Whether they do it consciously or not, it doesn’t matter. Loser women have the tendency to treat you as beneath them, as if you are there to serve them. You are not a fellow sentient human being with a finite amount of time on this planet, with shit to do and places to be. You are her sounding board and personal free therapist to listen to her complain about her problems, but never solve them.
If any of the following stories are similar to what you’ve experienced, you’re getting used as the classical emotional tampon. Not just any tampon, but one of a particularly virulent attention-whoring nature, no different than torturing a chained and abused pit bull by poking him with a stick at a safe distance.
Story #1: “He Has a Hidden Camcorder!”
I received a call at 3AM in the morning. It was the girl who was sort of, kind of slipping from “girl I fucked” to “girlfriend.” I still hadn’t made up my mind as while she was drop dead gorgeous, she left so many slain corpses of other men in her wake that I figured I’d keep her at arm’s length.
Barely verbal I said, “Hello?:”
“Aaron it’s Dee.”
“Yeah, what do you want?”
“I just found a camcorder hidden in my room! I think my male roommate put it there!”
This woke me up a bit, but not much on account there really wasn’t much I could do. She lived 40 miles away and this was a matter for the cops. I gave her the only advice I could and said, “Dude, you need to get out of there. If you need to you can crash here, but find a friend near work and call the cops. Wait till you leave the house before you do and leave quietly.”
Instead of the compliance and action the urgency of the situation required, she oddly insisted on explaining it to me more. After hearing her unnecessarily reiterate her story, I said, “Yes, I know, but Dee, you need to get out of there. And like now!”
This attempt to prompt her to action failed again as she continued to talk about it.
Thankfully, I was 30 at this time and not exactly a rookie. I realized she was not calling me because she needed help, but wanted attention and drama. There may not have even been a camera. Upon realizing this I said, “OK Dee, you do what you want. I have to go back to bed.”
Story #2: “Did You Call the Cops?”
I met a fan and his girlfriend in Indianapolis. She was cute, charming, and witty. I very much enjoyed her company and conversation. So it shocked me when he told me that she was an avid feminist. I laughed and said, “You mean like all the 19 year old girls who think it’s about the equal treatment of the sexes?” And he said no. She was a real, hard core feminist.
Still not believing him, I was surprised when he asked if he could give her my e-mail address because she had read up on some of my works and just couldn’t believe the charming, handsome man she met that night would say such things. This being an opportunity for one of the increasingly rare mental challenges, I agreed and looked forward to her e-mail.
What came was what we’d expect of a feminist today. A long, disorganized pablum of points, arguments, and contentions that lacked logic, took things out of context, and was so broad in its attack it couldn’t be responded to without a 100 page treatise.
But one thing stood out in the context of this article. She was groped in the crotch by some dude bro at a bar, her argument being that sexual assault does happen and its not acceptable (as if I was arguing the case it some how was) AND that more needed to be done to stop rape culture. My friend corroborated the story as he was there, so I had no reason to disbelieve her. So in response I asked,
“So did you go to the cops?” She sheepishly responded, “no.”
Story #3: “I Was Raped, But No Cops Please”
This one I’ve told before so my apologies to those of you who already heard it, but after getting off of my campus security shift one night, I went to a dorm room where I knew some friends would be watching a movie. Our token female friend was there, but was acting odd. She was cuddling her teddy bear, saying nothing, and when prodded she would just say, “nothing, nothing.”
With enough prying we inevitably found out she was “raped.” Being 18 and 19-year-old idiots, we went into rage and upon finding out the guy was still in the dorm building (and I was still in my uniform), I hunted him down. It wasn’t until nearly 10 years later did I start to ask, “Why didn’t she just call the cops? Why was it so hard to pry it out of her that she was raped?”
Story #4: “Did You Call HR?”
A female fan I have correspondence with e-mailed me one day and was angry and enraged. She works a real job, with real men, and is THE epitome of a truly independent woman. When I asked why she was so upset she said, “The guy from corporate I was assigned to today stroked my leg and said my co-workers must not be able to keep their hands off of me.” This of course was when I was 40, fully more aware of this type of behavior from women than I was just 10 years before. So I asked here,
“Did you report him to HR?” She said, “No.”
To which I said, “Then I don’t want to hear it if you refuse to solve your own problems.”
Drama or justice, ladies: choose one
If you’re particularly young or perhaps inexperienced, you may not be able to understand what’s going on with the four stories mentioned above, but you DO intuitively know there’s a trend or some kind of a relationship. Some egregious, even criminal, act is committed upon a woman, but when it comes time to seeking out justice, revenge, or justice, they…
balk
stall
harumph
shrug
and just say
“No, no, it’s alright.”
