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My One Year Of Not Masturbating

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As I stated in my previous article, the last time I masturbated was February 24, 2013.

On Monday I hit a full year of abstaining from what is essentially a daily ritual for most men.

I won’t rehash my thoughts from my first article. I can safely say that most of the same effects are still there. But after a year I think it is doing me more harm than well.

I Care Too Much About Fucking

I am insanely horny all the time—I’m talking 24/7. I can’t get enough sex. To give you an example, this past weekend I had sex with a girl in my rotation seven times in about 16 hours. I say this not to brag but to show my insanity. This is not a new girl either so no novelty; I’ve been seeing her regularly for two months.

That’s great some of you may say. But not when it overpowers your desire to meet higher quality girls. After this girl left, I went to a charity event filled with beautiful girls. After a few hours of an open bar and knowing the chances of taking one of these girls home was slim that night, I succumbed to my horniness again and went to another rotation girl’s apartment and had sex with her three times that night. I should have stayed and tried harder for these beauties. But I didn’t.

Even then I couldn’t stop. I had another girl come over for lunch the next day and had sex with her, albeit only once. At that point after drinking for so many straight days and nights my tiredness took over my horniness and it ended.

I’ve always been a bit “committed” to game but this elevated my insanity. I’d go on dates when tired, or when I’m not interested in the girl because I knew there would be good chance for sex, especially when my game matured. I used to laugh at this diagnosis, but I became addicted to sex. You can see the problems associated with this. I’d rather go on a date with a 6 or 7 than stay at home and work on money, or my Russian, or go to the gym.

Even though I was consciously aware I was making the wrong decision—that I should stay in—my desire for sex trumped all.

Benefits For Some

The all out approach of not masturbating may work for a few situations I can think of. First, if you have any approach anxiety just stop masturbating. When your only outlet is sex you’d be amazed how fast you get out there and start hitting on girls.

Second is if you are trying to just bang as many chicks as possible over everything else. Then the built up aggression from not jerking off will fuel your fire and desire to do so, and it will make you more aggressive, more determined and in the end more successful for this particular goal. You just have to be willing to forego the harem to keep you motivated for fresh.

The other is if you want to get into an LTR. I’ve had a rather easy time maintaining girls after sex because of these side effects. I’m always ready to fuck and do it quite aggressively, which girls obviously like. I have a very short refractory period, which can lead to marathon sessions like described above. So for girls that like sex, which should be the only type you’d consider anyway for an LTR, this would help. In this situation, you would have to be willing to forego seeking other girls and instead channel your testosterone towards her.

So Now What

I do not regret this year one bit and I think everyone should try it for an extended period of time. My fire has led me to an excessive amount of dates, essentially concentrating years of experience interacting with girls into one year. I tend to attract girls that are more into sex because of how forward and aggressive I am, which leads to fun times.

But I think I have to end this, as it is gotten to the point where it is providing some adverse effects. I don’t want to be thinking of sex 24/7. I’ll probably never go back to daily masturbation, but there has to be a happy medium. Roosh alluded to once a week, which may be a good compromise. I just need to experiment and find what’s right for me.

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132 thoughts on “My One Year Of Not Masturbating”

  1. I cannot do what you did, I just do not have the willpower. Question, did you find your willpower/ discipline in other areas grow? There is a theory that humans have a limited amount of willpower / self control per day, did any other aspects of your life suffer ( did you skip gym days, eat poorly , not accomplish as much in your law practice , ect?). Just curious….

    1. A bit defeatist, but I understand where you’re coming from. The theory you refer to is I think associated especially with Roy Baumeister who recently published a book called – willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength. I haven’t read it yet but plan to do so

      1. I want to read it too, he was on the joe rogan podcast and sounded pretty legit. I have a girlfriend and I still gotta fap regularly, do not really want to stop. The only time I have is when the pressure of school or work was really on.

        1. Do you know what episode Baumeister was on The Joe Rogan Experience? I ran through his list of 400+ podcasts, did a google search of his site, and couldn’t find it. Appreciate the link if you’ve got one.

      2. Thanks for the tip on the book. I just DL’ed it off TPB. 20 Megabit connection – about 4 seconds,

  2. Bravo for your willpower. I’d say just a once or twice a week is ideal to keep your focus at the right balance between standards and horny.

