious, and that they are also very image conscious, but most of my guys think it’s worth it and with the volume coming through, as long as you don’t mind getting blown out, you will find girls that hook.
There are a ton of night spots to choose from, but unsurprisingly, the more upscale the place, the more you will get blown out. You don’t need a table to pull as most of the guys dropping big cash with fancy cars also go home alone, but you will get more interaction time. Usually tables are good, because girls’ feet get tired and they want free drinks, so you get a longer opportunity to game sets that hook, which does improve your chances somewhat.
Here’s the Bottom Line on Getting Korean Women
The flake rate is atrocious and I recommend massive texting as Korean girls are really much more concerned with how much you like them, than how much they like you. According to an informal street survey of Korean girls, 40-60 texts PER DAY is the norm between a girl and a guys she’s dating.
Japanese girls have the best faces in Asia, Chinese girls have the biggest tits, Taiwanese girls have a good mix of the Korean bodies and the Japanese faces, but hands down, Korean girls have the best bodies—long legs, and what they call a great “S-line” is common.
Korea is by far the hardest to game in East Asia, but it is very doable and most guys who learn game here will be able to close regularly if they are consistently meeting girls and have solid logistics. If you find that gaming Korean girls is easy it’s because either: (a) you are good looking to Koreans, (b) you have low standards, or (c) you have high status.
So the next question: What’s considered ‘good looking’ for Koreans?
I was in Seoul in 2011, and I saw a few girls there that I found attractive. But I don’t like Asians unless they are Indian or Sri Lankan. I like tits and an hour glass figure, so that explains the disconnect for me.
I think he was asking “what do Koreans find attractive”?
Apparently, based on the article, wealth and status. They could care less if you have a small dick, and a personality to match. As long as you can buy them stuff, and are seemingly oblivious to their cheating ways.
A real catch there Korean girls from the sound of it. Go get’em tiger.
Not exactly…because Korea is a pretty rich country, you need to have quite a lot of money to be able to stand out, so girls are not mainly choosing on money.
One of the main criteria though is definitely devotion and how hard a guy is willing to try. On http://www.MyKoreanBoyfriend.com a site run by two women teaching foreign girls how to get a Korean boyfriend they explicitly teach the girls to turn down the first two date invites from a Korean guy.
I’m a big fan of Korean girls and they’re very gettable if you understand how things all work there.
They just want to get married. Casual Dating in Korea, I think , isn’t really a thing. There’s prostitution all over the place (a recent study found one in 5 Korean men went to a prostitute about 4 times a month) so you don’t really need ‘casual dating’ I guess. As such, its about money, status, what Uni you went to, who your family is, connections, etc.
Casual sex is a thing for the guys, and of course girls want to get laid too and have a boyfriend, but because casual sex is largely frowned upon in the society, there are definitely conflicts that women have to navigate carefully on the road to marriage.
Ah yes, the RULE OF THREE. This is common for everyday life. The last bite of a piece of cake, what restaurant do you want to go to, and of course sex/dates.
A good girl will always turn you down 2-3 times. You’re supposed to work for it. That’s why you see Kguys dragging girls around Hongdae at 3 am lol. I always go by the mantra “A woman is like a tree; you must keep chopping until the tree falls down”.
That’s a Seoul thing and not applicable to Korean girls in general. Daegu they won’t turn you down but will be EXTREMELY coy about intimate situations. Getting her to go on a date isn’t hard, it’s moving it from dinner to your apartment that they will make you work for. Deagu guys tend to be extremely feminine so the girls are expecting that so you gotta tone the game differently.
Busan is a totally different style, you try that Seoul sh1t there and the girls will laugh at you. You can not be a keijibae, gotta act aggressive and masculine. Every girl I’ve met from Busan has been amazingly cool, and just about every cool girl I’ve ever met as been from Busan. This from someone who’s been living in Deagu for a decade now.
I haven’t really messed around much in the western area and only dated a few girls from Daejon.
Yeah so many Busan girls I’ve met are super easy going. Very feminine but can handle their own lives. It also helps that if they are from another city, they are living alone up in Seoul.
Or until they stop reading your Kakao messages and answering your phone calls!
you like Indian girls?
heck even Indian guys dont like indian girls.
source: my Dad who is indian married an irish lass [my mum]
I am talking about physical appearance compared to other Asian races.
Maybe ur DAD is a color-racist…or maybe too much firang influence?
what the fuck is a firang?
The only connection I could make is that farang with an “a” means foreigner in Thai. But maybe firang is Hindi.
ty good guy redpole for answering that …
fo’ sho’!
Probably farang. Typo.
I like some Indian girls, if they’re hot or are married to someone else i like and are nice to me.
Firangi is a Hindi word.. never knew farang was an actual word in thai…
So, what does Firangi mean in Hindi?
And firangi means..?
it means foreigner in hindi -_-
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Tall is definitely a plus, but besides that, I’ve only known a handful of western guys that were good looking and there are not enough similarities among them to pull out what the key factors are.
For me, it was my height, since I’m over 6′. I also had a beard at the time, which garnered me mixed results. Then, throw in the fact that I’ve been philosophical for most of my adult life and took an active interest in the Korean culture when I was over there.
Not sure if that made me a superstar, but I’m sure it made me stand out from other foreign teachers — especially the “backpacker” types that were breezing in and out of the country on a monthly basis.
This article makes me think Korean girls are not worth the trouble. They sound like the American girls of Asia?
Koreans are notoriously materialistic and status-conscious. Not sure if this goes back centuries or not, but I’ve definitely encountered this in my time.
A story . . .
An older friend of mine, several years ago, was talking with an older, married Korean woman. The woman asked him for advice on what kind of car to get since she and the hubby were in the market for a new car. My friend recommended that they look at a Honda Accord or a Hyundai Elantra, because my friend cares not one shit about looks in a car, but reliability, value, and return on investment. The Korean woman told him that the Accord might be something to consider, but completely disparaged the Elantra. “That’s a peasant’s car,” she said, dripping with sarcasm. But, she didn’t seem that sold on the Accord.
She eventually wound up buying a Mercedes. Obviously, she was concerned about keeping up appearances.
Eh, I’m glad I did nothing with them. My biggest problem over seas is other men who could be part of my group are usually lame. Ambitious, but lame. They usually make it there with no game and rely on “come get my green card” thinking.
Literally useless as a wing man. Prone to cock blocking and back stabbing rather then relying on their own skill to get girls. Sounds to me like Korean women would be very adept at weeding out and manipulating young bucks from overseas knowing these men view them like goddesses; compared to their more in demand male Korean peers.
The only guys I have known to cock block in any culture are the ones who have no chance themselves of getting girls. If a bunch of Western men come in and marry off the dregs of my society I see it as an over all net positive. If only the Chinese would come here and take our dreg feminists away and introduce them to the communist culture they seem to love so much. Where is that Genie bottle again?
There are definitely bars you can go to where you won’t get cock blocked in Itaewon and in Hongdae…but as you pointed out, it is the dregs.
Not to mention anywhere there’s a US military base. Soldier groupies.
“compared to their more in demand male Korean peers”
For marriage, kids, and the stable life, yes. For fun . . . not very likely.
Though I certainly welcomed the opportunity over there to develop my social skills with women, and subsequently bang five Korean girls, I certainly wouldn’t have married one of them.
A story . . .
A fellow American English teacher I knew was married to a Korean woman and had a son with her. She ran her own business and he assisted, while teaching at the university where I was and kissing plenty of Korean ass to keep his job. She had somewhat expensive tastes and had had enough leverage over her family to come here to the US to study, when she met him. They married and agreed to live in Korea.
Though I liked and respected the guy, generally, something deep inside of me made me resent and even loathe the guy for allowing himself to be in that situation. I had heard that Korean culture and law puts foreigners in a completely separate category. No matter how well this guy spoke Korean, knew the culture, and got along with his Korean associated, if she decided to divorce his ass at some point, she’d get everything, including the son. The guy would have no legal recourse and would eventually have to leave the country.
She had the upper hand, clearly: a business, a husband who wasn’t Korean (a stronger Korean guy would have put her in her place at the time they married), and she had a son that was a Korean citizen.
Definitely true. But keep in mind that most of the soldiers are banging Philippino hookers aka “juicy girls” because instead of drinks, you buy them a juice.
Korea’s nod to comfort women.
So….did she treat him badly and take advantage of the situation?
Or did everything work out ok?
No idea. She was pleasant enough and seemed to work well with him. Mostly, I was appalled at the state of affairs that he had gotten himself into. It chafed against my sense of remaining free of that kind of bondage.
So…he married a Korean woman who ran a successful business and was able to help her run it so they could make enough money to live a decent life, they had a son together.
The girl came from good enough stock and had enough money that she could travel and live in/study in the US
I’m wondering…if you think this is loathsome situation….what would you consider to be a good one?
To me it seems like the guy took a bit of a gamble putting himself in that position but it worked out well for him.
“She had the upper hand, clearly: a business, a husband who wasn’t Korean (a stronger Korean guy would have put her in her place at the time they married), and she had a son that was a Korean citizen.”
Also i’m curious, what do you mean ‘put her in her place’ ?
Make her stop running the business? Force her to hand over ownership/leadership? Made her stay at home and look after the kid while he battled his way through the ass kissing at the English job?
Please clarify…..
Thanks
1. A good one for me is being free of constraints. Of being able to leave the relationship on my own terms, if it ever broke down, and have access to my son at all times.
Indeed, it did seem to work out well for him. At least on the surface. Then again, I probably was projecting my own discomfort on such a state of affairs.
2. “Put her in her place” refers to how a Korean man would have treated her, not the American dude.
1. Agreed about the constraints thing, and especially about the Son thing, although I don’t think that is much different in any country regardless of who you marry.
2. Put her in her place…..
I think she was with your friend because he provided a very different experience than what a K guy would have provided….so if he’d behaved like a K guy instead of himself then maybe he would have ended up with a divorce and all these other problems…..
I don’t really understand why you think an American guy should behave the same way a Korean guy should just because he is dating and Korean girl…it doesn’t make a lot of sense because the girl is dating the American guy because she wants an American experience….
If you could explain that better please?
Thanks
Kane
She wasn’t “Korean”, she was westernized. Most of the English speaking ~spent years abroad~ Korean girls do not act Korean at all when their around weigooks. I’ve run into those and I let them know that I ~know~ how sh!t works and I won’t tolerate that crap. Then again I’m not an English Teacher and tend to score somewhat high on the status ladder.
Only up in 2ID land (Wejongboo and above) where there are no large universities to provide young college poon. Soldiers in Seoul will predominately be dating college age Korean girls who are only into it for the experience.
Here’s something for you guys, Korean guys talk A LOT about the girls they f*ck. I know this because my best friends are exclusively Korean guys who I’ve known for years, and all they talked about were the different “just for fun” girls they had. Korean girls know this and don’t want to get a bad reputation at their university as that reputation will follow them their entire life. If she thinks your discrete you immediately get bonus points. She’ll obviously drop you whenever she finds a guy she wants to actually date seriously, though you may still get midnight semi-drunk booty calls, or can even schedule her to come over when you want.
I once had a plate that I spun for eight months, first year university study who had a large desire to learn and experience with sex. Ended up doing ~everything~ imaginable. She would see something on some random internet p0rn and want to “try it out”. Really crazy kinky sex. Eventually she got transferred to a university in another country and we cut things off. Just one of many stories involving college chicks wanting to screw around discretely.
A feminist is a person who believes in equality between the sexes as well as liberation from these tired old gender roles (The ones that men often complain about, for example paying for dinner, drinks etc)
Do you think it makes women feel good when men write articles like this, that view us as objects of sport?
It doesn’t.
I suggest you read a few posts on this great website and try to get an understanding on just one of the reasons why we need feminism.
Men can be feminists too, you know. I hope one day you will be one too!
everydaysexism.com
I think you’ll find that the men on this site are quite happy with the “tired, old gender roles.” I know I am.
Men who complain about having to buy girls drinks, complain because they don’t like losing out to guys who can afford to buy drinks.
And as for what makes people feel, good–this is one of the problems with modern American society. Everyone wants to sit around singing kumbaya rather than talk about and deal with reality.
I know men can be feminists. Here’s an example:
http://michaelurbina.com/101-everyday-ways-for-men-to-be-allies-to-women/
Thanks, but no thanks.
Hey,
Luckily each website has it’s own specific address.
Which means if you don’t like particular articles, you don’t have to read them, how awesome is that?
Same thing when you’re at the club or anywhere else and some person you don’t like comes up and talks to you, you can just ignore them/walk away from them or tell them to go away.
Also i’m curious to know if you even actually read the article?
It said that Korean guys typically try to get the girls drunk so they can bang them, here are bunch of good clubs. gangnam is the best and status is one of the best tools for getting whatever you want in regards to Korean values and society…..
What exactly is there in that that women would have a problem with?
It didn’t degrade women, it didn’t objectify them, and I certainly don’t see how it made women ‘objects of sport’.
BTW most feminists who are active on the internet and are ‘waging the war’ against the evil bad men…seem to be old and pretty trash…..so it’s not surprising they would be cranky and whining about men talking about how to get with women.
Lastly:
This article is written for men on a mens website……so thanks for visiting, please keep in mind that it is information for guys to use when it comes to finding the Korean gf(s) they want to do the dirty with, love, have babies with and whatever else.
Any complaints should be sent to your nearest Church/and or Jesus, as that is your best chance of getting the entire world and society fixed to the way you want it.
Youre thinking of an equalist. Which most feminists are not. Please go preach to whatever choir you normally share this shit with because no one here cares. Perfectly content with old gender roles. And thats not an invitation for your flawed analysis into why im content with it. Its me advising you I will do everything in my power to actively impede your cause, as it has not had any relevance or merit since the 90s. Women can be masculists too by the way! I hope you see the light someday.
Kanevast……adiaforon is a racist……put her in a place meant just that. He is a dinosaur with outdated worldview…….Korea is rich now and some Korean girls, especially those whose parents are able to sustain studies abroad for 5 years etc are not subservient to any man, foreigner or Korean.
Interesting post , I myself a white male who happens to be with a very intelligent and independent lady of Chinese heritage.
I never looked upon women as sexual play things. I never set out to find an Asian female either but happened to meet this lady and we hit it off well. She is nothing like what I have been reading here about Asian women. I have a great respect for her independent nature and she does not see me as a walking wallet , she makes her own money we go out to dinner i will pay and the next time she pays and that is how she likes it. Obviously she values me as an individual first and foremost
as I do her. All the rest just naturally fell in to place.
I kind of feel sad for some of these guys who think with the other head. They will never be happy or be able to stay with one female being jaded like they are.
In general guys will stick with a girl if they think she is a better option than their others…most of the guys who you think will never be happy are very similar to the women who claim to want to get married but are never happy with any of the offers…
Additionally, this article is primarily about the initial meet. Korean girls are quite happy to split bills, buy dinner, or whatever, but how feasible that is depends a lot on the relative incomes of the two.
I don’t expect a 25yo yoga instructor to be able to pay for her own plane ticket to fly to Thailand and split the bills with me on hotels and food.
You obviously know nothing about feminism, it’s called feminism because women are the oppressed ones trying to reach equality with men, and men who are feminist are people who acknowledge their own privilege and support women in this cause. The fact that you got so aggravated by my initial response and your extremely degrading and plain mean answer to it tells me you’re extremely far from seeing me as an equal. And I’m pretty sure you don’t know shit about feminism, I think as soon as you hear that word you get angry, which is exactly why we need it.
By your own logic, if you didn’t like my comment why did you get so angry about it and decided to write me an answer? If you re-read my initial comment I think you will find it’s just a comment and not an angry attack on someone as yours is. It’s not even very controversial to antifeminists such as yourself.
The reason I comment on sites like this (sorry “man-sites”) is because I’m interested yet absolutely horrified by the way some men discuss women and I believe that its destructive to women all over the world.
Aand of course you had to throw in the old “Old ugly women are feminist because they can’t get a man”
SURPRISE! Women want other things in life than a man! BAM
I happen to be 22 years old and I get laid on a regular basis, and you know what? I’m still gonna be on your “man-sites” commenting
in your own words “if you don’t like it, don’t read it”
Hi,
Firstly it was nice that you’ve replied after such a long break.
The article was written to help guys get more success in Korea.