As a man, especially if you were enlisted to hear these women’s problems you, honorably, nobly, and instinctively jump to solve these injustices. It’s not only not right, but criminal, disgusting and outright dangerous to the rest of society to have rapists running around, not to mention just unacceptable behavior in terms of GENUINE sexual harassment. But when your solutions, not to mention, abhorrence, rage, and offer of help are rejected by the girl simply refusing to do anything about it, it makes the naive man ask,
“Then why the hell did you bring this up???”
Not to mention
“You’re just going to let him go!!!!????”
And it is here you need to understand the demented minds of women. Some of them prefer drama over justice.
Whether it’s authentic cases in the case of the feminist being groped, or an outright false rape accusation like Mattress Girl Emma Sulkowicz, or a questionable one like my ex girlfriend, it’s nothing more than the dopamine high women get when they stir up drama and controversy, playing the ultimate trump card of “sexual assault” to rally and rile the masses of men to give them so much attention they might OD on it.
And while I wish I could say this was only “demented women,” nearly all women will belabor you with their problems, NOT to solve them, but simply to play off of your male instincts for justice or simple kindness as a ploy to hold you hostage to get attention. This is an absolute insult to men and it should never be tolerated.
Never again
The solution to this is two fold
1. You need to be able to identify, immediately, when a woman is lining you up for this abuse. The tell tale sign is that you will want to IMMEDIATELY solve her problem by telling her what to do. It is also easily identifiable in that it will evoke a Darwinistic response of anger and vengeance within you because of the presumed injustice she has suffered. Stop. Recognize it. Calm yourself and then…
2. Ask her one of two simple questions: (a) “Do you want me to solve your problem or are you just going to whine about it?”
OR if it is about a criminal nature ask, (b) “Did you call the cops?” to which if she says no, you simply say, “Then I don’t care.”
Blunt, direct, and even insulting as these questions are, they are 100% called for and legitimate as this has been SOP for many women in the past. Additionally, even if women do this unconsciously because of perhaps genuine psychological differences between men and women, it doesn’t matter.
You and your precious few minutes on this planet are NOT beholden to this lower-standard. Furthermore, you are LITERALLY doing what women have been clamoring for since the 1960’s. You ARE treating them as genuine equals. You are treating them as men. And if they opt instead to act like petulant little children in response, you simply laugh and refuse to play.
When you do this the response is predictable and expected. At first, shock and insult. “Why how dare you!” Blah blah blah blah blah. You’re not being a good emotional tampon giving her her drama fix! Then the facade quickly fades into a sheepish silence as she finds out she’s busted, evidencing shame on her part so thick you could cut through it.
Finally, silence. Ahhhh, blissful silence. No mind games. No drama. No raised blood pressure or wasting 40 minutes on the phone trying to get the girl to call the cops, report the guy to the HR department, or any other solutions the attention-whoring drama queen never really wanted in the first place. You can continue on your otherwise intellectually stimulating conversation and enjoy your day.
In the end, if you can master this, especially the ability to detect early when you’re going to fall into this “white knight” trap, you’ll never be duped into this sucker’s game again. Plus, as my experience has told me, they’re more likely to sleep with you in the end. It’s just a big ass shit test, but one that’s easy to fail as it speaks to your genetic hard-wiring. Train your frontal lobes to ensure you pass with flying colors.
Nice piece.
I just came to the conclusion, that if women ever have a choice between anything and drama, they will always choose drama.
I remember not too long ago, I was chillin over at a friend’s house and his little brother came over to drink with us, he’s about 19 or 20, and he was talking about how even tho he had a girlfriend, he still will fuck every broad that looks good and gives him some play.
So we’re all cracking up and laughing, his brother asked him how many times had he got caught creeping, and he said “man I honestly lost count, too many. and the bitch still keep coming back.” His brother told him “that’s because women love being cheated on, the drama makes them feel like they’re on a reality show or on Maury or some shit” strange part is, that’s true as hell.
Funny you say this because they persistently keep looking for signs of infidelity, even though they don’t want to know.
I think they look for it, because they want it to be there. Then they can go and gossip with their little friends and feel like the star of a vh1 show smh
Probably in their minds, you’ve already been unfaithful. They just haven’t discovered it yet. So they keep searching and searching for anything, even if there aren’t any. But they are sure that you were unfaithful.
You know…it never clicked until now, but I had a gf many many moons ago that just started this “you don’t love me” shit out of the blue for no reason. I was taken aback because things were going great and we were still in the honeymoon phase of the relationship. Your comment is probably exactly what happened to me except instead of infidelity, I had lost interest (allegedly). It finally got so bad I actually did break up with her. Talk about a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Your experience reminds me of the Eric Clapton tune “Forever Man”.
How many times must I say I love you
Before you finally understand?
Won’t you be my forever woman?
I’ll try to be your forever man,
Try to be your forever man.