  3. Fascinating article. I admire your willpower.
    On a not so serious note, your “So Now What” predicament made me think of this clip.

  4. I am on 47 days myself Dogger.
    It seems to have provided me with an increased sex drive and considerable mental clarity. There are definitely benefits, and we’re kings – hardly in need of beating it for a dopamine rush.

      1. I think he is referring to the Seinfeld episode when George Costanza becomes a genius over the course of a week by not indulging in his sexual urges and then loses it all when he hooks up with a janitor.

        2. No it was the Portuguese waitress “I calculated my odds of ever getting together with a Portuguese waitress. Mathematically I had to do it Jerry.”

    2. “provided me with……considerable mental clarity”
      Not if your comments are any indication.

      1. It doesn’t require considerable mental clarity to analyse that petulant passive-aggressive swipe.
        Poor guy.

        1. Point your pity pinky at the mirror bud. Intuition tells me you’re not as cool (or tough) as your online persona pretends to be.

  5. Jamie Lewis espouses a different take on the no-fap movement with a great article about masturbating as much as possible to release one’s inner beast and dominating the weights.
    http://chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2013/07/no-fap-more-like-no-fucking-way.html?zx=ce1cdaaf6bdd2e94
    An excerpt;
    “The very fact that I felt it necessary to spend time researching this topic turns my stomach- the no fap premise is so counter-intuitive and asinine that its existence defies logical explanation. The fact that they feel comfortable discussing their newfound sexual prowess after a period of abstention is even more ridiculous- it’s like that obnoxious fat bitch at the gym who feels confident giving advice about dieting to everyone around her because she was allegedly able to see her abs once. While dating a person of whom no one had ever heard, who lived out of state. And another dimension. You know- that dimension in which people with 30% body fat can see their abs and idiots who fuck once fortnightly break off nuts like porn stars and make chicks cum so hard it looks like they’ve got Parkinsons, Bell’s Palsy, and epilepsy. In summary, proponents of the no fap movement are lying sacks of weak sauce, scrawny, socially retarded, Christian fundamentalist dogshit with no understanding of science and even less understanding of human sexuality.”
    Someone has to get Jamie on this site for an interview. I met him once before a lifting meet where he deadlifted a fuck load of weight tearing his bicep in the process. He was back in the gym a few days later. The guy is as hardcore as it gets.

        4. Ohhh i believe you do….working with special needs kids for 8 years, I know how to spot one instantly.

        7. This distraction has ran its course. The audience can surmise who has the superior frame.
          I’m proud of you.

        8. Keep surmising and dreaming little boy. I could give a fuck what the audience thinks….you on the other hand….

    2. Agree 100%. ISTM, no fap is more just silly business from yet another interested group trying to sell it’s perspective as a one trick catch all solution to all of a persons ills. Reminds me of how ardently against p4p a lot of people selling PUA stuff are. Big surprise. Like the inverse of asking the barber if you need a haircut.

  6. Sometimes the rationality of the red pill hits parts of me that were so conditioned by society’s strong feminine imperative that it seems as if the world turned upside down…
    I want to congratulate author.
    But at the same time, blue pill conditioning wants me to think author is crazy.
    Simultaneously, I realize that there’s absolutely no way that this discussion has any place in true masculinity. While the author touches on a very important topic, masculine men shouldn’t even need to say such things, Author’s case should almost be assumed.

    1. The individual struggles of a sex addict shouldn’t make you wonder about the supposedly celibate too deeply. Some of them are frauds, some of them aren’t frauds.

    2. I think this is a good experiment and LD makes the conclusion in a round about way….
      It’s for an LTR… because you want to be constantly horny and constantly pushing her for sex, and you want to stay in all weekend and fuck her senseless – in large part to stop her wanting shopping trips and or other boring pursuits – but also because it will reduce the drivel factor and complaining to a mere trickle….
      then when you want time for yourself, she’ll be less clingy since she knows you’ve been so sexed up you won’t be likely to chase other girls…
      also you establish a hyper sexual relationship, (i’ve done this myself)…. and you set boundaries and expectations for future marathon weekends and constant sexual activity 24/7.
      an LTR of mine told me frequently that she wanted me to jump her in the middle of the night or early in the morning, that it was fine to just thrust inside her while she was sleeping… this is the kind of thing you’re not going to achieve in an LTR if you still like to jerk off…
      by losing the single guy jerk off habit in an LTR you impose a discipline on both yourself and her, to keep a very high level of sexual activity going on…. as soon as you (or she) jerks off… it’s a sex session missed and a reason for you not to be together…. jerking off also produces sexual frustration between you… the vibe is there….
      one thing i’ve learned from LTRs (in my case anyway) is that girls actually masturbate quite alot – most admit to 2-3 times a week…
      so by stopping that single habit, you’ll have much more real sex which increases the likelihood of holding down the LTR…

