Online dating is a horror show. It makes one feel even further alone, isolated, and depressed. The results are usually unattractive and/or overweight women attempting to find that love which isn’t looking for them. Not to be utterly crass, but a lot of men do not attempt online dating to meet the undesirables.
So, I would enjoy divulging my observations, as I’m sure have been made by a-many fine gentlemen seeking romance and a relationship.
Women like Keira Knightley are NOT waiting for you on OKCupid
1. If there are multiple girls in a photo, she’s the ugliest one
If you’ve explored dating sites or apps, you’ll soon discover that if there are two women in a photo, one being far more appealing to the eyes, chances are its not that one. If you discover a seemingly half decent-looking woman with the first few photos being close-ups that look edited to glamourize her apparent beauty, it turns out many times over it’s an unattractive, overweight option. It’s as if only the desperate and least desirables attend these dating sites more than the opposite.
Look, I understand people cannot always help how they look, and I personally do not enjoy making fun out of another’s appearance. It makes me feel shitty. But, after awhile of fishing for goods, one begins to lose patience for the sloppy choices placed before him.
Hate her or not, Emma Watson is a gorgeous woman and you won’t find many Western women to match her looks.
2. Girls show their immaturity though cliche poses
I’ve noticed this trend where editing on a cartoon-esque dog or cat nose and animal ears onto a person’s face and head is in their photo, I would assume, to be taken as cute. If that’s not annoying enough, when a woman over the age of 25 is still sticking her tongue out in every other photo, it begins to display well a frightening realization which was always in front of me: the bitch isn’t worth it.
Online dating exposes in broad daylight the pain-staking obvious that women are, naturally, immature. I’m not necessarily faulting them for their silly girls-just-want-to-have-fun mentality, but I certainly despise it. And a young woman (most certainly not a lady) who feels this desire to stick out her tongue may seem petty to some, but I see it as the image of hopelessness in finding a decent, mature lady.
Now, there have been whispered rumors women secretly have oral sex with their dogs of whom often times are male. Perhaps it’s late one lonely night, you happen to spill some peanut butter onto your crotch and Fluffy just so happens to be nearby, and tongue stuff happens.
When I first was made aware of this, I couldn’t help but be amused at how many women have photos with their dogs emphasizing being a dog mommy. It repulses me because, what I believe, is that they’ve been robbed of traditionalism and motherhood, and they still have those motherly instincts. But since they’ve no baby they end up putting that maternal drive elsewhere, such as in their pets, or activism for an outside group whom the motherless winch sees as a victim in need of her care and affection.
And let’s rant a moment about the female who post photos of herself holding a glass of vodka while laughing like an autistic horse. It could lead one to hoping hell is a real place and bad people go there forever. Granted, the vodka-lit chick may rarely party and wanted to attempt conveying how she’s not a total deadbeat, but I’ve heard stories from close female sources that the women of today, my generation and older, are pretty lousy if you’re searching for anything remotely close to wife material. They’re drunks, drug abusers, whores, money-grubbing snakes, cheaters, pill-popping fanatics, drama queens, and so on this list goes. It truly is a bloody disgrace. Where are the ladylike females?
3. The most annoying and bitchy women talk about politics
After the election of Donald Trump, it hit a hard nail in the spine of many who bought into the “He’s a racist and America is a hate speech nation!” narrative. Thus, as inspired by madness itself, many women now take to making note that if you voted for President Trump, then swipe left. The last thing I want is some bitch expressing anything about politics when I’m damn sure she still believes criticizing immigration or Islam equates to anything about race. They do not need to talk politics. Unless you’re Lauren Southern or Ann Coulter, zip it!
When I see photos of liberal bitches holding their signs at a protest a part of me is repulsed while the other is fine with it because they look like a pig reincarnated as a human being, and that somehow makes me feel better. It astounds me the liberalism within the female sex and how aggressive these motherless winches are. I don’t care if you believe ‘love is love’ or ‘no one is illegal.’ And when these are the sorts of women who advocate for abortion, despite how grotesque I’ve come to recently view the procedure, I wouldn’t bother stopping them from aborting anything which could be influenced by their natural frantic lunacy and have their offspring effect our society.
4. There are hardly any attractive women
The stunning Ana de Armas
There are far too many profiles with several close-up car selfies. Perhaps it’s due to the sun providing enough light to make you appear fuckable when you’re clearly laced with fat and triple-chinned. The profiles where the chick is McDonald’s disgusting, yet she writes very little on her profile with short responses and poor grammar, is odd to me.
If you’re what is commonly less desirable in society, then your personality may be the only thing to save you. Some may say beauty is subjective. Perhaps it is given beauty cannot be measured in a lab with empirical evidence; however, we can most certainly observe there is an objective preference.
Conclusion
Tinder is lifeless and has become, as obvious as it may be, a slideshow for attention whores who find bathroom photos with their ass halfway on the sink counter as somehow appealing. Granted, I enjoy the looks as much as the next heterosexual male, but if one is still searching through the vast mere-to-nothingness of the sexual market place for a decent partner, these are not my first pick.
Bumble is okay and you may be more likely to just meet guy friends on the BFF sector rather than a decent woman who is currently too busy building her career as her eggs die off. OKCupid and Hinge have also been fair options, if you dare indulge in the insanity.
To wrap things up, many men accept the dating arena has changed and has been breaking down for some time; thus, they aim for game. Some men would prefer the road travelled not by whoredom but by traditionalism, or at least some form of something now long behind us, and seemingly never coming back round. At least not in my lifetime as far as the West is concerned.
I’d avoid online dating unless you’re looking for a cheap thrill and a bottomless human interaction. They are a gateway to potentially furthering your despair as you scan the landscape realizing, with a hard red-pill gut-punch, that what is online is often offline as well, and that we cannot escape the stomping triple-chinned atrocities which come our way, cheeseburger in one hand, milkshake in the other, with a liberal message of hate and bombastic delusion.
Read Next: Want Better Women? Stop Feeding The Beast Of Online Dating
Starved for articles lately, eh? Very little here that I wasn’t already aware of, except maybe that there were newer outlets than Tinder.
In other news the sky is blue.
The quality of the articles here is really starting to go downhill.
Ha. However, in parts of the world where the sky is generally gray (a 4 outta 10), Instagram filters and Photoshop make those places, like many women, look much better than they really are.
Maaaaaan tall crackas trippin!
I do great on online. They want that thug today! I’m gonna fuck a bitch who is from Texas today. Daddys girl. I’m finna stretch her out!
Lil dick whiteboys too scared to date? What else is knew
Yall can go fuck each other while melanin men reign SUPREME
yall*
to “wish he was well endowed”
you are fake as your girlfriends orgasm
Hey whitey!
You ain’t black.
A real brotha…
Don’t talk like that.
Maaan you an uncle Tom
don’t cramp my style son!
You are probably a white SJW troll, but in the event you are a genuine negro, how does it feel to be a member of the least-accomplished race in history. A race pretty much limited to sports and entertainment to be successful. And only in white countries. Dancing singing, running with or throwing a ball, and muh dick contribute absolutely nothing of value to the world.
Maaaaaan Sgt bulk yall are so “accomplished” and look at how your women are treating you?
You fudge packers are driving planes into mountains and killing yourselves because your women are cheating on you.
so much for those accomplishments
The black man is going to bring the world back to the savage times. We will live like animals.
We are in our element
Yall better man up if you want to compete!
blacks have done better than any other race in history given our historical experiences,we are gradually climbing up from the ashes,and we will be the greatest master race in the nearest future
W.E. Black Man says “The black man is going to bring the world back to the savage times. We will live like animals.”
