207 thoughts on “5 Things You Must Do If You Have A Female Stalker”

1. I can’t seem to get the PDF letters to render.
   Is that bus picture of her, and are those her actual text messages?
   Fucking weird shit man, glad you made it through unscathed.
   There has got to be a way to affect changes to the system to stop this kind of bullshit of treating male victims of women as irrelevant. MRA is a joke, so that’s out, but I wonder if another, more rational advocacy group can be started?

   1. be glad. pdf’s came up for me. Belonged in Kevin Spacey’s notebook in the movie Se7en

      1. “be glad. pdf’s came up for me. Belonged in Kevin Spacey’s notebook in the movie Se7en”
         Notice the Star of David at the top of Crazy letter 2.
         http://www.returnofkings.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/Crazy-letter-2.pdf
         From an Israeli newspaper.
         http://www.haaretz.com/news/israel/.premium-1.560128
         Scientists discover gene that predisposes Ashkenazi Jews to schizophrenia: Variations of the DNST3 gene make Ashkenazi Jews 40 percent more likely to develop schizophrenia and similar diseases.
         Israeli and American scientists have discovered a gene among Ashkenazi Jews that increases their chances of developing the mental disorder schizophrenia, as well schizoaffective disorder and manic depression.

         1. That is very interesting, and something I didn’t pick up on. I’m not sure, but she definitely looks like she might be Jewish…

         2. Some form of schizophrenia is fairly common for people with high IQs. The Ashkenazi were forced into high IQ professions for centuries, so yea, their bell curve is 15 points in advance of everyone else’s.
            I suffer from it myself, but have had it under control for decades. If you commute to work in a dragster, you will occaisionally throw piston rods and destroy transmissions. Just part of the price.

      2. Can you give us a tl;dr of what is written in those letters? Im curious now.

         1. I couldn’t really tell. The writing was all small and crazy. Like someone else said, there is a davidic star. Also other symbols I didn’t know. Just crazy things.

   2. Hi mate, Mark here. The letters should be ok to access, I just clicked on them then and they worked fine? Yes, both pictures are indeed her, and that was one of her actual text messages (I estimate I received 500+ – seriously!). Many of them were about how she wanted to have my babies etc, just completely whacked. I never even kissed her! I chose those photos because I wanted to add realism to the article, whilst at the same time I don’t think it is possible to identify her… by the way I totally agree with you, it is a joke, which is why I wrote the article. For fuck’s sake, it dragged on for a year and it wasn’t until a mystery woman complained about her that they finally did something.. I was seriously followed around pretty much every day for an entire year! I’m posting a more in-depth piece for my website that is going up soon, so stay tuned for that…

2. And people look at me funny when I say that I avoid American women. They are batshit crazy!

   1. I’ve often wondered where “batshit crazy” came from, so I looked it up. Probable origins lay in the earlier phrase from the turn of the 20th century “bats in the belfry”. Also the phrase was in solid use in the military since at least the 1950’s and is likely where Hunter Thompson learned it (he was in the Air Force I believe). Another theory is that there actually is a chemical/enzyme in bat shit which, when ingested, acts as a hallucinogenic.
      So take your pick!
      Off topic, but etymology has always interested me.

      1. The more you know!

   2. The weird thing is that women, anywhere, are no different from each other innately but branch off based on society and catering. So that shows just how fucking nuts American society currently is and has become in such a short period of time. Do you think this shit took place 50 years ago? Hell no……

      1. Do you think this shit took place 50 years ago? 
         Hell ya, in the US, read some Tennessee Williams for example, “A Streetcar Named Desire”, etc.
         Ferkricesakes.

3. 1) get a CHL (sorry if you live in a liberal state with gun grabbing nazis)
   2) buy a handgun you feel comfortable with (again sorry if you live in an anti gun liberal state)
   3) make sure your computer equipment is safe and secure (modems, routers, and laptops etc.) and make sure your social media and e-mail is monitored closely and have secure passwords.
   4)depending on how big of a threat you feel the stalker is (yes female stalkers get fucking crazy and can harm you) amp up/beef up your security system. lock doors at your place and take different routes to and from work.
   5) don’t engage the stalker. the female can lie about you hitting her or have fatal plans of taking your ass out if she doesn’t have her way with you. she could also try to poison you or some shit too so double check shit in your house. another one is if you know what time she shows up to your place to stalk you…show up to your place at an off time to catch her in the act..the hunter becomes the hunted.

   1. He’s in Australia. No guns for him!
      Agree with you though.

      1. that sucks lol…but i don’t think that documenting thing he posted if very helpful bc police and the justice system are white knights. you could show up and say this girl is stalking you or harassing you and the police would just laugh you outta the station..so it’s better to protect yourself imo. guys also have a mentality that women can’t hurt them, so they will engage a crazy ass bitch w/o thinking she may have some weapon or trick up her sleeve to neutralize him.

         1. Technically though, it did help him. She eventually got taken to the looney bin, so a happy ending to the story.
            I do think you’re right, and if somebody else hadn’t reported her I suspect that your analysis would be correct.
            Protecting oneself is paramount. I haven’t had women stalk me in a persistent real life way, that I’m aware of, though last summer there was a 20-something chick, a “beer girl” at bike night in my area (they hire young hot chicks to sell beer on the patios), who seemed to tag along wherever I went and constantly show up wherever I was standing out on the bar patio (without beer in tow, so she wasn’t selling something). Not really stalking, and she was super pretty (I think she is 22?), so I really didn’t mind, but after a while it did seem…odd. It’s one thing if you’re flirting with a chick, quite another when she just shows up and follows you across the place every Wednesday. Should have brought the wife along, probably could have instilled some not-so-soft dread with that, heh.

         2. Get her to threaten a female you know an have the female report her. They will start to take it seriouse then.

         3. I’m starting to think you are Clarence Morrow from SoA

         4. I have no idea what you just said, and I’m too lazy to google the shit, but it sounds like it might be complimentary, so, thank you. I think.
            It’s Ohio, smack dab near the largest college campus in these united States, and apparently a whole different world than you’ll find in, say, Alabama or Oregon. Girls here don’t just approach me, they approach most masculine men in general. It seems like OppositeVille compared to the places Roosh and Company work in.

         5. It’s pretty much a compliment. It is a great character. Lucky he didn’t compare you to the actor though. Ron Pearlman is a Hollywood beta moron who is really great at portraying alpha characters onscreen.

      2. No guns? Are you serious? I would have assumed accesing guns would be easy.

         1. Very strict gun laws in Australia since The Port Arthur shootings.

         2. Not in Aussie land they aren’t, not any longer. You can still have some limited type access to firearms, shotguns and non-semi auto rifles I think (some Aussie correct me if I’m wrong) but they come with piles of red tape, or so I’ve heard. Sidearms are right out though, and I believe that any form of carry is out for non-law enforcement/military.

         3. Nope you’re right restrictions on theu type of firearm an you have to keep your gun locked away no carrying it around. Getting a gun license isn’t actually to hard though.

      3. Even with firearms it’s chancy at best. Women don’t attack from the front, they know they can’t win a physical confrontation 9 of 10 times. The other thing is “white knight syndrome” where males will try to protect her. Yes, even the cops. If you’re lucky killing her may not net you jail time but, you evil (EVIL) man, you’ll likely be jailed for a while.
         Avoid, get stabbed in the back after a confrontation, or kill outright and go to jail. None are pleasant. The author did the right thing: avoid and try to get the bint arrested. Unfortunately white knighting makes it take forever.

         1. The firearm applies probably more to the white knights than to her, for the reason you mention.

         2. do you think if a man shot a woman in self defense that the courts would be willing to bat for the guy? that does seem like a slippery slope bc the white knights will scream ‘she’s just a woman you could have taken her down’ even though she’s equipped with a bazooka and chainsaw

         3. If I remember right, in DV cases, women are more likely to use weapons. They do this to make up for the difference in physical strength.
            That being said, my argument boils down to damned if you do, damned if you don’t. Even in cases of self defense you are likely to get fucked over.

         4. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t situations do not end with good results once people figure it out. If you’re going to get jail regardless, why not just kill her and be done with it? With a true justice system you wouldn’t have that choice to make, there would be penalties for one action and nothing but good vibes for the other, so you make the good choice. But if all choices are bad, the more unstable in society likely see no point in any kind of behavior moderation whatsoever.

         5. Definitely valid points, however you’re looking at the difference between nearly assured prison time and only small chance. You do have to weigh the percentages and other risks of course.

      4. Notably there’s not much stalking in “flyover country”. In Washington much is said about all those deep valleys and how cops are too fat to go searching around in them.

   2. Keep dangerous objects like kitchen knives out of sight and locked somewhere if you have to

4. have had similar interactions with two rather attractive women that i later figured out had been committed to psyche wards. Never got texts like that though. I have had love letters written and left in my mailbox though

5. how about punching her in the face every time?

   1. Direct, no nonsense, communicates the message rather bluntly and is relatively safe for the practitioner. I like it. Unfortunately, the cops, eh, not so much.

