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How To Survive A Pussy Wasteland

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The Western world is a smartphone-riddled wasteland—D.C. is a domineering career chick hell-hole, Toronto is a feminist hotbed, the UK is full of nasty slags, and the Pacific Northwest is overrun with hipster-feminism.

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What’s a red blooded male with a thirst for making love to feminine women in the alley behind a club comfort of his own home, on sheets of Egyptian cotton, to do?

For one, our hero could move to poosy paradises such as Eastern Europe or Southeast Asia, but that is not in the cards for our typical reader. They may want to stay close to family, friends, or other commitments. Our hero could find a new job and relocate to somewhere more promising, but what if this too is not an option?

I’m willing to bet the average reader is not as free as he wants to be and is tied down with a job, friends, debt etc. So what is a man like this to do when faced with such formidable cockblocking circumstances?

Realize These Are Limiting Beliefs

I’ve heard guys complain that girls are always locked down with guys in their city. They have this self-defeating mindset that they’re either all taken or have hundreds of nice-guys beating down their doors. First of all there is a 69% chance she is actually lying about having a boyfriend to avoid ‘awkward feelings.’ Second, more often than not a girl will cheat on her boyfriend, and with the increase in polyamory girls will have no qualms with you raw-dogging her in the bathroom of a dark nightclub. Third, it’s nothing more than a limiting belief, since dudes out there are getting laid. Many of the top game writers honed their skills in the harsh environments described above.

Over at the forum user makaveli wrote a post about these limiting beliefs. He listed things he believed had a negative effect on pussy-pounding efficiency. They included: smartphones, social media, bad logistics, large groups, boyfriends and an unfeminine social climate. Think about it for a minute, what was the last complaint you had about your town, what was the last reason you gave yourself for not getting the bang? Make a list of all of these and realize they are limiting beliefs, you are hurting your success by just thinking “all the girls are in big social circles at night, I can’t isolate them easily so I’m not getting laid.”

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Find The Silver Lining

Once you’ve got your list of limiting beliefs, take a long, hard look at them. Is there anything that stands out as impossible to overcome? Probably not, unless one of them is “I don’t have a dick so I can’t have sex with girls.”

The next step is to find the silver lining in these limiting beliefs. Think about each one and how you could possibly work it to your advantage. User makaveli said he employed the bathroom bang to overcome logistics, used social media to create local celebrity, acknowledged the ‘danger’ in flirting with a taken women, texted girls pictures of him and her to prevent flakes and so on.

In my case my city is full of hipsters and unfeminine women with an emphasis on tight knit social circles and poor logistics. I can complain about this or I can relocate and use social media to my advantage creating an online persona. I can also attend as many events as I can, getting to meet more and more people where my preferred women are. Many of the hipster chicks claim they are polyamorous to rationalize away any feelings of ‘being a slut’ they may have. To me this just means easy sex with skinny hipster chicks.

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If you don’t have the means or the will to drastically change your environment, you can always adapt to it. Most reasons for not getting laid, or finding quality women are just limiting beliefs. I don’t believe anyone who says “all women in this city are ___, there are no sweet, feminine, thin women.” There always will be girls who are exactly your type. You just have to find the silver lining in your situations and look for them. Brainstorm, look up ways to demolish limiting beliefs, and find a way to get the girl you desire.

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44 thoughts on “How To Survive A Pussy Wasteland”

  1. This bit made me laugh: “the UK is full of nasty slags”.
    It wasn’t that way as much as 15 years ago.
    Now I avoid local women and go for all the hot, feminine foreigners. Though if they’ve lived here long enough they become like the locals.

    1. ya the spanish n polish chicks showin up are gonna wind p like the locals eventually.
      cant belive latin america aint poosey paradise

    2. You must be an aboslute looser if you can’t get laid with hot british chicks.
      It does not get easier than this.The most easy country in europe
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      1. “Easy”chicks are not feminine, pretty much by definition. Any feminist hellhole will have plenty of pussy “exploring their masculinity, oops sexuality”, by throwing themselves at anyone acting like, or genuinely being, a grade A asshole.

    3. Yeah it was. I spent the entire summer of 2000 touring the UK. It might as well have been a kennel.

  2. As a young man, I would need to work at remote construction sites, deliberately put out in the back woods.
    I quickly learned to avoid “BYOP” sites – as in “bring your own pussy”. With all the well-paid male construction workers around, there was just no available female talent left.
    If you want to catch fish, go where the fish are.

    1. QUOTE: “If you want to catch fish, go where the fish are.”
      That’s my sentiment as well, and the header photo in this article very accurately sums up the situation; a vast empty wasteland. That said, I can appreciate Western Cancer’s suggestions on what to do given the extreme social conditions that the USA has evolved to.
      The problem is that once you meet her there is no telling to what extent she has worms in her head, and other factors and problems that are common when a man involves himself with an American female.
      The time and expense incurred should be spent looking for ways to expat, however this requires the decision to leave the States. Visiting another country is one thing, to live in another country is different. But then again all one need do is look at this article’s header photo and realize there is truly nothing here in the States for men.