You’re already doing this well, one city at a time in USA
The modern harlequin….
On a positive note, I was instrumental in getting one of you primitives arrested today. I saw him rummaging through unlocked cars, waited and then discreetly followed him on his bike, calling in to local police and keeping them apprised of his location every 30 seconds or so. Took less than 5 minutes for them to arrive and hook him up.
Did the same a couple years back to another one I saw rummaging around in my neighbor’s garage.
Just doing my part against the bruthas.
Won’t help you getting laid lol
Rampant criminality and being in jail or prison won’t get you laid much either. Except by your cellmates.
You’re not even a nig. You are a 10 year old little boy.
i am a trans racial insultress,
i now command you, worm
loot into my eyes………eeeeeez WAH!
Faaaaaaag! Homo alert! Always talking about white dicks, ya sound thirsty bro.
Only the undesirables are relegated to using online dating.
Never tried online dating, so many slim and attractive women floating around I’ve not had the time or the energy. Can’t really imagine living in the female desert called the western world.
john dodds spends more time on ROK talking about “banging hot women” in some gook country rather than actually banging them.
anybody else notice that?
Your on ROK as well so what you said counts for you as well xD
Am I the only one a bit tired with this kind of articles with low quality women and lack of options for red pilled men? Can’t we move on?
Agree. Please see my comment below
Good to see men are realizing this
Yes, there is a need for articles with VIABLE options for the average man. There is a massive oversupply of men versus women wanting sex. That is a fact and we have to deal with that fact. That fact is the ultimate reason why women can be slobs and bitches: they have overwhelming market power. Men are NOT going to unite to break the pussy cartel. That is another fact. So what can the AVERAGE man do by himself to cope with this difficult dating environment? (Above average men, including men with natural charisma aka “game” don’t have a problem, of course). There are three options. First, give up on sex with women. Buy a fleshlight and perfect your masturbation technique. Second, use money to push your way to the front of the line for sexual access to the small number of remaining attractive and pleasant behaving women. Third, move to a poor country where you are by default at the head of the line because you are a comparatively rich foreigner (thus option three a variation on option two, taking advantage of price level differentials). Unfortunately, the owner of this site has a puritanical view regarding using money to get women plus he makes his own money selling scammy “game” books which won’t work for average men (because charisma cannot be taught) and which no one would buy if they understood how to use money to get women.
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Fools with no experience think paying for sex is simple: pay and your desires are satisfied. More like, pay and get served junk. To get quality girlfriend experience service at a reasonable price is not so easy. So there is a need for articles about this.
Great post Goat.
Both you and I have made past comments on this topic.
But I have to admit, you are more eloquent.
I have yet to see the authors, roosh and Troy, prove to us they bag any females at all . In the late 90s I’m sure they bagged a few desperate EE women but I doubt that is the norm today .
I see you’ve been reading my comments. It’s correct that there is an overwhelming glut of reproductive aged males (wanting sex) than available females. It’s also true that no solutions along the lines of “if we men just did this…” will have any effect, because that constitutes a cartel, and there are plenty of desperate thirsty men who are willing to break the cartel. Your first two options are not realistic or viable. The first is just one more cartel, the second is just the same as using game, and is just Competition 101. There will always be someone richer and better looking and has more game than you. Infinite striving will have diminishing returns. The third option is the best near-term one, and many Western men are taking advantage of this. Eventually they will saturate the market there as well, though that may take some time.
Sadly in the end, the only “solution” will be Nature’s solution, and that involves the deaths of tens or hundreds of millions of males, so that the balance of reproductive age males to females normalizes.
Instead of hunkering in their masturbatoriums and blaming “da Jooze” for everything, men should prepare and plan to survive the purge, and if necessary impregnate some high-IQ Asian or Eastern European so your genes carry on.
@ Burner Prime
“Your first two options are not realistic or viable.”
Why do you think using money is not realist or viable?
The idea is short term renting, not long term leasing. I’ve been doing it for over 30 years.
Moving to a 3rd world is absolutely an option, but it is a huge commitment and takes a lot of impetus to build up to that. I am not quite there yet. As long as I can keep getting contracts here in the US I will most likely stick with what I know best.
There is an overwhelming glut of men vs women right now, with the importers bringing more fighting age men and few women every day.
The historic and time-tested solution to this ancient problem is:
WAR! Time to get rid of these useless eaters.
You have two viable options, your left hand or right hand.
Nah…
Work hard, get a meaningful degree or learn a lucrative trade.
Earn a solid 6 figure income.
And use that to bang hot young girls who need $$$.
It’s not as cool as being a “Brad Pitt” type who has girls throwing themselves at him. But it beats settling for a 5.
And it sure as hell beats whacking off.
@AutomaticSlim
It was a joke.
@ NS
Ah…I’m slow on Sundays.
All the alcohol on the weekend takes its toll.
@AutomaticSlim
show us pics representative of girls you’ve banged via p2p. also include approx. cost per bang.
tyia.
(I’ve looked @ sugar-daddy sites. But their standards were so low that I thought I was caught up in a prank/parody. About 99.8% of “sugar babies” were worthy of $25 or so, or about as much as market rate for a typical crack-addicted streetwalker).
@ Kendall
For links, I’ve done that ad infinitum on another site/community. Not just pics and links, but reviews as well. Unfortunately as of 4/6/18 (SESTA Act signed into law) that site is now accessible only via VPN. And the US reviews were rendered unaccesible — I can only see my own reviews. I don’t think Roosh & Co. would appreciate me posting stuff like that here.
As far as cost, you can get hot, young escorts in NYC for $300 – $400 / hr.
7s/8s/9s and once in a blue moon a young 10 who hasn’t figured out she can make more than that. To consistently get 10s you have to go $600/hr and up. That being said, you WILL get clunkers from time to time. Shit happens.
“Above average men, including men with natural charisma aka “game” don’t have a problem, of course”
Yeah, because Roosh V is God’s greatest gift to women since Elvis, right? Stfu, idiot.
Where I live there are so many single women looking for a man it’s hard to make one choice. Though as a man, you’ve still got to pay. I know this idea that men don’t have to pay for sex is popular amongst Incels, but it isn’t true. You always pay one way or another.
Burner commented using money is still competing with other men so is the same as game, in that it doesn’t make the pie bigger, just changes who gets a slice and who doesn’t. The difference is game doesn’t work for most men whereas money does. Men can’t change their personality to be charismatic. Game only works if the man is fairly attractive to quality women in most respects but has some small killer personality issue which can be easily fixed.
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Money is a long term overall solution for all men provided the men share the women, since if one woman serves ten men, the pussy cartel is broken. And indeed most men who pay for sex do share since few men in the rich western countries can afford an exclusive mistress, so they rent by the hour.
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Finally there are two other solutions I forget to mention because I see masturbation as better. Either drastically lower standards or hope that some quality woman will throw out some mercy sex now and then. Masturbation for routine relief, paid sex as an occasional luxury and taking mercy sex from attractive women whenever offered is a good combination for most average men. I’m too old to lower standards myself (cant get an erection of the woman is hideous or unpleasant) but younger men can take that option. By drastically lowering standards, I’m thinking of that horse mouthed sheboon photo in the article.
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For the record, I use masturbating plus paid sex, mostly in EE. Very high quality for reasonable price.
Goat: in many countries (outside of North America), paying for sex IS simple — the key is getting the kind of experience that really tickles your fancy (often thought of as a Girlfriend Experience). This often requires understanding the local culture and speaking the local language partially — which are not easy tasks, as you state.
