After I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years, I have become quickly acquainted with the jungle world of dating in Los Angeles at age 45.
I was spoiled with my ex. I’m obsessed with thin, waify, delicate, small boned women. She was small boned, weighed less than 100 lbs., and had above average breasts. She wore the clothes I like, exactly the way I like it, and performed various sex acts, exactly the way I like it. But above all, I never had to worry about her getting fat.
But then early menopause hit, and everything changed for the worse. The sex drive and motivation fell off a cliff. Then came the wrinkle lines, the constant nagging, wild mood swings, lecturing, and all the rest. That relationship ended.
After putting myself back into circulation and navigating the dating scene, it has quickly dawned on me the shocking contrast between the “Haves” and the “Have Nots” among the available single women in L.A.
1. The “Haves”
The “Haves” are the thin, or slender women with good figures who also possess the skill and guile to be able to capture a man’s attention. They don’t even have to be that pretty in the face, they just need to have the right “look”.
Exhibit A is a girl who I met in my office building, 31 years old, 5’9”, no more than 115 lbs.. Somewhat average and plain facial features, but easily overcome by having the most perfect breasts imaginable. I took her out to lunch, and she shows up dressed up in tight fitting navy blue skirt that hugged her slender waistline, and one of those delicate silk blouses which showed off her nice, bony shoulders and her pencil thin arms. On top of that, she strategically left a middle button undone on her blouse such that I could get an ample peek of her extraordinary breasts held up delicately by her $75 La Perla bra decorated with all sorts of lace and sequins. It was classic. She was showing just enough, but at the same time, not quite enough. I was totally transfixed.
This type of woman knows exactly how to dress, how to walk, and how to flirt to drive men absolutely wild.
Despite her average facial appearance, this one will never have to bother with Match.com, OKCupid, or any professional “matchmaking” service. Hundreds of guys are constantly available in real time, anytime she wants, simply by presenting herself correctly and circulating in the general public. She will get constant hits at Starbucks, Whole Foods, the Juice Bar, or just walking in the mall.
Of course, she might install a Tinder App on her iPhone, and get 150 matches within 48 hours for ego gratification and show her girlfriends all the cute guys are interested in her.
The “Haves” are never alone. In fact, their biggest worry is to how to fend off the hundreds of men clawing after their phone number or attention. That is why so many of them walk around with that “bitch look”, as in “how dare you look at me”. And they consciously refuse to make any eye contact with the opposite sex out of fear of sparking animal spirits and having to engage in defensive action.
But if they are ever lonely, they can have a suitable man who is very good looking, interesting, and with a respectable wallet size with relative ease. Probably within 12 hours or less. All they have to do is engage in eye contact, speak one or two sentences, and the phone numbers and/or invitations will come flying in.
2. The “Have Nots”
The “Have Nots” are another lot.
More typically, they are the women who are prone to fat “PTF”, or either just plain “fat”. You know the ones I’m talking about. Those who have to struggle with their weight 24/7. No matter how many diets they try, or how many exercise machines they order off the late night infomercials, nothing works. They are simply stuck with bad genes, or they are “foodies” and have an emotional connection with food which cannot be broken.
Many of them can have a good looking face, featured prominently on the first page of dating profiles, with the body view missing. Running into them in person ignites an initial flash of desire, but then when the eyes scan the rest of their bodies, then interest immediately evaporates.
They may have normal sized shoulders and arms, but their butt and legs are way too big for their frame. Or they may appear to have an acceptable figure when dressed up, but the slightly thick arms and the chunky chopper calves give away what they really look like with their clothes off.
The poor “Have Nots” are stuck living with the horror that very few men are seriously interested in them, except for maybe one time hookups. Few men ever ask for their phone number. Drunken ones will simply ask them to go to their place right away with no courting whatsoever. Anytime they accompany a hot girlfriend to a nightclub, they are looked upon as a dreaded disease by the men attempting to hook up with their skinny companion.
3. The Curse of Fat, The No. 1 Danger in Online Dating
This weight problem which dooms many women into the “Have Not” category is especially acute with women in their late 30’s or early 40’s. Keeping the weight off was always fairly easy when they were young, even though it was a constant struggle. But then they reach a point where the fat just accumulates for no reason whatsoever. And they know that most men hate it and despise it. It can ruin everything, regardless of their “bubbly” personality. Worse than that, many of these “fatties” are also those who have substandard breasts. Odd shaped, too mushy, or those with the horror of knowing that every 10 lbs. they gain, all of it goes into their ass, legs, and stomach, and none of it goes to their breasts.
By the way, if you ever have phone sex or chat with a woman whose name is “Phoebe”, “Matilda”, “Gertrude”, etc., run like hell. Those are guaranteed to be leviathans.
Most of these “prone to fat” types are those who sign up on all the online dating sites. They get headshots made for their profile pictures to make them appear to be thin, without revealing anything about their body size or shape. However, some have been adept at using photoshop at erasing fat provided that the picture is taken at the proper angle. I’ve been burned by several of those.
Any of these “chunky” chicks who attempt to post on Tinder and show only facial shots are quickly swiped off and they get no admirers.
I made the mistake recently by agreeing to meet one of these girls from Tinder who had a glamour head shot, and a blurry distance shot of her riding on horseback. Couldn’t exactly tell how her body looked, but I took a chance anyway. She shows up at the bar where we agreed to meet and she was a monster. She must have been over 6 ft. tall and probably weighed at 170 lbs. Not really “fat”, just big boned. Pretty flat stomach, but wide “birthing stock” hips. Luckily, her breasts were ample, which made her tempting. But nothing could stop the fact that I felt like I was with a chick that looked and felt like she outweighed me by 35 lbs. and would probably smother me in bed. And 2 years from now she’ll be even bigger.
Who knows, she might have just lost 120 lbs. on “The Biggest Loser”, lol……
4. Where Are The Women In Between?
So compare and contrast the tall, skinny, beautiful one, with the “Amazon” chick I just described.
One will never been seen online and spends most of her energy fending off phone number and hookup requests, knowing that she will never be left alone and will never have to live alone.
Always has a flat stomach, perfectly shaped silhouette waist and hips. You know what I’m talking about. One which you would never have to bother with a tape measure to win an argument whether or not she was “fat” or not.
The hot ones seem to get even hotter because they become even more emboldened by the constant attention they receive.
The “Have Nots” are probably on 5 different matchmaking sites and using 3 different speed dating apps and wonders why she only attracts creeps and psychos interested in “big and beautiful”.
They seem to try vairious diets, but eventually throw in the towel and give up. They get bigger, thicker, and heavier and drift even further outside the realm of being viewed as a looker.
It is really astonishing to see how black and white it is out there if you are a single woman looking for dates or attention from the opposite sex. Either you’re one of the “Haves” or one of the “Have Nots”, and there is not really much in between.
So where are the girls in the middle? So far, I can’t find any.
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Are you single?
Yes?
This shit is why.
“Men.” Grow the fuck up, little boys.
(If your answer is “no,” then your chick is a drone. Sorry ’bout it).
If you don’t like what is being posted, then just don’t come to this website and read the articles. I am a female, and still agree with this. I can see it with my friends, coworkers and people I see out. Thinking like this will not make a man single, or not.
If I don’t like what’s being posted, I’m going to talk about it.
And you know what, you’re right. “Thinking like this will not make a man, single or not.” You’re right. But I feel sorry for you if you’re okay with being treated like this.
“Like this”? I get treated quite well actually. I put effort into my appearance and attitude and see positive results for it..
Are you single?
Yes?
This shit is why.
“Women.” Grow the fuck up, little girls.
Wow I really like what you did with this here.
A+.
It’s time to climb out of Daddy’s basement.
You’ll find that the “little boys” etc slurs are ineffective here. We’ve all paid close attention to how the hoards of bitter, disgusting females in America try to shame men into mating with them. We’re immune to the pejoratives.
Yes please jump into my pants because the whole reason I’m insulting you is because I want you there. Yes you have figured us women out. You’ve got it.
I realize I’m walking into battle unarmed on this website with my opinions and that’s fine. I don’t expect you to stop thinking the way you do, and I know you don’t care how I feel, but I feel better just making sure you’re aware that you’re an insufferable pig.
It’s ok. You’re lonely and angry. Eat less and exercise more.
Try-hard.
It’s one thing to be a troll, but to be so obvious about it?
Go play with your anal beads, I’ve voiced my opinion here.
The article you’ve angrily “voiced your opinion” about is a man lamenting that few women are worth dating. If that upsets you, it isn’t b/c we’re little boys, it’s b/c you’re not worth dating. If you were high-status you’d read the article and think “I benefit from having less competition”.
Insults used to hurt from women. “insufferable pig.”.. “creep”… “Loser why would I date you”…. “player”….. “hey! my eyes are up here. You men are such pigs!”…… “jerk”… “asshole”…… “men are stupid”……. and this is how you are to men who never even treated you badly!
Until eventually, ladies, we just EXPECT to hear that shit from you. And on that day, it stops having any effect. Your “power” to be hurtful vanishes. Gone. Because you used it all up.
Now we continue to hear “you’re an insufferable pig” and it makes us smile. Because you’re talking to US, and spending time with US, and not some “loser” who treats you WELL. So the “insufferable pigs” are the ones who are doing something RIGHT. We understand you. And that’s why you’re here. Calling us pigs – even though nobody here treated you badly.
Nature sure gets you b*tches back doesn’t it. And the bigger the b*tch. The bigger the payback. As men, we don’t even need to do anything or try. Nature takes care of that FOR us.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CfiSD6F6wQo
It’s SPECTACULAR.
Nobody “cares how you feel” because you never gave a shit for anybody’s feelings either.
Since no one seems to have told you what is attractive to men, I’m going to help you. 1) You have no idea how much getting into shape will help you. Get your waist under 25 inches and all you’ll have to do to get a hot guys to approach you is to make the tiniest sliver of eye contact. If you’re pretty, you won’t even have to smile. 2) Act like a lady, and stop being so crude. Even if a man did ask you out on a date, he would never think about getting into a serious relationship with a woman who is worse than his male friends when it comes to obscenities. Be gentle, smile more, and talk less (esp. since you seem to be extremely confrontational.) If you want him to spend his time and resources on you, you should be giving off the impression that you’ll be an excellent mother to his future children. Otherwise, all you’re get are one night stands. 3) Learn to cook and sew. Again, you’re trying to show off the skills will make you a good wife, because that’s what men look for in women. It’s really impressive to a guy if you can patch up some favourite old rag of his into a wearable item of clothing. It really just gives you those extra points that make a man work hard not to let you go.
My gal is very sexy and not a drone, but you can keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel better.
Hello,
I have to agree that a lot of these sort-of ‘red pill’ movements can be damaging to genuine social relations, between two human beings. Prior to reading pick-up material I was lonely and desperate, after reading pick-up I was lonely, sexually frustrated and angry.
I suppose layering on misogynistic beliefs about the opposite sex, and so on and so forth will not lead to the actual intimacy that a man craves.
A lot of what ‘red pill’ movements say are really correct though, and they are mostly in reaction to the already existing social paradigm that seeks to stop men from being men.
I however, seek to be a genuine human being, genuine with his fellow human beings. Ever since I abandoned ‘red pill’ beliefs and practices, I have since stopped feeling lonely, frustrated and angry.
In fact I don’t even ‘jerk off with my tears’ anymore (if you know what I mean, I actually don’t jerk off period, but that’s another story).
While this site does in fact lead to ‘success’ with women, I do not believe it will cure the underlying problem that most men face. Which is not women.
It’s actually a great time to be alive.
Peace.
It seems as if the cold harsh truth of red pill knowledge is too much for you to bear. If you cannot integrate it then in all likelihood you prefer the comfort of being plugged in.
Nobody is genuine. No-one. It’s a fallacious expectation.
I disagree, it is not a fallacious expectation, it is an unrealistic expectation.
But you’re right, the ‘red pill’ stuff really did get me down, really did try to call me off my ass, and so on and so forth. I never did get off my ass. Maybe if I did I would be banging tons of chicks right now.
😉
(By the way, I know my comment sounds sarcastic, but I really don’t mean it that way, I was being sincere.)
You can disagree but if you spend your whole life trying to be genuine, I can tell you where that will get you. A one way ticket to loserville via neurotic highway.
You can disagree but if you spend your whole life trying to be genuine, I can tell you where that will get you. A one way ticket to loserville via neurotic highway.
Am I single? Yes. Why? Because I want to be and broke up with a long term relationship.
Are you ladies single? Yes. Why? Because you’re fat. Learn to love your body and stop filling it with poison. Then you’ll be one of the “haves”, and you’ll find a guy who loves your body too.
Wait wait wait did you seriously just tell me I’m single because I’m fat?
Because like having a great body means I have a guy, right?
Oh my fucking god.
It’s always the fat and ugly ones that try to change the popular opinion because they can’t find the effort to change themselves.
Not necessarily–but having a great body means you CAN have a guy any time you want, and a good selection to choose from. Is that a surprise to anyone?
Maybe you’re just fugly or have a shit personality aka bitch.
fat + ugly = fugly
I thought fugly = f-ing ugly.. I guess the two definitions are practically synonymous…
I am a “Have not” I am 5’8″ and 185 lbs I have a b cup and short hair. And i have the most amazing and gorgeous 6’1″ 200 lbs boyfriends with an athletic build he can bench 265. I am not single why because I am awesome, i doesn’t matter if you are one of these “haves” or if you are a “have not” both men and women should love their bodies. It is fine to only be attracted to one type a “have”, but there are plenty of men that are attracted to “Have nots” I love my body and I love my man even though I look nothing like the “have” women described here. Everyone is beautiful.
Also about foodies I think that this site doesn’t really understand what that means.
A “foodie” is someone who can’t cook but likes to eat a lot.
My Lexicon of Modern Americhick states, “Foodie: An indulgent woman who uses the consumption of rich and exotic foods as a safe proxy for the adventurous life.”
yeah not just someone who wants to eat like they imply on this site
Perhaps I should have said, “A closet-fatty who seeks novelty, ‘up-votes,’ and a caloric surplus through the conspicuous consumption of delectable dishes.”
Nope. Foodies can cook.
If a foodie could cook, would he/she be called a “cookie”? I think that would be adorable!
Except everyone is not beautiful, beauty is entirely subjective. You may think you’re hot shit but others will not. Especially at 185lbs. Stop trying to oppress those who disagree with your subjective beliefs.
wait so saying this article doesn’t apply to every single human being in the world is “oppression”? How is this article itself not just as subjective?
“Everyone is beautiful” is what I was replying to. When that is not true. And I’m tired of fatties telling me what I should find attractive.
You said it yourself – beauty is subjective. Saying that some people are objectively not beautiful, to anyone is just as incorrect. Your personal preferences are irrelevant.
That’s exactly what I said, well done. But are you capable of reading? I said I don’t want fatties telling me what I should find attractive. Where did I say 1 type of girl is objectively better? Oh that’s right I didn’t. Fuck off with your strawman-tier responses.
That’s exactly what I said, well done. But are you capable of reading? I said I don’t want fatties telling me what I should find attractive. Where did I say 1 type of girl is objectively better? Oh that’s right I didn’t. Fuck off with your strawman-tier responses.
If that is true…
What do plastic surgeons follow? And how is Maxim’s top 100 voted?
Funny how there is always no fatties on the list.
Only mentally deranged fatty chasers think BBW or big bloated whales are hot.
If that is true…
What do plastic surgeons follow? And how is Maxim’s top 100 voted?
Funny how there is always no fatties on the list.
Only mentally deranged fatty chasers think BBW or big bloated whales are hot.
Maxim’s top 100 is voted by current cultural guidelines, dictated by mainstream media.
Plastic surgeons follow the wants of their clients, dictated by the current cultural and social guidelines.
Since beauty is subjective that is what makes my statement possible. Everyone is beautiful because there will always be something that you can find about a person that is beautiful. You just have to be open to looking for it.
So in the first sentence you say beauty is subjective. Then in the very next sentence you say everyone is beautiful. Nice contradiction.
You’re a sexy confident woman with a perfect athlete boyfriend and an awesome relationship that nevertheless feels compelled to defend herself to complete strangers on the internet.
Of course.