Haven’t heard this song before, but I like it. One of the guitar riffs in the background sounds like something from the Eagles.
Had a girl (30 years old, but typical dumb female, ergo girl) copy and paste texts from her bf, and asked me if I thought he was cheating. Instead of telling her what she wanted to hear, I told her the truth based upon previous conversations. “He’s looking for happiness elsewhere because you’re a miserable, whiny cunt, who can’t cook, consistently nags, and stopped sucking his dick.” Those were the facts based on what SHE told me, meaning there’s plenty that she left out. Their 6 year relationship ended 2 weeks later, because her bf indeed went and found someone who would do the things she wouldn’t. She’s resented me ever since. Truth hurts.
There’s plenty of reasons why modern women appear to be miserable. Every time a woman says, “There’s no good men around”, they’re actually saying, “There’s no guy who’s willing to be what I THINK a man should be”. Problem is, a woman thinking a man won’t cheat, is like thinking a scorpion won’t sting you. Its just their nature. But women think they won’t get cheated on, EVEN if they get with a guy who they know unabashedly cheats. It’s their mission to try and change a guy they revere, into something they’re comfortable with.
As for the question of drama, women want drama that they can CONTROL.That’s all it is. As men, our most powerful (non-physical) attack against drama-craving women is indifference. A complete lack of emotion for her to feed off of. Women think drama = them caring about a relationship, but in actuality it just makes them easier to dismiss.
This whole comment spouts off great truths but that first paragraph is pure gold.
It’s their mission to try and change a guy they revere, into something they’re comfortable with.
And if they do succeed in changing him then she loses all interest in him and then she will be the one to start cheating.
First you claim it was the woman’s fault, in the next paragraph you write men’s cheating is an innate feature. Given what you describe, *he* was gonna do it regardless of her actions. Sooner or later.
What’s the point?
It was her fault because she tried to marginalize the fact that men crave new pussy. I could tell just how dumb this chick was when it came to men, from ONE conversation. Her genuine “logic” was as follows:
Tames: Why don’t you cheat?
Her: Because…
Tames: Let me guess, because you don’t wanna get cheated on?
Her: Yeah. *sheepish smile*
That’s the level of woman I’m talking about in this particular instance. A chick that has been raised to believe that men should do as women say, or else they’re “bad” guys. IMO every woman is capable of being reduced to this type of illogical behavior. All it takes is asking them a few questions related to the realm of relationships, or about men in general. Then questioning their answers, or more importantly HOW they came to those answers. They can’t help but get emotional.
I believe that most American women are so self absorbed, they don’t realize that the only way they can get what they crave (love), is to learn how to be lovable, from MEN. A woman giving another woman advice about finding love, is like asking Shaq how to shoot free throws. That’s why women are so quick to want to marry. They don’t have the tools to keep a man, so they’ll try to trap him instead. And the weak minded, “Ok, I guess that’s what I have to do, to be a good man” guys would rather throw their lives away, as opposed to speaking the TRUTH and stating, “No. I’m not marrying you.” (/rant)
Spot on! And true!
This sums up the entire history of the modern Western woman, starting with demands for ‘respect’ in the name of female suffrage. Our fathers and grandfathers gave them what they ‘wanted’, and now they hate their own white, Western brothers, sons, fathers, and male friends more than rape-happy foreigners invading their lands.
Do they have a dog together?
😂😂 just made me think about the discussion on that other article…but nah man, he’s 19 or 20 they dont even live together
This is very funny, but also very true.
I saw on the news the other day that Obama said Trump would never be president, that being president isn’t a reality show.
Politics aside, I wish someone would have called him on it and said that thanks to women’s votes the presidency is exactly that….a reality show. That is all it is.
The Bachelor, 1600 Pennsylvania Ave Edition.
😂😂 man it’s almost like inception with Obama saying that. How he really has any credibility with the public, I’ll never understand.
but yea man…it’s crazy how chicks are basically junkies for drama. they have an amazing capacity for emotional intelligence, but waste it all on pointless stimulation for emotional entertainment smh.
“pointless stimulation for emotional entertainment” aka politics or, more accurately, pLOLotics
maaaann I swear I try to not get overly involved in politics, but the older I get the stronger the draw gets on me. like it can’t be as easy as I think it is, but it can’t be as hard as they make it look either lol
It is the same as any other reality show. Good candy for the masses, annoying and endlessly meaningless.
He has credibility because women vote — which shouldn’t be allowed.
😂 let’s not forget the “modern men” who support him too smh
boredom is the key problem most people have in life, drama is the antidote and cure
yea man, you’re right.
