Loving And Hating Feminism At The Same Time

I have previously and repeatedly stated how hard it was for me to adapt to American culture once I moved to the States. How it was shocking to see women behave in a way that until that day I could only regard as proper behavior for a man. I found myself being actively pursued, something that in Colombia would be inconceivable, something I quickly learned to take advantage of.

Having been raised in a very conservative and traditional household, I went to a top notch private high school were I was taught how to behave according to what the high and ultra conservative social class of my country expected. There, I learned the intricate mechanism that ruled social interaction at that level. I also learned that women were just as horny as men, but that they had to hide it. No one wants the daughter of an ambassador being publicly exposed as a slut.

I observed the scenario, recognized my target, and adapted to my situation. In other words, I saw that girls would never sleep with me if I shamed them for being sluts, and other sluts would then learn not to get involved with me because their reputation would be at stake. Therefore, to play the game in my teenage years I did my best effort to put a front of discipline and discretion. If I slept with a girl, as bad as I wanted to brag, I would keep my mouth shut. I realized this policy of discretion and reserve was the only possible way to keep my amorous adventures intact. It was horrible; not being able to tell anyone that I was banging girls left and right like I was running out of scotch.

Welcome To America

The contrast with American culture was astonishing, I saw girls openly claiming that they too were on the hunt for a night of blissful and shallow passion. I embraced this attitude and swore to myself I would never marry a Colombian woman. I was so infatuated with this cultural oasis that I started a relationship with an American girl.

She was smart and beautiful, but incredibly emotionally unstable , a hard-core Democrat and feminist. I decided to put this to a test by molding her into what I wanted in a girl. I would do whatever I wanted to her in bed, and then sent her to the kitchen to take care of my food. She then became too emotionally dependent and I was forced to end things, but I had learned what feminism stood for and what modern feminism stands for now.

I understand that some terrible things are done to the weaker sex. In some countries female circumcision is normal and required, and in others they are stoned for insulting the prophet Mohammed. Feminism is trying to help these women and make them equal in the eyes of the law, but more importantly, it has freed their sexuality, a fact that has had very generous results for yours truly.

The cost is that modern feminism has become as blind as radical Islam. In the same way that making a cartoon of Allah can get you killed, any attempt of a man to exhibit his nature and sexuality will have you labeled as condescending and damaging to women. Anything that even resembles any vestige of masculinity is a threat and therefore must be removed. They refuse to engage in logical, rational and methodical arguments, clearly exemplified in example of Toronto feminist Big Red, who Jezebel desperately attempted to defend.

The Shaming Of Common Sense

When a person radicalizes a topic they close off to any attempt to a rational discussion. Current American feminists seem to think that any man who uses common sense and logic is anti-women, misogynist, male chauvinist and all other related nonsense.

For example, if the military won’t admit women for a special division of bad ass armed forces they immediately jump the gun and shout you misogynistic pig! However there is a very simple reason why they do that: countries are not in the business of losing wars. And in the specific case of the United States, they didn’t become the best armed forces on earth by training weak units.

Do not get me wrong, it’s fine if girls put in the work and pass the tests like men, but wanting things handed to them because of gender alone without earning it is outrageous and simply comical.

I strive to always keep a rational and methodical process in everything that I do. This has led many women to label me as a woman hater, misogynist, womanizer and such. And although I will admit that often times my misanthropist side comes out for a walk, I do not think I’m a misogynist. I have loved many women quite frequently; if anything I am a philogynist. If there were no women left in the world I would probably throw myself off a cliff.

The Equality Excuse

What I find most annoying is their sanctimonious claim that feminism is for equality. If this bogus statement held any resemblance of truth I would have some respect for feminism, but the sheer hypocrisy of their behavior is perplexing. If feminism were truly for equality, they wouldn’t obviate the concrete facts that evidence a society that is clearly lenient towards women. A clear example of this is the fact that women serve far less prison time for equal or comparable crimes (63% less time)

…females arrested for a crime are also significantly more likely to avoid charges and convictions entirely, and twice as likely to avoid incarceration if convicted.

