Two Lessons From Porn

Much has been written on the ‘evils’ of porn, from moral objections to psychological effects. Personally I find porn completely drains me of all motivation to talk to girls, or work on a campaign. However, there are two things all of us here at Return of Kings can learn from porn:

1. Every Girl Has A Buying Price

One of the larger trends in the porn world is a fake casting kind of deal. A professional looking man is a “casting agent” for large porn production companies. He invites the women in and gives them a breakdown of how the porn industry works, asks them a few questions and before you know it his dick is in their ass.

One might claim “but these are scripted! The girls have been in porn before or know the setup.” I say “so what?” These women are still getting rawdogged, throat fucked, ass fucked, choked, and creampied by a complete stranger. Yes they get paid, maybe they do it because they have ’emotional wounds’, maybe they like the attention or the thrill of pleasing voyeurs like yourself, maybe they are genuinely very sexual and are passionate about taking dick. Who knows, but there is a reason why they do it.

What can we learn from this?

Every girl has a buying price. This doesn’t mean a monetary buying price, but the point at which she is so attracted to you she decides to have sex with you. For some girls it could be the way you pulled her head back and pushed her into the wall while making out, for others it could be a ‘romantic’ gesture such as sharing a bottle of wine with a great view, for others it could be logical “this guy could provide well for our children” and on and on. Its your job to find out.

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2. Never Put A Girl On A Pedestal

Every woman has a threshold you can reach to sleep with her. Does this then mean all women are whores? It certainly does not, but it does mean that you should not pedestalize any single woman. Thinking she is above her biological imperative is foolish.

A sex scandal surrounding Miss Teen Delaware has been blowing up lately. If you’re not familiar: a video was leaked of her freshly 18-year-old ass being plundered by some dude in a cheesy motel. The situation plays out like I described before. He asks her some questions and they get to fucking. She happily takes a load to the face and thoroughly enjoys it. Danger and Play recently covered this story so I’ll quote:

Miss Teen Delaware was literally put on a pedestal. She was given a crown and treated like royalty.

Men who met her felt intimidated. They viewed their sexual attraction for her as something immoral, unnatural even. They would feel odd approaching a nice girl like her. She’s too special, too precious, too delicate, too innocent.

The girl you view as a precious, delicate snowflake who must be protected is getting railed in a Motel 6 by a herpes-infected ex-con.

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To me the most illogical facet of the average males’ mind is that of pedestalization. They could jerk off five times a day for their whole life to different women. They can see every imaginable act being performed on every imaginable type of woman, yet they still fear that by expressing their sexuality they will tarnish such a beautiful specimen of female-kind. Like I said every woman has a point at which she will sleep with a man. Sex is the most natural thing in the world and yet guys think their oneitis is an inhuman, paragon of chasteness.

With enough comfort a girl will be open to doing almost anything. Her comfort must reach her sex-threshold before you can make sweet, passionate, tender, romantic, slow, love to her. If you’ve vowed to never watch porn again keep these lessons in mind and you’ll thank yourself once you seduce the cute girl from the coffee shop.

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45 thoughts on “Two Lessons From Porn”

  1. Good quote I read on Danger and Play regarding this story: ‘When you put a girl on a pedestal, don’t be surprised when she looks down on you from that pedestal’.

  2. 3. Get over the fear of rejection.
    The many genres of porn is similar in real life. One day you spank to school uniform next day large breasts. You approach a big titty lass get nexted, no problem. The petite undergrad is giving you the IOI.

    1. “The many genres of porn is similar in real life.”
      Dicks are never that big in real life. Even amongst blacks.

  3. This is exactly why the 1-10 rating is bad. HB8 WHAT??? fuck that.
    Transistors are the way 0 or 1. fly or not.

    1. Completely agree with this sentiment—the 10-scale is bunk and always has been, really.
      The system I believe in is binary. One or Zero. Bang or not bang

        1. Your dick could care less whether how bang-worthy a girl is. As long as it can get up, it’s happy.

        2. Yeah but (8*0) is still a zero. 8 being the scale and 0 being you not fucking her. Thou shalt not use the scale for something other than comparing females, not success in pick-up

  4. Good post. I also would like to add that how stupid the ideology of prostitution is in the States. For most of the country prostitution is illegal unless one is willing to video tape the act and make it available to the public.
    Nobody gets arrested when a chick is getting paid to fuck in front in front of a camera. But should this same act take place privately with only her and a guy then it violates the law

    1. I remember reading that someone circumvented prostitution laws in Europe somewhere by setting up a brothel where dudes got free sex, but it was brodcast on the internet and thats how they made their money.