Not defending sharing
For someone just sharing you sound a bit defensive.
6’1 and 200lbs.. and only benching 265??? you must mean 365? 265 is a pussy bench.
Height has nothing to do with benching. Arm length and strength does. And 265 isn’t bad at all. Remember when you started lifting?, and couldn’t complete a set of 135- that’s 95% of the population, at the moment. 365 lbs bench is just 50 HGH shots away.
Height has nothing to do with benching. Arm length and strength does. And 265 isn’t bad at all. Remember when you started lifting?, and couldn’t complete a set of 135- that’s 95% of the population, at the moment. 365 lbs bench is just 50 HGH shots away.
It isn’t bad, but is not to gloat about either. It’s not hard to attain reasonably dedicated 200 lber.
Plenty of fatasses at the gym weighing 215 lbs, while benching 1rm 150. I shit you not, friend went to workout with me yesterday, put up with my help 150 lbs ,arguable 147 lbs, sad day. Weight doesn’t necessarily mean strength.
I’m not gloating I am stating the facts of my life.
Of course you are right, but the OP implied her bf is a demi-god, so i assumed we’re talking about a built 200 lber, not a fat one.
..are..are you really talking about how much someone can bench..is this a parody website making fun of meatheads..?
300 lbs separates men from boys. Its true.
isn’t it hilarious how fat women love to brag about non-existent body-builders who fuck them daily and are madly in love with their lards?
yeah right.
when will fat women realize that when they stick to fat guys things will be much better?
Well…. her boyfriend could be black
heavy girls come in handy, i can get some reps in and have sex at the same time… nothing like a bit of multi tasking…
it’s funny ’cause some of you guys brag about getting hot girls when we all know you’re filthy, lol.
“Everyone is beautiful.”
100% False. This kind of fluffy bullshit thinking is what keeps ‘niceguys’ from progressing to make themselves more attractive and keeps fat girls thinking we fall in love with their accomplished lives.
You can keep telling yourself that in you solipsistic mind, eager to assuage the feelings of every fatty in the sisterhood that yearns to be desired by the best men that they too can have the 6’1″ hottie you have (who’s either completely unaware of his own SMV or has a niche fetish for BBW’s..) but it won’t hide the reality.
And notice this talk of ‘beauty’ only ever goes one fucking direction. I trot out a train of fat, overweight and undulating men in calvin klein underwear and we’ll see just how fast you and your slovenly sisters rush to gush and adore those guys as ‘beautiful’. You’d sooner be throwing up in your bucket of KFC.
You’re happy with yourself! Great.. you can live with your outcome! Awesome. But for too many, they can’t live your life and expect the same result, and you’re type of talk will lead them straight into hell.
Here and now, the pretty lies die.
What’s the size of women your boyfriend looks at in porn? Did he have plenty of slim hot girls available but chose you instead? Or did he just choose you because you were all he could get?
My BF’s ex girlfriend was 5′ 6″ and weight about 100 lbs. He broke up with her. He loves me, and i think is good looking enough to have any girl that he wants
You didn’t answer the porn question, which is the most telling of a man’s fantasies. Everyone says they broke up, and every man can love someone if he can’t get someone better.
This article was not written with your opinion or your approval in mind.
200lbs and bench 265? Strong as a kitten.
6’1″ 200lbs is not amazing or gorgeous.. it’s well over weight… and at 185 you should be ashamed of yourself….. good luck with the diabetes and heart disease…
I go to the Dr. for my physical every year and can say with complete confidence that I am 100% healthy. But thank you for your concern
Not counting that yeast infection, of course.
“but there are plenty of men that are attracted to “Have nots”
Yep, those who aren’t good enough to get better.
you have a b-cup and short hair( two unattractive traits, especially cutting the hair short) and you have a 6’1 BF who benches 265( I bench 320lb at 5’11)….this dude must be mentally weak as fuck…perhaps he lives in a town with lots of ugly women. either way I feel bad for him
My 5’1 friend can bench 300lb BTW….strong as fuck.
I have the BMI of 19.5 and I am single. Two of my classmates and friends both have a BMI over 25 and they both have boyfriends.
Just because you men on ROK don’t like overwieght women, it doesn’t make it objective reality.
Objective reality is that both sexes have certain preferences that have broad appeal (i.e. Golden Ratio) and obesity is not a characteristic found most appealing. In addition to the fact that obesity is unhealthy and indicative of someone’s lack of self-respect.
Objective reality is that many men will put up with almost anything just for a sniff of pussy…. we at ROK are here to change that….
The standards are changing… you’ve been warned…
No man of value with options would tolerate that non-sense nor should they.
I agree. But if two people are happy together despite the fact that neither of them are conventionally appealing, how can they be anything but Winners?
And obesity is not healthy, but neither is having a bmi of 16.5 which is what the example of a ideal “haves” woman in the article has. I really think you people on ROK should focus more on improving yourselves and less on hating overweight women.
Articles like this one are redundant and unnessescary
It’s not 0 or 1, there are different kind of boyfriends. If those 2 were good enough to get their pick at women, they wouldn’t end up with women of BMI over 25.
Hey look, I have a stupid anecdote!
That must mean fat women are just as valuable as attractive women!
Women. I swear.
Here is a hint, honey: they won’t be married.
they won’t be MARRIED??!! ZOMG! a woman WHO doesn’t get married!! heaven forbid!
my World all of sudden collapses…
ps. try looking “anecdote” up a dictionary Next time you use it…
I’m not single 😀
Unfortunately, I think the website will be trolled for the next few days or at least until a more “offensive” article is written somewhere else in the manosphere.
As for this article, I don’t like internet dating. I feel it devalues the man, and hinders growth in social skills. I happen to live in between NYC and Boston, so I have great opportunities to venture to these places and see a wide variety of women to engage. I met a super cute punk rock girl at a concert in Brooklyn. Too bad she wasn’t into me.
Fat women still have plenty of men after them. I’ve seen plenty of fat chicks in the nightclubs and bars getting PLENTY of attention. Couple that with the wasteland that is online dating, full of desperate socially awkward men, and you can see why the ego of the American female is at all time high.
I’ve seen plenty of fat chicks in the nightclubs and bars…….
These females are nothing but stalkers and potential rapists taking advantage of incapacitated men who have been drinking.
They buy men drinks to get them drunk and groom them for sex.Imagine
the poor man who wakes up and finds that he has been abused by a
landwhale. All of his self esteem will be gone and he’ll never be able
to hold his head up again and will need therapy for life.
here i thought you were setting up a nice little reverse story about how awful it is to pray on drunk men in bars and make them feel used and abused. but no, you are actually just an ignorant misogynist. surprise that…
LOL… landwhales!
Rape! File a report. Everyone knows that if you’ve been drinking, and you sleep with someone you regret the next morning, that person has raped you. Oh wait, I forgot. That only works if you’re a woman.
Exactly. Even bloated pigs cop an attitude like a supermodel as long as there are men willing and desperately wanting to date them.
god forbid someone have confidence in themselves despite whatever shortcomings golden Adonis’s like you keep telling them they have! Isn’t that awful, that someone above a size 10 thinks they deserve the same level of respect and happiness as anyone else? who told them that? they are lesser beings and should be treated thus. shame on them for expecting respect.
Considering they have the self-control of animals I think the argument that they are in fact not my equal is legitimate.
Respect is earned. Why should I respect someone who obviously lacks discipline? Am I not to assume she is so careless elsewhere in her life? Think about it.
Ok, I agree with you, however; I was once told I was unattractive because my shoes didn’t match the rest of my outfit. Shouldn’t I be offended at that too? Why is it only ok for women to judge men based on appearance?
They deserve the same happiness as someone else but not the same quality of person. A fat ugly woman should expect an ugly man with low income. Fair?
Because girls have a vagina and boys have a penis.
Kindergarten cop explains all situations in which you can ask “why is it ok if women do ? but men do ?”
I never got to see that movie.
That’s the worst fucking thing, when a fat girl thinks she has high value because she has the betas in tow, and drunken seduction as a back-pocket slut party trick.
yup. Everything is better in the middle eastern countries. They follow all the values that are portrayed on this website. 🙂
yup. Everything is better in the middle eastern countries. They follow all the values that are portrayed on this website. 🙂
Before the legions of white knights and fem-trolls bomb this article
Here are the men who have and the men who have not
Haves-
high financial/social status and or ambition, good looks(muscular build,height,strong genes etc) confidence/innergame, Badboy(Dark Triad traits), Leader
Have nots-
In debt/just making ends meet, Lack of confidence, empathetic , always seeking for female approval, passivity , follower
The haves-attract 90-95% of females
Have nots- self explanatory.
true. With economic inequality growing by the day in this US of A, the fewer ‘haves’ males, will increasingly dominate the fewer haves women AND the ‘have not’ women.
notice how both of your haves and have nots are to do with economic struggle and your personal struggle with self esteem and not the ABSOLUTE HORROR of not being the pinacle of physical beauty.
you make good points, i agree that we cannot desregard that men also feel like they have shortcomings, but i just find it interesting that of all the millions of things someone could be without, we count physical beauty as the be all and end all.
its because physical beauty is the first thing that attracts two mates.
100000 years of heterosexual laws of attraction>60 years of female delusions
do you not believe in evolution? Are you anti-science?
Bang on.
The problem is female’s mentality of refusing to “date down.” I’ve always liked guys who were shy and lacked confidence, but most females are all ‘gimme gimme’ when it comes to finances. It really sucks for dudes nowadays if you aren’t taking home a decent paycheck. Women just need to get less shallow. I’ll be damned if a guy thinks he can buy my love.
Men don’t have money to buy your love because men and women are not capable of reciprocating the same type of love.
What money does buy a man is a woman’s interest: when a man has money he has value, and value = pre-selection (something you most definitely respond to).
Hence money is power for a man in the dating market.
“What money does buy a man is a woman’s interest”
I’ve never been interested in how much money a guy made. Quite the contrary!
maybe not yours, but it’s pretty clear that free market forces are turning sex and love into a commodity that can be bought and sold…. if you want to take yourself off the market that’s fine…. you’ll just get dusty in storage….
i think it’s about time men demanded the 5 year sex and love contract…. with bonus and incentives for good performance… extending the agreement is optional….
americans really love to place whatever you can within the free market, don´t you? and it’s so wrong to do so with people. you can choose not to be the part of that free market and to search for women who aren’t either. but it’s difficult to stick to it, isn’t it? requires a lot of power of will and determination…i’m just saying though, if you accept to play someone’s game, stick to the rules of the game whichever they are and don’t ever complain, it’s the matter of principles… personally i get disgusted when i see both men and women who literally trade themselves as goods…cause that’s the first guarantee that you won’t manage to feel love, commitment, care etc. and all the other things one normal human being imo strives to find…
in the end, it takes two to tango, so with one leaving the dance, the other one has nothing either. so it’s not that “free market” is turning sex into commodity, it’s that a lot of people have agreed to do so, because it’s supposedly the easier way. maybe, but only initially. in the long term it’s the shortcut for bitterness and frustration, cause you’ll still lack some basic things that one human needs to be happy…and those things money cannot buy, only fake them temporarily.
The free-market is merely individuals choosing how and what to do and date as they please.
Are you saying you have a problem with that?
Yeah, we Americans do have a thing about freedom. It’s a shame that you don’t.
The only sex that made sex a commodity is the female sex.
Oh, I’m way off the market. My husband didn’t have to spend a dime on me, though, but I get your sentiment.
you completely missed the point, which is that people are NOT goods, and as long as you treat them as such (or allow them to treat you that way!) you will be unsatisfied and bitter. as for me i couldn´t care less, but i´m saying that i believe that this is the reason why people end up not feeling good about each other. ray wolfson is the one who mentioned free market in this context, not me.
as for me, my rule number one in life is to treat people the same way i would like to be treated by others – they are not goods which need to be bought, bribed or whatever, they’re human beings which need exchanging love, words, problems, troubles, sex, happiness as much as i do . and seeing how people see their relationships with opposite sex makes me sad. and that’s what i’m trying to say.
now you can continue if you wish to talk about freedom and free market or whatever you like, but i repeat, you somehow completely missed the point of my post.
I have a 5’1 friend that has all the have traits but never gets laid except for fatties. Plus he is a sharp dresser.
Thats impossible…
No it is not…I’m witnessing that shit. I mean the best I could od was get him laid wit ha fat latina and a hooker. I feel bad for him, I’m 5’11 and goodlooking and put in like no effort. He even has dark traid traits….but what a trooper, he never lets a failure get him down…I hope he ends up banging a supermodel….got made respect for him. I learnt how ot dress like a boss from him
Is engrish your second language or are you just illiterate?
Those labeled above as “fat” women should not be judged based on their appearance.
They should be judged based on the people and conditions they choose to spend their time with. ;-]
Why author does not want to send photo of himself? Maybe cause he is ugly and that’s why he don’t have a chick…
I guess you missed the part where he said he had one for the last 5 years. Its ok. It was hidden in THE FIRST FREAKING SENTENCE!
hes probably lying 😛
John, you poor soul, I’m gonna tell you something. All men on here lie about the women they’ve been with.
Good article mxaddict. If I may ask you, what is your dating demographic? Under age 30? I’m quite tempted to get out to LA to test the waters there. If only out of curiosity without expecting anything but the worse case scenario.
Only fat people claim to have bad genes. Eat less, or exercise more. Bottom line, strive for a caloric deficit, fatass.
I agree to some degree with the author…however, I need to be real on the fact that I suspect 95% of the guys reading this would be all over Rachel Boss above or the woman in black under heading #3 were she sitting in the next cubicle over (I would be!!)……internet standards tend to be a lot higher than real world standards and internet tough guys and alphas tend to be a lot tougher and a lot more alpha online. No white knight, just an observation.
I agree to some degree with the author…however, I need to be real on the fact that I suspect 95% of the guys reading this would be all over Rachel Boss above or the woman in black under heading #3 were she sitting in the next cubicle over (I would be!!)……internet standards tend to be a lot higher than real world standards and internet tough guys and alphas tend to be a lot tougher and a lot more alpha online. No white knight, just an observation.
Sooo…he broke up with the perfect woman because she was having mood swings? You know that menopause thing only lasts a few months right? If you had waited it out, she would have been back to normal very soon and there would also be no risk of pregnancy. I wonder what your 45-year-old ass looks like. And I’m not saying this because I’m fat. I’m 5’4″ and 105 pounds. I’m an exercise rider and I do trick riding on the side so I’m extremely flexible and strong. Bony arms are not cute. Try a girl with toned arms
Men at 45 look great, biology is kind to us, unlike women who hit the wall at 30 and start to look like disaster zones.
Men age like fine wine, women like milk.
So is your option killing yourself after 28?
No LOL. Just have been taking extremely good care of myself.
I don’t know how old you are, but in my experience, it sucks trying to lose weight after 30. I got down to 117 pounds last year but gained it all back after going back to my old habits. Good luck with your aging, I kinda wish I would have taken better care of myself in my 20’s. Reading all these articles (especially the slut-shaming ones) kinda makes me want to kill myself or at least be super secretive about my sexual past. Thank fuck, I don’t have a bunch of tattoos (not saying that is a clear indication, but most guys I have talked to say that tattoos are severely unattractive) to give away my promiscuous past!
What a load of Bullshit. You should be ashamed of yourself.
Im 25. My mother started me on anti-aging my body at 18. So its been drilled in my head to take extreme care of myself at a young age. Thinking about the long term consequences, rather than instant gratification is what keeps me from eating bad, greasy food and drinking too much alcohol. I indulge, but only once in awhile. You seem to still have a lot going for you.
I pretty smart, and painfully self-aware, unfortunately. I’ve been lurking on this site for the past few weeks, and have been a bit shy to respond, but honestly I have picked up some good advice, even being spoiled milk, LOL!
Whoops, “I’m”… talk about irony..
No they don’t. Wringles, balding, graying hair and beer bellies does not make you look great. Many men starts losing their hair before they’re even 40. The truth is we’re all gonna get old and unattractive eventually, no mattter how many times you try to rationalize otherwise.
And women hit the wall at 30? ha! my mother is getting married NeXT year and she’s 51.
Id marry Raquel Welch. She is 73 and hotter than hell still.
