We all want to go up to our friends and say “Hey man, I’ve been dating a stripper for 2 months, what have you been up to?” As fun as that may seem, could you really handle it?
Unless you’re a stone cold killer, a player or a dude that can’t have an emotional connection, dating women like these will always be difficult but, if you can soldier on, the benefits might very well be worth the extra stress.
Strippers
I’ve added strippers first on this list because dating a stripper may very well be the easiest out of the bunch. I’ve also been in a few “relationships” with strippers which means I have some experience.
The good:
The benefits here are plenty. First of all, if she’s a stripper, she’s got a rocking body. Not only that, she knows how to move and turn a guy on which when we think about it, is an outstanding quality to have as a woman.
Furthermore, knowing how to move usually also means, knows how to move in the bedroom. It’s the same with chicks that know how to dance a.k.a know how to keep a rhythm. If they can keep that rhythm on stage they could certainly keep that rhythm in the bedroom.
The Bad:
Most strippers aren’t hookers which means, most of them don’t sleep with their clientele. This means that if you’re banging a stripper that you may have met somewhere else, you can quickly get rid of that ridiculous idea out of your head. With that being said, she still gets naked (or at least topless) in front of other dudes. If this bothers you, then you can’t be dating no strippers. You need to understand that she is stripping for a living and will not stop doing it just because you said so.
Finally, most strippers have very little respect for the greasy dudes that walk into the strip club and shower her with greasy money which means that yet again, you can rest easy knowing that she won’t be banging or hooking up with the clientele. If you plan on taking this journey, make sure you don’t have a problem with your girlfriend getting naked and touching other dudes in a sleazy bar.
Live Sex Models
Live sex models are a different story. I’m actually dating one right now and it’s what gave me the idea for this article. Anyway, these chicks are different from strippers in the sense that they take things to a different level.
The good:
On the bright side, they don’t get touched a lot by men, since most of their time is spent in front of a PC monitor with a piece of plastic/silicone/metal/glass inside their vagina. When you do touch them, they actually like it and as shocking as this may seem, they actually get really wet when it comes to being with a man.
Still on the bright side, they won’t be digging through your pockets since they probably make A LOT more money than you. Let’s not forget that they 100% know how to turn you on.
The bad:
They get naked on camera. Not naked like a stripper, but naked and abusive with all their orifices. They do this in front of men (who are often times showing how they’re wanking off) for money. To make matters worse, the shit they see on a regular basis will blow you away. If it won’t blow you away, it will probably make your dick hide in your ass which means it’ll be really hard to show a girl like this a good time.
Also, if you’re not into this kind of thing, know that your friends and even your dad could be paying her to get naked right now.
Just because these girls know how to use a dildo in front of a webcam doesn’t mean these girls know how to have sex. They do know how to turn you on (and themselves) with a dildo, but not necessarily during sex. They never cum at work (unless it’s requested and paid for, yet often still faked) and their hole gets a whole lot of abuse on a daily basis. The sex you’ll have won’t be pretty special unless the chick you’re seeing is on a mission to satisfy you.
Finally, these women make a ton of money. That may be good if you’re a lazy cheap bastard but most men will have a problem with this. The chick I’m seeing makes around $400-$600 a day, usually not working more than 5 hours. I don’t know what sort of job you’ve got but that’s insane for most people.
Pornstars
This is where stuff starts to get a lot more complicated. I’ve dated one of these chicks that I could say was doing semi-pro porn meaning it’s not the sleazy shit you get on the free sites but it’s also not the top notch BRAZZERS stuff you pay cash for.
The Good:
She can and will do the craziest shit in bed. She will know how to give you a blowjob because it comes with the job description. You can be proud of what you’ve got especially if she’s well known and you can tell your friends about it. Also, she doesn’t do that many scenes a month as the Live Sex Model so, she won’t always be sore which means she’ll bang you whenever you want.