You’re coming on here to debate pointless things that people here have no interest in, so you’re effectively wasting our time and attention that could be spent working on other things, like getting more Korean girls/getting the perfect Korean girlfriend.
I wrote you an answer because I believe the things you’re saying and the way you’re thinking is flawed and that it is taking up valuable space on the discussion board.
Same deal if I went to a feminist forum and started bitching and spouting off my warped and unfounded views on feminism – no one cares and it doesn’t improve the situation for neither them nor me.
“A feminist is a person who believes in equality between the sexes as well as liberation from these tired old gender roles (The ones that men often complain about, for example paying for dinner, drinks etc)
Do you think it makes women feel good when men write articles like this, that view us as objects of sport?
It doesn’t.
I suggest you read a few posts on this great website and try to get an understanding on just one of the reasons why we need feminism.
Men can be feminists too, you know. I hope one day you will be one too!”
Our gender roles are part of our evolution – men go out and build stuff, protect everyone and bring home dead animals.
Women rear the children until they’re physically capable enough to join the men or join the women (depending on it being a boy or a girl obviously).
Women are better suited for nurturing (boobs?) and providing emotional support.
Why?
Men are physically stronger, women are emotionally stronger or at least more in touch with their emotions.
So I think it makes sense to stick to our strengths.
Men and Women are not equal and never should be – why? Because we are both better at other stuff.
I don’t think that means that we should all be forced to only do our particular ‘roles’ but I do think it’s a bit much when women come onto male dating advice sites and try to tell us our wrongs – we don’t need you here, go away.
I also think it’s plain retarded for men to do the same on women’s websites, so there’s some equality for you.
“Do you think it makes women feel good when men write articles like this, that view us as objects of sport?It doesn’t.”
We don’t care how it makes you feel because we didn’t write it for you, just as I don’t care whats in the bible.
If you don’t like it, don’t read it – no one made you come here and do that and I think it’s quite rude that you feel entitled enough to shove your opinions at us – we didn’t ask for that, we don’t want it.
Do you understand?
It’s totally fine for you to have an opinion, you should, just as I also have one, but I’m not gonna go on your website and force it upon you, go and complain to your friends about it instead of posting it here.
“It’s not even very controversial to antifeminists such as yourself.”
I live in China, we dont’ even have feminists here, and if we did they are the ‘come to teach for one year and leave because no one was interested in me’ type due to the local competition.
So by that note I can’t consider myself an ‘antifeminist’ because i’m simply so far from even caring about any of those issues – they don’t affect me and I think they were sorted out well enough a long time ago.
“Aand of course you had to throw in the old “Old ugly women are feminist because they can’t get a man””
Ah yeah, I think i wasn’t clear enough here.
What I meant was that most attractive women are too busy out on dates with guys/in the club/getting laid/shopping/on boats cruising around some beautiful scenic place and having a good time in life to focus on ‘feminist issues’ and ‘getting equality in the work place’ so that you’re mostly left with unattractive women that don’t get much attention who have a lot of time to spend on the internet discussing/warmongering about feminism.
“SURPRISE! Women want other things in life than a man! BAMI happen to be 22 years old and I get laid on a regular basis, and you know what? I’m still gonna be on your “man-sites” commenting
in your own words “if you don’t like it, don’t read it””
I’m not surprised, I want other things than just girls in life too.
But I can tell you – how we are designed means that the opposite sex places an incredibly large role in regards to how and why we live our lives particular ways.
Unless you’re referring to lesbians, then you’re absolutely correct.
Congratulations, you manage to get laid, i’m glad to here that sometime somewhere you’re making another man happy, that makes you a good person.
I am kinda confused as to why you’re mentioning it though….perhaps the old trash cat lady comment struck a nerve? and you feel the need to show that you’re ‘getting some action’…..? no…of course not…that couldn’t be the case.
I thought you were a feminist…..meaning you want to promote and advance the feminist cause of equality for both sexes and all that…..so…how does commenting on ‘man sites’ do that exactly? It doesn’t.
I would be happy to see your comments again, if they are constructive or in some way beneficial to the website and the article itself, if you’re posting for that purpose, then please do so.
If you’re posting because you have differing opinions or what you’re going to post is likely just to kill more of my very few remaining brain cells, then please don’t.
Lastly – you’re posting on a man site, If I want to read the man site (which was created and made for me, a man) then now i’m forced to wade through various inane pointless arguments mainly started by women who dislike the content…..now if I’m not going on feminist websites and posting rubbish articles….yet you’re coming here and doing so….that’s not very equal….not very feminist.
Thanks for reading, it was a lot of fun replying.
Kane Vast
Feminism is nothing but a marketing ploy now to empower women over men. PERIOD. Before it was a good thing, but now it’s just another thing humanity should be ashamed of. Equalism is equalism, not feminism. But if I had to make a choice given the economy for men, I’d be a masculinist. You know, the guy who bothers to defend innocent men from materialistic rape accusations brought on by some spider bitch looking to ruin his life because the social status of the world deems men too capable in life therefore undeserving of medial support.
You know the type, the same ones you refuse to believe exist. You might say you know of them, but you don’t care, you never will. You’re too busy getting whipped and one sided. You want peace? Stop advertising your cunts all over the internet as if women are the only victims on the planet. Anything you say now after that load of crap will be unbelievable to anyone with a decent education or adequate amount of common sense.
FYI, I was raped at a young age, nobody gave a fuck.
And I sure as hell didn’t label all the women on earth as potential rapists like society(i.e. feminists) has done to men.
I actually strongly support sugar mama. However, many girls have double standard and don’t wanna be equal when they are the ones who receive benefits. For instance, women are greedy and still want men to pay for dates. EVEN Cosmo has an article on women are greedy and want men pay
The men don’t perform too well. In the past I had a Korean pro. violinist, wife of the head of their church in the country I lived in, in SE Asia. .. and was she aggressive! Mind you she wasn’t a 10, (an orgasm on each stroke), maybe just a hungry 7. I just ‘effed her brain once….and I was in…”my God, you do have the most beautiful eyes I’ve seen!”
Sorry, that’s true in China as well. Unfortunately.
Must be an Asian thing, in general.
I think it’s actually more of a socio-economic thing. The longer a person, family or culture has been secure economically, the less they tend to worry about these things.
Maybe. But, especially with the Chinese, it’s the nouveaux riche syndrome.
a ha Jamie boy, you are locked into peasant thinking yourself. What I realise is that a lot of 3rd raters Westerners parade Asia dating broke Asian girls…..Korea is different. Whilst Japan is richer than Korea, on average, most Koreans are better off than Japanese….I stress on average…..this informs their behaviour. I don’t see any hint of materialism in your anecdote but I could smell your shortcomings!
I love girls that are well aware of their self worth. Korean girls over Japanese girls for me. Japanese are easily pleased until you marry them. Koreans on the other hand are hard to please until you date a fine one,
Tighten up
If you watch any hidden vids on Korea, their chicks are really horny once in place… aggressively making the moves for coupling.
So basically, for short term stay (2 weeks or less), it doesn’t seem worth it. Esp. if you don’t speak any of the major languages, China & Japan seem like much better bets if you’re into the whole Asian girl thing.
Remember that he’s also talking about Seoul here. Too many foreigners go to Seoul and so the girls there have too many foreign dick options.
As with other places, second- or third-tier cities are better choices, especially if there for more than a week.
Plus, I’ve been to Seoul. It’s too large, too many people, and oppressive.
Yes, I understand the 2nd/3rd tier phenomenon, but I fear that in Korea, which is fairly conservative, provincialism might rule and the girls might be even less likely to want to bang a foreigner.
How are Busan and Incheon, for example? Is lack of English more of a problem?
I was there several years ago, so things were a little different, mind you.
I’d assume that the English conversation skills of the girls in the smaller cities is better than it was years ago, because of the Net and their access to English-language media. (Of course, this is also assuming that they’re motivated to learn more about the wider world.)
The trick is to find those that are able to carry on a conversation without too many pauses. They don’t have to be fluent, but confident enough where they can speak without making too many mistakes. You can also work yourself into her good graces by being patient and offering to correct their mistakes. Most earnest students in the language schools will not take offense if you correct them because they really do want to learn. This is also assuming that you’re working as an English teacher, which I did. That in itself will establish some cred, and give you access to girls who want to be with foreigners.
Don’t assume that provincialism is all-pervasive in the smaller cities. You might be surprised when you find a girl that’s interested in dating a foreigner from a smaller city, and from a fairly conservative family. Even years ago, I heard the stories of some English teachers cleaning up with local girls because the girls were so eager to learn about foreigners.
Inch’eon is part of the larger Seoul metro area, so I’d assume that what happens in Seoul bleeds over into that city. Might be worth doing some digging.
Finally, Pusan is the second largest city in Korea, so what happens in Seoul might also happen there. That really wasn’t my impression when I visited there, though I did detect a difference between the north, where Seoul is, and the south, where Pusan is. Pusan is a port city and near the water, so expect that crowd. Also, there are several Russians that come and go from the city, because of the port.
my korean friend told me there are a few places where foreign guys are treated as a ‘novelty’ in a positive way. other places good to try are korean school teachers [they have exposure to foreigners], korean university students [same thing]
I can say, outside of Seoul, the cockblock rate goes up like 10 fold. They’re extremely conscious of who’s watching them, and if anyone even gives them an inkling of a dirty look, you’re gone.
I lived in small-town Korea for 2 years, just got back recently.
I’ve heard mixed reviews about Busan. Guys who have lived there all prefer Seoul from a dating perspective, but it seems that people in Busan can be more welcoming in general.
Most of the foreign teachers here at some point get action from their Korean co-teachers or other co-worker. Usually the quality isn’t great though…
Yes, this is true. Seoul is more international and liberal, so you wouldn’t have this problem. In the smaller cities, being the foreigner means you stick out and so have to be careful with how you conduct yourself. I probably would have scored more girls back in those days had I not been living in smaller cities.
On the other hand, you can play the “foreigner cache” much better in the smaller cities provided that you’re not overt in your desire to hook up with their girls. The key, just like in many other cases, is to have the girls come to you if they’re interested — and then be discreet about it.
Or even former students.
Good point.
In my view, Busan girls are the best for dating/long term relationships. I love their sattoori accent and they are more easy-going. That being said, I’m rarely fetishized since I’m KAmerican and girls usually want to date me long term.
busan + university areas + beach = fun
also i guess you could go to any bar and meet a ton of [foreign] girls in their 20s who are drunk on soju after working in hagwons [after school] teaching english.
you will probably meet women from all over the world, that are a) lonely b) easy
All the foreign guys in in Korea agree that Korea only attracts the lowest quality of western girl. Much easier than she would be back in her own country since she hasn’t had a guy ask her on a date or even check her out in 6 months.
But I suppose if you want easy, that’s the way to go in Seoul.
Korea, or East Asia in general, isn’t a great place for white women, so I’ve heard. I heard the same complaints years ago from these girls. They often complained that their white male counterparts got way more attention than they ever did. 😉
Yeah, but it builds character. It’s so funny to see them off their pedestals and I think it makes them realize how good they have it back in the US where even the worst girls get plenty of attention without even trying.
I have noticed that the quality of European girl in the last 2 years has skyrocketed though. These girls are usually 19-22 because they are European and thus can’t be Eng teachers. They are usually around Sinchon as students at Sogang, Hongik, Yonsei. I’ve met lots of Dutch/Swedish/French girls here who LOVE Korea and dont’ complain every fucking moment about it. They’re also thin and much more feminine than American girls.
Ain’t a place for foreign women or Black men. In the past, Black men used to hook up with the foreign women in Asia, but now since Asian men are on the rise and Black men have fallen off the map completely, Black are stuck to jacking off or going gay in the far east.
I agree that Japanese girls have the best faces but Chinese girls having the biggest tits are outright lies. I mean they dont even have milk there, just powderey shit, so the women dont grow big ones on average. On average Korean women have bigger tits for sure.
6years in seoul and 1&1/2 years in shanghai and HK
I mean I have almost never seen a chinese woman with big tits unless she was in her late thirtees or 40s and mid life age. Some Korean girls are really busty with a thin waist also.
“I mean they don’t even have powdered milk there”
LOVED this! Hahahahahahahahahahaha!!
But, I think you’ve only been exposed to Southern Chinese. The quality of Chinese girls in Shanghai and Hong Kong isn’t very good at all. You have to go to Beijing, and Chengdu, or find girls that aren’t from Hong Kong and Shanghai.
In general Southern Chinese girls don’t have a very good reputation for attractiveness. Also, Taiwanese girls have bodies comparable with Korean girls.
I think that you’re opinion has been skewed by having lived in Shanghai and Hong Kong. The only time I think the girls in Hong Kong are hot is when I’ve just come from Shanghai, and the only time I think the girls in Shanghai are hot is when I’ve just come from Kuala Lumpur!
The best Chinese girls in Shanghai and Hong Kong are from other parts of China and in general, southern Chinese girls are not known for their attractiveness.
Lots of hot girls in Beijing(yaaay!) and in Chengdu(according to everyone’s reports). Also, Taiwanese girls are quite good as well. I think that if you go to those places you’ll agree with me.
Go to Chengdu and you will find that to be very different, DongBei girls are usually pretty well stacked too.
Daejeon in Duncheon-dong is amazing for girls. No rich place like Gangnam where you can separate based on wealth/class. All the girls must go out in the same place.
Or you could just hit up Western Canada/USA or any major city. You don’t actually have to get a visa to meet these girls.
Thank you for taking the high road and not inserting a “Gangnam Style” pun in there.
Google, Groupon and Samsung are the high status examples? Interesting. In the US high flying tech jobs certainly pay well, but they definitely aren’t panty droppers. Any idea what makes South Korea different?
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Also, keep in mind that what Korean girls are looking for more than anything is stability. It’s not so much that they want to spend a ton of money once they’re married.
In fact, it’s likely that once they’re married they’ll be super money conscious. Even my friends in long term relationships have their girls suggesting the move into little hovels in the middle of nowhere to save on rent so they can save up to buy a house when they get married(mind you the guys aren’t thinking about marriage).
hahaha that is so common. Because guys are supposed to have a house already purchased before marriage…and women are supposed to buy the furniture.
Careful of the use of the word “intelligence” here. The kids, certainly, study for incredibly long hours to get into the top universities. Much of the Korean education system is based on rote learning, and computer geekery is very common because of the stress on math and science. It’s no wonder that they, and other East Asians, run circles around us.
But, consequently, their social skills are usually severely hindered by all this studying, and they have to play major catch-up once they’re in university, where they tend to slack off a bit because they “made it.” This, I remember, is the time when they start doing the things that we Americans, in particular, take for granted: e.g., learning how to drive, working part-time jobs, and dating. Because of their retarded social skills, the guys are dweebs and the girls fall into the “giggly Asian girl syndrome.” Fine for a while, because it’s a display of femininity and submissiveness. But, after that, you tend to tire of a 22 yr old acting like she’s 11.
I don’t know about this disdain for the “giggly Asian girl syndrome”. To me, it’s called fun. As opposed to the American girls who I met in Beijing last night.
Her: Do you speak Chinese?
Me: No, I speak Japanese.
Her: Really? *speaks to me in 3 sentences of broken Japanese* Why do you speak Japanese?
Me: Because I lived there for 9 years.
Her: No, you didn’t. So, you’re friend is a pedophile…
Give me the Asian girl giggles any time.
Good point.
Not saying that it’s unattractive or anything. It’s similar to how refreshing it is to hear someone speak fluent or near-fluent English after having to slooooow down and have the girl repeat herself in her broken English so that you can understand her.
Otherwise, spot on. Yes, I’ll take the giggly Asian girl over the Americunt.
Wow. LOL. Brave man. That would have to be the first time a white girl was approached in a bar in China. 😀
I’m fearless 😉
As long as you’re not Black. Black people are seen as subhuman, and the few girls that go Black don’t want a nerdy engineer type, while a nerdy white or latin guy is in pussy paradise.
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Koreans, just like other Asians, view science and technology as the Holy Grail. Asian kids are made to study for ridiculously long hours every day, the competition is very intense, and only the smartest get to the good colleges and then get a good job in a big tech company. What I’m trying to say is the girls over there really find intelligence as attractive.