      1. different approach: whenever she comes, you beat her. that’s the nonverbal communication. but you tell her that she must not tell the police, because you two couldn’t be together else. tell her that you want to be with her, but cannot control yourself. tell her you love her so much that you have to beat her whenever she is in your vicinity.
         eventually, she should stop obsessing?

         1. Actually that’s more prone to create permanent ever binding attraction.
            And fuck me but I wish that was a joke.

         2. man. but what if you give her more of that love than she can take? like, say, a teeth-shattering experience?

         3. Ask cops and judges who work DV how that works out. The amount of attraction women get from that kind of thing is unbelievable. In addition, they also get a whole lot of drama that they can brag about with their friends. There is a point where it becomes too much, of course, but geez, the number of abused women that go right back to their dirtbag boyfriend/husbands who hit them regularly is astounding, from what I’ve heard.

         4. weird stuff. i still believe it would work, but i admit i have never tried it. when i do, i promise to write an article about it.

         5. Hahaha you could seriously troll people with that advice!

         6. i was serious. the concept is not to force her to go, but to make it seem like she made the decision. sending two conflicting signals is also what women do – double bind.

   2. It gets even worse. Women get aroused and addicted to beating. So she would provoke you more and more to the point that you beat her so hard that it can cause serious and obvious damage. Neighbours will notice and next thing the police will be at your door.
      Same with rough sex, the bitches love it but it makes them very promiscuous as it stimulates their male tendencies.

6. There is a mentally disturbed woman in my apartment building as well. I run into her once every three or four weeks or so. Each encounter, she keeps staring at me with those crazy eyes, without saying so much as a word. If I happen to stand in the back of the elevator, she turns towards me and looks me straight in the eyes instead of facing the doors, like any normal person would. Now, I recently ran into her again, just a few days ago, while waiting for the elevator to come up. She was there. She saw me and promptly took the stairs. When the elevator doors opened at ground level, she stood there, motionless, staring at me. WTF
   Everytime I see this woman, I can’t help but think of Michael Douglas’ character in “Fatal Attraction”:
   http://cdn01.ib.infobae.com/adjuntos/162/imagenes/011/569/0011569502.jpg
   “Mental Health authorities advised me not to engage with her in any way”
   That’s right. Do not feed their delusions in any way. And whatever you do, do not turn your back on these women!

   1. You need good advice from people that genuinely know what they are

   2. She could be Scandinavian! That’s all they do; lock eyes for a fraction of a second and they keep stating at you for a good 5 min!

   3. That sounds rather disturbing actually. Have you thought about simply engaging her verbally? Or does she not respond if you say “Hello”?
      I don’t mean “engage the crazy”, I’m just curious if perhaps she is socially akward in a real sense and doesn’t understand normal social conventions?

      1. She doesn’t respond to what we would consider normal social conventions. In fact, I got a hunch she’s institutionalized for the better part of the year and comes back home once in a while. I also forgot to mention this is by no means an attractive woman.

         1. that’s certainly freaky, but bizarre behaviour doesn’t necessarily mean concern. As long as clear boundaries are maintained probably the best thing to do is try to convey an impression of normality – not least as she sounds as though she’s trying to get you to react. Its probably the one power she feels she has. The more comfortable she is the less she will need to exercise that need. Probably a hello and a quick smile wouldn’t make this worse even if she didn’t response, but nothing beyond that. People with mental health problems typically come across as worse than they are, the stalker in the article being an exception to that rule of thumb

         2. Maybe she has a criminal probation order to behave herself. This is worth a little subtle investigation. DO NOT ENGAGE! Schizophrenics, especially the paranoid type, can turn violent and dangerous.

         3. “probably the best thing to do is try to convey an impression of normality”
            That’s precisely what I’m doing. It could be she suffers from paranoid delusions, and thinks people are out for her.

         4. quite possibly. Either way if she doesn’t get a reaction / payoff she’ll probably get bored and stop doing it

         5. To me it sounds like a woman that is one step from reporting you as a rapist. The first indication you will have is your door being kicked down and the storm troopers pinning you face down on your bed (if you are lucky) and snapping on the cuffs.

         6. the description made me think she had recognized mental health issues – i.e. was in the system – that’s probably a different scenario from freaky women who might have managed bi-polar or something and an otherwise a normal life status, all the better to play the emotional vampire squid with the next passing victim . They scare me much more than someone like this whose behaviour may be strange but who will probably leave you alone along as you long as you are able to observe the correct boundaries

   4. Horror movie stuff there..

   5. WellIfYouSuddenlyStopPosting,AtLeastWeWillKnowWhatHappenedToYa

7. Couple of things to add:
   1) Always blacklist a psychology major. Err on the side of caution. They are batshit crazy, super smart, eager to please and can assimilate all to well, making it hard to out them.
   2) Always take pictures of them. Physical evidence time stamps their affairs and yours. Also helps showcase your sanity which will be necessary because women get exclusive excuses for vile behavior.
   3)Take stock of every message ever sent. Keep extra mindful once they mention procreating with you. Once they are looking too have kids, in under a 3 month span of knowing you, adding in her intelligence, you have a potential sperm thief on your hands. Burn your condoms if you made the mistake of sex, but never leave them any tools for later exploiting you.
   4) If things go DefCon4, become a beta. I repeat BECOME A BETA!! When you instill the aspect of being a beta, her natural cues for attraction will be tripped up. Do any beta activity from a distance. Mail flowers. Write 18 love letters. Leave long, doting, voicemail, from a crew of guys. Bombard her with all best beta moves. Tell her you love her. Make your affection insane. Being a blue pill may cost you some dignity, but you will back your time and peace of mind. And a permanent enemy who will always remind you how you killed her affection.
   They worked for me. It should all work for you.

   1. Hmm. So some mad chick was trying to assault the Red Hood previously? Glad you survived, man 😀

      1. Thanks. Those tips helped me intensely. The worst part of it was the person was fairly popular, making it extra hard to prove anything. So my solution was just to compile enough evidence to bail safely. I’ve got almost two years worth of messages thanks to backlogs from Facebook, BBM, whatsapp, etc.

         1. just go back in Ra’s Al Ghul’s Lazarus Pit and it will turn you back into an alpha after step 4 (sorry i had to do a Batman reference bc of the screen name)

         2. Oh, best believe I took the dip.

         3. and take Felicity away from Oliver in the process? i hate how Arrow is borrowing Bats characters btw, Arrow and Flash are huge betas..and Ra’s too.

         4. They are both huge betas and it is ruining Arrow. By far the better show is The Flash. Barry has alpha potential. Both use beta patterns for relationships though.

         5. That’s what more average men need to understand. Compile those data trails. Nice work, detective.

         6. Was this in college? If so I think I remember.

         7. One of them was. You’d know the name if you heard it.

         8. Starts with a B?

   2. Number 4 is gold. Pure gold. There is no surer way to get her attraction level to 0. The problem then is, how do you get her to not see you as Beta Bucks and still latched onto you? Being unattractive sexually to her is one thing, but being a big fat wallet that she targets is quite another.

      1. I think I’d like to understand exactly what is meant by defcon 4 before I went that way.

         1. Although DefCon4 is fairly obvious this is My DefCon4 list.:
            More than 10 calls in an hour at dawn or dusk
            Frentic messages sending loving notes bordering on idolatry(you are her god) then apologizing
            Unannounced visits at home or spots frrequented. There is no reason she should be visiting you with presents with such a statement like, ” I was just in the area.”
            Unannounced visits by her to your parent’s home.
            In league with 10 calls in an hour are contacting your friends asking for you.
            Making you things by hand, for every day of the week. Even if that is just two to three days, this is still too much.
            When in doubt use judgment. Are you worried she may find you on a deserted island? Does she have several ways to hurt you? Does she have a schedule to know when to hurt you? Does she know your family’s address?

         2. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DEFCON
            Readiness condition Exercise term Description Readiness Color
            DEFCON 1 COCKED PISTOL Nuclear war is imminent Maximum readiness White
            DEFCON 2 FAST PACE Next step to nuclear war Armed Forces ready to deploy and engage in less than 6 hours Red
            DEFCON 3 ROUND HOUSE Increase in force readiness above that required for normal readiness Air Force ready to mobilize in 15 minutes Yellow
            DEFCON 4 DOUBLE TAKE Increased intelligence watch and strengthened security measures Above normal readiness Green
            DEFCON 5 FADE OUT Lowest state of readiness Normal readiness Blue

         3. Play Misty for Me …

         4. Underrated flick. Documented this sh*t in a spare and stylish manner more than four decades ago.

         5. good movie…never to be repeated by Hollywood, again.

      2. Indeed. Step 4 will ONLY work if the stalker has any SMV. If she’s a fatass then she simply thinks her victim is more attainable if he displays beta tendencies. This is in fact how betas never find out they ended up with batshit women until it’s too late: by giving her everything up front. These chumps are the ones you hear about later getting accused of shit they didn’t do and hauled off.

         1. The beauty of step 4 is there is always some thirsty guy willing to give her smv. Added to that stalkers and women can’t help but brag about the guys in their life. If the guy loses face (which will happen if you overkill beta behavior which is also the goal here) she will blacklist him on social media and walk away altogether. Just overkill the beta whenever you speak to her for 30 days and you should be set. As soon as she sees this as your new behavioral habit she’ll be repulsed.
            Once had a stalker who did this to and later almost reconsidered for a threesome. She wouldn’t give me any love. Prior to this, she was happy to call herself my girlfriend for 2 years, and was thoroughly pleased to hold my arm for 30 minutes a week. It was her only contact with me so she had to make it work.

