With January and February well and truly gone and March soon to be over, too, now is the time for converting those nostalgic “I wish I could be more” New Year’s resolutions into concrete, daily, and, yes, “boring” actions. In no other field of your life is this more true than in gaming girls. Our enthusiasm for it can go from sky-high to subterranean very quickly. Unlike work and physical fitness, there are almost always far less obvious signs that you have been neglecting your game.
With this in mind, I bring your attention to four rules that will serve you well in the coming nine and a bit months. Like with any tools you rely on, they should be revisited (meaning properly read and applied in real life) time and again.
1. Choose your life dreams, not the girl, at least six times a month
What do I mean here? Modern thirstiness in men has created the phenomenon where their schedules can be determined by the mere prospect of romantic or semi-sexual interaction with a girl. Plans for study, important work proposals, and spending time with close friends take a backseat to whichever girl is showing even the mildest flirtatious interest in person, online or via text. It is nothing short of a recipe for neediness, even if your version is much less dangerous than the next man’s, and dismembered, ADHD-style focus for your other activities.
You must not be a slave to this. You must rebel. If you very quickly chase all the female-related chances (or just 50% of them) that come your way, are you really in control and able to set priorities? No. And, significantly, you think these chances come your way. Men routinely overestimate the attraction a woman has for them. They also invariably have a rosier picture than they should about the logistics of meeting girls, such as how much time meant for other activities they can reasonably sacrifice and the ease with which schedules can be combined to meet.
At least six times a month, choose yourself, which can include deciding to spend time with non-sexually based friends and other social acquaintances. Better yet, learn the habit of carving out hours of non-negotiable time for your long-term and non-urgent but life-enhancing projects. Are you writing a novel? Cultivating the 2016 version of Adonis at the gym? These should almost always be no-gone zones for interruptions from girls.
Now, there are sensible caveats to this rule. There is a fundamental difference between being dictated to by your desire for girls and common sense flexibility. The best way to quench your thirst is not to indulge it all the time. With time spent on your overall priorities, not your just penis’, your penis paradoxically ends up more satisfied in the long run. You learn self-control, build the rest of your life so you are more attractive to women, and get the pride of investing your time and talents in ways that others cannot because they are so consumed by their lust.
2. Go for 50/50 splits in expenses or better, but don’t make a big deal out of it to her
Return Of Kings holds that a woman’s beauty and fertility are exchanged for a man’s resources, intellect, and achievements. This rule for 2016 does not violate that principle because perception is reality for the women you game. If you are providing things like truly laughter-inducing humor, hot-and-cold personality features (insightful intellectual to cocky asshole in 3.2 seconds at times), and that air of mystery girls associate with intrigue and adventure, the resources, intellect, and achievement elements largely take care of themselves, especially in the short-term. You will have to watch out for rival suitors, but focused application using your existing repertoire should keep you ahead of the pack.
This year is the one for minimizing your girl-related expenses. Or you can increase them, but only in the context of spending more time out with more girls. Obviously, the more time you spend with more girls on holidays, at bars, in hotels, and just enjoying life, the higher your expenses will likely be. What matters here is a proportional reduction for many men, who are so used to buying or half-buying initial female attention to try and escalate interactions.
I fully admit to making women pay at least half of everything, irrespective of how tiny her income is. I do not care if she a student or working full-time. With gifts and other trinkets I have received, the costs are actually weighted on her side. My aim for 2016 is to take this further. It should be yours as well. Consider it as being akin to the situation where a hired gun goes beyond the service her role requires and begins to overly flirt with you and invest in the interaction. Women in real life, not just employees in bars or malls, are a form of hired guns because they expect a material offering from you or the real prospect of it. Make them put in more.
As much as possible, act with the assumption that she will pay her share. Responses that set the boundaries will be something like “Alright, I’ll use my card for getting the hotel, but give me your half when we arrive.” You will get burned far less often than you think. Moreover, you are radiating to girls powerful expectations about how you will be treated. She is ultimately paying to be in your company when you master this rule.
3. Practice better location discretion
Paris is a large city but in 2013 I learned how amazingly small it can be. I was gaming a girl in a large mall. Everything was going smoothly. Then, out of the corner of my eye, a familiar visage and svelte body slipped by. It was, of all people, an ex-girlfriend I had not seen for a period of time. Both girls had attended the same university and lived in the same leafy neighborhood, though a very large one. Even if I knew these commonalities, I assumed Paris, with its bustling permanent population and millions of tourists annually, would be the place where you could reasonably expect to avoid these run-ins. Following a brief exchange of words with the ex, during which time her tone and body language demonstrated to my new girl we had been an item, she continued on her way.
This incident took no skin off my nose, but what would have happened if the stakes were higher and if the ex-girlfriend’s presence could have torpedoed something? For sure, there are times you want social proof, but the number of scenarios where you want discretion are grossly underestimated by men.
In many situations, a temporary lapse in location judgment will cost you greatly with women. A large number of females will protect themselves or withdraw if these unanticipated run-ins with other girls you know occur. I have lost count of the girls who have told me about their need to feel special or said it just as compellingly with indirect words. A reputation as a player is not always the trump card it is made out to be. Alternatively, maybe the girl in question just wants a courtship sealed off from the pressures and eyes of the real world. Fulfilling female preferences of this kind can pay serious dividends. We know that the modern world has made women miserable and fantasies, like a secret weekend in a hotel, very often assuage the monotony and frustration of their lives.
4. Manage your own life and time better
This is related to the first rule, but deserves its own emphasis. So many men ruin their potential in game because of squandered time and talents. We have already explored the tragedy of thirsty men who stop work or change plans at the drop of a hat to pursue a girl they have a 5% chance to sleep with. But there are countless moments in our lives where non-sexual short-term time wasting impinges upon our ability to meet and bed high-quality girls, either later in the week or in the more distant future.
We neglect our work and studies, opting for procrastination that ensures in a week’s time our focus will be on fixing deadline crises, rather than honing our game or lifestyle skills. 2016 is the year for doing today the unattractive, obligatory things you have historically left for the next day… or week… or month and year. Demand more of yourself. Seemingly unconnected activities, like finishing that work report and hooking up at the end of the week with a hottie in the tight dress at the club, do work on one another. What you do in this moment has a drastic impact on what you wish to do later on in time. Be aware. Be smart.
Everything from learning a language to creating a six-pack is capable of enhancing your chances with women. So why are you putting them off? Naturally, these goals are worthwhile for other reasons: promotion opportunities, personal pride, caring for your family, increasing your health and longevity, and living more comfortably. But we can all agree that the massive benefits flow to your interactions with girls, too. So go on, do what you must.
Be happy but ruthless
Your game repertoire is a regularly shifting mix of skills and inventories that you must constantly use and upgrade as your life circumstances demand it. By no means treat these four rules as isolated pieces of advice. Combine them with what works for you, be flexible when you need to be, and remember to always give yourself conscious self-feedback, in addition to tracking the implicit feedback others give you.
Will 2016 be your best year ever? Well, that’s for you to decide.
Happy hunting, guys.
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You know, if you’re fucking girls and they aren’t getting pregnant, then you’re wasting your life. Don’t forget what cocks and wombs are actually for, guys. I don’t fuck with condoms and contraception as a rule. No casual sex, but at least I see my girls’ bellies swell as nature bids.
Sorry to be a sour first post. LOL
this is silly.
And chasing after skirts to fuck for sport and calling it “game” isn’t?! It might be true that I don’t belong on Roosh’s site, considering what he writes books about, but the idea of pursuing casual dating seems quite bankrupt. First, the girls you all get are sluts to the last and thus won’t ever be fit brides. Second, if you’re expending time and resources on that, then you’re wasting the things you need to find a proper girl. It’s a waste of life.
Paper tiger, I didn’t say any of that. I just said that it is silly. It is my fault, I should have been more elaborate. I do not think your view on how to spend your sexuality is silly. In fact, I think it is one of the more noble pursuits. Rather than chasing skirts you are looking to impregnate and, it would seem, care for a woman and then the offspring of that pair bonding. I don’t think that is foolish at all.
However, I also don’t think it is foolish to eat avocados…though I avoid them. Don’t like the taste. Don’t like the texture. When I see someone enjoying an avocado I don’t think they are wrong or silly just like when I see you with your multiple children and pair bonded relationship where monogamy reigns supreme I won’t think you are silly or foolish — despite having no taste for it myself.
What I think is foolish, what I think is silly, is your natural assumption that the way you see the world can be equally applied to all people….as if all people were just like you with the same needs, desires and tastes. That simply isn’t the truth. You and I are very different people I take it. This is no reason I shouldn’t respect you and your decisions. I take no offense in what you are doing other than when you have the assumption that what you are doing is good for all seasons.
I simply don’t enjoy avocados and if forced to eat them I will be unhappy.
If finding a proper girl and having an honest relationship were so easy, this site wouldnt exist. Women have shown their true parasitic nature since feminism took over. So a man has a choice to prey or be preyed upon. Sex is the only thing to get from them now, so its either MGTOW, game, or fish for a unicorn. In choosing to do a combination of the last two.
Fair enough. You’re smarter than the average RoK’s reader, it seems.
First, I said nothing about monogamy. Convincing women to share me isn’t easy, but I’m probably going to land a 2nd wife next year. Polygyny rules.
Now, casual sex…
What would you think if you saw a stallion try to fuck a mare with a plastic bag tangled over its cock? Like, “that’s not gonna work, ya dumb fucken animal!” Why shouldn’t we apply the same judgement to humans?
Another example. A hen lays a clutch of 10 or so eggs, then sits on them to incubate them. Yet if you take her eggs away (to eat), she will still sit on the empty nest for a couple of weeks in an effort to incubate her absentee clutch, and if you take her off the nest she will be genuinely disconcerted and fight to get back on it (which implies she has emotional stimulation compelling her). So, the hen’s nest may be empty, but she still finds satisfaction in pursuing even a failing process.
Of course, the hen is stupid and driven by base instinct, but are humans not? You need to realize humans are instinctive and stupid in an identical factor. We only become smarter than these animals when we take a step backwards, think about what our instincts are trying to achieve (reproduction, in this case), then form a coherent strategy to achieve this goal. Otherwise, you’re the dumb animal with a bag on its cock, fucking a contraceptive-barrened woman who’s no smarter than a hen sitting on an empty nest.
