Dating, romance, and sex offer some of the most exciting and satisfying times in a man’s life. The mating game is ecstasy to misery, rejection to success, day by day and even hour by hour. Many men struggle to get a foothold in the sexual marketplace but others have a wide range of options.
Usually the initial response to having sexual options is to think in terms of increasing notch counts, flags and range of experience. This approach can be very satisfying, at least for a while, but brings with it a range of risks.
Risk is always present and can’t be eliminated entirely. Obviously measures which reduce risk without reducing sexual opportunity should be taken. Often, though there is a trade-off between enjoying the delights and avoiding the pitfalls. The more successful, charmed, and invincible a man seems the more he needs to divert his effort and attention away from sexual success and towards reducing the inevitable risks.
Game presents a range of tactics to increase sexual opportunities for a man. This article offers a sort of “anti-game” list of tactics to reduce risk, hopefully without losing too many of the rewards. This is not a list of suggested rules for living, but a toolkit of tactics to consider in the struggle to find the best point between excessive adventure and excessive caution.
1. Reject unattractive, bad, or crazy girls
Don’t do it man, the odds are too great
Every sex act is a risk and some are riskier than others. Not every sex act brings equal benefits or any pleasure at all. In plentiful circumstance it is still tempting to just grab everything. Perhaps it is time to consider rejecting the less desirable and the loose cannons.
2. Never set out to pump and dump
If sex is being achieved fairly quickly then pump-and-dump is an inevitable part of the game. Girls will sometimes turn out to be less worthwhile than they seemed, and have to be passed on after sex. By contrast, setting out to have sex with a girl but one time only is usually a mistake. The only reason to consider pump-and-dump in the first place is because a girl is of marginal attractiveness or is dangerous. The costs, benefits, and risks of having such encounters just don’t add up when there are other, better options available, even if not immediately.
3. Keep the lies to a minimum
By convention, some lies are completely accepted in the mating market or at least considered regrettable but minor lapses. Others, particularly those involving infidelity, are potential dynamite. Perhaps the easiest ways to avoid problems here is to keep the existing relationship status vague in the telling and to keep the existing relationship status vague in fact.
4. Resist the temptation to escalate too quickly
Do you know where this is going?
The obvious advantage of quicker escalation is quicker sex and that’s quite some advantage, but there are problems. The faster a girl is willing to be escalated the more likely that she is crazy or low quality in some way that is not instantly obvious. Quick escalation means less time for assessment of risks for both participants.
5. Keep records of romantic and sexual activities
Always keep a diary of sexual encounters. The form is not so important but it should include names, addresses, locations, dates, times, photos, activities, sex acts and menstruation data. It should also include notes about the people and circumstances surrounding events.
The diary will be useful when a mostly forgotten girl reappears much later, and is worth its weight in gold in the event of pregnancy claims or false rape allegations. Having exact information is handy for assessing girls quality and fidelity, and for checking their stories after the fact. It’s also nice to be able to have a memory jogger when looking back to analyze performance and tactics.
It should go without saying, but make sure that no girl gets to see it, ever.
6. Maintain distance in relationships
The general rule is to not let temporary or probably temporary girls get into a position to cause damage. That means limiting their contact with more permanent and important areas of a man’s life. Some girls are already in positions where they have the ability to cause damage. Playing with housemates, workmates, and friends is playing with fire.
7. When it gets nasty or it’s over don’t make things worse
Based on a true story!
So, it’s clearly coming apart. Accusations are flying, maybe fists are flying. It’s often tempting to inflame the situation by making smart comments, arranging for one last encounter, text baiting, and so on. Maybe it’s to express annoyance, maybe it’s to try to seem to be in the right, maybe it’s just for entertainment. Don’t do it, it’s dangerous. She’s really not that important anyway.
Some of this I agree with. But some of it can be augmented when interacting with Americunts.
#2- Fuels abundance mentality. Even if that isn’t your aim, you should still have that mindset because most likely the girl will and this will prevent future disappointment.
#3- Not only should lying be used to get laid easier, it is your insurance policy against girls coming back at you in case something goes wrong. Name, age, job, profession, home address, family are all easy lies that can be reneged later on if you deem fit.
#4- Far more men have the opposite problem. Also, this is another method of reinforcing abundance mentality.
Good laugh for the day. I had to share this one (courtesy of a member over on the rooshv forum) – She Has A Boyfriend (now what):
Lmao!
This is gold!!!
Hilarious
Good comment John. I have long since come to the conclusion that the truth is wasted on women. They don’t respect it and use it against you later.
Actually I don’t do pump and dump unless the girl turns out to be disappointing. I find the sex gets better with multiple engagements.
With regard to distance, I actually keep a physical distance. No more than one girl per country at the moment.
“I have long since come to the conclusion that the truth is wasted on women. They don’t respect it and use it against you later.”
This 100%.
http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-11111-page-40.html
Im sure alot of you long timers have seen this before, but Ill post it for the newer guys(its new to me).
Posters use real example of women a bit too full of themselves.
Most of the pics are for women 18-32.