  5. We MEN are the prize in the relationship, not her. Never think in terms of impressing her, always think in terms of carrot and the stick
    carrot: your personal expression causes her to invest emotionally in you. This is the glue that holds your relationship together
    stick: your personal authority/ dominance/ rules which she must be submissive to or face punishment/ pain. This is the glue that holds your relationship together
    ^^This fear + respect dynamic is what allows her to stay attracted to your cock for years at a time. Get the balance of these 2 things correct and a bitch will do whatever you tell her. But remember, with great power/ authority comes great responsibility. Don’t tell her to rob a bank for you, because she will.

    1. Not bang, because of the -American hyphenation and attendant attitude and attention whoring. Were she just “Asian”, absolutely. Love ’em.
      (Yes, I know, “Asian” isn’t a proper demonym. You know what I mean, gimme a break.)

  6. I might pedestalize a virgin, to a degree. But any other woman, it’s just tactically and psychologically safer to just assume she’s seen more cocks than a retired andrologist who runs a chicken farm. (rimshot!)

    1. I think assuming all women have ridden a billion dicks will lead you to hate them. If you acknowledge that she’s fully capable of doing so that’s a different story. If you meet a girl, get to know her and think “shes nice/sweet/feminine” but later she cheats on you or you find out she used to be in porn or something it shouldn’t phase you because you assume potential instead of fact.

      1. The extremely promiscuous with previous sex partner numbers well in the high double digits is a rarity, even in the West, for both sexes.
        Most people just are not having that much sex with that many people.
        The very non-promiscuous “Relationship sex” seems to be the norm.
        Now those relationships may be short-term (a month to a year) or a longer term, but the vast majority of people are having sex only with boyfriends and girlfriends, provided they can manage to get a boyfriend or girlfriend in the first place, which appears to be the bigger issue.

  7. “Every woman has a threshold you can reach to sleep with her.”
    Every woman has a threshold which SOME man out there can reach to sleep with her. Not necessarily *you*.
    Don’t want to waste any innocently foolish man’s time here by making everyone think they can get anybody or everybody.

  8. “Every woman has a threshold you can reach to sleep with her.”
    Every woman has a threshold which SOME man out there can reach to sleep with her. Not necessarily *you*.
    Don’t want to waste any innocently foolish man’s time here by making everyone think they can get anybody or everybody.

      1. you’re replying to a woman, but i think you should be spared on grounds that you’re likely not familiar with sanskrit noun inflections.

  9. The fact that one can browse on a pornsite and see literally hundreds of thousands of different girls, if not millions (and that’s just one one tube site) all of whom were more than happy to engage in the fundamentally “edgy” acts of A) having sex with a random horny dude who is not their husband, and B) consenting to have that filmed, should admirably drive home the basic tenets of game to any clearheaded observer. Pussy is not a scarce commodity, and the main difference between Joe Schmo who sits on the internet and watches the porn, and Joe Blow, who tapes himself giving his latest girlfriend a facial, is that the latter dude approached some girls and found himself a slut to play with, while the former dude keeps telling himself that sluts only exist on the internet, and that in real life, every girl he sees is a princess. For every girl who shows up on a pornsite, there are probably 20 more who have made videos that are sitting quietly on some hard drive or memory card, and 100 more for every one of those, who do all the same things, but don’t take videos of it.

    1. I have no idea who sated this, but i wrote it down because of its profoundness: “The mystery of a female is purely the romantic imagination of men.”
      A woman has no virtue, period.

    2. Yup.
      I have videos of six women I banged in my computer, for example. I filmed the encounters with their permission, and two of them actually asked for it. (I never let them film me. Ever. I’m the one doing the filming. I’m the one keeping the videos/photos. No exceptions made for any reason.)
      And my friends… the vast majority of them have spicy photos and videos of girlfriends, former and current. Just a small percentage taken surreptitiously.
      All this, plus social networks, amateur tube network, and the general slutty/hivemind attitude that women exhibit when they get their hands on a smartphone changed my attitude toward women COMPLETELY.
      In fact, I believe this is the most acute observation that Roosh made in his blog.

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