If you enjoy brain-dead instincts, whatever. Yet this isn’t a matter of taste; it’s a matter of intelligence
It’s easy to find fidel women in SE Asia. That’s where I got my wife.
How can you stand spending even a single night with a feminist slut, anyhow?! My head nearly explodes just thinking about it!
Ok, fair enough on monogomy. Though I assume you will want the women to be monogomous. I have no problem with this as long as you have the resources to support it.
The other examples are not really the great. While you are correct about both the horse and the hen, there is a difference. Along with my free will comes a different psychological paradigm than animals have.
I always thought Immanuel Kant got this right. He uses three seperate words when speaking about happiness. Vergnugen he uses as goal driven happiness. I want something. I seek it out. I achieve it. I am happy. This is the type of happiness that is available to humans and animals. But humans are more than just animals…they are capable of gefallen…a very particuylar human happiness that comes from things like being moral, appreicating art and doing things that make sense for humans but not for animals. Finally is Lust…this is the happiness God can feel.
I am sure that neither of us are satisfied with merely animal happiness. I am hungry, I eat. I need to shit, I shit. Things like this are enjoyable, however there is a higher order pleasure for humans as we are ends in ourselves and not merely just means to an ends like animals are. Within the human is more than just discrete existence, but the chance of universalizing the self.
This is why I don’t just jack it and shit myself in the street and it is why animals don’t appreciate museums. The thing is, each of us, through our will and through our psychology, are disposed to different measures of fulfillment. Maybe for me it is to bang women. Maybe I need them to want me to fulfill me in some way. Maybe not? Maybe it is for me to be a great athlete, or an artist, or a poet or to build a beautiful house or to raise a family. The point is, the things that occasion my ability to universalize my being are different than yours…even if the end game, universalization and fulfilment on a purely human level, is the same. Different roads to the same destination.
All I am saying is that for you to say that I am wasting my life because I find my fulfilment in ways you don’t understand shows a fundemental smallness of mind. You do things your way. I can respect it. In fact, I will go one further and say I wish I found pleasure in the things you find pleasure in as I admire them a great deal. I simply do not.
A final note: don’t be so quick to dismiss the intelligence level of people on ROK. After nearly a year of posting here I have seen (both in people I agree with and people I disagree with) a higher level of intelligence than in most other groups this size.
Especially in regards to your last statement, on this site more so than anywhere else, I’ve noticed a high acumen for reason and that well layered arguments are more the rule rather the exception. There have been men who I have learned from here, whom helped expose biases I didn’t know I had. Great addendum on the intelligence level seen here and comment overall.
It’d be naïve to assume there aren’t animals out there with certain emotions or abilities that match or even surpass a human’s. We haven’t really begun to explore that yet. Humans truly only have gifts in speech, which in turn has enabled us to construct complex thoughts. However, this is a relatively recent advancement in evolution, and our thoughts have NOT yet learnt to connect with the underlying instincts that guide us in any way (meaning thoughts don’t yet automatically separate us from other animals in terms of coherency).
In any case, natural selection has dictated that all beings exist for the sole purpose of reproduction. All behavior, drive, so on, at its heart only exists because of the contribution it’s made in our evolutionary history to reproduction. If something doesn’t contribute to reproduction then it’s bred out of existence. So reproduction is the only goal we truly have, and all other drives are only a means to that end. Once you realize this, consciously striving for efficient and maximum reproduction is the only sensible thing to do.
What you’re suggesting – that we should pursue whatever makes us happy – is a petty diversion. Happiness only exists in us because of its contribution to successful reproduction strategy…
It is no more than the truth. Both in internet groups and in person, to find a group of 30-40 people who comment to one another on a daily basis that show this amount of high level reasoning while, at the same time, being able to joke around with one another is a refreshing thing and not nearly as common as it ought to be.
Can you comment on the massive consumerism I see in Asian Americans? AA girls are the most obsessed with shopping and buying shit and going into debt of any demographic. I used to go to regular parties at an Asian friend’s house on Sundays. At some point the girls would all crowd around the Sunday newspaper and go through the glossy sales pamphlets, planning their shopping sprees for the next week. They always lived in newly constructed homes and drove brand new cars. I guess they dressed fashionably–I don’t really notice that stuff though.
Perhaps if you get them young and poor abroad, and control them well, it can work…
The idea that animals have higher order cognitive functions is just absurd. Animals are fully causal beings. When an animal cures polio or writes a sonnet hmu and we can discuss that again.
As for purpose: that was the very point of my comment. Humans aren’t here for a purpose — let a lone a sole one. Self referential thought, psychology and free will have allowed humans to transcend a simple world of means and actually do other things.
The idea that we are here for a purpose defeats any sane notion of a world and the idea that that purpose is, for all of us, maximum reproduction is not just wrong and irresponsible but assinine. If that is the purpose you create for yourself than that is fine, but don’t hitch my cart to the horse. I have my own purpose in this world. I have overcome great obstacles, achieved good things and have goals that have 0 to do with procreation. The day someone will tell me what my purpose in the world is or ought to be is the day pigs fly. My autonomy means, by definition, that I can set rules for myself and by following those rules be greater than the livestock that I slaughter for food.
As I said before, if maximum reproduction is what works for you then by all means…knock out a bunch of kids. The arrogance it takes for you to imagine that all free subjects are somehow bilogically mandated to believe the things you believe and act in the way you act is just crap though.
Further, sometimes goal pursuit isn’t just making us happy. Sometimes it makes us miserable…yet fulfilled. Trust me when I tell you this: you do not have everything right and in no way represent a mold on which all humanity is or ought to be based.
Your comment reminds me of a documentary tv special I watched on Koko the gorilla. Koko learned how to communicate with hand signals and displayed a great deal of reason, emotion, memory, and thoughtfulness. I was quite impressed by her behaviors, and concluded that Koko was indeed more thoughtful and advanced than a substantial portion of the American population. And this was at least a decade ago.
Here she is talking with Robin Williams. I will note that she has more of a sense of humor than the U of New Hampshire college students in the Triump the insult dog video I posted about a week ago.
Complex thought preceded speech. Tool making is a feature even for Chimpanzees, and our early pre-speech hominid ancestors ratcheted that up, along with learning to deal with fire, long before the first one of them broke out in song.
“If you enjoy brain-dead instincts, whatever. Yet this isn’t a matter of taste; it’s a matter of intelligence”
The “brain dead instinct” is to fuck. If you’re smart enough, you can do that without having children. If you’re not, you’ll have a brood.
Intelligence and fertility are strongly inversely related.
Condoms/BC are a “cheat”. We are wired to fuck, children are the natural result of that (which is why the wiring for sex is so strong). In the past 100 years, we figured out how to achieve that goal (sex) without the aftereffects (children).
Now, all that said, this is a nightmare for society. The smart are “opting out” of breeding, leaving the task to the substandard IQ’s in most advanced societies. Encouraging the intelligent to fuck and actually make babies is something that should be part of our social policy.
I remember Koko. Teaching a gorilla to mimic language is no where as impressive as even the absolute dumbest person in the world finding the three stooges funny. When koko can understand irony, beauty and not just words but how to make puns with them give me a call. Until then he is, as many scientists seem to believe, a very impressive feat of a bunch of scientists on what can be done to a non cognitive being through routine and repetition. Now if koko, out of no where, asked to be taught a language and then, on his own initiative, started a variety show and used the proceeds to move back to Africa and open up a school for other gorillas so they can learn English…then, then I would really reconsider.
I’ve brought up polygamy with a few women I’ve been seriously interested in. Mainly because I would totally go for a committed relationship if she wasn’t the last woman I could ever sleep with. I mean there is always cheating, but polygamy seems like the more honest approach. But I haven’t found any women open to it. If you are serious, I’d be interested in details. By the way, I’m mostly interested in foreigners, and you’re not going to be able to bring in a second wife through the wife immigration rules–you are limited to one. I think you could wait 3 years, divorce wife 1, then bring over wife 2…
But in what cultures are you going to find a girl open to polygamy? I think some shitty feminists here would do it (ie the “open marriage” bullshit) but if you are going after quality women, they never seem to even take the idea seriously.
By the way, willingly talking to Robin Williams is not a sign of intelligence. It never has been.
I like a good 4 handed massage.
I didn’t say animals have equivalent cognitive functions, did I? I was talking about other things. To assume we’re the highest evolved creature in all things great is just that – an assumption. What I was trying to say is we’re no smarter than animals in managing our instincts. The hen on an empty nest and the human fucking with contraceptives are the same things – animals following basic instinctive drives that exist to cause us to reproduce without having to think about and understand what we’re doing.
So, humans HAVE the ability to think, but this ability is still disconnected from our instinctive drives and we’re no smarter than animals in that department.
You’re also failing to understand basic governing principles of life. Yes, reproduction is our sole purpose, because no other purpose has a means of evolving and surviving through generations. The things you do, or aspire to, are all byproducts of your reproduction strategy, and any aspect of you that doesn’t contribute to reproduction won’t be passed on to your children – it gets bred out by default, which is suggestive of how little of your behavior could possibly be unrelated to reproduction (basically 0).
This is the basic scientific reality of life and evolution. We are reproduction machines, nothing more. To deny this is to deny evolution theory
I’m not arguing the point that animals are smarter than humans of course. But I’ve met some really really primitive humans. If you consider how illogical and primitive some of the most developed humans in the first world can be, and consider how primitive and angry the most thuggish deadbeats can be, I honestly feel a Koko can give them a run for their money. Certainly I could relate better to a “koko” than some hate filled illiterate gangster who is seemingly devoid of human emotions.
Hell, I dated a girl who went to graduate school at Duke, and she was one of the dumbest, flakiest, shallowest people I’ve met–would forget conversations we had the next day, etc. If you consider people like her are at the upper end of the curve, and you look way down on the opposite end of the bell curve, you will find some really primitive stuff. I think nowhere else but in humans do you find such a range along the bell curve.
I don’t know how often you get out of NYC, and I’m not attacking country dwellers per se, but there are some true dumbasses out there, people who don’t have to interact with others and have zero job skills. Hell, there is a county in my state where like 25% of the population is on federal disability. They shit themselves in diapers and watch daytime TV and receive EBT funds into their accounts and are totally worthless.
Plus if Koko can tell me a joke, she’s miles ahead of those New Hampshire kids in my book…
The fact that we can say no to our instincts is the defining characteristic of our humanity.