They also ignore the many cases of false rape accusations that destroy male careers and where men are treated as monsters. The incredible divorce settlements that end up on women taking everything and males ending up moving out of their own house. Kicking me out of my house is just as absurd from a woman as she expecting me to marry her at 32.

At this point please allow me to request that you do not take me for an MRA or a defender of male rights. I could not care less if a bunch of betas end up as lap dogs of some fat and unattractive girl (any man who lets that happen to him deserves it). In the end  I don’t even know why I’m writing this, because the more decadent American women become, the more easy sex I get. I used to have to spend my money on them—now they spend theirs on me. I should say I’m sorry for soaking up your American culture and banging you girls, but I’m not.

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28 thoughts on “Loving And Hating Feminism At The Same Time”

  1. “In the end I don’t even know why I’m writing this, because the more decadent American women become, the more easy sex I get.”
    Watching society kill itself can only be offset by hedonism for so long but I guess we have to play with the deck we were given.

  2. I understand that some terrible things are done to the weaker sex. In
    some countries female circumcision is normal and required, and in others
    they are stoned for insulting the prophet Mohammed. Feminism is trying
    to help these women and make them equal in the eyes of the law, but more

    And the men aren’t circumcised or stoned? Where women are livestock, the men are fertilizer for the grass. And don’t believe the feminists’ lies, they only bring up women in distant times and lands to advance their own claim to victimhood, and get even more handouts for wealthy Western women.

  3. Ha! I don’t ever slut shame a woman…so long as she spreads her legs wide open for me, I encourage the slutiness…and applaud it. Beta males, heed the call of Game…learn it and reap the rewards…

  4. Glossary of terms, World Dictionary 2050:
    Feminism. From the same people who invented Nazism.
    Goal: to oppress the masses eventually into enslavement by a future police state (achieved).
    Bernankified women = socially and morally bankrupt depreciating asset artificially inflated by fiat (validation, instagraming, facebook etc..) that becomes exponentially worthless in value leading to a ‘crash’.
    Sluts = someone who’s had so much [email protected] and validation [email protected] that their value in their minds is far above their real value. Not useful for a long-term relationship to any male, even alphas (they cheat on them with other alphas).
    Hypergamy = ‘arms race’ where women eventually:
    (1) become fat/otherwise physically unattractive
    (2) expect more from men whilst becoming more and more useless
    (3) used up
    ‘the West’ = a dying culture that embraced the above values, that led to its collapse. Hence the need for the protection of the common citizen by the government, who helped make the world a better place by ensuring that the common man/woman had their money supply cut off should they dare speak against the eternal wisdom of the government.

    1. “Feminism. From the same people who invented Nazism.”
      When’s your red pill going to extend to history, dude?

    2. Instead of Naziism, try Communism to be accurate. I’m definitely not a fan of the Nazism, but Communism is worse. Nazism did not invent feminism as much as Communism did. Matt Forney is right in that it doesn’t take courage to attack Nazis as they are a defeated most maligned force. It does take courage to attack the Communists or their pinko-lite fellow travelers such as socialists, feminists etc. Could those of you who attack Nazism show some sense and attack the pinkos such as feminists or even show some testicular fortitude rather than pussy weakness by doing so?

      1. Communism invented feminism? I’m not sure that’s accurate. As nonsensical as communist societies were, their exclusively male rulers cared far more about tractor production and bigger tank divisions than “gender equaliteee”. In the end they only paid lip service to “women’s liberation”, the few times they pushed it in practice was when it somehow solidified their own power (Mao used groups of women to beat down defenseless dissenters during the Cultural Revolution, for instance). Just one example, when Emma Goldman showed up in Soviet Russia after getting deported from the US, the Bolsheviks ignored or laughed at her until she got fed up and left.
        Aside from some rhetorical allusions tossed around academia’s ivory tower, modern feminists aren’t big on Marxism…the idea of sharing your stuff with other people (especially working-class men who don’t like cupcakes) doesn’t much appeal to the carousel-riding SWPL career-woman.