Id marry Raquel Welch. She is 73 and hotter than hell still.
she has still hit the wall at 51? If Men don’t reach their peak at 45, then why are you women always choosing the World’s sexiest men as men aged between 40-50? Why are Hollywood actors more famous and hired more in that age? Who was Gerard Butler before he was 35? Daniel Craig? You’re wrong, and you’re a dumb fucking whore.
Celebreties are not an accurate representation of an average 40 something year old man’s life. And fame makes people more desirable. period.
Angelina Jolie hit the wall 8 years ago, according to you, and will always have more men willing to bed har than your typical 20 year old girl, because she’s Angelina Jolie.
And no, I am not wrong. Around the age of 25, your body will start to age, and your Health and attractiveness will slowly detoriate, . Being a man does not put you above reality. Call me a stupid whore all you want, but this will happen to you too eventually.
The mood swings might go away, but the wrinkles and saggy tits don’t.
You know I am an overweight man. My wife is slender and hot. She doesn’t care what I look like. I wouldn’t care if she looked like me. She is happy because I can hump her brains out for hours before breaking a sweat. People need to grow up. Beauty is only skin deep… It’s what inside that counts. And if you have a large Penis…
Appearance matters less for men than it does for women. A fat man can get a hot woman, but a fat woman can’t get an alpha male, and will have to settle for betas and damaged creepos. A fat woman is more equivalent to (there it is) a basement-dwelling loser than to a fat man.
Appearance matters less for men than it does for women. A fat man can get a hot woman, but a fat woman can’t get an alpha male, and will have to settle for betas and damaged creepos. A fat woman is more equivalent to (there it is) a basement-dwelling loser than to a fat man.
Appearance matters less for men than it does for women. A fat man can get a hot woman, but a fat woman can’t get an alpha male, and will have to settle for betas and damaged creepos. A fat woman is more equivalent to (there it is) a basement-dwelling loser than to a fat man.
Appearance matters less for men than it does for women. A fat man can get a hot woman, but a fat woman can’t get an alpha male, and will have to settle for betas and damaged creepos. A fat woman is more equivalent to (there it is) a basement-dwelling loser than to a fat man.
“Sadly, the signals that allow men and women to find the partners who most please them are scrambled by the sexual insecurity initiated by beauty thinking. A woman who is self-conscious can’t relax to let her sensuality come into play. If she is hungry she will be tense. If she is “done up” she will be on the alert for her reflection in his eyes. If she is ashamed of her body, its movement will be stilled. If she does not feel entitled to claim attention, she will not demand that airspace to shine in. If his field of vision has been boxed in by “beauty”–a box continually shrinking–he simply will not see her, his real love, standing right before him.”
This is a quote by Naomi Wolf. I found it fitting for this particular thread of comments for various reasons. The first reason being that we see here that this article is nothing more than a man listing his preferences on a woman. His particular need to have a skinny woman with big breasts who makes him salivate and interests him sexually.
I’m not here to critic what interests him, or what he finds beautiful, but rather point out just a few minor mistakes with his wordings and some of the comments that have been made here.
You like what you like, that’s been made very clear. However, this gentleman is solely looking for one thing: What he believes will make him the happiest, which seemingly is appearance. That’s fine, man! Go ahead! Look ONLY, and ONLY at the way this woman looks. Look at the way her curves are perfectly shaped like an hour glass, or the way her breasts are bigger than her waist. Look at the way her bones protrude her body as if they were sending out signals to you, longing to be touched.
But wait, her body is perfect, is that not what this man wanted? Sure, she’s perfect. She’s perfect in every way…externally. However, this man, author, whoever it is that has these particular interests in women failed to realize that if its shell of a woman he wants, than its the shell of a woman he will get. This is not to say that all women who actually do fit these descriptions are shells of women, that’s not the intent of this comment at all, but rather to put emphasis on the standards that are being held.
Again, essentially, he’s going to like what he’s going to like but even in the article we see that he doesn’t care so much about their face, or personality. Just their body, solely their body and personally, that’s a little saddening to me simply because there’s so many incredible, wonderful women out there of all shapes and sizes that are scared to try and scared to love because they know that standards like these are being held against them.
And now, just to make a few remarks on the comments themselves: I’m going to start with directing my attention to K.
K, I realize that you’re more than pissed upon reading this. I was myself, but I’m not there to, as i said, critic the authors interests despite how close minded they may be. Why? Again with the preferences, despite the fact that I don’t agree with anything he has said, I am but a stand by on a site dedicated to single men looking for their idea of a perfect woman. I agree with you more than you know, K. This is why I’m here.
I’d like to now redirect my attention to The OverWatch. I would just like you to re-indulge me in what you said in your comment. “Fat women still have plenty of men after them”
Why this line in particular? Just one reason. Is it necessary to say fat women? Are they a woman none the less, whether she be 93 lbs or 203 lbs? It’s the little, unintentional remarks such as these that cause commotion in the first place. Everyone has become solely focused on the exterior of a woman that they’ve forgotten its the personality, strength, and perseverance that makes a woman a woman. Not her breasts, nor her legs or her stomach. It just, upsetting, to someone such as myself to see that this has become the only means for knowing a person.
I don’t see the standard being held as high for men, not even close. Not to say that they don’t have one either.
But flip the scenario, for just a moment: A woman is writing this article. She is discussing what she feels she desires and needs in a man.
She starts with his body.
“While I appreciate a healthy man, his face isn’t what concerns me. What really interests me is his stomach. I want it perfectly contoured, chiseled. He can’t be shorter than me, that’s a big turn off. Sure his personality is nice but he doesn’t exactly…..fit. He needs to be tan, not TOO tan, but just tan enough to where he has almost a glow. If he doesn’t have a six or eight back, consider me uninterested. His personality isn’t my biggest concern here, nor are his feelings or interests in me. I’m a beautiful woman who needs nothing short of a perfect
handsome man. Externally, he has to be perfect. I’m not a chubby chaser, if a man has chub on his stomach it makes me sick. I could never be sexually or mentally interested in that.”
So, what do you think would happen had this been an actual example? Do you think she would get the same defense? Occurrence and agreement even? The occasional “Yeah, nobody wants a chubby fat guy, they’re horrible to look at” type comment?
Probably not, she would probably get multitudes of men saying how unconventional and rude she was, or even that she was a slut who may never find this type of man because of her bitchy personality.
However, the point here wasn’t to point out the all too obvious double standard that will probably start it’s own thread of arguments, and that’s fine. I’m not here to argue, I Probably won’t even come back to see what remarks have been made in regards to my lengthy spiel.
I am just here to say that, for future reference, wording is everything.
Essentially, you are going to like what you like and that’s perfectly fine,despite how insensitive it may seem.
It’s just sad to me to see that because of this, it’s going to be hard for him to find someone nice, because he’s only an external lover, seemingly.
That won’t matter after a while, the looks. The fat, the wrinkles, the mood swings.
That’s not just women, honey. Men go through it, too. The mood swings, the mid life transitions, the fluctuating weight and hair loss (or hair growth even) It’s going to come to you whether you’d like to believe it or not, its inevitable. That’s life. Sure, surgery can fix you externally a little, but even then, that’s not going to last either. It’s temporary. Looks, are temporary.
They will fade. A personality and genuine love will not.
While again, I don’t necessarily agree with this article, in the slightest, I’m all to aware of the fact that minds will still go unchanged here, arguably even insulted or not phased.
This is our biggest problem already though, is it not? The beauty standard held to both males AND females? Clearly a little stronger on the woman front.
You find what you deserve, eventually. And if its a petite busty blonde is what he wants, than he may get it. He just may not receive that internal happiness, and that’s what’s going to matter.
After all, she may be just a shell of a woman.
ZZZZzzzzzzzzz……..
As it were, sir! You seem incredibly tired of opinions and thoughts that don’t relay your own! Maybe you should rest Uncle Old fart Elmer.
Don’t hate me cause I’m beautiful.
Blah, blah blah. BORING! How about a tl;dr?
” Looks, are temporary. They will fade. A personality and genuine love will not. ”
Typical blue pill beliefs- 3 letters- SMV(sexual market value)
Heh, its too bad that even “genuine love” can easily be feigned.
What exactly are you trying to achieve with this essay, erh, I mean comment? You must have too much spare-time.
Why should we pay any attention to anything Naomi Wolf writes?
Why should we pay any attention to anything Naomi Wolf writes?
Why should we pay any attention to anything Naomi Wolf writes?
Males aren’t judged or held to a beauty standard, and male ‘beauty’ usually involves muscles which is not a display of beauty at all but a display of strength.
Women are judged by beauty because they have a window of fertility, if this makes women feel insecure then that is a shame in the same way that men going through their youth without a hope of getting laid until they’re able to take the power in their twenties is a shame.
Wow, after reading this I better hop on a treadmill for a few hours and eat nothing but celery so that I can be like those “haves” who make their self-worth based on their appearance. Because I’m sure I’m guarenteed to be rejected constantly for my 5’5 140lb body. Thanks for letting me know how worthless I currently am! 🙂
I PREDICT A DIET!
Or I could just be content with how my life is going and the person I am, inlcuding my appearance, rather than waste time worrying about whether some shallow guy can deem me acceptable to date. And I don’t even think I’m unattractive, I just don’t think happiness has to revolve around how other men rate your worth based on your appearance.
Watching the fatties get lairy
It’s not very pretty I tell thee
Walking through town is quite scary
It’s not very sensible either
A friend of a friend he got eaten
He looked the wrong way at a fat woman
Would never of happened to Smeaton
An old leodensian
I have no idea what that means…or how it has anything to do with me… whatever.
Women: Too stupid to recognise a well known song with a few of the words changed to suit fatties.
hahah got that right, man 🙂
sorry to aware you, but the type of man you would optimally want to procreate with is the type that would put appearance at #1
You’re the female equivalent of a guy who still lives with his parents and has no job because he says his happiness doesn’t revolve on how women rate him. Think about that for a bit, m’kay?
You’re the female equivalent of a guy who still lives with his parents and has no job because he says his happiness doesn’t revolve on how women rate him. Think about that for a bit, m’kay?
You’re the female equivalent of a guy who still lives with his parents and has no job because he says his happiness doesn’t revolve on how women rate him. Think about that for a bit, m’kay?
You’re the female equivalent of a guy who still lives with his parents and has no job because he says his happiness doesn’t revolve on how women rate him. Think about that for a bit, m’kay?
Everyone is shallow. Wake up and smell the coffee.
Careful now… there’s a difference between “worthless” and “worth less”.
I am 145 pounds and 5’6″, meaning that I am a fat ugly cow that will never find love or self worth. I know that men mean EVERYTHING in a woman’s life, so if I am forever doomed to be single, then why try? Why don’t I just give up right now and starve myself? I think I will, because if I want to accomplish something in my worthless 18 year old life, then I should completely stop eating! Perfect! I should dump my loving firefighting boyfriend as well, because why would he want to waste his time on such a heifer? I guess my B cup isn’t enough either, and I am so happy that this article told me how to live my life! Apparently I have been doing it all wrong… So, where to go from here? Drop out of one of the best institutions in the country, purge my breakfast, and permanently spread my legs for the acceptance of all pathetic, crusty old bastards. Because, you know, ALL men look godly. Us women should be open to 24/7 judgment and drastically change every aspect of our lives for men! DUH! But despite their stupidity, mediocre jobs, receding hairlines, obese frames, and poor erectile performance, we should still bow down! For THAT is the only logical thing to do in this country.
Troll. If you’re 5’6″ and 145 lbs you’re in the normal range on the BMI index.
You shouldn’t give up. Just try to drop 20 lbs and you’ll be healthier and more attractive. You can do it in less than a year easily.
You shouldn’t give up. Just try to drop 20 lbs and you’ll be healthier and more attractive. You can do it in less than a year easily.
” I am so happy that this article told me how to live my life!”
I know this is hard for you to grasp, but this article was written for men. It was not written with your approval, or your opinion, in mind…at all.
Your comment is asinine, and you are seemingly a moron. It is funny that you felt the need to describe yourself physically (even down to the size of your tits), brag about your boyfriend and educational institution and thus veiling your subconscious craving for male attention, approval and validation with lowbrow sarcasm and insults.
Well, congratulations, you got 5 votes up from other women who also have nothing better to do than surf the internet looking for articles that offend them, and then bitch about…Well done.
You can go now.
” I am so happy that this article told me how to live my life!”
I know this is hard for you to grasp, but this article was written for men. It was not written with your approval, or your opinion, in mind…at all.
Your comment is asinine, and you are seemingly a moron. It is funny that you felt the need to describe yourself physically (even down to the size of your tits), brag about your boyfriend and educational institution and thus veiling your subconscious craving for male attention, approval and validation with lowbrow sarcasm and insults.
Well, congratulations, you got 5 votes up from other women who also have nothing better to do than surf the internet looking for articles that offend them, and then bitch about…Well done.
You can go now.
Being feminine and acting like a woman is bascally women’s “game”.
Too bad many nowadays don’t learn it anymore.
This is practically the same dating situation in my city, but it applies to most women from 25 and up, let alone 45 years old.
The truth is that there are few in the middle women. They have family values, don’t go whoring to bars, are not into online dating and are homely. You could meet them via friends or in a small meeting. Casually once per year perhaps.
As for the rest of women, it is a battlefield. The haves getting attention from 100% of men, and the have nots, getting only ONS and drunk hookups from alphas and pathetic attemps from betas.
It pisses me off to NO end that assholes like you think you have the right to CHOOSE and CELEBRATE and ENJOY what you define as “sexy.”
True, I may be single, but as a 5’8″, 240 lb princess, I DESERVE a man who is in peak physical condition because he KNOWS my awesomeness is directly related to my unmarketable Liberal Arts credentials and ability to speak my mind even when rational thought eludes me. That’s the difference: scum like you haven’t EARNED the right to hypocrisy the way I have!
To the bar, sisters! Single motherhood is only a few drinks away!
I’ll assume this is satire.
Seriously, Sherlock?
Sherlock…
Sherlock….
Sherlock….
Holmes! Of course, the commenter must have confused me with the famous literary detective. Probably due to my aptitude for deductive reasoning.
I hereby dub thee Admiral Obvious.
You did manage to work that one out, at least.
credentials gave it away
I just saw her FB pictures first off she is fat secondly given her height she needs to lose a good 20 lbs minimum.
Lol I love this, ugly women with no career potential and shitty personalities expect to attract men with anything other than their body. Nice satires +1
His taste in women is gay (“pencil thin arms” yecch!) and he apparently doesn’t measure up to amazons. Good news for us eight inchers.
yes, this guy obviously has a small dick and makes up for it by dating women under 100 pounds. gives the illusion of having a big dick. men with huge dicks dont mind the challenge and not afraid of big hips and asses
So true. I’ve been called “thick” – fat by some – but I’m dating a guy who is thinner than me. However, he’s a good eight inches taller than me and has a huge cock, and he loves having me on top. Those who are well-endowed have less to worry about when it comes to us “monsters” I suppose. 😉
you bet you. MEn with huge cocks do not mind the challenge, they love it and are obviously well assured in themselves. No lie about that. Why worry when you have the tool to do the work? I have huge thighs and ass and have no shame about it. I still fit into a size 2-3 depending on where i shop and wear a size small-x-small in shirts. Never felt better and confident in myself when compared to when i was a size 0 which at times, did not fit me. I had to resort to shopping in the children’s section.
Curvy women rule! Word up for my large, jiggly Sisters!
Go girl! You tell them! And you’ll find a man that likes you for you, not you’re looks 🙂
Your*
why should you deserve a man in peak physical condition when you clearly don’t take care of your own physical condition? i agree this site is rubbish, but you make as much sense as them.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
Don’t tell her.
are you people serious? Can’t you tell satire when you read it? Why are people so dumb nowadays, or is it just that people only read the first line of anything…
240lb at 5’8…yuck..getting into some serious unhealthiness…that is no better than being a underweight. fix your diet and hit the gym .
Sngle 5’8 240, that explains everything. You are a jealous whale.
I am 133 pounds (I have no need to lie) and 5’4″. This article is a wake-up call. I got called “not that attractive” by my boyfriend last night, and while he will probably say that he was just being “mean”, he probably really means it. I have a reasonable face, though it is fading quickly at 32. Maybe if I lose some weight I have a chance at being a “have” again. Maybe.