Also, I think the assumption that I have control over my urges and will more so than a chimp is a fair one.
I don’t need for something to be passed on to my children for it to have meaning. I don’t need children. Operating on a basis of pure reproductive necessity makes you no different than a dog or a monkey.
It is surprising to me because you seem smarter than that. The idea of reproducing is abhorrent to me. I never want a child. I find it repulsive. Maybe it is your sole purpose…but it isn’t mine. I would thank you to speak for yourself and not for humanity as a whole…at least so long as I still count as part of humanity.
Research what it’s like being born Deaf. You’ll find your answers there.
I’m telling you right up front that it’s a pretty well pegged place on the timeline where we gained speech, and it does not pre-date complex tools nor fire. You have the cart before the horse.
Again, say it with me, even Chimps make tools and they can’t talk.
I totally agree in the primitive nature of many human beings. Here is the difference though. The flaky chick from duke or the illiterate gangster are still capable of universalizing themselves, feeling fulfilled, understanding their world in a way that the chimp just can’t. I am not saying they all can to the same degree of course…but it is something that is totally impossible to an animal without agency. It is never about smart or dumb here. It is about our ability to transcend our particular humanity and be a part of something larger than our simple biological drives like eating and shitting and fucking.
As far as getting out of NYC I must admit it isn’t much. I am not even fully sure anything outside of manhattan exists. On my map of the world everything has been simplified. There is Manhattan. Then there is Mexico (that’s everyplace that isn’t Spain that speaks Spanish). Then there is France (every place that speaks a Romance Language). Then there is China….which is all asian countries including the subcontinent. Then there is “Vacation Land” which is just south of florida. Everything Else is “Game of Thrones” I just don’t have time or patience for peoples local flair or soccer teams.
Go FLDS.
My first wife is Thai and poor. My second I’ll find in India, I hope. Also poor.
Basic plan – poor girls may be open to it for the chance of a better life. Now, I’m also 186cm tall, lean, handsome, only 29 years old, and I treat women well, so yes they’ll genuinely fall in love with me, too – they just have to learn to share.
The plan I have is only vague, but basically I’m thinking… bring the Indian girl to my home country New Zealand and get her pregnant there, then have me registered as the child’s father. The child will be a NZ citizen, so she may then apply for full time NZ residency under the category of being a parent of a NZ child. Residency leads to citizenship.
I’ll work it out something like that. I don’t know the adultery laws yet, but if my wife isn’t filing complaints then I doubt they’re serious. In any case, I learn them and work around them. It just takes intelligence, patience, and money for flying girls round the fucking world over and again!
Read Neil Strauss’ The Truth. He opts for that angle and some how closes in on demonstrating why that isn’t a feasible option. It is far easier lying to women and fucking women on the side. In a way, it speaks to their own language as you are truthful anyway in your actions. The other way, they treat like you asking for permission and only say okay to appease you and hope you stay.
Wanting to avoid pregnancy is a part of your reproduction strategy. You favor low investment per mating opportunity to maximize your overall amount of mating opportunities. This is normal low investment reproduction strategy.
Pregnancy would mean expending resources to help raise the child, so you want to avoidavoid that and now use condoms… only because your instincts haven’t savvied up to the fact that condoms stop you from reproducing. Don’t worry, they will catch up – men like you no longer reproduce thanks to contraceptives, so natural selection will select against the traits that lead to using contraceptives and exclude them from future genes. I.e. men like you won’t exist in the future.
You cannot escape the fact that we’re reproduction machines…
I don’t know the first thing about “AAs”. I’m not American. Girls born poor, as you suspect, are different, however. My wife doesn’t spend much. If you’re finding girls working in places like 7 Eleven and minimum wage jobs in Asia, then you’ve got nothing to worry about.
So why don’t your start your own website where you post pics of your 18 kids?
Bashing a rock to open a walnut isn’t “complex thought” as you said. Complex thought is nearly impossible without complex language, as you will learn if you research how Deafs learn to manually construct thoughts without the use of phonetic tools.
Unfortunately asian american females who get educated in the american high school system come to imitate the worst behaviors of white america females. If you’re chasing asian american females, then ideally you want to find the ones raised in asia who came to america as adults.
I have 2 kids, and I’m signed in to this conversation with my fucking Facebook profile, you douche
So you’ve been laid twice. Nobody cares but you.
Yes, whatever, but do you now understand that you only think/desire all those things because they’re part of your reproduction strategy? (Even if said strategy is a dismal failure that a single celled organism could do a better job at)
Show tunes?
What kind of retard are you?! I’m married – I get laid whenever I want. 5 times per day, if need be.
And people do care. One guy seems quite interested in my ideas on achieving polygyny, whilst another just put up a good conversation. It’s just you who’s struggling with your emotions…
Gotcha.. in the USA it’s very very difficult to even get the girl over prior to marrying her so I don’t think that would work as well. You can invite her on a fiancé visa, but they are supposed to either leave or get hitched within 3 months so she’s not going to be there long enough to have a kid, unless she breaks immigration law and Obama is currently deporting more people who break immigration law than any other prez in history, and I think if you break the law that screws up your chances of naturalizing legally.
You could get them knocked up abroad, then the kid would be American citizen since I am the father, and then the kid could apply for residency, followed by the mother, but it takes like 3+ years. All in all, a reasonable way I suppose. The alternative for me would be to take a single foreign bride, bring her to the US, and then occasionally still travel and meet foreign girls for flings. If she was ok with me doing that (I understand many women from certain cultures accept a guy taking mistresses) then I could probably be happy enough, but as you say it still takes time and money haha. But I love travel so that’s really a bonus. Is polygamy a crime in NZ? It technically is in the US, although it definitely exists in many places, and would be very difficult to prosecute someone for. But you can’t openly discuss it.
What do you mean “as you are truthful anyway in your actions”?
I deny your premise. I see I can’t convince you otherwise and I know you won’t make me think you are right. I wish you the best.
Agreed. When browsing online profiles, the most degenerate (ie the polyamorous, genderfluid, tatted up, pierced sluts) are the American Asians.
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This is a difficult truth for you to internalize, but nobody cares but you about your lumpy potato wife and bastard kids.
It’s up to the individual to determine for himself what is important in life, not some neurotic like you
No I didn’t say that. They aren’t any worse than white american females, they are just as bad though. If they come to america for college or work opportunity as adults, then you have better chances. The stronger the foreign accent the better. If you’re in a big american city and using online dating, search by foreign language. In your opening messages ask them how they know korean (for example) and how long they’ve been in LA (or wherever). If they shoot back with a hostile message like what are you a racist? Then delete immediately. Koreans who came to america as adults will have absolutely no problem with that kind of question. They will like it. They are proud of it.
I’m not determining anything, just quoting science. You’re shooting the messenger
My last reply has mysteriously disappear… telling…
Basically, you just need money to make the thing work, and poor brides are keener to share a husband, and no polygyny isn’t legal in NZ but I’m not talking about legally being “married” – only being married in the traditional sense of a solid relationship
Science cannot define personal meaning in life
Science can define person and why they believe what they believe
Science is descriptive. It cannot of itself provide personal meaning, which is subjective to the individual
See, now you’re saying the only limitation is personal choice. It’s like gender studies nuts who say your sex is self-decided (i.e. you can choose whether you’re male or female or third option, regardless of what’s down your pants). No. Just saying the purpose of life is “football” or whatever doesn’t make it true, just like calling yourself a girl won’t make your cock go away. Those are just petty little preferences divorced from physical reality.
Our biology is a real thing, physical, and definable. Evolution has designed life for a single purpose – to reproduce.
Now, you can choose to devote your life to football instead and be satisfied with that, but it isn’t what you were made to do and natural selection won’t be forgiving – your traits will be bred out of existence in favor of more efficient traits.
This is just scientific reality. Get over it.
One’s biological urges will usually compel them to fuck, it is true. However, that is an entirely different category than human consciousness, which has evolved to allow the assignation of subjective meaning by the individual. Furthermore, the evolution of consciousness also allows the individual to assign subjective meaning to his reproductive urges as fetishes clearly demonstrate
Any animal with a big enough brain has consciousness. There’s nothing uniquely human about it.
Anyhow, now you’re just trying to reinforce your “the purpose of life is whatever I choose” idea. You seem to lack the basic understanding of how evolution works, which dictates that you’ll only “choose” a purpose of life that’s related to your reproduction strategy (although it may not necessarily equate to reproduction for you as it did your ancestors, in which case that “choice” will be stricken from future generations).
If you truly believe choice is the ultimate arbiter if what is true, then go join a gender studies group. You’ve got no place in scientific debate
We’re talking about the evolution of human consciousness which includes a self awareness that can and does impart meaning and value beyond the standard biological parameters. As illustrated by the fact that animals do not have sexual fetishes but humans do.
Please try to stay on topic
“You cannot escape the fact that we’re reproduction machines…”
Personally, yes, you can escape it. As a society, no, we cannot.
“Don’t worry, they will catch up – men like you no longer reproduce thanks to contraceptives, so natural selection will select against the traits that lead to using contraceptives and exclude them from future genes. I.e. men like you won’t exist in the future.”
Also true. And terrifying. Because contraceptive use and intelligence are highly coupled. A majority of children born today are born to those with low IQ; they don’t understand how to use contraceptives, and, as such, they become pregnant.
WE as men and society have allowed, nurtured and coddled that out of them by allowing them and ourselves to continue to be assaulted by the oppressive brainwashing campaigns that are ever going on in our schools and media.
You may think your solution is a solution when in fact it only serves to exacerbate the problem. Women are not the enemy. They are just as much a victim as men are, if not more.
I hope you take care of your offspring. Expecting “the village” to take care of them is bullshit!
I said I don’t do casual sex. Yes, I take care of my wife’s children, duh.
All bluff, no substance.
What the fuck are you talking about?!
It would be nice to get a girl pregnant, but the majority of English-speaking females are all feminist sluts. I’m 19 years old as of this post, but have no plans to start a family until my 30s or 40s.
So father yourself in poverty then. Your choice. Nobody is stopping you.
I mean to father myself into retirement, actually…
You don’t have enough wives and you don’t have enough kids. You’re falling behind the puppy mill.