And about what you said in the US: Maybe not if you’re a rookie employee of Google or Samsung, but if you’ve got a good position you’re definitely looking at say a 26-27 year old guy with a $300k per year salary, probably drives a BMW and has a nice upscale apartment. Most American girls would be all over him
Off topic: Please don’t bundle Groupon in there. They’re on the verge of Bankruptcy and booted their CEO a few months back. 😛
Lols…this guy I mentioned was back about 3 years ago when the Groupon thing was new and it was the big thing and growing like mad. It wouldn’t be so meaningful now. The Google guy I mentioned was back in 2007, so it had much bigger cache than now too because the web was still the “it” thing since mobile apps and smartphones hadn’t really hit the market yet.
It’s all about status. SK is a ton more competitive then the USA, “just be happy with yourself” doesn’t fly at all. Everyone competes for status and your social circle is your gateway to success. To get social circles that will contain people able to get you those high value jobs requires that you go to a SKY university or KAIST (theier version of MIT). Getting into the schools requires you to be crazy good at studying or have rich parents. So anyone working at a high end company is going to be from a solid family background with access to money.
Its the access to money part that the girls are look at. All women are materialistic as f*ck but Korean girls don’t even pretend to be otherwise. To get access to the high end you need to display lots of status or have incredibly good gaming skills. Even then with most Apujang girls no amount of gaming skills will make up for a perceived lack of monetary status.
Also booking clubs aren’t always about going home with a drunk girl at 4am. It’s about collecting large amounts of numbers for later dates and hook ups. Honestly I’ve stopped going to those clubs, girls there are just hunting for guys to spend lots of money on them.
I’ve found top quality women to be equally challenging in pretty much every major city I’ve lived in. Seoul was no more or less difficult.
With regards to getting 8+ women, I’ve found that cities with a large number of tourists (London for example), have a slight edge in how easy it is to pull quality as the women seem to let go slightly when they are away.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
If you have those things, you still need game. If you don’t have those things, you need even more game. Notice I said that the rich guys with tables just get more time with the girls…they mostly go home alone too.
Also, their sex ratio is atrocious. It’s not uncommon for young Korean women to have several boyfriends and mooch off them all.
Really good point and not something often mentioned. There are a lot more guys than girls in Korea so that accounts for another reason why the competition is so fierce.
Yep, very true. Anytime you have an unfavorable sex ratio like this, the competition is bound to be fierce.
The funny thing is that if you are a really handsome dude and heaps of girls are inviting you out and trying to treat you real nice….are you likely to say, no thanks…..?
Very unlikely for most guys, a very large number of us would take the goodness the girls are offering and bang a bunch of them without thinking about it too much.
So i can kinda get the girls perspective, which also makes me respect the girls i date a lot more if they are exclusively with me as they always get a lot of attention but decide to spend their time just with me.
Also all the K girls i’ve dated have been incredibly loyal and respectful…..at times a little emotional and bitchy but no more than most Western women i’ve come across.
What are you talking about <.<
I’ve been living in Daegu since 2003 and there are ~always~ more young girls out then guys. Mandatory military service tends to artificially reduce the number of guys actively competing for the college poon.
Something that needs mentioning is that kgals go through at least two (maybe three?) distinct dating phases. First is the 18~24 phase where their in college or just outside of it, their absolutely not looking for marriage and date purely for “fun”. At 27+ they start looking for someone to marry and their entire strategy changes. Things related to family and Korean social status become much more important. The weigook boyfriend who was fine to date in her early 20’s is not acceptable to her parents / friends. This makes young girls actually much easier to date / spin plates then the older crowd.
As a 31yo male working at a multinational corporation complete with a high rise apartment and imported car I’ve had an insane amount of college poon. Trying for anything more has been nearly impossible. Kind of a weird reverse situation then in the USA. This is why game appears to be less important, it’s only when they hit 27+ that you need to game them into sleeping with you. They are incredibly conscious of “the wall”.
Completely agree with the articles status comments. Everything here is about perceived status. Your outward appearance of value will do most of the initial work required. Walk up to a cute / hot korean girl and just say a few words, if you look like you have status they won’t shut you down. You can pretty much guarantee a phone number and a few dates with perceived status alone, of course in the long run she might not stay around.
Oh to the OP, about the hot girls in Seoul. Get the f*ck out of Seoul. Deagu and Busan (my favorite is Busan) both have much hotter girls then what you’ll find in Apujang. Both have their down sides. Deagu is an ultra conservative city, the hot girls here can be very hard to date (covert sex usually isn’t a problem though). Busan on the other hand is crazy red pill. The guys there are very masculine and the women end up expecting their guy to be “tough”.
So yeah Korea is a great place to spin plates if you can understand the difference perspective and how they treat status.
Spot on about the age differences. One of my most common pieces of advice for guys is to go for younger women…ie under 25 because of the marriage thing.
Most western guys are sitting around wanting a “more mature” woman. Then they bitch about how all the girls are talking about marriage and as soon as they find out they don’t want to marry, they bitch about how the girl leaves them!
If you have those things, you still need game to keep the girl. Otherwise you’re just giving her free shit while she bangs someone else. There is not avoiding working on game. Money, Cars Fame… you still have to do the hard work on inner game, etc.
Speaking of beta…
http://asiandatingmonthly.com/beta-males-triumphant/
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
Sounds like game is not required on South Korean women. Owning a nice car or working at a “status” company like Google or Samsung is not game. That is old school beta game and it sounds like it works best there.
3 rules of korean girls:
1) They have one of the highest rates of plastic surgery in the world. The thing is, most korean girls are actually pretty ugly and have bad teeth. [no fluoride in water] What they do fantastically though, is makeup. [just google korean girl + makeup +ugly] to get an idea. They do this a country mile better than the US so as long as you see them with makeup on its fine. So an 8 or a 9 is likely to be a 5 or a 6.
i remember reading a news report a few months ago about a rich korean guy suing his wife because his kids were ugly and [by way of plastic surgery] she decieved him into thinking she had good genetic stock. he won the case.
2) When they attach, boy do they attach. they are clingy and needy as fuck. you know that saying about the hot crazy ratio. its all about the crazy, and they get very cripplingly dependent as a result. you have to proceed with extreme caution about this.
3) squeaking like motherfuckers in bed (just like japanese girls). At first fun because its like a wolf devouring little miss riding hood, but then it turns creepy and just annoying over time. The upside is, alot of the christendom style repression results in lots of freaky fun stuff in bed.
IF you’re looking to settle down i’d say you could do much worse than a korean girl. they’re feminine, have excellent style and love all of that compassion ‘compliment and cuddle’ stuff. downsides, rich ones are pretty retarded when it comes to doing basic things like cooking etc, you’d fair better in EE or south america for practical women.
Oh and for God’s sake do not look at them the morning after the night before. I was serious about point 1) there is a 3-4 point difference on these girls with and without makeup. A good 7 might be a hard fail without makeup on.
Another caveat: they have this weird thing where the features they value more in a woman more, are not the same features westerners would value.
So a korean girl who to Koreans looks like a 6, may actually be an 8 to a westerner. They have hangs up about eye size/ looking too asian etc. which is weird as hell because part of the appeal is the whole far east, submissive look
more here: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2378854/Bigger-eye-bags-New-Korean-trend-puffy-eyes-aegyo-sal-make-surgery-filler-fat-grafts.html
“i remember reading a news report a few months ago about a rich korean
guy suing his wife because his kids were ugly and [by way of plastic
surgery] she decieved him into thinking she had good genetic stock. he
won the case.”
Looks like they ended up on a Demotivational poster:
http://weknowmemes.com/2012/05/plastic-surgery-you-cant-hide-it-forever/
All of this can be fixed with money…Koreans don’t care about cosmetic alteration the way westerners do. The most important thing is probably height. Much more difficult to fix.
haha thats the one!!!
http://www.worldcrunch.com/default/plastic-surgery-nation-chinese-man-sues-wife-for-being-ugly-wins/china-plastic-surgery-advertisement-verdict/c0s10072/
It was a Chinese guy and wife.
One of the reasons western guys do so well in Asia in general is because their taste in Asian women is very different from the local taste. My Korean/Japanese/Chinese friends always ask me why foreigners like such ugly women. Part of the reason is that many western guys will trade in on face for a better body.
Additionally, a lot of western guys and especially a lot of the western guys fresh out of college who end up in Asia are quite happy with almost anything if it’s sexually available and add in nice fashion and a happy-go-lucky attitude and they’re in heaven. (That was me 13 years ago)
1. There is a lot of plastic surgery, but most of it is so minor not
even their own family members can tell the difference. I don’t know
what you’re comparing to, but Korean girls have quite good
teeth–straight and white.
Also, Korean girls don’t wear that much makeup and go with a rather natural look–hence all the minor plastic surgery operations. The main thing the makeup does is smooth out their complexions, so look carefully and you’ll be able to see who has genuinely nice skin under the makeup.
2. Korean girls and Asian girls in general are like this because they are quite practical about their
dating lives so when they find a guy that they want to keep it means
that not only does he have the things her parents and friends think are important but she also genuinely likes him—that or she’s punching way above her weight!
3. You don’t like the way they sound in bed? I prefer this over a girl sounding like she’s fucked every guy in every bar in the city.
1. Agreed with the thing for Asian girls. Though I’m somewhat indifferent to them now, I certainly went for their much better dress sense on their much better bodies, even if they were lacking in the tit department sometimes. Overall, they had some of the best legs I had seen up to that point in my life.
2. DEFINITELY agree with the “anything if it’s sexually available.” This is why it’s imperative for guys who weren’t successful with women while in college to go overseas for a time, especially Asia. Korean girls, for all of their faults, aren’t annoying and off-putting cunts like a lot of American girls are. Just “being yourself” over in Korea is sufficient in being social and playful with Korean girls. It does wonders for a guy’s self-esteem and confidence.
3. I can also remember about how the Korean girls were much more honest in their positive behaviors. That is, as you say, if they genuinely liked the guy, they let him know it. No games-playing or opposite meanings.
4. No comment on the proto-porn star sounds. 🙂
i dont disagree with any of your points but they are most definitely needy as anything.
also based on your comments on this post it really reads like you’ve got a penchant for the old ktown girls [every single thing you’ve written about them has either been a positive or to explain a way a negative]
If you’ve been to Korea and had some good experiences with Korean girls it’s quite easy to become biased towards them.
Same as Roosh and his perchant towards EE girls…..you don’t see him talking about how much he likes American girls or even hear him talking much about South American girls anymore…..
Koreans overall are probably the best put together and best looking girls in Asia.
If you travel between China, Japan and Korea you will see that….
It can be a toss up between them all at times though…depending whose currently in front of you 😀
I can relate to the Korean girl bias, having been there myself. But, over the years, my tastes changed. Not to say that I’d never date another Asian girl again, but, at this point in my life, she has to fulfill greater requirements for me to invest any time and effort in her. When I was in my 20s and sorely deficient in positive female attention, Korean girls helped fill in that gaping hole.
And, for the record, many ‘spherians rarely say anything positive about American girls. Roosh has filled volumes with this subject.
Hey,
You mean Roosh has said good things about American girls?
If so…where?
I’m not disputing it, I am just genuinely unaware of any.
Yeah, that American girls are good as sluts and for putting out very quickly. Otherwise, finding any other redeemable qualities is like finding the fly shit in the pepper — next to meaningless.
Yeah, that American girls are good as sluts and for putting out very quickly. Otherwise, finding any other redeemable qualities is like finding the fly shit in the pepper — next to meaningless.
You’ve shoved a pillow over a girl’s mouth for screaming while you two were doing it? What kind of a horrible person are you? What if you were actually hurting her? Oh my God, this is why American men were voted one of the top 10 worst lovers in the world by women…
There is no point in judging behavior.
And actually, I like Taiwanese, Japanese, and Russian girls just as much as Korean girls.
Sooo…this comment sounds like someone who’s never had sex before, or very limited experience at the least.
Girls like violent sex. Yes, there are some women who are against it in principle, or feel uncomfortable with rough sex, but if you read up on sex by non feminist women writers you’ll see that rough sex is a BIG turn on.
Of course, it’s important that you do it right…you don’t want to ACTUALLY hurt the girl.
what in the fuck are you talking about, who are you?
I’m pretty sure this guy is a virgin and has no idea how much women love a bit of rough sex.
a) Your first point here is totally right. Many White dudes here in Korea (I’m gyopo and have lived here 6 years) can’t tell who is attractive or not. Many Kguys even make fun of ME for choosing some “ugly” girls, whereas I think they are hot (and they have a bangin’ body). I also have lots of gyopo gfs who complain how they don’t get the attention in Seoul that they get back in LA or Atlanta. This is also why many below average Kgirls like white guys and end up with them. Many Kgirls don’t have a fetish for white guys but simply they are the guys who have shown lots of interest in them.
Conversely, some of my Kguy friends have hooked up with the ugliest white chicks I’ve seen. I try to stop them but they are hooked on “big noses and boobs”. I’m sure you know what I’m talking about, so it goes both ways~
b) Yes, it seems that when foreigners first get here (including myself), you see ANY girl who weighs under 120 lbs and you’re like “I’d fuck her”. Coming from america where 8/10 women are obese, it’s like any Kgirl’s legs + heels gives you a boner
1) Surgery thing has been beaten to death
2) Kgirls do get very jealous. My exgf tried to explain this to me as Westerners view couples as two individuals whereas Koreans view a couple as one single unit. Hence, the couple clothes and overt displays of jealousy (text msg all the time; when do you get home?). On OKcupid, if you look at the questions like “is jealousy good?” almost every Kgirl, even the attractive ones, answer “yes, I’d show my partner my jealousy”. It’s a cultural thing.
3) It all depends; I’ve slept with Kgirls who sounded like they were getting raped to Kgirls who made cow sounds and were busting my ear drums. I had to put a pillow over one girl’s mouth once because she was screaming. I think this is individual.
Even to this day, I have no fucking clue why oh why the Korean girls have this fascination with trying to look Western, especially with their eyes via plastic surgery.
They don’t actually make their eyes look western at all. The goal with the eye surgery is for eyes to be BIGGER. That’s more attractive in every culture.
So, the goal isn’t to look western exactly, it’s more to stand out from the other Koreans. So, rare features are more appreciated and the more western the look, the more rare.
Perhaps true. I had always heard that it was “Western” eyes. Yes, they wanted them to look rounder and less like slits.
1. You are incorrect, it was a Chinese guy and woman.
http://www.worldcrunch.com/default/plastic-surgery-nation-chinese-man-sues-wife-for-being-ugly-wins/china-plastic-surgery-advertisement-verdict/c0s10072/
Here is the link.
(I tried looking for the story you mentioned in Korea under the Korean news websites but couldn’t find it)
2. The attachment thing:
This is a cultural difference between the E and W.
Korean guys are more ‘chodey’ and attach more than Western guys usually do with their women….different parts of the world are different.
There are clear easy to do steps which can reduce or slow down how much/fast the girl gets clingy or attached…..most guys never think about these nor do them though.
The majority of the time when Asian girls get clingy or attached it cause the guy did something to make her feel that she is justified in investing that much.
I will point out that there are crazy people who ‘love you’after the first date….in all countries…
lastly:
You’re right about Westernized judging looks differently…..all across Asian there are thousands of Western dudes taking care of the ugly Asian girls (shortish, small eyes, dark skin) while I scoop up the hotties (Tall, actually are professional models, pure white skin, big eyes thanks guys 😀 😀 :D)
Oi arsehole, the plastic surgery case was in CHINA, not Korea. Korean plastic surgery rates are through the roof, not solely because of domestic demand, but international. Chinese and Japanese girls make up a large portion of the people going to see surgeons.
Thanks for pointing that out.
Truth be told, the plastic surgery rate isn’t nearly as high as I thought it was. Only 20% ages 19-49 and a large percentage of that is SO minor that you wouldn’t know the difference.
(http://en.rocketnews24.com/2013/12/11/we-compare-global-attitudes-about-cosmetic-surgery/>
Of course there are the total makeovers, but sometimes those are warranted like in this case:
Also…you just don’t know how to pick them. A lot of western guys get upset about how much effort Asian girls put into their looks.
The other option isn’t hot girls, like they imagine. So, the 5s and 6s look like, 8 because they do up their hair and makeup and stay in shape, and dress well.
