9 Secrets To Living A Joyful Life

Life doesn’t always have to be boring or sad just because most of the world is. Below I will share some of the ways I try to make my reality more pleasing and satisfying.

1. Avoid toxic people and negative thoughts

I know it’s easier said than done, but in case you want to live a joyful life, it’s quite important for you to practice not thinking negatively. Negative mentality can have extremely bad consequences for your health, mental sanity and habits, thus it should be avoided at all cost. 

However, I know the truth is that it’s quite impossible for us to be happy all the time, since there are several things that can lead us to start thinking negatively even if we try our best not to. Some of them include relationship problems, toxic people, life misfortunes, and so on. But still in case you want to avoid bitterness infecting yourself, it’s best to try your best not to let these events consume you!

The best tip I can give you is to avoid as much as possible events or toxic people that trigger these negative thought patterns.

2. Travel

Traveling can be a good way to replenish your energy, make you reflect on life, and give you enough mojo to make sure that, when you get back to your routine and homeland, you will be at your ease, which will translate in you working harder through the rest of the year.

If you can travel with your best friends or family members, I recommend you to do so. It can be one of the best bonding time experience. However, never underestimate the power of traveling on your own. A lot of people are afraid of traveling alone thinking it might not be fun or enjoyable at all, but the truth is if you know yourself well enough, traveling alone can in fact be more enjoyable than traveling with friends or family.

3. Spend more time with family or those who are fond of you

“Many of the best things in life are not remunerative from the money standpoint, but are of immense value to society”- Orison Swett Marden

Let’s face it: your family might not be perfect (neither is mine), but they are probably reliable people that you can always count on. Spend more time with them or with some of your best friends that you know who will always have your back. 

In our Matrix, we are forced to waste so much time with people we don’t really like or don’t care about at all. The best way to rebel against the system is to make sure you spend more time with people you really care about.

4. Don’t spend all your time playing video games

“You must keep in touch with the great life arena. Mere theories do not go very far ; it is life that Counts.” – Orison Swett Marden

Well, this one is quite obvious. If you are not where you want to be, you should be hustling right now instead of wasting your valuable time with video games or other time sinking activities.

Cheap forms of entertainment such as games or movies are a great way to refill your energy if you can’t go out or travel, but they do turn into a problem if they are becoming an addiction, thus leading to procrastination.

I’ve seen a boy so addicted with his MMORPGs that he even declined a date with a hot girl just to keep leveling up his stupid fictional character for an entire night. Believe me!

5. Read books and biographies from great men of the past

No great book can replace a great mentor. However, no one has the luxury to have a mentor who has deep knowledge about every subject in life. This is where biographies and technical books come in handy.

If you can’t find someone in real life to advise you about a certain area you don’t have any experience on, search for books that might have answers about what you are looking for. I believe that reading biographies or autobiographies from great men of the past is one of the best ways to find the secret of living a joyful life.

At least for me, there isn’t anything more inspirational than to be able to see how great men of centuries ago were once mere average Joes with flaws and facing life problems just like any of us. Every men who succeeded and reached prosperity had to first go through a lot of struggle, pain, and deception before reaching the top.

Whatever your final goal is right now, it’s quite important that you never become arrogant to the point of  believing you don’t need to improve yourself nor look for mentors.

6. Fail big

Yeah, he failed trying to succeed. So what? At least he had the balls to risk his face at something he believed in, beta males will never have this kind of courage.

Failure is a good way to improve ourselves and discover who we really are. It’s an adventure of self-discovery. Unfortunately, we live in a culture where people are so worried about their image that they’d rather never risk themselves in new pursuits due to being afraid of looking like a fool. Thus they end up never improving themselves.

Remember this: you can never become the best version of yourself if you don’t want to risk failing, whether it is trying to game a girl, opening a business, playing an instrument and so on.

7. Be an example to those around you

“Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.” – Matthew 7:6

Not everyone is bitter because they opted to be. A lot of people became toxic due to life events making them become disillusioned with the world and humanity. However, if they are willing to listen to you and change, you should try to help them out, but if you notice that they are refusing your aid, and their negativity cancer is starting to affect your look in life, then move on and ghost them if necessary.