If a woman stays thin, she can remain far more attractive than the masses of American women, well into her thirties. I’ve been noticing plenty of older women around me that are more attractive than many of the fatties that I go to college with right now! Get motivated, educated, and take the action necessary to improve yourself. If you don’t, you have no one to blame but yourself for your rapidly decreasing SMV.
Good advice, but if I am going to lose 30 lbs, I have to contend with sagging skin, yay surgery! :-/ I already have cellulite and stretch marks and it is disgusting. My self-esteem and self-worth is at an all time low. Honestly not trolling, you guys. This site I think has really opened my eyes to a lot of beliefs that I thought only “sexist” guys have. It might be unfair and it might be harsh, but it is reality.
A few girls I know are always online dating. I asked, why not just meet a guy in person? They say, “I’m too lazy”. Enough said. I then browse their profiles and find no body shots, but perfectly angled ones of their face which are perfectly filtered. They look nothing like how they do in real life…
My personal opinion is technology in general has changed dating for the worst.
It’s amazing how now with online dating you can make yourself look like a totally different person. Not at all what you actually look like. Who needs to actually put the time into improving ones life/appearance when you have an instagram filter.
It’s amazing how now with online dating you can make yourself look like a totally different person. Not at all what you actually look like. Who needs to actually put the time into improving ones life/appearance when you have an instagram filter.
Women’s liberation has changed anything to do with women for the worse. Technology changes intensity but not quality. People/sheeple/useful idiots: they are what they are left to their own devices. I don’t want technology to get a bad rap: it is a masculine accomplishment and should be a masculine tool. And it is…in the hands of the NWO patriarchy currently.
no body shots! OMG! they must all be fat bitches! could it be that some of these women just don’t feel the need to attention whore themselves online all the time?
It’s sexist for a man to expect to even know what a woman looks like before dating them!
You moron. I bet you know want to know all sorts of things about a man before dating them.
Women like you are the exact reason dating is such a pain in the ass these days. You don’t see the need to even give the slightest amount of consideration to the opposite sex. At. All.
Do you even smile at a man without a reason to get something out of it?
First of all, you know nothing about me whatsoever, so every point you’re trying to make consisting of “I bet you want to know…” and “women like you…” is complete nonsense and won’t even bother with an answer. I don’t even do online dating.
The only ones I don’t see the need to give any amout of respect are sexist idiots like yourself. You know why? because evry time someone diesagrees with you or tell you you’re fucking disgusting, your standard response is: “you fat feminist slut! I bet you hate all men!” plenty of the negative comments on “date a girl with a disorder” came from men. You are a bunch of babies WHO can’t argue at all.
First of all, you know nothing about me whatsoever, so every point you’re trying to make consisting of “I bet you want to know…” and “women like you…” is complete nonsense and won’t even bother with an answer. I don’t even do online dating.
The only ones I don’t see the need to give any amout of respect are sexist idiots like yourself. You know why? because evry time someone diesagrees with you or tell you you’re fucking disgusting, your standard response is: “you fat feminist slut! I bet you hate all men!” plenty of the negative comments on “date a girl with a disorder” came from men. You are a bunch of babies WHO can’t argue at all.
I’ll just leave this here.
Lol omg, that bottom picture doesn’t even look like a real person!!
Anything over 130 lbs is fat and gross.
Anything over 110 pounds, depending on body and frame. I’ve found the perfect 5’6 or 5’4 girl with a great body starts looking gross after 110.
Yall are making me want to go back on anti-depressants. At least, Wellbutrin (adderall is preferable, tbh) so I will lose weight easily
Give me a call if you lose some weight, I’ll help you test your new body out.
Haha, I am taken…
Ok then, lose some weight and make the person you’re with happy.
That really makes me depressed to hear that the only way to make the guy I am with truly love me is to drop 20 (if not more) pounds. What is going to happen when all my skin starts sagging and I am even grosser than before?
You can always get work done like Pelosi. Plastic surgeons are a woman’s best friend after 30.
– Botox
– Tummy tuck
– Face lift
We have global warming, stop being so selfish in having offspring. Less kids more sex!
Many ways to fix this, a woman needs to use her prime years, about 18-23 (since thats legal here, if in other country 16/14/whatever-23) to attract a man and use a good homemaker personality to make them love you. Work hard to be attractive and once he loves you try to stay thin but as you age he will still love and find you attractive. If you get a man while you are thin, young, and beautiful then he will love you even when you get old and gross.
Edit!!! Virginity, giving a guy your virginity and only sleeping with him (if he is like me) can earn you a 140 weight to a 120 115 weight, so a big up in attractiveness without having to do anything at all.
LOL, you act like I have the kind of money to piss away thousands on plastic surgery when I have student loans, car payments, rent, insurance, etc to pay for.
Who’s fault is that you decided to major in a useless degree?
It amazes me that so many dumb broads major in art and humanities without doing research on salary and employment openings/potential.
Hun, switch that max number and you will get my age. I am fat by your standard and also old by pretty much all of the manosphere’s standard, and let’s just say my n-count is less than stellar. Basically I am just hoping my bf doesn’t decide to “upgrade” me when he becomes a little bit more well off, but I would hope that it speaks to my character that I was with him when he was less successful. Here’s to hope.
Hun, switch that max number and you will get my age. I am fat by your standard and also old by pretty much all of the manosphere’s standard, and let’s just say my n-count is less than stellar. Basically I am just hoping my bf doesn’t decide to “upgrade” me when he becomes a little bit more well off, but I would hope that it speaks to my character that I was with him when he was less successful. Here’s to hope.
I actually work with technology (still have a useless degree, won’t lie about that!) but teaching myself coding through codecademy even though that might be a futile effort without a STEM degree. Oh well, the hostility is really appreciated.
I actually work with technology (still have a useless degree, won’t lie about that!) but teaching myself coding through codecademy even though that might be a futile effort without a STEM degree. Oh well, the hostility is really appreciated.
I actually work with technology (still have a useless degree, won’t lie about that!) but teaching myself coding through codecademy even though that might be a futile effort without a STEM degree. Oh well, the hostility is really appreciated.
Any small framed women whos petite and gains even 3-5 pounds, will make her look larger than she is. I’m quite petite. 5’2 1/2 and 102 pounds roughly. Even if I gain 3 pounds, I look bloated.
Any small framed women whos petite and gains even 3-5 pounds, will make her look larger than she is. I’m quite petite. 5’2 1/2 and 102 pounds roughly. Even if I gain 3 pounds, I look bloated.
Don’t let what these pigs say affect your views on your body. You can find a man who will like you, and not just for looks.
If you’re under 30 you don’t have to worry about sagging skin from dropping 20 lbs.
Ashley come here…. I wanna see if you look bloated with semen running down your chin.
Yes, obviously a man who will like her for her stunning personality, charitable philanthropy, and spiritual leadership…. ummmm….
Disclaimer: I ma not trying to be hostile, I am genuinely trying to help you.
Well the first thing is for you to not be picky about things a man cannot change( height, race).
Us men do not have such high standards as the author because the author is a supreme alpha stud, in the top 1% of men, so he gets to be picky.
by the time you skin starts sagging, you should have a family with kids who are in their teens.
See most women make the mistake of banging multiple guys plenty until the age of 26 and above. By this time it only takes 5-6 years to hit the wall.
Now if you get married by 21-22, you will still have not hit the wall by the time your kids are 8 years old and the man will still me attracted to you
not only that, but if a man has stayed with you that long with kids and you demonstrate you love and affection and you do not look that bad, he will become a family man willing and will not care much about your sagging skin…..but he will still leave you if you do not demonstrate effort to take care of your skin with a healthy diet.
Also avoid smoking, drinking alcohol , wearing make up for more than 6 hours, and especially avoid sugar.
I think you’ll find many beautiful, thin, fit, elite sportwomen who weigh between 130 – 150 pounds. You’re quite ignorant!
im 5’10 and 116- anything under this and i look anorexic, and not in a good way…
All of this would have been great advice, 10 years ago, just saying. This morning I went to work crying, because basically I have hit the wall, and there is nothing I can do about it.
Unfortunately I am not, but hey, it will take me a while to lose 30 pounds, probably could save some money for tummy tuck in the process of not eating all that horrible fast food that got me this way.
Unfortunately I am not, but hey, it will take me a while to lose 30 pounds, probably could save some money for tummy tuck in the process of not eating all that horrible fast food that got me this way.
If you have daughters, tell to not listen to feminism, to keep their hair long and give them all this advise I gave you.
Also make sure your daughter do not ride the cock carusel( having sex with lots of guys, hence increasing cortisol levels to make sex less pleasurable and less emotional and also making them have extremely high standards in men and they will turn around and say ” where have all the good man gone”)
if you have female friends who have not hit the wall, make them follow this advise…it will only make them happier since they will find a better man.
No children either, if my bf every leaves me, I have a lovely life of cat collecting and hoarding in my future, lol
and what are these “friends” things you speak of, and why would I want to be the third wheel to my younger hotter friends and their boyfriends, sorry to sound bitter, but won’t I need haggy friends in my spinsterdom?
Care to provide pictures? If so I will be able to identify and tell you whether or not you look bad.
You are making excuses. Losing 30 pounds is not hard, and if you do it sensibly you will not have sagging skin. If you think you need medication to do it, or you make the excuse that you skin will sag, you are just being lazy. Get off the internet, get off you ass and start working out. Eat less. Don’t drink alcohol, and stop wasting people’s time trying to get sympathy. Pathetic.
You’re right, and I did lose about 15 pounds last year, gained it back this year, so it can be done, I am just being lazy. Alcohol is the hardest thing to give up for me. Drinking = easy. Fixing your life = difficult.
I meant if you had younger friends. Trust me, most women I meet prefer to be alone than surrounded by negative spinsters.
I suggest you hit yoga and have a diet free of processed foods if you want to salvage what ever post wall looks you have. It will only go down hill
Dan. I would really like to see what you look like. Cause honestly. that list kind of works with men as well. There are some gross lookin’ dudes expecting to get attractive women. So put your money where your mouth is.
Your avatar is anime… You are obviously a 30-year-old virgin who still lives in mommy and daddy’s basement playing World of Warcraft or some shit all day.
Ahahaha… So original man. So the fact that my avatar is anime simply makes me 30 year old virgin wow player? Then what does that make you who also recognized my avatar?
It depends on age. When you are 24, 100 pounds is great. At 30, you will start to look dried out and at 40 you absolutely must have more. Your bones change, even the skinniest shoulders widen and you need good posture and a good walk.You can control the distribution with exercise, I dont care what people say, you can, it’s hard work but you can.Oblique exercises act like an inner corset. I personally keep an eye on Kylie. She knows how to up her weight so slim is becoming lush. Its horrible to see Victoria Beckham: she has such a dehydrated look. all the other Spice girls added a stone to their figures and they looked ripe, she looked withered.
Rubbish. Act like a doormat and he will get bored. I have done this, been the sweet girl, cooked, cleaned, made money too, supported the guy to build his business…just everything while looking lovely. Result: he took me for granted. Never ever again. Homemaker women run far too great a risk of being deserted and left in poverty. I read of a woman last night who stayed home and is now her husband left and while he is making twice what he did when they married, she cant even get part-time work. Mothers arent wanted and they end up dependent on the man…and if you are dependent, you are a slave, and lots of people loved their slaves too…it is still slavery. Dont advise your daughters to put themselves in a man’s hands. And at 23!!There is a world out there! Are you really suggesting a girl never travel, never have fun, never build her own world? Just go from Dad’s house to a another man’s? Would you do that? Dont you want a life? Dont you want experiences?
You know I am just thinking about that more. I really was the kind of girl you all say you want. I weighed 95 pounds. People called me so beautiful they took my photo in the street. Men behaved round me like round Scarlett at the Twelve Oaks picnic. I admired my boyfriend who was 7 years older and seemed so wordly. i expressed this admiration through everything. I cooked very well. I brought most of the money in. I would buy him gifts like hunting down his favourite record. I would be wretched if I “did something wrong”. I look back and I despise myself. How could he help but bully me every day. What a victim. Begging for attention like a puppy dog. And he wanted to keep me ignorant. He went mad when I wanted to learn to drive! So I didn’t do it. What do you think of that? He ‘forbade’ me. So I obeyed. God I hate myself for this stuff. You know you would bully a girl like this. I wasn’t neurotic or anything, I was always making him laugh, always cheerful, never complained of my period or anything, always ready for sex…I treid so hard to please…and one day I walked in and he said: “I’m leaving you. So bored. I’m taking all our savings too”. I was left without even the deposit for a new apartment. And the money had been earned by me.
No, it won’t. He is your boyfriend. Why dont you talk to him. Not all men are as contemptible as the manosphere ‘alphas’. Most men are just human, and they want to be loved and so long as you are not a bitch and not a slob, they will appreciate you just as you appreciate them. You dont pick up on all his flaws, do you? If you want to lose weight, talk to him and if he says, sincerely, that he loves you and not to upset yourself, then believe him. Many many men say, exasperated: ‘I love my woman, and I love her for far more than her outer side and it upsets me when she doesn’t believe me and when she keeps on trying to change herself” One guy told me: ‘It’s like she thinks I’m the kind of asshole that judges women on their bodies alone. If she thinks I am an asshole like that, why is she with me? She just wont listen to me, she keeps going on all these diets and says it is for me and we cant even just eat out anymore and she wont relax in bed, she keeps trying to hide herself…and I love her as she is, fuck a few pounds!” and 20 pounds will not make your skin sag! that’s when you lose 200 pounds!
If you marry at 21 you will miss out on all the things going on all over the world. Get a passport and get out of America and you will find a different world. A world of happy women having great experiences and building their education…then marrying much later. I know scores and scores and scores. I married at 21…and I have regretted it ever since. When I see what those other girls did..and they built a confidence of their own…they didnt get it from the approval of a man.Why must you be validated by a man? Is he validated by you? Men build a career, a life…women should too. You will only make yourself unattractive to this kind of guy, the kind of guy that demands and demands…and bring absolutely nothing to the table. Have you heard them? Woman must be this, woman must be that…but what are they bringing? Will they love her, support her, listen to her? No. She is to serve them and hope for a pat on the head. What do they give? And all of them, since they only care about their great selves, are bound to be lousy lovers. Look at the author. When his poor girlfriend began the hell of early menopause: he left. He deserted her. “Eww, you have wrinkles, fuck off”. You don’t want men like this. Dont read these blogs. they will undermine you. You are fine. You can improve your own life, your own confidence. And if you end up alone, so what? Better than with a character like Dan, or FG, or the author..after all, you might get early menopause, or cancer, or be burned in a fire…what then? think a guy like this will nurse a woman through breast cancer? Many ‘feminists’ have given feminism a bad name. They are spoiled and demanding girls. Remember, feminism is about learning and growing, not thinking you know it all. It is about developing. It is about the right to your own body, to education, to be paid the same and to be safe. To choose who you want to sleep with, not to be handled by men you dont want because they think you ‘owe’ them. Ignore the bratty feminist and ignore these so-called ‘men’. There is nothing ‘top alpha’ about deserting your woman because she gets ill. How many women would do that to their partner? No reason for you not to have a happy life and a man too. Note that all these men have no girlfriends and spend hours and hours on the internet raging about women refusing to serve.
And cats are better friends than any man like this. Even a cat wont run out on you if you’re sick.
Thanks for the advice. I have been doing yoga actually, but my diet sucks, need to get back on that Whole 30, it was kinda awesome. FWIW, I still get carded at the bar, and I believe the cut off for that is like 27? So, at least I look that young!
Sure thing, happy to help. The manosphere is happy to help women who want to actually learn to be feminine women and not be fat + unhealthy, and not this feminist garbage you see in politically correct media.
Even if you still get hit on by guys in the bar and they flirt with you, remember, they are mostly down for a one night stand, not a relationship. There are men that will hit on 35 year old + women….only for one night stands and if they are desperate for sex.
I do not know your age, but when you hit 26+ your priority is relationships and having children since your looks will fade…well unless you put in work ofcourse.
Doing yoga is a great start, do not stop yoga. Do moderate aerobic exercise and life light weights.