In the US, the 5s and 6s look like 5s and 6s. Seems pretty obvious that it’s much better to live in a world where the girls all look good even when they’re not.
Korean girls have their charm. I’ve only banged 4 but all were very attractive. One was super easy, one was way to hard for what it was worth and the other two took modest amount of work (which I respect).
I agree 100 percent that Korean guys are the worst cockblockers. They are nationalist racist frankly. They are shitty people basically. The women are far from princesses either.
Redpole, I met you once I think at a whynot party at Pure in Osaka. Ever go there?
Well, I’m not going to agree with you on the calling them shitty people, and they have gotten a pretty raw deal historically. I think they’re the only Asian nation that’s never had an empire and they’ve spent a lot of their history getting tossed back and forth between Japan and China so it’s not surprising really.
Possible we met at a WhyNot? party but it would have been a long time ago and I wasn’t a frequent goer.. It’s more likely you ran into Apostate who lives in Osaka full time. We’re often mistaken for one another.
Koreans are generally rather racist and xenophobic. Partly because of the invasions over the centuries, and partly because of a peninsular mentality, which is along the same lines as an island mentality. Which is what Japan has had for nearly all of its history.
Korean guys are the worst cockblockers yes, but not because of nationalism. That’s a cop out. Whenever any expat runs into trouble in any foreign country, the knee jerk reaction is to blame it on something racist.
I’m K-American and Kguys will cockblock me or ANYONE. Happens to me all the time but you gotta work around it. They cockblock other Kguys too. There’s just tons of beta blue pill friendzoned Kguys and lots of girls who use them for free drinks. This is like how Kguys operate. They try to get their friend drunk and fuck them. As a result, if you see a table with 3 guys/3 girls and they say they are “friends”, I guarantee you the 3 guys are wanting those girls.
If you were trying to fuck some girl, would you let another guy come in? I doubt it.
Yeah, this is very true. Koreans are hard core competitive with one another too, but I definitely feel that they shame the girls for being with a foreign guy instead of using something else.
I and many of my friends have gotten cockblocked by random ajoshi’s. I was with this girl and I was trying to get her to go up the hill with me to a love motel, but she was reluctant. During the time I’m trying to work past it this ajoshi just starts staring at us. I ended up taxiing it back to my friends place and using the living room.
Another friend of mine was talking to a girl on the subway platform and some ajoshi started yelling at him asking him what he was doing and embarrassing the girl.
A friend was picking up a girl at Starbucks and the manager came over to tell him to stop bothering her, and SHE had to tell him it was OK and got rid of the manager. I’ve had security at CoEx mall come over and ask the girl how she knew me on NUMEROUS occasions.
I have so many stories like this…so, while I agree that it’s also tough for Koreans, Koreans don’t usually get cockblocked by random people.
Yep~ Tons of random cockblocking. Not even by guys the girls know…just RANDOM idiots on the street who see a girl with a foreigner.
This hasn’t happened to me since I’m Korean-American but it definitely happens to my other friends ALL the time.
Unfortunately, it’s a logistics thing foreigners must account for. That one final bounce to your home needs to be flawless (or close to it)…
I’m a Korean-American too but one of those dudes that lived in the motherland for half his life, stayed and studied for another half in the US, and then came back to serve in the military, I’d like to think that I got a perspective on two sides of the coin. Those ajoshi’s interruptions? I believe that Korea’s got a very nationalistic view point, and justifiably so; Korean history is ripe with invasive neighbors encroaching on their territory, the last 60 years or so of our country’s history have been focused on rebuilding what’s been leveled by the Korean War and before that, the poverty. My father is one of those ajoshi’s, and he can clearly recollect the days of his youth when all he wore were clothes passed down from his older siblings, and etc etc.
Couple that with Koreans being homogeneous, down to their culture. All the adults have generally been exposed to the idea that there is us, the Koreans, and them, the foreigners. AS WELL as the ongoing cases of sexual assaults and rape by the US military personnel in the Korean peninsula. To those ajoshis or anyone else that interrupted your friends’ pick up game, any foreign looking dude that seemed to be sticking like white on rice on a Korean girl most probably kicked in a mind set of “protecting our fellow Korean from the shady foreigner” rather than “he’s gettin LAID? Not while I AM around!”
Of course it’s a different case with the current gen dudes in seoul. It might be xenophobia AND straight up cockblocking combined together, but you cannot discount the fact that Koreans will sticking up for another when a foreigner is in the equation.
I remember Pure. Pretty good place if you’re not Black. Same goes for all of asia.
I’ve pulled plenty of girls from Pure. It works for anyone who knows what they’re doing.
I have been to whynot parties before, but it’s been a long time so you might be mixing me up with another dude who I used to roll with who lives in Osaka.
I never thought about Korean girls and this article doesn’t make me start thinking about them. I do like other races of women, but white like me is my favorite! I learned that Gangnam is the most difficult place to pick up girls because they are both young and hot and it’s not just a song but a place.
http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-16810.html?highlight=Seoul
We are definitely on the same page…
“A lot of Korean guys still want their wives to be virgins, though that’s changing.”
For shame
Since moving to Asia and spending quite a bit of time in Korea, China/Hong Kong and Mongolia, by far the worst cockblocks i have experienced are the Mongolians. Men(boys) here don’t just angrily stare at you (expat/national couples), they will go out of their way to follow and physically beat the girl you are with, along with a good ol’ gang rape. The expat men are a little safer due to the fact that they are men, but it hasn’t stopped them to try and gang up on expats and beat them as well.
They have this massive notion to keep the Khan blood pure, funny enough it’s one of the most mixed races in the world… so i guess they are trying to keep their mixed race pure… blows my mind
When a person you want to have sex with is drunk, so drunk they can’t remember what happened the next day, so drunk that they can’t consent properly, then you don’t try to poke her with your teeny dick. That’s rape. Rape. 40 year old white men with flaccid cocks are the worst.
I agree with you. I’m describing what’s common among Korean guys with Korean girls. These are usually guys in their 20s and 30s. Western guys don’t drop the kind of cash on girls to get them roaring drunk and in general it would be quite dangerous because Koreans are really against foreigners having sex with their women so one word from her and you could very easily be trapped in jail forever…
Obviously taking advantage of people when they’re under the influence is bad. Having said that, you might want to sit down for this: there is a TON of drinking in Korea, hell, all over Asia. In Korea/Japan in particular, it’s institutionalized. You don’t think a huge percentage of women and men lost their virginity whilst drunk on Soju/Makkoli/Beer? They’re all rapists? Of course not. At the end of the day, you just have to assume that most people are cool, and people just want to have fun with other cool people. Please stop perpetuating this grotesque stereotype of foreigners in Asia as Count Dracula blood-suckers.
Korea has the 11th highest alcohol consumption per capita in the WORLD in fact, so there really is a LOT of drinking going on.
Who are you even talking too?
No one here said we condone rape.
you just seem like another random troll for posting without any real relevance or content….
and for the record – I agree with you, getting a girl so drunk that she can’t consent is bad and if you’re in that situation you shouldn’t bang her.
I also think that girls shouldn’t let themselves get so drunk away from their friends as it’s not safe for them, the world is full of bad people and rapists, here is an example of a rapist of the darkest kind
http://www.chinasmack.com/2013/pictures/bold-powerful-chengdu-woman-rapes-passing-man-on-street.html
this is disgusting and objectifies and fetishizes us. go fuck yourself, nobody would have sex with you if their life depended on it
Undoubtedly a Korean American rather than a local Korean.
I don’t think so. No KAmerican girl would refer to herself as a “Korean Lady”. On the other hand, Korean women often refer to themselves as a “lady”. It’s a common Konglish word here and that’s the English word of choice besides “woman”.
Good call! But if she is a Korean lady, I don’t see how she could disagree…unless she’s one of the actual good girls and not just one of the seeming good girls like most Korean “ladies”.
I’m a Korean-American and have been living in Seoul for 6 years. 99% of what this guy has said is spot on, especially this part: “The flake rate is atrocious and I recommend massive texting”. Kgirls are massive flakers.
As a Korean-American though, I speak Korean and have the entire demographic of Korean girls who don’t like white guys. I would say probably 4/10 Kgirls are open to white guys in hongdae, 6/10 in Itaewon (used to be like 8/10 but Itaewon is very koreanized and upscale these days). However, one you get to Gangnam/Apgujeong/Cheongdam, those rates fall to like 1/10 or even lower. If you go to Gangnam, you will be straight up ignored by most girls unless you go to specific bars/clubs that are well known foreigner spots. Some Kgirls don’t even like Korean-Americans though…and of course, some Kgirls are total shutdown machines no matter if you’re Korean, or whoever!
I also used to roll with a friend at booking clubs here. He had a mercedes. He would simply put the keychain on the table and girls would see it. He would fuck like 3 girls a night in his car.
I’d like to hear a bit more about this friend…he must have had more than just his car going for him. Lots of guys have nice cars and get nowhere.
He was quite good looking by Korean standards and had great fashion too..but Korean fashion.
He also lived in Canada and said he hated it because although he gets tons of girls in Korea, everyone thought he was gay lol.
Hahahahahahaha…so typical. Definitely guys with effeminate soft features seem to have an edge over rugged types.
I imagine he was a pretty good talker too and clearly knew how to escalate aggressively. I’m sure any western woman that found herself alone in a room with him would be surprised by how gay he isn’t!
Also, in Canada, he can’t show off his money as much. Canadian girls don’t care about it as much…On the other hand, he’s super loaded in Korea, like I said, and we both know what THAT can do for you here. His parents gave him his own Lotte castle apartment as well. Driving a Kgirl home in a BMW to your Lotte Castle apt…how can you NOT get laid?
And yeah, his English was very broken and added to his homo vibe a bit, at least when speaking English.
I’ve heard a Lexus defined as a Toyota that will get you laid.
Porsches worked for me back in the 70’s.
I imagine China is probably not so different in regards to keychains…I’ll have that tested and get back to you.
One thing I don’t think you touched on:
Kgirls who are good at English and have foreigner friends get PASSED around by foreign guys. I have met so many Kgirls here who only date foreigners/white guys. Fair enough. I actually have “converted” a few of these girls or rather “disproven” their own disdain for their own race of men (a whole other issue). Anyway, my point is that these girls get passed round like a village bicycle.
The number of foreigners in Korea who are here for over 1-2 years is pretty small. Social groups tend to move together and the degree of separation is only like 2. Case in point, 2 of my white guy friends had the same gf 3 years apart. They met here in completely disconnected ways. I also inadvertently fucked an ex-gf of my roommate once. Again, we were not introduced. These girls just are always out in Itaewon at the same bars, like Helios. Or in hongdae at Zen bar or Tinpan. Another time, a girl I fucked was actually a good friend of another girl I was dating. There is just SO much overlap. These girls who prefer foreigners stick to foreigners, obviously.
Just add them on facebook and when you see the number of “mutual friends” that pop up, you’ll be amazed.
Yes it’s pretty bad. This is why if I see a girl has had “Weigook” boyfriends I treat it as a negative. It usually means their westernized and expecting to be treated like an American girl does in the states vs how Korean girls are treated by Korean guys.
Korean guy’s, specifically their family’s and mothers, are VERY hard on Korean girls about being proper and being feminine. Since most foreigners have no f*cking clue the girls can get away with all sorts of sh!t they wouldn’t try on the local guys. Big turn off for me, if I wanted to date a self entitled princess then I would just date the psycho’s from the USA.
On the other hand, Korean girls who don’t date foreigners can be extremely hard to get with. You gotta get comfortable being the only non-Korean in a place and not pull the foreigner card. To explain this, when my best friend’s first child had his 1yr birthday, I was the only foreigner in that room. Thankfully I knew most of the family involved as their both good friends of mine and was able to be comfortable with the environment.
>Since most foreigners have no f*cking clue the girls can get away with all sorts of sh!t they wouldn’t try on the local guys.
HAHA very true. Many girls I hookup with at foreigner bars (some really like korean american guys) are serial daters of foreigners. I find out from their phones they have like 3-4 bfs and one time a girl who was on a date and making out with another guy ended up going home with me because I hit on her while her bf was in the bathroom. He went home eventually and called me out. I have so many stories of girls with bfs just going around with another foreigner. I have had white guy friends also catch girls lying about stay home. etc etc.
Korean girls are probably the biggest players in Asia…they have an easy time getting away with it because they know how to seem so massively interested that the guy doesn’t worry. Plus, with her playing all hard to get with you, you don’t imagine she’s sneaking off with some other guy so easily…but you’d be WRONG!
True true. You are a pro.
Kgirls are experts at seeming innocent as well…it was so shocking at first when I realized that Kgirls are players as well. They literally have no weakness in that regard.
One of my guys, an American dude, picked up a girl while she was on sogeting. Dude had his back turned while she was getting napkins at the cafe and my buddy moved in. Banged her on the 1st or 2nd date.
The dude was probably spending big for weeks or months and getting nothing thinking she was a nice, pure girl! Hahahahahaha
Yeah, they literally hide it so well. No guilt whatsoever and no onus to be honest at all~
My worst story was one girl I was banging for like 3 months spent 5 days in my house over Christmas one year. Found out later she had a bf this entire time and she cut me off in January to get married…
I also banged a married lady here because her husband couldn’t get it up…that also got cut off quickly after 2 months.
I also do couchsurfing in Korea and dear lord, the number of girls who readily admit they have bfs yet have sex with me is ridiculous. One Chinese girl even was texting her bf while I was banging her…This was actually the “last straw” that put me onto the “red pill”. Can’t trust bitches~
I don’t put rules on girls I’m dating, so they can bang how they want. I always tell them that it’s not that I don’t want them to bang other guys, it’s that I don’t want them to WANT TO bang other guys.
The way I figure it, if they want to, they will anyway, so why put something into the relationship that’s going to build up resentment towards me?
That’s a good way to preemptively solve any “frustration” or oneitis. And you’re right that nothing makes a girl move away from you faster than being controlling.
>it’s not that I don’t want them to bang other guys, it’s that I don’t want them to WANT TO bang other guys.
I like this alot. Tell them straight up that they can do whatever they want to do…but the point is you will make it so they won’t want to do that in the first place.
Yup, yup. Exactly!
Recently, when I meet girls who tell me they have boyfriends so they can’t meet me, I tell them that they should be my girlfriend and then they could still see the guy they’re already seeing.
I’m still working on this, but one girl thought about it for a few moments and then said to me, “Wait, does that mean that when I’m not around you’ll be able to see other girls?” She was totally serious about his question. When I told her, “Yeah, I guess so,” then the option was rejected!
So funny. Girls never cease to amaze me.
hahahaha, that is so funny. I like that offer though. I may try to use that in the future~
RPQ, why do you think K-girls are such players? Why is it that they would be sleeping with multiple guys at the same time? Is it because they want to keep their options open and find the best guy for marriage?
This is what happened to me: I picked up a 23yr old girl, who’s bf was in NY at the time. We had a 5 month long relationship (having sex multiple times and she telling me she is in love with me, she needs me and wants me, acting like a typical gf including in public blah blah blah), then the bf comes back … still for some time we continued the relationship, although I knew she was back banging the bf … then she cut if off with me, claiming that she loves her bf too much to see me anymore (whatever) … she was sweeeeeeeet, gotta be honest kkkkk … I just wonder how she could cheat on him for such a long time & claim to have fallen in love with another guy (me), if she really loved her bf SO much … I wonder why K-girls generally do this kind of thing … it really does make it hard to find a girl to settle down with, not knowing if you can trust her or not .. of course, the fact that she cheated on her bf already is an indicator that she isn’t the right kind of “settle-down-with-girl”, but I wonder if one could ever really be sure with a K-girl … I’ve heard so many similar stories of K-girls 2timing guys & banging guys on the side while in a relationship or even married … I know Koreans use different criteria in choosing partners, so I’m beginning to think it’s better to just focus on only game and getting as much good quality punani in my bed as possible … because like j.kimchi said a few threads down, “This was actually the “last straw” that put me onto the “red pill”. Can’t trust bitches~”
So I realized this … in Korea (Asia), don’t fall in love …
Girls always have an underlying tension between, a) having fun and banging the highest value men they can, and b) competing for the best long term partner they can land.
The pressure on the two is even more so because women aren’t brought up with the concept of financial independence in Korea and really need to do the family and marriage thing.