As Jesus told us:

Do not give what is holy to the dogs; nor cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you in pieces.

There are some people who were beaten so hard by the School of Hard-Knocks, that all you can do for them is to let them find salvation on their own.

8. You won’t always get what you want!

If you can accept that you won’t always get what you want, without throwing a tantrum like a spoiled brat, you are more likely to become a real man and a more down-to-earth kind of person.

9. Find a “sanctuary” to keep you sane during the hard times

There will be times that we will be going through a lot in life. Nothing that we try will be working out while we encounter failure after failure. When those periods arrive, it’s always good to have some kind of shelter to keep you sane.

If you have something or someone to fall your back on, it can be way easier to endure those difficult periods. My shelter during hard times is reading the Bible, but if you are not a religious person, look for something else to keep you sane. Your “sanctuary” can be one of your hobbies, someone you trust, or whatever that can keep your mind too busy to think about negative things.


To sum it up we have the power to create our own realities, even if we are not rich. How will you sculpt your world from now on?

Read More: 7 Things I Would Tell My Younger Self If I Could Travel Back In Time

81 thoughts on “9 Secrets To Living A Joyful Life”

  1. Great article. I love this kind of insight – it is what ROK is all about.
    To me, negativity is more of a virus than a cancer – because it is very contagious and affects others. And like a virus, it never helps anyone.

    1. The Modern Disease of Un-Realistic Optimism
      Already the danger is so great, for every individual, every class, every people, that to cherish any illusion whatever is deplorable. Time does not suffer itself to be halted; there is no question of prudent retreat or wise renunciation. Only dreamers believe that there is a way out. Optimism is cowardice.
      We are born into this time and must bravely follow the path to the destined end. There is no other way. Our duty is to hold on to the lost position, without hope, without rescue, like that Roman soldier whose bones were found in front of a door in Pompeii, who, during the eruption of Vesuvius, died at his post because they forgot to relieve him. That is greatness. That is what it means to be a thoroughbred. The honorable end is the one thing that can not be taken from a man.
      Oswald Spengler – Man and Technics
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    2. Three things that make a joyful life.
      1. Good food in your stomach.
      2. Good pussy on your dick.
      3. The enemy’s blood on your fist.

    3. Maybe six years ago. ROK should stop wasting space on shit like self improvement and pickup artistry and concentrate more on educating the world on the dangers of the Jews.

  2. I’d argue that over-reading is just as detrimental as playing too much video games.
    You’re too much in your own little world, you’re new thirst for knowledge will actually make you a pompous ass in many respects (Ie. An “everyone is stupid except me” attitude) and you can read all the damn business, philosophy, and “mindset” books you want but it’s not going to earn you a single dollar unless you put a book down and do something.
    You know, kinda like video games.

    1. I’m not so sure. Reading is great for the mind, imagination, writing, reasoning and abstract thinking skills. If a guy is going to dictate 1 to 2 hours a day playing either video games or reading, he’d be better off reading hands down. Book worms are smart people, you are correct.

  3. Good piece. Do you have information on what the Bible says about the life of Jacob? Reason I’m asking is because I read the Quran and the portion I read said Jacob showed patience when Joseph was taken away from him. But it doesnt go into detail on what he did. So I’m trying to understand what patience is by looking at Jacob. But is it just waiting until God helps out or did he take active steps to change anything?

    1. It is a great question that you ask.
      Jacob was told by his sons that Joseph was dead. He grieved Joseph is the short answer.
      I’m going to give you a link to a very eccentric but insightful man who layers on the meaning of the Genesis 37 story. It’s blood deep, broken into four pieces and probably spans 6 hours of listening.
      I highly recommend you listen through this (even though the guy is eccentric and out of bodily balance.
      May God bless you on your journey to discovery.
      You should also get a Bible in your book collection – it’s a foundational book for the western cannon. I recommend a Holman Christian Standard Study Bible (or the HCSB Apologetics Bible). This version threads the needle between the King James Only crowd and an easy to read modern language translation. It also highlights the few verses in the New Testament that appear in the Textus Majorus and the Textus Vaticanus – letting you decide for yourself if the minor discrepancies between the textual actually affect the exegesis of the teachings.
      Strength and Honour.