But in my opinion, for any Average Joe living in the US or Canada, paying for your sex is the OBVIOUS solution to many modern gender-related problems. Yes, you need to travel to other countries (Mexico, South America, Caribbean, SE Asia etc), spend some money, and make an effort to navigate the local culture, but the rewards are IMMENSE — and not just in terms of number of orgasms.
The key is also reducing the frequency of needing to bang women on a regular basis, because Average Joe will likely only be able to get away to the above-mentioned places 2-4 times a year (ranging from a long weekend jaunt to a full 2-week vacation). It’s also better if you can travel with like-minded guys and enjoy non-sexual activities in these foreign locals, such as golf, water sports, sport fishing, hiking, etc. Local cuisine is also another avenue for enjoyment to round out your travel experience.
Whether it be a road trip to Tijuana for the weekend, or a week in Medellin, or 2 weeks in Pattaya, the memories will last a lifetime and the experiences will really change your perspective on gender relations for the better. And when you’re not traveling, focus more on improving yourself within your home countries. Get fit / healthy, sock away $$$, learn languages and expand your horizons.
@goat, elaborate on the 3 options men have please. (the last 2)
A man who would go online to find a date?
Damn!
What has the West come to?
Common sense. The hottest nine-and-dime babes get hit on every time they step outside the door. Texts and voicemails and calls bombard them 24/7. The last place she needs to go to get a date is online.
Some of the readers may have picked up some bad bitches thru online dating sights. Okay! Happy for you. Count yourself fortunate.
If you have to get a bitch lit before she will fuck you, what does that say about you as a man?
Online dating.
(laughing)
Western males are worse than thirsty. They’re desperate.
How about I write a book. I shall title it, “How To Get Laid By Your Dream Girl”. It will include you getting drunk along with her so, when the moment of truth, arrives she will look like whatever you want her to look like.
You are absolutely right, Ed. The degree of thirst and desperation I see amongst western males is off the charts. And all it does is validate these fat, tattooed, and damaged chicks.
Fags need to get over it
Millineal western men have such a bad work ethic. They are probably losers themselves who are unmasculine, yet they complain about the quality of women.
You know what? Sure, the women are bad. But you’re not going to marry them, you’re just learning some game so you have a hole to put your dick in, to get your biological needs met.
Western men will go to almost any part of the world and complain how bad the women are. Fucken weak fags. Just fuck em and next em.
This is why around 50 percent of men in the west today are incel or mgtow. I have lived that life and it’s miserable. Just man up and get whatever pussy you can get.
Meanwhile black, Arab, Latino and Indian men will fuck anything that moves and be totally happy with it. Who do you think is better off?
downvoted
“Meanwhile black, Arab, Latino and Indian men will fuck anything that moves and be totally happy with it. Who do you think is better off?”
– I’d rather get hit by a bus than be stuck with a fatso or an ugazoid or an old bag — especially an old bag. Are those guys happy? I don’t know. But even if they are I wouldn’t want to live that way.
Sorry dude but that ‘dark guys only fuck fat women’ thing is pretty old.
I know mediocre looking Indian guys who bang 5-6s. Some of the women don’t have the best faces but they aren’t fat
When I said ‘everything that moves’ I didn’t mean fat.
I meant more annoying women with western attitudes
Would you be happy with 5s and 6s?
@ Truth Teller
“When I said ‘everything that moves’ I didn’t mean fat.
I meant more annoying women with western attitudes”
– Just about any guy would bang a 7 or higher despite her annoying attitude. But do you think the 7 or higher would want “just about any guy”??? What percentage of males do you think has never banged anything over 7? Especially if they are unable or unwilling to use money? I would say it is pretty high.
AutomaticSlim
#MeToo
Excellent comment.
Thanks EE.
Have a great Sunday.
I’m sure you 2 incels are both having a great Sunday lol
Truth teller
Fuck you.
@ TT
You’re a hostile little bastard, aren’t you?
Truth teller
I upvoted your comments. Replied favorably to one. And this is the thanks I get.
Go to hell. If they don’t like it let them ban me. I don’t give a fuck.
@Easterling
sorry didn’t know you were the same guy below who agreed with me
Didn’t read the other guy’s comment
Thought you were whinging about how a 5 or 6 is unacceptable.
Guys on here who think they wouldn’t bang a 5 or 6 need to honestly look at their value
You mean you’d trade any woman who might be a decent person for death? You have low standards, friend.
A female’s worth is her youth and beauty. Character is how males are judged. That’s my oponion anyway.
“This is why around 50 percent of men in the west today are incel or mgtow. I have lived that life and it’s miserable. Just man up and get whatever pussy you can get.
Meanwhile black, Arab, Latino and Indian men will fuck anything that moves and be totally happy with it. Who do you think is better off?”
nigs, sand nigs, fruit-picker nigs, & terror nigs are more animal than human. that’s why they engage in sex practices that are indiscriminate. it’s not unlike watching a chimp or gorilla mount any female chimp/gorilla showing signs of heat.
Hahahah
I am a brown man and you are a funny cracka
Your alt right failed because women chose hyperamy over marrying and having families with white Trump supporters
The future is grim.
The USA was the last free country, but who will
speak up for freedom now that the US is a police state?
How can a country that has regulations, endless wars, increasing taxes, nanny state laws, security cameras, license plate readers, checkpoints, redlight cameras, speed cameras, FBI facial and voice recognition, curfews, gun bans, NSA wiretapping, the end to the right to silence, free speech bans, searches without warrants, private prisons, mandatory minimums, 3 strikes laws, DNA databases, CISPA, SOPA, NDAA, IMBRA, private prison quotas, no knock raids, take down notices, no fly lists, terror watch lists, Constitution free zones, stop and frisk, 3 strikes laws, kill switches, National Security Letters, kill lists, FBAR, FATCA, Operation Chokepoint, TSA groping, civil forfeiture, CIA torture, NDAA indefinite detention, secret FISA courts, FEMA camps, laws requiring passports for domestic travel, IRS laws denying passports for tax debts, gun and ammo stockpiles, laws outlawing protesting, police militarization, chain gangs, boot camps, and Jade Helm take the moral high ground on anything?
Tyranny spreads out from Washington to other countries and down to states, counties, and cities.
Where can you escape to now?
Now you see the danger of an one world government.
Wake up.
Think.
Spread the world.
“Thus, as inspired by madness itself, many women now take to making note that if you voted for President Trump, then swipe left”
Yeah, agree. This must be why some “conservative” men seem to fantasize about fucking leftard women, which is their enemy. They think its impossible so they dream of it.
Sorry but Emma Watson is not hot. Would not bang (and I have surprisingly low standards)
Agreed. She’s a 5 at best, and not simply due to her politics. Truly do not understand people who find her attractive.
This statement is pure delusion. Emma shows up at your doorstep in make-up perfume and sexy dress, batting her eyes, and you would say, “I’m sorry I have to get up early tomorrow..” LMAO. You must have extremely low-T or are homosexual. Not a criticism, just a logical conclusion based on your absurd and laughable statement. Same goes for all the other poseurs claiming they’d turn her down.
She’s built like a boy. Perhaps you’ve got some repressed issues, bro.
https://www.pinterest.co.kr/pin/819795938392258555/
Eastern European women are so fucking sexy its ridiculous.
Sorry just had to point that out.
to each his own, but you are a certified homosexual if you don’t find E.W. physically attractive on any level.
another guy claiming other guys are “homo” for disliking a girl built like a dude? LOL!
A man passing up easy lays (with a woman who isn’t fat or ugly) is like a woman passing up free beta bucks.
It’s what you deep down want and you are denying yourself it
Ofcourse women don’t pass it up because they aren’t as soft and weak as western men today
Truth teller
What you say is true. If she isn’t fat or ugly and she’s dtf you, how can a man pass that by?