I think the main difference between men and women is that when men get bored, we typically end up creating something that benefits all men.
we get bored and create new sports, and they end up generating massive wealth. we get bored and we create new forms of entertainment that create massive wealth. we explore new lands, that end up becoming prosperous (or not so prosperous) countries.
but women, they get bored and create drama that usually destroys or weakens creations that were made to benefit all. isn’t that crazy? all because they need constant and constantly growing emotional stimulation.
Yep.
Brilliant article A.C. You are spot on with this
Excellent as always, Mr. Asshole. Deal with women long enough and you realize that bitching is their favorite pastime. If I feel a pointless rant coming on from my wife, I either put the phone down and go about my business while she vents or simply tell her I don’t want to hear it. It might sound harsh to some, but I learned my lesson when she bitched one too many times about some issue at work and when I gave her the solution to solving said issue, she did just what Aaron said: shrugged her shoulders and didn’t act upon it.
You want me to help you solve the problem? Fine, I’ll help.
You want me to sit there while you vent for 30 minutes? Ain’t got time for that.
“You want me to sit there while you vent for 30 minutes? Ain’t got time for that.” And, as I like to add, “that’s what you have girlfriends for.”
So true. My wife is slowly learning I don’t care to listen to her drama….it’s slowly getting more and more peaceful throughout the house.
actually just said this last weekend in a not so serious situation
Girl: I am trying to decide between two dresses (for our date). Blah blah gray blah blah black, blah blah sho…..
lolknee: call a girlfriend…I am just the guy who is going to tear it off of you later
Girl: giggle….bye jerk
The funny thing is, as much as they crave using you as an “emotional tampon” (thank you author), they lust being put back in their place.
They don’t want your advice on clothes. In the first place they only care what women think about their clothes, not men. Not ANY men. In the second place, when shopping she’s already decided what she’s going to get and doesn’t need your advice; she wants you to carry all the crap she buys.
I stopped bothering giving useful advice after hearing “I just want you to support me, not try to fix anything” one too many times.
Have been in some odd situations myself. Had a woman ask me why I didn’t take advantage of her after an hour of her explaining to me how she was just raped. Still have a woman who hits me up when I’m out in California , typical super liberal , equality , yadda yadda, but if I could record some of the conversations I’ve had with her you’d swear she was a sadist . Had on woman when I was 19 tell her boyfriend , who was on deployment, I raped her because she cheated on him and got preggs, wasn’t my kid though hahah. When I worked security I had a woman blow me to get into VIP , kissed her boyfriend right after. Shit I could write a book.
Yikes, how’d you get out of the rape accusation? I feel that story merits a more detailed explanation.
Well the fact that she was pregnant and it wasn’t with me pretty much got me off the hook . Hoes out here hoein
Was any proof required from you or did the guy just ask “You sleep with my girl? No? Ok.”
The guy texted me asking since she was pregnant, I told him it was consensual. She never called the cops or anything . It’s been common tactic amongst women my age since highschool (27) so the credibility has kind of been lost . Except on older folk and guys who never got laid .
A friend of mine is currently abroad for six months. His girl stays in Paris alone. I ask to the specialists of the female nature here, how long before she cheat ?
I feel this question might have been asked too late.
That’s what I suspect too. Hopefully this might lead to a red pill ingestion.
Your friend is single already.
Or a cuck.
Both. The ex-girlfriend of one of my friends went to study in the UK. You can imagine what the transition from Eastern to Wetern Europe did to her. My friend got dumped, but then he started working out and became a player. His ex will probably end up with a bunch of cats.
I guess I’ll get to tell him “I told you so”.
If you’re looking for a number maybe 15 days… depends on how attractive she is.
If they are married then within 24 hours and perhaps within just a couple of hours. If they are in a LTR of considerable length then mabe 48 hours. If they are serious but not yet committed them maybe as much as a week. Note that to women the more committed you are to them the less it takes for them to be unfaithful. Once they have their claws sunk deep into you they are busy looking for the BBD or next victim.
Drama and shit testing go hand in hand!
Ive been accosted 2 or 3 times by rather good looking women that told me they were in trouble and needed help.. they were out of breath and frantic.. So I told them I would call the cops… guess what they said?? “Nevermind then” I wonder if they just looked at me and thought “this guys looks like a doormat!!” But Im not !!
Same here. I’ve had women come ask me for help and I point towards where the cops are currently standing. (on the nearest street corner) They never go to them.
I wonder if the kind of trouble they were in was the kind that could have been fixed with a good hard love making session?
Reminds me of my heavy social site days. Random woman from my home town asks for connection through a mutual friend even though I’ve we’ve spoken maybe once before. After chatting on and off for a few days she tries to drop a bomb by stating I have a son.
At first I was shocked, than after thinking about it I ask the kid’s age. I figure there’s a possibility given my hard-core metal vomit parties in my teen years. Says the kid was born in early ’01. I deny and of course she flips her shit until I state why it’s not possible.