  4. At the end of the day we all become carbon. Its what we do in between birth and death is what makes things enjoyable. That’s just having great family, friends, and outlook. I know life’s not fair but it should stop you from creating a life that is beneficial to you and society as a whole.
    You forgot one thing: Dont be a God and fix everyone else’s problems.
    This generation’s Messiah Complex is what leading to unhappy, unfulfilled lives.

    1. I don’t give to charity at all, and the closest thing I do to community service is just helping an old lady reach for something on a high shelf at the supermarket.
      Otherwise, I have no interest in helping people who can’t help themselves, or are in their unfortunate circumstance (homelessness etc) due to their own poor lifestyle choices.

  5. 10. Do not ever chase women, let them chase you, even if that means having 2 or 3 lifelong partners, or staying a virgin. It is much more.m better than dealing with the drama and anxiety of chasing women if you are not chad. Even when you get a girl, do not ever compromise yourself for her, at the cost of being passive

  6. Id like to know the ages of all the wannabe sage “dont spend your time chasing women” types in the manosphere.
    They tend to be at least over 30 and often in their 40s or more like Aaron Clarey. Your preaching to the wrong choir if you think a horny 18 or 23 year old is gonna follow you don’t chase women advice.
    It’s entirely age biased BS.

    1. It’s about chastity and not being depraved. Go to church instead. At 18-23 work and study so you can live the good life after 30 and buy a house and a nice car, this is the life that jesus had in mind for us, not chasing women who today only go after chad anyway
      But ofc, if you are chad then get women, but if you are posting on internet you are no chad

      1. “Go to church instead.” – You get to become obnoxiously self-righteous and the Madonna/whores in church dress to the 9’s, have an extremely high opinion of themselves/their poo-nanny and can rationalize away any lewd sexual acts or un-Christian behavior by quoting scripture and Bein Saved! Washed Spotless in the Blud of Jeezuus! Can I get an Aaaaamen?!?

    2. I’d say, let the horny young man ruin his life by sticking his dick in crazy, and getting either a rape accusation or being held responsible for an unwanted pregnancy. Maybe that will teach him, or others, that there is more to a life’s man than getting his dick wet.

    3. Reality,
      I agree.
      Men at different ages are basically different people; it’s easy for a fading 50 year old to talk about wisdom and how he wish he knew this and that at 18. Even if he “knew” it he would FEEL no different. It would be against his instincts to act like a sleepy old man in the prime of his life.
      Aging necessitates changes. If a 60 year old guy still had the mind of a 20 year old, he would go insane from desire, drive and lust for life.
      Nature has prepared us for increasing frailty by adjusting our minds to change along with our bodies.

      1. At last, in the gray dawn of Civilization the fire in the Soul dies down. The dwindling powers rise to one more, half-successful, effort of creation, and produce the Classicism that is common to all dying Cultures. The soul thinks once again, and in Romanticism looks back piteously to its childhood; then finally, weary, reluctant, cold, it loses its desire to be, and, as in Imperial Rome, wishes itself out of the overlong daylight and back in the darkness of protomysticism in the womb of the mother in the grave.
        – Oswald Spengler

      2. “Men at different ages are basically different people; it’s easy for a fading 50-year-old to talk about wisdom and how he wish he knew this and that at 18.”
        Age 52, I was banging my young girlfriend 4x a day.
        At 18 I didn’t have the opportunity but would have still liked to.
        Between 18 and 50, I didn’t have much change in the ‘desire’ department, only the ‘opportunity’ department changed. Thinking you don’t really understand male ageing, for most of us nothing changes until 60+ (except opportunity), then you go downhill fast.

      3. “If a 60 year old guy still had the mind of a 20 year old, he would go insane from desire, drive and lust for life.”
        At 62, I’ve settled down to sex 2x-4x a week (with a woman 1/2 my age), I was getting a lot less than that when I was single and 20, and also when I was married and 30. However, I do spend a lot more time running now, and no time at all working. At 20 I couldn’t run 100m without collapsing, now (40 years later) after 20Km I feel a little tired for the next hour.