  9. Respect for doing something that few other men could do!
    I’m about 10 days in myself. It’s been an interesting experiment.
    I dont think I could last one year! (unless I was being paid!)

  10. Wasn’t it Tyler Durden in Fight Club that said, “Self improvement is masturbation”?
    We’re all wankers whether we play with it or not.

    2. Disagree. I leave fluid language/situational language definition changing to chicks, that’s their forte. Masturbation is masturbation, you’re either doing it, or you’re not. There are no inbetweens or substitutes.

  11. Kudos to you, Law dogger. The longest I’ve ever gone without fapping was a little over 2 weeks. After 2 weeks, I was almost going insane and succumbed to porn. Of course I regretted it after. Seeing someone like yourself however going through it for a year gives me motivation. I’ll try from now on not to fap 🙂

  12. All things in moderation.
    I’ve always taken the view that fapping with porn should be avoided at all costs, while mental spank-bank fappage is acceptable whenever necessary. At least with the latter, you actually put some effort forth in obtaining the memory. In that spirit, I concur the guy who needs to get his foot in the game, and actually start approaching women, should do his best to abstain for motivational purposes.

  13. No. not good advice. I found out the hard way that not “clearing the pipes” can lead to a prostate infection. I quit masturbating and just concentrated on having sex after dating and after about a 2 week dry spell developed a prostate infection. Dr. told me you have to clear the pipes at least once a week or you may develop an infection that takes a long time to go away. took me about a year and about 6 rounds of very powerful antibiotics to get rid of it. You can still be “master of your domain” but you have to clear the pipes at least once a week

        2. Did you know that if the world’s population was proportionately scaled down to a village of 100 people, you’d still be a wanker.

        4. Time for some new material bra…everyone around here’s read Mystery Method, so you’re embarrassing yourself.

    2. “just concentrated on having sex after dating and after about a 2 week dry spell developed a prostate infection.”
      You’re sure it’s not some STD?

    3. Read the post again. He banged his main squeeze 7 times in 16 hours. He discusses “refractory period.” This means the time it takes to recover from… wait for it… an ejaculation.
      That means his pipes are cleaned well and good. He’s banging, and jizzing, on the regular.
      Yeah, if you’re in a dry spell, you need to clean the pipes out. For most guys over 30, once a week is adequate, as you said.
      Also, if you’re getting an infection in your prostate after 2 weeks of not jizzing, it implies a significant lack of vitamins, minerals, and other plant antioxidants. Get thee a juicer, supplement with zinc, get that shit handled bro. No wonder you had a 2 week dry spell.

      1. Brazil nuts, saw palmetto, selenium. Sunlight. Men in the nothern climes stuck in months of dark days of winter have much higher incedences.

      2. I used to have multiple orgasms with zero time in between. As Adam Corolla used to say on Love Line: “Same boner, different jizz.” That went away around 26, but I’ve also been married since 22. And I did have one instance of very short refractory (new word for me) recently (34) when wifey was being extremely horny, pawing at me and practically purring. Maybe we had some kind of aphrodesiac in our dinner? Take it for what its worth.

    4. Semen is a carcinogen. Get it out of your system one way or another. I love sex as much as the next guy but..
      My health is more important that sticking my dick in some wet slimy hole.

    5. Once a week? I routinely go weeks without ejaculating and have never had a single problem. If I push it too long I have wet dreams anyway. I think something else was happening to you.

    6. If you don’t jack off, you should be getting wet dreams once in a while, which does the job. If you aren’t, there’s something else wrong. Especially if it was only two weeks, which suggests you either picked up some kind of STD or are trolling.