The Bad:
The biggest issue is that she has sex with other men for a living. They do get tested, it is clean, but you’ll always know that some pornstar dude was probably banging your girlfriend today. There’s more to it than this but I if you can deal with that, you’ll probably be able to handle everything. The sex she has in front of the camera is considered work which is completely different from the sex she has with you. If you can wrap that around your head, you might just be able to pull this off.
If you’re possessive over women and believe that your girlfriend should only sleep with you, even if sleeping with other dudes doesn’t mean anything then having a pornstar chick as your girlfriend might not be the best idea.
Final Notes:
Personally, I don’t really have a problem with dating any of these women. My confidence is usually high and I’m not afraid I’m going to lose them or that one of them is cheating on me. Unfortunately, I don’t see any of them as marriage material and you probably feel the same way. With that being said, just remember that this last little fact is never something you’d want to share with them.
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First! Haven’t read the article yet but the title is intriguing.
*Stripper
i only came to comment on this
On another note, you usually need high confidence to date any woman without getting emotionally wrecked in the end. Or be a psychopath.
Most alphas wouldn’t date any of these women; they’d keep them as fuck buddies though. One of my fuck buddies is a live porn star.
Dear Diary,
I’m bangin’ Dillion Harper…I’m kind of unsure of this relationship. Probably not marriage material.
Haha. Would love to have that problem.
Dated one stripper, and banged many strippers. I’d say fifty percent of the time I have gone to one I got some action; but I hate strip clubs and don’t go to them very often. It is a lot more common then you think. All of us can agree here that women lie right? So, why would a stripper be a paragon of virtue in that regard?
Never been with live sex model, that I know of, so I can’t say. I can say that I could care less how much she makes, and it would bother me if it were anything more than sex.
Porn star. Had a chance one time, and walked away. She had the coolest tat I had ever seen. It was a naked women, demon angel, sitting on her haunches with ridiculously high heels. The clit, nipples, and bat wings all glowed in the dark.
She was buying me drinks from a wad of 100s about 4 inches in diameter she had in her purse. She claimed she had just done a “multiple” meaning five or more guys, and received her payment. The dude with her was obviously bi-sexual. The reason I know is that while I was talking to her he seemed to get insanely jealous, turned her around and put his hand over her shoulder telling me to stop in the gayest voice I had ever heard. Nothing but sex there. I could not tell the difference. So I imagine what most of them do on film is staged. The best position they must like is when after the guy finishes, they shower, put their hand out flat to the director and say “check please.”
Interesting post.
All of these women feel that they are entitled to trade sex or sex appeal for money from men they aren’t even attracted to. This means that you can’t ever trust the sincerity of their sexual feelings. No Trust = no strong relationship.
Have fun move on.
PS And this factor comes into play before you get into whatever daddy issues, drugs, alpha widowhood, or insane feminism that drove the girl into this lifestyle.
I need to at least be able to pretend that my girl is only sexual for me, in order to date her.
I was dating this girl who started waitressing in a strip club and that was enough to piss me off.
Although in this context I’m sure they mean the exact same thing, I will never describe my feelings to a girl as “being jealous.” I tell them I’m territorial and that they belong to me.
It’s not exactly aloof but most girls seem to like it once we’ve been in a relationship for a while.
I’ll pass on all three. I don’t date girls who do coke.
Yup, nothing worse than a bitch who snorts up all your coke.
How about a guide on finding a pornstar girlfriend instead of this useless bullshit?
Why not? Apparently most women seem to be wannabes and emulate these women anyways, so is there a difference?
Women are women so not really.
There’s zero useful advice in this article
This “writer” should not be permitted to deface this website in the future.
He can scarcely write grammatical sentences.
Instead of subjecting us to this drivel, he should occupy his time with
something he can master: just as playing with crayons.
The funny thing is that while most articles on this site are just re-hashes of common PUA forum threads, this one is a complete airball. Captain Obvious didn’t even do the most basic of google searches to help inject this article with some value. “If you date a stripper, be aware she gets naked in front of other men.” Thanks, lol!
Agreed — probably the worst article I’ve read here. Roosh, some quality control please?