        1. Careful Guvnah, you need to be lifting heavy weights at least 4x more often than you are running. Don’t fall prey to the runner’s high addiction and end up lowering your already minuscule test levels!

        2. JOHN
          I’d tell 18 year old lads not to waste their time with the little slags that twist their hearts and waste their time.
          All they have is a vagina and the average Asian woman’s vagina is much tighter.
          I’d tell 18 year old lads to visit prostitutes and if they do get laid for free as soon as the girl starts getting cosmic and cerebral, move onto action with another girl.
          I’d tell 18 year old guys not to bother with women’s moods. Women prefer guys that are assholes who behave like they don’t give a shit anyhow.
          Of course these days, white girls are all falling all over blacks for the most part while the pale, thin white guy goes home and jerks off to porn alone.

  7. The advice of “Avoid toxic people and negative thoughts” being given on site like RoK… oh the irony

  8. No matter how much a woman likes you, she will never chase you. She will only give you hints and tease you after you approach. It’s the man’s job to seal the deal.

    1. Yup, not only that but one day she can like u, on the other she might not… unlike in men, wahmynz tastes are not a constant, they always fluctuate for example, she might hook up with y cuz of ur mony but after some time she might be like “ohhh but mony is not everything in life, I want to be independent person, I want to be spiritual” and simply dump u for the first tattooed guitar player… or the entirely reverse process could happen also, there is no constant with them.

      1. They don’t usually leave without taking a chunk of you with them.
        (assuming you’re not the guitar player)

        1. JOHN
          The women I did not pay were married women I had affairs with and run-of-the-mill one night stands.
          I remember being 28 and one of these one-night-stands was being pursued by some other guy.
          She was pretty good. She drove a bus for a living and gave an incredibly blowjob like a hoover vacuum. She practically orally raped me.
          But this other guy wanted her after my dong had been her mouth the night before.
          I simply wished them good luck.
          Once you have been to hookers, you realized that what women have-all they have really-are a series of body cavities.

  9. One secret that everyone overlooks. Hinging their happiness on validation by others. If you want happiness, you have to reconcile your own validation with the face in the mirror. The rest don’t matter unless you make them matter more than yourself.

    1. “The common man wants nothing of life but health, longevity, amusement, comfort — “happiness.” He who does not despise this should turn his eyes from world history, for it contains nothing of the sort. The best that history has created is great suffering.”
      Oswald Spengler

  10. Definitely get out of your element. What is toxic is staying in the same place for too long. I go stir cray if I don’t travel every month or two for at least 4-5 days.
    Also, learn to enjoy the quiet. There is really nothing like it in the world. And that is natural silence, not that which is produced from noise canceling headphones.

  11. No, no, no. This article reads like some Just Seventeen BS. There is no such thing as a ‘Joyful Life’, unless you are retarded, and even retards go off from time to time. Life is a sack of shit and unless you are totally psychopathic you will always find find things to fuck you up, mostly your own actions. Best line of approach, appriciate those little things that can make a fucked up life close to a thing of beauty. No one can tell you what they are, you will know them, dont share them, keep them to yourself.

    1. The dude really doesn’t give a shit, he only needed to write an article in order to make some money.
      Anyhow, it’s kinda hard for me to understand how one can have a Joyful life while his race becomes a minority in his own country. Oh well!

    2. Simply not enough down votes (so I gave myself one). I measure my success not by those who agree with me but by those who disagree with me…

    3. We have not chosen this time. We cannot help it if we are born as men of the early winter of full Civilization, instead of on the golden summit of a ripe Culture, in a Phidias or a Mozart time. Everything depends on our seeing our own position, our destiny, clearly, on our realizing that though we may lie to ourselves about it, we cannot evade it. He who does not acknowledge this in his heart, ceases to be counted among the men of his generation, and remains either a simpleton, a charlatan, or a pedant.
      – Oswald Spengler

  12. Good advice generally, although I really doubt there has been a biography written and published in the last 50 years that reflects reality. Publishing companies are owned and run by (((men))) who are averse to the truth and far too busy pushing their long-range agendas on societies they wish to dominate and destroy. The real heroic men of years past are always either ignored or slandered, while the propped up paper lions always turn out to be freemasonic homosexual traitors who lost their moral compass.
    Biographies on the founders of McDonalds, Microsoft, Starbucks, Wikipedia and Facebook (just to name a few) are filled with preposterous claims and outright bullshit in order to cover up the the real importance of (((tribal))) affiliations, secret society connections and/or intelligence community involvement.