         2. Bait them with cake.

         3. Yes, exactly, after the hefty slob has enough of his cash & goods, that’s when she starts looking real “hawt” to the poolboyz, etc., and they plot the assassination of the now-useless beta meal-ticket.

         4. Yellowcake.

      3. And it seems if you don’t have your ducks in a row about her stalking you it may end up looking like you stalking her. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING!

   3. #1 is true. I did psych.

   4. Good tips!
      I had a stalker too. Beware of Journalism majors. They tend to make up the best stories.

      1. AlotOf”Journalists”AreSociopaths.

         1. Funny you should say that because this particular woman is a sociopath too.

         2. I have yet to meet a woman that is not a sociopath; if judged on male standards. So, really major and profession matter little.

      2. Don’t forget the visual arts majors. Especially the ones that carry around mattresses.

         1. Yes indeedy. And look, little “fuck me in the ass” snowflake graduates today, with mattress in tow! Attention whore much, fuck me in the ass woman?
            http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2015/05/19/how-columbia-university-president-reacted-when-student-brought-rape-protest-mattress-to-graduation/

         2. “Bollinger turned away as she walked by him and refused to shake her hand as he had done with each other graduate.”
            Is this the same Lee Bollinger who enabled this girls antics and never lifted so much as a finger to help Nungesser despite the available evidence? I guess he changed his mind in face of a multimillion dollar lawsuit.

         3. Yep. This one claimed rape too. (not on me thank God) But she had claimed it in the past.

         4. More women should follow her lead because that would be a killer workout meaning less fat chicks.
            Honestly who wants to spend their years in college lugging a mattress around?

         5. At least she’s made sure that any man with a brain will avoid her like the plague.

         6. Visual arts majorettes, to whom everything is, “like, choke me and fuck my asshole, I mean, cornhole-rape”.*
            *[Real shit Slutkowsky matress-gurl was documented as writing, and explained away as figures of speech, as we all know, when we had a real hard test, we all say, “it raped me”.]

         7. Damn you GoJ, I saw your post after mine…

         8. He didn’t remember which hand she wipes that rapey asshole with, so he wisely shook neither.

         9. You would think so but doesn’t Lorena Bobbitt have a daughter? If a man would willingly enter her, a man might enter any woman.

   5. Number four truly is a proven way and I have used it before. I find it so hilarious, and awesome to boot, that there are others that do this as well. I mean, seriously…. when do we (guys) actually discuss our strategies about such things in real life? It just never happens so reading someone else say they do exactly the same thing I have done is really awesome. Not to mention points out just how pathetic betas are in the eyes of a chick that she can go from taking your rod in her ass to not wanting anything to do with you so quickly, it’s a fairly sure fire way to ditch them without incident. In girls eyes, it’s worse to be a white knight beta male goober than be treated like shit or the guy act like he is gay. Beta’s are very low, probably the lowest, on chicks radars.

      1. It is pretty awesome isn’t it? Just think, if it weren’t for so many men becoming cowards and women becoming too masculine, we wouldn’t be addressing any of these things with each other. And some of the common aspects span beyond culture or race subset.
         Another strategy I love that was discussed here is ghosting. Just disappearing from a girl’s life, no contact, no notice, no replies, just gone. That is priceless and such a solid way to gain equilibrium that I have it as my go to for the future.

         1. Just saw a uToob of some dork who ghosted by accident and had the email chain of the xgf loosing her marbles.

         2. I’ve been searching for it (been gone so I am late to the show here). Do you still have the link by chance?

         3. You’re in luck:
            

   6. AnotherReason:AfterReturningVeterans,HeadShrinkersAre#2inDepressionAnd
      SubstanceAbuse.

   7. The only thing that sucks about becoming beta route is that it opposes what the cops would consider a sound case. Remember, the women will save digital artifacts and proof as well so you can create a wash scenario. I’d say the beta-kill-switch routine is perfect for a first strong line of defense, and will work 90% of the time. In my case, I was the first guy to give her an orgasm via normal sex. I think that’s ultimately what triggered the insanity.
      I just learned through a friend I wrote off, his wife who hooked me up with her friend (now my stalker), said she was trying to enlist her to help stalk me. STILL, after cops and families were involved, even the courts at one point.
      An even more valuable article might be:”How to Spot a Girl Who Will Become a Stalker After You Fuck Her.” Naturally most guys can spot these things, BPD, Bi-Polarism, Psychopathy, Sociopathy.. but there were definitely other subtleties I missed that cost me. She has in fact fucked directly with my life, and little can be done, even with proof besides file police reports. Since it’s very difficult to record 24/7 your entire life, you’ll miss some of the evidence it takes to really seal the deal. Prosecutors need quite a bit of rock solid evidence to jump behind the criminal aspect I’ve learned. And to go after it in Civil courts will cost you $5k minimum, probably closer to $10k to really fuck them back.
      Note: In my county, to get a Civil Restraining Order placed on someone you need to have provable evidence, that 4 occurances, with in 6 weeks or less time frame, the stalker has harassed, preferably physically confronted you and “menaced” you. So says the magistrate who left my hearing to read the legal code verbatim. The idea behind a Civil Restraining Order is to make future confrontations criminal in nature, thus they’ll have a criminal record if they want to fuck with you.

   8. #4 is so true because most girls that stalk just like the thrill of the chase. Once they have captured their target they are no longer interested. These girls have distant fathers or abusive childhoods so they want to earn a distant, alpha male’s attention. When you return her affection she is turned off immediately.
      I have a borderline ex that will not leave me alone amd we broke up 6 years ago. Whenever she messages me I act like Im excited to hear from her and she disappears for months. If I’m avoidant and tell her to fuck off she messages me daily.

      1. LOL
         I’m laughing because these stories are so similar. I’ve experienced this too.

      2. That is really interesting. It’s like when you meet a girl and she’s all over you while you neg her but the moment you try to drop frame or be yourself, she is gone. No goodbye text, nothing.

         1. Alot of girls are like this, its why asshole game is so effective. Girls, especially in these post-feminism times, want to pursue and chase men. If you are unattainable you are a challenge.

         2. It’s surprising just how insane most women actually are.

         3. Having gained as much experience as I have it is no longer surprising; sad but not surprising.

   9. Damn when being a beta can actually have advantages

   10. 4) Could seriously backfire if she is insane.

       1. I agree with englishbob. As I said in a prior post. A male friend of mine was stalked by his ex. He was pretty naturally beta now that I think about it. That didn’t stop her coming at him with an ax.
          He escaped. And is now a traumatized beta.

          1. an Ax??

          2. You would think something like that would transform him into a serious Red-Piller.

          3. Yup.

   11. A psychology major? Oh come on, that’s bullshit. Someone with a psychology degree isn’t necessarily any more skilled of a manipulator than the average person. All psychology school teaches you is “sigmund freud said boys are jealous of their dads because their dads are jealous of horses because horses have bigger dicks, and vaginas have teeth, and I smoke crack, blah blah.” Nothing useful

       1. It’s not the manipulation, it’s the type of girl who takes psychology as a major. They do it because they have a curiosity about psychology, enough to take it for university – generally in many cases that curiosity is due to their own unstable mental state.

       2. Funny thing, I generally agree on what it teaches you. Why every person who seemed off kilter to me also holds a B.A. in Psychology is beyond me. I have asked and they did have that in common so far. Maybe I’ll run across more Biology majors in the future but Psychology majors are leading the charge by far.

   12. 5) “Sorry, dear, but I insist on only anal. I don’t do vaginal sex.”
       Be sure to video her consent before and afterward if she says yes.

8. Some women followed me around and yet, a couple of them HAD THE GALL to claim otherwise.
   I can’t wait for white knights to “catch a grenade”, a la Bruno Mars especially when they encourage this kind of female behavior.

9. Also, said stalker chick knows the system is always in favor of her, thus allowing her to make shit up about you and get the authorities on her side.
   Rent the movie called “The Crush” with that chick that was in a lot of Aerosmith music videos. The freedom women have, including the sickos is downright scary.

10. The other thing that comes to my mind if whether or not her mental illness would be blamed on you. Like you mentioned that Australia is a man hating society, God help you if they system decides you have to make compensation or something. I hope I’m being paranoid about what happened to you, and glad you got through it.

11. Wasn’t surprised when i saw that the authors stalker had a psycology degree. Every woman I’ve met with a psychology degree has been a but job, wierdo or if she was a practicing psychologist completely up herself, I’ve never met an exception to this.

    1. To be fair, I think that applies to most men with a psychology/psychiatry degree as well. People go into those fields many times to help them deal with their own crazy. Those in social work are not far behind on that either.