      1. Visiting another country is one thing, to live there is another.
        In my case, I know exactly where my “poosy paradise” is. I am going there once in a while and I am trying to think in many ways how can organize my life there, but the thing is: it is a second world country, there are no jobs, services are shit, local people are trying to flee the country and come to Europe, etc. what a paradox.
        In the meantime, I go there every time I got a chance, and every time I have an amazing time

  3. Western Cancer – are you based out of the Bay Area? When you mentioned “hipster chicks into polyamory” I immediately thought that we’re probably fucking some of the same girls.

    1. I am in the Bay Area. In San Francisco you get more time to be charming than in San Jose. Stanford area is next on my hit list. At least we’re not in Hell A. HS!

    2. Spent a few weekends in SF a month or so ago. It always felt like slim pickings but luckily I was able to pull some hipsterish chicks in the end. Attractive fuckable women are out there. You just have to get out there and do some work. Sometimes when it feels like all hope is lost, opportunity just falls in your lap.

  4. I’m not a woman-hater. I’m a man with a PhD in bitch regulation who values his needs and gets women to meet them. It’s called getting value from women in exchange for value you give them. I call it masculinity and dominance because only men are adult enough to have authority in their relationship, but society and manginas call me a woman-hater for having a spine and demanding reciprocation. Look it up.

    1. bitch regulation. omg no wonder y’all are on here!! what did some woman break your wittle heart or laugh at your wittle penis? damn. lighten up. y’all can talk shit on this site but I know and you know you’re a zero in the real world.

  5. Reciprocity= reward her kind actions and punish her unkind actions. Never let a woman get away with bad behavior. Nip it in the bud right away. And when she assumes a proper feminine behavior reward her with your approval with a smile or compliment or affection. Bitch training is a lot like dog training, but society pretends women are complex when really they just need you to be their master and commander.

  6. The SF bay area still has plenty of pussy. The easy solution is to look for submissive women. That’s “in style” and automatically leads to her wanting the man to control the situation.
    Of course it’s fake submissiveness…and these chicks tend to be mental cases, but for a few fucks it’s fine.

  7. First off, I am a big time forum reader but Western Cancer I was honestly surprised when I saw you started posting here because you just didn’t strike me as one of the forum posters who would write articles. That being said, I am glad you do write here. You are one of my favorite posters here and on the forum and thanks for the great advice and funny stories on both.

  8. You cannot survive in a pussy wasteland if you are 5’5 and not rich or famous. women just don’t take a second look at you. It is really sad. no amount of game helps.

    1. I’m 5’11” and I got the same problem as you so its not your height mane. You just not rich and famous. I aint either and these hoes front on me. If you dont got that cash, these females not giving up nothing. These girls will ignore you, they gonna act like they never saw you

        1. I reckon height is a big factor. I’d almost say, in lesser degrees, it’s more important than money ie. If you’re quite poor and quite tall, I think that’s more attractive than quite rich and quite short (though I have no statistics to back that up). But, of course, very rich and very short trumps very poor and very tall.
          I think there’s two factors: penis size and confidence. I assume a shorter guy will have, on average, a smaller dick (reason: I’ve never seen a dwarf with a 12 inch dick) and I’m pretty sure women make that assumption too. And as for confidence, no one likes the short-man-syndrome.
          So if you have confidence and are comfortable with your dick size you’ll have more luck (I think, I’m 6″2′, so I’m only making assumptions).

        2. I know dudes 6’1″ -6’4″ who cant pull ANY females. Its not how tall you is. Its how much dough you got and if its not that, its how your face look. Ive heard looks are 90% in the face and females wont give a lotta these tall dudes the time of day cuz they look goofy as fuck
          Spend cash on some clothes that fit right and get that razor game up. These hoes can SMELL when a dude got $$$$$ to spend

        3. Your success is only supplemented by your income and appearance, but again those are limiting beliefs. There are beautiful women in every city on earth and they are having sex. If you want to have sex with them its your job to figure out how to do this. Instead of saying you’re too short or you’re too poor make more money or work on other aspects of your appearance. It all comes down to how hard you want to work for it.
          How do you think a guy like Roosh ever got laid in DC? According to everyone on the internet its a hellhole yet he was still able to work hard and get laid. The effort was not worth the reward, but he still got the reward in the end.

  9. It’s most just white women. That’s why I stick with asian women.
    They’re not necessarily submissive like so many white guys think, but they’re not politically correct. Even if we disagree on something, it’s just that. A disagreement. Not like a huge violation of each other’s core political beliefs or something.