        1. When the Communists realized their revolutions were failing and that the middle classes were sticking to traditional values, they decided to undermine middle class values by taking up the mantle of oppressed victim groups – women, blacks, gays, lesbians, trannies, atheists, etc.
          A transition from “the capitalists are oppressing labor” to “the white male Christians are oppressing everyone else.”

  5. “I should say I’m sorry for soaking up your American culture and banging you girls, but I’m not.”

    1. Hey, its about feminism laying waste to men. Trying to say that you’re the [email protected] and superior to American men is mental masturbation. There are worthy and unworthy men in every country. EVERY country. Nowadays, being a worthy guy is looked down upon (the real alpha male), whilst being some useless parasite is called being alpha. No wonder society is going down the drain. Get a clue.

  6. Is the ending paragraph directed at MRAs? Otherwise, I doubt people with similar mindsets to yours, presumably the average RoK reader, care much about foreigner fornication. I sure don’t. It just doesn’t sit right, really. Nationality isn’t as strong a pull as race/ethnicity or perhaps religion.
    The title hits home a certain attitude I feel as well. My feelings toward relationships sit in the middle between fairly open licentiousness and noble monogamy inside marriage; I would finely go down either road, but the latter appears too riddled with stressful obstacles nowadays, while the former merely brings along with it shaming from the usual suspects. Big deal.
    I disagree with never marrying a Colobian woman though. I didn’t understand that remark. I assume the most pleasant option for marriage might come from a woman who has grown up in a conservative, non-feminist culture. Those do exist in the US (the Amish?) but certainly aren’t widespread.
    Good column.

    1. “I should say I’m sorry for soaking up your American culture and banging YOU girls, but I’m not.” I think its pretty clear to whom that line is addressed. As for not marrying a Colombian that is simply a personal choice, I find Eastern Europeans far more attractive, many of my friends think I’m insane, but to me they are more exotic and interesting. I’ve had Colombian ass on tab most of my life, Eastern European not so much.
      To the ones complaining about not catering to their needs (not writing about finding a wife but instead covering in detail my sexual experiences). I am a young man who writes from experience, and that is all I will do, I will not write about something I have not lived. I am currently not looking for a wife, and won’t be looking for one for at least another 7 to 8 years.

  7. Two points……
    1. Not just women get stoned for insulting the Prophet Mohammed.
    2. MRA isn’t about helping beta’s deal with their fat wives. It’s about equality and keeping even the non-beta’s as having some basic human rights (think Duke Lacrosse Team which was presumed guilty of rape right from the start.

  8. I don’t believe women are equal in general. They are just another tool to use on your way up, and for other things that men are to busy kicking ass to do. truths a bitch girls

  9. So basically a rich boy foreigner is bragging on the fact that he can screw a bunch of emotionally challenged out of control females?
    You’re right, I don’t understand why you wrote this article. Stick to shredding your pecs and abs, and putting on the cheap show to dazzle equally cheap women.
    One thing about a lot of the articles on ROK, it seems to be coming from the view point of a bunch of middle class and rich boys who discovered some semblance of manhood when they discovered women were easier than in their childhood fantasies.
    That’s nice, but at the age when you first trying your hand at getting under a bra my knuckles were covered in blood.

  10. “Feminism is trying to help these women and make them equal in the eyes of the law, but more importantly, it has freed their sexuality, a fact that has had very generous results for yours truly.”
    Yeah, right. Maybe for you and a handful of other alphas or guys who have learned enough game to make themselves LOOK like alphas. Today the distribution of pussy is skewed more than ever, with fewer and fewer men having more and more sex.
    For the rest of us it meant not only getting nothing but also the creation of a class of competitors for economic power who used to be potential mates. I won’t starve to death for the benefit of some cunt riding the carousel or married to a guy making $200K and competing with me for a job making $60K so she can feel “fulfilled”.

  11. Translated into “Look at me I score so much” 🙂 Could be, but this is not the reality for millions for western men. Most want to find a nice pretty young girl and build a future. This is not really possible anymore and you want to thank feminism for THAT ?