Your criteria are very basic.
Is she fat? no
Is she ugly? no
FUCK HER!
But some dudes go beyond that.
Are her tits big (and not saggy)?
Are her hips wide (or at least not narrow)?
Are her legs long (or at least not stumpy)?
Does she have an ass?
You don’t run a bitch through those additional filters. But some guys do. I’m one of them. Therefore, I ding bitches (who show multiple IOI) left & right. For me, banging them would be WORSE than jacking off, since their sub-par bodies would prevent me from getting/staying hard.
{Funny story: On an episode of Sin City Justice, an Azn guy took some gross, non-fat white skank back to his hotel room (She was some welfare mom from Palmdale, CA, probably living there, since her Section-8 voucher got her a much nicer apt. than what she would get in most other parts of LA County). While attempting to bang her, the azn dude kept going soft. One day later, she called cops, claiming he raped her. Poor dude went on trial for raping a thot who couldn’t even keep him hard!}
Like it or not Emma Watson looks like a tranny and her smile is permanently lopsided.
I have a better idea fuck online dating and just get a escort you pay the bitch to leave that’s what i like doing.
Some of the gents breaking on Emma Watson….
I don’t know her claim to fame, buy I gotta say, I would bang.
She looks to be about a 6. Maybe 6+.
I don’t care. If you don’t want her I’ll satisfy her. And I won’t even buy her a drink.
How does that sound?
Agreed.
She’s young and petite.
Not “gorgeous” like the author says, but absolutely bangable.
She reminds me a little of that actress from the 80s who played Daniel-san’s girlfriend in KK Part 3.
AutomaticSlim
Emma Watson is young and petite. I say she’s a 6. Still don’t know her claim to fame.
But I have seen a couple pictures of her. I would bang. If others would pass her by, they can do without (ain’t this what they’re complaining about to start with?).
Have a great Sunday Slim. Now get out there and bang them whores!
Oh yeah!
“ain’t this what they’re complaining about to start with?”
Nailed it.
you people have never seen any Harry Potter movies? That’s her “claim to fame”, and she has been SMOKING hot since she was a teenager. And if all you want to do is fuck her, why would you give a flying fuck what her politics are about anyway?
Tinder is entertainment. I like watching the old hags trying to snag a younger guy. “Oh, my profile says I’m 29, but sorry, I made a mistake putting it in and can’t change it.” Lol, right. Seen that more than once.
@Jamesy
The funny thing is that there are many younger guys who will still go for the old bags. I’m in my early 50s and just the thought of an old bag turns my stomach, but some of these younger guys are OK with it. Thirst is a horrible thing.
On another note, I have a cousin who was called “Jamesy” by his grandmother (not our common grandmother). Hadn’t thought about that in years until I saw your post.
Bumble is for used up slvts whos heyday was 15 years ago and now snorting gobs of cocaine is not fun because their deviated septum impedes the Nose candy . Also on bumble the women just send you a “hi” text but expect to be charmed in a response
So the used up wrinkled old divorcees want to be charmed, huh?
Here’s something charming for them: they should be dating guys in their 80s and cleaning their depends undergarments! How’s that for charming?
Seriously though, where do these hags get off thinking they are some kind of prize?
Booby prize is more like it.
You are why people think men are pigs
Luke
“You are why people think men are pigs”
You are why people think men are pussies.
Luke, Your man bun languishes on your egghead like a pile of loose dog shit you pecker sucker.
After reading the comments…. You are all pigs.
‘After reading the comments…. You are all pigs.’
I don’t even comment here any more but…..
Yeah.
You’d say I was a ‘pig’.
Honest.
And you, xir, must be the new male cheerleader for the New Orleans Thainth.
I couldn’t agree more with this article in all its finery. Online dating is a fucking joke as are 95% of the undesirable women with cheeseburgers in one hand and a milkshake in the other, you find there. I’d rather be single and happy over being hooked up with any of these bitches. I could write a book about off and on online dating over the last four years. I’m done with it. The choices one makes in life determines who you and and the road you take. I can guarantee you it won’t be with any of the above cheeseburger women. American women are mostly spoiled, undisciplined with a sense of entitlement with no sense of self awareness. Fucking pathetic. This is what it’s come to though.
Really? How about we talk about the loser men in the online dating world? Absolutely atrocious, sexist and vile article.
“Cat lady, cat lady there on the sand, from July to the end of September…”
>implying they’re all animal people
“Cat lady, cat lady there on the sand, from July to the end of September…”
Thread winner.
Best article I’ve ever read on online dating! What I’ve discerned from four years of off and on online dating with bullshit dating sites like Match, EHarmony, Zoosk, OkCupid, Bumble, Tinder and a couple others is the following. Self-serving, righteous and pompous women who proclaim they are searching for Mr Right, yet they (the women) are so fucked up themselves, carrying around so much baggage from a divorce, that I don’t see how she is even able to get out of bed in the morning, let alone function in today’s society. And many of them can’t and don’t. There are lots of fucked up people in today’s society which carries over into the online dating world. I know. I’ll even run background checks on many of them once I have a full name. What’s turned up? Things like Possession of Drugs and same with intent to sell, Theft, Assault. DUI’s, Bankruptcies and on more than a couple of occasions, multiple as in three and even four bankruptcies. There’s no fucking way I’m getting involved with any of these losers. Online dating is a goddamn minefield with bouncing betties (pop up mines) and claymores strung up in trees that are guaranteed to blow you up. This is what online dating today has morphed into. It’s dangerous. Go ahead, be stupid and get involved with so many of the people you see in today’s online dating world and you could pay a heavy price. To me a relationship (it’s what I’m looking for) will complement my life, not turn it upside down or destroy it. Get involved with someone with serious irresponsibility issues which easily translates into financial irresponsibility and you’re fucked for life. I will grant you the following. Online dating might work if you’re 25 to 40. If you’re age 50 and over you can forget about online dating unless you have a mine detector out in front of you at all times. You’d better be aware are you won’t come home. Online dating is fucked up today. Women are totally fucked up today and are again mostly spoiled, undisciplined with a sense of entitlement and lack self awareness. I’ll have nothing further to do with online dating, not even Tinder. I see the same faces, the same shit everywhere I go. I do what is important for me. I cross train. I have my home and my animals. Fuck online dating and all it represents. It’s not that I’m bitter, it’s more that I see it for what it is. I accept it. I walk away from it.
It’s the same with men; I’m sure plenty of people run a background check on each other. Fair game.
“Absolutely atrocious, sexist and vile article.” Your reply is typical of how 98% of women respond to such an article. The article is spot on!! Congratulations to the author for nailing it. Is your favorite song “If I only had a brain?” from Wizard of OZ!
I bet you could doze the festering cheese from between your rolls of adipose tissue with a fuggin ice cream scoop. Is your name Bertha? It should be.
Nice assumption there, brother. It’s almost as if it’s a bait post!
Heywood Jablome.
The reason you met the losers is because you passed up any good ones. Passed them by without even a slight consideration. The same as the men you choose to date offline. Many women just make bad choices, never learn from their mistakes and then make more bad choices.
The inter web is a great way to meet fat girls, psychos, and chicks who have been bored out more than a rebuilt crate engine.
Pro tip: women enjoy being cornered in person by a dude they like. You can read a bitch in person unless you are autistic or pussy starved.
Bitches flake, it’s what they do. In person mitigates a lot of that.
This is true. Flaking out of a date or meetup is ALWAYS an appropriate option as far as a woman is concerned. Women are shifty and dishonest as a default. Women are never EVER telling the full truth of anything.