Well, I’m glad we can agree on something… but I’m only 29, and I’ve only been consciously devoted to reproduction for about 1 year thus far. Now that I understand what I’m doing, things will move much faster. Ultimately, I’m aiming for 5 wives and 50 kids before I die, and I already know where I’ll find each of those wives. Fuck, but, I know I’m so rational that I’ve become incomprehensible to everybody else…
So why is it a greater accomplishment to not use birth control?
Because you’re failing at the only task you were designed to perform…
No man has the means to father 50 children. Good luck being the property of 50 mouths.
Get a vasectomy before your neighborhood is over-run with feral children.
You’re placing your Western perception of “family” on it. My children will be taught differently and contribute themselves to the family. I won’t be stuck paying for everything once the eldest begin work
Getting laid is so 2015!
And when you do get laid you’re like “that was it?”. Its not worth the hustle.
its true. my new years resolution for 2016 was to get laid less than last year lol i wasted my entire 2015 focused on mastering game and getting pussy. and all it did was make me temporarily feel good about how great of a person i am. so superficial
Good for you.
“Getting laid”?!? … hey, “fo-getta-badit”!
Seriously, at the end of the day, it’s the most trivial, superficial, unfulfilling, and downright useless “thrill”, second only perhaps to donning a full scuba suit with the mask after consuming a few burritos, letting go a few “silent but violent ones” and enjoying the smell of one’s own fart.
It’s not a stretch to say that the whole “getting laid” schtick is a fraud to veer young men, nay, all men, away from the paths that truly matter: that of study, and as importantly, the mastering of “martial” arts (in a broader sense of firearms handling, self-defence, hand-to-hand combat, deeper “theoretical” understanding of constructing defensive barriers and evasion tactics, mastering offensive maneuvers such as ambush, advanced rappelling, as well as timed and precision storming of a target … just to name a few skill sets).
Being proficient with these skill sets not only serve a practical purpose, but are of immense and immeasurable character-building value for men, far beyond what any maiden can offer in terms of “getting laid.” I wouldn’t trade, not in a million years, emptying a few mags of a suppressor mounted HK Mk23 at targets for the entire Dallas Cowboys cheerleading squad, or all the models in a Victoria Secret catalogue … if those damsels even ever bothered with me.
I have to disagree. I get your point but sex with beautiful women is not trivial or unfulfilling. I will admit that in a perfect society with mentally healthy human beings, love and relationships would far exceed sexual flings in value and reward but that is not where we are today. I game and bed women while still having 90% of my time to myself to improve and educate myself.
Furthermore, a man wanting to improve his ability to understand and control women is learning a valuable skill that is almost priceless in today’s society. Women have seized power in the workplace, classroom, home, military, etc. Knowing how women think and behave, and knowing what words and actions to use to combat their erratic behavior can save men from an enormous amount of pointless drama. It could even save his life.
You make excellent points, no doubt. I didn’t have a “binary” or all-or-none approach in mind, even though it came out that way. What I mean is that I do **not** assert that one should do away, completely and entirely, with “the game” and the chase, and instead focus on x, y, and z. Rather, to weigh and assess how important such an endeavour is in relation to other character building undertakings, and then proceed to make the choice on how much time and energy should one spend vis-a-vis developing one’s “skill sets” toward women.
The sad fact of the Universe and Life is this: it’s a “zero-sum” game of sorts, in the sense that given the finite quality of what we call “Time”, the more one spends on one endeavour, the less time for another. Unless one pays for the service, “getting laid” is indeed a time consuming toil, full of drama and spectacle … so the question each individual needs to ask himself is: “is time spent on this, i.e. this game, worth the time taken away from x, y, and z …”
It’s not a stretch to say that the whole “getting laid” schtick is a fraud
Pray tell, how does humanity manage to defraud deer, wolves, gophers, pronghorn, lions, tigers, bears (oh my!) and every other sexual organism on the planet? Seems to me that when they can (estrus driven or full time), they try to have sex, provision for having sex or are taking care of the results of their having sex.
Sex is a thrill precisely because it is a hard embedded biological imperative.
Your point about there being other important points in life is well taken, and I agree that if your ONLY goal is sex, then you probably have an issue or two. Though I will note that a full auto suppressor stint at the range, well, that’s a great time I’ve done it myself, but that doesn’t mean it’s worth more to me than an entire team of 20 something cheerleaders, heh. I can hit the range anytime, the opportunity to fuck 20 high end broads at once doesn’t come around very often in life, or even history.
“pronghorn, lions, tigers, bears (oh my!) ” Gary Busey in predator 2 ?
No, but it sure sounds like something he’d say. That dude cracks me up, he is genuinely looney toons and it’s fun to watch.
Okay, point well taken.
Let’s agree, as gentlemen, on the following: it’s a matter of priority, and a possible solution to the conundrum is to creatively devise a “scale system” of sorts to weigh each endeavour, or “path” if you will, and assign a relative score or points, to each, based on the (positive) impact on one’s character and the development of Virtue. This would not be a frivolous intellectual exercise, and one can thoughtfully design and formulate such a system, in a frank and honest manner.
For example, being well-read and informed can be given a “score” of 30points out of a 100point scale; health and fitness would equally be assigned higher points; the same would go for discipline, etc. Now the question is what “relative score” should one assign to “chasing broads” or trying to get laid? As you mention, and I agree, it’s a biological imperative, no doubt, but the question is how much of a “weighted score” should one assign this ‘imperative’, on the scale of “character development and virtue”? In other words, how fundamental is it in inculcating Virtue, and how crucial is it for character development? I don’t pretend to know the answer, but from a personal (and subjective) standpoint, I would rank it much lower regardless of the calibre of the broads being chased.
I have achieved much when focused, with a great woman to support me. When I lost that woman, and replaced her with many other women (of nowhere near her value – not that I realised it at the time), I almost lost it all.
Never have I been so distracted, so dysfunctional, so unproductive, as when women and their incessant demands for my attention and resources, were in my life.
Gentlemen… focus on building Rome. The women will automatically follow.
So join the army and don’t get laid. Why are you trolling ROK?
You’re a faggot
I probably don’t get laid as much now because after working jobs as a doorman/security guard I refuse to pay for what a woman gives up for free during certain situations. Granted I removed myself from those situations because the club scene puts all kind of wear and tear on you mind body and soul and once you’ve been in that type of scene long enough you notice the “beautiful” women look alot different once the lights come on and the drugs wear off .
This made me think of an old friend I had named Joe. Joe was 57 years old. A talented musician, a teacher who invested in a house at an early age so finacially successful and, in general, a good egg. He was, unfortunatley, a bit of a drunk but we all have our vices. Anyway, one day Joe didn’t show up when I was supposed to meet him. No call, no text. Just totally didn’t show up. When I saw him and asked him about it he told me he had met a girl. I gave him a bit of shit…you know, standard bros before hoes shit. Anyway, Joe looks at me and says “lolknee, i am 57 years old. One day I am going to get my last blowjob.” It was the saddest thought I ever contemplated.
Did you ever find out where he was going with that gun in his hand?
to shoot his old lady. You see, he caught her messin’ round with another man…….and that ain’t too good.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xAWtuxhdUDE
Redhouse is one of the great tunes.
I wonder how many Sweedish Mulattos came just from the night of this concert.
Question. Do you rate the sig sauer p226?
For any ladies lurking around, the lesson here is to give every blowjob as if it could be the last time he’ll ever receive a BJ.
Yeah that’s become my new filtering message for online game. Swallow or facial? I was surprised 1) they would actually answer 2) the answer was usually swallow. Then I have to try talk them into facial. What if we go out twice a week, then it could be both. lol
You like facials?
Why don’t you go and suck off a donkey you miserable quisling cunt. Honey badger….MRA bitch.
The uglier and or older the woman is the more it is in her best interests to be as expert as possible at sucking cock.
It’s a scientific fact.
My gf has toldme a few times that I fuck her like its the last day. Shes passed out twice on me..so maybe her prediction will come true.
I will say I do enjoy I good bj. The chick can be ugly , fat , or whatever but it can still be good.
I can’t deny that being fellated is a good feeling…but when you look at a pretty face you are peniley defiling it just makes it extra special
2 5s make a 10
Only if you lay them in pairs
I’d rather bang one 10, then have threesome with two 5s.
hahaha, no way my friend…not does one 250 pound woman equal a three way.
Thereby trumping the two 5s completely. Couldn’t agree with you more. Especially with smart, hot women with accents.
EDIT: The real code breaker is doing this in the same week.
Weight is another thing , looks can be fixed with the flick of a switch
Had a guy at work one day admit to me that he would only fuck ugly chicks. I knew he was telling the truth because his wife looked like the daughter of Spock and Predator. He was a weird dude.
I have known a few guys who intentionally sought out ugly chicks and one guy who sought out fatties…the bigger the better.
ewww
the big breaker is getting a blonde, brunette, black haired and redhead in the same weekend. Batting the cycle I like to call it.
That is gold! Thus far, had shots at sisters, twins and not. Had Columbians together. But never the red, brunette, blonde, black haired confectionery. One situation that would essentially end any hunting aspirations I’d have going forward would be a U.N. styled gang with one woman from every side of the race I’d want to bang at once. Probably at max 7 women in the room in total. Even that number would make me lose track of them all. Guess a power five would suffice. Top five choices: Swedish, Caribbean Indian, Brazilian, Spaniard, Ethiopian.
Anything more than threesome is waste of poosy.
UN gangbang sounds amazing. I have always wanted to have a series of warring nations three ways. An Iranian and an Israeli. A Irish and an English Girl. A greek and a turk. A puerto Rican and a dominican. A white and a black south african. A southern bell and a ghetto sista. etc etc etc
Right?! Something about that conflict getting resolved in the bedroom is the stuff of my dreams. Just recently tried and failed with a hijab wearer but knowing I got the blush and leg squirm gives me hope that such a dream is possible. Iranian and Israeli is a great option. French to Russian. Spaniard to Dominican to Mexican. The possibilities are endless! That was the secret reason I even dabbled in game, to start a conquerer’s tale of the cultures of the world through all of their women’s legs.
One would think, but something about the extra action in your honor keeps the virility going. Mind you, this is not for the one and done crowd.
I’ve always wanted a hijab wearer. Mix that with a frum orthodox jewish girl and that would be the stuff of legend. But yeah, all those. Brazilian and Portuguese. Chechnian and Muscovite. Japanese and Chinese. French and Algerian. If I had saudi oil tycoon money i would get a private jet, fly around the world and make this my goal in life.