In 2001 I was stationed in South Korea (I was in the middle of my time in Germany when this happened) for a year and didn’t step out of the country until I changed duty stations again on ’02. I also stated we can go to court over this showing that I was nowhere near her when the child was conceived, let alone born and I had already acquired an attorney that I was more than happy to take the case.
Haven’t heard from her since.
I always read this blog because it gives me a male perspective on issues. From a woman’s perspective, sometimes we are not looking for a solution — we just want our men to listen to us and provide a shoulder to cry on. Some problems just don’t have an immediate solution.
Im sure your cat has a shoulder for you!!
Nah, cats have that F-you attitude unless it wants something from you.
So true….
Thats why I like cats better than dogs.
I dont need a stank ass lumox shadowing my every move looking for attention.
just like women…
Why don’t you just get a dog instead.
My comment is not to be a dick, so I hope it isn’t taken that way. If you need a shoulder to cry on but you don’t want a solution, use men SPARINGLY. That’s what your female friends are for. We are ingrained with the desire to fix problems.
To me, it’s disrespectful for someone to come dump their emotional baggage on me for no other reason than to “vent”. You’ve soured my disposition (have had women kill my buzz more times than I can count), wasted my time, and you don’t even want my advice? No thanks.
Exactly!! Men fix things…
It really drives me nuts. Before I learned better with my wife, I’d be listening to her problem and I’d say, “ok here’s what you need to do…” and she’d be like “oh that’s ok, I’m not looking for a solution.” It’s a bit of a mind fuck for guys. Not really sure how to explain it…Lucy pulling the football away as Charlie Brown is about to kick it is the closest description I can think of.
They dont want to FIX IT.. they just want you to care!!
If they don’t care enough to fix it, then I don’t care at all.
Fixed!
Fixed my comment. Good catch.
So do guys ever need to vent? If so, how do you do it?
If a guy “vents” to another guy, he will almost certainly be expecting advice. And even if he isn’t, he will be receptive to it if it is given.
I have never, never, heard a guy say to me, “I just want to vent.”
From my perspective, when women do this, it is not only frustrating, it is a complete turnoff.
Of course guys need to vent but we usually combine it with an activity to make it more palatable. Sometimes we drink at the pub and and yammer with other guys while other time we work through our frustrations with exercise or hobbies. The key differences is the end goal and the frequency. Guys might meet up once every few weeks and we usually want advice from other guys on how to handle the situation. In my experience, women aren’t interested in a solution and want to vent daily.
Hmmm sounds like a healthier way to handle problems.
It’s certainly less draining than the woman’s alternative (generically speaking, no offense).
When I think “vent”, I think someone talking without any expectation or desire for advice or help. In that case, I do not vent. I discuss issues I have to seek advice or assistance (I am not so ignorant as to think I can do everything by myself) but if I’m unwilling to hear what the other person has to say I stop talking to them.
A-fucking-men!
I had a gf like that once… please note the emphasis on the word “had” !! She was a mopey, sad girl that would fall apart at every trivial challenge.. and want me to sit and console her.. nope not doing that!!
This is why shrinks can make such a killing of they find the right clients.
While it’s true that some problems don’t have an immediate solution, it is disrespectful to not listen to someone’s suggestions after you “vent”. If you want to talk AT someone instead of TO them, something along the lines of a diary would be more appropriate.
Constant drama and complaining about work and friends is two different things.
If you are smart enough to be trying to get a man’s perspective by reading this, you might be less prone to diva behavior.
Most are not.
Its a tug of war and both sides should want to win without yanking too hard.
Alleged rape and other criminal offences all have an immediate solution. It’s called “the police”.
Yes. Even if it doesn’t go anywhere, a paper trail is started. Groping inappropriate douche bags need to be called because they make all men look bad.
That’s what your girlfriends are for.
Men are wired to solve problems or fix things. That’s us showing we care.
Here’s a line I finally learned to use with my first ex-wife:
“If you have the energy to complain about something, you have the energy to do something about.”
The comeback sure pissed her off. It gave me blessed silence.
I am going to add this to my arsenal. Thank you good sir.
I like that one; and it’s so true.
Such a parental overtone…lol
I would change that to “If you have the energy to complain about something, THEN you OBVIOUSLY have the energy to do something about it.” But the original works for me also. The second one is more biting though.
Is this why boring guys are the worst?
“Additionally, even if women do this unconsciously because of perhaps genuine psychological differences between men and women, it doesn’t matter.”
Let’s not be too absolute here. Women need drama, so it’s necessary to give it to them sometimes to create a certain feeling, otherwise they feel like they’re in mental prison and will do increasingly stupid things to get out of it.