Consume plenty of orange and green colored vegetables. Drink 50-100ml of red wine(reversetrol;anti-ageing properties).
If you want help with a great diet to help you not age faster let me know. Also let me know if you are allergic certain to foods + your current diet.
Thanks for the tip, although my comment was for women <25 women. Usually women older just have such a high number, riskier chance for STD, and are usually less attractive.
32, but I have always looked younger (and that’s not just people blowing smoke up my ass) so yeah, I need to start tending to my looks RIGHT NOW. I have plenty of knowledge on what to eat to look good, and maybe that has helped me, but the smoking/fast-food/booze ain’t doing me any favors, and I need to cut that stuff out rickey-tick. Thanks for the offer, too, but it isn’t a matter of not knowing for me. It is just the struggle against stress and my own lack of motivation. But, yeah, there are women with an objective sense of how people really are, and aren’t over-taken with emotional responses, though admittedly that is a difficult hurdle to overcome.
A lot of people struggle with booze and fast food. And it is hard to break this habit.
But remember, it is a habit, it is breakable. All you have to do is replace it with another habit.
Be grateful that you look youngish at 32…but remember, the wall sneeks up on you if you do not put in the work, so your not out of the woods just yet.
The first thing to do is to eliminate booze and all junk food from your house. Since you are in that habit, the temptation is to try and eat the unhealthy foods when you are hungry.
The second thing to do is only make friends with healthy slim females since they tend to obsess over being healthy .
this way you will be motivated to keep in shape. If you do this after 2-3 months consistently, you will not be eating fastfood.
This maybe hard, but you will have to break friendship with unhealthy friends simply because they will reinforce the habit..if you hangout with them they will end up eating fastfood and thus the temptation occurs.
Regarding smoking, I suggest you get help from a counselor, it is very difficult to break smoking and it causes the most aging out of anything.
Try that, see how you go.
The people on the RoK are not like that. We are masculine men who would cherish a homemaker. See we only do one nights stands because homemakers are so extremely rare. The guy you met must have been westernized and raised on the PC crap feed to men these days…of probably had a mother that dominated his dad thus he would treat every girl he met like his mother.
See Ashley has a Russian husband who is masculine and knows his role as a man…this is the type of man a homemaker women works perfectly with.
A girls should definitely travel, especially to countries that are more traditional and have less feminism and date men wisely.See generally a good father figure to a daughter equips the daughter with the knowledge to choose a good man so she can feel safe submitting to him.
What should not be done however is to sleep with 10+ men because this will raise cortisol, alter oxytocin and affect the emotional connections you can feel with a man. Future relationships become less intimate and thus the woman who has slept around too much become extremely superficial.
Just look at how extremely superficial the women of America are. Even I’m not that picky if you paid me 1 million dollars to be as picky as I can be.
This is why in countries like Poland, it is very difficult to get a one night stand, because the women have been raised by good father figures and choose a man on things that contribute well to a relationship.
I don’t really smoke outside of drinking, but my bf has taken to smoking inside, when it is cold after countless attempts to get him to stop which makes me want to smoke to avoid smelling the smell directly (I know that seems to make no sense but when you smoke you don’t smell it), but that is neither here nor there. Regarding food, fun fact, I am actually not even partaking in Thanksgiving this year because I feel I don’t deserve the extra treats. I don’t have many gal friends, just my bf who loves the fast-food, d’oh! (I’m not going to break up with him!) I guess the solution is to start cooking more, which is never a bad thing, right?
Well if you BF must smoke inside, atleast it is only during cold months. but you should tell him to smoke in the toilet with the exhaust fan on so you don’t get the smoke smell. Try going on nicotine and see what a psychologist has to say about this smoking situation.
Yes cooking is a great solution, the more he eats healthy homecooked foods, the more he will see benefits and it will increase his stamina in bed and his overall mood.
Alpha stud? Top 1%? couldn’t keep his girlfriend interested… Just sayin’…
Whole 30 is psychotic and it’s bad for the environment. Go gluten-free ovo-vegetarian and take up couch to 5k. And drink a gallon of water every day, the extra hydration fleshes out your face and prevents cravings. Also, prenatal vitamins help your hair grow faster. With all the extra water, I would say double those up since you’ll be flushing most of it. Any bad habits that age you: alcohol/caffeine… Give them up. You can do without them. Oh, and don’t let people make you feel unworthy. Love yourself, cultivate your interests.
“Then came the wrinkle lines, the constant nagging, wild mood swings, lecturing, and all the rest.” <– if she was worth keeping her, he would not have ended it on his own terms, which he did).
Alpha is about getting the highest quality woman possible until her quality dropped over time and thus let her go.
This is why men go to eastern Europe and South East Asia, because the women give back something else part from sex + good looks. They do things for you like be a homemaker and support you, and thus a man in turn feel the need to protect her and will stay with her even through old age, because she gave something else back.
Think about it, Sean Connery, one of the most alpha men on the planet, someone who even alphas respect, has ben with his wife for 40+ years…he could have traded up, girls still flirt with him till this day, but he stays with his wife, because she gave some thing else back apart from looks + sex.
This is why western women are not favored anymore…western women define their sole value on looks + sex and say stuff like ” I don’t need a man” and then women get all pissed off when their man traded up for a younger woman.
Girls like Ashley know this, so expect her to have a happy long relationship and grow old with a loving husband.
“Just look at how extremely superficial the women of America are”.
Well of course we’re superficial! Evidently all that men care about is the way we look and our aptitude in bed. The superficiality lies in our efforts to conform to an unrealistic standard.
If you were told that your value is determined solely by your ability to “measure up” to an unrealistic ideal, I think you would have trouble embracing the depths of your personality as well.
Just a thought. I’m open to discussion!
Ofcourse American women are ultra superficial, more superficial than men ever could be.
When us guys in America see fat landwhales females or ugly females with good looking guys on the regular, but almost no ugly guy with a hot chick in America unless that guy is super famous or super rich or called Hugh Hefner…well do you honestly think men are that superficial?
Only the tip 0.1% of guys in America are superficial like the author of this article and myself and that is too small of a percentage for you to worry about.
American women can let them selves go, be fat and still get an average guy.
So saying things like “Well of course we’re superficial! Evidently all that men care about is the way we look and our aptitude in bed. The superficiality lies in our efforts to conform to an unrealistic standard. “
Omg, the worst thing you can do, is read the rubbish on this site. This is alot of men with the same opinion in one place. It is not a general view…ffs its called return of kings.. Be the best human you can be, and enjoy your life.
Yet I see so many big-boobed, skinny-wasted hot girls with ugly guys…
Power of money and personality. Women can only attract men with their body since most women have no career or personality worthy of attractive a decent man or rich man.
yeah, until I moved to the city, I never knew how much money a dude made could up his attractive points (hence seeing attractive girls with ugly rich guys). Kinda a sad reality for you guys in the modern world…sorry girls suck so much now.
It isn’t anyones fault other than the parents and the person who chooses to act that way. You have no reason to apologize. Also why do so many guys like big breasts? I find them to be a big turn off and small to be fantastic, like A cup or barely B cup… I can’t imagine what guys see in big breasts.
Its the monkey butts for me.
Brunettes with C cups and a toned physique. Upper crust.
I don’t think a career would help much.
you seem to have a thing for petite woman.
I can only applaud that.
I wonder who, other than woman and bluepills, would condemn it?
Seems to be mostly past experience. If your mama had pancake breasts, you’ll find girls with big knockers undesirable.
If she had big ones on the other hand, flat-chested girls are extremely “meh”.
thanks 😉 you probably don’t stand a chance with us though! 🙂
I think it’s the opposite.
My mom has a huge chest and I only had small-chested girls so far.
For me small tits = youth, large, hanging tits = old hags
Well damn, my mother had huge knockers so what does that say about my situation?
Imagine if you used your brain and concluded that my predilection is a result of try before you buy. Or is that wishful thinking?
you are a fucking idiot
And all me on this site look the absolute worst and expect Megan Fox, lol.
….um, those guys already have boyfriends
Just want to check what you look like as a man and whether you could truly expect to be with one of the “have” women so eloquently described here. I’m feeling not seeing as you had to boost your own ego by posting this here. Both men and women have enough trouble with body image even supposedly beautiful people never feel perfect. Why don’t we help each other out rather than constantly giving each other ridiculous standards to live up to?
Man, that one girl looks like Andre the Giant in drag…..
This is the thing; it’s not about what’s hot or not hot, because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Its really about being healthy, and everyone should maintain a healthy fat to muscle ratio. Thats it! All this other is ridiculous, and I agree that people who are over weight shouldn’t be given a by, they need to be whipped into shape for the sake of their health.
I always hear complaints about how “women are constantly bombarded with images, ads, and articles demanding that they be thin, fit, and gorgeous”…
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And then I look around and notice: “It doesn’t seem to be sinking in.” So why the complaints? These ‘pressures’ are obviously having no effect…..
Hahahah! I thought that only 16 year old guys thought like this but I guess I was wrong! Can men get more retarded than this? Hahahaha! And he wonders why his ex broke up with him? You just have to guess.. Idiot!- I am a documentary filmaker, illustrator, animator and grafical designer with a master in animation-and 57 kg, 163 cm tall, swedish, beautiful woman, 32 years old. I would never even look at an idiot like the guy that wrote the article.. That’s why he is single and I am not..
Why do you think men are attracted to the qualities that make you a good employee? It’s not like he’s hiring you to work for him, he’s looking for a girlfriend/wife. Learn what qualities men look for in a wife if you want to get married and stop giving other women bad advice.
Hey baby, I’m good at math and I can write some java, I have a degree in Chemistry so plz be my wife!!! I’m also very humble!!!111
Sorry Bo, I’m taken. Thank you for your kind thoughts though.
Awesome logic and reasoning skills there, lady…
If you had read more carefully, you’d figure out that he dumped the ex. Yet another example of how “intelligent” and “female” don’t go together.
HAHA, I love it!
These women who just hate us “misogynistic pigs” and our evil opinions so much, volunteer their weight, height, age, and achievements in every single post…Yes ladies it is quite clear you’re not interested in our attention and validation…How big are your tits again?
Whats a grafical designer? By the way, you dont own a horse do you?
Hahahah! I thought that only 16 year old guys thought like this but I guess I was wrong! Can men get more retarded than this? Hahahaha! And he wonders why his ex broke up with him? You just have to guess.. Idiot!- I am a documentary filmaker, illustrator, animator and grafical designer with a master in animation-and 57 kg, 163 cm tall, swedish, beautiful woman, 32 years old. I would never even look at an idiot like the guy that wrote the article.. That’s why he is single and I am not..
“I
took her out to lunch, and she shows up dressed up in tight fitting
navy blue skirt that hugged her slender waistline, and one of those
delicate silk blouses which showed off her nice, bony shoulders and her
pencil thin arms. On top of
that, she strategically left a middle button undone on her blouse such
that I could get an ample peek of her extraordinary breasts held up
delicately by her $75 La Perla bra decorated with all sorts of lace and
sequins.”
you should consider a career in writing erotica
I second this… Such attention to detail, which most erotica writers seem to fall short on.
“I
took her out to lunch, and she shows up dressed up in tight fitting
navy blue skirt that hugged her slender waistline, and one of those
delicate silk blouses which showed off her nice, bony shoulders and her
pencil thin arms. On top of
that, she strategically left a middle button undone on her blouse such
that I could get an ample peek of her extraordinary breasts held up
delicately by her $75 La Perla bra decorated with all sorts of lace and
sequins.”
you should consider a career in writing erotica
I take the liberty, on behalf of RoK, to thank all the feminazi trollers here for proving our thesis – namely that they are undatable just by virtue of being strident insufferable cunts, as amply demonstrated by the uninvited ‘opinions’ they are vomiting here. You’re welcome 🙂
I don’t agree with the c word in this instance, but i agree they’re not disproving RoK’s point.
Those 4 size 12 women in the middle are major outliers. Your average size 12 woman is a lot more blubbery. Of course women logic goes “She’s a size 12-> She looks pretty good-> I’m also a size 12-> I look just like her”
I think those must be European sizes. There’s no way a US size 8 looks like that.
I guess your dick’s just too tiny to fit into the big women, poor guy.
Nah, just inconvenient to need a route map and GPS to locate the pussy under the stacked rolls of fat.
I always heard growing up that the secret was to roll her in flour and look for the wet spot.
Feminists, manginas, and others-
We’re so sorry that we actually like slim, attractive women. You see, we all have issues with sleeping with whales, but at least we have the balls to admit it. You say that we’re misogynist pigs? Hardly. I support ACTUAL equality, not the crap that feminists put out there. Yes, men and women should be equal. That means equal responsibilities, equal rights, equal pay (for equal work and qualifications). That doesn’t mean that men should be drafted and die while women can sit on their asses. It was determined that women would be acceptable in combat roles, so now you have to live up to your “equality.” Equality doesn’t mean that men are fucked if they are accused of rape; it means that the charges are actually investigated.
Here’s the truth. You emasculated my generation and did a damn good job of it too. Most guys my age talk about “heteronormitivity” and how I’m a misogynist for actually calling it as I see it. They buy into all that crap about courtship and ‘chivalry.’ But guess what, things are changing. The Huffington Post decided to negatively report on this site. That means that a lot of people will enter the manosphere, because of publicity. That means that we grow stronger while you grow weaker.
Jezebel started this war. We will finish it. We are winning.
They are dying off because of health problems caused by obesity.
Roosh should put up a Ben N Jerrys ad on the side of this article. With all The Blubber Queens coming to troll he could make a mint off the click thrus.
Roosh should put up a Ben N Jerrys ad on the side of this article. With all The Blubber Queens coming to troll he could make a mint off the click thrus.
Roosh should put up a Ben N Jerrys ad on the side of this article. With all The Blubber Queens coming to troll he could make a mint off the click thrus.
Roosh should put up a Ben N Jerrys ad on the side of this article. With all The Blubber Queens coming to troll he could make a mint off the click thrus.
Roosh should put up a Ben N Jerrys ad on the side of this article. With all The Blubber Queens coming to troll he could make a mint off the click thrus.
Roosh should put up a Ben N Jerrys ad on the side of this article. With all The Blubber Queens coming to troll he could make a mint off the click thrus.
People who actually think this way make me physically ill. You are repulsive.
Do you realise how triggering this shit is?
Do you realise you assigned blame for a lack of self control?
You’re physically ill? Maybe it’s growing pains…
This site is getting more interesting than ever. We just need Tuthmosis to weigh in on this topic to ramp things up a notch.
If you’re here for the drama or the lulz, you’ve hit the jackpot.
We must have different tastes. I’d smash that woman walking down the cat walk. Look at those hips and thighs.
are you a american?This may explain the perversion of yours
We must have different tastes. I’d smash that woman walking down the cat walk. Look at those hips and thighs.
If you could see the triggering effect that articles like this, five reasons and fat shaming week have on women, you wouldn’t publish this sort of thing. There is no motive here other than to entertain the select few who share these views, but for the rest of us it is incredibly harmful. As a woman who has struggled with bulimia and depression for the last four years of my life, i assure you that these articles (which now appear all over my facebook newsfeed) are incredibly triggering. People can get over being offended, but being triggered can have dangerous and potentially life threatening consequences.
The writers and commenters on this website have an incredibly skewed view of what it is to ‘manage your weight’ as a modern woman, and further than that to have an ED. If you could know what it’s like to live as a woman under the influence of this mindset, you wouldn’t put this stuff online. It’s reading stuff like this that triggers eating disorders to worsen. The weights you set as ‘ideal’ indicate, most often, an underweight bmi, whilst the girls you slate as ‘fatties’ lie within the healthy region. Reading this shit makes perfectly healthy women feel insecure, and that leads to body dysmorphia. I would know.
Why do you read it knowing it’s a “trigger”? That’s what I’m not getting.. If I don’t like certain topics or articles, I just avoid them.
Also, in regards to managing your weight as a modern woman, eat well and be active. Simple.
You should remove the “you” from your account name. It would be more fitting.
LOLLLLLLL
“but being triggered can have dangerous and potentially life threatening consequences.”
Get out of here with your attention-seeking flailing. Seriously.
Your parents/friends/society may have mollycoddled you to the point where you think you’re a unique snowflake for having all of these 1st World problems, but here we deal in reality.