Hey RPQ, as always you know just what to say in a few words … thanx mate … yeah, in my 5 years in Korea, I’ve come to the realization that K-girls have it harder than we think … they have to be and act a certain way within the little “box” they find themselves, and then they have to try to make the best of their situation within that little “box” … it must be hard trying to find one’s identity and future in someone else! … I almost feel sorry for them 🙂 … However, I don’t see this as an excuse for acting the way some K-girls do … it’s a too easy excuse to just hide behind the “it’s okay to do it because there is no other way” mask …
As a side issue, the fact that the girl in question could fall in love with another man & be in a relationship with that guy for months, anycase shows that she isn’t emotionally satisfied in the relationship with her bf … and then for her to go back to that same bf she couldn’t be faithful to, well … dumb girl …
I tend not to go after K-girls who have been with foreigners before. Also, I think they generally don’t like me because I don’t fit the stereotype of a black guy so, I’d be basically competing for white-lovers.
Additionally, I find the foreigner groupies aren’t nearly as good in general though there are exceptions.
True, I’d like to hear more of experience as specifically a black guy. Did you go to S club and UN club or Club Naked alot? Cause all of those girls are the hoochi mamma Kgirls who wanna hookup with a black dude. I will say that many black dudes here who are not in the army are very chill. They seem to be on the same wavelength as me when it comes to racism etc.
I also kinda stay away from Kgirls who exhibit preferences for white dudes for those reasons I listed…(slutty, sloppy seconds, they get passed around). Also, lets face it, they aren’t really “Korean” anymore…they seem to be entitled and flaky compared to real Korean girls.
I rarely go to any of those clubs. I’d rather get nothing all night in Octagon than get something from UN Club. Ewwww…
I’m normally in Gangnam in general, so the girls I normally meet don’t have a preference for Korean guys though they may be somewhat curious. I meet a lot of girls in day game but with my travel schedule usually my interactions die out before I can get back to Korea to set up a meet.
Really should do more SNL game to up my closes…but it’s not really my forte. I’d rather get a place there for a few months and get a rotation going.
Yeah Gangnam is where it’s at…or Itaewon these days. As you know, Itaewon has become very Koreanized and expensive. Glam, B1, Boom Bar, Luv, Mute…and a ton of other new house lounges I walk by but never even HEARD of.
Sad because it used to be that Itaewon was a sure thing where you could walk up to any girl at a Kebab stand and speak English. Now…that’s not the case anymore.
As an Asian-American, day game is not as available to me. Foreign guys can go up to Kgirls on the street because Kgirls expect foreign guys to be “crazy” and do pickup like that. I have a Korean face so I don’t really get that “pass” per se. I do believe that I get more “steady fwbs” than my foreigner friends though, who tend to get more 1 nighters…Grass is always greener, I guess~
You can do definitely do day game. I’ve had a bunch of Korean American clients. Day game works even better, because you don’t get any girls screaming and running down the street while the rest of Gangnam stares at you wondering what you just did, when all you did was ask her for directions.
Granted, this is a rare occurrence, but if you do day game regularly, it’s bound to happen.
As a Korean American, you have the best situations in a lot of ways. The girl doesn’t have to feel the social pressure, of being with a foreigner in public, she can imagine a long term relationship with you because you’re acceptable to parents, while also getting to imagine moving to America and living in LA or New York, or wherever.
Sure, you don’t get the initial good vibes that foreigners can get, but if you push through that, then it’s much smoother sailing. She gets all of the foreignness with none of the awkward thoughts!
True, I guess the strategy would be to immediately identify myself as a KAmerican who needs directions or traveling or something. Most of the time if I speak English (or Korean with my accent), they are SHOCKED that someone who is “korean” would do that.
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Yes, I have experienced what you said about more “relationships”. I have definitely gotten with some girls who don’t speak English that well and have never met any foreigners (or lived overseas) just because I’m Korean. Probably 9/10 times the girls I am fucking I have met through other friends or online language exchange sites or sites like Couchsurfing. I also very often get first night sex when I met them this way since we have probably been talking for 1 week on Kakaotalk, …BUT…
…For that elusive first-night-sex-encounter when meeting a girl at a club/bar, it seems to be more elusive. Whereas lots of girls would give it up to a foreign guy she met that night at GoGos or Tinpan, it seems most Korean girls I meet at bars want to exchange numbers first since I’m Korean (I think they feel I have the same views on chastity as a Korean guy). As you know Kgirls are flaky, so I hate exchanging numbers. IF i get them to meet me again, I do get laid at a high rate, but I would much prefer to f-close them that first night.
I have a “theory” on why this is the case (please give me feedback on it). I think that this is because the girls that go home with White guys are explicitly seeking that in the first place. Girls go to Helios, Tinpan, Gogos, etc to meet foreigners. On the other hand, I don’t go to those places and so when I meet a more “normal” Korean girl, she wasn’t necessarily looking for sex that night. From my observations & experiences (including my white friends’ experiences), this seems to make sense. Would be interested to see what you think.
I think how “shocked” they are depends a lot on where you are and what kind of girls you’re going for. A lot of the Korean PUAs pickup in Gangnam so many of the girls there know about pickup. Since Korean guys tend to do all direct game though, going indirect is quite disarming and can put the girl at ease pretty quickly.
One of the quickest and smoothest ways to bring out that you’re Korean-American, is to open by asking if the girl is from LA/NY(Asian girls are almost always excited by the thought that you could think they’re from one of those cities). Then you can tell her that you thought she was gyopo/Korean-American too.
If you don’t do this off the opener, you can ask a girl if she’s ever been overseas and where. At which point you can say that you’ll take her there to visit your parents(as a joke/bt spike, of course).
Sounds like you have a solid system to keep your pipeline pumping 😉 May be there’s no reason to work on cold approach much with your setup.
There are definitely certain venues that are better for SNLs than others. The ones you picked out are foreigner heavy, but it seems that for Korean guys, booking clubs might be the way to go for easy SNLs though I think that these days Itaewon in general is a pretty good choice for a Korean guys hoping to get SNLs.
I think that when it comes to Helios, Gogo’s, etc, that the girls know that relationships with foreigners can’t be serious. As a Korean American you have potentially good provider value so they try to put you into that frame. As you mentioned, they’ll assume that if they fuck you quickly then you’ll ditch them, so it’s not in their interest to move things along fast. I think you can break that frame pretty easily, and you could definitely decide to ditch girls who won’t play the game you want to play.
Thanks for your feedback.
Pretty much exactly, almost every girl I am with (even the ones I sleep with the first night) assume we are then dating and want that attention from me. It’s not a bad situation but I do feel pressure. I guess there is much more of that provider value thing going on. Just in the moment at some club, I just want to get laid and don’t want to wait another weak doing text game to get her out to the bars again.
I have tried going after a lot more gyopo girls these days. Just watch out for the flat gladiator sandals, flip flops, tight spaghetti strap tops and tanned skin. Gyopo girls to me are much more interactive and easy going, but STILL incredibly flaky. I also like your LA/NYC line. I hit on girls a lot in the hongdae playground and usually do something like that. I always ask them if they lived overseas etc…I have found that some Kgirls try to hide the fact they lived overseas with Korean guys because there’s a stereotype for girls who lived overseas.
Right now, I just am keeping my online/language exchange options but trying to get more SNLs. My problem is that the kind of girls who like me are usually the kind that ALSO like white guys lol. Most of my SNLs and FWBs have been with girls in hongdae who spoke fluent english and lived overseas. They say “You’re the first Asian guy I’ve been with”, which itself is telling. I just am trying to get out of that niche market. I don’t want to compete with the White man here for obvious reasons, but it seems that those are the girls I’m most successful with.
It’s pretty typical for Korean girls to assume that you’re now an item once sex happens. It’s a weird Korean thing, that you can’t really do much about except to realize that in some ways their concept of “together” is very different from the western perspective.
Like, they’re not going to move in with you and see you everyday and introduce you to all of their friends. So, in a lot of ways even though they make it seem more serious from early on, it’s not generally as serious as we would see it back home based on behavior(barring the incessant texting).
It’s pretty bizarre that most of the girls you’ve been with are foreign focused. It’s probably the way you run game. If you run it in a very western way with a lot of hardcore teasing, and playing it cool and aloof, you wouldn’t get very far with girls that are used to dating only Koreans where the game is to try and prove how much you are dedicated to the girl while showing high value.
With Korean-Korean girls, it can be a challenge to get enough time with them to progress things to sex, but on the other hand, you can offer them experiences that they can’t get from straight Korean guys. Also, if you’re running your game a lot on rapport and commonalities then you will have a hard time with them.
You need to figure out what Korean-Korean girl want but can’t get and then offer to supply that. Obviously, if you’re super high value, or really attractive, then that will do a lot of the work for you though.
Heya,
You’re thinking of not being able to do DG is nuts!
Korean Americans do awesome at day Game, same as ABC’s in China.
Just open in English and when you speak in Korean do so with an American accent and they will quickly figure it out.
Dude, go fuck yourself and have some respect for women. Anyone who needs to read this is a tool to begin with.
Thank you for your fascinating comment.
What could have been done differently that would be ‘respectful’ towards women in this case?
I’m a black dude that had no problem getting laid while I was there. I actually found it 10x’s easier than pulling girls in the US. Which is still fairly easy to do as well. All you need is a good mouth piece and the understanding that no simply means on to the next one.
Yeah, as I addressed in the article, there are guys who find it easy in Korea.
You must be light-skinned.
Game works for dark skinned black people too.
Trust. that troll has been baiting for a racially tinged obsessive lack of an argument for all over this post. No genuine black person would have such a defeatist attitude. From one blood to another, I think we need to tone our game down in pursuit of greater challenges, but that’s not the post. So keep on keeping on. RQ, Sucker free! Stop feeding that mark. I’m out!
When you are Black, the next one will never come. The white man’s “next one” is the next girl that night that he will be successful with. Asia is not an environment for the black man; to be honest,t his entire world is no good for Black folks.
You must be hanging out with the wrong people.
Black people should hang with Black people. We are not welcomed by or equal to others. Only reject pieces of shit associate with black people, and we are considered universally ugly, especially in Asia. Black folks need to realize this in 2013 and act accordingly.
I am white and have known RedpoleQ for around three years, I consider him my better in many many ways.
I have another black friend in Shanghai who is as dark skinned as you can get, he bangs more Chinese girls than I do.
I think you are focused on why you can’t do something, so you then can’t do it. If you spent less time whining on the forum and more talking to girls you’d be banging like a champ.
I won’t be banging like a champ until I get over this back injury then I’m going to box. I’m the shit at 145.
I won’t be banging like a champ until I get over this back injury then I’m going to box. I’m the shit at 145.
Rape and prostitutes don’t cont.
I agree, they don’t count. But since that’s not what we’re talking about…
Yeah, but that is the only way a dark-skinned Black man is going to fuck in Asia on the regular.
That’s lucky because none of my friends are raping or banging prostitutes.
Incorrect.
None of your friends are Black.
No, it’s correct.
Kane, I’m sorry to inform you that we have to stop being friends and break off all of our business relationships so I can prove “Furious” right! Lols.
Not according to my dark skinned friend who lives in Shanghai it isn’t.
Oh and I can tell you, if you think Korea is bad, China is much worse in terms of racism, and he can still do quite well there.
All the more reason heterosexual Black men shouldn’t be going to Asia.
“only reject pieces of shit associate with black people” -omg
Wow. No mention of these girls as people. Does it not matter to you if they’re anything other than hot? I like to like the girls I sleep with. It’s more fun that way. Also, advocating getting girls drunk in order to lay them is steering worryingly close to rape there, buddy.
So, you’re saying that I should have started this article off by saying, “The first thing you need to know about Korean women, is that they are people too”? Creating humanists is not the point of this article. I assume that those readers who are enlightened need no explanation, and those who aren’t probably need a very different article to learn it.
Whether I personally have additional criteria is irrelevant to what I’m trying to convey in this article. I have all sorts of criteria (I don’t generally date office workers because I’m free on weekdays and work weekends, for example) that are totally irrelevant to this article.
Additionally, there are plenty of men(and women) who are quite happy to have sex with someone they don’t much care about. They often find it makes things a lot less complicated. I don’t judge, though I object to making a girl think you have feelings or intentions you don’t actually have.
Finally, if you were paying attention you’d have seen that I was explaining the norm and not necessarily advocating. In fact, I quite dislike sloppy drunk(never mind, passed out) girls and discourage girls from drinking…I fully prefer to “take advantage” of them sober.
Clearly, you’ve never been to Korea because if you had, you’d know that even Korean girls(and other Asians as well) will tell you that they drink with a guy they want to have sex with because it will make them less self-conscious. Basically, guys have first minute resistance(approach and anxiety) and girls have last minute resistance.
Both, very commonly, use alcohol to overcome it.
Cultures differ, and a girl getting blitzed in Korea knows what she’s setting herself up for. You can argue about whether it’s right as long as you want, but while you’re arguing another girl is getting exactly what she wants in the back seat of a Mercedes.
Luckily for her since Korean society doesn’t want her to have it, she has alcohol as an excuse for doing what she wants.
Some of your info has some truth to it and may prove insightful regarding dating culture in Korea.
It’s too bad it’s drowned in objectification and vague misogyny.
You know what I’d like to see is you take one of my paragraphs, leave in all the “some truth” and “may prove insightful” bits and remove the “objectification and vague misogyny”.
Then we can have a woman friendly version so everyone can be happy. Go for it! I’m actually quite curious what you’ll end up with.
Sure. Seventh paragraph.
“Similar to how the US has the oft broken 3-date rule, Koreans generally abide by a 100 days rule which basically says you shouldn’t sleep together unless you’ve been dating for 100 days! Of course people violate this rule all the time, but you have a good idea of the mindset. The average Korean girl loses her virginity around age 22 (link of survey or statistics to back up claim). One of my friends is dating a girl who is 28, and of her 10 close female friends, 2 are still virgins. A lot of Korean guys still want their wives to be virgins, though that’s changing.”
“The fact is that most every guy (Koreans included) has a hard time getting action from Korean girls.”
This is an important part to include because a lot of guys get extremely frustrated and think that either there is something wrong with them, or start hating on Koreans because they think it’s a problem specific to foreigners and start crying XENOPHOBIA.
“Similar to how the US has the oft broken 3-date rule, Koreans generally abide by a 100 days rule which basically says you shouldn’t sleep together unless you’ve been dating for 100 days!”
This rule only applies to guys. If you’re a guy and you sleep with a girl quickly there are no negative consequences. Your rewrite implies it is in the interest of both the man and the woman to hold out for 100 days, when there really isn’t.
You’re right, I don’t have statistics. My guess is 22 based off of my experience there. And perhaps, I should have said, “much older than in America and other parts of East Asia and many women persist in being virgins until their late 20s, early 30s and maybe beyond.”
“This is an important part to include.”
No, it’s really not. It’s not a fact, and it’s not some kind of necessary undertaking or obligation. It also demonstrates your sexism, as your perceive sex as something that guys must “receive,” as if it only goes one way, and as if it’s something that should be viewed as completely separate from seeking a healthy relationship or mutual companionship.
“This rule only applies to guys.”
No, it applies to COUPLES in Korea, those dating formally with the implicit or explicit intention of one day getting married.
As long as you’re not Black, you’ll have an easy time sleeping with girls in any Asian country. Bonus points if you’re tall and good-looking, but short dudes that are not completely butt-ugly still gets lots of Asian tang, provided they’re not Black. If you’re Black, you can just forget it.
I don’t get all this “as long as you’re not black” stuff.. I’ve been black in Asia for 13 years now and I haven’t found this to be a limiting factor. And I’ve taught plenty of white dudes who were having trouble getting action.
I’ve met guys from any country you can think of who get action in East Asia.
Look up “BlackInAsia” on tumblr. He talks about the racism he faced in Taiwan. Many other Black folks talk about the racism we have to deal with, and most Black dudes in Asia stay celibate or with the ugly-fuglies (much like in America, which most Asians worship, and American to Asians = White, or at least not Black).
Well, all I can say is that I’ve been hearing that stuff for a long time but my black friends and I may have had to put in more effort to get top quality but so does everyone.
Most white guys aren’t pulling very good quality either and if they want something good they have to work hard.