      1. I have read that the sperm in the testes actually recycles itself after 72 hours. We essentially have a 72 hour cycle compared to women’s one month cycle. Or something like that.
        Basically, I don’t think it is the author’s, or the commentor’s, lack of fapping that is the problem. I suspect it is something else.
        Men, in general, need to be better educated about their own bodies. If you don’t have a wife, and the ability to “clean your pipes” inside her with or without a condom; then you have to have another outlet.
        Since most of us here realize that marriage with anything but an acceptable foreign women (if that) will do; then you need to have several cum buckets readily available. Ideally, societies made men marry to help curb their basic instincts. And make them productive tools.
        Now that we are waking up, the theatrics should be hilarious.
        Men have needs, find a responsible outlet(s); and stick with the arrangement until something changes.

  15. Porn is for betas, and saps your ability to address the world. It also sells you a crock re sex. While we are at it, why the blazes are strip clubs seen as somehow manly? Go to a club, blow $300 and leave with a hard-on you need to spank away? Pathetic. I reckon it was healthier when guys off the ships met some working gal, tapped off, then went their merry way, rather than jerking off ad infinitum. Our grandfathers would understand.

    1. It’s still that way in the military (I know this for a fact, being former military), but the MSM doesn’t like to even breath that it happens any longer because it might upset the special snowflake “army strong!” wives back home who, as we’re told endlessly, sacrifice so much by staying at home baking cookies whilst bullets are flying at their husbands.

      1. More like stay at home spending money, banging random guys they pickup at the bar, and gossiping in FRG.

        1. Correct. I was trying to not spike the football quite so hard in the end zone, if you catch my drift.
          Jody takes no prisoners, soldiers, remember that.

        2. That’s what my neighbor’s wife was doing with various guys while he was off in Iraq. He was kind of a prick so I never told him.

      3. Baking cookies?? That’s all they do?? Really? Show some respect for all that women do-stop patronizing us. Stop thumbing your nose at what you perceive as “mere woman’s work”. If you guys stopped demeaning us and acknowledged our strengths it would go a long way in making women proud to be women.

  16. Since discovering the whole red pill thing, I’ve cut way down on jerking off and not even watched any porn in a long time. It does really make you more aggressive with women and makes the sex that much better. You’ll notice after jerking off, you feel resigned to just sit there and do nothing. You may have been all horned up for some chick and now don’t even care to try for her. This is solid advice-I think a year is excessive but i like the once a week idea.

  18. I’m noporn for almost six months now. I don’t do the nofap though, still fap once or twice a week. I mean I haven’t had sex since August and before that it was over a year, a guy has to have a release. The noporn component is the important thing, the nofap is irrelevant. Nofap is just a form of humblebrag, i.e. “I don’t need to beat it cuz I get laid like a champ”

    1. Nofap might benefit you, if you desire is to improve your skills with women. It will motivate you to be more aggressive in your interactions with women, as well as motivating you to interact with more women.

  19. When I know I will fucka girl, I try not to masturbate for at least 3 days before. Gives you a boost and some girls are impressed by the size of your load (when raw doggig and finishing on her abdomen).
    I think porn is damaging, but masturbation aided by mental images is a valid escape for energy, provided it is done not more than once each two days.

  20. I find that my success with the higher-quality women in my radar decreases when I don’t masturbate for extended periods of time. I suspect I get too goal-oriented and it comes across in my interactions with them; I scare away the rabbit, so to say.
    When I masturbate a reasonable amount, I find it easier to maintain a frame of indifference to them as a source of sex and get a higher rate and faster rate of returned texts, and date confirmations. This is only in the early testing stage, though (about 2 months out from starting to masturbate again).
    Note that I did get laid by a lot more girls when I wasn’t masturbating. They were almost all weak 6’s, though. Now I’m banging in the 7-8 territory.

  21. The problem wasn’t nofap, it was perhaps more related to having an addiction prone personality. Many men go nofap and find that their creative energies skyrocket and turn towards productive pursuits (business, hobbies, rock climbing, whatever).
    I don’t mean this as insult, rather observation.
    Correct observation about LTR’s. It is INCUMBENT on men to avoid fap in an LTR or marriage. If you start heavy fap in a marriage you will seal up a sexless sex life in very short time. If you instead keep her primed on the pump, you will never be sitting alone in the dark wondering why she hasn’t touched you in five months.