  12. Fucking women may be easier but the women are less attractive and looking to fuck you over in every way you can imagine. I hope you aren’t a leftist and understand what equality under the law actually means. I posed it to a woman today. Would you rather live in a rich society where you make less than men or a fucking cave where you pick the berries and they hunt and everything is equal. She said that’s not what I’m talking about to which I replied I had used extremes to make my point. The answer obviously is logically you should want to be richer even if things are unequal but people these days want forced collectivism to make things equal even if we are all poorer. I don’t want to fuck the feminist slut. I’m disgusted by that shit and so should you be. Sluts should be shamed. Me fucking the sorority house is not the same as young Jessica fucking her way through a frat party. Double standards are real, equality under the law is a sham about devaluing work. I’ll take the ability to support myself and a family over a woman buying me a drink any fucking life you offer me.

  13. But the question is, do you need feminism to get easy sex? I don’t see why society can’t be casual about sex and reject feminist bigotry at the same time.

  14. I’m sorry. You said there was a lot of sex in Columbia and then you say there was a lot of sex in America and then you thank feminism for letting you have sex in America.
    Maybe you should try to make sense.

  15. I know exactly where you are coming from. It seems like women are the ones that hate the results of Feminism the most whereas men, can enjoy the fruits for years without ever really having to do anything for it. As long as you don’t want to marry, or have children it’s a veritable utopia of free sex till you die.
    I love that they just don’t get it. I’ll explain it to them when they are crying that I’ve told them it’s over. But they just can’t grasp the principle that they are interchangeable. Just pu**y, and sometimes you just want a new piece…
    So thank you ladies for the wonderful life…

  16. This post reminds me of the 300lb man who, upon finishing a sumptuous meal, was heard to remark that he could not imagine anyone in the world being hungry at that moment.

  17. This ‘look at me’ style of self congratulatory masturbation for having ‘won’ some sort of inheritance lottery is really typical of mainstream female blogging and editorializing. Shame its been published by ROK. Meanwhile I was banned by an over-eager mod for saying that Asian female fixation is a bit beta-ish.

  18. Hmmm…perhaps the writer would think I am a “beta” (an all-purpose reflexive “answer” all too often in the PUA/Manosphere) for suggesting that one might have aspirations and concerns in life beyond getting the ol’ pecker wet? As important as sex is, MEN have always had, and still must have, a deeper purpose in life than sating their basic appetites and thinking only of themselves at all times. In the post-adolescent mindset (which admittedly, never occurs in many American men or women these days) it is reasonable and even natural to be concerned about the situation of other men and of our society at large. Unfortunately, the kind of narcissism displayed by the writer is increasingly common, and a major factor in the decay of our society.

  19. “I will admit that often times my misanthropist side comes out… I do not think I’m a misogynist. I have loved many women ….; if anything I am a philogynist. If there were no women left in the world I would probably throw myself off a cliff.”
    I love this. Excellent intro to your personal style of writing, and subject matter.

  20. That’s hilarious that you’re talking about yourself having rational thought and common sense when you so clearly don’t.
    Feminism as it should be is fine, and sexuality is only a small fraction of it. I don’t like misandry and I don’t like misogyny. No one is above anyone else. (Although you evidently think you are.) Yes, there are a few issues where women have some advantage, but funny enough, those are due to the idea that women are weak and what have you, which is against feminist ideas. Need I remind you that most of the government that makes those regulations is comprised of men? If they see a problem with those things, they should address them. Regardless, the societal advantages women have are nowhere near the disadvantages. But I arrived on this blog to read the somatotypes post and saw this, and now I realized this is one of those weird ass holier-than-thou conservative masculinity blogs, which of course lack rational thought. So at this point all I can say is I wish arguing is worth the effort, but that’s exhausting and I hope perhaps one day you’ll understand why you’re just plain wrong. You’ve probably already made up your mind as to what kind of person I am if you’re reading this, and you’d be wrong again. But I digress. May true critical thinking and just a teaspoon of compassion finally enter your brains.

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