It’s not a totally useless article, since it weighs the pro’s and con’s of getting involved with these types and it’s getting us to think and talk about it for a minute (can people please stop complaining and start dropping knowledge about this subject on this thread instead?). But for a lot of us readers that have been reading men blogs for a while, the content is glib. There are no personal stories other than glossed over examples. And most of his pro’s and con’s are obvious to most people.
But WORST of all, there is no advice on how to game one of these headaches. He makes it look like you can pick up one off the street (no pun intended). Where do you usually find them outside their job? Once you do stumble onto one of them, it will be one of your hardest pickups ever.
These girls have a hard demeanor. Their job makes them hard because they deal with hard men and Alpha assholes. Because they are eschewing the bullshit princess fantasy by cutting to the chase by getting money directly, they have little patience for the fake placating supplication that betas run on girls. You have to cut to the chase in return with either asshole game, thug game, or caveman game.
It’s not a totally useless article, since it weighs the pro’s and con’s of getting involved with these types and it’s getting us to think and talk about it for a minute (can people please stop complaining and start dropping knowledge about this subject on this thread instead?). But for a lot of us readers that have been reading men blogs for a while, the content is glib. There are no personal stories other than glossed over examples. And most of his pro’s and con’s are obvious to most people.
But WORST of all, there is no advice on how to game one of these headaches. He makes it look like you can pick up one off the street (no pun intended). Where do you usually find them outside their job? Once you do stumble onto one of them, it will be one of your hardest pickups ever.
These girls have a hard demeanor. Their job makes them hard because they deal with hard men and Alpha assholes. Because they are eschewing the bullshit princess fantasy by cutting to the chase by getting money directly, they have little patience for the fake placating supplication that betas run on girls. You have to cut to the chase in return with either asshole game, thug game, or caveman game.
It’s not a totally useless article, since it weighs the pro’s and con’s of getting involved with these types and it’s getting us to think and talk about it for a minute (can people please stop complaining and start dropping knowledge about this subject on this thread instead?). But for a lot of us readers that have been reading men blogs for a while, the content is glib. There are no personal stories other than glossed over examples. And most of his pro’s and con’s are obvious to most people.
But WORST of all, there is no advice on how to game one of these headaches. He makes it look like you can pick up one off the street (no pun intended). Where do you usually find them outside their job? Once you do stumble onto one of them, it will be one of your hardest pickups ever.
These girls have a hard demeanor. Their job makes them hard because they deal with hard men and Alpha assholes. Because they are eschewing the bullshit princess fantasy by cutting to the chase by getting money directly, they have little patience for the fake placating supplication that betas run on girls. You have to cut to the chase in return with either asshole game, thug game, or caveman game.
It’s not a totally useless article, since it weighs the pro’s and con’s of getting involved with these types and it’s getting us to think and talk about it for a minute (can people please stop complaining and start dropping knowledge about this subject on this thread instead?). But for a lot of us readers that have been reading men blogs for a while, the content is glib. There are no personal stories other than glossed over examples. And most of his pro’s and con’s are obvious to most people.
But WORST of all, there is no advice on how to game one of these headaches. He makes it look like you can pick up one off the street (no pun intended). Where do you usually find them outside their job? Once you do stumble onto one of them, it will be one of your hardest pickups ever.
These girls have a hard demeanor. Their job makes them hard because they deal with hard men and Alpha assholes. Because they are eschewing the bullshit princess fantasy by cutting to the chase by getting money directly, they have little patience for the fake placating supplication that betas run on girls. You have to cut to the chase in return with either asshole game, thug game, or caveman game.
I know right, thanks for pointing out the obvious Alex. Its obvious this guy hasn’t dated any of these types of girls.
Completely anecdotal evidence: I dated a cute little stripper once. She was a handful, and not in the cutesy Manic Pixie way. She was an emotional shitstorm in hell.
For most strippers, you have to have some sorties of daddy issues flying around to want to get naked in front of strangers for money. Don’t think those sorties suddenly land in the demilitarized zone once the girl starts dating.