  22. i just can’t do it. It’s not a willpower thing, but i’m going full monk if i’m not fapping regularly.
    And i have a lot of pain in my lower abdomen if i have to fuck and i’m on a dry spell+no fap for a longer time (like 1,5/2 weeks).
    I’m just a lot more aggressive if i fap regularly and i have no pain so i can fuck longer harder faster…

  23. It’s tricky. If you don’t do it then you focus on too much sex and are a walking erection. If you do it, then it may hurt your game and cause some mental fog at work or school. Classic damn if you, damn if you don’t situation

  24. I don’t agree with some of what you said. Last year I went over 6 whole months without ejaculating in anyway and it was life changing . The first two months were hell, urges, temptation everywhere, but after that it felt as if I’d tapped into another level of consciousness. Zen like calm overcame me, I meditated everyday and followed a strict lifting plan. My porn addiction was gone, I could sit through an entire video and not flinch. In short I became supremely confident and picked up pace with day game successfully and in turn overcame my crippling social anxiety . I was finally approaching women who I’d have earlier considered intimidatingly beautiful. My streak came to an end last December inside the hottest girl I have ever been with. Nofap gave me that kick in my ass to get my act together and live more constructively. Give it a shot and see for yourself.

    1. Your story is exactly like mine. I’m totally fine being single or in a relationship.

  25. When you have access to sex it’s one thing to not jack it for a period of time but what if you don’t? Just going weeks and months without a release isn’t a reasonable expectation.

    1. Read the article. It actually spurred him to be out and about meeting everything in a skirt that would talk to him. Seems to me that this alone would help you improve game enough to pick up some broads. Going nofap and then sitting alone in your house watching Spongebob however, yeah, that could be bad.

  26. When I started nofap 6 months ago (with a relapse 3 months ago), massive depression kicked in. I don’t know if it’s depressed dopamine levels or something else, but it has passed and life “on the other side” is definitely better, increased motivation, social skills and concentration is just some of the effects I have noticed.. A bonus is the increase in wet dreams, one every one to two weeks. Instead of watching porn you can instead star in your own porn movie inside your head with much higher frequency, how great is that!?

    1. A bonus is the increase in wet dreams, one every one to two weeks.
      Instead of watching porn you can instead star in your own porn movie
      inside your head with much higher frequency, how great is that!?
      I get that too, and quite vividly. Banging chicks in your dreams holds you over until you get the real deal.

  27. I went a month or two without last year, and didn’t notice a major difference after the first week. From what I read there is a spike after the first five days or so, but your body will level off via homeostasis. It’s not like you’re going to be leaking jizz out of your pores. That’s what I experienced – initial “desperation,” then normal periods of horniness mostly via internal and external triggers. I think the focus on sex bit might be self-fulfilling, but that’s just a theory of mine, not fact. Overall the less wanking the better – I believe once a week tops if you don’t get laid that week.

  28. My approach is: No fap when you don’t have a girl, or till you fix up a date. You need the drive and aggression to chase, approach, hook up with girls.
    But once you’ve fixed up the date, have a mind relaxing fap before.
    It solved much of the anxiety and impatience problem, before the date.
    There’s something about Mary – even though that movie is a comedy, did help me a lot to secure a lot of successful bangs. No fap before a date usually means I’d become more aggressive and say things which could screw up the date.
    Fap right before a date makes me relaxed with a Zen-like, nonchalant, “I don’t care a damn” attitude. I found it gave more stoicism and frame control on what I was going to say (conversation in no fap scenarios, often became uncontrollable due to aggression). I succeeded more on dates, when I didn’t try more hard. Without fapping, there’s huge stress and aggression building up, girls could often sense my itchiness/restlessness/impatience, and I tended to try too hard (became too aggressive), which often scared the girls and inevitably screwed up the dates.
    And regarding the sex that came later on with a successful date (which often came with a fap before) – sex usually lasted longer (with more pleasure), if not with more frequency. Testosterone usually came back to normal levels more or less during and after the completion of the successful date, and before I took her to have sex.
    Sometimes the girls did wonder why I took too long to cum (they didn’t know about the pre-date fap).
    Quality counts as much as quantity.
    No fapping often made me cum more quickly in the first session (which never made me too happy). Quickies are not usually my type of sex, unless if pressed for time and location.
    To each, his own.

  29. Spank off when needed. Continue the fuck marathons but curb your desire with spank sessions at least two to three times a week. Sex should only be on your mind 70 percent of the time lol. Nothing wrong with going through the harem rotation. But you know the deal, always be looking for new trim.