Some years ago I had an online dating account for about 6 months. It was so easy that I was getting bored. I was laying 3 girls a week easily with very little output. I was keeping stats and info and was going to write a long form blog entry called “100 matches” but someone pointed out it was a little bit Dexter-ish. The stories from that time are fucking priceless though.
You and me both, but I genuinely felt they were off limits. Especially the hijab wearers. Not sure yet if I need to add an extra “may convert for the right pussy” line but the plan is to experience one once. I’ll look up the Algerians and Muscovite women. My pinnacle is still Persian and not even sure why that is.
On the site, man that sounds intense! Messing with Tinder and as I describe myself poorly and use old pictures got no action worth mentioning from there. What site was this and which side of the race were your most frequent lays?
If I didn’t have this family oriented side, I would love to both have a strong family and a UN harem with Hijab, Brazilian, Caribbean black, Caribbean Indian, Spaniard, Swedish, and Puerto Rican as my front runners. With those as my staple they can bring in alternates on their own accord. A Japanese women here. A Russian woman there. Just to shake things up.
Your dream harem sounds like it is right out of a bond villains lair. I approve.
I once joked with a girl that wears a Hijab that I would totally convert to Muslim, but I would just be a terrible Muslim. I would eat pork and drink and never pray. I mean, there are Christians and Jews and, I assume, Muslims that don’t follow any of the rules. I will just be a really bad Muslim. I got her to laugh, but didn’t get to pilgrimage to mecca and she def didn’t worship my pillar.
It just ain’t right.
Then there’s the guy that thinks every crack whore wearing a short skirt and a low cut shirt is a perfect ten.
Haha!! I haven’t worked to establish that harem but I imagine if I had a lot more disposable income that would be something I would have tried once. For the hijab lady, it was all unfailing honesty. You are cute. So do you date non Muslims? Poor closer to be sure but I wasn’t even sure if I was wasting my time or not. Her smile, seeing lipstick running on teeth, legs shake, and thorough blushing on her part, all pointed to one direction; I made the right call. No phone number but didn’t expect 100% success by any means.
I’ve heard of that. Its called wart hogging. It might be part of frat culture, like an initiation test.
I have heard of it as a joke. During one bachelor party I once went to there was an all you could eat oyster thing and we all gorged ourselves on oysters….first man out had to make out with the fattest girl in the bar that night. That much I get. I totally understand it as a joke or for fun. But there are guys out there who, for one reason or another, in earnest want to put their dicks in these animals.
I can’t argue there. I have seen this abysmal behavior as well. Totally unacceptable.
Indonesia is world’s most populous muslim country. They don’t wear hijab but they are horny as hell for western men. Vacation sex is like casting your fishing pole in a swimming pool stocked with trout. You’ll get to understand what’s its like to be a rock star. You can get too much attention. You’ll need a wing man to get them out of your hotel room the morning after.
I must research this a little. I have never even contemplated going to Indonesia.
“If I didn’t have this family oriented side, I would love to both have a strong family and a UN harem” Plural marriage is a thing, you know.
Polygamy? It would be the best option but just one marriage is trouble in America. Of all possibilities I would gladly support a bunch of children with preferably one woman and dually have a harem who would be interchangeable depending on their ability to be loyal to me solely. In the USA the laws are very against that here. If you know success stories do share.
One ten, satisfies the need like no other. When all my mates are falling over themselves for a 5, I’m more interested in making the aquantance of the bar owner, or cool dude on the door that appreciates someone taking interest in his profession.
Naturally, I cop a lot of stick. And then, three months later when I roll in with the 10 on my arm…
Or a paper bag.
Clearly her brain cells vastly outnumbered yours babe x
Man, was this classic! Palestinian chicken!
A white and black South African? Is she a fucking dalmatian?
Having them both in one person would cut the number of people I would have to ask to leave by half
A guy I went to high school with was nicknamed “Gunner” he developed a practice he called the “GUE theory, (Go Ugly Early). Hitting on ugly women early and banging them before midnight. He scored on a lot of ugly chicks and he was not a good looking dude!
I’ve known some pretty alpha guys who would fuck anything with a vag. They could pull hotties, but would settle for doggies when they had to.
It can be good practice for pickup, as long as you raise your standards later.
Then you get them to fight, and have the best make up sex ever.
“”lolknee, i am 57 years old. One day I am going to get my last blowjob.” It was the saddest thought I ever contemplated”
I hear ya. I once worked in construction and the foreman who hired me didnt show up for days. And this guy was around the same age as your friend, 50’s-ish. I started getting concerned that something might have happened to him. So I called him on the phone and he was a bit tipsy from beer, he told me he was geting laid for a few days. He said “I met someone, she’s 60 years old and beautiful!”, nearly threw up right there on the phone. Dunno… but there has to be something seriously wrong with any man at any age who thinks a 60 year old female is hot. He’d be better off sticking his cock in a fermenting dung heap.
When I read the 60 years old part I nearly got sick.
Its usually easier from what Ive heard, women outlive men, so the sex ratio gets skewed. I had a grandfather who lived to be over a hundred and he was dating a woman 20 years younger.
Ancient warriors were buried with their weapons and armour so that they could protect themselves in the afterlife.
I will be buried with blowjobs.
The Terra-Cock-A Slurpers?
Meh, game makes age disappear. Hugh Hefner will probably die with his dick deep in a models throat. I thought after 25 it was kind of impossible to get women when I was younger. I couldnt have been more wrong. Rage against the dying of the light.
Yeah I hate that. Men and less attractive women wait in line and pay $20. More attractive women advance to front and get in for free, they are getting pedestalized even before they get in the club.
Actually, it is quite egalitarian. Rich men and attractive women do not wait in line or pay a door charge often. It is men who are shorter on resources and women shorter on looks that stand in line and pay for the privilege of entering.
So if a wealthy man overpays $100 for a table or bottle service to avoid the line, that’s putting the attractive female who gets in for free on an even higher pedestal.
I suppose that depends on how you look at it. The club owners want a wealthy guy with a history of spending a lot of money in the club so they will let him skip the line and to be nice let him get in the door for free. That is just smart business.
If women are going to be judged largely on their looks (and they will) then it is not unreasonable to say a man should be judged on his resources. Remember, for a woman her youth, beauty and fertility is what she is bringing to the table. For a man it is his resources, charm and character.
For a man with vastly superior resources and a woman with vastly superior looks to get treated preferentially in a place geared towards making money by putting young men and women together who are interested in meeting one another (elsewise they will stop coming) it just makes sense.
If you owned a club how quick would you be to say “hey, all you fat pigs and broke guys…you get in first…and all the guys with plenty of disposable money and all the smoking hot women…line up and we will get to you when we have a chance”
as a side note…the second the bouncers start letting in pigs because “womyn” that is when this becomes unfair…but that is ok because that will never happen…they would sink quicker to their knees than a 22 year old girl who has been asked to sit next to you while you order champagne.
The club business is profit driven. Its there to make money. I get that. So big spenders get catered to. If they feel surrounded by unattractive females they won’t stay as long and spend less. Its totally rational. I’m not arguing that. What I’m saying is that an unintended consequence is that attractive women get pedestalized before any interaction has occurred, and they have this built-in expectation that all they have to do is show up and be entertained.
But the thing is, they don’t actual get put on the pedestal by the high rollers the club is catering too. Those are the guys laughing as they circle jerk on these girls face, piss or shit on them, humiliate them in all ways they can possibly think of and then move on to the next tramp (take a look at http://www.tagthesponsor.com if you haven’t before). They wind up putting the glamour shots from the night when they are having the pussy blown out by a dozen guys who don’t get her name and go through all manner of perversion (check out the slutwhisperer) and then put those pictures on social media and are pedastalized by simps.
The trick is to remember one thing about the girls on the pedestal: no matter how ineffable they think they are, they are all just looking for a good effing
I’m totally aware that the hotter the woman the more degrading shit she’s done with more men.
Rich men?? Usually just someone who is ready to pay 200$ for a table. And usually some loser trying to compensate.
Fair enough. People with enough cash or credit to spend a lot of money and not enough sense not to
Can confirm that being a regular that spends in clubs, means no queuing and “vip” tables are never “fully booked”. You know you’re getting rinsed really, but it’s the simply the cost of doing business, as they say in corporate circles.
To get in early, with all the attractive girls first, has value. And like anything that has value, it generally costs money.
Kratom makes ugly chicks look like 10s.
Nah, you don’t get laid because you’re an asshole 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Rather be one that eat one jeffy
I’m not the Jeffy who eats ass darling. My username was inspired by the other Jeffy on this site who eats ass. xxx
So your life is so boring you create multiple fake accounts just to troll this site ? Nice , I’m sure you’ll vote for Bernie Sanders too.
Nah, my life is pretty great, made even greater by occasionally annoying you idiots.
And that’s the best you’ve got? If you accused me of voting for Trump, I would definitely be insulted darling xxx
I’m sure it’s great , that’s why you’re on here trolling ….
faild trolling lol
i suggest, mr monco, you explore day game……..there is an abundance of girls, the stress is low, and the rewards for minimal effort and cost are astronomical…….there is no male competition…..you can take her to your favorite dive bar later
After seeing what the early portions of 2016 have brought, a lot of what you’ve posted seems more applicable. It is as if women are completely done with stating they’re looking for relationships, but ramping down their efforts to net an alpha. It is now more important than ever to finally move beyond game to genuine article, to have game become an intrinsic aspect of who you are and not the clown suit donned at a night club. Women are getting scared that guys like me and you will leave the farm for greener pastures. Not our Eastern counterparts but our Western women are really starting to batten down the hatches in efforts to net an alpha. If you don’t believe me you try to get a new Western fuck buddy and keep them for a month or two. Using the label fuck boy on Facebook was merely an external claim on an internal reaction of using an old trope of shaming language to hide their insecurity and shame from not dually getting as much dick as possible plus the reliable cash cow who doesn’t know his relationship “one” is more likely everyone’s “only” girl. Be ruthless gents. Increase your value. Then move on to more valuable options.