The best thing to do is to pretend to buy into her drama show for a while, then suddenly bring her back to reality with some concrete action that totally invalidates her act. In my experience her behavior changes immediately. It’s like arm-wrestling her with a fraction of your strength at first, then suddenly smashing her forearm to the table.
Interesting hypothesis. Can you share a real life example that you’ve successfully employed in the past?
My wife started half-bitching at me for no good reason yesterday after work. I went along with it for about five minutes, comforting her and vaguely indicating remorse. Then I suddenly stopped said “hold on I’ve still got an article that needs to be edited. Make dinner while I’m doing that.”
Half an hour later we were eating dinner and talking about books.
If you’re going to give her drama do it upon your accord. Say some asshole thing and piss her off every now and again.
No need to say much, just keep little crises here and there that demonstrate your worth when you decide to solve them. Stuff will get done and the mrs will stay on your side.
“Women may be compared in this respect to an organism that has a liver but no gall-bladder. So that it will be found that the fundamental fault in the character of women is that they have no ‘sense of justice.’ This arises from their deficiency in the power of reasoning already referred to, and reflection, but is also partly due to the fact that Nature has not destined them, as the weaker sex, to be dependent on strength but on cunning; this is why they are instinctively crafty, and have an ineradicable tendency to lie. For as lions are furnished with claws and teeth, elephants with tusks, boars with fangs, bulls with horns, and the cuttlefish with its dark, inky fluid, so Nature has provided woman for her protection and defence with the faculty of dissimulation, and all the power which Nature has given to man in the form of bodily strength and reason has been conferred on woman in this form.” – Arthur Schopenhauer
At the moment this stuff is red pill enlightenment that is spreading amongst men. But that only goes so far. We need to hold a mirror up to women so they can actually see their own behaviour and are compelled to confront it. This is now a sacred task. Men have had to confront some of their own behaviours in the part and now its time to look at the other side of the equation.
Combined with female solopsism?
Good luck with that one.
There are already women out there who are calling out manipulative female behaviour but the culture doesn’t support them. Half of this article is about mirroring womens’ behaviour back to them. They don’t have to like it
There’s a Youtube channel called “Feminism LOL” that’s a good example of such women who lift the secret on manipulative females and call them out on it.
Isn’t there a Robert Green Law of Power about mirroring bad behaviour that also ties in with all this?
Karen Straughan and Rantzerker podcasts do a pretty good job as well.
Indeed. A shame K. Straughan has decreased her output.
She’s still pretty regular on the Rantzerker podcasts which are usually 2-3 hours long.
Thanks. I’ll check them out.
I’ll check it out. I don’t remember that particular law of power – I’m sure it went with a nice little historical anecdote though
Just found it:
Law 44: Disarm and Infuriate with the Mirror Effect.
Well done. I’ll be checking that out
Of course they don’t want justice. With very few exceptions, the alleged outrage either never took place, was wildly exaggerated, or was the direct result of their own negligence, incompetence, or inability to control their consumption of mind-altering substances or their sexual appetite.
In particular, she was not raped. She got stumbling drunk, she let an alpha use her like the cum dumpster she is all night, and she needed a way to explain it to the man she sponges off without getting flung out on her well-buggered, possibly still cum-filled ass.
Did you report him to HR?” She said, “No.”
To which I said, “Then I don’t want to hear it if you refuse to solve your own problems.”
If YOU don’t care about it, then I don’t care about it.
That should be every man’s mantra.
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She’s dreaming about bitching
Last pic: she would be bitching but the guy duct taped her mouth shut.
Underwater pic: she’s trying to decide which is more important…bitching or not drowning.
“Fuck me harder!” is bitching; you’re not doing it right.
Being dead, well, that’s up to your religion, but, if you believe in Heaven and Hell, I suppose you’d be bitching in the latter, for all eternity.
If a woman bitches but her man taped her mouth shut, does anyone really care?
***** BITCHING KILLS!! *****
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GOOD GOD someone contain the bitching before it’s too late . .
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Wait, I get most of them, but the center-top one looks like bitching to me.
Usually women (and men) don’t tell people they were raped because it’s hard for them to accept the fact that it just happened, let alone tell anyone else. You need to take in to consideration, maybe the guy had leverage over her, i.e “I’ll tell everyone you did this and they won’t believe you.” type of shit.
Or that she was still in shock, in pain. It takes a while for sexual assault victims to come out and say, “well, yeah, was raped.” IN some cases, not all though.
Fantastic analysis of female behaviour. Reading it reminds me of an event in my past, where my brother and I encountered a couple of idiots who’d had too many beers and were running their mouth in our local pub. We took them outside and gave a them a pretty severe beating.
On the small town grapevine I heard they were drug dealers and I should probably be very concerned about what had happened.