       1. yes (as someone with a psychology degree) I’d have to say you were right. In part its the ‘wounded healer’ syndrome.
          With women though you also have the ‘want to work with (fuck with the minds of) people syndrome.
          There are also a minority? of psychopaths who are attracted to psychology for the psy-ops advantage it can give. If you consider some such psychologists will also be counsellors / psychotherapists, and who may be attracted to the possibility of turning secret knowledge to personal advantage, you have a full spectrum of wickedness contained in a single profession. Maybe the other side of the coin too, but its more interesting to focus on the dark side

       2. Apart from my friend who is studying psychology I don’t seem to meet males who who are in those fields, it seems to be very female dominated where I live. You’re probably right abourlt the males beeing just as bad an you’re spot on about social workers, the are always messed up people.

       3. There are more psychologists now than before and as a result the more dysfunctional we became.

12. I have a friend who went through something similar. The Police would not aid him because, “vajina”. I can’t say he’s completely innocent though because he put his rod in her hole which got him deeply involved in her crazy to begin with.
    He finally experienced relief when she was arrested on a drug charge; she’s apparently found someone else to stalk.
    Good thing about my right hand, he’s never stalked me… no matter how much I sweet talk him.

13. To hear that the authorities will do nothing in this situation is aggravating beyond belief. On the metro here, there are signs (obviously aimed at women) that say “If it’s unwanted, it’s harassment.” It goes on to read “You don’t have to put up with inappropriate comments, touching, gestures, or actions.”
    Who decides whether a comment, touch, gesture, or action is “inappropriate,” you may ask. For example, suppose it’s late, you are coming home disheveled, and you don’t have a watch. You politely tap a woman on the arm and ask, “excuse me, what time is it?” Quick, who gets to decide if this is inappropriate? Ding! Ding! Ding! The socially retarded woman with fragile feelings. You are immediately guilty of harassment. You are not hot enough. You are obviously not rich enough since you are riding metro. This was unwanted. This was uninvited. You touched her. You actually had the gall to speak to her when she was vulnerable standing alone on the platform. You are obviously basically a rapist, and she was in grave peril.
    And these women are encouraged to report this behavior to metro employees, who in turn will report it to police, who are standing by to pulverize you without a shred of evidence if you don’t submit to intensive interrogation.
    Meanwhile, if you’re a man that is literally being stalked nonstop by a violent mental patient, well, fuck off because you’re a dude and she’s a woman. But, don’t do anything to defend yourself either, because again, you’re a dude and she’s a woman, so patriarchy and stuff…..

    1. The fuck they don’t have to “put up” with words and gestures. First amendment, bitches, just try and enforce that shit and let the case skyrocket to SCOTUS.
       You men in blue zones are totally fucked, no idea how you manage.

    2. What I find interesting about liberals and their silly signs and posters is that if anyone’s sexist, it’s them. Their signs imply that women can’t handle an uncomfortable situation and are no more socially capable than a child.
       Men are expected to grow up, women are not.
       You see this same thing when it comes to liberals and blacks. “Lower the standards because Jamal can’t get into Harvard!” “Raise the minimum wage because Tyrone can’t get the latest iPhone on $8/hr!”

       1. Quite right. Leftists have a very over developed sense of superiority, so in their view only they are capable of making the right choices for others, and thus, everybody else is either a victim (because they are not receiving leftist help, ergo, they are failing) or they are an oppressor (because they are not enlightened enough, like Leftists, to know not to oppress and must necessarily be removed from society, if not the gene pool).
          They are a highly dangerous breed, and seem to show a real psychological pathology across their herd. In better days, these types would have been ignored, ridiculed or even run out of the village (a virtual death sentence back in the olden days). Today, thanks to Democracy ™ they are not only tolerated, but given power.

14. Oh my GOD. Can’t believe you had to deal with this batsh*t insane person. Jesus, be thankful you didn’t get stabbed. Those two letters scream complete insanity to me.

15. If you want a girl to spin off, just start talking passionately, incessantly to her about the Ron Paul Revolution or Fantasy Football; always works for me.

    1. Showing a woman that you have a set of ideals or some morality does repel them.

16. When I was in college I had an issue with a girl I stupidly decided to date after my high school sweetheart and someone I cared for deeply passed away (pancreatic cancer – gone in a week). This was the utter definition of a friends with benefits and rebound relationship and I don’t know how clear you guys are with these situations but I am extremely upfront (back then at least) with women even going as far to say exactly what my thoughts were and not to contact me about any issues or problems in her life since I am dealing with my own based on the recent loss. No problem, right? She was given the choice, before any physical contact, with factual information so no issue? Wrong.
    Luckily my personality really doesn’t get bothered by nearly anything a person does and I can ignore & forget people with the best of them. The problem was that in a small college town, it’s a bitch to avoid people or really say to yourself “she’s obsessing” because parties, classes, etc, they are all in such small proximity that unless the person acts out it’s easy to think they are just there due to the small town. I am not nor have I ever been a druggie and when I go out and drink I get to a buzzed state and stop. This girl (I’m sure you all have your own example of her) was the opposite of which I found out later only so because I simply didn’t care and only saw her as sex.
    When these people find out you are gravitating toward another girl or have simply lost interest, that is when the “fun” and fireworks truly begin for them. Off the top of my head (I have the police report I can scan and post if you want – would just need to black names out), after beginning to actual have a relationship with another girl, this other, after not responding to her for a few days:
    1) I had a white board on my door. You know those things you can write on if the person isn’t home? Well I still have it and never erased it. It looked like (literally) a mixture between a child, drunk idiot, psychopath, words about me being with that girl, Cleveland Browns fan after another shitty loss (yeah, I’m one of them), and just about every weird thing you will ever see. So when I saw it, I took it down, put it under my bed for a rainy day because I said to myself “it’s game on and she is going to keep going, need to save this.”
    2) A day or two later, she (apparently) called campus PD on me. This was her first offensive move. I was sleeping at 5AM to a loud bang on my door to which it was them. I wake up, answer the door, sit back down on my bed wiping the sleep out of my face to which the cop says “get the fuck up!” Apparently he (they) didn’t do their homework that I was a 24 year old man and veteran and not oblivious to the way the world works so I asked if he had a warrant to enter my room (off campus by the way)? Immediately it was “oh shit” mode by them and they decided to be nice and ask why (get this) I “convinced” the girl to try to commit suicide. Yeah…. I am not fucking kidding you. I asked what information they are basing this on because I hadn’t spoke to her in a week, have been receiving numerous messages, told her before hand I am with someone else, and didn’t even respond to her ridiculous white board shit. They asked what the white board statement meant. So I showed them. DING DING DING. He began to take it and I said “that stays here” and he said it would help his case and I said I didn’t give a shit, not my problem. He can take photos and write a report but any hard evidence stays with me and certainly stays with me based on their initial words and stupidity to randomly believe someone who tried to kill herself blaming someone else with no fucking proof. They left, I thought that was it. Nope…..
    3) I threw a party at my place (I threw them every month and brought in Mystic Roots – local band – to play). Now I am not a party animal but I like the social atmosphere but never get right in the middle of everything so, in other words, I keep my distance from bullshit fairly well. Party is happening at my house with my teammates and I am in my room (we had a house with four rooms) talking to my sister who came up to visit. So, picture this for a moment, party going on out back, house is fairly empty and I am in my room just shooting the shit with my sister. Then…… in walks the girl. Literally, she just walks in to my room to talk asking who the “fuck this bitch is”. Being concerned for my sister I said it was my sister but the girl didn’t believe me so she reached for the hunting rifle, aimed, and… yeah…. she pulled the trigger. It was obviously unloaded or I wouldn’t be writing this. I ran over there, grabbed it and wrenched it out of her hands and when I did, the butt of the weapon came up and hit her under the jaw (this isn’t BS or me just saying that to sound cool – it really did happen that way). She runs off screaming. So guess who shows up? Yep……..
    4) This time around (same fucking guy) he was different and asked what happened. My sister was frantic and pacing and telling him everything. He believed us because apparently he spoke to her after the suicide attempt (which was bullshit to get attention) and told her to never go over to my place again. So, at this point, he knew she was a piece of shit. However, the campus refused to throw her off because, apparently, my witness being a family member isn’t good enough. So, at this point, she tried to put a fake suicide on me, she tried to kill me (call it what you will but she did as how the fuck is she supposed to know it wasn’t loaded), and she is still on campus.
    5) I get the most useless legal order that exists, the restraining order and things remain calm…. for another week….. no… I am serious…. a week. Then she tries another effort. She claimed our sex wasn’t consensual when we fucked before hand. So she claims I raped her. Guess who shows up…. a-fucking-gain? Yep…. you guessed it but this time he had no choice as the campus ordered him to bring me in because rape is rape, right? He is escorting me to his car while apologizing over and over. In the back of my head I knew all would be fine because of the messages, voice mails, and emails I SAVED. So after about 1 minute in the interview room I asked if they checked her correspondence records, they asked why, and I said if they did they would see she fucking invited me there each time with texts like (exact): “want ur cock, feels sooo good”. Detective Idontknowhowtodomyfuckingjob looked dumbfounded so… AGAIN….. I give them permission to copy the records but ONLY if I am supervising and ONLY if I first back them all up. The result? You are about to have a fucking heartattack by this decision.
    6) I was called in by the Provost to explain the issue and, halfway through the conversation, he calls HER in to his office as well. I explain he just helped break a protective order and he stated a campus is its “own entity” (yeah, he was fired but I will get to that) and such orders do not apply to them. He asked me if I would be okay to go to counseling with her to work through the issues because she suggested it and it’s a “great” idea to end this peacefully. I told him that if she wasn’t kicked out of the campus for breaking the law and breaking campus code of ethics that I would bring lawsuit come Monday (it was Friday) against the University and explained who my parents are and that they would assure the highest level of legal representation. That I would own the god damn school once it’s said and done. His response? He pulled out a paper for us both to “sign” stating that if we had any contact with each other again that we would be kicked off campus and that if we didn’t “sign it” we would be immediately kicked off campus. I didn’t sign it and told him to go fuck himself and he would hear from my attorney next week and I would love to hear him explain these behaviors in front of a Judge. Apparently he thought I was bluffing.
    7) I did exactly as I said I would and, in the meantime continued going to classes. A few days later my Professor in a class told me there must be a mistake because I was no longer enrolled.
    8) My family hired, just as I said they would, the most elite firm from the Bay Area to represent the case and, after a few weeks, the University realized it was doomed so they reinstated me and also offered a settlement. However, they wouldn’t kick her out… they said there was no “proof” of the attempted shooting and that “guns in the hands of unwell people sometimes cause problems”. The lady who sent that letter was fired a week later as the representation was ruthlessly efficient and scoured that front office. Still though… the girl remained.
    9) Finally…. do you want to know how I finally got her to go away? This is going to fucking blow your mind (well maybe not depending on your story as you may have experienced it too). She was always afraid (not physically) of her Father as he left her Mother years earlier and was a man who didn’t put up with any shit. I drove to his house, out of the blue, introduced myself, first asked if it would be okay if I spoke with him about recent events and be fully honest with him (he had NO clue about any of this – she told nobody in her family save her Mother who didn’t tell him either). He agreed but, as any normal guy, he didn’t trust me right away but once I showed the proof, the police reports, the legal briefs, he did. I said something like “Sir, this is going to end badly for your girl as my legal team is going to dig and they are going to assure she is brought up. I give you the option of assuring she never contacts me again and get her out of there and I will be done with it.” He took this as Christmas come early, agreed, and in a week…… she was two states over living with her Aunt in Colorado. I can only surmise he threatened to cut her off.
    So guys…… as the article says…. ALWAYS fucking keep records. Sorry for the long story but I had to illustrate just how bad these situations can become even when you haven’t done a single thing wrong and just how quick the guy is hammered even with a perfect record. It’s bad.