There are two avenues you can go… 1) compete for black lovers at hip hop clubs and 2) compete against the locals.
I find option 1 to be the worst as you’re pulling from a very small pool and the competition is pretty fierce. Plus, I really don’t match the stereotype that the black lovers are looking for.
My first year in Japan, I thought that it was a black thing too and when
I got the advice to “get some hip-hop clothes and you’ll be alright”, I
decided to figure something else out.
Every now and then I would happen to get one and they’d be VERY confused when they came over to my place and saw a wall of books, and were even more confused when they tried to talk to me about the latest hip hop scandal that I had no idea about.
So, I went for option 2, which is to compete for girls that normally only date locals. Asia is homogenous. A lot of girls want something different. As a foreigner it’s easy to offer that. However most guys make the mistake of not adjusting their communication style for Asian girls.
I normally date Asian girls who have never dated a foreigner before. Partly that’s because I like girls in their early 20s, but it’s also because I don’t like having to compete with a stereotype. Because they have no experience other than what they’ve seen on TV, they take you as you are much more I find.
So, after 13 years here, and 7 years teaching boot camps to guys from all over, I’ve found that Asian girls are quite flexible with who they date. If you know a black man who is celibate or with ugly-fuglies, send him my way and I’ll sort him.
Thing is, Black folks try 100 times harder in Asia to get 1/100th of what any white or non-Black foreigner can get just falling off of the plane.
Really can’t agree, and I don’t think that any of the black guys I know who have lived here for many years would agree(with the exception of Korea).
I know this must be incredibly hard for someone like you to understand, but what people are taking issue with in your blog post is that you referring to “getting” something that requires mutual consent from another human being, and you are ignoring the whole “human being” aspect, not to mention severely downplaying the “consent” part.
You are simply airing your sexism for the world to see.
Just because one person gets something in an interaction doesn’t mean that the other person doesn’t or shouldn’t get something also. Guys want to get something from girls, and girls want to get something from guys. People want to get things they don’t have from other people.
Just because I’m discussing only one half of the interaction(the giving part is covered plenty on my personal site) doesn’t mean I’m unaware that there are two sides to it. I don’t think people are so stupid as to need this spelled out for them. Additionally, I think that in any non-fraudulent transaction, each party needs to take care of their own interests and isn’t required or expected to look out for the interests of the other though it’s certainly lovely if they do.
It must be “incredibly hard for someone like you” to understand that I assume a certain level of intelligence and compassion in readers and I don’t assume that they are sociopaths.
Also, I don’t mind people having issues with my blog post. I only care that the guys who are not happy with their dating situation with Korean girls find the information useful in improving their situation.
Finally, I want to note that I think that women are intelligent enough to make their own decisions about who they date and whether they’re getting what they want out of the arrangement. If women deserve my respect, then they should be
held to the same standard that I would hold my male friends too–when one of my friends ends up getting involved in a bad relationship, I don’t go blame the girl for mistreating my friend–she’s just looking out herself. Instead, I get on his case for ignoring the danger signs.
Buyer beware.
“I don’t think people are so stupid as to need this spelled out for them.”
It’s not about your perceived audience. It’s about how you present YOURSELF. Hint: not very well here.
“doesn’t mean I’m unaware that there are two sides to it”
Honestly, that’s the impression that came across. Maybe you need to work on your writing.
“If women deserve my respect”
Women probably don’t give a shit about whether or not you respect them. Rather, you should treat everyone with respect until given sufficient reason not to (and even then, it’s still better to take the high road). It’s not all about you.
As I previously stated, I’m not interested in my image nearly so much as I’m interested in helping guys who want to do better in their dating and relationships with Korean women.
This is not a popularity contest for me.
I think you missed the point I was trying to make with the “if women deserve my respect…” part. Perhaps if I’d written, “Treating women equally, means holding them to the same standard…” then it would have been clearer.
Because, as you pointed out, people don’t care if they are respected or not by random strangers beyond the basics.
“I’m interested in helping guys who want to do better in their dating and relationships with Korean women.”
So when are you going to post that article?
So clever.
Don’t you know how inappropriate and beastly your writing is? I don’t know how far you will get in life writing things like this. But you must learn that how to respect WOMEN from now!!! You and other men who insulted Korean women on this website make western men look bad!
“It starts with understanding that as men, our value does not come from how much power we hold over women. Our value comes from being respected and being loved as we respect and love the people who matter to us”. – Eric
I know that my writing is not considered politically correct, but I tend to think that truth is more important than popularity.
As for your quote, notice that it says, “the people who matter to us”. Clearly because I’m speaking in general terms, I’m not referring to people who matter to me…I’m referring to people in general. Of course none of the people who matter to me would ever engage in the behaviors I describe above since all the people that matter to me are perfect.
Go and read some experimental psychology and find out how much is counter-intuitive that actually works on humans. The fact is that even getting people to do something that is GOOD requires “manipulation”. Check out the discussion under FEAR and Relief:
http://www.kevinhogan.com/persuasionprotocol5.htm
You have to know what is if you want to have a positive impact because there are thousands of ways to “respect and love” people but some of them don’t work and some of them have the opposite effect or even backfire!
http://asiandatingmonthly.com/love-languages-5-keys-to-really-showing-her-you-care/
I hope your future wife or your daughter will find out this writing one day. Then, they will know you are very respectful to women with the honesty, like you said. YES! truth is more important, right?
I personally think that being a person who has the humanity is more important than being a third rate writer!
And I personally think that engaging with people without insult leads to the potential for learning. But to each their own.
There is plenty more of my “3rd” rate writing floating around. Luckily for me I don’t get paid to write prose, I get paid to give people advice that helps them. By that standard, I’m at least 2nd rate.
So what? Koreans disrespect foreigners too (especially Black people). White guys do and say much more than this and they are worshiped. Black men have no reason to set foot in Asia, and the US military should stop deploying Black troops to those countries. In fact, Blacks shouldn’t joint he US military at all. It’s the white man’s world, white man’s war, so he can fight it since he gets the spoils.
I’m Korean, I do have some bad experiences with black people too. they are cocky, jealous and especially don’t know how to love themselves and others. But I know this is just tiny experiences that I had in the past. Because I have some great friendship with my black friends. I respect them and they respect me.
Anger is bad for your health. If you hate others just because some people treated you badly in the past. That happen will follow you until you overcome all of it. And I believe that god created us with the boundless ability.
This makes me feel bad. Very unfortunate anyway.
I feel sad, when I read about genocide too, but if I don’t read and know about it, I can’t do anything about it.
Whether you like what I have to say or not, Instead of sitting around feeling sad, go and do something.
There is still the vast majority of the population that don’t belong in the superficial category. lol I hope this is not the standardized image of Korea..sigh
Are you a Korean girl in Korea?
Are you a Korean girl in Korea?
Are you a Korean girl in Korea?
This entire article and articles LIKE these are very racist. While sure there are some good pointers about cultural differences, to be some guy or girl that TARGETS a SPECIFIC RACE to date/marry/or just make it a goal to have sex with is to me just as bad as racism itself. I mean, I’ve heard guys say, “my goal in life is to get a korean girl” and they’ll put a white or black girl down simply because she’s not “korean”. Or vice versa…that’s been done a ton with white girls and black guys. It’s okay for us to categorize name brands of cars or phones and say, “I’m only into apple products or I’m only into Samsung products”, but to use that same mentality towards human beings and say, “Chinese? Sorry, I’m only going for Korean”, is so damn racist and shallow. Every girl on this planet wants what all girls want, while with the cultural differences but in the end, it’s all the same. We pick at specific countries’ girls as if they are aliens and they require different “love”. If you love someone for genuinely who they are (no matter what skin color or what country they are from), bless you. But if you only target someone because they have a certain skin color, or certain eyes, or because their birth card says a certain country’s name, then you are a poor bastard racist handpicking and handchoosing like that without really getting to know people and judge them on who they are.
Is your point that this article is racist or is your point that people shouldn’t target specific races?
If it’s the 2nd, I totally agree. I’m good with any girl as long as I’m attracted to her, and that means, Asians, White girls, Latinas, Arabs, Persians, Indians, Blacks can all do it for me.
I happen to live in Asia though, so the best selection is among Asians.
Different cultures show love in different ways. In America, it means that you “empower” women to get good education and bang who, where and how they want without judgement and encourage them to take on massive College debts so they can be perfect wage slaves.
In Asia it mean that you encourage them to develop their feminine charms so they can land a man who can provide the financial stability that provides a firm foundation for a family.
Different strokes for different folks.
As for whether this article is racist or not…well, if discussing nuances of cultures is racist, then yes. But if it’s just a jumping off point, frame or reference or a baseline to work from, then no.
Having said that, I’m totally down for any girls with a preference for short black guys…I won’t hate on you for being racist. Send me a message, lols.
We’re just interested in getting laid, and if you’re not Black, it’s easy to do in Asia. If you’re Black, well, invest in jergens, become a faggot, or learn to like fatass, ugly white chicks.
the world is racist and shallow. At least you’re not Black so you can benefit from it, you motherfucker you.
Dude,
You keep posting about how terrible it is being black ect ect ect.
Sorry but it’s getting annoying and old, stop being a wuss and go out and destroy your limiting beliefs.
If you want some help doing this and you swing by China, I would be happy to help you out.
Good luck.
Chinese worship whites and hate Blacks. A Black man cannot even get a job in China.
Very true, it is hard. But the truth is that all of this “hate” toward blacks stems from fear. So very sorry, Asia is totally obsess with white and being white…. check out all the whitening creams that are sold in Asia. However, don’t let this stop you from striving to be the best that you can be.
I second my comment of not being a wuss and going out and getting over this mental limitation of yours.
The battle is racial and it is real. Ask any Black person and they’ll pretty much cosign what I’m saying. The problem is that many Black people throw away reality when we THINK that we have a chance of success, often some false hope sold to us by a politician, but in this case, it’s a PUA guru. Black folks, you need to see through the bullshit.
Protect yourselves at all times.
Hey,
Good job on making yourself look stupid.
Another good definition of racism would be this:
Discriminating against someone because of their racial background while disregarding their personal qualities.
racism:
1.
a belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human races determine cultural orindividual achievement, usually involving the idea that one’s own race is superior and has the rightto rule others.
2.
a policy, system of government, etc., based upon or fostering such a doctrine; discrimination.
3.
hatred or intolerance of another race or other races.
There is nothing racist about liking girls of a particular race.
I have lived in China for 5 years and now it’s incredibly unlikely that I will date an Australian, American, Canadian or English girl simply because they don’t have the qualities i like and the Chinese general do.
If i travel and I meet a Chinese girl in some country other than China, I’m excited.
It’s not that they are ‘Chinese’ that makes them attractive to me or that I just like them because they were born in China.
It’s the fact that they come from China/Korea/Japan/Ukraine/Khazakstan/Russia ect ect that they have particular qualities and mindsets due to culture that appeal to me moreso than girls from my own country.
“But if you only target someone because they have a certain skin color, or certain eyes, or because their birth card says a certain country’s name, then you are a poor bastard racist handpicking and handchoosing like that without really getting to know people and judge them on who they are.”
Using and Abusing people is bad, for sure.
Having preferences towards a certain group or type of people isn’t wrong or bad, it is just how some people are.
You’re assuming a lot of silly things in your post and I hope you go back and have a good reread and think about it. (I doubt you will though)
Woah, finally a sensible human being! Glad to know there are still nice people in the world. hmm and I wonder why both sides are complaining about not enough good men/women to date/marry… The fundamental problem is that people are forget to love (putting other above themselves). Oh well, everyone have their own issues. ^_^ According to this article’s advise, the girls that are getting picked up are going to be mostly gold diggers anyways. So i guess this is a good article if you have money to spare and just want to get laid, however, if you want a wife… you are going to be very disappointed….but I guess if you are looking for a wife then you wouldn’t be reading an article titled “how to get laid….” anyways. Don’t mind me, I am just cruising by. Finding all of this very entertaining.
you have no idea what you’re talking about
you don’t need money or game, just learn Korean (not even fluently) and you’ll have no problem at all, I know from personal experience
I had 4 girls in one day, and almost 2 different ones every week for a solid year (unless I was dating one, then I was loyal)
if you dress like a slob, of course you won’t get girls, but I did wearing a hoodie and high tops
Good for you.
I hope you one day realize that not everyone is you and not everyone has such an easy time of it, thus the need to learn how to do better.
if you plan to stay in a country over 90 days (the length of a visitor VISA) stop being a culturally ignorant piece of shit and learn the fucking language instead of thinking everyone should speak English to make life convenient for you.
If you’re referring to Kane Vast, he speaks Chinese and in fact teaches Chinese guys at ManUpChina.com how to pickup Chinese girls, so he knows his shit quite well.
Agreed, but if you’re white, you don’t even need to learn the language to get laid in Asia. If you’re Black, you learn the language only to hear the negative comments they’re making about you. If you really know about East Asian cultures, you’ll know that they worship whites and hold dark skin and people of African descent in very, very low standings.
Black men have no reason to go to Asia really, especially if they are straight and don’t like being celibate.
You’re not making a lot of sense.
You said we have no idea what we are talking about, you said having money and game is not necessary and that the only thing you need is the language skill.
I merely said that everyone is different (looks, height, personality) and that people respond differently to everyone, hence the need for some people to learn Game.
Then you’re rambling on about Visas and how not learning a local language makes you a culturally ignorant piece of shit.
While I agree with you that learning the local language is a really great thing to do, I don’t really appreciate your rudeness and being pointlessly confrontational, it just makes you look bad.
Also I don’t see how it relates to the fact that some people benefit greatly by learning Game or having lots of money.
Oh and btw
我的中文非常好。
You just need to learn some words in Korean, and be tall, white, blonde, and blue.
I’m white but I don’t have blonde hair or blue eyes, all you really need is a brain.
Well, you’re white. All you need is to not be Black. Height helps too, but as long as you’re not Black you’ll do well in Asia.
This is getting old…while you’re bitching and moaning, other black men are succeeding. It’s called, hard work. Do it.
Efficient work > hard work. If you’re Black, all of the hard work in the world won’t really get you by in this white man’s world, especially in Asia. Maybe if you work hard enough you can get some plastic surgery to “turn white”, then you’ll finally be able to get quantity and quality in Asia, but that’s about it.
To quote ChampionKaji, “Heterosexual Black men have no reason to be in Asia.”
What have you done for Black people besides sell a pile of crap? Real talk is Blacks are unwanted globally and can’t compete in the sexual marketplace, especially that of East Asia. Even a two-year-old knows this, so a so-called dating guru should know it as well.
Facts, record, evidence. There are exceptions to these rules, but generally speaking, Black men are not desired in Asia as a whole, while any white man that falls off of the plane will have paradise (maybe not so much in Korea, but certainly in China and Taiwan). The evidence is incontrovertible and clear as crystal. My advice is for Black men to avoid Asia as a whole, and if you have an Asian fetish, just find a good hobby and wait for death. While you guys are dreaming of integration in the Far East and other foolishness, others are solidifying their positions, making sure that you are permanently barred out, and making innovations. Black folks haven’t even created a manufacturing plant for shoestrings, media the portrays us in a positive light to project anywhere (and certainly not in East Asia), innovations and intellectual property that we keep for ourselves and SELL (not hand over) to the other nations, or weapons to protect what we’d have to protect if we built something rather than making idiotic claims that Black men can compete with whites and others when it comes to Asian women. Looking at things objectively, this is certainly a people worthy of genocide, and I can smell those ovens.
Funnily enough, a lot of guys I’ve taught and met who weren’t doing well in Asia (and really really needed the help) were white.
I would say 95% of the guys who wanted to do training were White, with a few Indian guys too.
Most black guys I’ve met have been pretty cool and pretty good at spittin Game and hitting up girls.
Define Compete?
How well do you have to do to be ‘competing’?
If you could get a single girlfriend in Asia, would that be ‘competing’?
I know at least 3 black guys in China who have banged Chinese girls and have a Chinese girlfriend. (I only know 3 black guys in China)
Desired?
You said Black people are undesired all around the world?
Why can they reproduce then? Why do you see mixed couples and children born of black and other race mixes?
“Blacks are unwanted globally and can’t compete in the sexual marketplace, especially that of East Asia. Even a two-year-old knows this, so a so-called dating guru should know it as well.”