Well put my friend
I don’t think women are “getting scared” that the good guys are leaving. In my experience, women have zero capability for regret or remorse, even when they should. Whereas men probably tend to worry and fret about past mistakes too much. Women are chameleons, and will quickly adapt to whatever environment they are in. They might not like it when they hear that Tom, the cute guy they saw at a concert last weekend, is getting hitched to a thin latina hardbody, but they have plenty of other options left from to provide them resources. Indeed, I would say the environment for women has never been better, so there is nothing they should be worried about. Thirst is at maximum desert parchment levels and they have a tiny bit of Brawndo that men will gladly accept in leiu of water.
“Thirst is at maximum desert parchment levels and they have a tiny bit of Brawndo that men will gladly accept in leiu of water.”
Reminds me of the scene in the Quantum of Solace where Bond drops off the villain in the middle of the desert and gives him a can of WD-40 to drink.
I agree with you on a woman’s ability to actually have remorse. They seem very egocentric. The thing is this, with the higher body count becoming more of a reality, the instinct to regret the sexual affairs comes sooner and sooner. This is another thing for you to ponder, and is more to the heart of what I am saying. Just as there is a red pill we often speak on here, women are swallowing the red pill, and yes, choking on it.
Through feminism, women are realizing their are mostly unwanted whores and this is depressing them. They are also realizing, their own instincts force them to opt in through a form of solipsism and they can’t help being destruction oriented and this scares them too. This is why women actually frequent this site. A few of them genuinely want off the wagon of their own destruction or are fighting instinct as best as possible as they are seeing the ruins build on them first hand.
In a random example, in what was a genuine conversation with a hot woman from Spain, she revealed common aspects which have grated her. Amongst them were the fuck boy, being accused of being a green card grubbing foreigner, and an inability to come across a ‘real man’.
Once upon a time, ‘real man’ was the shaming language of black women in American predisposed to believing black American men will only fuck and leave them pregnant. Now every other woman who is available and is pressed to have a date where talking is involved has a high potential of using this language. By no means is this an all or none affair, but when you see every other booty call try to give the sad eyes and poor me face when you opt out of a relationship, it makes you question what is going on.
I truly believe the few guys who are getting laid through game, are running into far more insecure women who are giving it up. The problem isn’t the sex but the insecure motivation from where it is coming from. It is also easier to run across more than a few women looking to fuck through their problems.
I’m not advocating being a therapist for these bitches. We all know if given the chance ol brown eyes will fuck you over too if you were as soft as beta man 3000 liking every post on Facebook, but we aren’t that, so need to go there. What I am suggesting is the need to move on to whole women as the Western woman is mentally going. End of the day, it isn’t that there isn’t enough water available, it is just women are running through it so briskly they are choking.
Much truth being spoken by RHA and spicy here. Girls seem more resigned to being unhappy, feminism has lied to them; it’s reduced them to a commodity – they know this deep down. Sadly, I don’t think it’s likely in my early middle age, that I’ll find a good one now to (maybe) marry and procreate with… even though I’d consider myself a reasonably high-value male. The juice has to be worth the squeeze (from The Girl Next Door)… but it simply isn’t.
What a sad, sad state of affairs.
I’ve noticed the last few months that women are saying “no fuck boys” on their social media accounts. Its part of their bitch shield. Women who say that are openly admitting that they fuck randos, but they they think they are saving face with their girlfriends by putting the shame on men. Its a joke. Ignore and proceed as usual.
Be careful with #2 if you’re looking for something more than casual sex. If I was going with a guy who routinely asked me to pay my half, the last thing I would assume is that he was a traditional man looking for a patriarchal marriage. Most likely I would assume 1. He’s a feminist 2. These aren’t actually dates we’re going on, i.e. he is friend-zoning me and/or 3. He is poor and/or cheap i.e. I would expect he would want/need his future wife to work, not be a SAHM. I don’t think “I’m an impoverished male feminist who just wants to be friends” is the message you want to send. Of course, other aspects of your interaction can send different messages.
On the flip side, if a guy OCCASIONALLY had me pay my own way, I might feel good that he respects my independence and (especially in the beginning) it takes a bit of the sexual pressure off of me of feeling like I owe him something physical because he paid for my meal or whatever (though that second point may be something you game guys DON’T want). But after the fourth or fifth time I’d start wondering and would most likely stop thinking of the guy as anything but a friend, unless he was very cute (but if he was that cute I would probably have been the one asking him out and paying for stuff anyway). Tip: If a girl spontaneously offers to pay not only her share but yours too, she’s either paranoid about being date raped because you feel she “owes you” OR she really, really, really, REALLY likes you.
A rather wide net you cast there. It’s either she’s scared shitless of you, or she’s head over heels in love. Heh.
I have no real genuine input on paying for a date because I’m not a part of the dating market in 2016, and when I was in the game it was the 1980’s and you did it because it got results and was part of how things always were, which both parties were happy about and accepted. In today’s Tinder-verse, I can’t see the point of paying for anything, the expectations going in is “swipe right, I’m in like Flynn” and you’re off to the races. Kind of atomistic and lonely if you ask me, but not many men are looking for relationships any longer, thank feminism very much, and I don’t blame them.
I’d swipe right on you anytime 😜
Why? He reminds of a Pastor you once knew?
Nah, he reminds me of a big Queen I once knew, poor Jeffy’s still in the closet but I found him on grindr last week and my god, that man has a filthy mind 😂😜xx
It just wants attention.
I’d rather have your cock than attention my love xx
Want to join in too Red Hood’s assault? The more the merrier….
Noticed that too. Him and another faggot got on the site a few hours back and have been trolling ever since. Must be a slow day in the bottom kingdom.
Looks like we have a fag troll here, mods.
Love you too sweet cheeks x
I am sure he will run off and stick his head in the dirt soon….
Are you messaging yourself Jeffy baby? How about you message me instead? 😜😜
Would you like a dick pic?
Did you realise that before, or *after* your lengthy reply? 😉
Yeah, what can ya’ do?
So that’s what goes on in the female brain. No wonder you can’t make a decision.
Women say how rude men don’t hold the door open for women. Chivalry is dead. While at the same time, I’m an independent woman and I don’t need no man to hold the door open for me.
Makes perfect sense to a woman.
Be careful about over generalizing. The skrillix haircut blue arm pit feminists aren’t the ones complaining because chivalry is dead, while normal women who might still have some amount of traditionalism are in fact a bid sad about it.
Kind of like when people say “Oh sure, you people don’t want a tax hike but you sure do want all these government services!” It’s a false comparison. I’d be happy to completely burn down 99% of government and spread the ashes to the wind, while LaTrayshaniqaa on the other hand can’t consume enough of my tax money. We’re not the same person with the same mindset.
Exactly. I see how the whole “why won’t you open the door for me?/I can open my own door!” thing is confusing and frustrating for men, but a lot of it comes down to the women who want you to hold the door for them tend to be different people than the ones who get all offended if you do.
For our part, we women find the whole “why won’t you sleep with me?/I hate sluts” thing confusing and frustrating, could it be that the guys who want to get us in bed asap aren’t the same ones who complain about how all the girls in the West are just used-up carousel riders? I see both ideas expressed here pretty often.
Here’s an interesting thing. I knew an old man, really old, I think he was in his late 60’s (I mean really old for going out to get laid). He managed to wrangle a 20 something rather cute girl into the sack on the first date. He said that when he was done he cautioned her “You’re too easy to get into bed, there’s no challenge. Men like a challenge, and you don’t provide any. If you keep doing this you’ll never keep a man in your life”.
A hunter will always want to hunt, but if he goes out and the deer don’t flee and stand still and let him shoot them at will, he’ll get bored very quickly. The thrill of the hunt is a prime motivator for hunting, of course he’ll always want to hunt and make the kill, but it needs to be a challenge. Now sure, some guys like caged animals that they can shoot without any work at all, and we hunters exclude them from our community. See where I’m going here Fluffy?
Women used to be the ultimate “game” (not in the PUA sense). You’d have to basically commit your life to her in order to get sex, in the form of marriage. The men of 1910 wanted sex every bit as much as horn dogs here on this site do today, make no mistake about that. Women, namely feminist women, changed the rules of the game. Now women open their legs for everything. Yes, men want sex, but they want challenge and something more than a throwaway whore who was no work at all to get into the sack.
The solution? Reject the sexual revolution and feminism, and teach your daughters to do that as well. When men start hearing “Not until we’re married” in a serious way from virgins, they’ll likely up their behavior considerably AND be highly attracted to those women saying it.
Ah, maybe that’s partly why men today are so obsessed with racking up high notch counts. Of course, it’s easier to do now (since the girls are too, lol), but maybe it’s also kind of a using quantity to make up for a lack of quality thing. And so, are you saying that, with all the trouble guys go to to get our pants off, a part of them is hoping we say no (or at least, not yet)? This is pretty mind-blowing and interesting to think that guys can partly mean the opposite of what they say, too, like when a girl says no but part of her hopes he won’t take no for an answer.
Nice to know I’m contributing to the solution (or would be, were it not for a disability that more-or-less makes me strictly a spectator of the relationship game).
We have a biological imperative to fuck as many women as we can, honey. And those of us who haven’t been castrated by religious imperatives will do just that.
And so, are you saying that, with all the trouble guys go to to get our
pants off, a part of them is hoping we say no (or at least, not yet)?
Yes, if the man is looking for a woman to be in a relationship with. I couldn’t take a woman seriously as relationship material if she had sex with me within the first hour we were together. Sure I’d enjoy screwing her in the moment, but long term? Hell no. If she’ll go down in me in an hour, then she’s been down on 100 other guys already and will go down on any other random man that catches her eye tomorrow.
Plus there is a visceral thrill in having to work for something and achieve something that men experience.
Hey Fluffy, Jeffy here is hiding his sexuality hence the comments about women. Pay him no heed, we’re meeting tonight and I’m going to release some of his tension for him. He’s dressing like this for me 😜
Love that he cautioned her *after* the deed. A Wise Man, ha!
He was a hoot. Uncle Bob. Even had a barstool with a brass plaque with his name on it. Dude was epic. Last I heard from him was 2005 or so, he lived hard, so I wonder if he’s made it to 2016?
Better to burn out, than fade away, brother.
Women really want men to pay for everything, but they will never admit that, and every now and then will pay for something to try to minimize the perception they are using the male for ATM cash dispenser.
Shit man, I still require guidance for getting laid in 2008, 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, 2014, 2015.