  10. First, the real silver lining. Even if you lose, you win.
    Given everything you have heard about marriage, read about, the statistics of it, how miserable married men are, then if you are beyond a dry spell and into a 100 year drought, then in the end you still win.
    Because you avoid marriage and truly destructive and parasitic reality of having a woman in your life.
    So you have this chance to build your own life, alone, of rock, concrete, and steel, and no one will be able to take it away from you.
    And you will have it when you are older and need it.
    Second, I want to impress on you how long life is. People keep saying “Life is short”. But it isn’t. It doesn’t end when you’re 35. You are nowhere near old at 45. That designation doesn’t even begin statistically until 55, and I promise, at 55 you won’t feel a damn bit different then you did at 30. 65 is the new 55. That’s when you will finally admit to yourself “Ok, I’m old”.
    So even if you are in a bad place right now. It won’t last forever. Life is baseball, it’s a long season.
    The key is using the time to accomplish the important things you need to get done to properly connect the various phases of your life in a constructive manner and to prepare for the next phase. If you can’t or won’t move now, then prepare to move. If you are not lucky right now then prepare to get lucky.
    Lift weights. Every day forever. Nothing fights aging like lifting weights. Then when your day comes, you will be prepared. Nothing changes your relationship with women more than having muscles. Nothing. Short of 10,000,000 dollars. I’m 6’3″. Muscles are more important than height. Much more. Having height is a check box. Having muscles is an attractor.
    Save money. If you are not in good place now, then don’t throw cash away on stupid shit. Save it then later when you will have more options and saving gives you resources to do something with them. Ideally when you 45, you get out of the country. That takes cash. Save money, reduce the nature of how you live so you can save.
    Protect your skin from the sun. Wear jeans instead of shorts more of the time. Wear a long sleeve shirt. Put sun block on your face. Wear tennis shoes instead of sandals. Avoid the sun. I promise there will be day at sometime in your future where you have an opportunity. And while you are getting dressed for it you will look in the mirror and you will beg God for one more day to look young. It may not seem to be a big deal to you now. But looking 45 when you are 50 will be a big deal one day. Wrinkles, sun damage on your arm from sticking it out of an open window, on your hands, even on your feet, will add up. Fat, wrinkles, skin blotches do more to make you look older than gravity will. Grow a fucking beard now if nothing is going on. Save your face until later when something is going on.
    Go back to school. Night school, online school, whatever. Luck is where preparation meets opportunity. Prepare to be lucky.
    Get aggressive at work, about work, about your career. Start a blog about your occupation, your profession, then use the blog to meet people in your work sphere. Say “I’m writing an article about your thing. Could I talk to you about it.” Then get them into a LinkedIn relationship.
    Basically, inner game.
    So surviving a pussy wasteland is done by making you a better you. This time without a woman in your life is a gift. You are just too young, dumb, all full of com to realize it.

    4. This comment should be an ROK article. Much of the readership here seems to be younger men badly in need of fatherly wisdom.

  11. If you ask every girl, she’ll tell you she has a bf and if you think about it, they’re all right. It’s almost impossible for a girl these days to truly be single. There’s always someone for them to talk to. Sure it might be a male friend but they can masquerade as bf/gf and you won’t be able to tell the difference. It might be a fuck buddy who she likes surprising guys with and telling them that’s their bf when he really isn’t.
    It’s obvious that women have a different concept of what a relationship is than guys. Just like they do with rape. Yes, I know, not that serious. But it’s the same concept. To guys, rape is forced, unwanted sex. To girls, rape can be sex with the guy who’s not exactly the Division I QB. If they feel they were raped, if they’re led to believe they were raped by people around them, as far as they’re concerned (and so’s the law,) they were.
    Having said all of that, what does it matter if a girl really does have a bf? Most of these women aren’t relationship material anyway. They’ll cheat on their bf any second if they think they have a hold of a better branch (i.e you, some other guy.)

  12. Re: Girls being taken.
    Personally I don’t go for girls that have boyfriends. I come from the David DeAngelo ‘not worth the drama’ school on this one.
    That said, for girls that are in the grey no man’s land of ‘does she have a guy or not’, its all fair game. Don’t worry about other guys, period. If you build a strong connection with her and her emotions, then the other guys will fade away, believe me. Worrying about other guys is just a red herring and will distract you from building rapport with her as you think on some level that she is unobtainable. Just another form of pedestalisation.

  13. Well, said, sir. We have to be reminded from time to time that it’s “all just in the head.” At least, most of the time. There are always factors that are beyond our control, too, like logistics. It just takes a creative mind, and the determination, to avoid the logistical snafus.

  14. There are no tips that will help you survive Denmark. Its just a fact. Even Roosh rated Washington above Denmark. There is nothing here but feminine hipster men and hyper entitled women. It’s terrible. I’ve talked to many Danes about this..and they all say the same.

  16. Um, in third world countries your money buys sex. Sex boosts your ego because no one will have sex with you from their own free will. It’s so delusional.. How did men get the “logical” label and women the emotional one? You’re stupid 🙁

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