    1. As a woman, all I can say is, “holy fuck” women nowadays are so screwed up.

       1. I am reading through the police report now as I haven’t even considered this since my undergraduate days which was eight years ago. Man…. this initial report I made… I was so obviously pissed at those cops. I wrote a twelve page response (on campus PD paperwork so it’s front and back and fills pages). I am the last guy who would ever disrespect a police officer as I fully respect their job and know they deal with a lot of fucktards but reading over this paperwork just reminded me how fury mode that issue made me.
          I would be willing to bet that each and every single man who is 30 and beyond has, while not ever having issues meeting/being with women, very likely, dealt with one to three of these types in their lifetime up to that point. My issue here is fairly common but just with different examples or a different order or, most importantly, a different outcome. If I didn’t come from where I came from and didn’t have the family I have I could certainly see this going a different way even with all that evidence that was incontrovertible so I feel for other guys. Off the topic of my head I can recall seven incidents throughout my life that involved watching guys I knew deal with similar issues only to all be found innocent (although one was found innocent… AFTER… yeah after… he was kicked out of the Air Force – that was horrible).

    2. holy shit, dude. You can’t even make this up

       1. Nope, and you know what’s even weirder? I changed my contact information, etc, of course and that event was nine years ago. Up until she got married (based on getting pregnant – what a stupid fuck that beta is) she still would send emails to my old email address now and again. Here is one:
          I was wrong about the date, it was in 2005 so ten years back: This email came to me after the cops came to my door when she tried to kill herself, in fact, this is the very next morning (take note at all the attempts to manipulate):
          9 November 2005
          Why did tell the cops the truth on me Chris??? Why would you tell them that you wanted to put me in there for harassment. whether you think I was soo drunk when i felt bad about myself that I don’t remember saying that then you are wrong. Was it your roommate who did it because all i wanted was to love you??? Please humor me, PLEASE. And if you did want me to go to jail, you could have told them that it was all a mistake so I didnt have a record its not fair you told them my deepest sadness and showed them that message, and that I was wanted to be with you…. but no you didn’t do that you HAD to tell them I was lying, HAD TO when you could have just been angry at me instead. You told the Cops that I must have wanted to kill myself if I tried to kill myself, so smart, you think you are so smart with your brain, and so I had to get asked if I was going to hurt myself. How degrading is that??? And funny how you didn’t bring anything up about that only because I told the cops you wanted me to kill myself. You didnt answer my calls so you did didnt you so I didnt lie and you do want me dead??? I miss you so much but telling the cops the truth hurts me? DO YOU EVEN CARE IF I LIVE OR DIE!?
          19 May 2012
          Hi Chris, so its me and I decided to look you up on Facebook snce I thought bygones are bygones from all this time. I heard you took the plunge and engaged a girl, lucky her. I myself am still single ready to mingle 🙂 actually I’m very happy though because of how you ruined my life but I also what happened with you showed me I needed to get my things in order. I date a lot lol. It’s hard because I really want kids, but I’m not settling for Just anyone. At 27 ( whoa can’t believe I am), I hope I meet someone like you and have babies before thirty. What about you, going to have kids soon? Again sorry for the Facebook message if it upsets you but the restraining order is out now and I know yu well enough to know you aren’t afraid of anything and especially me. So tell me about this girl, who is she, whats her name and where is she from and live? I am curious if I know her.
          Anyhow guys, there are so many other things I can link and show you but the bottom line is, even after all that time she kept doing it even going as far to trying to find out who I was with. It astounds me how stupid some of these broads are to think they can manipulate someone leaps and bounds more intelligent than they are. I, of course, didn’t respond. Oh, and on a side note guys, that message in 2012 came (just remembered) the same day I switched my Facebook profile from single to “engaged”. It was nearly automatic, that is how on top of shit she is.

          1. you think you are so smart with your brain,
             I am actually suppressing real life laughter so that I don’t draw attention to myself, heh.
             You think you are so smart, with your brain! That is heee-lare-eee-us!

          2. DoRestrainingOrdersExpire?

          3. HAH! I know, right? Bro… if I showed you this other shit you would probably have a stroke from the laughter. When I get off work I will look for that white board and dig through my old email. This was/is one crazy bitch. That or my dong is Zeus in cock form but I tend to er on the side of her being crazy.

          4. They have time limits on them. Like you can’t come within a certain distance for three years or whatever. It might be state to state but in CA I know they do expire based on the order.

          5. Imagine if she had programming skills to automatize all that tracking of you! Brrrrrrrrrr….

          6. I’m trying to remember what career field she was studying for. I think her major was nutrition or psychology. Anyhow, yeah, she would have have me on radar that’s for sure. I’m sure she will be back again once her marriage breaks apart so I have always done my best to assure those stalker aid sites keep my information off (which is so ridiculous to begin with) even though its over a decade old.

          7. Please! Keep it coming. You can’t buy entertainment like this.

          8. Geez, dude this is some scary shit. I appreciate you so much for sharing with us. Some guys really need to see how nasty the belly of the beast really is.

          9. “I date a lot lol.”
             This made me laugh.
             ” So tell me about this girl, who is she, whats her name and where is she from and live? I am curious if I know her.”
             WTF!?
             “…I tried to kill myself, so smart, you think you are so smart with your brain,”
             HAHAHAHA!
             Dude, I really feel for you, this chick is a nightmare.

          10. She certainly was. Sadly I have a feeling my horror story is light in comparison to what guys are dealing with now. The progression of radical feminism in a mere decade has been considerable. I would have never, in a million years, thought that schools would allow such hate toward half of their student body not based on facts but based on agenda. I have grave concerns for the progression of this country and especially so if this continues. People like that… they never stop…. they will always take more and more and more until all is smashed to pieces.

          11. I know, right? It’s hilarious on so many levels but also so creepy. I am so glad I just avoid these issues now. Fuck… my life has been so much better since. I feel bad for guys going through shit like this at this very moment. I hope they can keep their head on straight and come out of it okay.

    3. HolyMackeral

    4. Thanks for the story, many mwn need to know what to do in those situations. You kept calm and handled it perfectly. I had a suicidal ex and I didnt save any messages and though escaped legal ramifications, my reputation in my hometown was ruined and I had no defense. Friends I have had my entire life havent spoken to me in years because of lies she told. ALWAYS save texts and emails.

       1. How long ago was this and is there anyway to contact your phone provider to get the transcripts of the messages? I learned during my issue that phone companies keep text message logs for quite awhile, years even, and the customer can pay to have them forwarded.