    1. I wish I could borrow 1 million dollars from my dad like Trump did. Of course in Today’s money that would be around 7-8 millions.

    2. Allister the founders of massive companies and corporations weren’t part of a secret society that had secret connections that gave them secret opportunities. If you were to trace the lives of the successful back piece by piece you would see that in the infancy of their empires they were subject to a mixture of timing, chance and opportunity. Everything from their birth year to their parents to their first job played a role in shaping their opportunities. There is no secret society. There is no silver platter. That type of thinking is self-deprecating and straight wrong.

      1. Your naivety, Burton, is astounding. Freemasonry, for example, is the biggest so-called “secret society” in the world and EVERY significant politician, media personality and business person (CEO) is a mason — they have to be. How do you explain that? Further, up to 80% of the top people in some industries (media and banking are obvious examples) belong to the (((tribe))) despite comprising only 2% of the population. Finally, it’s been shown repeatedly that Microsoft, Facebook and many other software / social media creations are deeply connected to the intelligence community. In fact, it’s become so obvious that many observers are opening wondering if the companies were started by an alphabet agency and simple given a puppet CEO / founder (Gates, Zuckerberg) for public relations purposes.
        “There is no secret society. There is no silver platter. That type of thinking is self-deprecating and straight wrong.” — How does one even begin to process such sheer ridiculousness??? Burton, you’re either a very young man still, or have fallen and badly banged your head, or perhaps you’re just having some shits and giggles with us by saying something so stupid. Which is it?

        1. Allister at this point you’re pulling things out of your arse unfortunately. Let me understand your logic: every politician, media personality and successful business person is a free mason because quote, “they have to be”? Do you understand how ridiculous you sound? Where is an ounce of evidence to suggest that? At this point your entire stance is based upon conspiracy theories. If I’m naive because I fail to take your conspiracy theories at face value, then so be it. And please elaborate more on this “tribe” you speak of. I have a feeling that if I investigate, I’ll be directed to a conspiracy theory website run by some dude living in a basement somewhere.

  13. Avoid feminist cities like Toronto, LA, San Francisco. Why are militant feminist cities also headquarters for the LGBTQP agenda?
    Cuckservatives will always claim that feminism can be reversed, but BOTH feminism and LGBTQP are of the same coin. You can’t pray to God for him to send fire and brimstone on only homos and only leave feminists behind. Thats like only getting rid of fire ants on termite infestation.

    1. That should read “Avoid feminist corporations.” Corporations are much more dangerous than cities!

    I know 1. of them.
    Don’t call into question your fellow mans most cherished beliefs.
    Don’t make them explain themselves nor their desires because they will be unable to.
    Then they will turn on you for holding up a mirror to their conditioned “thinking.”
    For forcing them to look into their own empty souls, they will hate you.
    My fellow citizens hate me for calling into question their most holiest of dogmas.
    They just made me drink something bitter.
    My legs are feeling numb and I find it difficult to breath.
    Think I’ll lay down for a bit…

  15. Nothing about location?? Quite surprised, as where you are has a huge impact on who you are. As they say, you’re a product of your environment.
    For example, a guy from RoK might be miserable in Toronto but becomes happier after moving to a rural area. It’s shown that people who live in densely populated areas with little access to the wilderness are significantly unhappier than those with the inverse. Picking your area of residence is one of the most important decisions you’ll make. Don’t fuck it up.

    1. I was happier after moving to SEA.
      No white women is an important part of me being joyful.
      (No Jews or blacks either, not that I care about them)

      1. There’s a few Africans, but not really much of a threat.
        Jews are having a good time in the US, why would they leave?
        Nor will you see Mexicans.