Depends on the situation at hand. I wouldn’t say it’s a default, though.
Gonna need a source for that “pro tip”. And so do men at times.
Those of us that have Asperger’s how do you understand a woman.
I did the online dating April/May -it is a reasonable conduit to action.
Drinking at bars is too time consuming -costly( $$$/hangover)- for trash that can be worse.
Age adjusted – I’m mid fifties. Still plenty of action for younger guys with game and time/energy for the nightlife.
I only bang skinny – and gf experience( for real) is a life improvement.
Several are still FWB.
Some bring gifts.
I will continue online dating in the fall…just to have playthings…
However, each interaction costs time and money, drinks. Need to optimize my cost-to-bang ratio…
Not entirely happy with this situation – and am working hard to get FuckY’all money/location/life.
I met my wife online. It wasn’t online dating, it was just on a message board website where people in specific professions discuss those professions, and we realized we were in the same area. Got in touch over the job stuff and schooling and eventually met in person and started dating. Online dating websites were never anything I would consider using, but meeting people online is a good option these days. I have several friends, associates and now even a couple colleagues that I initially met online. Just so happens that I ended up marrying one of them.
Married?
Triple chinned atrocities…
Is that really the predominant though? Opinions please.
“Triple chinned atrocities…” Certainly, that’s one. I’ve meant several women in real life who didn’t correspond to their posted online dating profile picture. I even called one on it who turned out to be about 25 pounds heavier in real life than her online photo. I try not to winch at comments of women when I first meet them and I’m very good at it, but one told me she had previously been married four times. I recall choking on my coffee nearly spitting it out proclaiming “four times???” Perhaps the most absurd scenario in online dating occurred I think it was on Match where an flight attendant admitted in her profile that her ‘one’ profile photo was 14 years old, however, she went out of her way assuring everyone that she still looked exactly like her picture. Absurd! How hard can it be to as a last ditch effort to put the cell up to your face and snap a picture. I shook my head at that one. Plenty of women post pictures of only their face in online dating profiles. Can you guess why? Full body shots of everyone are needed. It should be common sense, which is asking too much. One even posted a picture of her eye. Or how about the stupid women and there are many who post pictures of landscapes, flowers, everything but a picture of what they look like in their online dating profile. That’s fucking stupid also! You do get a front row seat in observing the height of stupidity in online dating. Anyone want to write a book “Dummies guide to online dating.” It wouldn’t help. Online dating is just another version of Saturday Night Live, but more stupid!
*thought
This article was written from a male’s point of view. As a female, the same can be said of the men out there. As a 60+ active woman who takes care of her figure and skin, no one wants to see a profile photo of a shirtless, overweight, beer bellied guy, with uncombed hair (whatever he has of it.) No one wants to see a 25 year old picture of the guy posing by his Corvette or Harley. Only gold diggers are interested in your annual salary that you’ve posted. Profile section is usually empty, was written by their daughter or grand daughter, or says the things that they think a woman wants to hear.. long walks on the beach (they’re too out of shape to do this) or sitting by the fire with a glass of wine.
FALSE.
Those guys are communicating that they’re not broke, tiny-fixed-income losers, who will expect you to pay for everything.
That said, you’re 60+. So I doubt any of those affluent guys want your saggy, wrinkly ass. You might need to pull a Kris Kardashian, paying for sex with a domesticated gorilla.
I’ve never been enticed into online dating, and am glad to see reasonable people coming to their senses and opting out… looks more and more like one big, unfunny joke that men play on themselves, and all it does is feed the surveillance/voyeur side of society. The lonely, desperate, horny guys who took the bait and fell for the marketing ploy instantly became the “product” or “asset” in a digital panopticon. It’s a shallow, low-SMV trash game, insincere and full of circulating STDs.
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The novelty has begun to wear off. The undeniable substance of real-world dating/romance/sex is coming back in to style and men who never used digital dating have an edge over the other guys. They signal higher desirability than the millions of caged rats online, scratching around for their pathetic little food/fuck pellets. I try to tell other decent men to get off the apps and internet, stop trying to play it calculated/safe and jump back into the big, bad real world of potential rejection and live consequences.
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Tinder’s just like Fakebook and the rest — they’re putting all of your personal info and arranging a psychological profile that is eventually sold to businesses and the US government, and you get zero in that transaction. Surveillance state is a real thing, not a conspiracy; everyone thinking with their “digital dicks” seems to forget this major compromise for access to lying, used-up, sub-optimal poon. In this scenario, you get LESS than nothing from Tinder, Match, etc. They siphoned your info and shared none of the profits. You also get spammed to death for signing on to the “free” dating apps/sites.
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Most women won’t say it out loud, but IMO they know damn well that Tinder. etc., is a loser life for females too. If the opportunity arises around women, I’ll blatantly mention that Tinder and Match are for fucking idiots, just to set the contrast and let them know who I am by comparison. I’m here, now, and real, so give that garbage up and start paying attention to this guy in front of you. Use this technique as a screening device — within a clique there’s always a girl or two who wants to break out of the soulless digital conformity her social circle’s been suffering through for years. Those are usually the ones worth going after. Divide and conquer, gentlemen… the only way out of the digital maze while retaining your strength and sanctity.
@Oceanson
I Completely agree. As well as “NoFapp” there needs to be a “NoApp” movement to encourage people away from Internet dating. Introverts and shy men would rather take the easy choice and waste countless hours on hunting subpar Internet crazies, who are already inundated with attention. Rather than the hard choice of investing time in expanding their real lives and social circle.
If your only words to describe women are “bitches”, “whores” and “fat ugly pigs”, you’ll never find a decent woman. Check your misogyny, gentlemen. By the way, the same things said in this article about women in online dating can be said about men, too. You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince or princess. Don’t give up on finding love. Cheers.
“You have to kiss a lot of frogs.”I bet you’ve buried a frightening number of throbbing penises in your jalopy vagina, you old bag.
@ Migs
I see you’ve used the term “old bag”.
Bravo, good sir!
Aye, me cully!
Nice comeback. So original and witty.
You forgot “wrinkled 40 year old bags”.
I use that one all the time.
Hello Frightening Comments:
Yes, the comments are frightening, which in my opinion mirrors the way it is with a great many men/women in today’s online dating culture. It resembles more a low level conflict (war) over positively seeking any kind of mate. I’d describe so many of the women I’ve seen in today’s online dating culture as spoiled, undisciplined with a sense of entitlement who lack self-awareness. It’s reality. A key point in online dating is that everyone is a ‘throw away’ because someone better is right around the corner with no real effort put into getting to know anyone. Everyone is expendable. It shouldn’t be like this, but is. I don’t see it changing anytime soon. It is what it is. Best to you.
This is one of two comments on here that doesn’t sound like a immature, mentally delayed teenage boy wrote. The other one was by women. Having experienced the online dating horror show, this comment sums it all up!
FC,
If you expect us to pay, we frogs get to choose.
But on the other hand, if you’re prepared to pay for everything, you can expect a prince.
Wow! Lots of horny men attempting to discover how to have sex with beautiful and thin women without any involvement. A free prostitute.
They refer to them as bitches. and seek only to satisfy their own needs.
Maybe screwing dead people would be an option. It may be illegal. No one who is sane would hang out with any of you.
The ape attitude is not attractive, sexy, interesting for anyone.
Let go of your disks long enough to take a breath and enjoy your lives. Instead of being self serving, maybe fill your time contributing to society. These ridiculas attitudes where the world is supposed to serve your sexual needs, is quite narcissistic.
Women have careers, are raising children, are evolving spiritually at a fast rate.