A few months later I was out having lunch with a girl in a different pub and they were there. They weren’t happy. I was advised by a friend that someone was waiting out back and had a knife. I said to the female “we have to go. Now.” she said she didn’t want to as she was hungry and enjoying her lunch. I was absolutely stunned at that reply.
Explanation in my mind has always been either that she was unimaginably selfish, or the most likely is that she was a young female and wanted to watch me fight for the drama and excitment. Even if it was a fight likely to lead to a stabbing.
Another ROK classic
And while I wish I could say this was only “demented women,” nearly all women will belabor you with their problems, NOT to solve them, but simply to play off of your male instincts for justice or simple kindness as a ploy to hold you hostage to get attention. This is an absolute insult to men and it should never be tolerated.
You and your precious few minutes on this planet are NOT beholden to this lower-standard. Furthermore, you are LITERALLY doing what women have been clamoring for since the 1960’s. You ARE treating them as genuine equals. You are treating them as men. And if they opt instead to act like petulant little children in response, you simply laugh and refuse to play.
Bam, right there. I fell for this drama shit the other night too. Damn.
That was that a 40 years old woman I banged told me, years ago, I was in my early 20s.
“What women want is drama. You wanna get women? Make them feel that they’re living a story”. I never forgot those words. Years ago, women used to be wiser than men. Far wiser, indeed. Years of denial have turnt the tables, we’re living in a time that has made fool of women and scapegoat of men.
I wonder if women subconsciously love hearing about some shitstorm going on in some arbitrary part of the world.
Maximum drama, minimum danger.
A common reason drama queen feminazis give for not calling the cops is: “I’m too embarrassed/ashamed.”
Bullshit.
If I were to be the victim of, say, a violent mugging, I would report it to the police at the earliest opportunity. Doing so would require me to get over any shame/embarrassment I might feel for “not being a proper man” because I was unable to fight the mugger off.
A woman making a legitimate accusation of rape will have less than a male mugging victim to be ashamed of. A woman is expected to be physically weaker than a man and isn’t thought any less of a woman because she didn’t have the physical strength to fight him off.
“The chances of him being convicted are so low it’s not worth it.”
And the chances of the police being able to identify my mugger using only my vague descriptions and maybe, if I’m lucky, some grainy out-of-focus CCTV are slim-to-none as well. Wouldn’t stop me from reporting it.
“I wouldn’t be believed anyway.”
Well, if you went to a random guy’s flat drunk off your tits and wearing little to cover aforementioned tits on your own at 3am and you are now claiming that he raped you, then yes, you will face some credibility issues. Shouldn’t have put yourself in that situation in the first place really, should you.
However, there is still a small chance of him being convicted if you can get corroborating evidence. Maybe you only agreed to fuck him if he used protection and then he forced himself upon you without using any – your word against his, right? Unless you can get witness statements from a few of your other conquests and the girl who hands out johnnies at the local clinic to back up your assertion that you only fuck strangers if they wear a condom. Combine that with the DNA evidence swimming around in your vag, and you have a fighting chance of getting somewhere – in any case, it’s worth a shot.
If you were legitimately raped despite not acting like a gormlessly naive slut (e.g. you were grabbed by your attacker in a dark alleyway) then the police will throw all their resources at your case. You have a better chance of winning the lottery than of the police thinking that you’re lying.
Any concerns I might have about the police disbelieving my report of a mugging because my phone happened to be well-insured will not stop me from filing a report.
Reminds me of when my now-ex called me up on Halloween night claiming she went home with one of her exes after a Halloween party and that he raped her in his car. When I pressed her for details and told her to call the police, much like in the writer’s anecdote, she hemmed and hawed and gave excuses. My internal bullshit detector was going off and told me she was either making it up for drama or that she fucked her ex, felt guilty about it and made up the rape story. I shut off my phone, watched The Shining, and enjoyed myself.
In subsequent days and weeks, I pressed her about it and she said she told the police about it. However, she gave me weird and lame excuses about why the police wouldn’t look into it (yeah right, as if a rape claim would be ignored today). I dumped her and never looked back. She wants to get back with me but my harem is full and I would never take her back anyway.
I’d say you were smart to drop a woman who does the rape victim line.
Yeah we had a pretty good relationship (I got her to call me master in and out of the bedroom) but there were red flags plus I had better options so I called it quits.