          1. It was about two years ago, she started seeing another guy right after I broke up with her while continuing to stalk, threaten, harass me but told everyone that I was harassing her trying to get her back. She had this beta schmuck trying to fight me because she told him I abused her (classic borderline) and was stalking her so he played the white knight role to a T. She ended up in the mental hospital after telling everyone she was going to kill herself because I made her scared for her life. Many people in my hometown bought it all and thinks Im the psycho, including her family.
             I kept deleting the texts because I had an older phone that could only hold so many messages and she would send 50 at a time. It would just look even crazier if I popped up with texts two years later trying to convince people.

    5. Dude, please don’t take this the wrong way, but you just made my weekend. I’m truly sorry for what you had to endure, but the fact that you got justice in the end (sounds like the title of a Law & Order porn parody, doesn’t it?) just cheered me the fuck up. Thanks for sharing.

17. “The police even admitted that if they didn’t know details about an altercation, from the beginning of an investigation they would instinctively side with the woman.”
    And these assholes wonder why so many of them have been killed around America in 2015.

    1. As I said in my novel below, it’s true, they do side with them automatically, even without proof of allegation. I personally respect the job cops do overall but this is a very serious thing that needs immediate oversight as it is simply uncanny to me and many women are taking advantage of this very fact.

       1. It’s a sure sign of the decline, when emotions override facts in the legal system.
          We’re beyond the realms of fucked.

18. I had a couple of guy friends who sought my advice on lunatic stalker woman problems. The first friend would call back when she left a message on his answering machine. I had to explain “action and reaction” to him. He seems a little stunned at the idea of not responding to her but eventually he had to admit that it worked.
    The other guy friend had a classic “I’m going to kill myself if you don’t call me” bullshit going on. This white knight actually went and met her at the hospital one time. He whined about what a pain in the ass she was and wondered what to do. Again I advised no response, no contact. His response was that she could end up really killing herself. My response, “problem, problem solved”.

19. Day to day life for a man is to always know your surroundings and the people therein. If some batshit crazy woman enters your realm take offensive and defensive measures. Document your time and place. Do the unexpected eg. a “crazy Ivan” leave town, set false trails and always be prepared.

20. Female psychopaths are very dangerous if they want to seriously harm you. They have a huge arsenal of weapons they can use against you like false rape accusations, physical attacks with various sharp objects (where she will later claim self defense), breaking into your house and trashing everything etc etc.
    I can imagine what a hell it must be since you cannot do anything against it without doing serious jailtime.

    1. That would be a good time to school oneself in the arts of a perfect crime.

21. You guys ever want a compiled list of the legal systems indifference to their actions? Well, I have one for you, look no further. Yes, the best looking ones are up at the top from best looking to ugliest just to show how much a pretty girl gets away with regardless of what it was.
    Sidenote: The ugly lesbian at the bottom had no chance from the start.

    1. Ok. Link please?

       1. You don’t see the picture? It’s not coming up?

          1. Ah, there we go, I had to refresh my browser. Thanks.

          2. No problem.

    2. That graphic is brilliant. From prettiest to ugliest, with a corresponding increase in sentences the uglier the chick is. You never really think about it, until you see it put in an ordered list with pictures like that, then it literally punches you in the face how far white knights will go to give pretty women a pussy pass.

       1. “That graphic is brilliant. From prettiest to ugliest, with a
          corresponding increase in sentences the uglier the chick is. You never
          really think about it, until you see it put in an ordered list with
          pictures like that, then it literally punches you in the face how far
          white knights will go to give pretty women a pussy pass.”
          That’s because their genes are so rare and valuable.
          Punishment for youthful pretty women: find a husband and get married within x amount time and/or bear x number of children within x amount of time. State provides new identities if needed. Failure to comply means the woman is imprisoned and x number of eggs are harvested for sterile couples.
          Punishment for ugly women (every woman who got a year or more on the graphic): sterilization and throw the book at them.

          1. That’s because their genes are so rare and valuable.

             That’s precisely the reason.The court sees she’s attractive, and subconsciously concludes they can’t put her into prison because we need this bitch’s uterus free to crap out beautiful babies.
             Was there ever any chance Miss Blonde Hair and Blue Eyes here was ever going to prison for a sex crime? Of course not. Never.
             http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/05/Debra_Lafave_%28mug_shot%29.jpg

          2. The sick part is not that she can get away with any sex crime, but that she could get away with any murder. Look at the women who murder or mutilate their husbands and spend not one day in jail. Look at the women who kill their children and get not one day in jail.

          3. Them’s some purty lips…

       2. I’m not familiar with the details of the individual cases, but isn’t it possible that the uglier women used more coercion and manipulation to bed their minor mates, and hence were actually more deserving of punishment under the law?

          1. Nah, look at fugly Whitney, she had two youngsters, musta been mfm, it’s because of the ugly.

       3. You know it would be interesting if someone made literally a school year book style pdf of every known case with pics and sentences to see if these were cherry picked cases to make this point, or if this holds true across the board on sentencing. My guess is we’d find that the pussy pass based on looks would remain consistent.

          1. That may even bust the Bell Curve …

    3. That graphic deserves a separate post on ROK.

    4. Wow. Listing the states would have been interesting. I guess being attractive makes it OK. Would also be interesting to correlate similar cases in same states with male teachers charged with the same crime.

    5. Ha ha….. is this society fucked up or what…..

       1. It’s unreal isn’t it? If the role was reversed the guy would have had 20+ years in each case (at the least). I mean… shit. Some of those boys were 13-14 and the bitches didn’t even spend a day in jail. I don’t remember actively pursuing pussy at that age and it was that time when people just discover what to even say to the opposite sex so those teachers…. it’s fucked up. I know people laugh but it’s unbelievably fucked up. I would forearm shiver followed up by a strangle slam a bitch if I had a son that she molested by her. She couldn’t run fast enough or find a safe place on the globe and they didn’t even get a day of jail?

    6. Very interesting. It’s amazing how looks make that much difference when one of the most heinous crimes has been committed. Damn if that doesn’t tell the truth about our society, right up to the judge himself, jurors, attorneys, victims, and criminals.

       1. It’s amazing, isn’t it? That the jury allowed the best looking ones to get away with such gross and damaging actions to a young minor is simply incredible. Those guys will be high fived now, sure, but over time they will develop unhealthy relationships and not go down the road they were supposed to go down based on how she altered their normal growth pattern. It’s unreal they didn’t spend a day in prison.

    7. How to stay out of prison dye your hair yellow

22. Perhaps the best thing to get rid of a stalker is to turn beta orbiter ? Everyone hates them, even stalkers !

    1. Keep your friends close and enemies closer?

    2. That can also turn out badly.

    3. You may find yourself getting charged with stalking.

    4. You may end up getting duct-taped and strapon raped in her basement, be very careful.

23. It’s said that 25 percent of American women are on some kind of head-case drug for depression, anxiety, etc.
    This means the other 75 percent are going untreated.

    1. AndItGoesUpTo33%forWomen45-64…

    2. People just longer seem to have the capacity to think through difficult situations and go with the ebb and flow of life. Shit happens and you need to ride the shit wave out to the clear blue sea. I got sucked into this modern day “here’s your diagnosis and pills” bullshit, but eventually did enough reading and personal introspection that I rejected the nonsense and moved on.

       1. It comes from the twisting of “pursuit of happiness” into “you deserve to be happy all the time!” by the Left. They corrupt everything by turning our values inside out and then using that twist to deconstruct.
          Nobody is guaranteed happiness, and further, suffering through bad times actually does help a person grow psychologically and intellectually. There is nothing wrong with life having moments of both happiness and suffering. The delusional belief that if you are not walking around with a smile plastered on your face 24/7 then you’re being deprived of your rights and dues, is idiotic to the core. Popping pills to ensure that you never, ever feel any suffering or pain is just a short circuit on your own personal growth.
          When faced with adversity, suffer well. It’s healthy, and it’s the right thing to do.

          1. Well put GoJ.

          2. “The delusional belief that if you are not walking around with a smile
             plastered on your face 24/7 then you’re being deprived of your rights
             and dues . . .”
             Americans are peculiarly obsessed with smiling. If you aren’t smiling there is deemed to be something wrong with you. People argue that driving a car must be unpleasant, because if you look at drivers, they aren’t smiling. Similarly for runners, musicians and anything else the person making the argument is agin for some reason.
             But people who are content are relaxed, and smiling is a tensing of the muscles. Content people do not smile.
             Smiling isn’t primarily a sign of happiness, it is a sign, under tension, of not posing a threat, derived from being a sign of submission.

          3. Excellent point. The liberals changed the concept of the american dream. The american dream was simply limited government.
             Now the american dream is the pursuit of happiness…all americans are owed a home with a nice fence, 2 cars, an easy overpaying job, to never have to hear a dissenting opinion, ect.

          4. So true, I’ve been looking at youtube videos of walkthroughs of European cities (I’m trying to choose a place to move) and I noticed that almost nobody is smiling. They are fine with being naturally themselves.

          5. You win the internet with this comment. I think there is an unspoken rule amongst women that they are always supposed to present themselves as being happy with their lives. Women know that men are turned off by angry women and they’re in constant competition with other women for who’s “winning” in life.