We are seeking men who show up for us. Men who offer us companionship. Men who make us feel safe and beautiful. We truly have no desire to see your short, stubby dicks. They are a big deal to you…we truly have no interest unless we are drug addicts. Then we try to get money from you to see your dicks. The problem that I see with on-line dating is fantasy.
You want sex, no relationship. You expect beautiful women to agree to that.
You would have a better chance of winning the lottery.
Please don’t hate the women for it. The blame is on yourselves for asking for the impossible. You are angry because another person is not filling your needs.
Get over yourselves. No one wants your freckled lumpy ugly dick. Promise.
‘Get over yourselves. No one wants your freckled lumpy ugly dick. Promise.’
Hi!
Cheri, is it?
Is this seat empty Cheri, do you mind if i sit here……….?
Cheri,
If you don’t want our dicks, what would we want you for?
I can get companionship from a dog, and it’s a lot cheaper to support than you.
Yeah, right. It’s just a meme.
She wants your money, John, but she doesn’t want to have sex in exchange. All women are whores, but at least some are honest whores, unlike this Cheri.
I believe this is what Loki would refer to as a “mewling quim”.
Amen sister! Stop sending sick pics! Don’t nobody wanna see that shit! Then y’all are like. “what do you think baby? You like? Hell IDK! That’s like sending a pic of a steak and asking if it taste good!
Hey…. my dick is not freckled!
The doctor said that should clear right up!
Can you see it?
I believe it is a fishing problem. Fishing in the wrong river. Who likes to look at male dicks? Gay men. Search for gay men if you want sexual action with no commitment. Your chances of scoring will be greatly increased. I have seen many beautiful, thin gay men. Problem solved! You don’t have to be angry at women for not being turned on by your anatomy enough to look at it and have sex with no strings attached. We aren’t built that way. Gay men are! That stuff would turn most of them on. Even if you aren’t a 10, variety might be exciting!!
You could quit complaining and get some action.
I would not go to a hardware store looking for cupcakes. Why would you want your needs met by someone who is repulsed at the idea?? I believe your fishing hole is the wrong one, and that’s frustrating for any fisherman!!! 🚢🐳🐬🐟
What you say might sting a few. But, do understand: we just want to experience what the gals and ladies got to enjoy when at their freshest (and most fertile). And that is — fun! Hookin up! Parties! Adventures! Finding ourselves! Many of us were not the guys you all chose to do this with. Some were married and got divorced. Some came late to the party. Some have always struggled. But at some point we all figured out that the Judd Apatow Disney view of things just wasn’t true. Most of us threw the daisies in the trash bin and have figured out solutions. Better ourselves, learn to tune in, or pay for fun, or learn how to game women. Or some combination of all of this.
Anyway, I’ve rambled. But, just remember: blow jobs count! Yes, they do 🙂
Basko blowjobs “counting” or not? hell, if you have to start that game of cognitive dissonance then simply touching another man might as well up your n count, because it’s already too high to for the “good guys” you seek to even think about getting serious with you, provided they have some sense of dignity and pride.
btw that last post was meant for the ladies, not the fine gentlemen of this site’s comment sections.
You got me mistaken. I’m a man. Re-read.
That said, I wholeheartedly agree with you. For pump and dumps, N count is not important. Blown out pussy is gonna be what it is. Sometimes a pump ‘n’ dump brings up monogamy, sometimes as a shit test, sometimes because she mistyped me as a provider type. Usually I do a verbal aikido on that joker but sometimes I bristle when mistyped and gently move the convo to notch count. Then I smile when the howls and protestations occur. Some of these women really thought they had us all fooled. Or maybe themselves.
Cheri,
I certainly agree that your hole is the wrong one.
Why would any man want you?
Thank John for your response. I am sorry you feel that way. I know there is a bigger story behind your words. I am sorry for that. No one likes their hearts broken or to feel cheated or fooled.
In answer to your question, here is my response…
You would want us for…
Coming home from a hard days work, and being greeted by someone who cares about you and squeezes you so tight!
Fresh baked blackberry cobbler with melting Ice cream
A night with a harvest moon sitting in a warm spring with a crystal glass of something bubbly…laughing and enjoying the sound of crickets and the smell of evergreen trees.
To have the experience of watching the sun set and recovering from a day of frizbee on the beach, exhausted and sunburnt.
Dancing and enjoying each other’s gaze while swing dancing to some old Johnny Cash music played from a local band.
Washing the car and spraying each other with the hose.
Attending a friends wedding, dressing up and being in love.
To be proud of each other and to exchange sexy glances throughout the evening.
Have an evening out at a Jazzy restaurant, eat fresh oysters and listen to some old guy with a long beard rock out on the cello.
Prepare a fancy lasagna dinner together in the kitchen while feeding each other grated cheese, pasta and Italian sausage and warm garlic bread.
Exploring a new side of town. Seeing the art, gardens and vibe of a small town.
Finding a note before work that makes you blush.
Having a pillow fight and chasing each other around the house.
Cranking up the music, and dancing naked.
Having a spa night where you give each other foot rubs.
…the list is endless….
A partner like that is having sex whenever he wants. Once a women opens up…she will completely take care of you. It’s what we do. We are built to nurture…we desire to feel safe. We have our own money. We don’t need you sexually. We desire a playmate, lover and friend. Calling us botched hurts our hearts. We will turn off. We come to you…we need the relationship. Men miss out on so much…it’s sad for men and women…
When was this? Not I’m my lifetime have I met one of the fictitious unicorns… Never not even through family friends acquaintences nor my military travels.. Fiction and myth.
Hence why men need to stop learning “game” and instead be a man and make some money. Then you can get yourself a young sugar baby who will treat you right and do all those things you mentioned.
All these loser incels complaining about women only see women as a wet hole. Its no wonder they fail. Meanwhile I’m using my hard earned money to date young hotties who treat me like a king.
These beta incels are so pathetic thinking they can get a hot girl with zero investment on his part lmfao so clueless
You know the odd thing that I came to the conclusion about today was that all sectors of society are craving the one thing that they apparently cannot seem to find and that is the masculine man that is all the definition of the feminism’s toxic male. The feminist craves the toxic male the game an obviously craves the toxic male the military craves the toxic male Society craves the toxic male but all for different reasons. The feminist because she’s selfish and can’t see anything except her own desires, the gay man, pretty much for the same reasons. The military because they need an actual strong intelligent hard-working men in order to get the mission done men that are reliable men that are adaptable. Society needs man for all the same reasons but also for them to also be leaders and Abby the mentors and the examples for growing boys to follow. So the greatest challenge is figuring out where the hell are all these toxic masculine men that everybody sits there and talks about and everybody craves but they just can’t seem to find and doesn’t that reflect for Mgtows everything they want to be but there is no return for… Everybody demands these toxic males but there’s no worthwhile return for the toxic men to give any of those groups what they want. I would expand that category to include NON-PC men.
Correction….. The feminist craves the toxic male the gay man obviously craves the toxic male the military craves the toxic male Society craves the toxic male but all for different reasons…
My, my. No success? Amazing. If you need assistance, just ask.
There are more success stories than you realize. I have met notable gentlemen, smart, funny, from a wide variety of backgrounds.
Sure, I kissed a lot of frogs. One prince became my loving spouse for 14 years. He passed away two years ago. (No, I did not murder him.)
Take a deep breath and dive back in.
Best wishes.
Game is bullshit. When was the last time you saw a guy actually pull a hotty using game? It doesnt happen and anyone claiming otherwise is selling you something. Took me ten years to realize this truth after watching these PUAs. But you never see them with any legit hotties.
The only way to sleep with a hotty is to 1. Be tall and attractive, 2. Be high status and well connected, 3. Have a lot of money and get yourself a sugar baby. Nothing wrong with that since all relationships are a transaction at the end of the day.