Well maybe you should just become a monk, as thinking the way you think is never going to get you laid, so just give it up and let all the other black guys get the pussy you’re being too whiney to go out and get.
Two year olds don’t know much about pick up and probably aren’t concerned with the worlds sexual market place.
If you have doubts about black guys and their success in Asia you can come and see the guys I know in China, or you can meet RPQ and see that he gets success, while being black.
what is ‘get you by’?
Do you wanna bang 567 girls?
If you could get 1 new girl a month would you consider that success? or ‘getting by’ in this ‘white mans world’ ? (Last time I checked Obama was the president of the united states and wasn’t particularly white)
Maybe those white guys needed three girls a day. White guys don’t need help getting a new girl each night in China, and even the ugliest white dude is guaranteed a new girl each week.
Yes, that would be nice. If I were not Black, I could have crossed that goal off of my list years ago. One new girl a month is a low number; I’d want at least one a week.
Obama is considered a bad president, and despite that, Black men just don’t make it in the world, especially in Asia.
I’m not particularly interested in having a single girlfriend. I’m talking about going to clubs, hooking up, meeting girls on the street, ONS, and the like. The Black guys probably face discrimination while having a single gf, all the while watching white guys and other races get new girls every other day. given the facts, I’d say that it isn’t worth doing all of that work for such little returns, and that Black men should not live in Asia.
Black people are the least desired race globally when it comes to interracial coupling. Usually it’s the fat chicks and other rejects that go for us. Black men need to elevate ourselves and stop taking out the trash of other races.
Thinking the way I think won’t get me laid, but nothing short of changing my race will get me laid by Northeast Asian women on a regular basis. Other Black men report the same.
I have complete confidence that everything that I say is correct. What you are is a salesman. What people need to realize is that game, PUA, etc. only works to unlock people’s potential; if they had no potential to begin with, then they are wasting their money, hence, Black men would be wasting money on such lessons in East Asia, since there is no potential for us. When it comes to non-Blacks [foreigners], they might be able to get something out of it, but for the most part they don’t even need game to bang hundreds of girls a year out there.
Protect yourselves at all times.
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If this was true then why are 90% of our bootcamp sign ups white guys?
You don’t live in reality dude.
“”I’m not particularly interested in having a single girlfriend. I’m talking about going to clubs, hooking up, meeting girls on the street, ONS, and the like. The Black guys probably face discrimination while having a single gf, all the while watching white guys and other races get new girls every other day. given the facts, I’d say that it isn’t worth doing all of that work for such little returns, and that Black men should not live in Asia.””
What if you could have 5 or 6 regulars? and have regular 2girls 1guy 3somes and stuff like that?
A regular meaning a girl you see every week, like a gf but without the exclusivity ?
I know some black guys who get this level of success, in Asia.
Oh, with hot girls.
“”Black people are the least desired race globally when it comes to interracial coupling. Usually it’s the fat chicks and other rejects that go for us. Black men need to elevate ourselves and stop taking out the trash of other races.””
I think people all need to elevate themselves.
“”Thinking the way I think won’t get me laid, but nothing short of changing my race will get me laid by Northeast Asian women on a regular basis. Other Black men report the same.””
Errr no they don’t, they go out and get laid, as i know a bunch of them.
The only ones who report they don’t are the ones who don’t try to go out and get laid.
“”I have complete confidence that everything that I say is correct.””
Of course you do, as you’re obviously not getting laid nor trying to.
Which part of Asia do you live in my friend?
“”What you are is a salesman. What people need to realize is that game, PUA, etc. only works to unlock people’s potential; if they had no potential to begin with, then they are wasting their money, hence, Black men would be wasting money on such lessons in East Asia, since there is no potential for us.””
I am an educator.
People, regardless of race, with the mindset you have are definitely wasting money on such lessons.
People who believe something is possible and are willing to try on the other hand, are not.
This is boring, you obviously don’t want to bang girls, otherwise you would wiling to accept different ideas or beliefs.
“”When it comes to non-Blacks [foreigners], they might be able to get something out of it, but for the most part they don’t even need game to bang hundreds of girls a year out there.””
It’s a very small amount of foreign guys who can bang more than 25 girls a year (which is roughly one every two weeks).
The majority can’t.
Also guys can dumpster dive anywhere in the world and get a lot of sex out of it…….gee wow…sounds great.
I stayed in Japan for a few months before. I communicate with numerous brothers in Asia or those that have been and they cosign my findings.
You’re not Black, so you are either a misinformant in regards to Black people, or you don’t have enough proper information from firsthand experience. Which is it?
Black men cannot be successful in this white man’s world, especially Asia.
Black people you need to recognize this truth. All others want you dead and they want to harvest your organs. Protect yourselves at all times.
You just sound nuts, and Asia is an Asian man’s world.
LOL. Asian men got pushed aside. Asian chicks are crazy to get in bed with any foreigner, as long as said foreigner isn’t Black, but the blonde-haired, blue-eyed foreigners are top of their list. You don’t know shit about asia.
YOU know nothing about Asia. If you did, you’d know that rich local guys kick the shit out of white guys when it comes to getting the most desirable girls.
I’ve lived in Asia for 13 years…I’m black. You know nothing.
For marriage (and that seems to be changing too). For sport-fucking, white guys rule the roost.
It’s irrelevant to us though. Black men get neither, especially outside of Japan.
Nah, I know what I’m talking about. You’re either happy being celibate or you’re gay. That’s cool for you, but I’m speaking to and for the Black men with yellow fever.
Maybe you dated the fat reject expat chicks, but Black men aren’t getting any from Asian chicks, not even pay-for-play in the 2-0-1-Trey. Japan was the only place brothas did alright, and that was in the oughts (2005-2008, give or take).
You’re light-skin enough to pass for a puerto rican or some other offbrand race. Asian girls like whites and latinos, but an obviously Black man such as myself and many of the other brothers out here ain’t gonna get SHIT but shitted on in the Far East and that’s real talk. Fucc RedPoleQueer. Black folks need to listen to us, and brothas like Chamaflauge, 3amSCr, fred nelson, and others are saying. These brothers aren’t even affiliated with the Fleet, but they’ve been to Asia and their experiences were the same in all aspects of life, not just dating or hooking up.
Keep in mind that the whites whom they worship and want to be also promote negativity and animus regarding Black people in Asia. You’re up against a fight that can’t be won when you’re a Black person in Asia, that is, unless you’re passing like this fake slob-ass muhfugga.
Protect yourself at all times.
Don’t believe me? Read the comments on these videos to see what the world really thinks of Black folks: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kS7uGS0NoFs
The only sad part of a lot of these Black men that go to Asia is they learn to hate Asians, but don’t see the white guys, latinos, etc. that are spreading hate against Black people as well as the legs of Asian women. Black men need a total racial wake-up call to realize it’s Blacks vs. the world. The whole world hates us. This is the environment we’re living in, and it’s global.
Hell, check this video out by a white man: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1t6z0Bh8elg
There are countless other pieces of evidence online about all of Asia, not just Japan. Pay close attention, because these people are in control of your environments, Black folks.
Instead of learning “game” to pick up chicks that’ll give it up to any white man that falls off of a plane and still treat Blacks like shit regardless, you need to be getting educated (academics and common sense), getting financial, hitting the gym to get stronger, hitting the shooting range so you can learn to protect yourself, taking up martial arts, and communicating with sane-minded brothers and sisters to help them too.
Get ’em Rockwell!
Funny
Hello
I don’t know what I’m doing here or how I end up here. I’m a girl lol I was searching for Korean porn. Anyway good luck getting laid guys.
Any luck finding Korean porn? If so, link it here please!
Hey princess, you still looking for Korean Porn?
1. American girls are sluts? Are you even hearing yourself?
2. How would you feel if you met a gay guy at a club got you drunk and then took advantage of you?? Feeling pretty good huh?
3. To be honest, it doesn’t even matter if I’m Korean or a girl. This is just despicable at a basic humane level.
4. You guys are generalising way too much. I don’t think all Korean girls have long legs… The tall ones maybe.
5. There’ll be girls with a traditional mindset and there’ll be those that don’t. Instead of trying to trick them, why don’t you just try to find the girls who don’t mind sleeping with you?
6. Perhaps there are superficial girls. But they’re looking for a good husband/to survive. You’re looking for a good time/pleasure. Hence, I don’t think you have the right to judge.
7. I’m wasting way too much time on you. I hope none of you treat women like this in your respective countries.
Oops, I forgot. I wanted to end with: We’re human. Please treat us like one.
I have to say that I find this comment particularly ironic coming from a Korean.
I love Korea, and none of what I’ve written is to criticize the country or it’s people. I’m strictly pointing out what I’ve seen in all my time there.
Please spread this message far and wide in Korea because it’s likely the most difficult place in Asia for foreigners to live because they find it very dehumanizing there for both themselves and local Koreans.
She’s probably an overweight Korean-American, not a real Korean from Korea. Either that, or she’s saying “please treat me like a human while I treat you like shit”. Typical fare to be expected from just about anyone these days.
1. I don’t think there’s anything in my article about American girls being sluts…I haven’t lived in the US for over 13 years so I have no idea about them anyway.
2. I’m just describing what is common practice among Korean men trying to get with Korean women…and any Korean woman who’s grown up there should know that that is EXACTLY what is going to happen if she gets drunk with a Korean guy.
And while we’re on the topic, I’ve had several Korean girls tell me that alcohol is a necessary pre-requisite to sex with a new guy to get over the nerves so, while that may not apply to you, it applies to many Korean girls which is why it’s in here.
3. Can you please be more specific? Because clearly you’re not talking about the part where I said that Korean’s are all that racist when it comes to dating because black guys, white guys and Indian guys seem to be on a pretty even playing field. Or maybe you did mean that part and you’re unhappy that I pointed out that in general Koreans are not so racist..?
4. Compared to Japanese and southern Chinese girls, Koreans have amazingly long legs.
5. Who said anything about trickery? I was describing what Korean guys do, not what I advise doing. And if she really has a “traditional mindset” she won’t be at the club getting drunk off her ass with a random guy…I don’t have any issues with this behavior but you’d be hard pressed to find a single “ajoshi” or “ajuma” who thinks that’s acceptable behavior.
6. I agree…who’s judging. This is just reporting. I totally dig that if you’re a Korean woman and you want the finer things in life, the best thing you can do if you’re somewhat attractive is to find a guy to provide it. Nothing wrong with that. Better superficial than wearing Birkenstocks and a lose fitting t-shirt with unshaven legs and a hair cut shorter than mine
7. This isn’t about “treating” women…this is about describing the situation on the ground. I don’t like sex with corpses, or blow up dolls, so it’s pointless to get a girl drunk for me. But, that’s me.
Thanks for your comments.
Black guys are at the bottom. White guys at the top, and Indian guys do OK if they’re light skin, and at least have a fighting chance. Black guys in Korea are generally stuck jacking off or dating ugly expats, just like in Taiwan. Any Black man that listens to this dipshit is headed for a fall.
I WISH that Asian girls liked Black guys, and if there is any way for us to conquer then by all means act, but to say that Black guys don’t have a disadvantage in the dating market, particularly in northeast Asia, is pure insanity.
I read recently that black prostitutes in Cambodia get way over market rate, even compared to blondes. Maybe that’s the place for a black American?
Korean Girl, I agree with you, most of the guys here maybe never lived in Korea for all that matters. Hey guys be yourself, and like Koreangirl said, not all Korean girls are tall. Go to Korea if you can, meet a nice one, and just have fun.
1. There is no mention of American girls in this article…
2. Just because I’m describing what happens doesn’t mean I endorse it, and I don’t. I hate sex with drunk girls…actually I hate spending time with drunk people in general.
3. Description is despicable? You can read Korean media reports and you’ll find how Korean guys taking advantage of drunk girls is a serious problem. One guy got into a taxi cab with a drunk passed out girl and told the taxi driver it was his girlfriend and then directed the taxi to a love motel!
4.You’re right, all Korean girls don’t have long legs…there are plenty of Korean girls with short stubby elephant legs, but as far as Asia goes, Koreans have the longest.
5. Once again, just because I’m writing about what mostly happens and what most Korean guys do, you assume that I’m endorsing it…in any case, the lying tactics that many Korean guys use won’t work for foreign guys because Korean girls know that most foreigners are English teachers.
6. Absolutely right. Once again, description is not judgement. I think where western guys go wrong is that they don’t understand the social dynamic that makes marriage far more important in Asia than in the west to women.
7. Thanks for your time.
Japanese girls have the best faces in Asia?…bitch, please…you must be f-ing outta your mind
You could also share your own personal opinion rather than just ragging on mine…
Someones got yellow fever
Oh really..? Because I live and work in Asia I must have yellow fever? That’s like saying that every immigrant to America is thirsty for a white girl…I think not.
Nothing wrong with that except that blacks are stuck jackin it in Asia.
I want fucking..
I’m living in Ansan city, and i’ll send u my address
if u send me your Dick!
my e mail address is
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RedpoleQ, your kind of creature is called a pest or at best a scavenger.
Thank you for sharing…I’m sure that we can all agree that after reading(and more likely skimming) 1245 words from me that you are the authority on what kind of “creature” I am.
MMM I read this article, and finds its not true, I spent serveral years in korea, and my talk got me lays so many times with so many differnent girls. I had housewifes, college students, professional, the bar scene,and most paid for me to lay them. btw I’m black and speak korean, perhaps thats a plus. I spreaded so many Korean girls legs i still dream about it. mmm just thinking about it turns me on. I even had threesome with some beautiful korean girls. I had great fun, getting ready to go back.
Speaking Korean might help, but being Black is not a plus but a HUGE minus. Maybe you do not really look Black, but a regular Black guy isn’t going to get a job or get laid too often in Asia unless he likes ugly expats or is a fag.
So you have finally realized the futility of your efforts, but don’t feel bad Mr Rockwell. You will soon be apart of something far far greater…..
There are definitely guys who don’t find it hard…and speaking Korean is a HUGE help which is actually quite surprising given that English is well spoken among a large percentage of the population.
I think that even many Korean guys find it quite hard. Overall, Korea is far tougher than most other places for most guys. There’s really no way to deny that.
The number of women you have to meet for one lay is pretty atrocious. The flakes alone mean that you have to go through a lot. However, there are so many amazing Korean women, that in total numbers you can rack up as much as anywhere else if you’re willing to put in the work.
That’s because you’re short and Black. Tall white guys kill it in SK if they are cool with 6s and 7s, and can do even better with a bit of application.
Lols…you’re so funny. What’s the saying…to the man with a hammer everything looks like a nail.
I wasn’t talking about just me. I was talking about the tall white guys you think have it so easy.
To the man that is Black if he goes to East Asia and wants to hook up with locals and isn’t gay he’ll be straight jackin’ off. That’s how it goes, RedPoleC00n.
hey man, you got email/fb or something? just wanted to get some advice from you since i might be goin to SE-asia soon (with others ofc).
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A consistent problem in the black community is tearing one another down instead of supporting one another.
Well done!
What you do makes black folk tear themselves down though. You’re lying to these people. I am building them with knowledge. I have been to these countries and see you are incorrect. I have spoken to many Black men in these countries and know that you’re incorrect. If a Black man came with correct information and a system that we can work out in Asia I’d support him, but you’re just dropping all kinds of lies.
couldnt find ur profile man.
My mail. I don’t use FB.
yahoo , yea?
gmail.
fucking brilliant ….
and jesse james …. what girl IS worth the trouble ???
“Japanese girls have the best faces in Asia, Chinese girls have the
biggest tits, Taiwanese girls have a good mix of the Korean bodies and
the Japanese faces, but hands down, Korean girls have the best
bodies.”
Hmm, I really have to disagree with this one.
1. Japanese girls cover their faces with makeup..so much so that it’s virtually impossible to see what they really look like. And their teeth are gnarly. They are definitely not the most beautiful in Asia, and most people (especially Asians) would agree. The most beautiful are actually Korean girls (although a lot of it’s fake) and Taiwanese.
2. Chinese girls definitely don’t have the biggest tits. In fact, they probably have the smallest. A surprising amount of Japanese girls actually have great tits, and half the Taiwanese girls I’ve been with had Cs or bigger. Nearly all the Chinese were flat, and only a couple Koreans had big ones.