I’d say 26-32 is kinda bad, nasty attitude, before and after pics with current weird/shaved hairdos, some overweight, minimal or no tattoos
But the 18-25 range? HOLY MACKERAL!!!
nasty attitude, before and after pics with current weird/shaved hairdos, virtually ALL overweight or morbidly obese, tons of tattoos and piercings
I feel sorry for you guys under 30. I saw very few women like this 10-15 yrs ago.
American standards are in decline.
last thing: the 18-25 range looked alot older than they are; one 20 yr old must have been lying, because she looked 40. Too much booze/drugs/bad food I suppose.
When I see the wants and needs list of some of the online dating women I think to myself, this Broad is going to be single forever, a women could be a 6 or 7 and when they post their needs list , in my eyes, they drop numerical value rapidly.I think that the average american/ western women are so out of touch with reality and what to expect from a man (even the fat women have ridiculous expectations for themselves) it’s crazy.
Jesus…..
Fuck you for getting me to read that thread, it’s fucking addicting! Hahahahaha!
LOL! I read all 91 pages over the course of 3 days. The best is still the first, the 350 pounder with 28 inch calves and the pic of her standing next to her “fat people bias in the media” project.
She is definitely the best. Especially her bending forward with the glamor shot!
The guys on the thread decided that the bitch had to be certifiably crazy to think that she would never consider dating a man that is even slightly overweight. Hahaha! Great stuff.
Aw, c’mon now, give the beast credit for somewhat considering the human gene pool…
7 tips and not one of them included wearing a condom? While that should be a no-brainer, it’s still something that should be stressed. What about the smell test? Or the visual exam of the slit?
I understand doing an article exposing the types of broads to ignore and what not, but this being a “risk reducing” article, what greater risk is there than STD’s?
There are so many “wart hogs” running around out there and their vaginal cavities are nothing more than disease carrying orifices. In my book, the greatest risk reducing tactic is wrapping your shit. The other tips are obviously good pieces of advice, but what would you rather deal with? A clingy piece of ass or a herpe?
“Excuse me Madam while I just examine your slit. Ah ha…. hm hmm… Oh. Well I’m terribly sorry Madam but it appears you have something of an…. ah… ailment in your lower regions. I’m afraid we shall have to cancel our ah… liason…”
Hey man, you’ve gotta do what needs to be done to protect yourself from women. I had a few occasions where something was just off with the nether regions of the lady I was trying to bang. In one instance I just threw a condom on and banged her (probably not the wisest, but she was an easy 7.5 and I was in a drought), and another time where I stopped completely with the foreplay.
Everyone should be practicing the smell test. It’s as subtle as getting a few fingers in there and casually bringing them towards your nose for a quick sniff.
Yeah I’ve a couple stinkers myself but sometimes you just gotta say “What the fuck?!!”
That doesn’t necessarily mean anything though. Some girls are a bit aromatic after their periods or if they’ve had a reaction to soap or something.
Agreed, and do you want to go down there for a quick meal? I’m not saying every broad with a smell is carrying a disease, but I’m not trying to go to a buffet line that smells rank either.
Mate… You seem a little… defensive…. Everything OK?
Right as rain
I will say anyone stupid enough to pump and dump without a condom is probably too stupid to understand this site…
I can name one….I shake my head at it sometimes….
HaHa. Man, not only is that truth, but even with a condom you have to withdraw.
Oh, but providing guidance on rejecting unattractive, bad, or crazy girls is perfectly ok to do.
Noted.
In my younger years I had a few instances where i banged some broads without a rubber. Fortunately for me, the only consequence was some potential baby mama drama that turned out to be nothing more than a psycho wanting attention.
There are plenty of young lads who read this site that DO need the reminder of the seriousness of practicing safe sex.
I would never tell a guy not to get some pussy no matter how bad. Like one guy told me… It’s better than having a wank…
SAVE THE TEXTS. for the love of christ save any info that will boost your take on things. No matter how much they bullshit, you’re going to fuck a girl who is going to act like she’s cool with casual sex. She will not be. And when that day comes, she will drag your name through the mud.
You could also simply aim to reduce one’s excessive sexuality. There are circles out there that stress the benefits of “no fap,” which means refraining from masturbation and channeling the pent up sexual energy towards other areas of life. They say it makes you more assertive at work. You won’t be as laid back, and therfore more willing to succeed and work hard. It might all be placebo effect… But it’s worth trying at least once.
I don’t think fapping increases sexual risk, per se…
Some of us need to fap and fuck because we are too assertive at work if not.
Some of us avoid the fap to assertively acquire more carnal knowledge.
When I was younger, I used to fap before I went out, so I could pound the pussy long and hard. It also kept my thirst down and let me have the right attitude to draw them in. I’m high energy, so it helps. To each their own though.
Regarding #5
Better yet, install hidden cams in your house/bedroom or wherever you fuck.
Be fearless and unapologetic, thats the one rule I live by. The crazy girls give the best blow jobs.
#7 – As Machiavelli said: *never* insult an enemy. It make them want to injure you without interfering with their ability to do it.
Pretty good article. I don’t know about the pump and dump thing. I’ve done it, but it’s just so so depressing after having sex with a girl you don’t really like. You really want her to get t.f. out, but she wants to spend the night. I truly hate that dynamic, so these days I totally avoid it. No reason whatsoever to bang a girl unless you’re really into her. I suppose an exception can be made if you just got out of prison.
Cool.