Many girls in those industries conceal their occupation anyway. Makes for nasty arguments when the truth finally surfaces.
Been reading the whole Bonecrcker thread lately (I’m up to #75). He’s said in some of his post that all girls that work in the sex for money industry (including hostesses that work bottle service and some bartenders) are the most psycho. Even if they make more money than you, they will take you for a ride.
Bonecrcker is a bit extreme, but the general advice on avoiding such women seems sound
His actual quote is, “all women have one or more screws loose; women who work in the sex for money industries have 90% of their screws loose.”
I’m going to write an article stating…”Can you hold lit dynamite in your hand and come out alive?”
Shouldn’t you be reading your wretched bible?
I don’t have time…I am currently reading “The Art of War”
Which is another name for my bible.
go be euphoric elsewhere you shitstain
Don’t want to date a stripper, sex show hoe, or a cum guzzling pornstar. Thanks.
Hey chump – when your stripper girlfriend told you she wasn’t a whore, she was probably lying. They may not “sleep with” their clientele, but they give blowjobs or handjobs at minimum – or they are broke.
Strippers may not *all* be out-and-out prostitutes,
but 99% of them are attention whores … and that is actually worse.
While reading this, all I could think was, “Da f*ck…?”
The strippers the author and I have dated must be from different galaxies. His sound like sweet little girls who just happen to disrobe in front of men, but sure don’t LIKE it or anything.
Mine have been dirty nasty hot sluts with scads of personality disorders who need money, attention, and penises by the fistful.
Hurry up and date those sluts, but only marry a virgin. No cherry, no marry.
The nicest girl I ever dated was a stripper… But she was also foreign.
“Everyone in the porn industry has herpes. Including me.”
-Rocco Siffredi
This article is useless without the live sex model’s website and cam id.
I read somewhere that porn stars all have herpes. It’s just a part of the industry.
I’ve dated a couple of strippers.
Pro Tip: NEVER refer to them as “my little ATM with tits.”
They really don’t like that.
I’ve spent some time with a stripper outside her work (and have sex with her), a hot romanian. She was the one who asked me to get together, so the merit its not mine. It was cool, but it didn’t last long. In my experience a relationship with this kind of girls can bring you trouble, and you will never be sure if they have ulterior motivations to be with you.
NOTE: THE BELOW IS BASED ON MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. YOUR MILEAGE MAY VARY.
Can sex workers make good girlfriends? Well, can wolves make good pets? You certainly look badass walking around with them, but ultimately they are dangerous. They are too wild and cannot be controlled.
I’ve dated 3 hookers. One of them was a craigslist fetish whore. Guys would pay her to laugh at them as they shit in a diaper and then jerk them off after. One was involved with a big speed dealer who would pimp her out as a cherry on top of drug deals. One was a girl from a good family who just needed dirty thrills so bad she started selling her pussy on craigslist at age 17. The former two had also stripped, performed in porn, and been camwhores. I’ve also fooled around with innumerable other strippers, marginal XHamster day players and “gray area” whores who fuck old men for vacations and presents.
Whether you can hang with these types of women, and whether you even want to, comes down to what *you* are like. Are you nuts? They are. Do you enjoy drama? They do. Do you mind being baited into blind rage and occasional physical violence? I hope not, because it will happen.
Now I happen to be nuts, so I had what I consider good experiences. But you are not going to date a professional slut if you’re a square who has to get up early and look at spreadsheets. You’re not even going to get near that type of girl without paying. And if you’re paying, you’re already fucked. That dynamic is almost impossible to break. You have to meet them outside the workplace.
Fortunately, they are out there. They are on OKCupid, weirdly, often with the most interesting profiles. They are at parties, albeit better ones than you’re being invited to. But if you can get into that world– the people who dress crazy and stay up till sunrise doing coke on a Tuesday, they’re there. And it’s not exactly solving a Rubik’s cube to get into their pants.