(good lord that is a lot of days within those years)
Yep, that’s how long it has been for me, my stock went down with the financial crash, I’m full low class, I’m omega male, I’m a non event my man.
The first step to recovery is to disabuse yourself of the notion that you have to be rolling in cash to get decent pussy. I know you want to argue that with me, but don’t.
I’d say honestly that I’ve just got a chip on my shoulder about it.
The drought that is.
The kind of chip at this point that will probably magnify if it was/is quenched.
why npt just stop. stop wallowing and just go be the best you you can be.
You probably looked at those numbers up there like they were weeks on a calender 🙂
That kind visual does little for self-esteem, among other things.
Be my friend, Godfather?
Although i agree with you , you still need some money for some decent clothes and shoes so you can look the least bit presentable. Also fully groomed as in nice haircut , nice beard if you like that kind of stuff and money for your own bill when if you decide to go to a bar / restaurant / etc.
That’s minimum wage level money. I meant you don’t need to be rolling in cash or even somewhat wealthy to score. Obviously people living under bridges generally aren’t hooking up with quality chicks. He’s posting on the interwebs, so I assume that the basic threshold of “not living under a bridge” has been met.
True that.
Yeah, whenever I am under the bridge my wifi i shit.
No, this guys sole problem is attitude. It is dripping through the internet. I can almost feel it just by his comments.
That is something that can be changed.
Have you been sucking off guys under that bridge Jeffy baby? Xx
We all know you’re not really after pussy….
¡Pinche joto!
¿Puedo entrar en la boca? x
Let’s all agree that every man wants to sleep with a bunch of women, pretty much fuck them until you realize its not much. So much better then a what if?
Even Roosh is not so much into getting laid anymore. The old player is thinking into finally settling down.
I think this year will mark the beginning of the end of the PUAs sites popularity.
The site is about much more than PUA. It’s a great troll against feminism, it has articles about great men, it has inspirational and instructive articles, all of which have no real connection to being pro or con PUA. I’m long married and have a vested interest in pursuing sites like this for specifically that kind of content.
Damn, this troll was profilic. Blacklisted, deleted, and moderated. -Stranahan.
¡Pinche culero!
Identificación del gusto de coger su pequeño culo apretado 😜😜
Same; even though I’m a single man, the PUA content is not why I’m exclusively here. Male self improvement and well-deserved criticism directed against the leftist/feminist nonsense drew me in.
Ever noticed tgat once you decide to learn “how to do better with the wimminz”, you begin a journey? Next thing you know, it’s men’s rights, self improvement, society’s ills, history, philosophy, self sufficiency, politics, finances, geo-politics… it never stops.
The red pill cannot be un-swallowed. I do sometimes wonder: is my ultra-blue-pull dad, now in his twilight years, happier in his ignorance?
Sadly, the answer is “yes, he is”. DAMMIT!
Happier by what metric? Did he have a happy wife who served him faithfully? Did he get rewarded for his hard work and sacrifice? Then sure. But few blue pill men see that any longer, and the numbers are shrinking.
Taking all those pills really isn’t good for you Jeffy baby xxxx
You actually think game started with roosh?
No, I didn’t.
Game existed before and will exist after this site. There is nothing that feminist / tradcon / alt right / gay trolls can do about that.
But it’s getting old as it mimics female behavior.
Nice avatar. Shouldn’t you be white knighting or saving civilization?
Jesus, does every article on this site have to be a fucking Steven Covey productivity/time management lecture? Lift some fucking weights and go after the women you want.
Yet you keep clicking on them.
Physician, heal thyself.
It’s just a shame that the manosphere is headed backwards in helping men get laid. Now it’s largely making the betas even more neurotic with its plethora of articles by celibate monks, Steven Covey obsessives, and writers posting unwanted details about their masturbatory practices.
It’s also become lately a place for married men like yourself to infinitely humblebrag about their popularity with women that they can no longer act upon and fuck. Gotta channel that frustration somewhere, I guess
And here you are, commenting. If you don’t like the content here, fucking write something and submit it. Being snide serves no purpose whatsoever.
Oh Ghost of Jefferson, why won’t you tell me if you’re a top or a bottom?
Agreed. ROK has declined. The older content was better. The first big fuck up was pandering the alt right for a brief spike in traffic. Sponsored post by penis pump vendor was total fail. The manosphere will pick up the better content and re-assemble it another site. Check out The Rational Male.
Yeah, Rollo still has it
All the authors are somewhat free agents, though we have our usual roles. You probably won’t ever see a game article out of me.
Hehehe. I’m humble and acknowledge that I’m happy to not be in that mess anymore. Some men embrace it (such as Dawson Stone, good for him) but even as the author says it’s important to not have your life revolve aroud women, yet it does. You have to be like a cat that seemingly is always asleep but ready to wake up at a moment’s notice and chase after a mouse.
We could dress up and play doctor if that’s what you’re into? I bet you’d make a cracking nurse 😜x
You mind if I shit on your face?
Mind if I skull fuck you?
You gotta understand you will see articles coming from people at all stages of development from horny, game-hungry pup to the wise-sage, family value type people. And then you have the sponsored posts and what not so Roosh can eat off you young pups.
you forgot the most important rule which is don’t have a return of kings account
So you’re going to delete yourself, right?
im on a disqus account, sweaty
So how are you different from anybody else? There is no such thing as an ROK account, dumb fucker.
hey sweatheart i know this things of such dont trouble urself sweatie
Sweaty? Sweatheart? Sweatie? Spell checker not working?
There’s no such thing as an ROK account. We all have Disqus accounts.
If you don’t agree with or dislike what ROK is about, why would you even waste any time coming here just to troll? I think EliteDaily is for fat women and homos, therefore I never click on any of their articles, let alone actually comment on them.
I’m here for the Kratom jokes…somebody get on that!
I must say, I am impressed by how many of the topics on this forum are related to stoicism. Conquer your own weakness, resist temptations that are futile and bad for the soul, fight for justice even at personal cost and aim towards gaining virtue and helping those in real need. This is gold. This is the perfect mindset needed to go through the current period that, according to all parameters, is typical for a collapse of a major empire (in our case, empire of capitalism).
I am very grateful to all of you for posting such great topics and for having such good discussions. Before I found RoK, I felt like I was facing this darkness alone. God bless and stay strong! Like our ancestors before us, we’re gonna win.
Win what, you miserable serb fuck….you stupid manboys, it is your system of patriarchy and entitlement that has fucked up this world….Serb Knight….yeah right….what a proud heritage your people have of rape and fascism.
Your need to post such comments shows me you are one sad, lost, frustrated and ignorant person. I will pray for your soul. This conversation with you serves no purpose and I will not take part in it any more.
RoK has been infiltrated. Tune in your bullshit detectors.
I tell ya! this site and other RP literature has improved my game 100-fold! granted, i still need to improve. That gives you a sense how bad I was since i only did the LTR thing.
You have no game except the one you play in your pants with your nutsack…pathetic loser.
What’s six inches long and drives women crazy? A $100 bill. (That’s all you need to know to up your game…)
Elliot Rogers wishes to subscribe to your newsletter.
Can I just subscribe to you babes?
Like you are some great specimen of manhood? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAAHHAHAA!
It’s getting harder each year! No one to complain as I like competition but boys work hard in the gym and every Monday it’s getting busier. Boys keep strict diets and sacrifice time and money for morsels of pussy who are working less (in every sense of the word). Without game you get nothing and game as we know it it’s fairly common amongst millennial. Due to social media chicks become more and more immune to game and pickup lines. Also throw in the thirsty dudes who inflate womens egos women.
The balance is not equal and it tips more and more in favour of women.
Better add one more scoop of protein powder from now one, haha!
This is why I don’t understand why guys around here are so anti-MGTOW. Guys are putting in more and more effort for less and less return on investment. The cold hard truth is girls today have too many options and guys have too little unless you’re in the top 10% of men. Why work so hard when all you have to show for it is an ever-decreasing pool of women to choose from?
You have a good point. I’ve pointed my son towards Russia (he’s into the same Nordic thing that I am). Here, in the States, well in our very specific local it’s pretty good but that won’t last long I’m certain. If he can find a decent one here while the fuse cooks, good enough, but Russia if not. At least so I advised.
Russia seems like a pretty good option for white guys. The only way I can see that option disappearing is if Hillary wins the presidency, because you know she’s going to provoke war with Russia.
Life is not fair but when it gets tough…….anyways, men must strike a balance between being obsessed with lays and being a grass eating Jap. I think Ghost of J. made a point about about life not being fair and being hopeless because of it doesn’t unburden you of any hopelessness.
There’s nothing wrong with a bit of struggle, but eventually it reaches a point where you’ve just got to say fuck it and quit. Most of us are going to wind up genetic dead ends anyway, so we might as well spend it doing whatever makes us happy. If that’s running around fucking the few remaining attractive women left or playing video games and smoking pot, do whatever you want to do. Society doesn’t care about us so why should we give a damn about it anymore?
Better get a gun and shoot yourself in the face. Goodness knows the world does not need your genetic material being strewn about.
We can be suicide buddies!
I came of age in the 80’s and back then, there was no internet. It was all “street game”. Some men picked up girls at work but that pool was limited and it was risky (and in the 90’s, was largely outright prohibited by law.) Strangely enough, with less street gamers out there, women are easier to talk to on the streets today.
Advice from old man: It’s always been hard for young men to find decent looking young women because most of the decent, pretty young women get married by about 23 or so and they have a boyfriend that whole time. They aren’t the ho’s that most men here are obsessed with figuring out how to game and pick up and lay a few times before moving on. And then, after the “ho” has been broken in, she’s just another used up one in the vapid club scene. So no wonder the pickin’s are slim.
It’s not all hopeless. The economy puts pressure on women too. Housing is expensive and being a single mother, especially one who decides to just hit the sperm bank when a perfect man doesn’t show up, is a massive burden. As in the inner cities, the ability to ask extended family and friends to “support” them is largely not an option since so many people already are overburdened thanks to decades of bad feminist policies. The women are painfully aware their clocks are ticking. The smart ones at least. You can quickly spot the smart ones from the dumb ones. Avoid the dumb ones. A “smart” woman is relative. They still need to be gamed and guided but there are women out there marry and have a family with, but it’s best to do it while they are young. This means your window is better (up to mid 30’s or even early 40’s) but you want to enjoy your life too. On a personal level, each year I got older it got easier and each year they got older it got harder. This is why for young men it appears that young women are all genetic lottery winners and you’re a beggar. But like child-stars, many of them fail to see that they can’t go to spagos day after day after their agent has stopped calling and many men’s egos are so damaged by the trauma of how tough it is to be a young man, they don’t recover.