    3. You owe me a coffee sir! lmao

24. Same answer as any other female problem. Decide what you are willing to put up with and stick to it.

25. hahahaha English is not my mother tongue but my spelling is far better than that slag’s. where do you dig out these women?

26. Anybody here remember this movie?
    http://www.hwdyk.com/q/quizimage/miserytriviaquiz.jpg

    1. Im your biggest fan

       1. http://oi57.tinypic.com/2je4itt.jpg

          1. I was close

          2. She was on another level of crazy.

27. I feel bad now. I’ve never had a female stalker. lol

    1. I’d like to have one, but she’d have to be the rank of at least a 19 year old Jennifer Aniston or a similarly aged Jessica Alba. I would also accept a 21 year old Dawn Wells, because man, she rocked the short shorts before they were cool to rock, plus she comes right out of the gate knowing how to cook a good meal and do laundry using little more than a coconut husk, a rock and a stream.

28. Alternatively, you can go a different way and get a pig farm.
    I hear the best thing to do is feed them to pigs. You got to starve the pigs for a few days, then the sight of a chopped-up body will look like curry to a pisshead. You gotta shave the heads of your victims, and pull the teeth out for the sake of the piggies’ digestion. You could do this afterwards, of course, but you don’t want to go sievin’ through pig shit, now do you? They will go through bone like butter. You need at least sixteen pigs to finish the job in one sitting, so be wary of any man who keeps a pig farm.
    — Brick Top

    1. Robert “Willie” Pickton – The Pig Farmer Killer. Google it.

    2. I guess you’re related to Charles?

29. Female stalkers were predominantly single, heterosexual, educated individuals in their mid-30s who had pursued their victims for more than a year.
    Single women in early 20s: Okay.
    Single women in late 20s: Getting weird.
    Single women in their 30s: Toxic waste.
    Bottom line: stay away from women over 30.

    1. That’s because they realize that after 30 plus years of crazy their biological lonely clock is ticking and psycho desperation ups the looney whoremoans and all hell breaks loose.
       No doubt there is a long trail of men who can smell that desperation like sharks smell blood on the water and can deftly handle the crazy to their advantage.

       1. +10 on the sarcasm.

30. What.
    the.
    fuck.
    Damn…….. those letters are fucked up. There’s some crazy bitches out there.

31. Ive had female stalkers before and there is nothing exciting about it at all. Tell them in as respectful a manner as possible…I am not interested, leave me alone. Take screenshots of all conversations and save them to an email account.
    Most men fail at handling stalkers cause they continue to reply to text messages for months. They say “fuck off”, “your crazy”, or whatever and they keep feeding the womans hamster.
    And dont fuck these women. Good pussy isnt worth a lifetime of hell.

    1. Carry a bottle of hot sauce – Tom Leykis.

32. What the fuck was that text message about? That woman was a special kind of crazy. Nice rack though. Several women I know are either skitzo or bipolar. Everything is a fucking drama.
    I remember this one krazy kunt crying down the phone to me one night after she got a mole removed from her ass. Wasn’t cancerous but she was still balling crying drunk down the phone looking for sympathy.
    Same bird after I split up with her wanted to call over to my place after a night out with her friends for a fuck. I wasn’t interested, had a few missed calls so put phone on silent. Next morning I had 40 missed calls. Psycho bitch. Saw her last Christmas with her husband (before they were married she split up with him to fuck me), one kid in a pram and another on the way. Special…….

33. I couldn’t read her serial killer handwriting 🙁

34. I believe this is a rare case for the police so they lack the proper procedures and experience in carrying it out and as a result they do not answer the call. Evidence is crucial

35. Cool article…waiting for this one as been through it myself. ‘displayed all the signs of bi-polar syndrome, such as obsession with goals, substance abuse,irritability, restlessness, high sex drive, and racing thoughts.’ Isn’t that most of the readers of this site?!

    1. XoJane is this way——>.

36. I had a stalker in the 90s. She was fine when she was on her meds, but a PITA otherwise. It’s not like she posed any physical threat to me, however, my g/f lived in the same building, and once Stalker Lady figured out I was banging the young hottie, things got bad–at one point, the g/f reported that the stalker was actually circling her in the elevator, glowering. That was the point where it went from being a big laugh for our friends, to shit getting real–police report, etc. Why? B/C someone with a vag might be a victim. Thus, this: However, if you have a woman on your side things can change, and fast. Suddenly, your evidence will no longer be ignored. (Note: in fairness, I didn’t make a report (and only gave back-up to the g/f’s report), so nothing was being ignored, but as soon as there was a potential threat to the g/f, suddenly it wasn’t just all giggles any more among our friends.)

37. It is incredibly frustrating to have your legitimate complaints not taken seriously by the authorities.

    Key word: authorities. The authorities are not there to help you or anyone else, despite what they may say. They are simply there to keep you in line. In their view, your problems are simply, your problems.
    And once you grow tired of being harassed and decide to take things into your own hands… it is you who will be arrested.

    1. I had a very serious talk with my sons along those lines. First let me say I am not only white but Irish heritage which means in am one of the really white people. this is significant because I have black male friends and they would take this as a common knowledge. I advised my sons that the police and the courts should be avoided like the plague they are. They are not their to serve and protect you (as men) they are there to serve women and protect them from you (men). You black guys were probably told this when you were 2. My sons had just passed 21. They did not seem surprised by my words.

       1. A key phrase echos permanently in my head. “Don’t call the police. Ever.”

       2. Never call/trust the police. Truer words haven’t been spoken. We black guys were taught this by not only our parents but society itself.
          It’s the root reason behind all the recent riots.

38. Sorry to hear this happened to you.
    I’ve had friend on both sides who were stalked and been stalked myself by a guy. I was lucky in that the guy was only someone I met at a coffee shop and made the mistake of giving my number to. He didn’t know anything beyond that. He gave up eventually or found a new target.
    But two of my female friends were stalked by guys. One was seriously creepy. His valentine days surprise for her was beyond disturbing. She woke to a text from him that read “I left you something”.
    A male I knew was severely stalked. The girl eventually came at him with an ax. He was able to get away unharmed. But the experience left him traumatized.

39. Step #6: If you want to get rid of her, ask her for a 3-way with her and her best friend.

    1. You obviously never experienced nutcasery at these levels – many a whacko chic will do so, then blame you for degrading her virtue when you refuse the next time.

       1. In that case, ask her out for mani-pedis and talk about your journal.

          1. Mani-pedis, but only if she wears a buttplug under a miniskirt with no panties for buying ‘fukme’ shoes from the geekiest salesguy, first.

          2. Wow, carrying some anger there, buddy?

          3. WTF does that promiscuous porno-fantasy have to do with anger???

    2. “Rim Job or GTFO”
       Best case, she leaves you. Worst case you get a rim job. There’s really no downside.

       1. I just about spit my coffee after reading that. Funny as fuck.

40. actually pre screening for women should be first so you don’t have to deal with this. any helping profession…autistic therapists, psychologists, teachers, nurses…any female in the helping profession has a higher than average chance of being bat shit crazy. avoid these women or if you want to dive in better vet them out with serious questions first and excellent detective skills before they get to by pass your logic by getting sexual with you (which they also are masters at to lower your defenses)

41. Women stalk more often than men do. This is simply due to the fact there are far more women than men with psychological pathologies. In fact, our upside down, sick society and culture encourages women to develop Border Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
    Yes, follow this advice. But don’t call the police. You want the evidence in case the stalker goes too far, goes off the deep end, attempts to kill you, breaks into you house, or all of the above.
    If you call the please just for her stalking, the most likely outcome is that she will accuse you of domestic violence or rape, and then you will find that YOU are arrested, in jail, and charged with a serious crime. She will enjoy this, because it will involve the state – in her mind – locking the two of you into a “relationship.” She will be thinking it will “bring you to your senses and make you fall in love” with her. She will not realize that the state is look for fresh male meat to kill and she can’t stop or change what she set into motion.
    So, please be very careful if you have a stalker. It is much more safe for a woman to have a male stalker than for a man to have a female stalker. A male stalker can only do the damage his body can deliver. A female stalker can deliver the full weight of the feminist state to damage you.