    2. Happy people will TEND to be happy no matter where they are living. Unhappy malcontents will be miserable no matter where they are living. There are exceptions but after moving around most of my life (I have literally lost count of the number of places I’ve lived) I’ve come to learn that certain people are going to find ways to enjoy themselves no matter where they are. Other people can be living in luxury and in the bloom of youth and still be unhappy.

      1. You get out of living overseas what you put into it.
        I would not return to my own birthplace if you paid me.
        I would not choose to live in a small town, around the same people I went to first grade with etc. when you can experience a new city every year.
        To each his own of course.
        But when I read that my own state had a city where people were dying of lead-poisoning from the water and could not afford to leave (Because nobody will buy a house in Flint, Michigan) I shuddered in gratitude that I got my lousy state college degree and mustered out of the Guard Reserves for tinnitus and have been able to spend my life abroad.

  16. Traveling can be a good way to replenish your energy, make you reflect on life, and give you enough mojo to make sure that, when you get back to your routine and homeland, you will be at your ease, which will translate in you working harder through the rest of the year.
    But if you’re a woman travelling, that somehow makes you a gold-digging slut! In September 2015, Roosh V made a post on his website arguing that women should have to seek approval from a male “guardian” concerning decisions on travel, and that’s not even the tip of the iceberg…

    1. I don’t recall this article being written with feminist lesbians in mind. Who cares what you think, here? Why aren’t you cavorting with your hag siestas and plotting the conquering of men with them..? Likely you can’t find a single logic reason or argument among them so you lounge among men you hate. Pathetic you can’t even abide you own hypocritical dogma. Everywhere men gather there’s always you male haters have to come amongst the congregation because you can’t even find any kind of company worthwhile amongst your own vile perverted kind. Strong independent women my ass. You can’t function without men’s money you can’t function without men’s attention you can’t even function with your own pathetic thoughts that you have to come and steal them from Men.

    2. I don’t think white women should travel.
      They pollute the non-white world with their toxic ideas.
      Just stay at home where I don’t have to see you.

      1. JOHN
        Few of them do, barring the real weathered Cougars that travel to the Caribbean for the Soul Pole and of course Europe.

        1. Chiang Mai is full of the entitled 20 something cunts, banging black men for free (then reporting them for rape), eating vegetarian food, going to yoga lessons and having massages.

        2. JOHN
          Jeez, the Africans are everywhere these days aren’t they? So are the white coke whores they service.
          Anyhow, they cannot make a living in Asia, they come and go.

  17. I’m 32 and up until a few years ago, I played video games. They were my go-to when I was sick, weather was bad, work didn’t have any available overtime, the kids and wife were having a lazy day, etc. I played about once a week or so, for an hour or two. But now, I can’t play anymore. All of the games are RPG open world type games, and the only way to make meaningful progress is to play for hours and hours on end multiple days per week. I just don’t have the time for that and I don’t have nearly enough enjoyment for video games to play for that long. So now I’m pretty much down to playing about once every few months or so.

  18. I am 27 years old today:
    My 2 biggest improvements:
    1. I threw my television out of the window. It seems normal today watching TV. When I walk to the street I most people sitting in front of their TV, getting fat and believe everything the Media tells to them. They can’t think for themselves anymore and are sheeps.
    2. Stopped drinking alcohol and eating unhealthy processed foods without nutritions.
    In my opinion the modern food system is the main reason for depression, degeneration und loss of sexuality. After a completely (radical!) change of my diet I am now a completely other person. My sex drive has increased, I need less sleep, I am more concentrate, my regeneration after sports has improved. I feel a lot more satisfied and happy.
    With these 2 things alone your life can improve your quality of life dramatically. Of course some people won’t be agree with you but that’S their problem.
    3. As an average looking man who lives in one of the most destroyed country (by feminist ideologies) of the world – Germany. Its hard to find a place with more unattractive women with high claims but nothing to offer. So its hard to find attractive sex partners.
    2 years ago I started to pay for sex. After that I feel much more relaxed and happy in my life. I can focus on my work more easily and can more easily communicate with attractive women than before. My self-esteem has increased and its more easy for me to find atteactive sex partners without paying.
    Here in Germany you can find a lot of attractive girls by paying. Its not cheap. But think about the stress and things you have to pay for game to find a sex partner here.
    You have the check the forums and read reviews from other people. Its really important because 1 from 2 women will fake you even if you pay. The good thing. More and more good looking women from Italy and Spain are going to be prostitutions here and they don’t fake you in my experience. Women from Asia especially Thailand and China cheat enormously but its possible by studying the forum to find a good and really attractive one. Also on women from eastern europe you have to be carefully. (Women from Poland and Hungary are for the most time ok)
    4. Starting dances classes and visit tantra massage courses:
    Here in western europe we live in a very cold culture, intellectually bred up. In comparison to latin america and southern europe its very uncommon to touch another person or kiss someone. In time of me too the situation nowadays is extremely more worse. Because of the cultural education you will unlearn it after some years. So I visited dancing classes and tantra massage courses where you can train on a real person. My dealings with women have improved significantly.