Just be one of the ones who recovers.
Be patient, aware, and live life well in the meantime.
I wasn’t whining(if I made myself look like I was) but I was merely observing the things around me and how the society operates! I am an advocate of the improving mind and body as well as understanding female mindsets and using game to keep them in check and maintain frame! Women know you’re gaming them 85% of the time, but all they care about is that someone is hitting every spot and paying attention to them.
Solid advice Knight, keep em coming!
I didn’t mean to be disparaging. I wasn’t addressing you directly, really, but I read this often on RoK from young guys thinking that it was easier in the old days. I’m starting to sound like MY old man! Haha!
I don’t know if you’re aware, but I’m expecting a daughter in about 3 weeks. I will want to educate her about men without the typical white knight BS such as teaching her to be a golddigger or afraid of men, but rather to understand men just as we should understand life to better enjoy it.
All that said, just as I think most young men are not given proper education about women or “the talk” as I got it from my father, I think most young women either get bad advice or noneat all about men and are just let loose out in the wild, like racoons in the forest, to figure out things on their own.
Most young women, I found, were clueless about why they thought or did things much like my cat chasing after the dot from a laser pointer. Most were were like kids at Chuck E Cheese’s wanting to be entertained by the clown and the more talented the clowns got, the more bratty the kids get. To this day, I get “shit tests” from my wife. They are fewer but they still happen. I had talks with her about it and I genuinely believe her she didn’t mean to deliberately piss me off. When a child says “I don’t know” as to why they did a stupid thing, I truly believe many of them don’t know. They’re little lack of impulse control machines.
This may amaze you to hear, but I think children, and my wife, do enjoy doing good things for people as compared to spoiled party brats. In that regard, women of the older days WERE better because they were raised by parents with that expectation rather than “liberated” sociopaths today. Want a laugh? Watch old Q&A sessions of Miss USA back in the 1950’s and the women will say they merely want to travel, be nice to people, and have a happy home. Then, in the 70’s it was saving the dolphins and world peace. Now, they’re money-hungry career bitches out to help women (and only women). In this culture, combined with tons of PUA’s out for casual sex (as compared to the old days when dating was driven towards marriage), you do have a point that is “harder” for men today who want marriage. But that was before even my time. This culture had caught on by the 80’s. Keep in mind that RoK contributes to this by advising how to thrive in the PUA style. PUA produces bad women. Roosh doesn’t want a woman whose been picked up by a lot of guys here. Men, even here, need to shoulder some of the responsibility for this problem. In other article, Roosh laments how he’s getting sick of his lifestyle. He should have asked me. I would have saved him a lot of time: In Europe, go to some high quality brothels and get it out of your system, whack off a thousand times or so, and then you can find a nice girl and family. Done. During that time, I traveled and had a lot of fun and was free of the side effects of game (reminds me of those phamaceutical commercial voiceovers) that include cynicism, emotional fatigue, and paranoia.
Sorry I blathered. I think you’ll do fine. The one great thing about the red pill is that it does make things EASIER actually. Most stupid young men get rolled over by women and waste their time and not in a good way. You have time to settle down and you will. Enjoy the ride.
“I assumed Paris, with its bustling permanent population and millions of tourists annually, would be the place where you could reasonably expect to avoid these run-ins”
Those socially awkward situations will pale with more muzzie attacks no doubt be coming again.
It’s so lamentable. I was in Paris not so many years ago and adored the sights and the women. So did my son. My wife was not a fan, heh.
But still, to watch it all slide into oblivion, this is sadness.
Lame, lame and lame.Your contempt for WOMEN, is duly noted. I would love to have seen the ex GF meet your new victim. That would have been priceless and likely would have resulted in your teeny weeny retreating right into your flabby belly region.
Now get on your knees and service my big one, pantywaist.
Deleted and banned commenter Gay and Proud from this thread. Freaking trolls. Thanks for the support, the comments make it worthwhile.
Cheer up toots xxx
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I’ll never leave x
You poor sad fuckers – dearie, dearie me. http://markmanson.net/woman-lovers-and-haters explains it all to you who haven’t become men yet – “Women Haters will attract low self-esteem women, as these are the only
women who will put up with being disrespected and used. Women Haters
will get laid often because they often come accompanied with a bad boy
attitude of false superiority that can be sexy to some women — for a
short period of time. Women Haters will struggle with intimacy and
opening themselves up to trusting a woman long enough to stay with her.
Instead, they will over-compensate with pursuing a quantity of
connections over quality.” Oooh, dear
They are all angry little dick deficient manboys….they are not men. They are only deserving of having jizz on their faces….after all, that is what they fantasize about doing to wimmin….
Not sure I watch as much Pooorn as yo do mate, with respect as aye (we do that here in Scotland)
My research takes me to dark realms of human existence.
You two are probably trolls, but I read the article and it’s a bit simplistic and on the right track but misses the mark. Love/Hate/Equal are all broken, in their own ways. Women are not men but they are human beings. We live in a hyper-chivalrous “woman lover” culture that encourages treating men badly and this has caused most of the available women (there are good ones, but they get taken quickly) to behave amazingly badly.
But even in a perfect culture, women are women. They “flake” on a regular basis, they tend to be irrational, given the opportunity, they will be selfish and cruel. Many human men are like this as well, but women moreso (especially the ones, again, in the single category since their flakiness and selfishness means they wind up alone.) Even if it’s not women’s faults, the hyper chivalrous culture punishes men who let their guard down. “You had sex with a woman without a condom even after she said she was on the pill but lied? Then you deserve to be paternity scammed!” If women worked as hard at men at forming healthy relationships, this forum wouldn’t exist.
Bottom line is: A woman “hater” can reach his thirties (I did) and mature and find a nice young woman to marry. (Again, I did). I accumulated resources, avoided getting baggage, and things worked out. A woman “lover” winds up getting tossed and used and so emotionally battered, even as they don’t know it, that they wind up being useless to women.
Did Bernie pay for trolls to comment here today?
True true true.
Some good common-sense advice (but known to most who have read RoK for more than a week) but also a piece of bad advice: Trying to get women to “go dutch”.
If you have six pack abs and you’re 6 foot tall (6 and 6, I guess), then go for it. Just as we’ll look the other way if a hot chick eats crumbly cookies in bed, women will put up with such behavior if the man is hot but then again, you don’t really need a lot of game then. I knew such hot guys and their game was simply walking around and saying “hello” and the women did all the work. If you’re NOT that guy, then splitting, especially for the first few dates, is poison. The chick will view it as a significant insult. In about 20 dates I tried this, where the date would have gone well otherwise, 19 walked off on the spot and 1 who wound up as a girlfriend for 2 years seethed about it for all that time.
Here’s some tips from an old guy: You gotta pay to play, but don’t overpay. Don’t let a new girl pick the place for the first date. If you’re paying, then you pick the place (inexpensive as reasonable) and even get to influence what she orders. Say: “I think I’ll have the chicken. What do you think of the beef?” Steer her towards less expensive items. You engage the waiter and say “I’ll have tea. Would you like some also?” They’ll seethe they don’t have you as an ATM machine, but they’ll also respect you. But if you try to get them to go dutch, they’ll punish you later. They’ll find a way.
Next, don’t let them get off cheap by offering to “help” and put down a token amount thereby implying they don’t owe you. Their game is to offer to leave a tip. This means that even though you did the heavy lifting, they get to imply that they’re generous because they tipped the waiter and “contributed”. It’s like you running a race and they get the medal. Say “If you like, you can pick up the tab next time” and leave it at that. Imply they have the OPTION to pay the whole darn thing, next time (after you’ve taken the risks, of course) but at least they’re not getting off cheap.
AVOID talking about work because nothing says “I don’t need a man so I can treat you like dirt” like a woman talking about her job (and presumed income) to do as she pleases while you still pay for everything. Have a list of things to talk about that don’t involve association with income generation (yours as an ATM or hers to walk off).
Next, since you’re paying for her then you get to hold her arm as you walk, gently touch her, etc. within reason. Remind her: you’re paying and on a date. You are in control.
Go on dates that are minimal in cost, bring food in picnic form, and if you get called “cheap”, turn it around and say it as a compliment. It’s a huge shit test they have and also one of the easiest to pass. If she dumps you after calling you cheap, you can retort with: “I don’t date golddiggers so thanks for saving me the trouble of dumping you” And they kind of know this so once the “cheap” epithet has been called, it puts her at a disadvantage.
I disarmed one girl who used the “you’re cheap” shit test. It went something like this:
Girl: “You’re cheap!!”
Me: “Thanks!” (flashing a million-dollar smile)
In bed after dinner.
You’re right on with this. I loved Chris Rock’s observation that “there’s something about reaching into her wallet that dries a woman’s pussy up. Pussy costs money, dick is free. Any money you spend on dick is a bad investment.”
Women are often enraged when I tell them that I insisted on marrying a woman who makes more money than me so she didn’t have any incentive to destroy our family and take our kids away. I still earn a lot more than I spend, but because my wife earns a lot of the money we spend there is a vastly different spending pattern in terms of money spent on shit. When I get a big chunk of cash in for a job it always amazes me how she loves spending it on frivolous crap.
If you are going to do this, you definitely need game, but I am open with her about this also – she knows she becomes a monster if she is given too much power.
What about a bunch of betas you are who needs guidebooks for getting laid, something real men does not need.
I was born without hands or feet. In order to get laid I’ve had to become an amazing artist, magician, calligrapher, and performer.
Well, as a travelling man, I game whenever I have the opportunity. If I can’t land a woman at that particular moment, I just move on to the next one, or I wait until the next time I see her/them, & try again. However, I don’t let them interfere in my travels. And that is the most important. Too many women out here in the world to be distracted, so I go about things smoothly.
Looks to me like you got the shaft from the opposite sex. Ruthless? Who are they the enemy to you? I like all the offended by women types of posts like this that assume because you are a failure at talking to women like human beings that you think the rest of us men have a difficult time screwing.
Like they say, chase money and the women will follow! chase women and not money and end up broke ass!