Dikembe is hungry as fuck in Somalia right now.
I’m 150lbs and no one has ever had a problem with my weight. I think this is probably the worse article on the planet because women who are bigger can be just as beautiful as skinny women.
not really, no
If a girl is overweight she is not likely to be deemed as attractive as another girl of leaner proportions. Humans are genetically programmed to have preferences toward other healthy individuals. Anyone that thinks obesity is acceptable is absolutely wrong. It is found less attractive by the majority of the opposite sex and is proven to be unhealthy.
Not quite. We are wired to lean towards generally healthy, but what constitutes our ideas of healthy are vary between cultures. For example, in cultures where the gender role for women is to collect food, larger women are considered more attractive than lean women.
It’s also important to keep in mind that thin doesn’t mean healthy any more than obese does. There are plenty of thin people who are naturally thin and still eat like trash. I’m related to a few of them. There are women who eat like shit, and use drugs to keep their weight down, or who binge junk food then use extreme diets to stay thin. I’ve known people who do all of these things, and none of them are healthy.
Weight is a terrible indicator of health, a better indicator is diet and activity level, along with body fat percentile and LOCATION, which is in everybody. My brother is a big guy, leaning towards chubby even, but he and I have about the same diet, and it’s very healthy. We also have high activity levels (we have to walk and run everywhere because it’s too expensive to keep a car in this city), My brother’s blood work, blood pressure, etc, is fine. On the other hand, my thin cousin has type 2 diabetes because he sucks down more candy and soda than anyone I’ve ever met. Like, he’ll go through a size pack of bottles a day like it’s nothing, and his primary form of meal prep is calling in delivery. He just happens to have thin genes, where as my brother tends to chubby naturally.
Tl;dr version: Healthy and weight can be related, but weight is a very misleading indicator of health, especially since our idea of healthy is socially programed more so than something we are born with.
BMI is not a great indicator of health. However, body composition is. Though I realize you probably have a limited understanding of basic statistics, your seeking out and finding statistical outliers does little to justify your argument.
“FAT WOMEN ARE JUST AS BEAUTIFUL!”. Fatty pls go.
“FAT WOMEN ARE JUST AS BEAUTIFUL!”. Fatty pls go.
You must guzzle so much cum since you’re clearly not getting any. Fucking doucher. Also all this is moot unless I see your 8 pack at… How old are you now, gramps? Fifty?
Fembot 3000 = blawz.
Why not post as the same person? Continuity would help your case. Then again, trolling is trolling. lol
Beauty is completely subjective. “Fat” guys get dates a lot easier than “fat” girls, but in reality anyone can end up with anyone else. Someone who is 4’8″ could end up with someone who is 6’1″ or someone larger could end up with someone larger. I have a dream that one day people will be judged by the content of their character rather than what they look like on the outside. By saying that this is the only type of woman who will find love is just putting unrealistic expectations on every female person. In Fiji, before our “first” world media reached them bigger was in fact considered better. If you were larger that meant that you were well taken care of and you were seen as beautiful. After OUR media reached them the amount of eating disorders skyrocketed. If you don’t like the way someone looks just don’t look at them. You don’t have to put any group of people down just to build yourself up. I hope you have a happy life and if you have (or ever have) a daughter that she is not sucked up in all these unrealistic expectations. Oh and by the way the “have nots” picture actually shows women of average healthy size (I am not saying skinnier or heavier people can’t necessarily be healthier, but that is the reality).
Beauty is a proxy for good health, so it’s not subjective. Fat guys get relatvely easier because beauty is not so great a factor of atraction for women as it is for men.
Beauty’s definition:
the quality present in a thing or person that gives intense pleasure or deep satisfaction to the mind, whether arising from sensory manifestations (as shape, color, sound, etc.), a meaningful design or pattern, or something else (as a personality in which high spiritual qualities are manifested).
Notice how it says IN rather than the outward appearance. So beauty is not only skin deep, ipso facto beauty is, infact, not a proxy for health (good bad or otherwise).
I did not put up my comment as an argument. There is a lot more that goes into being a handsome or beautiful person than what is on the outside. Anyone CAN change their appearance it is much harder to change what is on the inside. Being judgemental and hurtful is just as much an ugly quality as being overweight.
But then early menopause hit, and everything changed for the worse. The sex drive and motivation fell off a cliff. Then came the wrinkle lines, the constant nagging, wild mood swings, lecturing, and all the rest. That relationship ended.
Mxaddict14 .. going through the same thing myself…
YOU WIN THE RED PILL AWARD OF THE MONTH…. I WILL BUY YOU A DRINK ANYTIME …. drop me a line….
My dear misogynistic, pompous, stubborn assholes.
I am here to make a point that I hope will break through at least a few of your dimwitted, stereotype driven absurd beliefs.
The number of people out there, both men and women, who are truly ugly is a very very small portion of society.
Namely, the portion that lurks this site and harasses people from behind the ambiguity of an internet identity.
I will be frank so my opinion may be louder.
I am Addison Diamond, I am 20 years old, 5’2″, 115 pounds, Size D breast and with a tiny waist line to boot. I am your delightful have.
I am what you men would kill to get your grimy paws on, and I am exactly the thing you will never achieve until your attitude has legitimately changed.
My guess is most of you are either heavily biased against women due to some unfortunate experiences in your past or that you have had all too good of luck taking advantage of women who legitimately like you before casting them aside because “Your ship knows no harbor as home”.
Whatever your situation, and for whatever reason you view people in this limited scope of tunnel vision that you advertise as 20/20 have it all wrong.
You will be the ones who die alone.
You will be the ones without a family to hold your hand, without a place to rest your head, and more importantly without a woman to make sure that you are comfortable.
Your beliefs are the poison our society thrives on, and just like every other addict’s vice, it will destroy you.
It will rip you apart and leave you dry.
Sure, you may fuck 200 cute, willing, adoring girls on the way. You may make shallow connections in these bars you haunt, and you may get some people who cry because they lost you.
However, the time is inevitably coming when you will realize how empty life is alone. It may be twenty or even fifty years from now, but it will come.
You may share your bed with a woman at this point, and she may actually love you, but both you and her will be down right ashamed of the way you acted in your youth.
You are trash for making women look at themselves as less than perfect. People like you have slowly degraded our society to this point and can only wreck our standards further. This is not encouragement for women to be healthy. This is encouragement for any woman with a sensible mind to realize you are an idiot not worth the salty slime of your semen.
Please and sincerely, go stick your little fleshy soldier in a wasp’s nest.
5’2 115 lbs!? I love a woman with meat on her bones that few exra pounds look good on you sista! Honestly though 5’2 u should be like 110 lbs max.
English isn’t your second language is it? It’s adorable like your emo hair style.
We all die alone, women are expired by 30. This society was caused by single mothers screwing dead beat dads.
Tl;dr: Is your poop shoot an option? lzozolzlzz
This is ridiculous, Addison is perfect the way she is. She doesn’t have any extra “pounds” she is thin and beatiful.
Unless you’re a lesbian. Your opinion on women doesn’t mean anything.
How many models have you dated? None? Figures.
Her Facebook page, her last post about ROK: You can see more threats of violence. https://www.facebook.com/addi.love.5/posts/10201506784530380 Yet again, the ever loving, totally tolerant not at all Misandrists, strike again.
Her Facebook page, her last post about ROK: You can see more threats of violence. https://www.facebook.com/addi.love.5/posts/10201506784530380 Yet again, the ever loving, totally tolerant not at all Misandrists, strike again.
Her Facebook page, her last post about ROK: You can see more threats of violence. https://www.facebook.com/addi.love.5/posts/10201506784530380 Yet again, the ever loving, totally tolerant not at all Misandrists, strike again.
Her Facebook page, her last post about ROK: You can see more threats of violence. https://www.facebook.com/addi.love.5/posts/10201506784530380 Yet again, the ever loving, totally tolerant not at all Misandrists, strike again.
Her Facebook page, her last post about ROK: You can see more threats of violence. https://www.facebook.com/addi.love.5/posts/10201506784530380 Yet again, the ever loving, totally tolerant not at all Misandrists, strike again.
Actually, English is my second language. ^^ How nice of you to notice. <3 My first language is Russian.
And sweety, my breasts carry the weight, not my waist.
32D bra. Size 3 pants.
Honey, you can talk all the shit you like but we all know you’ll fap to this later. ;D
Figured… one of my girlfriends is Eastern Europen you see.. you all speak the same.
I doubt your breast each weigh 30 lbs. Chicks like you should be size 0 no exceptions.
Fapping is a sin.
I think you have me confused with all the other guys. To me you are all replaceable.
Yo all I gotta say, is your look kinda like Justin Bieber…
Yo all I gotta say, is your look kinda like Justin Bieber…
You sure dont look fappable to me.
You sure dont look fappable to me.
Русские девушки маленькая грудь
In Russia a size 3 is a large
“You are trash for making women look at themselves as less than perfect”
And the male identity hasn’t been dehumanized and assassinated by feminism?
e.g. all men are pigs/all men are stupid,all men are rapists etc
It’s not like you guys are disproving the stereotype that all men are “pigs” by posting on this website, calling women fat and ugly. All you’re doing is reinforcing it.
its a stereotype to find skinny/slender woman more attractive than fat women? Earth to Casey, this is the norm.
The same norm as how you find a handsome rich guy more attractive than a fat, broke guy
If you actually read the article, the author is merely reporting his observations, namely that women who make an effort to stay fit and attractive get a lot more attention from potential partners. You know, just like you girls would categorize men into ‘losers’ and ‘non losers’.
Such a mind boggling, ground breaking concept …
well, SOME women ARE fat and ugly. Most of them are feminists.
I saw your FB you are definitely fat and doughy especially for a very young girl your age and can easily see you at about 180 within 7 years and this goes into why your breasts are so big given your height. All your lard intake is going first to your chest. You should be under 100 lbs given your height.
Your tirade is hampered by confirmation bias. It also makes many assumptions which show that the essence of RoK is far above your paygrade to comprehend.
[email protected] her paygrade. I would chance to say we are above many of these womens paygrades. There is a lot more to life than writing snarky twitter posts using the trendy word of the day.
[email protected] her paygrade. I would chance to say we are above many of these womens paygrades. There is a lot more to life than writing snarky twitter posts using the trendy word of the day.
“You are trash for making women look at themselves as less than perfect”
Dafuq? Do I agree with this article? No. I like homegirl second from the bottom more than those skin and bones chicks. #Sir-Mix-Alot
But you just admitted women see themselves as perfect. This is why today’s men are finding the majority of women to be too narcissistic to deal with (among other issues). Not a single person on this Earth is perfect. It’s ok to recognize oneself as imperfect. Perhaps if it takes articles like this for those types of women to get that no, they’re not at all perfect, then this article should exist.
Also your last sentence is pretty misandrist, but I’d bet you’d take issue with a man making a similar comment about a woman and her genitalia. That’s called “hypocrisy.”
She’d be alright without the stomach chub.
Somebody once said jumping into bed with a skinny chick is like taking a bath with wire clotheshangers. Or something like that. Whatever it was, to me I don’t really mind it that much if it’s slight. Not if it’s really out there and most certainly not to the point where it folds over.
You’re acting like she’d want to be with you. You crustaceans aren’t worthy.
Sigh. So I have to swallow my hopes and dreams, accept that 200 lb women are “the new normal”, and get the cialis prescription to trick my body into being attracted to them. Or die alone.
So now the only default acceptable position is that every woman is ‘perfect’ no matter what? Talk of embracing delusion! lolzlolzolzolzolzolozzz!!
Btw, all these ‘perfect’ women sure don’t see every man as ‘perfect’, judging from their shopping list of what they look for in a man. Of course it’s only bad for men to have standards, isn’t it.
You’re really fat. At 115 lbs you should be 5’8″ to look normal
This article is really subjective. You can’t just throw your personal preferences into the world and expect everyone to agree with them. I understand, that some people just are attracted to an specific body type and would never date someone who doesn’t fit into said category. But you do realise, that just because YOU think someone is unattractive, that doesn’t mean everybody else feels the same? I, personally, think that every single woman you used as an example in your ‘article’ is very attractive and in fact, not fat. What you used as examples are normal women. Your expactions of women and of ‘Haves’ are, in fact, above the standart. As in, really above it. You can’t change biology. People come in all shapes and forms and some women just have bigger hips and thicker thighs than other and they can’t do shit about it. And saying that they could get plastic surgery? Do you know how expensive that is? Going to the gym? Well, you can’t do much about simple bone structur! Women with wide hips aren’t fat, as you say, but have a different bonestructur. Yeah. Try to get rid of bones in the gym. I mean, sure, they could probably hunger themselves to death just to
please you, since apparently you are the center of the universe, but let’s be realistic. You are generalising women to a standard which is simply delusional. You are in fact reducing women to nothing more than your objects of pleasure. You are reducing women to something you can own. You seem to forget that women are HUMAN BEINGS. We do not exist simply for your pleasure. We do not exist to please you. Women are diverse, just like men. Women are human, just like men. And please, stop generalising YOUR OWN GENDER. As I said. Human come in all shapes and forms and we should accept that. There are some people you like to look at, there are some people who you don’t like to look at. Men and Women. Both. And I have to ask you, what are you even trying to achieve with articles like these? Just because some men on the internet say that they prefer thin, slim women over other shaped ones, doesn’t mean that women who read this will suddenly change their set of mind. I know I don’t. I know other women don’t. I actually know, most women won’t. I mean, I guess you can voice your opinion, just as I can voice mine, but that doesn’t mean every opinion should be voiced. And I know that my comment will either be deleted, ignored or bombarded with profanities and stupid jokes. But that’s alright. I don’t care. I know who I am, you know who you are and I’d love to have an actual discussion with someone on here, but that probably won’t happen. 🙂
Name one fatty mctruck on…
FHM
Maxim
Playboy
What do plastic surgeons follow? I know they all keep celeb magazines as models.
QET
Beauty is objective and not a societal or cultural construct but driven primarily by biology and no amount of sophistry will obfuscate the TRUTH.
1. The standards of beauty change. A few hundred years ago, women who were chubby and actually fat would be considered healthy, desirable. Why? Because more body mass would mean more food would mean healthier offsprings. In todays society we have a thinking of ‘the thinner the better’. Of course we have better healthcare and yada yada so we have the possibility to allow ourselfs that kind of thinking. But don’t you think it gets harmful the second someone makes it a general standart? Something EVERYONE should be? It’s hurtful and plain rude. And pretty simplistic to be honest. Also, wouldn’t the world be boring, if everyone looks the same?
2. Plastic surgeons follow what their patients tell them to do. There simply aren’t any ‘fat injections’ for underweight/anorexic/bulimic people because we can eat fat in form of food.
3. Beauty is subjective because people like different things and have different kinds of beauty.
4. Do you know the difference between media and real life? I know it’s supposed to reflect real life but media kind of fails at it. Dude, not even the woman on the cover, looks like the woman on the cover. The magic word is photoshop.
Nope. Try trolling harder.
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/10/13/beauty-is-not-mysterious/
I thought we were talking about body proportions and not the symetry of faces, but alraight. The author of the article on here even said himself and I cite: They don’t even have to be that pretty in the face, they just need to have the right “look”.
And the article you send me is about a program which ‘beautifies’ people. What do you think how many people on this planet have a perfect facial symetry? Also, just because someone is ‘prettier’ doesn’t mean that the ‘not so pretty person’ cant’ be beautiful in her own way. Humans are not synthetic and not perfect. A symetric face might be aestethic but that does not mean, it’s more beautiful than any other one. Try arguing harder.
I thought we were talking about body proportions and not the symetry of faces, but alraight. The author of the article on here even said himself and I cite: They don’t even have to be that pretty in the face, they just need to have the right “look”.
And the article you send me is about a program which ‘beautifies’ people. What do you think how many people on this planet have a perfect facial symetry? Also, just because someone is ‘prettier’ doesn’t mean that the ‘not so pretty person’ cant’ be beautiful in her own way. Humans are not synthetic and not perfect. A symetric face might be aestethic but that does not mean, it’s more beautiful than any other one. Try arguing harder.