42. My ex and I met in 2009, broke up in 2011 and maintained an on and off sexual relationship.
    I ‘cyber stalked’ stalked my ex and his new gf in 2014….he cheated on her with me but I didn’t know he even had a gf. Then he not only revealed but gleefully flaunted the fact that he had a gf after we fcked several times the previous year….needless to say I wasn’t happy. I found his gfs number, called her and told her he cheated on her with me. I created multiple fake facebook profiles and added them both as well as his gfs friends and family. Then I’d use those profiles to post on her wall saying that he had cheated on her. I sent messages with screenshots of evidence of him cheating to almost all her close friends and family. Throughout those months he would message me and in the message I was careful to deny everything. I used computers in internet cafes so the internet address thingy couldn’t be traced to me. So he got more and more frustrated because I was ruining his relationship, so he started sending hostile messages. I was being calm and normal and telling him that he was scaring me. Eventually he got so frustrated that he sent me a message on whatsapp saying that he would “end my life” I was so happy when I read it I started laughing. I took a screenshot, dressed in a nice skirt and a top that showed some cleavage and promptly went to the nearest police station and reported that he had threatened my life. The police read the message, shook his head and said he would call him and warn him to leave me alone. But my ex wasn’t answering. So the police went to the back, got a police van and another officer and I directed them to my ex’s home where he lives with his uncle. Basically they warned him to leave me alone. Then the second officer (who was really aggressive towards my ex and very angry) asked me infrknt of my ex, the other officer and my ex’s uncle if he had ever hit me. He never hit me. I wouldn’t blatantly lie on him so I paused just long enough before I said no to make it sound like it was a lie and I glanced at my ex and then looked down at the ground to make them think I was afraid. They shouted at him, threatened him and scared him.
    A few days later, my friend messaged me and said that my ex and his new gf had broken up because she couldnt take the embarassment if her family knowing all those stuff, she was willing to forgive him for cheating, but her sisters were pressuring her to break up with him.
    Moral of the story men: dont fuck a girl who you know is very attached to you if you have a gf

    1. Wow. This article was written because of insane women like you…

43. This has become one of my main sidelines over the last few months. Knowing exactly how to manage people when they behave in this manner is difficult, and there is no broad based approach that works in every situation. Dealing specifically with the borderline female, and a seemingly personality disordered culture in general, requires a more strategic methodology. It has become a consulting business for me, because people like the female in the article will not even respond to the demands of legal authorities. This is the world we live in……..

44. “My stalker had a psychology degree…”
    Something that always astonished me is how women I’ve known who’ve studied psychology could be so unaware of their own deranged psychology (e.g. their massive ego, their need for validation and ego-boosts). I’ve come to realize that women are lacking in introspection.

    1. Why do you think so many women are feminists?

45. They don’t just stalk men. My wife and I had one stalk us not long after we were married. NOT fun at ALL.

46. Just simply . Carry at all time a Magnum 44 S & W…..

47. Your stalker looks like Adria Richards of “Donglegate” fame…No surprise there….

48. Call the police.
    Get a restraining order.
    Shoot her in the fucking face– In accordance with your state’s laws — if she becomes a threat.
    Bitches, when you play big boy games, you play by big boy rules.

49. Now, I’ve got a female stalker on Facebook. Always sending me stupid messages. It’s f**king annoying. Do you think it’s a good idea to block her? Or should I do another thing to deal with her?

    1. Get off Facebook! It is a downright unmanly thing..

50. What do you do if she’s actually nice? She’s not someone I’d want to fuck, but she’s weirdly protective and caring towards me. She buys me food and does my homework, and she’s actually pretty funny to talk to. It’s just that she follows me around and stares a lot, and sometimes she’ll just drop bombs like about where I live or weird details about my personal life. She’s never threatening about it though, and I kinda don’t want to report her because it honestly gives me a lot of breathing room with homework.

51. I can’t imagine you or any of your readers have had any problems with unwanted attention …

    1. Read the notes, princess…by the way, what are you doing here, don’t you have some cats that need feeding?

52. My name if Jane farantty i live in canada. in 2010 i was with a guy called micheal. i
    loved him so much beyond comparison, i never knew he was cheating on me and he
    had no feelings for me, i caught him with several girls, to make things worse he went
    to bed with my kid sister, so i left him for another guy, who is now my fiance, and my
    fiance is so lovely and kind, he proposed to me just last year. Micheal although was
    my high school love, also raped a girl in 2012 and was jailed for two years, my life was
    so sweet without him around, i never knew he was out of prison. he began to stalk
    me, he also threatened to kill me and my fiance, i was so scared and my wedding was
    around the corner, i reported him to the police and he was no where to be found, i
    cried all day and i was living in pain and agony, until i saw a comment about someone
    who was helped from his stalkers so i decided to give it a try. and he was able to stop
    my stalker in 48 hours, i will forever spread your goodness, doctor okpoh
    you can contact him for your help through ( [email protected] )

53. I think this says more about the American justice system than crazy women. In Europe where I am from I’ve never witnessed a stalker in my life. A friend of mine had a short stint which lasted 2 weeks but that was it? By the way my friend is big time on game. I would say 5 friend with benefit women per month (not including casual lays on outings) so he has Game. So with all the women he only experienced this one small stint in more than a decade of serious game.
    Conclusion? America is fucked up. Oh and by the way, the police system in my country would take any report seriously. My advice is leave america Asap.

54. Oh god, I remember a chick like this. I was young, weak and stupid, pre-red pill, and I foolishly told her I ‘loved’ her after a good night. Idiotic cow didn’t go away for a few years, until I grew some balls and got rid of her. She kept saying she was my ‘girlfriend’, scaring off other girls, and then she wanted me to marry her at one point. I don’t miss her one little bit, but it certainly showed me the flaws in my lifestyle at the time.

55. I had a women threaten me. As I tried to end a very brief relationship with this loon.(how I missed the 1000 yard stare, I will never forgive myself for) she blocked the entrance to her property and repeatedly said “Bed or Police!!!” i.e. sleep with me again or I will make an allegation up. I did manage to escape. Thankfully she was stupid enough after to send me a barrage of texts saying “come back” (so had she reported me she had shot herself in the foot already).
    Was stalked for months after. She found out stuff about my family (other end of the country) would randomly text me “so your sister is working as a doctor in that town – my friend knows her” (bullshit the medical registry is publicly searchable) etc. She would bang on my door at the middle of the night (on dates that had a significance “for our relationship”). Called repeatedly and texted. I changed my number and got a new phone, old phone kept on a pay as you go sim. Kept that old iPhone 3 in a box, with everything on it. She might reappear. Never answer the phone or her messages.
    Obviously UK police dont consider women to be stalkers so on advice of a friend (ex CID detective) – was to vanish, not to fight (incase she makes false allegations), and hopefully she would move on.
    I moved out, rented out my house first then sold it) lived with a mate. Changed car. Removed myself totally from social media – even to the extent of emailing newspapers that had published my times in local 10K races to remove the online reference to me).
    Ended up taking a new job, other side of town. Basically laid low for 24 months. Neighbours at my old property reported seeing her around up until the 21 month period.
    I kept an eye on her social media profiles and only when she clearly had moved on to other obsessions and a new “phase” (training as a yoga teacher and finishing her online psychology degree is her current one) did I feel it OK to start returning to normal life. Suspect she will suck in some poor sucker next!
    Now before I date any women, I research them.
    Warning signs:
    1) Big social media profile, but no real friends
    2) Interests in psychology, self help, astrology, strange diet fads,
    3) Claims ex partners were all abusive
    4) Troubled members of family
    5) Alcohol abuse.
    6) If they are nuts they will have told a forum somewhere*
    (• all the evidence was there with my stalker!)
    In my case the girl was very clever so probably duped me for too long.
    I wont be duped now. Time spent on preparation and planning is seldom wasted.
    Great website: shrink4men.com
    Learn the warning signs and trust your instinct and observations, NEVER NEVER give them your personal details until you are sure. Play cautious and private

56. My stalker drove me into the arms of the Manosphere.
    One : Nil

57. Maybe if you weren’t such a dickhead towards her, the situation wouldn’t have gotten this worse.
    Well-educated women are also hardworking and tend to be good girls/good kids in the past but douchebags like you ruin everything for good people and turn them into nutheads.
    If I was in that woman’s position, and if the Death Note exists, I would have written your name in the book.
    Moral of the story, don’t be such a dickhead.

58. even the hottest looking women can be stalkers…….

59. I was stalked myself by my female neighbor, I am also a married female with one child. The constant abuse, threats, letters and so on. We called the police most nights she would be arrested. The police were so concerned for our safety the fast tracked the AVO but this did nothing they also told us to put up cameras. We never answered her when she shouted the abuse every nite for hours at a time as it then just becomes a neighbors swabble. This went on for over a year. She was put in a institution for 6wks and was diagnosed with alcohol addiction and manic bi polar. But as soon as she got out it started again. The police had already been in contact with our phone company so we didn’t need to wait to change numbers as the phone calls and text were thick and fast so now she had moved onto nasty abusive letter despite the AVO she also sent texts via a third party telling them to text me cos at 10pm my lights were on even though I shut the blinds she knew I was home.
    I became very ill and scared to leave the house it was a lot worse than it sounds written down. When I started a new job because it was with children I had to inform them she also turned up there so they rang me and told me to stay home and they would ring when she left, she would ring my work and hang up or put on a different voice.
    The threats to my sons life was the final straw for us so we had to sell our business and house and move to a different state. I still have no social media type pages 4yrs on and when ever I get a wrong call on my phone I go into panic mode. I also found out another female had to move to another state and she was stalking her for 10yrs, after the person moved she tracked her down.
    I don’t think I will ever feel safe 100% If I see a car the same as hers I still check the rego

60. Good article, but…
    “Male stalkers are far more likely to be prosecuted than female stalkers, even though there are comparable rates of violence and psychopathy with male and female stalkers.”
    The reason males are prosecute more often is because the grand majority of the time males ARE THE STALKERS. It is statistically proven and witnessed.
    But yes, both compliants, male or female stalkers, should always be taken seriously.

61. LOL U poor gayyy shit you wanted a pleasurable stick in the ass and got this instead i really feel hilarous for your pain

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