  30. I don’t fap for religious reasons, and never have (except briefly during my teens before I realized what I was doing), so it can be done long-term.
    More importantly, I would probably still be an omega sperg if I wasn’t driven by the resulting horniness into self-improvement. Instead, now, I have the confidence to talk to even the hottest women and capture their interest.
    I therefore suspect that the religious prohibitions on fapping were based on ancient (or divine) wisdom.

    1. The vast majority of religious/ancient wisdom are indeed based on good, hard facts of life. Even the ones that no longer apply, did apply for solid reasons back in the day (eating pork being a no no, for example). They didn’t need *science* (don’t know the heart emote thing CH uses) to figure out the clear and apparent things that most *science* today is either rediscovering through laborious trial and error, or is denying despite the clear evidence.

    2. I suspect they were based on the fact that historically you got married about 14, at which point your jizz should be inside your wife, for procreation and mutual pleasure.
      There’s really no more to it than that.
      No-Fap makes you more aggressive and more horny. So, don’t fap if you want to be more aggressive and horny (and you don’t mind cleaning up nocturnal emissions). If you don’t mind either way, then do what you will. Simple.

      1. Actually, while girls were almost always married off in their teens, many men didn’t get married until later when they were established, so they’d still have to spend their 20s celibate… which, I guess, would be a further impetus for them to get established in the first place. And then there were the men in the priesthood.

  31. Law Dogger-
    DO you do any strength training?
    Are you over 35?
    Many agree these are factors in bang capacity.

  32. I stopped watching porn towards the end of last December. My focus on banging girls sky rocketed, but I’ll be honest – I’ve been pulling girls from tinder & occasionally OKC.
    My drive to get them into bed has become more aggressive as does the sex with them. Before when I fapped I was one and done. Now I’ve had 3 sessions with a 10-15 min rest in between. I’m more focused at work and stronger at the gym.
    I’ve slept with more women in the first 2 months of this year than I did in all of last year. I’ve got a semi rotation going and I’m always going on dates and racking up what are potential DTF’s and LTR’s.
    Sure I’ve fapped maybe 2 times in the last 2 months but my god stopping watching porn and not fapping has brough so much more positivity to my life !!

  33. This is so true when you are in an LTR or have a soft harem to rotate. I almost destroyed a business of mine with the amount of time that I was with an LTR who was really into sex. My refractory period kept getting shorter and the more we did the more she wanted. To this day I wonder something: if a person has a great marriage sex life, how does he not ruin his life and business/career. You can’t get anything done, you will adjust your schedule to be with her afternoon, morning, etc. Maybe it was due to the fact that she was off work on a layoff package. She had the free time to indulge and almost drive me to an early grave. I have verified this with other unemployed girls. They can very easily get into you if you have good sexual chemistry. Some of us need a limiting factor and I make sure that she has some “normal” occupation or even married life.
    It would probably apply to a different post but is useful here. A sign that a girl is a crazy slut is that she does not work and is not married or does not have a child. Under these conditions the above applies in full and the dynamic described in this article will lead to your demise because of the temptation.

  34. LawDogger…..let me ask….aren’t you coming (ejaculating) when you’re having all this sex? I mean is there a difference in the feeling of release or satisfaction between coming when you’re masturbating or coming when you’re having sex? I’m just wondering if you’re having all this sex…..why you’re still constantly horny?

    1. there is a HUGE difference from cumming in/on a girl than getting yourself off. I’m constant horny regardless of not having sex for a few days or not fapping. Some mens sexual desires are stronger than others. imho

      1. Girls give off hormones that keep you horny — it’d make sense, as their bodies are trying to get you to impregnate them. Fapping, OTOH, simply drains your T away.

  35. my masturbation schedule is something like two weeks abstinence then a day of one session, maybe two. Sometimes I cheat and jack off in the shower (hey, my dick watches me while i shave, I’m a morning wood guy)
    That schedule still requires discipline, although i’m not sure if it’s optimal.

  36. I really appreciate the no-fap ideas. Religious reasoning is never going to convince the youth. Honestly, the “no sex before marriage” rule and the abundance of internet pornography is just a cruel death trap for religious youth.