You can’t judge them. For anything, ever. If you have one atom of sexual jealousy in your body, steer clear. They have had oceans of cock, much of it larger and more skillfully wielded than yours. You can’t give a shit. And I am trafficking in stereotypes here, but: they are like this because they were molested. The fetish girl lost her virginity at age 4 to her 16 year old foster brother. The speed dealer girl was “dating” a 35 year old bartender who would get her drunk and high every day after school when she was 13. You are delving into, and sexually profiting from, the darkest depths of human misery. If this bothers you, don’t do it.
The good news is they are often fascinating, hilarious, brutally honest, wonderful people. There’s a lot of bellyaching on the manosphere about how boring and dishonest and shallow women are in the dating scene. Well, these girls are not like that. They may not quote Plato but they understand human nature. They are, to use a cliché, “red pill.” They can have wicked senses of humor; they can casually drop stories that will blow your mind. And of course, they can fuck.
But what they can’t do is settle down and stay with a guy. What they can’t do is hold back from sending you a text every two weeks that they’ve locked themselves in the bathroom and are about to slit their wrists and take 40 Tylenol PM’s. What they can’t do is sleep soundly in their own god damn house at night instead of banging on your door at 3am when you have to get up the next morning and put on a tie and look at spreadsheets. Them having a normal life is like a circus bear riding a bicycle. You can make them do it in short bursts but you’re constantly on your toes about the thing ripping your head off.
Treat a hooker/ stripper/ porn performer like a wild animal. They can be breathtaking when encountered, and if they get close to you for a minute it’s an experience you will remember for the rest of your life. But it’s cruel to both of you to have the thing living in your house.
(Insert your own joke about making coats out of their skin)
This comment is about 100 times more interesting and useful than the article.
This is just epic. Great comment….
If you’re not nuts and you don’t like drama in your personal life, but occasionally want the fun of having sex with this kind of creature …
well, you can always just pay them.
Great post BTW.
Sir,
I’m deeply humbled by your story telling abilities and clarity of thought. This was a great read.
Fuckin a brother. I hear guys talking about these crazy bitches man, what’s your definition? Mine is molested by dad as a child and grown up, covered in scars and tattoos, 13 goes to fuck a dude ten years older in a hotel down the street then beat her mom with a fireplace poker when she got home cause mom was pissed, miscarried in the jr high bathroom, still does heroin even though she’s allergic to it, take pictures fucking a dog, get in a fucking fist fight with you, run off, threaten to have her meth dealer stab you to death then come back two hours later with fresh cuts tweaking the fuck out and nodding off crying how much she loves you. Kind of a composite.
Besides the crazy sex, there’s another good side. If you can spend any sort of time with a chick like that, a normal girl’s bullshit is nothing at all, ever. Bitch you aren’t texting me back, you’re trying to make me jealous, some shit? I’m glad you’re not trying to strangle me to death. I laugh at your games.
To answer the title (even after reading it):
No. Hell no.
This is so awful, whoever is the administrator of this website should banned the author of this article. Just check his picture he is an overweight dude giving advice on how to date , the irony is he is claiming that he was dating a stripper probably in his dream , the only girl he can date is an overweight gal who works in Walmart
Pretty sure a great number of pornstars escort on the side. They’re all over those websites. If they’re getting banged out raw by 5 to 10 dudes that pay $800 an hour and fly them out to make this happen, how are they going to be tested as clean the day of a pornshoot when that supposedly only happens once a month?
im marred to a prostitute (it is legal in the state of Victoria ) we dont to drugs or even drink its clean ( sex workers have 7th the std rate as the general public in vic and cant work if thay do have one ) we love each other and her job has never gotten in the way hell we are building a rely good life on the money she makes the only thing that makes it a hard life are dicks that insist on giving us a hard time about it
I guess if you’re the guy who isn’t jealous very easily or is into open or polyamorous relationships then dating any of these types should be no problem.
NO!
The short answer is of course, no.
Any man with self respect wants to own his female.
The longer answer, in our current feminist dystopian hell is, sure they can. It is hard to be worse than the typical western woman. they are all on the pole.
just leaving this here:http://bit.ly/2mIgXyN