I thought we were talking about body proportions and not the symetry of faces, but alraight. The author of the article on here even said himself and I cite: They don’t even have to be that pretty in the face, they just need to have the right “look”.
And the article you send me is about a program which ‘beautifies’ people. What do you think how many people on this planet have a perfect facial symetry? Also, just because someone is ‘prettier’ doesn’t mean that the ‘not so pretty person’ cant’ be beautiful in her own way. Humans are not synthetic and not perfect. A symetric face might be aestethic but that does not mean, it’s more beautiful than any other one. Try arguing harder.
I thought we were talking about body proportions and not the symetry of faces, but alraight. The author of the article on here even said himself and I cite: They don’t even have to be that pretty in the face, they just need to have the right “look”.
And the article you send me is about a program which ‘beautifies’ people. What do you think how many people on this planet have a perfect facial symetry? Also, just because someone is ‘prettier’ doesn’t mean that the ‘not so pretty person’ cant’ be beautiful in her own way. Humans are not synthetic and not perfect. A symetric face might be aestethic but that does not mean, it’s more beautiful than any other one. Try arguing harder.
Holy shit do I have to walk through you all of Roissy’s post on beauty? Seriously do your own research you lazy dumbass. There are about 10 other posts with 30 links that disprove all your points on that site.
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/10/03/the-beauty-ratio/
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/11/18/a-quantifiable-objective-standard-of-beauty/
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/even-blind-men-prefer-the-optimal-0-7-waist-to-hip-ratio/
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/same-three-girls/
Facial symmetry is part of physical beauty and quantifiable and measurable. Why do you think plastic surgeons keep magazines around?
How do you explain blind men preferring 0.7 hip ratio?
Holy shit do I have to walk through you all of Roissy’s post on beauty? Seriously do your own research you lazy dumbass. There are about 10 other posts with 30 links that disprove all your points on that site.
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/10/03/the-beauty-ratio/
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/11/18/a-quantifiable-objective-standard-of-beauty/
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/even-blind-men-prefer-the-optimal-0-7-waist-to-hip-ratio/
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/same-three-girls/
Facial symmetry is part of physical beauty and quantifiable and measurable. Why do you think plastic surgeons keep magazines around?
How do you explain blind men preferring 0.7 hip ratio?
Holy shit do I have to walk through you all of Roissy’s post on beauty? Seriously do your own research you lazy dumbass. There are about 10 other posts with 30 links that disprove all your points on that site.
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/10/03/the-beauty-ratio/
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/11/18/a-quantifiable-objective-standard-of-beauty/
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/even-blind-men-prefer-the-optimal-0-7-waist-to-hip-ratio/
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/same-three-girls/
Facial symmetry is part of physical beauty and quantifiable and measurable. Why do you think plastic surgeons keep magazines around?
How do you explain blind men preferring 0.7 hip ratio?
Oh my fucking god, yes you do. Alright fucktard it’s on. First I never said you are WRONG. I KNOW that symetrical faces are generally seen ‘more attractive’ than other simply for the symetricity. It’s a fact and I never doubted that, did I?
http://www.tu-chemnitz.de/hsw/psychologie/professuren/allpsy2/Artikel/JEPHPP_2006.pdf
Alright, this one is pretty long and you can read it all (I did asshat so don’t even try shit with me) or just skip to the conclusion I don’t care. It basically explains the difference between ‘shared taste’ and ‘individual taste’.
What I wanted to say was, that while you can messure ‘beauty’ with math, equations etc., there will always be the aspect of individualsim and the change of society. And not even plastic surgeons can transform a face to perfect symetrical beauty. So rather holding tight onto the illusion of finding the perfect woman, get realistic and move on. I said it and I will say it again, humans are not perfect and they never will be. And honestly? I’ve seen the ugliest women finding someone who loves and cheerishes them. And can I just point the fuck out that you are completly forgetting the aspect of a personality behind a pretty face? Or ugly face or whatever? Serously fuck off with your wordpress articles. Christ.
Some people like fat, most agree with this guy. Some like average or a little chunk/junk. End of your opinion.
So you’re speaking for let’s say for most of the 3.517.255.725 men on this planet ? Yeah ? Sounds realistic.
No I’m speaking for any man in a 1st world country that doesn’t have a fat fetish or blue pill “all women are beautiful the way they are” mentality.
You don’t have to have a ‘all women are beautiful’ mentality to be a decent human being. Dude, I don’t have that mentality either. There are women who I think are attractive and there are women who don’t think are attractive. But saying that EVERY woman on this planet should be EXACTLY that way I want them to be is a bit farfetched, isn’t it ?
OF course it is far fetched, There are many men (lets say 3 billion) on the planet. If 1% of them likes fat women that means we have 30 million (mental math so correct me if I’m wrong) of men who like that. So saying all women should be thin is very wrong since there are at least 30 million people who like that type of thing. However to attract the other % above with a majority of number the majority of women should be thin.
But isn’t ‘being thin’ a really flexible construct? I, just personally, think that the women in the third picture are rather slender. Curvy but definetly in the slender category. Also ‘thin’ does not always mean ‘thin’. Some thin women have perfect proportions and a hourglass figure, some women are thin and are rather flat chested. Some women are thin but muscular and some are thin with hardly any muscle defenition.
And can I just point out that women are not only their body? That women are actually living, breathing human beings with actual personalities and feelings? We aren’t some flat characters from a romance novel. Don’t you agree that people could fall in love with each other because of their personalities? Their chemestry together?
For arguments sake I will assume your curvy definition is like this :http://cdn.lolzbook.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/This-is-curvy-this-is-not..jpg and not the opposite. Thin is a flexible construct, these are thin.
http://hourglasswomen.net/famous_hourglass_women/famous_women_images/Elisandra-Tomacheski_bst.jpg
http://i00.i.aliimg.com/wsphoto/v0/1153825378/-font-b-Peacoat-b-font-Women-Buocatt-trend-women-s-long-sleeve-hoodie-thin-font.jpg
http://image.dhgate.com/albu_301623838_00-1.0×0/future-diary-mirai-nikki-gasai-yuno-anime.jpg
This is too thin:
http://i.imgur.com/Nw3jB7A.png
This is not thin:
http://i.imgur.com/Sss2fOZ.png
http://i.imgur.com/mmYLNZM.png
And to the next point. ENTIRELY NO!!! NEVER! Women are far more than their body. I agree with this in every way shape and form. Except by women I mean good women. Westernized women, usually defined as whores, are judged only by their body because they offer nothing but shit in every other category. Won’t cook, won’t clean, won’t have a good personality, won’t be modest, won’t be a virgin, won’t won’t won’t won’t. In a world of so many won’ts what else is their to judge women by? If not their body then what? Honestly answer this, since if we are supposed to judge women based on personality most are between wretched hag ravens or just plain bitchy. The other types are boring personality, princess slut personality, and then wantyoutolikemesoiwillfakeapersonality personality. They have feeling and personalities and I want a woman with a good personality. I would be happy with a slightly fat woman if she had an awesome personality and wasn’t a slut. But alas this too much to ask. But yes I agree, almost blue pill like, that people can and SHOULD fall in love because of personalities. But that isn’t the case, at least it is rare, and people marry because of superficial reasons. Guy is alpha and must construct some kind of personality if he doesn’t have money, if guy has money or is alpha and has money no personality is needed, same as if a woman is hot… If you don’t want personality women will take the rich and men will take the beautiful… But why do you think poor alphas or ugly alphas get laid? That is because they have personality. Why do you think men don’t want fat women? Because they are the same as thin attractive women personality wise but not attractiveness wise..
So yes I believe in personality love, I would give everything for a nice virgin girl with a good personality that I can love with all my heart.
For arguments sake I will assume your curvy definition is like this :http://cdn.lolzbook.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/This-is-curvy-this-is-not..jpg and not the opposite. Thin is a flexible construct, these are thin.
http://hourglasswomen.net/famous_hourglass_women/famous_women_images/Elisandra-Tomacheski_bst.jpg
http://i00.i.aliimg.com/wsphoto/v0/1153825378/-font-b-Peacoat-b-font-Women-Buocatt-trend-women-s-long-sleeve-hoodie-thin-font.jpg
http://image.dhgate.com/albu_301623838_00-1.0×0/future-diary-mirai-nikki-gasai-yuno-anime.jpg
This is too thin:
http://i.imgur.com/Nw3jB7A.png
This is not thin:
http://i.imgur.com/Sss2fOZ.png
http://i.imgur.com/mmYLNZM.png
And to the next point. ENTIRELY NO!!! NEVER! Women are far more than their body. I agree with this in every way shape and form. Except by women I mean good women. Westernized women, usually defined as whores, are judged only by their body because they offer nothing but shit in every other category. Won’t cook, won’t clean, won’t have a good personality, won’t be modest, won’t be a virgin, won’t won’t won’t won’t. In a world of so many won’ts what else is their to judge women by? If not their body then what? Honestly answer this, since if we are supposed to judge women based on personality most are between wretched hag ravens or just plain bitchy. The other types are boring personality, princess slut personality, and then wantyoutolikemesoiwillfakeapersonality personality. They have feeling and personalities and I want a woman with a good personality. I would be happy with a slightly fat woman if she had an awesome personality and wasn’t a slut. But alas this too much to ask. But yes I agree, almost blue pill like, that people can and SHOULD fall in love because of personalities. But that isn’t the case, at least it is rare, and people marry because of superficial reasons. Guy is alpha and must construct some kind of personality if he doesn’t have money, if guy has money or is alpha and has money no personality is needed, same as if a woman is hot… If you don’t want personality women will take the rich and men will take the beautiful… But why do you think poor alphas or ugly alphas get laid? That is because they have personality. Why do you think men don’t want fat women? Because they are the same as thin attractive women personality wise but not attractiveness wise..
So yes I believe in personality love, I would give everything for a nice virgin girl with a good personality that I can love with all my heart.
For arguments sake I will assume your curvy definition is like this :http://cdn.lolzbook.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/This-is-curvy-this-is-not..jpg and not the opposite. Thin is a flexible construct, these are thin.
http://hourglasswomen.net/famous_hourglass_women/famous_women_images/Elisandra-Tomacheski_bst.jpg
http://i00.i.aliimg.com/wsphoto/v0/1153825378/-font-b-Peacoat-b-font-Women-Buocatt-trend-women-s-long-sleeve-hoodie-thin-font.jpg
http://image.dhgate.com/albu_301623838_00-1.0×0/future-diary-mirai-nikki-gasai-yuno-anime.jpg
This is too thin:
http://i.imgur.com/Nw3jB7A.png
This is not thin:
http://i.imgur.com/Sss2fOZ.png
http://i.imgur.com/mmYLNZM.png
And to the next point. ENTIRELY NO!!! NEVER! Women are far more than their body. I agree with this in every way shape and form. Except by women I mean good women. Westernized women, usually defined as whores, are judged only by their body because they offer nothing but shit in every other category. Won’t cook, won’t clean, won’t have a good personality, won’t be modest, won’t be a virgin, won’t won’t won’t won’t. In a world of so many won’ts what else is their to judge women by? If not their body then what? Honestly answer this, since if we are supposed to judge women based on personality most are between wretched hag ravens or just plain bitchy. The other types are boring personality, princess slut personality, and then wantyoutolikemesoiwillfakeapersonality personality. They have feeling and personalities and I want a woman with a good personality. I would be happy with a slightly fat woman if she had an awesome personality and wasn’t a slut. But alas this too much to ask. But yes I agree, almost blue pill like, that people can and SHOULD fall in love because of personalities. But that isn’t the case, at least it is rare, and people marry because of superficial reasons. Guy is alpha and must construct some kind of personality if he doesn’t have money, if guy has money or is alpha and has money no personality is needed, same as if a woman is hot… If you don’t want personality women will take the rich and men will take the beautiful… But why do you think poor alphas or ugly alphas get laid? That is because they have personality. Why do you think men don’t want fat women? Because they are the same as thin attractive women personality wise but not attractiveness wise..
So yes I believe in personality love, I would give everything for a nice virgin girl with a good personality that I can love with all my heart.
For arguments sake I will assume your curvy definition is like this :http://cdn.lolzbook.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/This-is-curvy-this-is-not..jpg and not the opposite. Thin is a flexible construct, these are thin.
http://hourglasswomen.net/famous_hourglass_women/famous_women_images/Elisandra-Tomacheski_bst.jpg
http://i00.i.aliimg.com/wsphoto/v0/1153825378/-font-b-Peacoat-b-font-Women-Buocatt-trend-women-s-long-sleeve-hoodie-thin-font.jpg
http://image.dhgate.com/albu_301623838_00-1.0×0/future-diary-mirai-nikki-gasai-yuno-anime.jpg
This is too thin:
http://i.imgur.com/Nw3jB7A.png
This is not thin:
http://i.imgur.com/Sss2fOZ.png
http://i.imgur.com/mmYLNZM.png
And to the next point. ENTIRELY NO!!! NEVER! Women are far more than their body. I agree with this in every way shape and form. Except by women I mean good women. Westernized women, usually defined as whores, are judged only by their body because they offer nothing but shit in every other category. Won’t cook, won’t clean, won’t have a good personality, won’t be modest, won’t be a virgin, won’t won’t won’t won’t. In a world of so many won’ts what else is their to judge women by? If not their body then what? Honestly answer this, since if we are supposed to judge women based on personality most are between wretched hag ravens or just plain bitchy. The other types are boring personality, princess slut personality, and then wantyoutolikemesoiwillfakeapersonality personality. They have feeling and personalities and I want a woman with a good personality. I would be happy with a slightly fat woman if she had an awesome personality and wasn’t a slut. But alas this too much to ask. But yes I agree, almost blue pill like, that people can and SHOULD fall in love because of personalities. But that isn’t the case, at least it is rare, and people marry because of superficial reasons. Guy is alpha and must construct some kind of personality if he doesn’t have money, if guy has money or is alpha and has money no personality is needed, same as if a woman is hot… If you don’t want personality women will take the rich and men will take the beautiful… But why do you think poor alphas or ugly alphas get laid? That is because they have personality. Why do you think men don’t want fat women? Because they are the same as thin attractive women personality wise but not attractiveness wise..
So yes I believe in personality love, I would give everything for a nice virgin girl with a good personality that I can love with all my heart.
Oh god, I’m done. I’m fucking done. Done with this shit. I don’t even know how to response to that. This is literally the biggest piece of bullshit I’ve read in my entire live. Jesus fucking christ. Trying to reason with you guys on here proves to to unneccesairy. I just … no. Nope. Nuhu. So noping out of here like fuck the what. I’m not even angry anymore. Just impressed, really. I’ll do myself a favour and not stress myself because of mysogynistic bullshit. Seriously though eat shit and die. A nice virgin girl, I’m laughing. Laughing so hard. Sexual freedom is a construct you don’t seem to understand. And for everything else I just .. ugh. You are one dumb piece of shit. One dumb piece of fucking shit. All of you. Fucking idiots. I’m out. Go choke on your fucking sandwich. Thank you and good night. *leaves stage and fucks off into the night because you guys are impossible*
Oh god, I’m done. I’m fucking done. Done with this shit. I don’t even know how to response to that. This is literally the biggest piece of bullshit I’ve read in my entire live. Jesus fucking christ. Trying to reason with you guys on here proves to to unneccesairy. I just … no. Nope. Nuhu. So noping out of here like fuck the what. I’m not even angry anymore. Just impressed, really. I’ll do myself a favour and not stress myself because of mysogynistic bullshit. Seriously though eat shit and die. A nice virgin girl, I’m laughing. Laughing so hard. Sexual freedom is a construct you don’t seem to understand. And for everything else I just .. ugh. You are one dumb piece of shit. One dumb piece of fucking shit. All of you. Fucking idiots. I’m out. Go choke on your fucking sandwich. Thank you and good night. *leaves stage and fucks off into the night because you guys are impossible*
Lol, so I take the time to post something and in the end you sum it up “fuck off”. Well anyway why is it so bad to want a virgin woman? You said nothing else of reply given you had nothing that could counter me (I assume).
I wrote a comment on youtube once that said “most men have a 2 dick or less rule.” One woman told me anyone with that rule is excluded from her marriage pool, as if she’s the one that will be proposing. I simply said “good luck.”