Every good relationship has its venting moments, the ladies want to know you care, and have feelings, this is fine, its part of their DNA…it comes with the boobs and the vag… If she is a drama queen… and at least 85% of them are to some degree, you either roll with it or shut it down. Drama queens usually either pack up with other drama queens or they lose good girl friends as even other girls EVENTUALLY get tired of the mess. Since the first thing you need to think is setting limits and boundaries, the last thing you need is a phone call at 3 am waking your ass up out of rem sleep listening to such crap. If the woman has her shit together she will act on one of your very intelligent suggestions. however…Don’t be shot out of a canon and immediately try to solve her problems, but ask her what she THINKS she should do, this will give you insight into her modis operand i, …. If she is a drama queen, and thriving on shit then you have to make a decision. Do NOT BECOME AN EMOTIONAL TAMPON !! (even if you are fucking them) Women will set fires and expect you to put them out and become their fireman for every little problem. When you find a unicorn, you might even learn a thing or 3 from them and apply their game to your life… like I said, a rare find…. Most women flop around on the deck like a fish out of water waiting to either be thrown back or eaten by their prey. Sad but true.
It’s not just sexual assault women thrive on the drama of either. I remember an ex telling me about her debts and the debt collection agencies calling at her door. I simple gave her advice on how to deal with her problem. She ignored me and carried on telling me about all the terrible things she had to deal with. At the time I was too young to know she didn’t want to resolve her financial troubles she just wanted to soak up the drama it caused. Now I’m a bit older I think my response would be “if your not going to listen to my advice. Get to fuck”
You’re not being a good emotional tampon giving her her drama fix!
That’s brilliant.
Is it really advisable to do ANYTHING for a woman nowadays? There’s a possibility that the slightly unhinged, but beguilingly doe eyed damsel pleading with you is a body up. Granted, the amount of girls who get abortions is low, but still.. all these ladies are encouraged and lionised for making the ‘brave’ choice of contract killing a completely defenseless baby. The one you help might be an abortionista. A thorough history taking is advised.
Although in fairness, society be giving dem rap killaz propz fo bustin they AKz, so mebbe deez hizzoz just be livin da tug lyfe.
This article was super identical to my experience with women. I love it! Can’t take no shit guys.
Women don’t want you to solve their problems, they want you to listen to them. Over and over. Again and again. And if you don’t, you’re insensitive. I never understood why until I realised men are natural problem solvers. This behaviour was probably used by women (back when it mattered, before their pampered modern existences) to motivate men to go do manly things and fix/protect/kill the problem. Only somewhere between now and then that behaviour became perverted, and used simply for attention, due to a lack of existential threat.
Patrice had it figured out, “The only reason we (men) don’t go, “Get the fuck outta here”, is because women are the worst terrorists there are. Worst than Al Qaeda, cuz this is what y’all do. You hold the pussy hostage, and threaten to kill it, if we don’t listen to your horrendous nonsense.”
Imo, that’s what it boils down to. Dudes who don’t know any better, will listen to a chick talk for HOURS, because he thinks if he’s a “good” guy, he MIGHT get some pussy. But after she finishes making him dumber via listening to her inane, self-absorbed bullshit, she’ll go and fuck the guy she just spent hours venting about. Bottom line, how a woman feels is all that matters to her. She doesn’t give a shit about using ANY of a man’s commodities, whether it be money, food, status, or especially his TIME, because she thinks she’s ENTITLED to it all, just by having a pussy.
To be honest, I blame a woman’s parents for raising their daughter to behave in such a way. You aren’t born a cunt. You’re raised, taught or indoctrinated to be one, by people who tell you you’re “special”, and “any guy would be lucky to have you” or whatever propaganda parents make up. There’s nothing worse than “daddy’s little girl”. She can do no wrong, isn’t accountable for her actions, and goes through life with a belief system consisting of, “I can do whatever I want, because daddy will be there to back me up”. Then when she comes across a guy who challenges that illogical horseshit, HE’S the asshole.
Its easy to manipulate a woman’s thirst for drama, though. It’s like Pavlovian conditioning. The woman who claims she isn’t, “emotional like other women”, is funnily enough the easiest to trigger. All it takes is to refer to a woman as a bitch, or the weaker sex in a conversation. It’s like watching one of those long fuses connected to fireworks from the old school cartoons. You can see her fighting her nature to be emotional, with the fact she said she wasn’t a “typical” emotional woman. She now KNOWS you can control her emotions, and can evoke them as you wish. Which is strangely enough, the easiest avenue to get pussy, imo.
It’s not just “loser women” but rather every fucking woman who wants drama and will try to make a soap opera out of everything. They are not happy to be loved, fucked properly and cared for. . .they have to invent some insane shit to make a whole production of it.
I’ve got some experience with alternative medicine. I’ve been studying it for years. Met two chicks recently, both with major problems. One had migraines and skin fissures (cracks in her hands and fingers), the other had severe asthma. I got to know them fairly well. After I did, I suggested they think outside the box. They both prodded me for information that might help them. I put in the necessary work and passed it along. Neither of them did any of the things I suggested. But they both bitched about their ailments the next time I saw them. They’re all drama queens and attention whores. If something isn’t wrong with them, they’ll invent it…
Penis.
The guy’s a genius. He should teach kids in high school.