3. Best bodies is pretty subjective. If you like super long legs, northern China is best. And Taiwan has some of those as well. Korean girls are definitely taller than Japanese, but the average girl isn’t super tall. They also don’t have large breasts (unless they’re fake), and asses are rather flat. All-in-all, best body is kind of a toss-up, but if you like some curves you’re best off going to southeast Asia. Thais, Fillippinos and Indonesians definitely rule in this area.
1. I mean natural faces. And yeah the teeth are bad an Japan, but I wasn’t including that in my quick overview.
2. I lump Taiwanese girls in with Chinese girls since mainly they are northern Chinese but I will say, that I think Taiwanese are a good compromise between what’s best about Japanese girls and what’s best about Korean girls…and far less clothing!
There are wide variations in Chinese girls for sure with Northern girls and girls from Chengdu having a reputation for being really good, and southern Chinese girls being short an stubby.
3. I think most guys who have been to all 3, think Koreans have more curves and longer legs on average than China and Japan. I didn’t include SE Asia in this assessment and I think most guys who have spent any time in East Asia prefer the women there in general (largely because they’re educated).
But, yes, to each his own.
“Japanese girls have the best faces in Asia, Chinese girls have the biggest tits”
Lol.
From my experience Japanese women have bigger tits than Chinese.
There is a lot of variation by region in China…
Been all over (except Tibet) yes, there are variation, but from my experience I still believe Japanese are bigger.
That’s really surprising…I’d say your experience is VERY atypical. Japan has been known to TURN men into tit men because the lack was so great.
It’s mostly status quo in almost all of Asia. We use our status and “power” and connections to live. I remember as a kid going to Korea to visit my grandparents on my mothers side and didn’t notice until early highschool that status and image is everything. It’s not even about the money but the connections and what’s in or not. It’s similar to most American high schools but Korea (and most of Asia) takes it beyond the stereotype.
Yeah, a lot of truth in this.
Chinese women have the biggest tits in asia? Ever heard of the Philippines?
Maybe I should have been more clear…East Asia.
I want you to go fuck yourself and go fuck your own pussys. Don’t touch Koreans fucktard
If you don’t like this article, you’d REALLY hate this one: http://asiandatingmonthly.com/love-korean-women/
Lie to girl, get girl drunk, rape her. Seems respectful and ethical. Dear author, get a gun, load it, stick the barrel in your mouth, pull trigger. The world can do with less douchebags like you.
You assume that just because I’m reporting what happens, that I condone it…I don’t.
So who’s the douchebag now?
Would be nice if one day, people actually paid attention…
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The author of this article should be really ashamed of himself. How could anyone write an article so offensive to both South Koreans and women? Oi, don’t ever treat us girls as if our only purpose is helping you get laid. This article makes me truly sick.
Yes, I’m really as one dimensional as 1,000 words.
I wonder if stuff like negging works on them, or if they give men “shit tests” like women do in the U.S./U.K. I suppose I’ll have to fly over there to find out 🙂
Been a few years since this was last posted. Any updates to locations? Where’s a great place to go for someone who will only be in Seoul 2-4 days tops and wants the most bang for the buck? Culture AND “night life” if you will.
The lesson is don’t go to stupid Korea . Don’t deal with those superficial , materialistic racists Korean women . This is exactly what they are . In Canada , Korean women only marrey a white guy . They want white baby pretty bad . It’s a statues for them . We know .
I’ll wait until North korea Collapse, it’ll be easier to score a korean chick LOL
I once went to Seoul for two weeks and I totally loved it. It is a wonderful place and I think Korean men are hot and I even enjoyed the country. They are taller than Japanese men and being a tall Japanese woman that’s a great thing. They have amazing soups too.
I have been to Korea once and I loved it. The men are really wonderful. I actually find men in Korea (in general) very sexy. LOL. They are very intimidating though.
Holy shit “get her so drunk that you can take her wherever”???? Am I the only one who sees this as a rape tactic?
Yes, it is a rape tactic. And you’ll see that I was talking about what the typical Korean guy does. That is not an endorsement of the tactic.
However, I will say that in Korean culture (and Asian culture in general) their idea of what constitutes rape puts a lot more burden on the women not putting themselves into dangerous situations in the first place.
You can think of that as you will, but that’s how it is.
As a South Korean woman, I’d have to politely disagree. While it is (unfortunately) a tactic used by some Koreans, it still doesn’t change the fact that this is seen as rape and that Korean society has progressed in such views of rape, especially the younger generation. Also, could you make it clear in the article that you don’t endorse this rape tactic? Your article could be misinterpreted quite easily, as you use the second person point of view. I found your article quite interesting btw, although I do find it a pity Korean girls are seen in this manner.
You’re right. The way it’s written, it can easily be mis-interpreted. This article is far too short to give a proper accounting of Korean girls and society.
It’s primarily directed at western guys who don’t understand anything about Korea.
For western guys who have spent any length of time in Asia, they usually have a preference for Korean (and Japanese) over girls from other countries in Asia.
Despite, the difficulty, Korean girls are actually a lot of fun, capable, adventurous and have very rich personalities.
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Let u know the useful info so that travelling with Korean locals including me
Mostly with Korean univ. students
http://www.tourmatekorea.com
Looks like an meeting up with korean university students.
but I think other differences is that traveling with them in the Seoul city as private.
Some payment is needed.
Of course, there is a walking tour and having just one cup of coffee with them.
It’s a good idea to travel with real Korean friends, not a guide.
go and check out if you interested in meet up with Koreans.
It looks pretty fun experience
Fuckin niggers and crackers should stay home and leave our beautiful women alone. Esp niggers. Nibody goes to africa to chase jungle vunnies now do they?
It’s a good thing for South Korea that Americans don’t hate Koreans as much as you hate Americans.
why is that?
you hear stories all the time about asians getting bullied in america.
if a nigger gets bullied in america, they riot, they beat up innocent people. asians get bullied by BOTH. we still work hard and generally keep our heads down.
you’re prob another nigger that likes OUR beautiful asian women bc your ‘women’ are fat ugly rude loud and just plain nasty.
jungle bunnies indeed
Because the US has an entire aircraft carrier strike group headed to the Korean peninsula at the moment to keep N. Korea in check.
And we have almost 30,000 troops stationed there all year round. Not to mention the fact that it was American troops that kept Korea from becoming totally communist because the US decided to defend S. Korea because of the desire to prevent the spread of communism.
If you’re Asian and you get bullied in the US, you can go back to your country. Your parents chose to go there knowing the risks.. But if you’re black in America, you have nowhere to go…it’s not as if, we chose to go to America.
Get a clue…the situation isn’t the same at all. That isn’t to say that black Americans don’t have some responsibility for their situation in the US. It is to say that the Asians all chose to go there knowing the trade-offs they were making, though.
I don’t actually have a preference for Asian women…black, Hispanic, Asian, Russian and Indian all work for me.
I’ve never had a conversation with such an incredibly rude person. If you stop making so many assumptions, and listen you might be able to learn something.
Asians like education, right? Lols
Yeah…and? You dont have to give me a history lesson. Im aware that the fuckin commies are responsible for north korea being fucked up as they are.
Im aware of the american soldiers being stationed in korea to ‘protect’ from whoever, tho these same soldiers really
are there to have fun and chase OUR women.
I never said i was bullied tho ive seen, experienced and have heard many racist stories vs asians. Mostly from crackers and niggers.
You think my hate is unfounded?
Youre guddam right the situation isnt the same, coon.
Niggers have a voice.
Affirmative action, al sharpton, blm, ‘ african american ‘ bullshit.. you niggers whine whine whine about racism.
Being racist against blacks is RACIST. Say the n word and you are villified. You get outed as racist. You may get fired.
Racism against asians…meh. .not so much
Asians get attacked alll the time. Do we riot?
Do we beat up random white ppl? Do we come up with stupid slogans and activist groups and cry about racism ?
Only niggers.
And here is the capper. Niggers are almost as racist as crackers. Its why i fuckin hate niggers. Race race race.. but niggers are racist too.
Try being asian and going to shoot hoops in the hood and see if the homeboys dont make any racial comments.
Google chad washington.
Google black on asian violence in philadelphia, chicago etc
I have lots of stories about how hypocritical niggers are.
Niggers always looking to bame somebody else but themselves. They bring up slavery ALL the time tho it was over a century ago. Youve had your black president, BET, black actors, niggers taking over sports and music, and you shits STILL cant be happy?
Always rioting, robbing , raping, drugs …lemme guess. Whitey made you steal that bike huh nigger?
So stfu with your black oppression bullshit. Niggers oppress themselves but too dumb and lazy to change.
Id love to be black tho. Rob a bank, blame whitey, go to jail, get free food, stand in welfare line, sue a white cop for calling me nigger and get paid.
And nobody likes jungle bunnies so everythings roses
No assumptions here, coon. All real life experiences. Im 37 years old, married with kids, so gtfo with assumptions and tell your ‘ brothers’ to act like people instead of chimps and then you wouldnt be the most hated race out there
And in 37 years, you learned that the best way to bring change to the world is to call people names and sling insults…
I see your answer is very short and meaningless. Because you have shit to say. Lets face it.
Everything i wrote is pretty much true.
I wouldnt need to sling insults or call people names if your ‘people’ would do the same fuckin thing and practice what they preach. Because lets be honest here. Asians generally leave people alone and you know it.
Instead of pointing me out as rude or racist, you should educate your ‘ brudas’and ‘ sistas’ to act more like civilized people rather than savages.
I could guarantee you that niggers would receive a lot less hate worldwide
My answer is short because you’re not open to dialogue.
I wouldn’t go to the ‘hood to shoot hoops either.
And I haven’t said anything about black oppression either. I simply pointed out that Asians made a conscious choice to go the US because the felt the opportunities outweighed the drawbacks and black Americans didn’t.
Lastly, all races, ethnicities and nations have done terrible things to other races, ethnicities and nations at some point or another.
It just turns out that some have been in a better position than others in history to do terrible things. This isn’t about how black people are, this is about how people are, period.
of course you wouldn’t , nigger. bc you’re an uncle tom.
it’s always easy to debate with a nigger.
bc they always say the same OBVIOUS shit and can’t really answer for their ‘brethren’ shortcomings as a human RACE.
always bring up slavery. always bring up how they were brought here to america against their own will.
a) asians came here bc they felt opportunities outweighed the drawbacks? DUH. REALLY? so did almost every other immigrant race. and you know what? ASIANS THRIVE.
if asians were white man’s slaves OVER A CENTURY AGO, do you think they’d be rioiting and looting and blaming whitey for their own shortcomings????
nigger immigrants come here from africa, JAMAICA, etc
wtf do they bring to america but mostly crime drugs and violence?
MIND YOU , NOT ALL NIGGERS ARE SAVAGES. just 95%. embellishment maybe. but you must know that niggers are the primary cause of shit that happens in america. and they never want to be held accountable. always whine about slavery, blame whitey, their color of skin.
there are brown people darker than you monkeys. do they riot and fight the PO – PO when they get arrested? fuck no. bc they’re not as dumb as you niggers.
ALL RACES AND NATIONS HAVE DONE TERRIBLE THINGS TO OTHER RACES. YEAH….NO SHIT? LIKE THE WHITE MAN CONQUERING ALL OVER AFRICA, SOUTH AMERICA AND ASIA? YEAH…AND?
WE’RE IN THE 21ST CENTURY COON.
STOP LIVING IN THE PAST AND MOVE THE FUCK ON.
b) you can spin your wheels as much as you want.
point blank, you’re just an uncle tom house nigger than has an asian fetish.
you won’t admit it.
you’ll say you LOVE ALL WOMEN.
you’ll try to differentiate between work and leisure.
what the fuck ever, nigger.
if you were to just admit that you like asian girls and admit that a lot of blacks did act poorly and they do make up the large proportion of criminals, i’d respect that.
but naw. excuses, history lessons, POINT BLANK OBVIOUS OBSERVATIONS. bc you know i’m right.
you’ll never see an asian or white making this kind of BULLSHIT page about BLACK women.
bc niggers would call al sharpton LMFAO
but mostly bc your ‘WOMEN’ are just plain fuckin nasty.
LOUD, BLACK AS TAR, RUDE, ARROGANT, RACIST JUNGLE BUNNIES.
so stfu with your excuses, nigger and leave our BEAUTIFUL ASIAN WOMEN ALONE.
you should know by now that most self respecting asian girls don’t like niggers.
and the ones that do are whores anyways.
call me rude and racist.
i wouldn’t be if you niggers weren’t such low life shit bags.
i just speak truth, nigger.
lols
LOL. YUP.
all you can say is LOL bc you have fuck all to say.
Now back to the kitchen you go and yeah i do want fries with that. BOY.
And dont try to outwit asians bc you will most likely lose
Leave our fuckin women alone jigaboo. Go chase white or latinas like your homeboys
I’ve achieved every goal I have for my interaction with you.
HAHHAHAHAHAHAHA
of course you have nigger.
Of course you have.
And please pray tell were your goals?
To expose yourself as the typical sell out house nigger that you are?
To let out the lame nigger excuses for your own ineptitude in life as a race?
Because really.
If it wasnt for america, niggers would have no say in this world.
Youd all be hangingfrom trees in africa or jamaica.
YOU SHOULD THANK THE WHITE MAN FOR BRINGING YOU OVER AS SLAVES.
Tell me im wrong nigger.
Expecting your one sentence reply shortly.
And please pray tell, what was your goal?
To show what a sell out uncle tom house nigger you are?
To let out , again, your groaning and bitching to the world how niggers are never accountable for their faults as a human race, but it is again whiteys fault and how niggers were brought over here against their own free will?
Keep spiining your tires, nigger. Rinse wash repeat.
Im having fun showing you what a predictable sell out coon you are. Debating with niggers is just too easy.
‘how to get laid in south korea’
you’ll never see a title saying ‘how to get laid in africa’ or ‘jamaica’ bc your ‘women’ are fuckin disgusting and nobody wants them.
not even you. so all your celebrities chase white latina or asian after you hit it rich. FACT. not racist
Lmfao. I just noticed youre the same nigger that wrote this article. You like ALL women huh? Sure sounds like it. All ASIAN women
You niggers are so full if shit
Leave our wonen alone and stick to fat honky bitches or worse, ugly dark fat junhle bunnies
My work and my personal life are not one and the same.
This article is bullshit.
I wonderhow you would feel if somebody wrote an article saying how to pick up nappy headed hos.
Nobody would bc coon gurls are nasty af but you get the point
A) An article about picking up women is so unimportant in the scheme of the world that there’s no point in caring about it.
B) Clearly, I don’t mind engaging with people and ideas that are distasteful because I’m engaging with you.
Another lying typical nigger.
All your posts are about picking up asian girls.
Fuck,i hate you niggers and crackers that prey on our women.
Niggers more bc she boons are fuckin nasty.
Black power, black pride but not black women huh nigger?
My personal blog has lots of other topics that have nothing to do with women.
Cowardly typical nigger shit
Why do you reply like that? It seems to me that you are upset about something. Does calling someone the n word help release the anger and frustration you have built up inside of you?
I just checked out your profile. Man, you really do hate black people. lol
I just checked out your profile and you really do seem to hate black people. It isn’t healthy to have hatred towards a group of people based on what few individuals might have done.
It isnt healthy? Maybe. But it isnt unwarranted. If you were asian and your family owned businesses youd know that niggers are the ones causing almost ALL the problems. They whine about racism when they are racist towards asians also.
I wish it was only some incidents but too many to count on both hands and feet
Niggers always pull the race card instead of being held ACCOUNTABLE.
I would like to go to Asia but comments from GrandAdmiralGamez and Furious is making me rethink that.
I am black but not African American. I’m actually from the UK with an East African origin so I don’t know how well receieved I would be in Korea or East Asia as a whole, especially by the women.
I did do some research about Korea and it does seem like a cool place to visit. I personally like places with beaches so I guess Busan would be great?
Of course, not knowing much about East Asia doesn’t help the fact that comments from GrandAdmiralGamez and Furious is making me rethink about going to Asia at the same time.
I don’t think it much matters whether you’re American or from the UK as a black person.
You probably won’t do well if you don’t live in Seoul though. White foreigners also find it far more challenging just because Seoul is the least conservative.
Koreans were very easy to me and I ended up marrying one lol.