If you’re a dude who’s trying to learn “game” you’d be better off refocusing your efforts on building a business and making money. You’ll have no problem finding yourself a young, hot 22 year old. This is much better than spending stupid amounts of money on PUA courses and going out 6 times a week cold approaching 6/10s.
The second point reads a lot like he’s the Fun Police. Sure, the animal filter and tongue-out gets annoying after a while, but I don’t see anything bad about women laughing in pictures- it just means that they’re having a good time (although you don’t have to get super wasted).
The second point of the article seems a bit too Fun Police. Sure, the whole animal filter and tongue out can get annoying, but I see nothing wrong with pictures of women smiling and laughing. That just means they’re having fun (as long as they don’t get shitfaced).
The phrase “fluent in sarcasm” makes me physically ill.
The author has problems with women. He is angry which negates any credibility.
Edgar, it appears that you need to get a life. You’re obviously an arrogant prick who loves looking in the mirror. That whole “leftist women” crap is politically charged bias. Are you actually defending President Moron? On line dating has it’s flaws, but as a 64 year old man living in a small Mississippi town, I find it a necessary evil. I too specify that I’m a Progressive and Agnostic. Yes, one’s political leanings make a difference. I have a Masters degree and find that Progressive women tend to be better educated, which I find to be an attractive feature. There are plenty of attractive left leaning women, just not near me. Dating over 50 is a daunting task.
Thank you for sharing the experiences you have learned. I would love to read your post.
How to detect a secret fatty
1.- A lot of Photos with close up of their faces (To hide their roles)
2.- A lot of those doing the kissing pose with the lips (to make look their face long and thiner )
3.- The remaining photos are from her in angles , selfies from above to hide her real size, and photos that accentuate their boobs, making you think she is thin and busty when in fact those are fatty boobs (fake breast from obesity not genetic)
A bit of rambling, but could prove insightful to the horrors of online dating. This is my sixth or so post on this topic because it is heartfelt. Things are definitely amiss in the area of online dating, with zero interpersonal online dating interactions with one another, zero effort put into really getting to know anyone in online dating, along with thinking in the back of everyone’s mind that someone better is always right around the corner (a motivator in online dating.) The end result is that everyone is a ‘throw away’ in online dating. You witness this daily. I think online dating is a microcosm of our society today. I find it very hard to meet a quality woman. Perhaps at one time, maybe five years ago, I had good thoughts about online dating. I don’t anymore. There’s nothing good about it. In an earlier post another user described online dating as a fantasy. I agree. The people who run online dating sites like it because they’re raking in big money. Some guys will transition away from traditional online dating sites like Match, EHarmony, Zoosk and others because they’re unsuccessful and move over to what can be described as hookup sites. I found Ashley Madison (AM) for example to be populated by prostitutes looking for money, or women who are willing to have sex with you, meeting several times monthly, for $200 monthly. All these women appeared to have an angle which usually involved money. I only met one married woman from AM for coffee and she was thinking about it. She wasn’t committed and neither was I. Actually, she wasn’t really my type (I was not attracted to her) so it was no big deal. So I explored it and other sites, never hooked up there or on any other hook up site but was curious. Adult friend finder (AFF) is yet another true hookup site, in the online dating arena, where you’ll find women looking for love along with prostitutes. Some of these woman can be married, single, divorcees who are looking for love. What I recall more than anything about AFF are more unstable volatile females flying off the handle because I sent them a message, which I was never witness to in traditional online dating sites like Match and the others. For example, one AFF female replied back with a very nasty message saying “What the fuck is wrong with you? My profile says I’m looking only for women.” I simply replied back, sorry Queen Bee. I had exchanges with several other women from AFF which left me with the impression the people were less than stable. So after a couple of exchanges with nut jobs like this I say to myself, no I don’t think this is for me either. We can also talk about the former Craigslist (shut down now) which has been replaced by Bedpage. This also falls under the purview of online dating. And no I’ve never hooked up with anyone from this site. I simply explored it enough, actually quite thoroughly, to talk about it briefly here. The former Craigslist or Bedpage is most definitely populated by nearly 99% prostitutes, sex workers, escorts and law enforcement. You’ll be hard pressed to find anyone that’s not a sex worker and wanting to scam you on the site. It’s not for me. Every one of these woman on Craigslist, Bedpage is looking to scam you by referring you to their individual site for a bullshit ‘date safety’ verification (which is exclusive to Craigslist or Bedpage and nowhere else… it’s all a scam) or whatever you want to call it, where the customer is supposed to input their credit card into each woman’s online verification page. The sex workers state it’s supposed to verify your age (which it doesn’t) and whether you have any criminal record. It’s all bullshit and don’t ever fall for it. There’s no way inputting any credit card can verify your criminal history. Complete crap and a scam. I’ve had these same women turn around and send me other users credit cards with names, expiration dates, the whole thing, to use for verification on their site. No, I never touched that. It’s illegal and I’m not a criminal. I’ve had escorts message me saying they could meet me but first I’d have to pay a $200 security deposit because they’re a ‘model.’ I even called an upscale hotel with one such scammer and the hotel stated they had no record of any such woman being registered there. The scammer then stated the hotel had no record under her name because she’s a model and her name can’t be released. Sounds like a classified covert operation from a Mission Impossible movie, doesn’t it? It’s not, it’s all bullshit and a scam. I’m quite certain she wasn’t even in the same city, probably back on the East coast. Do yourself a favor and steer clear of these bullshit sites. I was simply curious and explored it. I got so pissed at these sex workers that I started playing around with a couple of them. I’d state something along the lines that “oh, I see, I’m supposed to enter my Credit Card into your online verification form…. Ok, we’ll sure, I’ll can do that right after you deposit $500 into my offshore account because a guy can’t be too careful. Safety first, right with Craigslist killers, Jack the Ripper and Florida Alligators.” You begin to understand that everything in the world of online dating is complete bullshit, it’s an illusion and a bad joke at best. Nothing is real. So we have traditional dating sites and nontraditional hookup sites with darker more sinister people. Lots of rambling I know, but maybe provides a glimpse into another more sinister side of online dating. The horror of online dating. I can’t and won’t do it anymore. I walk away from it.