  39. I’ve got a buddy who has an issue with recurring prostatitis. It can happen from an infection OR be spontaneous. Treatment is antibiotics if it’s pathogenic, or beating your meat like it owes you money if it’s nonpathogenic. “Daily masturbation” was the prescription, since my buddy is married to an American and only gets laid like once every 5 days.
    For my part, though, all the sex Lawdogger discusses- I get chafed pretty good after having sex on multiple times on multiple days- but more modestly, like 3 times in one day, I’ll be too sore to enjoy my 2nd round on the next. It’s not the soreness during sex that bugs me, though, but the chafing if you exercise or do something strenuous after.
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  40. So not jerking off for a long time leads to superior stamina, sexual prowess, etc.?
    Really? Who’d a thought!
    What a stud.
    Bragging this way is like bragging that you won a pie eating contest by starving for a week.
    “When your only outlet is sex you’d be amazed how fast you get out there and start hitting on girls.”
    Yes, and you’d be amazed how fast the girls see that you’re a desperate horndog they can wrap around their finger.
    Great game!
    Retards

  41. I know most of the guys on ROK are in their 20s and 30s, but speaking from the other side of 50, it is important to abstain if you are in a LTR. I.e., save it for your woman. You just don’t have the rebound power you did at 30.
    Of course if you are in the typical sexless American marriage, that’s all you have.

    1. Yeah I’d like to see this done by a guy trying to break a cold streak or a guy moving to a new location who doesn’t enjoy gaming every attractive chick in sight.

  43. Another thoughtful, quality contribution from the kings.
    Having to cater to the more cunning of the genders, the consideration process for stimulating subject matter must be difficult. This post continues ROK’s proud tradition of high standards. The manosphere is blessed with another gem.
    Clearly, only the most pressing of issues are worthy of the royal quill.
    ~ Désirée Meyers-lieBowitz, the TLW.

  45. Personally, I find that cutting porn is essential if you want to stop being a loser. However I found I couldn’t concentrate on anything at all besides sex if I went even 2 weeks with it.
    Drawing funds from the wank bank aint bad, relying on porn, is.

  47. haha I call this bullshit, based on your affirmation that all girls like rough and aggressive sex, some do, but many others don’t and will let you know and this just proves you are lying about this(at least the part about getting lots of sex=)
    On one thing I agree, when you quit having regular masturbation or sex, you become a lot more aggressive.

  49. I think not watching porn is a good thing, while it really messes with your brains reward-system. Scrolling thru dozens of super hot women is really unnatural if you consider the prehistoric male might only see a handful of those in his whole life, and not even completely naked.
    I think you should flush your prostate regularly, so going cold turkey on masturbation is not my thing. I also doubt it will help you in game. If you want to increase your testosterone you should workout, stop eating junkfood, catch some sunlight. If you want to have the courage to approach girls, well, you just should approach everything bangable that gives an indicator of interest. We men are most of the time unaware of them, or chicken and let it pass.

  50. This is the reason I love this site. I’m a loner and find validation for my personal journey through manhood time and time again. Thanks for the great write.
    I always say the only piece of female advice a man needs is this: Stop masturbating. It’s best for every man, and will teach every man, personally through his own experiences, everything he needs to know about real fulfillment (however temporary; another topic) with women. A hungry man is very clever how to get his next meal.
    Man up and leave that thing alone. You might cum quick if you’re at that place but so what? Be creative. Stick it in her mouth and make her swallow at first. If she’s not willing, why are you with her in the first place? Being primed and ready to go is your right as a man own it.
    If I want a hand job I make a woman give me one. Those porno’s you’re whacking off to? Those broads would not spread for you. You’re fooling yourself. You’re creating false realities in your own head that damage your own real life chances. If you can’t own your own sexuality and control it, you will never control the sexuality of a woman. They already have more access to it than you do and are better at it. The trump card? Your self control.
    This was assumed in ancient times. If you had an orgasm in your sleep even, you were disqualified from fighting in battle:
    ‘Now if a man has a seminal emission, he shall bathe all his body in water and be unclean until evening.”
    Until the even= next noon. The implication here is that the man is already not packing his pud. The only way a normal man can have an orgasm in his sleep is if he’s not getting regular orgasms otherwise. Way more to the topic, but the principle is evident. Go get women.
    The return of kings will be fully realized with the return to the King of Kings.

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