“2 dicks or less, and one of those two better be mine” I could accept one partner but I would prefer that all guys make the rule of “1 dick or less and that one dick needs to be mine”. +1 🙂
My personal rule is no more than me. I don’t believe that if I’m saving myself for marriage that I have to settle for a non-virgin.
Well that escalated quickly.
I’m a woman and I thought that your reply was 100% on point. Please don’t think that all women are like the commenter “No” — virginity is an extremely important characteristic for a woman — and I’ll even go as far as saying mental purity because virginity alone does not dictate a woman’s worth. Once a woman loses her virginity, what’s to prevent her from becoming a loose woman (see Jessica Simpson)?
What the commenter fails to realize is that sexual “freedom” is not liberating in any sense. It’s a faulty modern social construct that begets broken homes, broken minds, and an illusion of happiness that will never be reached.
Dan, you have every right to find a virgin woman with a good personality. Just as I, female, deserve to find a good man with solid principles and integrity (who hopefully isn’t sexually promiscuous either, because I don’t find a man who cannot rein his carnal nature particularly attractive. Nothing is sexier than a man with discipline and standards). We should uphold the same standards that we wish to find in our partners.
None of the “have nots” in the aritcle are even remotely fat. Also, large breasts, which I know many Guys find attractive, are made from fat. Women wih zero fat on their body usually don’t develop any curves.
And the Guys WHO think anything above 110 ibs is fat? just proves how delusional they are.
Also weight can be tricky because if you work out a lot each week as I do, you’ll gain weight as your muscle mass increases.
So I agree with you, in the end it’s the shape of your body and how it deposits fat that Counts.
I just don’t understand why you have to insult the average woman in the process of making your point. I am 5’6 and 135 pounds and I’m not fat whatsoever, but I am incredibly insulted by your views on women. This is your personal opinion, I get that but you do not need to spew hatred, and make women with beautiful bodies (that maybe you don’t think are attractive) feel like shit. It’s unnecessary and cruel.
You probably are a little bit fat, not intolerable fat nor ugly fat but still fat that could be better if you shed 20 pounds of it off. Although if you a 5’11 or 6’1 woman then your weight is probably good for your height. But you aren’t either one of those, 110 is the weight needed by 5’6 women.
What would you recommend for a gal who is 5’4″?
100 lbs tops unless you have naturally large breasts
Holy fuck, I have never ever ever been that weight at this height. I can’t tell if you guys are serious or doing some seriously epic trolling
They are trolling for sure.
put down the cakes, bread and bad carbs you’ll get there
It’s true, I let myself get this big. I do want to get skinnier, but I am what you call a stress eater. Need more yoga, need less cupcakes, lulz.
Their trolling. At 5’4, a good weight would be between 108 and 140 depending on your frame size, muscle mass, etc.
No. I am an athlete, and my weight comes from muscle. And for your information 110 pounds is an unhealthy weight for a 5’6 woman. I would just like to ask how much you weigh because judging by your fucking anime profile picture I’m gonna say you sir are fat. Or at least a faggot.
I bet you are perfect dear, ignore this hate. No matter what you say these trolls will say you are fat and you are by no means fat.
OH don’t worry about that, I’m a fat man. No unbearably fat but still fat non the less. However I have a salary well over 150,000$ a year. So you are right, I am fat, but I have the right to what I say because I get girls thinner than you (probably since no picture to see) on a regular basis for that simple fact alone. I’m not above buying hot women.
Really? That’s all you make? Your ego and your salary are seriously out of proportion buddy. I don’t even agree with the idea that men’s worth is tied to their salary, but if I did I would NOT be impressed by you. I have friends who just graduated from college a year ago who are making that much. “well over” $150,000 a year (and I’m assuming by “well over” you mean around $155,000 a year otherwise you would have gone with something like “Close to a quarter million dollars a year” or “Around $200,00”) is only impressive if you live in some Hicksvllle hell hole where Mazda 6’s are considered fancy cars and the classiest local restaurant is Red Lobster. You don’t make enough to justify your ego, let alone excuse your god awful personality, or, according to your own logic, your fugliness. I pity the women you “get”, because they could clearly do better.
And by the facts you said friends I’m assuming you are very poor and can only wish to have even half of my income. My income may be small compared to many other people, but I outshine far more people than I am shadowed by. Simply put, my money is more than you find at the average bar or hook up area and that alone justifies every bit about me. So if your friends make more than me then that is fine. If you find me small or nothing interesting then that is fine too. Your opinion on my salary doesn’t change anything about my life, the very fact that I get gorgeous girls whenever I want is enough to satisfy my ego. For the last point, women can do better than me and can do worse. I am not the top of all men but I am far from the bottom. If a woman simply isn’t a slut and enjoys some of the activities I enjoy then I am perfect, for what else could any person ask for but a person who enjoys their company and activities? If not then I will simply make a small trip to another country and enjoy the pleasure of “questionably aged” prostitutes and still satisfy my ego. Hope you find someone better than me, since most guys with my or over my amount of money don’t want used up sluts unless they are new to money and still naively believe in the fiction of love with a slut.
“Questionably aged prostitutes”? Did you just imply you’re a pedophile or you’re buying sex from girls who are underage? What the fuck? That sounds so disgusting and horrible. i work with NGOs that deal with children who are trafficked and turned in to sex slaves and forced prostitutes, and that’s so fucking wrong.
I didn’t imply anything. That sounds so disgusting and horrible, well so do clams and escargot, but they are delicious once you try them. Also just a tip, not all prostitution is bad nor is it all forced. Many times those forced into prostitution would of died on the streets or starved to death, now some wouldn’t but the fact is some lives are saved by it. And what about the willing ones? What about the ones that want a new gameboy and then sell themselves for 150$. Not all prostitution is forced nor wrong, but some is too. Not all men are rapists, but some are. You can’t say all men are rapists because some rape, just like you can’t say all prostitution is bad just because some of them are bad.
PS: I was thinking like 15 or 14, in a country where that is legal. Nothing below 12 since that is the youngest I can think of in countries I would go. But to be fair to any and all laws, this is all hypothetical.
A man tells a woman what he finds attractive. Her response is you have no right to tell us what we need to do. Fine, lets play along with that game. We are all equal here right? Ok great so
Why do women then turn around and tell men what they need to do, feel, say and act?
Women through time have told men what they need to do from getting a job to mowing the lawn to not watch football all day. This won’t ever end, women by nature MUST seek out something to correct or improve in her eyes.
So you’d think women more than anyone would completely relate to when men do the same thing back. Ladies it’s a horrible eating disorder to continue to gain weight. Notice when you go out and now it’s normal to see more big women than big men? Think back just 15 years or so ago this was rare.
I can’t think of a lazier group of people than white American women. They are also a laughing stock across the world. Ever foreign country I’ve visited at least once I am asked why are American women so big and fat.
Women who are fat don’t deserve love or anything like that. No woman is fat by genetics, I mean some may have a slower metabolism or something along those lines but with proper diet and hard exercise every woman can be thin and attractive, and since most AMERICAN WOMEN/WESTERN WOMEN are filthy used up whores with no personality it shouldn’t ever be surprising when you are expected to attract men that have what you want, money, with your body since you have nothing else to offer other than pure selfish princess personality without princess pride and dignity part.
Men can be fat, ugly, and whatever else since all it takes to get a good woman is either money or alpha + game, since I have seen poor fat and ugly men having bombshell 19 year old women that drool over them.
Yeah, being alpha male is all fine and good, but if you can’t perform then it’s kind of pointless. Fat old guys in poor health certainly aren’t going to be able to satisfy a how sweet young woman sexually, no matter how alpha he is. If he’s not attractive, not capable of fucking, and if all women are as shallow and slutty as you say they are, then I don’t see how how those men are getting any.
Who said they care about her sexually? If it is just a pump n dump then an alpha has no need to please her. If a man gets a woman to the bed that draws the line, anything else is extra. And those sluts we take up to our bed, well to put it simply we couldn’t care less about their sexual pleasure. We care enough to get them their, use them, and then leave. Women who aren’t virgins are simply objects so excuse me if I use my object with considering its pleasure. Next time I open a door I will ask if its hinges are feeling alright.
PS: If women don’t want to be objects then they have to have value, although those women that fall can never rise again. I consider it like a modified caste system. All castes can reach the upper level but once they fall through a level they can never rise again.
what the fuck is this. have you ever fuck a woman that wasnt that one woman. 5 years is such a sort time. kiddos for her for leaving you.
Lol that bitch went through menopause, it isn’t surprising he had to dump her. Women are mean’t to only live up until menopause since during and after they become total hag ravens not worthy of anything while only becoming more and more ugly while being bitchier and bitchier. Women are good from about 12-30, and no I am not a pedophile but lets face it, genetically speaking we are mean’t to be with 12 year old girls.
Why anyone would want to be with someone as shallow as the author of this article is far, FAR beyond me.
Because he probably has an alpha personality with money to back up whatever he lacks. That is why. Why do girls like bad boys? Because they are fucking sluts that like that type of thing that treats them like shit, but they also like bad boys with money more.
Can women stop using the “national average” as an argument? The country has an obesity epidemic!
Yes the USA does have an obesity epidemic but it is women & MEN that get factored into that. Look at national averages for other countries and they will have the equivalent to size 10 -12 in american sizing. No one should judge someone else like that, but unless you can fit into a size 4 pant for women (you can cut out the crotch so your dingleberries can breath) then you have absolutely no room to judge. Women naturally have wider hips.
I am female. And I am a 0-2. Does that mean I do have room to judge? I was just saying girls make excuses for poor health choices based off this “natural average” excuse.
Looking back over my comment I realize that I definitely phrased my comment completely wrong. I don’t think that anyone should judge anyone else but people are using the obesity epidemic as an excuse to set out unrealistic expectations for girls young and old. The “national average” itself isn’t actually ridiculously different from other countries…that was my point. I understand what you are saying, some people do use it as an excuse but nothing is quite as far to the extremes as they are being made out to be. Hope you have a wonderful day (and please don’t read into that as sarcasm, I do really hope you have a wonderful day)
“Looking back over my comment I realize that I definitely phrased my comment completely wrong”
Or… “Now I know you are a woman and you disagreed with me, i’ll start backracking to try and win your approval”…
What a fucking pussy.
I am female. And I am a 0-2. Does that mean I do have room to judge? I was just saying girls make excuses for poor health choices based off this “natural average” excuse.
People are still calling for this joint to be removed. What happened to not reading shit you don’t like? It’s funny really, I have never seen a campaign to get man-hating sites removed. The men just deal with it. Liberals/liberal women have very thin skins.
People are still calling for this joint to be removed. What happened to not reading shit you don’t like? It’s funny really, I have never seen a campaign to get man-hating sites removed. The men just deal with it. Liberals/liberal women have very thin skins.
This is fucking stupid. I’m 5’6 and 140 pounds. And guess what? I’m still fucking hot. I have a great hourglass figure. My measurements are 35/30/35. I constantly have guys AND girls trying to get up on this. Your weight has nothing to do with how sexy you are. I bet you wouldn’t be complaining about my thick ass with your dick down my throat.
Way too many dicks have been down your throat. It’s probably infected.
Seriously, hookers like you need not be hot. Desperate men and all that…
Way too many dicks have been down your throat. It’s probably infected.
Seriously, hookers like you need not be hot. Desperate men and all that…
Way too many dicks have been down your throat. It’s probably infected.
Seriously, hookers like you need not be hot. Desperate men and all that…
5’6″ and 140 lbs is normal weight on the BMI scale, you stupid bitch.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Body_mass_index_chart.svg
5’6″ and 140 lbs is normal weight on the BMI scale, you stupid bitch.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Body_mass_index_chart.svg
5’6″ and 140 lbs is normal weight on the BMI scale, you stupid bitch.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Body_mass_index_chart.svg
5’6″ and 140 lbs is normal weight on the BMI scale, you stupid bitch.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Body_mass_index_chart.svg
This is fucking stupid. I’m 5’6 and 140 pounds. And guess what? I’m still fucking hot. I have a great hourglass figure. My measurements are 35/30/35. I constantly have guys AND girls trying to get up on this. Your weight has nothing to do with how sexy you are. I bet you wouldn’t be complaining about my thick ass with your dick down my throat.
Now that we have their attention – posts like this should blow up with angry, disgusting language from women.
Popcorn ready.
P.S. Isn’t it funny that some of the attitudes of modern western women we discuss are being displayed right here in the comments without much prompting. Can’t say we men made this stuff up out of thin air.
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Fat chicks should be grateful to the Irish for bringing Whisky to the modern world. Here’s an example of what simply beer can do to transform today’s bloated whale:
Fat chicks should be grateful to the Irish for bringing Whisky to the modern world. Here’s an example of what simply beer can do to transform today’s bloated whale:
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Man this so perfectly describes the “women” in LA, but probably every.
The haves are entitled, narcissistic and self absorbed. All the pussy ass beta’s feed their egos through social media and in person drooling. They want nothing to do with 99% of guys, as if they are some hot commodity.
The have nots are even worse. Ugly and try to con normal dudes on online dating (which is why i quit). To me the whole scene is fucked. There really is NOTHING in between.
Man this so perfectly describes the “women” in LA, but probably every.
The haves are entitled, narcissistic and self absorbed. All the pussy ass beta’s feed their egos through social media and in person drooling. They want nothing to do with 99% of guys, as if they are some hot commodity.
The have nots are even worse. Ugly and try to con normal dudes on online dating (which is why i quit). To me the whole scene is fucked. There really is NOTHING in between.
Man this so perfectly describes the “women” in LA, but probably every.
The haves are entitled, narcissistic and self absorbed. All the pussy ass beta’s feed their egos through social media and in person drooling. They want nothing to do with 99% of guys, as if they are some hot commodity.
The have nots are even worse. Ugly and try to con normal dudes on online dating (which is why i quit). To me the whole scene is fucked. There really is NOTHING in between.
I can’t wait for all the females to move on. They have turned the comments section into a bitch/troll fest. Every other comment from “obvious female commenter” follows the same pattern. ‘I’m x-height, and y-weight, and I’m hot, and my bf loves it..blah blah blah’
After more than 200 comments, most of the female comments have offered nothing of real value to the conversation.
Please, go back to your own sites. I want to discuss life issues with other men living the same struggles, not get into yelling matches with women.
Best post I have read on the whole thread.
Gay with tiny gay dudes poppin each other’s gay cherries on the gay top (and bottom).
Best post I have read on the whole thread.
What’s the struggle you’re referring to, being gay?
Extra Gay.
Gay.
Gay.
I can’t wait for all the females to move on. They have turned the comments section into a bitch/troll fest. Every other comment from “obvious female commenter” follows the same pattern. ‘I’m x-height, and y-weight, and I’m hot, and my bf loves it..blah blah blah’
After more than 200 comments, most of the female comments have offered nothing of real value to the conversation.
Please, go back to your own sites. I want to discuss life issues with other men living the same struggles, not get into yelling matches with women.
Hahah seriously? Im 5’7, 165 lbs with DD cups, and 29 inches waistline. My bestfriend is a petite and tiny 5’3. And guess who gets all attention? Me 🙂
I totally believe you. By the way, did I mention that I’m a dead ringer for Brad Pitt, I run a fortune 500 company, drive a Ferrari, and have a ten inch cock?
I will be gay for you 🙂
I knew it.
I will be gay for you 🙂
I will be gay for you 🙂
I will be gay for you 🙂
I will be gay for you 🙂
I will be gay for you 🙂
its called keeping a hideously ugly friend to make yourself look better when you go out, we know your tricks fatty
Seconded
Seconded
Seconded
Seconded
Seconded
You’re a fag
sorry chief i reserve the sodomy for your mother
sorry chief i reserve the sodomy for your mother
So you like chubby girls then
So you like chubby girls then
You’re a fag
its called keeping a hideously ugly friend to make yourself look better when you go out, we know your tricks fatty
its called keeping a hideously ugly friend to make yourself look better when you go out, we know your tricks fatty
its called keeping a hideously ugly friend to make yourself look better when you go out, we know your tricks fatty
its called keeping a hideously ugly friend to make yourself look better when you go out, we know your tricks fatty
its called keeping a hideously ugly friend to make yourself look better when you go out, we know your tricks fatty