A lengthy bit of rambling providing added insight to the horrors of online dating. This is my sixth or so post on this topic because it is heartfelt. Things are definitely amiss in the area of online dating, with zero interpersonal online dating interactions with one another, zero effort put into really getting to know anyone in online dating, along with thinking in the back of everyone’s mind that someone better is always right around the corner (a motivator in online dating.) The end result is that everyone is a ‘throw away’ in online dating. You witness this daily. I think online dating is a microcosm of our society today. I find it very hard to meet a quality woman. Perhaps at one time, maybe five years ago, I had better thoughts about online dating. I’m under no such illusions today. There’s nothing good about it. In an earlier post another user described online dating as a mere fantasy. I agree. The people who run online dating sites like it because they’re raking in big money. Some guys will transition away from traditional online dating sites like Match, EHarmony, Zoosk and others because they’re unsuccessful and move over to what can be described as hookup sites. I found Ashley Madison (AM) for example to be populated by prostitutes looking for money, or women who are willing to have sex with you, meeting several times monthly, for $200 monthly. All these women appeared to have an angle which usually revolved around money. I only met one married woman from AM for coffee and she was thinking about it. She wasn’t committed and neither was I. Actually, she wasn’t really my type (I was not attracted to her) so it was no big deal. So I explored it and other sites, never hooked up there or on any other hook up site but was curious. Adult friend finder (AFF) is yet another true hookup site, in the online dating arena, where you’ll find women looking for love along with prostitutes. Some of these woman can be married, single, divorcees who are looking for love. What I recall more than anything about AFF are more unstable volatile females flying off the handle because I sent them a message, which I was never witness to in traditional online dating sites like Match and the others. For example, one AFF female replied back with a very nasty message saying “What the fuck is wrong with you? My profile says I’m looking only for women.” I simply replied back, sorry Queen Bee. I had exchanges with several other women from AFF which left me with the impression the people were less than stable. So after a couple of exchanges with nut jobs like this I say to myself, no I don’t think this is for me either. We can also talk about the former Craigslist (shut down now) which has been replaced by Bedpage. This also falls under the purview of online dating. And no I’ve never hooked up with anyone from this site. I simply explored it enough, actually quite thoroughly, to talk about it briefly here. The former Craigslist or Bedpage is most definitely populated by nearly 99% prostitutes, sex workers, escorts and law enforcement. You’ll be hard pressed to find anyone that’s not a sex worker wanting to scam you on the site. It’s not for me. Every one of these woman on Craigslist, Bedpage is looking to scam you by referring you to their individual site for a bullshit ‘date safety’ verification (which is exclusive to Craigslist or Bedpage and nowhere else… it’s all a scam) or whatever you want to call it, where the customer is supposed to input their credit card into each woman’s online verification page. The sex workers state it’s supposed to verify your age (which it doesn’t) and whether you have any criminal record. It’s all bullshit and don’t ever fall for it. There’s no way inputting any credit card can verify your criminal history. Complete scam. I’ve had these same women turn around and send me other users credit cards with names, expiration dates, the whole thing, to use for verification on their site. No, I never touched that. It’s illegal and I’m not a criminal. I’ve had escorts message me saying they could meet me but first I’d have to pay a $200 security deposit because they’re a ‘model.’ I even called an upscale hotel with one such scammer and the hotel stated they had no record of any such woman being registered there. The scammer then stated the hotel had no record under her name because she’s a model and her name can’t be released. Sounds like a classified covert operation from a Mission Impossible movie, doesn’t it? It’s not, it’s a scam. I’m quite certain she wasn’t even in the same city, probably back on the East coast. Do yourself a favor and steer clear of such sites. I was simply curious and explored it. I got a little perturbed at a couple sex workers so started playing around with them. I’d state something along the lines that “oh, I see, I’m supposed to enter my Credit Card into your online verification form…. Ok, we’ll sure, I can do that right after you deposit $500 into my offshore account because a guy can’t be too careful. Safety first, right with Craigslist killers, Jack the Ripper and Florida Alligators.” You begin to understand that everything in the world of online dating is a scam, fake, illusion or a bad joke at best. Nothing is real. So we have traditional dating sites and nontraditional hookup sites with darker more sinister people and motives. Lots of rambling I know, but maybe provides a glimpse into another more sinister side of online dating. The horror of online dating. I can’t and won’t do it anymore. It’s survival. I walk away from it.
Once upon a time, online dating was once a viable and efficient pursuit to find a girlfriend or just a decent playmate, but then it quickly died as it metamorphosed into the biggest source of a woman’s validation — along with social media (Facebook). Now, online dating is not only a time / energy black hole incapable of producing a fruitful outcome, but it has become completely demoralizing for Average Joe and above-average Handsome Hank.
ALL the dating sites are now miserable experiences for men as you come to understand just how delusion and mean-spirited modern women are in North America, and just how degenerate they’ve become — chubby, ruddy complexions, covered in shitty tattoos, tongues out, dyed butch hair, trailer park style, etc. It’s complete garbage and should be avoided at all costs. My advice is to either go old-school and meet certified single women through family members and trusted social connections so that you can vent them before wasting any time / resources, or enjoy the P4P realm — banging young, cute, affordable whores.
The other option that may work out if you dramatically improve your outward appearance and financial status, is that decent-looking women (albeit mainly gold diggers and/or social climbers) may pursue you and “fall into your lap” so to speak.
I’d love to meet a man that wasn’t a fat, disgusting slob after hitting age 30 – or for some sooner – like 25. That’s why I stay OFFLINE – because apparently there are not hot older guys.
I mean – AMERICAN MEN are just generally gross fat slobs. And if another a-hole I don’t know tells me about his shaved now adolescent looking cock, gonna vomit. SO I am forced to stay off dating sites.
For instance I have only banged guys young enough to be my son for the past five years now, then I blow the stupid little air heads off. And they keep begging for more – so irritating… But I can tell which ones are gonna get fat – so – they have to go.
As well as the assholes who act like they are in a frigging porno – pulling my hair, choking me, slapping me – WTF gives??? SO absolutely GROSS.
I’ve given up on a man treating me right. Bunch of ageist, sexist assholes who act like they are your children if you keep em around too long.
So – none of you creepy dudes getting these. Looking for a nice man from another country at this point. After all, 50% at least of you are degenerate nitwits who voted for Trump and I have a hand.
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sorry, emma watson isn’t gorgeous. don’t even know where to start
Women don’t use Tinder for “dating” anymore. Not even the ugly ones. Its now a place to solicit men to view their cam shows. “Dont use this unless im bored. Hit me up on IG.”
The usefulness and sanity of online dating corresponds to the quality of the sexual marketplace. In countries, like the US, with a dwindling supply of quality women and a lot of desperate men, it is lousy. In countries, like the Asian one in which I live, that have an abundance of hot women, online dating can work well.
I don’t agree with the large majority of this – it definitely has not been my experience. But it depends on which app, if you were just using tinder and bumble you’d be correct. But if you go with hinge, I could setup a date every night of the week if I wanted – and like half of the girls are at least worth spending some time with the pop up. There are definitive tons of cute girls on there (I’m in a major city in the northeast US). Its not a substitute for going out and meeting girls other ways, but man it gives you tons of options. If some chick is giving me shit (ie flaking on me), I’ll just move on to a huge number of other potential options on hinge (and don’t have to hit up a bar or walk around town), it makes everything else easier bc I don’t give a shit
This definitely has not been my experience. But it depends on which app, if you were just using tinder and bumble you’d be correct. But if you go with hinge, I could setup a date every night of the week if I wanted – and like half of the girls are at least worth spending some time with the pop up. There are definitive tons of cute girls on there (I’m in a major city in the northeast US). Its not a substitute for going out and meeting girls other ways, but man it gives you tons of options. If some chick is giving me shit (ie flaking on me), I’ll just move on to a huge number of other potential options on hinge (and don’t have to hit up a bar or walk around town), it makes everything else easier bc I don’t give a shit
It is depressing as hell. I’ll take a break from the abyss of online dating and go to Prague every once in a while to clear my hand of American bs. There the strip clubs are brothels. For about $150 US you can bang a hot russian/ee chick that would run you around $1500 in NYC or LA. The food is awesome and cheap and they don’t use the Euro so overall everything is very affordable.
The Role of Women and Validation in Online Dating – Disgusted with Cheeseburger Women.
This sums up the evolution of women and online dating. You see the same women online over two, three years. Why, it’s validation for them. The vast majority are so fucked up they’re beyond any help, yet they are content to sit there soaking up the accolades. “Pure unfiltered attention anytime anywhere, on tap, with no effort on their part required. Better than cocaine to a female.“ The above quote was borrowed from another user on another site on this subject. It is powerful commentary. I refuse to ‘waste’ my time with any online dating. The vast majority of American women you find on online dating sites are mostly spoiled, undisciplined with a sense of entitlement and lack self-awareness. I far prefer European to American women for they understand better how to appreciate a man and are in general less screwed up. I see no hope for American women.