  19. Great article!!!! #1 was very helpful to me…. #5 I want to get into more (I suggest; Brothers: Diary of Warren Hamilton Lewis for 1)…
    This article hit me on the nose

  20. Great article, and I agree with almost all of it, but I have some issues with the first two points.
    Avoiding “toxic” people and negativity is what women, liberals, and boomers do. I think that a man needs to understand how to embrace negativity and ultimately defeat it through proactive effort. It’s not that you want to wallow in it, but you must accept that the world contains a very dark, evil, negative aspect to it, and if it is not confronted by fearless men willing to sacrifice their artificial peace of mind, it will continue gaining power. You must go to a somewhat dark place and be comfortable there in order to truly fight the evil of this world. But most are comfortable in make-believe land where everything is cushy and pleasant – we call them blue pilled.
    Secondly, travel is overrated. If you live in the USA there really isn’t a better place on earth that you’ll find. You are only running away from yourself. You will discover that eventually after wasting a lot of time and money. A real man works with what he’s got, where he is, right now today. You want to master your surroundings, so that you shape your community to fit your needs and wants. With that kind of personal control, there is little need or desire to travel and take selfies on beaches for facebook like women do.
    Anyway, I’m not shooting the article down, it was good, just offering a different take.

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    4: kratom
    9: to refill kratom

  22. Dallaglio locker room
    Sniffing another dudes jocks in the lockeroom is known to be bring you a sense of well-being. It’s a well known medical fact.

  23. Yo Howard you dusty old man go play with your grandkids and stop stroking your ego “helping” young men with your bumper sticker advice. Thanks!

  24. You need to be careful about avoiding negative thoughts.
    1. Trying to be positive all the time can lead to unhappiness because you end up thinking about your negative thoughts. Dostoevsky used to bet his brother that he couldn’t go for a specific period of time without thinking of polar bears. The minute he couldn’t think of polar bears, something that was normally not on his mind, all he could think of was polar bears. Researchers have found that with positive thinking people end up thinking more about their negative thoughts and hold onto them longer. This leads to depression.
    2. Negative thoughts can be a wake up call that something is wrong.
    Good book on this that examines recent research of why positive thinking is counter productive and why the Stoics and Buddhists have it right.
    The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can’t Stand Positive Thinking

  25. You need to be careful about avoiding negative thoughts.
    1. Trying to be positive all the time can lead to unhappiness because you end up thinking about your negative thoughts. Dostoevsky used to bet his brother that he couldn’t go for a specific period of time without thinking of polar bears. The minute he couldn’t think of polar bears, something that was normally not on his mind, all he could think of was polar bears. Researchers have found that with positive thinking people end up thinking more about their negative thoughts and hold onto them longer. This leads to depression.
    2. Negative thoughts can be a wake up call that something is wrong.
    Good book on this that examines recent research of why positive thinking is counter productive and why the Stoics and Buddhists have it right.
    The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can’t Stand Positive Thinking

  26. Good for the lad who declined a date for an MMO session, hes miles ahead of most gamers by not being a thirsty simp.

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